Craig I know you see comments like this all the time but I really truly thank you for creating these videos. From the 1st day of the breakup when I was stuck in bed crying and miserable and until now, about a week out of the breakup, I watched your videos. I’m not completely there yet but I can say that every single day I feel 1% better. Thank you for your wisdom, sympathy and humor that is getting me through this. ❤️❤️
He really helped me a lot through my seperation also, i also saved my marriage thanks to his advice and listening to his videos almost 24/7! Hope you're able to get through it.
What I Love is Craig's ability to assign the emotions that go with each thing mentioned. So many people try to make you feel normal emotions are crazy.
I think he lied about the letter being opened by someone else & the entire staff reading it. I think he just lies in general. Pathologically so. Probably a narc too. But definitely has a screw loose. This girl is a giver. She can do way better.
I'm never been a priority,by anyone. The reason I wasn't a priority recently was because I was next in line to the person he wants to be with. Another ex choose staying married to a woman who was gone for twelve years, and family also,never FIRST. Now I'm trying to find myself,and make me a priority because no one else does
I do not understand this really. They are with you for a couple of years and they know that they took your time and energy and in the end they say that...like, I invested so much to show you how much I genuinely love you and you had a gut to say to me something like that?! What is wrong with those people?! I am so tired of this sick society and their need to destroying everything that is pure, beautiful and normal..
Is it possible that the woman may actually have a secure attachment style but be with a narcissist or a man that has narcissistic tendencies making her look anxious? Or even as you said bipolar
I want my ex back AND I want to work on myself. Its not like I didn't want to work on myself before, it's just that I have the urgent motivation now (channeling my anxiety constructively) and I have the time now, being alone. Also, the lack of info on what my partner was thinking to want to break up, makes me want to improve in all areas, since im just guessing the unspoken problems.
You Best one so far. All I hear is this person is dead or this person is in the hospital. Three people were in the hospital the last time he decided to me off and that was his excuse for not showing up. None of these people live in the same state as we do. Unbelievable. Laughed out loud at this but it is an eye opener for me. Thanks for this video!
do you think that bc a person sees or believes the other person is not giving priority to their partner that is why the partner's anxiety increases amd causes the one who is not receiving enough attention anxiety to increase therefore showing the behavior of needy or clingy? do you have a suggestion on which video to watch when a person feels like he or she is not receiving enough attention and what that person could do? btw i also love margaret and believe we are kindred spirits. i hope i can be an lcsw in the next 5 years. i am very similar to her in my career choices so far. thanks for what yall do. it helps in more than calming but also learning about me and how i can help others!
Exactly like what you said Craig, it is unbelievable that my mom she has blamed me for why she and my dad fighting each other 365 days a year! But, it was because of her suck personality and my dad suck personality that they fight all the time 365 days we the kids have never got a calm and peaceful day and that never mattered to them, but they blamed me!!! IT IS REALLY FRUSTRATING THAT MY MOM ACTUALLY DID THAT TO ME and uncountable times she blames me that is my micro-cultural life of my family and the communism of Vietnam has turned people into like that....that is not the place for me......and these are the reasons why I have fight all my way to leave Vietnam for America!! Now, i have been dating with a guy with the same bad attitude like my parents in Saigon, Vietnam and he blamed me for his bad behaviors. But, I have grown up and more experienced with these abusive behaviors......I look for other guy until I find the good man who actually and sincerely acknowledges I am a great lady for him in many ways with inner beauty and a very attractive appearance.
To me , I think he has someone on the side. He is getting upset rather easily. His comment stating were not married I dont have to tell you everything tells the story and is very inconsiderate and harsh.
That guy is a big fat liar. He has given her reasons to be insecure. My ex randomly had people "die" or funerals or in hospital. "Couldn't get tickets"... bull/s. He was going to see his ex. He doesn't want an actual relationship. There's 1000 mid 40s guys like this. Weird. And sad
You are a God sent. I get it now! I never got in trouble in my younger years. I am successful and much aware of how my childhood is connected to some of my shortcomings...l have worked really hard in staying Centered. But, you have touched my core. Feeling abandoned leaks out when l least expect it. It's still alive. I am a caretaker and giver. Always helping others and when they leave l feel used. Why accept my help, gifts and time and then hurt me.? I know l am not perfect but, l don't do well with conflict and abusive behavior. It messes me up!!! Can you make a video regarding why. Thank you to you and Margaret.
I added my ex back & I told her how I felt again from how she’s been treating effected me. & she called me twice in the dead of night & then texted me on Snapchat at 3am saying hi
What if he invited a gal along who he called his "friend" that he had known many years, but you never heard of this person until recently. And he never told you about the outing with the guys (plus this "friend") which made it no longer just a guys outing.
Hello Craig.. I am so lucky to have found you.. I have watched all your videos some more than once.. A topic I am dealing with is my partners addictions. Alcohol, marijuana, and pornography. He has stopped drinking however pornography seems to taken the place of alcoholism. Cross addiction is what I thought. I have confronted him, and he blames me for it. I know that's not true. He said there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. Although, he looks at it at work, while having conversations with me or kids. He has since deleted all the sites he was on and mentioned the black web. I assume he isn't going to stop. It has affected our sex life and our relationship in general.. I would appreciate it if you could make a video regarding this topic and what one should do about this behavior. I don't know how long I can take it. Should I leave or put up with it? Thanks in advance.
God kraig i do act exactly like thise guy (about getting very mad and then feeling guilty and apologise after) yes i'm diagnosed with bipolar affective disorder. I know is hard for people around me, but belive me when i say it's súper hard for me 'couse i'm really a good guy, just can't control my feelings. Si fortunate i do never cross agresion boundaries
Hi Craig! Just a quick question, my ex invited me to dinner and canceled last minute. What does that mean? Is there a video that goes over this? Thank you!
Hi coach , I was at long distance , she is from USA and me from India . she broke relationship last month and now I am following no contact from one week but before I begged and pleaded many . Did I ruin my chance to back her ? What should I write after finish no contact
I also wonder if there may be some gaslighting going on contributing to her anxiousness. He may be gaslighting her especially if he is as you suspect bipolar, or even possibly narcissistic
Hi coach Craig, first of all i'm a big fan of your work, and second i've got a very interesting situation but can't afford a session because currency in my country is pretty bad. So i was in a 10 year relationship and she broke up with me about a year ago, i kept going with my life than started dating a new girl, the ex got so obsessed with me and tried to get back with me to a point she asked a friend in common to ask me for a favor, little did i know they would both come to my house and post pictures and videos on instagram so the new girl would see it and you know broke up with me(we're LD at the moment because i had to move cities due to a good career opportunity) both exes have very bad attachment styles, i'm doing fine just wanted to hear your thoughts on this one.. thank you for sharing your gift!
I really like most of Craig’s videos but this one is off. This guy clearly has serious issues and his behaviour is not just brutal - it’s just outrageously mean. Anyone would feel anxious with this man. I really hope this lady has managed to move on and find a better partner.
It's been 5 months since my ex and i broke up and we have not contacted each other since then. I told her i'm not interested in a friendship, that i only want her as my girlfriend, and if she changes her mind to give me a call. About 2 months after the breakup, she started viewing my whatsapp stories but i never viewed hers nor did i click like on any of her photos on social media she's posted since the breakup. Two weeks ago i posted 2 different photos on the same day, one on Facebook( I changed my profile pic) and added a photo on instagram, and she clicked like on both of them. I also added a video to my instagram story last week and she viewed it. I won't reach out to her first, but do you think she will contact me, or am I thinking too much into the situation.? I really hope you reply. Thank You for your videos !
avenger516 exes check on exes all the time. I have an ex that told me she still checks my social media and we've been split up for years now. Regardless of what their true feelings or intentions are, keep doing what you've been doing. Don't reach out or contact them. Her liking your stuff is breadcrumbs to see if you have any level of attraction left. Scarcity breeds obsession and as long as you stay centered and confident about where you in your life right now, in due time she will reach out to you. Sending good vibes your way brother!!
avenger516 any updates? My situation is similar in that it's been 6 months of strict NC and she has not reached out once. Over this last month, she has been viewing my WhatsApp stories which she was not doing previously. Last week she liked a photo of mine on fb. I don't post often only when I have something/ an activity worth showing. I swore to myself never to reach out to her until she does and I intend to keep that.
@@CoachCraigKenneth oh lol I'm not trying to be a grammar nazi. I didn't know they were interchangeable, I just picture my ex unconscious when ya say that haha
Men don't go on ski trips with other men. We go on hunting trips. If he's going to a ski resort without his significant other, he's got another significant other
Hi Craig. I paid for a Skype session a few days ago and I got the confirmation email but no follow up. I know how busy you are so I just wanted to make sure you didn't overlook it haha.
Check your spam! I send out my confirmation emails the same day. Or you could have written in the wrong email address? If you don’t see it in your spam give me your order ID number and I will resend
Hi coach , I was at long distance , she is from USA and me from India . she broke relationship last month and now I am following no contact from one week but before I begged and pleaded many . Did I ruin my chance to back her ? What should I write after finish no contact
Craig’s videos have been by my side for the past month. I wouldn’t have survived my breakup. I thank God to have send me to craig.
Craig I know you see comments like this all the time but I really truly thank you for creating these videos. From the 1st day of the breakup when I was stuck in bed crying and miserable and until now, about a week out of the breakup, I watched your videos. I’m not completely there yet but I can say that every single day I feel 1% better. Thank you for your wisdom, sympathy and humor that is getting me through this. ❤️❤️
He really helped me a lot through my seperation also, i also saved my marriage thanks to his advice and listening to his videos almost 24/7!
Hope you're able to get through it.
Oh, boy... relationships are just so hard, isn't it better to remain single??
...Yes...
Yes but you learn more about yourself and grow deeper through relationships
What I Love is Craig's ability to assign the emotions that go with each thing mentioned. So many people try to make you feel normal emotions are crazy.
I think he lied about the letter being opened by someone else & the entire staff reading it. I think he just lies in general. Pathologically so. Probably a narc too. But definitely has a screw loose.
This girl is a giver. She can do way better.
so True, unbeliveable coincidences...death....letter...she works on herself-good girl:)
Most definitely a narc
Sounds like my female LDR ex. She plays a lot of games and makes up excuses too and gets angry when I even ask her about these things.
I'm never been a priority,by anyone. The reason I wasn't a priority recently was because I was next in line to the person he wants to be with. Another ex choose staying married to a woman who was gone for twelve years, and family also,never FIRST. Now I'm trying to find myself,and make me a priority because no one else does
That's what my ex told me while breaking up: " you have never been my priority"... It was extremely painful.
I do not understand this really. They are with you for a couple of years and they know that they took your time and energy and in the end they say that...like, I invested so much to show you how much I genuinely love you and you had a gut to say to me something like that?! What is wrong with those people?! I am so tired of this sick society and their need to destroying everything that is pure, beautiful and normal..
@@andjela6351 dont let anyone change you those people will get what they deserve.
@@user-sz6hk1nv3o I wish this were true
@@andjela6351 it's so painful. Fudge being nice. This is painful
We love Craig Kenneth
I think the guy in the email story is lying about the coworkers, the deaths, and assaults. Probably about his ex too.
I think he was already looking for an excuse to break up with her.
Is it possible that the woman may actually have a secure attachment style but be with a narcissist or a man that has narcissistic tendencies making her look anxious? Or even as you said bipolar
She needs to get rid of this man….yesterday
I want my ex back AND I want to work on myself. Its not like I didn't want to work on myself before, it's just that I have the urgent motivation now (channeling my anxiety constructively) and I have the time now, being alone. Also, the lack of info on what my partner was thinking to want to break up, makes me want to improve in all areas, since im just guessing the unspoken problems.
You
Best one so far. All I hear is this person is dead or this person is in the hospital. Three people were in the hospital the last time he decided to me off and that was his excuse for not showing up. None of these people live in the same state as we do. Unbelievable. Laughed out loud at this but it is an eye opener for me. Thanks for this video!
The ignoring triggers all kinds of stuff for us anxious attached. I know that pain.
If you could please do a video over long distance relationships and attachment styles that would really help me with my situation
This breakup story is making me feel waayyy better about how I handled mine. Oh geez. 🤣
You have described me and cited my past relationships
Great video. Where is Margaret? I Like when you guys do videos on personalities and depression. Keep up the good work.
do you think that bc a person sees or believes the other person is not giving priority to their partner that is why the partner's anxiety increases amd causes the one who is not receiving enough attention anxiety to increase therefore showing the behavior of needy or clingy? do you have a suggestion on which video to watch when a person feels like he or she is not receiving enough attention and what that person could do? btw i also love margaret and believe we are kindred spirits. i hope i can be an lcsw in the next 5 years. i am very similar to her in my career choices so far. thanks for what yall do. it helps in more than calming but also learning about me and how i can help others!
I love going through your videos cause they teach me stuff and I also crack up 😂
Exactly like what you said Craig, it is unbelievable that my mom she has blamed me for why she and my dad fighting each other 365 days a year! But, it was because of her suck personality and my dad suck personality that they fight all the time 365 days we the kids have never got a calm and peaceful day and that never mattered to them, but they blamed me!!! IT IS REALLY FRUSTRATING THAT MY MOM ACTUALLY DID THAT TO ME and uncountable times she blames me that is my micro-cultural life of my family and the communism of Vietnam has turned people into like that....that is not the place for me......and these are the reasons why I have fight all my way to leave Vietnam for America!! Now, i have been dating with a guy with the same bad attitude like my parents in Saigon, Vietnam and he blamed me for his bad behaviors. But, I have grown up and more experienced with these abusive behaviors......I look for other guy until I find the good man who actually and sincerely acknowledges I am a great lady for him in many ways with inner beauty and a very attractive appearance.
To me , I think he has someone on the side. He is getting upset rather easily. His comment stating were not married I dont have to tell you everything tells the story and is very inconsiderate and harsh.
Definitely giving off bipolar/schizophrenia vibes. Going through a situation so similar to this right now
Omg I couldn’t help but laugh a few times as you read this lol
That guy is a big fat liar. He has given her reasons to be insecure.
My ex randomly had people "die" or funerals or in hospital.
"Couldn't get tickets"... bull/s. He was going to see his ex. He doesn't want an actual relationship. There's 1000 mid 40s guys like this. Weird. And sad
First, thank you for all your hard work Craig🤗
Freak I don’t believe that the whole company read. He definitely need space after her first contact
You are a God sent. I get it now! I never got in trouble in my younger years. I am successful and much aware of how my childhood is connected to some of my shortcomings...l have worked really hard in staying Centered. But, you have touched my core. Feeling abandoned leaks out when l least expect it. It's still alive. I am a caretaker and giver. Always helping others and when they leave l feel used. Why accept my help, gifts and time and then hurt me.? I know l am not perfect but, l don't do well with conflict and abusive behavior. It messes me up!!!
Can you make a video regarding why. Thank you to you and Margaret.
Its just a ski trip. Its snow big deal.
Thanks for this video. This really helps me a lot. Hope to listen to more about internalization.
I added my ex back & I told her how I felt again from how she’s been treating effected me. & she called me twice in the dead of night & then texted me on Snapchat at 3am saying hi
What if he invited a gal along who he called his "friend" that he had known many years, but you never heard of this person until recently. And he never told you about the outing with the guys (plus this "friend") which made it no longer just a guys outing.
Hello Craig.. I am so lucky to have found you.. I have watched all your videos some more than once.. A topic I am dealing with is my partners addictions. Alcohol, marijuana, and pornography. He has stopped drinking however pornography seems to taken the place of alcoholism. Cross addiction is what I thought. I have confronted him, and he blames me for it. I know that's not true. He said there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. Although, he looks at it at work, while having conversations with me or kids. He has since deleted all the sites he was on and mentioned the black web. I assume he isn't going to stop. It has affected our sex life and our relationship in general.. I would appreciate it if you could make a video regarding this topic and what one should do about this behavior. I don't know how long I can take it. Should I leave or put up with it? Thanks in advance.
God kraig i do act exactly like thise guy (about getting very mad and then feeling guilty and apologise after) yes i'm diagnosed with bipolar affective disorder. I know is hard for people around me, but belive me when i say it's súper hard for me 'couse i'm really a good guy, just can't control my feelings. Si fortunate i do never cross agresion boundaries
I advise her to not go back to this guy. I get bipolar vibes from him as well she should leave and never return
This was comedy gold :)
Hi Craig! Just a quick question, my ex invited me to dinner and canceled last minute. What does that mean? Is there a video that goes over this? Thank you!
It means he didn’t follow through. Any man who wants to have dinner with a woman, will have dinner with her.
Run.....this guy got issues Quickly internet dating he doesn’t value you
Brother’s and sisters are no bargain either growing up.
My wife is a DA and she told me her job is a bigger priority than me. What do I do?
Hi coach , I was at long distance , she is from USA and me from India . she broke relationship last month and now I am following no contact from one week but before I begged and pleaded many . Did I ruin my chance to back her ? What should I write after finish no contact
Do not stay in relationships "anything like this"-- GAWD!! He is playing her. GAWD! STOP thinking about HIM!!
I also wonder if there may be some gaslighting going on contributing to her anxiousness. He may be gaslighting her especially if he is as you suspect bipolar, or even possibly narcissistic
Can you please do a video and emotionally damaged exes People
Hi coach Craig, first of all i'm a big fan of your work, and second i've got a very interesting situation but can't afford a session because currency in my country is pretty bad. So i was in a 10 year relationship and she broke up with me about a year ago, i kept going with my life than started dating a new girl, the ex got so obsessed with me and tried to get back with me to a point she asked a friend in common to ask me for a favor, little did i know they would both come to my house and post pictures and videos on instagram so the new girl would see it and you know broke up with me(we're LD at the moment because i had to move cities due to a good career opportunity) both exes have very bad attachment styles, i'm doing fine just wanted to hear your thoughts on this one.. thank you for sharing your gift!
I really like most of Craig’s videos but this one is off. This guy clearly has serious issues and his behaviour is not just brutal - it’s just outrageously mean. Anyone would feel anxious with this man. I really hope this lady has managed to move on and find a better partner.
I would rather stay single 😂❤it is so hard to keep up this
This guy is a big lair. He's just leading her on for his own convience. Drop him.
This video had me 😂
It's been 5 months since my ex and i broke up and we have not contacted each other since then. I told her i'm not interested in a friendship, that i only want her as my girlfriend, and if she changes her mind to give me a call. About 2 months after the breakup, she started viewing my whatsapp stories but i never viewed hers nor did i click like on any of her photos on social media she's posted since the breakup. Two weeks ago i posted 2 different photos on the same day, one on Facebook( I changed my profile pic) and added a photo on instagram, and she clicked like on both of them. I also added a video to my instagram story last week and she viewed it. I won't reach out to her first, but do you think she will contact me, or am I thinking too much into the situation.? I really hope you reply. Thank You for your videos !
avenger516 exes check on exes all the time. I have an ex that told me she still checks my social media and we've been split up for years now. Regardless of what their true feelings or intentions are, keep doing what you've been doing. Don't reach out or contact them. Her liking your stuff is breadcrumbs to see if you have any level of attraction left. Scarcity breeds obsession and as long as you stay centered and confident about where you in your life right now, in due time she will reach out to you. Sending good vibes your way brother!!
avenger516 any updates? My situation is similar in that it's been 6 months of strict NC and she has not reached out once. Over this last month, she has been viewing my WhatsApp stories which she was not doing previously. Last week she liked a photo of mine on fb. I don't post often only when I have something/ an activity worth showing.
I swore to myself never to reach out to her until she does and I intend to keep that.
Update?
It's subconsciously not unconsciously Craig. I hear it in ur vids all the time and just want to help ya
Actually, Freud used it interchangeably. So that’s probably why I use it like that all the time. Just trying to help ya
@@CoachCraigKenneth oh lol I'm not trying to be a grammar nazi. I didn't know they were interchangeable, I just picture my ex unconscious when ya say that haha
This woman is so disrespectful to herself, there is nothing you can do to help her
Men don't go on ski trips with other men. We go on hunting trips. If he's going to a ski resort without his significant other, he's got another significant other
This doesn't make any sense
Hi Craig. I paid for a Skype session a few days ago and I got the confirmation email but no follow up. I know how busy you are so I just wanted to make sure you didn't overlook it haha.
Check your spam! I send out my confirmation emails the same day. Or you could have written in the wrong email address?
If you don’t see it in your spam give me your order ID number and I will resend
Coach Craig Kenneth it wasn't in my spam folder. I just emailed you the order number. Thanks :)
I would have sent my whole staff home without pay. And fire the person who initially opened the letter. But that's me.
oh is why my family doesnt give a shit about me
That ex-boyfriend sounds like a liar. His stories are way too farcical to be believed. Just my two cents.
where's Margaret? we missed her ❤😊
Hey what if I send one of your videos to my ex bad idea ?
dtfluff uhh.. Huge bad idea
Depends on your ex and where she is at.
Why would you send her anything at all? It's probably not the end of the world though ... She'll learn a thing or two :)
Sorry, rotten,....never going to be good for anything. Thanks, Dad
Second, but 62 views already
He is a liar
Hi coach , I was at long distance , she is from USA and me from India . she broke relationship last month and now I am following no contact from one week but before I begged and pleaded many . Did I ruin my chance to back her ? What should I write after finish no contact