6+ books that woke my a$$ up (ft my notes & me projecting that my ex is judging me from the sofa)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @libby5742
    @libby5742 4 года назад +2889

    Baby Damon's biceps out here poppin' from carrying around all this wisdom.

    • @lavachekikri
      @lavachekikri 4 года назад +13

      Yeah, and his shoulders as well ! Trop beau - grâce à ça je le pardonne même la lecture de ses livres sinon « cheesy » ;)

    • @danielphung6146
      @danielphung6146 4 года назад

      @@lavachekikri la vache ! XD mdr

    • @Lafemmefutile
      @Lafemmefutile 4 года назад +12

      😂 I was scrolling and I saw his video starting with those guns and I was like what? Since when Damon is ripped like this? I have never heard of anyone moving to France and turning into a machine!

    • @arianaacosta2091
      @arianaacosta2091 4 года назад +3

      IM SAYIIIIIIIN!

    • @tayoo8789
      @tayoo8789 4 года назад +2

      this made me laugh so hard!

  • @MisakoEnvela
    @MisakoEnvela 4 года назад +1192

    It’s the sassy commentary from the ex for me.

    • @alexalexander1415
      @alexalexander1415 4 года назад +6

      Misako Envela MISAKOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @arinaa4809
      @arinaa4809 3 года назад

      Literally watched the video just for that

  • @damondominique
    @damondominique  4 года назад +1863

    I DON'T WANNA SEE *ONE* COMMENT ABOUT THAT HANDWRITING. Y'all should be grateful I didn't have to handwrite this.

    • @reyyrr1131
      @reyyrr1131 4 года назад +21

      Still better than mine tbh

    • @bbel2264
      @bbel2264 4 года назад

      U'r soo sweet 🌺

    • @melmakena6328
      @melmakena6328 4 года назад +11

      they say the most intelligent people have bad handwriting, don't worry bout it sweetheart.

    • @Mrchair-bk5ns
      @Mrchair-bk5ns 4 года назад +9

      Your handwriting is fine. At least, it's better than a pharmacist.

    • @justinewhite2418
      @justinewhite2418 4 года назад +8

      I love you and your ex boyfriend’s banter, it so funny, and I love that you guys still keep a good friendship even after you broke up

  •  4 года назад +320

    Going to a sick ex’s house during covid is brave level 5000

  • @Andrew-rl3uo
    @Andrew-rl3uo 4 года назад +1497

    Your ex made some points! Most self help books could be reduced to half of their length cause they get very repetitive. They usually have two or three points they want to get across and then just write and write and wriiiite chapters around them. Still, there's some life lessons in there!

    • @Sunny99926
      @Sunny99926 4 года назад +78

      That's why i really like the idea of the genre itself but not the execution, it just feels too preachy.
      Also it feels like they're telling me something that i already know so why bother? (im an overthinker oops) still very fascinating tho!

    • @princessnaivekicks
      @princessnaivekicks 4 года назад +70

      A lot of times you only learn stuff through a gradual process of reading. Bulletpoints don’t give you that

    • @Ray-ui1pm
      @Ray-ui1pm 4 года назад +2

      Facts!

    • @deedeedan8681
      @deedeedan8681 4 года назад +19

      @@Sunny99926 Knowing something and actually listening to the point and putting it into action are two totally different things

    • @os5623
      @os5623 4 года назад +6

      True! Thats why I adoooore the App blinkist which sums up the 'bullet points'

  • @TariqueAli
    @TariqueAli 4 года назад +1528

    Yo, damon's biceps be growing exponentially

    • @mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420
      @mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420 4 года назад +19

      RIGHT how does he even wants us to focus in anything else. Dude just do a video about them already

    • @juandavidpinedarojas1088
      @juandavidpinedarojas1088 4 года назад

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @wendsters_
      @wendsters_ 4 года назад

      That’s what I thought too!

    • @TariqueAli
      @TariqueAli 4 года назад +4

      @@mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420 we all demand a workout routine from him now :P

    • @believeme6707
      @believeme6707 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/channel/UCVXSabGO7xBXPM8pYR4v_KQ

  • @Dawn-bl8ze
    @Dawn-bl8ze 4 года назад +247

    ”you seem very developed in your way of handling conflict” I AM CRYINGGG HAHAHAH THE SHEER AUDACITY

  • @mariahme6930
    @mariahme6930 4 года назад +382

    At this point just have a red wine talk with him!

  • @pierreangelo9803
    @pierreangelo9803 4 года назад +1223

    Def aint a Damon Dominique video if the "ex" word doesnt make a cameo HAHAHHAHA 🤸‍♀️✨

    • @lunarosa321
      @lunarosa321 4 года назад +7

      ☠️😂

    • @DavidGonzalez-wp4wg
      @DavidGonzalez-wp4wg 4 года назад +1

      What’s his name?!?!

    • @LaLaLaLaLifeFabyu
      @LaLaLaLaLifeFabyu 4 года назад +13

      I still wish they'll end up together

    • @lolacariad
      @lolacariad 4 года назад +31

      @@BooksRebound uhhhh yeah i'm pretty sure Raida isn't his ex. he's just one of Damon's friends

  • @TheAimanana
    @TheAimanana 4 года назад +820

    okay, so I agree that most of self-help books can be reduced to some bullet points, BUT the point of those books IS to be repetitive and to tell you the same thing over and over and OVER again, so that it'll finally kick into you. If you just read a small article with a few points of what you should do to help yourself, you're most likely gonna forget about those in a few hours/days, but reading the same concept during a long period of time is gonna make that idea stick into your head
    Sorry if this sounded aggressive - I've got love/hate relationship with self-help books too, but they really got me through some dark times in my life, when I was 14, 19 and 23 - don't underestimate those.

    • @carlie9584
      @carlie9584 4 года назад +21

      i completely agree! different people understand different ways of saying something so hearing a concept explained 3-5 different ways you have a better chance of it "clicking" eventually.. i guess some people just get it the first try and thats why they deem the book too repetitive.

    • @Nikatronixx
      @Nikatronixx 4 года назад +14

      @@carlie9584 this is very true! I'll read a version of a self-help book and practice what I read for a few months, then something bad happens that causes me to revert back to my old ways of reacting and my brain "forgets" the progress I made. And so I gravitate towards another self-help book. We NEED a bunch of self-help books saying the same thing- it's the only way we will [eventually] learn.

    • @divinalove8525
      @divinalove8525 4 года назад +6

      It took me a minute to grasp this and it used to frustrate the hell out of me.

    • @rainforestchurch2936
      @rainforestchurch2936 4 года назад +13

      That's so right. It's not like we don't intellectually understand and resonate with what's said in those self help books, but emotionally we just can't TAKE IT IN and EMBRACE. That's why we just repeating them and saying it to ourselves over and over again

    • @siggejohansson5650
      @siggejohansson5650 3 года назад +2

      Yes, plus if we're adding examples that prove the point, we can't either get the same result by bullet points

  • @travelsizetrish
    @travelsizetrish 4 года назад +580

    As someone who currently lives in Paris for the last 4 years, your ex is the literal emobidment of a French person. HAHAHA, love it and this video.

    • @MariannesStudio
      @MariannesStudio 4 года назад +49

      You can feel the blasé Parisian-ness in his voice 😅😅😅

    • @iwilitu6591
      @iwilitu6591 4 года назад +17

      Keeping It Curious I finally understand how we are perceived, and it is so true

    • @5LifePath
      @5LifePath 4 года назад +8

      He is soooo French. Reminds me so much of my ex 😭

  • @thepurplepalace85
    @thepurplepalace85 4 года назад +728

    Aw you're wearing the hat I gave you!! ❤️😊

    • @damondominique
      @damondominique  4 года назад +245

      I HAVE WORN IT EVERY DAY SINCE I SAW YOU SHAYNA. YOU CREATED A MONSTER 💥💥💥

    • @thepurplepalace85
      @thepurplepalace85 4 года назад +76

      Damon Dominique lmao Damon 2.0

  • @xcxalexandra
    @xcxalexandra 4 года назад +267

    you should definitely do this with films as well

  • @helenabekele2765
    @helenabekele2765 4 года назад +493

    okay but gay people really do break up with their s/o and then stay life long friends

    • @svgstudios831
      @svgstudios831 4 года назад +4

      that's what doesn't happen with whaman

    • @noone9472
      @noone9472 4 года назад +6

      SVGStudios a what

    • @kevinsolis4047
      @kevinsolis4047 4 года назад +40

      @@noone9472 whaman

    • @patriciapinheiro8540
      @patriciapinheiro8540 4 года назад +33

      between lesbians around here is quite often, tbh. You can even see exes going out on double date with other exes (I think I made it a bit confusing). From my own experience, all the women I dated I have them as friends, some not so close anymore, but for life reasons. My longest relationship lasted around 6/7 years and we're kinda close friends for 11 -we broke up almost 4/5 years ago.

    • @katgreer6113
      @katgreer6113 4 года назад

      So what?

  • @uka3959
    @uka3959 4 года назад +48

    -creates a poll to see what most people want
    -films the video and is actually successful
    -ends up feeling bad and films the other video as well
    HUGE LIBRA ENERGY

  • @sincerely1iv
    @sincerely1iv 4 года назад +214

    Was literally just asking my friend “what was that book Damon talked about?” Then get a notification of this upload. Ask and you shall receive 🥰

  • @frenchhanna
    @frenchhanna 4 года назад +910

    Don't support Amazon y'all. Find a store that's local that carries these books or something. Amazon is a bad company for the earth!!

    • @francoislatreille6068
      @francoislatreille6068 4 года назад +43

      PLease! Boycott Amazon

    • @diesdas6809
      @diesdas6809 4 года назад +6

      YESSS!!

    • @sleepysheep5371
      @sleepysheep5371 4 года назад +2

      Why is that?

    • @francoislatreille6068
      @francoislatreille6068 4 года назад +53

      @@sleepysheep5371 Amazon is trying to monopolize retail. Amazon treats its workers like expendables. Amazon doesn't give back what it's syphoning away from the working class. Basically Amazon is rigging the economy that is already rigged against us. Too much power needs to be broken down, and its EASY! to break down Amazon. Many local business will do shipping!!

    • @baileystark6129
      @baileystark6129 4 года назад +32

      Could also request them from a public library

  • @MotherCoconut.
    @MotherCoconut. 4 года назад +95

    THE RAY OF SUNSHINE IN MY LIFE IS HERE TO LIGHT UP MY DAAAYYY

  • @levi_bernhardt
    @levi_bernhardt 4 года назад +196

    omg before i clicked i was like i hope this man has read the war of art and !!!! literally first time i read it i started my new youtube channel, second time i moved to korea. i love that book (minus a few middle chapters in there lol)

    • @endelvelt7650
      @endelvelt7650 4 года назад +5

      Levi Bernhardt and now you’re off to LA to fufill your dream !!! proud of you Levi!

    • @VictoriaWhitlock
      @VictoriaWhitlock 4 года назад +1

      Omg I haven’t watched you in so long. I think you had under 15k

    • @claraberger2368
      @claraberger2368 4 года назад +1

      Oh hey Levi! Nice to see you here! 😍

  • @TheeBratzDollxox
    @TheeBratzDollxox 4 года назад +193

    If you hosted a book club I’d show up literally every Thursday LOL

    • @ariels.8225
      @ariels.8225 4 года назад +4

      That would be GOALS, I’d definitely join too

  • @martynakumka5175
    @martynakumka5175 4 года назад +128

    You know, sometimes you watch youtube and you're like "I could be friends with that person". I feel that way about you!

  • @lizzykoetsier8664
    @lizzykoetsier8664 4 года назад +55

    I'm amazed that you kept the friendship despite not being together anymore. I can't do that.

  • @fatemaalzari837
    @fatemaalzari837 4 года назад +27

    The Artist’s Way is a healing experience. That book is like going on a vacation because you start giving yourself time to go back to yourself, but it also brings up things to the surface that needs to be addressed.

  • @ashwee9053
    @ashwee9053 4 года назад +95

    When I moved to nyc from my small Illinois town right out of highschool I found out people were making bets about when I would return for whatever sad reason. But it made me feel a lot of doubt. Lol too bad I've been living my best life and they are still stuck in that small town wondering when I'll succumb to it like they did. They need some of these books.

    • @ashwee9053
      @ashwee9053 4 года назад +19

      Lol the only place where people are actually thinking about you as much as you think they are, small towns. If y'all are stuck in one, go travel. It'll do wonders for your perspective.

    • @tishtar8676
      @tishtar8676 4 года назад +2

      Good for you Ashley! I hope you continue to live your best life! ❤️

    • @adrianafetzer
      @adrianafetzer 4 года назад +3

      AS YOU SHOULD! This inspired me tons. Hope you're thriving

    • @Poppyseedmuffin14
      @Poppyseedmuffin14 4 года назад +4

      The weak love to see the strong fall!

    • @mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420
      @mariaeduardaanjosmoura5420 4 года назад +1

      omg so happy for you out there, living your best life. Be sure, someone is going to be thinking of you- and it's me, projectiong myself saying what you've said in the future

  • @theprettysmartlondon
    @theprettysmartlondon 4 года назад +96

    I can't tell if he's mean or just French lol

  • @annieray90
    @annieray90 4 года назад +680

    OMG Damon! Your ex is a whole ass mood. Is this just today or like all the time??!

    • @damondominique
      @damondominique  4 года назад +602

      THE PAST DECADE I TELL YOU IVE HAD TO DEAL WITH THIS

    • @OlbaxGaming
      @OlbaxGaming 4 года назад +104

      Seems like typical french Parisian 😂😂😂 (I am so)

    • @Islaras
      @Islaras 4 года назад +17

      Hahaha my own frenchie is like this

    • @nellenwosu
      @nellenwosu 4 года назад +15

      @@damondominique Thank God you don't have to deal with this for the next decade. . . unless. .. wait do we have to have a come to Jesus talk.

    • @bitume
      @bitume 4 года назад +47

      He sounds like all these negative frenchies, drives me crazy

  • @marcelinakukawska
    @marcelinakukawska 4 года назад +78

    everything i was doing is officially paused, king has posted 🥳🥳

  • @manishgautam73
    @manishgautam73 4 года назад +593

    Last time I was this early corona was a beer.

  • @emmbee1665
    @emmbee1665 4 года назад +66

    The roasting of the ex is solid gold 😂 "that's why you spend all your time reading 9gag, right??" DAYUM

  • @merc.budapest1600
    @merc.budapest1600 4 года назад +12

    Why is Damon’s ex’s voice everything I didn’t know I needed to hear

  • @xxblabla75xx
    @xxblabla75xx 4 года назад +313

    Damon's view on humans, the universe and the meaning of life: "there's something fishy going on there" 🤣

    • @lunarosa321
      @lunarosa321 4 года назад +3

      We need merch with this quote lol

    • @abdullahtk33
      @abdullahtk33 4 года назад

      THIS ONE

    • @VictoriaWhitlock
      @VictoriaWhitlock 4 года назад

      It’s facts tho

    • @rachelthemuleexpert2629
      @rachelthemuleexpert2629 4 года назад

      Same B😂

    • @belliotrungy9107
      @belliotrungy9107 4 года назад

      Promiscuous teleology is a human mainstay. It's actually a reason to believe in evolution in a messed up backwards way. The revolutionary freedoms promised by existentialism get beaten down by our ability to find faces everywhere. Jesus toast. Humans evolved as social beings.

  • @martamossberg6989
    @martamossberg6989 4 года назад +106

    OMFG WE GET TO HEAR HIS EX'S VOICE THIS IS CRAZYYYY

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад +1

      Lol, we saw his face on a previous video

    • @kevinsolis4047
      @kevinsolis4047 4 года назад

      @@laurentevitage8752 whaaaat??
      In what video??

    • @5LifePath
      @5LifePath 4 года назад

      @@laurentevitage8752 what video???

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад +1

      @@kevinsolis4047 The one where they met at tne coworking space and then went on a party near the river.

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад +1

      @@5LifePath The one where they met at tne coworking space and then went on a party near the river.

  • @rosiestrawberry6359
    @rosiestrawberry6359 4 года назад +24

    I really like Seneca's Letters from a Stoic because it's insanely good advise that can really hit you from a great philosopher who lived like two thousand years ago and it is very easy to read compared to other philosophers (some of his advise is not fully applicable to the present but most of it is)

  • @Душа333
    @Душа333 4 года назад +90

    Damon your ex still reads 9gag posts 😭 now i get why yall not dating anymore

  • @Monica-lu6gb
    @Monica-lu6gb 4 года назад +55

    Do I feel the same way towards self-help books as Damon’s ex? Yes. Did I still watched and liked the whole video? also yes

  • @jillianabreu2456
    @jillianabreu2456 4 года назад +5

    just want to say thank you for being you. as a younger person, it’s so inspiring to see someone who is so confident in themself and openminded. we need more people like you in the world. ❤️

  • @daisywilson5384
    @daisywilson5384 4 года назад +105

    God French is such a beautiful language wtf

  • @daydreamerwanderer
    @daydreamerwanderer 4 года назад +195

    is this the video with the fastest mention of his ex? 😂😂😂

    • @damondominique
      @damondominique  4 года назад +195

      CAN Y'ALL BE QUIET FOR ONE SECOND 🤣

    • @matv3069
      @matv3069 4 года назад +6

      Ex or Quora

    • @megl2003
      @megl2003 4 года назад +2

      @@damondominique You love it!

  • @eddyelalto
    @eddyelalto 4 года назад +8

    My Psychology teacher in high school recommended me “Love is Letting Go of Fear.” It truly changed my outlook on life

  • @karmayogi405
    @karmayogi405 4 года назад +1

    yes! Ego acts out of a place of fear convincing us it’s a protection but really it’s keeping us from reaching our highest potential

  • @isamitri
    @isamitri 4 года назад +19

    10:55 to anyone interested in existentialism i’d highly suggest you read the book “at the existentialist café” by sarah bakewell. it’s more of a biography/philosophy overview than a self-help book however it helped me understand some of the key concepts that philosophers who first introduced this school of thought discussed in their works and that alone served as sort of an epiphany and completely changed my way of understanding life. also, one type of therapy in psychology was based on existentialism and there’s a great book by one of the leading existential therapist - irvin d. yalom, called “when nietzsche wept” which, even tho it’s a fictional novel, also presents main ideas of existentialism in a super interesting way so i highly recommend that one as well!! okay that’s all, have a nice day ❤️

  • @thegreenestlaw
    @thegreenestlaw 4 года назад +31

    i love Damon’s videos...i can pretend i speak fluent french even though i can only understand it with the subtitles 😂

  • @Summerzbreezee
    @Summerzbreezee 4 года назад +4

    Love this change of pace. Damon has such a warm and resilient energy and I really love seeing what makes up his outlook

  • @ChrisMando
    @ChrisMando 4 года назад +2

    You're spot on. The best manifestation for the things you want in life is to just do you, focus on you, and think about how to treat YOU better. Then everything else falls in place and the people that truly belong in your life are a part of your journey. Not the people that want to set THEIR standard/version of you.
    Seriously love the insight you give us all in your content. 🖤

  • @esperensnare
    @esperensnare 4 года назад +17

    "YOU'RE PUTTING THIS WEIRD HAZY AURA AROUND MY *POSITIVITY*!"

  • @alexispaige2760
    @alexispaige2760 4 года назад

    What I really love about reading is that you do not have to agree with what you take in through the book. They are more of a referencing point for you to see where your mind is.
    Love the vibes!🙏😘 wishing you bright and lovely energy! 💡☺️

  • @huirant287
    @huirant287 4 года назад +13

    Damon's ex's got a point tho. Like in cognitive science we say cognitive affordance is almost always something to celebrate because some non semantic knowledge like these life advice are not meant to be learnt the easy way. Maybe you feel like you get something out of that book, but most of the time it's only because you already have that lesson in your subconsciousness. Or think about learning how to swim by reading a book instead of getting into the water, but only even more difficult.

  • @makaylahuffman1880
    @makaylahuffman1880 4 года назад +58

    8:10 Me trying to listen to Damon but catches a glimpse of how handsome his Ex is. 🥴💕

    • @VictoriaWhitlock
      @VictoriaWhitlock 4 года назад +2

      Makayla Huffman how did you peep that

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад +1

      Lol, we saw his face on a previous video

    • @makaylahuffman1880
      @makaylahuffman1880 4 года назад +1

      Victoria Whitlock Music no😩

    • @hikaru78-
      @hikaru78- 4 года назад

      @@laurentevitage8752 What video ? 😮

    • @jazmine722
      @jazmine722 4 года назад

      @@laurentevitage8752 no like actually what video the people need to know 😂

  • @samr3468
    @samr3468 4 года назад +4

    My favorite thought in relation to other people is, "What people think about you is none of YOUR business. Their thoughts are their business." This is a great video btw

  • @adrianfp
    @adrianfp 4 года назад +2

    17:33 that GOT me. I was really vibing with what they were sharing and then the whole mood FLIPPED 😭

  • @leahsfieldnotes
    @leahsfieldnotes 4 года назад +42

    Wow this is the video I needed ✨🕊 ty b

  • @pamelaperalta3729
    @pamelaperalta3729 4 года назад

    I think I have never sat down for almost 30 minutes to watch a youtuber but boy are you worth it! Thank you so much for your amazing videos.

  • @SundaiLove
    @SundaiLove 4 года назад +44

    Who edited this omg😍😍😍😍 in love

  • @isabelledoerre9316
    @isabelledoerre9316 4 года назад +1

    Wow Eckhart Tolle and School of Life!! Literally two of the most incredible, comforting, and eye opening sources I have ever encountered!

  • @avamay516
    @avamay516 4 года назад +258

    When are u gonna stop calling him your ex

    • @VC-mo5yg
      @VC-mo5yg 4 года назад +7

      True this, no mention word ....EX....

    • @VC-mo5yg
      @VC-mo5yg 4 года назад +4

      @b mil psychology lesson....101.....

    • @Simsrockslol
      @Simsrockslol 4 года назад +36

      if he dates him again i guess? i don’t think someone ever stops being your ex.

    • @megl2003
      @megl2003 4 года назад +19

      I think Damon has coined the phrase "me and my ex"

    • @hyukaLuvr
      @hyukaLuvr 4 года назад +61

      b mil ppl definitely do this maybe damon but i feel like he does it more to hide his ex's identity? probably bc the ex doesn't want ppl in his business or something like that, i don't think damon wants to shame him every time he says ex it's probably more of a privacy thing

  • @minnie4291
    @minnie4291 4 года назад

    I LOVE that youtube anology because i found myself comparing me to people who have soo much experience and better equipment and stuff but then i started to look at their vids when they were starting out and i realized that they were as much of a beginner as i am.

  • @ArianaReflects
    @ArianaReflects 4 года назад +3

    A New Earth changed my life. Like it freaking woke me up.

  • @ufufu001
    @ufufu001 4 года назад +2

    ok. i've been fired, i have plenty of time. i'm literally gonna read all these book because i want to be as happy as this man. thanks youtube algorithm for the recommendation.

  • @alexrose20
    @alexrose20 4 года назад +24

    Damon getting distracted by him going to the bathroom
    *the toilet is a projection

  • @tapiocapress
    @tapiocapress 4 года назад

    Love is letting go of fear, because life is a giant self fulfilling prophecy and too often your worst fear comes true only because it was your worst fear in the first place - so love, and let your dreams come true💕

  • @raphaelmarleyalves7475
    @raphaelmarleyalves7475 4 года назад +19

    After do much time of Damon talking about him his ex is finally in a video !!!

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад

      Lol, we saw his face on a previous video

    • @raphaelmarleyalves7475
      @raphaelmarleyalves7475 4 года назад

      @@laurentevitage8752 really? missed that, which one is it?

    • @laurentevitage8752
      @laurentevitage8752 4 года назад

      @@raphaelmarleyalves7475 The one where they met at the coworking space in Paris and then went on an evening pic nic

  • @LaynicornsWifeu
    @LaynicornsWifeu 4 года назад +1

    THIS VIDEO CAME AT THE RIGHT TIME! ✨ I’ve been reading a self helped book every month and I’m almost finished with my 8th book 😱 Thanks for all the great suggestions! 💕

  • @Samonajourney
    @Samonajourney 4 года назад +74

    When will we get to see the person behind that raspy French voice? We deserve to know, sir!!

  • @DUFFYSaraxian
    @DUFFYSaraxian 4 года назад +1

    Ellis’ Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy is the non churchy, no cheese subject covering the bullet points. And you are fantastic!

  • @somewhereovertherainbow6573
    @somewhereovertherainbow6573 4 года назад +56

    Take a shot every time Damon says "my ex"

  • @aspenmiller8036
    @aspenmiller8036 4 года назад

    Thank you for feeling bad for me because THIS IS THE VIDEO I VOTED FOR

  • @StrangeMeadowLark
    @StrangeMeadowLark 4 года назад +5

    "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" - Eleanor Roosevelt

  • @StrangeMeadowLark
    @StrangeMeadowLark 4 года назад +1

    In addition to what Damon says about judgement, a fave of mine:
    Blowing out someone else's candle won't make yours burn brighter.

  • @Nikatronixx
    @Nikatronixx 4 года назад +5

    Damon just going through all the revelations I had over the course of 2.5 years of therapy lmao. If only this video was released before then, I coulda saved a whole lotta $$$

  • @linzystar101
    @linzystar101 4 года назад

    Sometimes when you switch from french to english your accent goes very quebecois and i'm LIVING FOR IT

  • @TheTravelingTN
    @TheTravelingTN 4 года назад +5

    There’s this book called the “Geography of Bliss” I recommend it. It’s not really a self help book but this guy goes to different places and understands different countries view on happiness (or unhappiness) and their purpose in life. “To be a good ancestor.” Always stuck with me. Hope you read this comment and I hope you pick up the book. :)

    • @Kileeeela
      @Kileeeela 4 года назад +1

      Sounds interesting to me! Thanks for the recommendation😍

  • @moodbeast
    @moodbeast 4 года назад +2

    I've always loved the French way of critical thinking, something that is not customarily instilled in American education. Your ex's background comments are thoughtful.

  • @ninjamuffinish
    @ninjamuffinish 4 года назад +30

    Damon: ...move to Zimbabwe cause they're afraid what people will think of them
    Me: ...*moved to Zimbabwe and abruptly called out*

  • @bananalandblu1430
    @bananalandblu1430 4 года назад

    Your whole air of being inspires me to slow down and be more purposeful

  • @katrina639
    @katrina639 4 года назад +5

    “we’re here on earth, like didn’t ask to be here but... gotta make do” -damon 2020

  • @nicoledear1663
    @nicoledear1663 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this! I bought 'Love is letting go of fear' because of your review and I've just started reading it. It is incredible! What a contribution!

  • @rayna463
    @rayna463 4 года назад +7

    Love the square video. Love the color scheme. Maybe it’s just a Paris color scheme idk but I love it. Adore your videos, not a single video I don’t like. Okay thanks bye

  • @kayolavanligten4054
    @kayolavanligten4054 4 года назад +2

    That conversation between you and your ex is literally a representation of me vs my parents😂 .
    Well, I don't have a friend like you who I can discuss these kind of books with, but at least i have this video so i guess... that's good enough🤧.
    But anyways I really love your content! Much love from the Netherlands❤️

  • @evanderdornelles
    @evanderdornelles 4 года назад +7

    I like that you used the word "absurd" when talking about our existence. You should read Albert Camus.

  • @alinepont
    @alinepont 4 года назад +1

    when they started speaking in french about the book i felt that

  • @shea319
    @shea319 4 года назад +15

    what is work lol when Damon posts we drop everything

  • @erzascarlett7895
    @erzascarlett7895 4 года назад

    every red wine talk you reference a book ur reading and u drop gems and I'm deadass always asking what book is thatt I'm so happy u made this

  • @Konjo_
    @Konjo_ 4 года назад +6

    currently reading A New Earth, absolutely incredible and definitely life-altering.

  • @breannanorthrup5498
    @breannanorthrup5498 4 года назад

    I'm just vibing with this video and your aura so hard. I love it. You genuinely seem so smart and wise.

  • @Camila-pn1fr
    @Camila-pn1fr 4 года назад +11

    damon be like: i speak languages, french people Suck but i love living in paris :) im a country boy (🎶 insert 90s r&b sing along 🎶) anyways my ex

  • @itsmeteni
    @itsmeteni 4 года назад

    Always here for a Damon video! Lately I've had this bad habit of skipping through videos and not watching the whole thing. However, with Damon's videos I am able to just sit down, watch, and be engaged. It's quite refreshing. I'm also not much of a reader, but being present while watching the video made me really want to hear him out and now I have a lovely list of books to eventually read! Thank you Damon! and I hope everyone is staying safe

  • @sharanadonnanana4501
    @sharanadonnanana4501 4 года назад +11

    Damon and his ex are two sides of my brain watching this video 😂

  • @fredlikestosmile2393
    @fredlikestosmile2393 4 года назад

    IM SO HAPPY YOU FINALLY MADE THIS VIDEO!!!!! I've been trying to comment everywhere asking you to film this!! You finally did!!!

  • @thegreenestlaw
    @thegreenestlaw 4 года назад +94

    IVE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY

  • @zhumi12345
    @zhumi12345 4 года назад

    damon's editing and like... cinematography?:? is frankly some of the best ive seen on this platform. like that one shot where he slid down the staircase railing? looked so cool. love it. big fan.

  • @minnie4291
    @minnie4291 4 года назад +5

    TLDR: existentialism is crippling for some of us.
    i agree with X on that existential book like I have OCD and anxiety so when these questions enter my head they usually end up with me having a mental breakdown coz my brain can't let shit go. If I can't find the answer then the question is going to keep going in my head and that has happened too many times in quarantine coz life is very uncertain at the moment. ( i have video about all the questions i feel occupied by on my channel, i think its called im 17 or something i dont remember) i dont know where im going with this but i think its kinda weird to romanticize existentialism. those french dudes were not having fun when they became existentialists.

  • @finnmeiklejohn7012
    @finnmeiklejohn7012 4 года назад +2

    I've started to read more in quarantine and I've been WAITING for this cause u got the best taste sir

  • @asaphkalala
    @asaphkalala 4 года назад +17

    me watching this video knowing fully well that i rarely read for pleasure 😌✨

    • @Ericalizar
      @Ericalizar 4 года назад +1

      You should try and carve out the time:)

    • @selenehernandez8279
      @selenehernandez8279 4 года назад +2

      Hahaha same here, I rarely pick up a book but when I do I dive so much into the story that everyone would think I have a reading habit fully developed 😂

  • @TilikaVispute
    @TilikaVispute 3 года назад +1

    This video is a self help book in itself!!! I related so much to Damon’s experience and interpretation of RUclips channel hurdles so much! 👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯

  • @jesseniainteriors
    @jesseniainteriors 4 года назад +15

    "There's something fishy going on" My mood always lol

  • @iconoclastic-fantastic
    @iconoclastic-fantastic 4 года назад +2

    You'll love The Artist's Way, it changed my life. I'm reading A New Earth, and read The War of Art not long ago!!

  • @scarlove50
    @scarlove50 4 года назад +3

    1. Love is letting go of fear by Gerald polsky
    2. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
    3. The art of non-conformity by Chris Gulliebeau
    4. The war of art by Steven pressfield
    5. How to be an Existentialist by Gary Cox
    6. Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
    7. Normal get you nowhere by Kelly Cutrone
    8. Delaying the real world by Collen Kinder
    9. What I was doing while you were breeding Kristin Newman
    10. Don't sweat the small stuff by Richard Carlson
    11. The way to Love by Anthony de Mello
    12. Affairs by the School Of Life
    13. Relationships by The School Of Life
    14. How to worry less about money by The School Of Life
    15. The artist's way by Julia Cameron
    16. It's all in your head by Russ
    17. You can find Inner Peace by Mike George

  • @savanah425
    @savanah425 4 года назад +1

    I’ve been reading “A New Earth” and I find myself underlining things on almost every page. It’s very 🤯🤯🤯

  • @guanyanwu4510
    @guanyanwu4510 4 года назад +22

    8:12 His ex shows up behind him shirtless

  • @alymunro123
    @alymunro123 4 года назад +2

    "we love ourselves more than others yet care about their opinion more than ours" ~care about your opinions on yourself more than other ppls
    "I'm not what you think I am, I'm not what I think I am, I am what I think you think I am" ~we live in a weird perception of ourselves which is ever-changing due to environmental +social factors