People teach each OTHER how to TREAT EACH OTHER. I m a COURTEOUS LISTENER. NOT a doer. I say nod yes as a person talks. Not consenting to anything. PATIENCE is neccessary. Just observing. & TESTING.
Trying to recognise what a stressful situation looks like?? Normal people: OMG THATS TERRIBLE🫢 CPTSD people 'oh no, Im coping, Ill get through this👍👍' We just dont have a clue😳😑. My life just now?? Off the scale, normal people are just worried Im fantasising and making things up, complex trauma people are going 'you ok, you coping' complex trauma denier survivor people going 'you've got a lot on, you're amazing😁' IM A FUCKIN MESS STRINGING A LIFE TOGETHER BARELY PAYING BILLS, KEEPING MY BUSINESS AFLOAT TRYING TO EXIT ONE LIFE AND BUILD ANOTHER🤬🫢😫 it sucks😑 its not fair, I have a 'safe' group of people (for a narrowly defined definition of safe) that I can rely on, but there are no white knights on snowy steeds, just me, working through a long list of 'get this done' before I get to protection from the whims and dictates of other people's preferences for my life. REALLY SUCKS at a psychic level that I knew this about the family dynamic at 18 but it all resurfaced when I was 50 and moved back to be close with family😩
this guy and this entire series has blown my entire mind
Same
Same
Amazingly life changing perspectives.
Amazing knowledge!! Finally getting answers after 74 years. This really helps. Such a gift. Ty so much!!!
Sir, you’re just amazing!!!
This is great info! Thanks for sharing your wisdom!💜
These videos are the first and last thing I wanted to hear
I wish he would put these talks on Spotify
Hit the nail right on the head with every word.
Thanks
BRILLIANT!!
This video is all about stress and bears closer watch.
15:33 stress is one of most common causes of relapse, next to relationships.
Does Tim have any books?
Google
MDs. Intimidate their patients. Control Freaks give SCARE .
Interesting, except at bottom I certainly can’t trust my own judgment either
I got 2 dogs❤❤
I have 2 cats. They make me happy
Wow I stopped growing but how the hell do I avoid a trigger it devastated me last time and took 3 years to recover
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Medical DOCTORS do this to their patience/Clients. Act like CONTROL FREAKS.
People teach each OTHER how to TREAT EACH OTHER. I m a COURTEOUS LISTENER. NOT a doer. I say nod yes as a person talks. Not consenting to anything. PATIENCE is neccessary. Just observing. & TESTING.
You can't trust people who keep dropping you.
Whats helps.for me its working for an agency, so i go from place to place
Just pisses me off ignorant people disbelieved and stigma 😣
Expectation is really Trust. Child is TRUSTING the adults. Trust yourself. Or STRANGERS. FAITH IS TRUSTING GOD. ALSO LET DOCTORS LET DOWNS also.
All you keep saying is to acknowledge her beauty. Imagine your wife hearing THAT prayer. SMH
15:25
My advice buy a dog stay busy.
Lol…I hear you
That would be an option.
Did that. I’ll be honest, it helps some, but that’s like using a Band-Aid on a broken arm.
Trying to recognise what a stressful situation looks like?? Normal people: OMG THATS TERRIBLE🫢 CPTSD people 'oh no, Im coping, Ill get through this👍👍' We just dont have a clue😳😑. My life just now?? Off the scale, normal people are just worried Im fantasising and making things up, complex trauma people are going 'you ok, you coping' complex trauma denier survivor people going 'you've got a lot on, you're amazing😁' IM A FUCKIN MESS STRINGING A LIFE TOGETHER BARELY PAYING BILLS, KEEPING MY BUSINESS AFLOAT TRYING TO EXIT ONE LIFE AND BUILD ANOTHER🤬🫢😫 it sucks😑 its not fair, I have a 'safe' group of people (for a narrowly defined definition of safe) that I can rely on, but there are no white knights on snowy steeds, just me, working through a long list of 'get this done' before I get to protection from the whims and dictates of other people's preferences for my life. REALLY SUCKS at a psychic level that I knew this about the family dynamic at 18 but it all resurfaced when I was 50 and moved back to be close with family😩