EPISODE 28 | AGENDAS AND DIFFERENT INSIGHTS
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In Episode 28 of the "Behind Like Likes" podcast, hosts Winter and Chy discuss the complexities of mainstream media and the everyday aspects of life, providing insights and catching up with each other.
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Chys skin is EVERYTHING 😩😍
She is BEAUTIFUL!!
Seriously glowing!😊
There’s gay people in the world!! Hello? Black gay men at that. We deserve to be represented as well. What’s wrong with that? I agree with winter at 33:00
Winter ate the gay conversation DOWN like she’s hella woke idk
Love the matching fits ❤️🔥
So many people hating and I’m just excited Winnie gave us a hint about her man
i have a flight tomorrow and my friend sent me that airplane video last night and i was like girl why would u send me that … lmao
Watching while trying to induce my labor🤭 I will neva miss the big sistas weekly talk
Aww congrats! Wishing you a safe delivery!
@@jaegonzales9137 thank you🫶🏼 they always coming w good vibes they better help me laugh this baby out🤣
Congratulations, ma! Im wishing you a safe delivery! 💙💗
Love thisssss 🥰🥰 praying for a healthy baby 🤞🏻
Safe delivery 🎉
no hate, i like chy but she kinda gives off slight homophobic vibes, sometimes maybe without even realizing it. but I appreciate winters take on it coming from a black man apart of the lgbtq community
Chy I can understand what you’re trying to say about the whole “narrative to emasculate black men” however you really don’t know how to strongly support your argument. Winter is giving you valid examples, reasons, and points and you have no response… It comes off like you have a deeper issue with Black Men being gay than you’re saying and that’s okay but say it with your CHEST. I personally don’t understand why it’s such a big deal when there is STILL a large representation of Black people in general that’s vastly coming to the forefront, and the fact that historically Black Men despise/hate gay men, it sends people into an uproar but sugarcoating it with “they’re trying to spin this narrative.” ITS REPRESENTATION. being a black gay man myself, I can say companies are doing too much to show how “woke” they are, but at the same time watching people’s ugly reactions to it supports the point of why it’s needed. Period.
Winter is so intelligent and insightful when it comes to certain topics. I appreciated her take on the gay subject lol
I did too, I been following Winter for a long time for this reason. I love chy as well even if I don’t agree w her!
I love that Winter and Chy don't always have the same opinion on everything. I find myself agreeing with Chy a lot of the time and it's refreshing to hear two people say what they truly feel and not be scared of what others will think. Keep being true to yourselves and speaking your mind! My favorite podcast right now ❤️
The little voice winter puts on when she mocks something is hilarious it deserves a montage 😂😂😂😂
I agree with Winter on the gay subject. I’ve seen plenty of shows and movies with gay white people.
Chy, baby, please practice not saying, “I don’t Know” after you voice your opinion. You do know. You are beautiful and you are smart. Don’t be afraid to own what you say, and don’t feel like you have to apologize for your opinion. When you say that, it invalidates your feelings. People online are going to do that, don’t do it to yourself. I love y’all 🥳❤️❤️❤️
I agree!
What is Chy's obsession with homosexuality? lmao every other episode she brings it up with such a negative light on it. honestly its weird.
Winter spoke facts on the Black LGBTQ community & hyper masculinity!! Appreciate you being educated and educating others!
Wintrr is so smart. 💯
yes indeed
I love when chy says ‘me neither’ when she obviously did something 😂😂 me neither chy
“So that wasn’t Spirit?” 😂😂🤣
i love Chy but she literally sounded brain dead on the “”pushing agenda”” topic for gay entertainment holy shit. You see being gay and black and none masculine and that is a personal issue/ thought. Just say that instead of the extra hoopla
Agreed.
There has always been a stigma that black men can't be gay, especially if they're masculine. If you notice the media shining a light on gay masculine black men, it's because they exist and deserve the representation. I love you Chy, so this isn't shade. But I feel like you're just projecting since you made it clear that you're not attracted to feminine or queer men. Gay black masculine characters are not being pushed, and not every man wants to be feminine.
I understand that… and u know what I was thinking after the episode was that maybe I notice it more bc like u said I’m not really attracted to feminine male energy. Idk. I didn’t mean shade either when saying it. Thank u for still loving me 😩
@@ChyFontenettelol your good it’s ok to have opinions I don’t think anyone one took it personally. It makes good content and good conversation
@@ChyFontenetteI love this reply from you! Always will support you chy!
@@ChyFontenette I Believe Your 100% Right . There is an agenda to make black men weaker or humiliate there masculinity. Aka what Katt Williams came out about .
As a long time member of the Roach Family I speak for all of us when I say we NEED more than forty minutes y’all 😂😂😂. I love watching yall this episode had me crying
As a gay man, I do think in most shows, tokenism is a problem. Now, they try to shove all the things into one character its not about pushing an agenda. I do think they should show a diverse range of characters, especially if the show takes place in a diverse country like the us.
I completely agree. There 100% should be more inclusivity and representation with the LGBTQ+ community, but you can tell that these writers are just being lazy and throwing these characters in just to say they did. It feels fake
Its so funny when y'all randomly start singing 😂
Not me singing “a whole new world 🎶 “ at the same time 😂😂
I think Chy is a little off w/ this masculinity topic. Sexuality has nothing to do with being masculine or emasculating. I think there is a lot more straight representation than gay w/ any race. Just my opinion 😩🤍
I totally agree with Chy
CHI YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THE BLACK MAN AND THE BLACK WOMAN. WE NOTICE IT TOO BUT STAY STRONG. ITS IN YOU NOT ON YOU
😂😂 not competing on who got more miles
Chy & Winter are both very observant ppl && I love that they as friends they can agree to disagree on topics/views and they don’t try and force views on one another .. ❤
Love y'all's pod btw. But I think Shy should ask herself why she’s not okay with multiple black men being gay on screen. Straight people have always taken up television. The world is evolving. If your not apart of the community (lgbtq+) and your not a black man what problem could you possibly have? The real narrative that’s being pushed is for people to be them selves, but then you guys turn around and say everyone wants to be a woman. No, the world is just filled with more feminine energy then you thought and it seems like you guys don’t like it. I love you guys pod but this conversation seems like you guys want things to go back to the way they were. Men hiding who they are and exuding masculinity to appease women. At least that’s what I took away from the conversation.
Winter… if you don’t want kids you take precautions. If you don’t, like Chy said, YOURE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT.
*willing (not trying)..
if it happens it happens...
@@AZilla520 I said what I said. Every human being who's taken a health class, knows all it takes is ONE time so you're really rolling the dice.
"Trying" to get pregnant is tracking ovulation and having sex unprotected during ovulation etc. Not taking precautions isn't trying to get pregnant it's just not preventing it either. So if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't...ppl who are trying don't have that mind set because they are actively TRYING
@@britthall75If you don’t take precautions while having unprotected sex there’s a high risk to get pregnant. It’s reckless to do in a brand new relationship. She’s stated that she’s had abortions before… which I have no problem with. However it’s not a natural form of contraceptive and may lead to low probabilities of actually getting pregnant when she’s actually ready too. Winter verbatim said “I’m not trying.”
For example, if girl doesn’t want a STD but constantly having unprotected sex with randoms, you are inadvertently asking for it. No she wasn’t trying to get an STD but when you have unprotected sex there is a certain responsibility you have to have. That’s all i’m saying. I’m just trying to look out for the girl. 🤷🏽♂️
We love the open and free flowing conversation from both you guys! Don’t ever feel like you should refrain from having a voice Chy , it comes with the territory and also people who know your heart will know it’s full of love. Keep being authentically yourselves , I will always keep tuning in to ‘Behind the Likes’ ❤
Thank you 🤍
Yes! I was just about to comment this and I’m glad Winter reaffirmed her. Like girl give your opinion! ❤
@@ChyFontenetteyou have a beautiful heart!!!
If seeing a big masculine black man be gay bothers you… that seems like something you need to think on. There are plenty of movies and shows with strong successful black men. But for some reason the gay ones stand out to you. You do realize there are a lot of big manly black men that are gay right?
i don’t wanna get y’all mad but these past few episodes have been kinda lazy idk i love ya (obviously that’s why i tune in) but it’s just something i’ve been noticing and i realize y’all both have a lot goin on rn so maybe that’s why but that’s just my personal thoughts
I’ll never get tired hearing yall!!! ❤
Chy, I love watching you give your thoughts every week and I’m so grateful your friendship with Winter has brought you on my radar. Following your insta and seeing your personality on the pod I KNOW that you always mean well. With that being said lol… as a black gay man from a rural-ish area growing up I haven’t had many places to look to for representation honestly. Not in real life at all and most of the movies, shows, and media that was shown of gay people had them being white. And even in those stories, most of them didn’t even have a happy ending (Milk) or they died (Brokeback Mountain) or were side characters (Mean Girls)… Not seeing yourself in media is sooo damaging. And like Winter said, it can lead black men to feeling like they can’t come out and like being down low is their only option. And I feel like that closeted mindset just sets us back as a (black) community. There have ALWAYS been gay black people. It’s one thing to know it in a *sense* and to theorize how many of them can be in sports or what have you but it’s another thing to see it. I personally think it’s a good thing for it to be normalized… it gives the younger folk a shot to see people like them or even not like them and it not outcast anyone, but include. People gon’ be gay regardless. The media can *push* the agenda about masculine/feminine/gay/straight/trans people all they want but that doesn’t change anything about who people are inside. I’ve seen almost nothing but straight relationships in real life and in media and I STILL turned out gay as hell lmao. I say all this with the utmost love and respect.. just wanted to give you some thoughts from someone who is gay AND black and has had a hard time finding where I belong in the world and wish that some of the stories about gay black men would have been around 10-15 years ago when I needed to see me in someone on screen.
I in NO way am trying to be disrespectful or get you to stop having your opinion Chy. You’re entitled to feel however you’d like. We appreciate you speaking your truth and speaking up for the black man✊🏽 much love
I hear & understand you. Thank you for sharing your prospective 💕💕
This!!
@@ChyFontenettegirl just be real. You don’t like gay people and it is very evident. You say homophobic stuff all the time but this episode was a mess.
@@KennedyAlexis-lo8hy I would hope that’s not true cause she’s ignorant asf if that’s the case 💯
I don’t think this podcast is for the gays and the girls to be honest 😵💫
Chyyyy! Out here speaking facts
I’m gonna have to disagree with you chy, I think winter is right by this being a positive thing, maybe by your experience, the things that you watched tend to have more gay black men but I do think that this is a positive thing I feel like we have enough representation of very masculine, black men and no one has ever said anything about that. I really do think the black community even with my own and the Hispanic community really struggle with hyper masculinity in a negative way. I think this is something that other ethnicities need to do as well, but I think it’s a really good thing for the black community, and I hope it inspires other men to be comfortable, regardless of how they choose to live their life and it opens up masculine men to the idea that it’s okay to be gay or feminine.
You tasted it?
Noo..
Oh, me either...
Chy is hilarious😂😂
Winter!!! I appreciate her perspective on the LGBTQ+ topic because she is absolutely right! There isn’t much representation for Black queer people. No offense to Chy but representation shouldn’t be an agenda The Color Purple was not pushing an agenda Cellie and Shug’s relationship was in the book.
Chy comes off as really close minded. Especially when it comes to gay stuff.
It’s so ironic because hearing her talk sometimes, you wouldn’t think she would be so close minded.
Just because she doesn’t share the same or similar opinion as you doesn’t mean she’s close minded. Actually means… you are. LOL
I’m glad someone said this!! She definitely has homophobia in her. It shows every time they’re talking about gay/bi men
We grew up seeing nothing but hetero stuff and do you see the gays complaining? I don’t see Chy complaining about all the lesbian stuff being pushed on our society. I’m glad she showed her true colors. For the first time I actually agree with Winter! Thank you Win. I hope I can continue watching this podcast bc Chy just blew me. She must have forgot yall have gay listeners smh
Literally.
Why tf would y’all be complaining about heterosexual shit being ‘pushed’ baby… that is how you got into this world say thank to your heterosexual parents you freak. That is the norm hun
has chy never read winters book?😂 because she doesn’t know a lot of the stories that winter has talked about in her book
She said she has
Times are different unfortunately , tiktok changed the game more than we’ve ever seen. It’s a bigger demon than even what the BBL era was on IG to us older gen z 😂 at least in middle school we still had justice, and Bethany Mota vids. I don’t see it regressing either , it’ll just turn deeper into a black mirror episode 😅
First time I didn't really have fun with the podcast. I was getting a little iffy about that topic it was kinda rubbing me the wrong way... thankful for you winter for always looking out for the lgbt community 😭😓
chy i understand what you’re saying completely.. i would say tho it’s not just black people that movie industries push different sexualities. i would say ever since the summer of 2020 every movie, show, commercial, pushes & opens the ideas of different sexualities & we aren’t always used to that because that’s not what we would watch on tv growing up. i think 2020 opened peoples eyes & personally i think scared a lot of things in the industry because they would have to include everyone from every background. i love you guy & yall should definitely talk about topics that shake the room. stay blessed !!
Winter being knowing shit!!! I'm so proud of her knowledge and insight on LGBT matters.
(I say this with love) Chy should reflect on her internal homophobia. The narrative is called inclusion and we need more of it actually. Let's normalize it. Ask yourself why it makes you feel so uncomfortable?
This! She can’t even hide it. She says a lot of stuff that’s homophobic af and I let it slide but she did too much this episode. Clearly her ex cheated on her with a man bc she seems hurt.
I need you to ask yourself why does everyone have to be comfortable with it? What we’re not gonna do is pretend like this is the norm. Most people are not gay. It’s unfair for you to expect everyone to be accepting and comfortable with something they are not used to.
Chey is legit so funny without trying bahahaha like girl please don’t try your discharge 😂😂😂😂😂
There's always the white gay bestfriend, they're trying to not only include LGBTQ in movies and TV but they're also trying to integrate POC into the image as well.
kudos to you Wintrr for really giving good insight into the the whole hypermasculinity black male narrative and speaking from a more educating place . i like co host but she has strong opinions with a homophobic undertone . (she’s entitled to that) but you’re insight overshadowed her ignorance ! kudos to you again girl !
Chy, why do you think a man has to be heterosexual to be masculine?
She didn’t say that
I recommended everyone hide their pregnancy
You guys were so passive aggressive towards each other this episode
I feel like winters relationships with men are never deep. She bounces guy to guy to guy I know her mileage gotta be huge. And the ep last week throwing a tantrum over the gift was just crazy. I swear she’s gonna be 60 and single still
You sure do watch all the episodes for someone who doesn’t seem to care for Winter. Weird asf.
@@georgie.rebecca I like chy 🤗 and I like having videos on in the background when I’m working
"so you did have gum" 😂😂😂😂😂
Screaming at 11:20! 💀💀
"You know statistic's say.......oh, whatever, I don't really know the statistic's"
Girl! 😂😂
“We never throw up”…. Cuts to y’all both throwing up in the trash can and street lmao
😂😂😂
Chy you not wrong they always doing back people wrong in movies
The way Chy described the rolling over the feet sound sent me out of orbit. I rewound like 4 times
Period wintrr!! U ate that woke sh*t!!! 100% right all facts
Facts
I agree with Chu but “don’t they need inclusivity too?” Got me 😂😂 but they do keep trying to immaculate black males in society/Hollywood/TV
I binge listened to 26 episodes over the weekend. Y'all are awesome!
not kung fu panda lmfaoooo
Name a funnier duo!! How did y’all go from Stephen Hawkins to Rolling Ray I was screaming 😂
I will never miss an episode . Lol
Give it ten years, the media landscape and conversation will shift. Just look at how much has changed since 2013… can’t imagine what 2032 bring ! 💀💀(if we make it that far hhaa)
Really appreciated Wintrr take on the gay subject, & it is true gay representation for blacks hasn’t been covered enough vs others & not just in the stereotypical fashion everyone knows of gay black men
That’s baby making jelly discharge lol😂
Winter! Can you speak on Keith Lee leaving the Bay Area early on his food tour? A lot of people are mad about him saying it’s not a place for tourists.. (he was also given shellfish from a Bay Area restaurant meanwhile hes allergic) your thoughts??
!!!!!
Chy is glowing! Like a weight has been lifted off of her shoulders!
why does a gay man ruffle feathers, I’m a huge fan, but when you guys do talk about the gay topic, you guys do seem very bothered 😮😮 everyone has an opinion and honestly, I feel like if there was a button for there to be no gays you guys would click it a lot of people would, and my fingers because of what guys everything boils down to men at the end of the day
Long time viewer first time commenter 😭😭 Chy its fine to have your opinion on the gay subject but stand on it & don’t contradict yourself bc in one breath you say being gay doesn’t take away from your masculinity but in the next breath you say masculinity is being lost in this world with them showing gay black characters. What about this big strong manly masculine man made him seem less masculine to you? Him engaging in gay acts? You see how that doesn’t match up bc in your eyes it seems like a man can be super hyper masculine but being gay or getting a little sloppy top from some twink makes him less masculine. Would that not be a good representation for what you want to see more of, showing that in order to be gay you don’t have to change your whole personality to be like a sassy fem, you can still be a manly strong guy but it just so happens u like some gay booty or dick. Just sharing some thoughts, love the podcast & thank you two for entertaining us every week 🩷🤍
I am so happy Wintrr made it clear to Chy that there needs to be more representation for African American gay actors/actresses on television. I believe Chy might just have a problem with seeing Gay black men, and she's uncomfortable with it, and I think this is sometimes where the animosity come from with black gay men towards some black women, its like there's just blatant ignorance wrapped in internal judgement that's not being owned. I also find it funny when a double minority group (African American & Gay) is finally making moves, and being represented and finally getting the recognition they deserve, its suddenly "Pushed onto the public" that's truly a copout, especially when there are so many tv shows and movies representing gay asians, gay Caucasians, etc. But its always when its finally time to normalise Black gay men on television its always a problem. That's why so many females walk around with DL men. Chy claiming she doesn't have a problem with it, then reiterating in many different ways that it actually does bother her while trying to sound politically correct was very telling. Girl that's why you stuttering trying to find the right words to say, because your not even comfortable with your own opinion on black gay men on television enough to just spit it out, and I wonder why. Like girl your trying to say the black gay man narrative is being pushed on the audience just because you see an influx of it on television when In reality it just means you haven't watched enough movies or tv shows with white gay men, especially when there are SO MANY. I am so happy Winter said all the things she said, cause it just seemed like Chy have/had deep rooted problems with seeing black gay men on tv. Don't be THAT person that's trying to sound non-judgmental but the more you speak its nothing but judgment. Girl just hope your man not DL.
Chy your take on gay masculine men was tired. There is no agenda being pushed. If it’s in everything you’re seeing then expand your horizons. There have been strong black male
straight leads in Moesha, Scandal, How to Get Away With Murder, Insecure, Martin, Living Single, Atlanta, etc. So to say something like that just isn’t well researched. The thing is like Wintrr said is there can be strong black men that are gay and they need that representation. The fact that masculine gay black men on tv is an “agenda” being pushed but not all of these black led drug kingpin shows aren’t in crazy. But hey I guess you can be a strong respected drug dealer, pedophile, etc. but being gay is the cut off😒 Love y’all down but this take just wasn’t it.
U know I agree with the end. I’m tired of how black men are being portrayed in media in general. Their only roles are to either wear a dress, kill or rob someone so I kind of see a discrepancy in it all. But that’s just my take. Ur entitled to ur opinion and so am I. 🫣
Chy you and Winter always having me crack up, ya really a vibe. And when I found out you was an Aquarius I was like that’s why I like her ! Btw my birthday the day before yours ♒️
Chy: I’m doing dry January
Winter: Well, we did just drink the other day
Dead 💀
It doesn’t count, Chy. Start over 🤣
I agree with chy. I think inclusivity is necessary forsure but I do see them over saturating black men being gay. It’s noticeable in my opinion they are trying to push something.
She’s trying to drop hints on this dude
Can yall stop wearing black?! 2024 MORE COLORS!
I see what you are saying chy there is a narrative to emasculate men and specifically black men. I’m glad that you talked about that.
Also chy you said you don’t agree with the “if a guy does this he’s gay” narrative but you’ve literally done it. I just feel like you need to hold yourself accountable
Chy looks so beautiful 😍
Winterrrrr can you make a video about confidence and how to not let others take advantage of you and be a boss.Or like girl tips and how to be the best version of yourselff!!!❤❤
They need to represent BOTH that’s the issue why can’t we have a represetation of more than one
Can someone explain to me why they say to go behind the likes podcast is that not on RUclips and only a podcast or no
Teeny boppers want to be grown because they have way too much freedom and access to it.
Winter is officially my celeb crush 😩🔥
I love it here
I can’t imagine chy fighting someone 🤣
yall should edit pictures and video on the screen .... lol we wanna see too. Love yall
Honestly there is an agenda to put gay something in everything. It’s literally in every show or movie. And sometimes them being gay is not even apart of the storyline that matters.
They put people being straight in every movie & every show. So what’s your point
@@Siouxnami my point is it’s not a story in a show that happens to have a Character that is gay or trans. It’s that they write every single storyline to be centered around a character’s “gayness”. And the rest of the plot comes second.
@@chellebelle210 what about rom coms? The story itself has to do with two characters falling in love. Thats the plot in movies. Thats straight. The plot is a straight couple being straight and falling in love. So whats he difference?? Is homosexual love somehow less complex of a plot than that?
It’s to push an agenda honestly. I’m Chy on this one.
@@leahdestiny9247 it’s to show representation. y’all only say this when it comes to this topic but at the same time want Black Representation but only how yall want to see it shown. It’s really showing the mindsets yall still have and yall don’t even realize it.
Rolling Ray is a bully. He's rude
Hiii ♥️
Not chy repeating the trainer story, never gets old though!! 😂😂😂 love it
I was just about to say didn’t she tell us this store last week?! 😂 ngl I be doing that toooo Lolol
Was it on the podcast or on winters live?
yea it was winters live hahaha i thought the same.
I was about to say, I’ve heard the story a couple days ago😂😂
thats so weird your telling women to go threw mens phones....that is stupid...we are human beings and no one deserves to be treated like you own someone....dont be in a relationship if you dont trust the person...if they cheated leave him or her if you cant catch them then thats your problem..dont promote violence....someone touching your property will cause violence
Ladies don’t go through that phone unless you’re prepared to leave 🤷🏻♀️ no point in hurting your feelings if you’re gonna stay
Chy don’t worry, a lot of people agree with you, a lot of people think the same but don’t say anything, I understand what you were trying to convey some people may misunderstand but the ones that get it get it.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I feel like she beats around the bush too much like she obviously doesn’t think being gay is a good thing but is scared to say it out of fear of being cancelled
Facts
@@timi1486this!