ASMR Goth Girl IGNORES You w/ Personal Attention | Face Touching, Hair Play
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I love the interjected "No, no, keep going." because even the friend is like, "Do you two, like, need a moment? I can come back?" over this idle fixation.
u have 1k likes and no replies?? surprising honestly. underrated comment ngl
@@robloxian9.92.2 Oh heck, had no idea this one struck such a good chord with folks. Thankya for poking me on it!
@@kalidasryazan8633 not a problem citizen. tis my duty
Fr lol. I think she adopted us
My head cannon is that she started doing it as a way to annoy us into moving seats but halfway through she genuinely started enjoying it and didn’t mind us being there.
That's awesome. Keep going, I'm gonna need a full length novel on their story and dynamics as they evole by next year. (If I can manage to wait that long, lmao)
(+This is a joke, but I wouldn't mind recs or an actual novel.)
I love that idea that's how I'm imagining it now, thank you❤️
@@strawberry-mochi1427every single day without fail they come back and do this exact same thing, and your friend eventually gives up on trying to sit with you, so there’s this awkward conversation like “yeahhh, sorry, she kinda just adopted me”
I feel like she claimed us. I feel like we're her lover now.
@@Jellzy_Daniella_Animations Bro? You good?
This feels like hanging out with your cool older sister and her friend and trying to not be annoying so they don’t kick you out.
EXACTLY! Just standing there like 🧍
Yeah!
😅@@pbvibes6789
Yeah you're just standing there like: (°ー°〃) and tryin' to not be told to go be alone in your room again.
This feels how long can you can go without punching the girl behind you. I had my eyes narrowed during half
I love the idea that the listener is just sat there while this random goth girl sits down and scratches their hair/face, and instead of moving they’re just like, “Welp, guess this is my life now.”
Yeah!
i mean accurate for me 😭
ikr
I’ve pretty much had this happen to me before, except for the goth part
TBF I'd do the same
Reminds me of my junior year in a new high school. This senior girl did basically this to me the whole school year 😂 she tended to hang out with these rambunctious guys but loved to sit behind me and just play with my hair. We never spoke besides her greeting me with this bubbly “hi sweetheart!” I regrettably never told her how much that helped my anxiety quite often. Her last day before graduating she gave me a big hug and told me to stay out of trouble. I hope she’s doing well out there wherever she is.
lucky, I'm glad it helped you. This made me smile
You lost contact? Ok that's sad 😢
@@krisgrym yeah we never exchanged numbers and she was never the type to use social media even though she has/had them lol maybe we’ll cross paths again one day so I can formally thank her
@@krisgrymsad to say, you lose touch with almost everyone especially if you’re from even a medium-sized town or ever move.
@@noizemaker9261 hopefully
"Cause you're pretty and you're smart and you're ignoring me, so you're obviously my type."
😂 love that audio
lmao
Accurate
Omg rp the show!!😊
Exactly my thoughts😂
Oh no I LOVE the idea of this.
In person I kind of just enjoy listening to friends talking around me while still being engaged in some physical way (playing with my hair play, rubbing my back, doing my make up, etc). I don’t feel like that’s a common comfort, so it’s a pleasant surprise to see ASMR like this where you’re talking to someone else not the viewer!
i've never figured out how to describe it, but yes! this! it's like, ignore me but still include me
@@abbypratt8798I've sometimes heard it/seen it called Impersonal Attention on some videos, and I agree, it's the best! 🥰
@@Miss_Mythomg tysm for the term
Omg I feel the same !! It's so much less pressure when you're there but not there there, right ?
nice idea
I love this “getting no attention but getting ALL the attention” vibe it’s great
"What did you do today, sweetie?"
"I became a goth girl's stim toy"
😭
“Oh! I feel very sad for you honey.”
"y'know, back in my day, that's how I met your father!"
@@Lauryn-wf9dw You met my father by becoming a goth girl's stim toy?
That’s my boy!
I love how the listener just sits there and let's this happen as it suggest that this is a common accurace , and I think it'd be really funny if this was the entire relationship the goth and the listener have, they aren't friends, they aren't acquaintance, not even a friend of a friend of a friend. They had exactly one conversation in which goth girl asked permission to do this whenever listener said yes and they haven't even spoken to each other since.
I actually think from the minor context clues in the dialogue that this is the first time it's happening. I _think_ the intro is suggesting that the character has never sat there before since she responds to a person off screen by saying "We're sitting here today... because I said so," kinda like it's weird for her to just sit there out of nowhere. I might be looking into it too deeply, but the looks she gives the camera in the beginning also make it seem like the viewer is trying to introduce themselves or say something like their friend is supposed to sit there, but all the character does is stare them down.
Plus the fact that a different character, the viewer's friend, later asks if they can sit down next to us. The character just hisses and acts offended, which sorta makes it seem like that was the first time it's happened.
Their is a comment just below this one by someone called "HairyCowLegs" that had this exact story happen to her in HS
amy says "excuse me, we're in the middle of a conversation here" at the beginning, probably when the listener tries to object
16:36 was not expecting that territorial hiss lol. It was like a cat who refused to let anyone play with there favorite toy 🤣🤣🤣
was looking for this comment 😂
The makeup and hair is really on-point in this one. Gives me the feeling that goth girl is secretly a vampire or something.
agreed
Eventual video idea 👀
Part two?? Goth Girl reveals her secret 🦇🧛🏻♀️
vampire girl ignores you (she doesn't talk to food)
Ohhh and she’s expressing her fixation for you in this way cus she can’t just eat you in public 😮 LOL
I've been ignored by goth girls possibly longer than you've been alive, Amy.
lmao
imagine not becoming the goth girl instead.
Slight issue: I’m not a girl
@@ravenvelvet69I shall become the goth girl I want to see in the world
@@NoNo-xt8kuSounds like a skill issue
god does this scratch the autism itch for me. i love not being involved in a conversation but still sharing space/a vaguely similar activity (parallel play babey)
it reminds me of when i was in middle school and id let friends draw on my arms while they talked amongst themselves and i just vibed. i was genuinely completely happy like this
Dude having someone draw on u is just peak
i was the person drawing tattoos on my classmate's arms as they had a conversation lol i miss that from high school
Completely relate to this.
okie so i havent seen the timeline guy yet so i shall be the timeline guy
0:00-1:10 coming into class/spotting you and playing with your hair
1:10-2:25 foraging signature for friend
2:25-3:00 back to playing with your hair
3:00-7:07 plucking eyebrows and semi inaudible whispers
7:07-8:14 writing on paper/inaudible whispers
8:14-8:29 biting pen
8:29-14:06 drawing on face
14:06-14:36 checking phone
14:36-19:42 grease sheets for face
19:42-20:14 lip gloss/oil
20:14-20:37 finger fluttering with rings
20:37-25:40 masking tape on face instead of stickers
25:40-30:13 scratching metal/face (our face sounds like metal i think)
30:13-end talking abt leaving class early and going home/slightly touching up face
hiii thanks for taking the time to read my timeline it took me forever🫣 sleep well!!
Thanks for doing it!
Thanks! And at the grease sheets part, when she starts she tells us to hold our greasy face still lol
Thank you very much for doing this❤ wish you a good night🌕
Thank you for your service 🫡
You are the MVP of this comment section
This is one of my favorite characters from you. A sequel where she ignores everything else and focuses on just viewer would be peak
Yes
I’m subbing in the hopes she will make this lmao
Would loveeee that
she might already have a few similar, though they are occult goth/occult girl obsessed with the listener instead. however, i do agree with wanting more.
Now I'm picturing a fire in the background, faint sounds of sirens, and a meteorite falling towards us in slow motions and her playing with our hair and be like: "Why are you looking around? There is nothing important happening besides me"
funny enough, most depictions of goth girls in media is always the mean/rude girl, which I don't mind that much but most goth girls I knew were actually the sweetest people I had the chance to meet. So long as the fascination for coffins and old timey horror movies doesn't bother you, goths are actually so nice to talk to lol.
Yeah, I had goth friends back in high school and they were nice. Just socially awkward.
@@pathetic2399 aren't everyone socially awkward in high-school?
Everyone but the guys who play a sport
@@zynosgd9982 No. In real life, plenty of high schoolers are outgoing.
fascination for coffins? i want a goth friend rn
I’m pleading and begging on my hands and knees for more “personal attention but ignoring you” !!! It’s the best! It goes quite well with this character too :)
not her writing on our face,, ive never loved and hated someone so much lmfao. amazing job
agreed
“oh my god dude what are you doing”
“should i stop?”
“no”
It was when she picked her ear and wiped it on us for me.
This is the moment the Goth Girl ignored us. Truly the Amy Kay ASMR of all time.
lmao
Bravo Vince
What on gods green earth is that pfp
@@NoNo-xt8ku nikocado
The way you judged the camera on 0:12 is EXACTLY how I'd expect to be judged by a goth girl IRL.
And that honestly melted me.
Yo why don't you post on yt anymore?
hey man how come u havent posted in a while?
This might be a bit odd but girls sometimes look at me this way, im super uncomfortable with it though any tips to get over it/ cope with it?
@@The1nOnlyGoober have you tried not caring
Why are u so right.....i cant unsee it now😂😂😂
Edit: wow you guys really liked and also kinda hated my story lol. So a few things to mention or comment on.
1. Yes I’m a female? Idk why it really matters but hi hello lol
2. This wasn’t a missed love story to me because I started dating the person I am happily married to now in 9th grade. Currently I am 26. So I think it’s okay.
3. Why didn’t we become friends? We were in different circles. Just wasn’t something that happened. This wasn’t exclusive to me, from what I know talking to my friends who had other classes with her she did it to pretty much anyone that would let her and sat in front of her.
4. Why didn’t we talk and was it awkward? No. Just never did I don’t know. Neither one of us put in the effort to talk.
5. I tried looking her up on Facebook as someone suggested and didn’t find her so maybe she’s married now or something.
Anyways thanks for reading my story definitely didn’t think so many people would care or think much about it. 💜
OG Post:
I had a girl like this in high school. She sat behind me. We were NOT friends at all, legit never talked outside of one time… but she ALWAYS played with my hair. I have really long hair (goes past my waist) and she would just play with it. The only time we talked was the first time I thought my hair was on her desk and she was moving it so I apologized and she said it was fine she wanted to just play with my hair. And yeah that was it, never talked again and for a whole year she played with my hair almost everyday during class. I think about her haha
aww that's like so cute tho
You went to school in heaven, man.
Yall were friends and didn't even know 😭
Bro fumbled the bag
@@ThogDontCare these are two girls lmfao there's no guy
I don't know how, but amy pulls of the goth look so well.
agreed
Because she's actually attractive.
That's not goth but ok
@@n4t4lkq how?
@davorzdralo8000 this is more of an Alt than Goth look
(Or it could also just be more "casual goth", but goth is usually the white foundation/makeup, exaggerated eyeliner(and other makeups), music, etc
This is really scratching my itch for both ‘parallel play with a hint of wlw’ and ‘I want to be a goth woman’s fidget toy’ 💀
Mood (I'm a gay goth dude and I view it platonically)
@@ArcherVegaMusic Theres no reason not to view it platonically. She legit rubs her earwax on us lol
This is the best way I could have ever described it yes this x 1000
Real
I just like how she hisses at the friend that tried to sit with us ✨
Not gonna lie, her claiming we're "hers" right after that got me feeling some type of way... 🥴
@@BaronSterlingFr
Most realistic asmr ever. I would let this happen.
fr
At first I would feel a bit weird but eventually I wouldn't care I would just let her keep going
I like to think shes drawing a masterpiece on our face, like beautiful flowers with big thorns with random dark jewels around
I was curious as to what she was drawing. I like your idea :)
@minajones8341 Thank you🤗, I knew a goth group back in school, and the girls in that group had such beautiful makeup on every day. Of course, it was mostly black and gray colors, but it was still beautiful
i was imagining a sort of stained glass look with patterns in it
@L-ghtlessSky oooooo~ that's a good idea too
I was a freshmen in art class and was adopted by the two senior goths in the class and would leave that class time covered in different styles of makeup, my hair done differently and confused but was their puppy basically for a year. Haha
I would love a follow-up with this same character where she does our makeup but still totally ignoring us. Like says to the person sitting next to her “Wouldn’t they look good as a goth?” and then just starts in, even cutting and styling our hair without asking
These one-off phrases when she annoyedly asks the POV to like not move, and goes back to the main convo right after hit so hard for some reason. Love it
This is so comforting, I love being involved without having to engage
Yesss 🙌
I am pretty sure most of us don‘t have to watch asmr roleplays to get ignored by girls but yet here we are
I see
@AloneInThePark bold of you to assume that’s not the case for me irl
Nobody plays with my hair in real life
Just casually discussing the knome/knight wars is so real, I love you Amy 😂❤
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LOL
also knights will rise
@DigitalDrawings2024 leave us alone knight we just wanna be whimsical and a little silly
No matter the character she plays, Amy is always so comforting and relaxing ❤
yep
agreed
was REAL confused how we were gonna get personal attention AND be ignored,,, but wow, that was super tingly
The 16:39 interaction was oddly comforting, like the goth girl does care deep down but she will still always ignore you, which separates her from being the mean girl
Okay, I put this in a reply & folks seemed to find it helpful - I've seen this style of ASMR video called "Impersonal Attention" ...in case anyone is looking for a search term. 🥰 This immediately became one of my favorites/a go-to video for me. Thank you Amy! 🏆❤️✨️
Thank you for telling us what it's called! Now I can find more like this 🖤
I didnt think I'd relax to the divided attention trope but I literally get so relaxed at the dentist i fall asleep while they're working on me
Oh man, I thought I was the only person who doses off in the dentist chair.
@@MatrixRefugee nah my dentist has to wake me up at the end of the appointment you're not alone😭😭
nah bro im WIDE awake at the dentist cause idk if i snore
I really like the concept of this rp. Something about just listening to a conversation and not contributing to it, but still being attended to. Great job, as always!
I'm obsessed with her forever 😭🙏 I LOVED the divided attention southern hair salon video and this scratches a very similar itch, THANK YOU!! ❤
yesssss a fellow divided attention fan!! I hope you like this one as well & thank you (:
@@AmyKayASMRIt's perfect 🥹
so nice of you
That video is one of my all time favorites EVER in ASMR ❤ from the accent to the divided attention and gossip it's perfect all around
I didn’t know Amy was in my Stage Costuming & Makeup class.
She even got the “Hold your greasy face still” part correct.
i love this prompt so much! it's like listening to your friends chat while one of them is doing your makeup and doesn't want you to move a muscle at a sleepover. lovely work!!!
Oh darn. Amy pulled out the goth aesthetic and it’s rocking.
Honestly, I kinda enjoy sitting in on the conversation whilst she’s doing… whatever she’s doing.
Now this is the type of style id wish I could pull off with my band t-shirts
same
0:00 - 0:25 sitting down
0:57 - 1:11 playing with our hair
1:45 - 2:14 drawing (using our face as a flat surface?)
2:27 - 2:55 hair playing
3:01 - 7:14 drawing on our face
7:51 - 8:11 Writing
8:21 - 8:27 pen biting
8:33 - 11:39 drawing on our face again
11:38 - 11:45 biting pen
11:46 - 13:22 continuing to draw on our face
13:23 - 13:38 messed up
13:45 - 13:52 continuing to play with hair
14:09 - 14:36 checking for price of amor on etsy
14:50 - 19:41 playing with paper? (On face and hair)
20:03 - 20:22 putting lip balm on us?
21:03 - 25:39 putting tape on us
25:46 - 30:13 playing with face/head
30:15 - 30:43 bracelet jinggles
30:46 - 31:03 hair playing
31:05 - 31:25 bracelet jinggles
31:30 - 32:24 rubbing off previous drawing with spit?
BONUS
16:34 - 16:42
I am begging you to release makeup tutorials (or even no commentary videos of you just doing your makeup) alongside your videos. Your makeup is always so incredible
Amy coming in clutch with a goth girl roleplay. What a lass!
yep, the best
This is my idea of a perfect group hangout, no speaking, no worrying about paying attention, and physical affection? perfect 😌
Had a popular girl lay on my lap in middle school and laugh with her friends for like 30 seconds straight lmao. Didnt acknowledge me at all and just said a short sorry after. We did not talk nor were we friends
Timestamps for every time she talks to us (kinda)
0:50
1:50
2:07
4:16
13:25
14:55
32:35
"*hiss* they're mine."
see, this is why i get crushes on people who aren't real O:
I felt like a lost puppy watching this video 😂 I don’t know why but I loved not being talked too yet still being included, you know?
It also made me feel like I was a younger sister being cared for by her older sister? I don’t have siblings but I still got the vibe and it made me happy
Your goth girl rps are some of my favorites! I find myself saying that about a lot of your videos, lol.
same
yep
I haven't stopped playing this video since it was posted, please, I need more of these 😭😭
I like your name 😊😊
Your makeup is actually amazing and I love it so much.
3 minutes in and my tingle immunity is cured.
this is one my favourite role plays you’ve done - i NEED more of the hand motion/sound combo at 2:42 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
God i love it when Amy plays Goth Girl, especially cause she NAILS the makeup lol
definitely nails the look
The layered sounds in the beginning with the hairplay were divineeeee
Im usually asleep long before the hiss, so this is the first time i've heard it...
...and this girl is diabolical. Not even an hour ago, she was like, repulsed by our presence and when someone who actually wants to be near us shows up, she tells them to piss off.
It's a chaotic and toxic energy that i'm loving XD 😂
okay, why do I feel like I'm enjoying this a bit too much. How is this so comforting
Goth Amy is amazing, fits her tones and hair. Good job on the videos
I think I found my new favorite genre of ASMR
The clawing of imaginary hair gave me the most triggers. Could we get a video of you primarily doing only that? Or do you already have a video of you doing that?
And once again right when im about to give up on sleep AMY COMES IN CLUTCH
ikr
You look absolutely GORGEOUS in this style and makeup !
This is the enemies to lovers dynamic happening in real time
Amy I'm begging for more videos like this! 😩 I've literally watched this every night since it was posted. It just calms me like nothing else can 🥺
Same!!!! So hard to find eyebrow plucking where they don’t whisper “pluck” over it, it’s my favorite!
For some reason (and idk how it makes a difference) but I loveeee asmr videos where the asmrtist is speaking to someone off camera. I love your hairdresser gossiping video too!
Legendary character, love all the videos with her
same
I'm not attracted to the goth girl who completely ignores me and draws on my face. I'm not attracted to the goth... did you just hiss at someone trying to sit next to me? Damn it... I'm in love. Great rp lol.
That's so real tho 😭
it might be because I rewatched Fight Club last night, but I'm getting major Marla Singer vibes from your look in this video, I honestly love it, well done Amy
i got really invested in the conversation about house of the dragon and forgot i couldnt talk back for a sec
forgot I couldn’t give my opinion lol
Fr i was sayin Crispy Cole sucks out loud lmaoooo
We need a full video with this triggers 2:26
I neeeeeed more ASMR where the asmrtist is talking to someone other than the camera it's so good!!!
The goth makeup and clothing looks absolutely stunning on you. This was so relaxing, and I love that you don`t make the mouth sounds too obvious.
This is perfect. I secretly get weird second hand embarassment/cringe when the Asmrist talks to the veiwer about somthing that doesnt fit. My issue, I know, but this...this is perfect. Because they arent talking to me. It doesnt matter if it fits or not because none of its directed at me. Im just getting my hair and makeup done. Ohhh this is lovely lovely lovely.
I didn’t know I needed this in my life. This will definitely be rewatched
No, but... I really need more of this. This is so good. Does anyone have any recommendations for other videos in this style?
I'm goth without the physical appearance if you know what I mean, and I find this relaxing because I look at it as your acting for me so I don't have to think or react or say anything. I don't like to put titles like "goth", "emo" or anything else of that subject because not many people know the difference 😂😂 but this is how I act (obviously not going around touching people) but the chillness and the responsiveness, it just matches my attitude.
7:27 did she just wipe her earwax on us?…😨💀
Ye
Every time she talks to us
0:50
1:50
2:07
4:16
13:25
14:55
32:35
I honestly wouldn’t mind seeing more videos like this ❤, it’s like a comfort thing really, just being present while not interacting with others but still being included in some way
There was this one girl, pretty goth
She was attractive and knew it I guess.
She was so hard to figure out?? Sometimes she’d push me around, like, physically. Other times she’d invite me over with her and her friends and let me chill and offer me snacks and stuff.
Just an interesting person.
But she also like randomly flirted with me sometimes?
She was just a very interesting character.
Did you want her?
I wonder if she was trying to figure out her feelings or herself in general which made her send differing signals.
I really like the length of your videos. It’s perfect for just laying my phone and let it roll for 30+ mins 😴
For some reason this reminds me alot of getting my make up done for high school theater. Which was always a relaxing expience for me. I'm happy to finally find a video that encapsulates that feeling again.
LITERALLY MAKE A GOTH GIRL PLAYLIST NOW 😭🙏
7:28 WHY'D I ACTUALLY TRY TO WIPE SOMETHING AWAY 😭
Im on my hands and knees begging for another asmr like this🙏
REYOL
REAL ID GIVE MY KIDNEY FOR MORE OF THIS
@@L-ghtlessSky be my friend
3:22 her licking her finger and put it on our eyebrows I CANNN'T 😂 So on point for some reason
Yay! My life got an ASMR version!
yay
Damn bro, I dunno whether to feel jealous or pity.
my autisitc self loves this. I dont need to talk, just need to vibe.
This gave me flashbacks I wasn't expecting. The days of high school working on my homework or next D&D character sheet in study hall while my GF at the time would just sit next to me messing with my hair while chatting with her pals.
The way she side eyed us in the beginning made me feel some typa way oh man-
It reminds me of like the shy girl and her goth girlfriend who includes her without making her uncomfortable 🥺
YOU DESCRIBED IT PERFECTLYYYY I get wlw vibes from this video so much and this describes what I couldn't. Another way to think is a goth girl randomly adopted the introverted girl.
9:08 dude that is so weirdly specific and EXACTLY what I just ate. Wtf. I’ve never seen ur vids and just randomly clicked to a spot a couple minutes in and…. wtf
Black/ white space if you need it
That hiss was so genuine I remember my friend doing this at the HEIGHT of the scene era
I noticed you mentioned House of the Dragon. I would kill for an “Alys Rivers gives you hallucinations to fall asleep” roleplay 😂
i met my girlfriend of almost 6 years when she asked to play with my hair in university. this totally gave me flashbacks. she was a lot like this lmao, kind of rude but in an endearing way.
This concept is so creative and it works SO well 🥲😴