Broke Is Normal-Do You Really Want to Be Like Everyone Else? | December 19, 2024
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- The Ramsey Show | December 19, 2024
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I think the dad didn’t leave the money to the other daughters because they were already grown adults. She stated they are 18 years older than her and the dad died when the caller was 4. So they were both grown already
My thought exactly. 100k to a 26 year old is much more beneficial then going to a 44 year old. I don’t like the mother lol. Hate guilt tripping people
And he had been taking care of them since they were two. He did a lot for the step daughters.
They also have their own dad. Will they give baby sister half their inheritance when he dies? Doubt it.
@@Beginnerreadsthebible facts
Hi, was doing baby steps logic that Dave suggests in his books way before. He probably even thought of the concept and it worked for me. Don't get into student, did pay your bills so you could save money towards? Retirement and are things that you need?Have emergency fand be free of debt
caller 1 - 00:45
caller 2 - 10:40
caller 3 - 16:10
caller 4 - 25:00
caller 5 - 32:30
caller 6 - 36:10
caller 7 - 43:10
caller 8 - 53:30
caller 9 - 58:50
caller 10 - 1:05:40
caller 11 - 1:18:30
Thank you again
Thank you so much! I hate the ads
Not all heroes wear capes
Adam has too much time on his hands.
You doing this is the only reason I watch this show anymore. I listen to these at work and I can’t always skip the ads, but I can hit the time stamps
My first time commenting. The 26 year old woman just discovering her inheritance… I am 18 years younger than my oldest sibling. The economic situation they endured was much harsher than I. We all inherited equally, yet there is still jealousy that I received nicer things growing up than they did. Both of my parents passed before I was 20. I did not have them for counsel, to see my kids grow up, etc. I don’t begrudge my siblings these things that they enjoyed. I would consider the inheritance a poor trade for the family member. I do think her father wanted to be sure she would receive a token of his love for her, if he was not present.
I had the same thoughts, they got to spend time with her dad and she didn’t. I don’t like the mom at all
I think, based on common sense, the father was prioritizing there being money to raise his small minor child and the funds weren't correctly used.
First caller was interesting. I think a vacation would be a good way to show some appreciation & get some time together as a family.
Dave gets to the depth of the questions quickly.
experience
Jade is styling her Christmas season sweater and earrings. Lovely.
Great, but she is a cruise ship singer that embarrasses herself when trying to give advice in finance. It's the wrong move -
@@mattlaeff724 evidence?
The whole thing sounds like MOM is bound & determined to STAY IN CONTROL of her 26 yr. old daughter.
More than likely due to CO-DEPENDENCY.
NOT the daughter's problem.
If mom thinks her older daughters deserve a reward for helping HER she should do that
Jayden - Take your wife on a holiday before your baby arrives if you can. Holidaying with kids is a whole different experience and you could be waiting 15,16,18 years until you get to do it as a couple again. Do it now!
Caller 3 called in to snitch on his wife when he was spending his “fun money” too! Who needs enemies when you got a partner like that.
Ergh I know! If you've both agreed to that amount of 'fun money' in the budget then why gripe about how it was chosen to be spent by the person! And if you have a problem with that amount being spent by that person's choosing then don't have a 'fun budget' until you've paid of your debt/goals. Can cause relation issue if you gripe about what you agreed too!
@ exactly!
Yeah that was weird
I agree! They shook on it and, even then, they both seem to spend the fun momey on each other. I understand gazelle intensity but can he not take his wife out every once in a while? Or her buying him a gift for Christmas? You still have to have fun and date each other even in marriage
Exactly. He was mad because she was doing what they had agreed to?
Come on Dave with the biblical education 💚🙌🏾. Wonderful. I don't think the caller thought you would go there. 👍🏾
Who’s to say her sisters already got paid and she never found out about it?
The way the mother approached this, leads me to believe that possibility.
To the first caller. I was left a house once by my grandfather, me and my mom, the others never were around. I was left the house 10years prior to his passing. The whole 10 years everyone knew the house was to go to me and my mom. They were given property. When he died I was told I was irrelevant bc I was a grand child and my mom's three siblings were mad she didn't split it with them when we sold it. Been 3 years ago and the family is still broken up over it. So I see you hesitance. People are people and unless you have really understanding sisters I can see why you are worried about it.
This is so true. Family hasn't spent any time together since my grandmother passing and it's so sad.
PS IF SHE HAD ACCESS TO THE FUNDS AND INVESTED IT 5 YEARS AGO, THERE MAY HAVE BEEN 50K FOR EACH SISTER AND 100K FOR HER DOWN PAYMENT.
It's funny because I know the whole beans and rice thing is just a metaphor but after hearing it so many times I now crave rice and beans, have bought several pounds of both, and I'm not ashamed that I am looking forward to eating them.
You can do so much with rice and beans. There are so many varieties of both
On top of that the mom hid it from her. So yea no. Don’t go into debt. Use the gift for ur home. And repay there love with love
The caller stated that his girlfriend has been diagnosed with several illnesses and has Medicaid insurance. My advice is: don't get married now. If you do, your out-of-pocket costs will be significantly higher once she is added to your health insurance plan. I suggested waiting until you are financially secure before marrying her to avoid serious debt.
I recommend not marrying her at all lol stay together for decades if you want but no reason to make her what could become hundreds of thousands of dollars in medical debt to become yours.
I agree. No reason to get the state involved whatsoever. A wedding is in a church! The government needs not be involved.
59:40 Keep your grandma's credit card until you move in your apt in June. Your credit will plummet before it disappears.
I get the guilt, but why is it so hard to honor the dad's wishes? 🤨 This whole situation seems messy.
The dad's wishes were most likely that money be used to raise the caller since she was a child. He probably didn't intend his 22 year old step-daughters be guilted into taking on that burden after seeing their mom and toddler sister destitute.
Brain injury question is why folks should get good disability insurance especially if they have dependents
I ask myself if he didn’t leave something to the sisters which they’ve already took possession of because they were already old enough.
Same thought
Don't let her give up the Medicaid. It's the best insurance you can have. You can still put her on your insurance as a domestic partner.
His income is so low and they have a child so they should still be covered by Medicaid
Mark Cuban Cost Plus Drug Company maybe the drugs are cheaper there....
I don't like how he phrased/framed it, "My wife is PESTERING me to take a vacation". It says something about how he views the relationship at least.
At least he was honest with his statement
Pestering!!!
I want to be good, kind, compassionate and wise
I'm wondering 🤔 if 1st caller sharing (even a small portion) her inheritance could open her up for legal action against her to divide the inheritance equally? The lawyer could state that the caller acknowledged the sisters' contribution by sharing a portion of inheritance & recognized what the father did was wrong.
I agree with Dave but would also like to share it with my loved ones... especially if they're in need. What makes me weary is how easily the laws can & are preverted when it comes to selfish financial gain. 😢
No, she inherits all of it. The check can only be made out to her as the beneficiary.
She can choose to gift her sibs money at any time now or in the future.
BTW, Mom knew about this for 22 years.
She could have saved a gift for the other daughters or taken out a policy on herself for them.
My wealthy aunt changed her will about 30 days before her passing. All the boys (there was one… me) were cut-out of the will. My cousin took her inheritance and built a nice new home outside of San Francisco. My sister decided to pay-off her house but later blew the money. I got nothing. From what I understand I could quite possibly get nothing from my parents estate. It’s not that I’m bad seed, I would love to have children like me. I guess my point is fair, or not, it is their money and they can disperse it how they please. In my case it’s not the money, it’s the blatant slap in the face.
“When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.” Psalms 27.11
You guys are amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️thank you!!!!! ❤
Yes, I love Dave & Jade together. They are a great balance.
My husband and I had no credit and our first apartment required a co-sign for our lease, in Texas.
Student debts that has been around so long you think it’s a pet! 😂😂😂
I can’t imagine the guilt-tripping mom in the first call didn’t receive some life insurance money-why didn’t she give the older daughters money out of that?
23:39 - Dave Ramsey: Rick's wife has "house fever".
Christopher Walken: It needs more cowbell!!!
Caller 2 - sometimes if you are not on Medicaid there are more assistance programs for medications . Speaking from experience.
LOVE Jades sweater! That is too cute!
My answer to the guy that called about user readon't borrow money at all if you're that concerned with other people's debt problems
The second caller, John, is in Kentucky. It looks like Kentucky requires household income in determining eligibilty for Medicaid. If the couple is living togther, and it's a state requirement to report household income, then the fiance may not be eligible for Medicaid anymore regardless of marital status.
I don’t think they would require you to consider. A roommate, household income household usually points to you being married.
I did that with insurance money left by my mother. Give them something
Great Segment ❤ you 2
I wonder if the mom and sisters got an amount of money and theirs is gone? There is a reason…
Jade!!!! Thanks for pointing out the weird balance of power. Coming from an abusive marriage. When the man acts like the boss in a family it can be a sign of abuse and control. Thanks!
My favorite pairing 🥰
@1:00:40 Just a note, I was moving into an apartment and they told me that if I didnt allow them to run my credit that they would not process my application because it was a requirement. Its complete BS but it does happen.
They can run it, but there’s a difference between have no credit score or a low credit score..
It does make you wonder on the first caller if the other children had policies that were left to them that she is unaware of. But there is a reason why he left it to just her. And everyone knows that the children will get Social Security money until the age of 18 so it is very curious as to, what information she might not be aware of.
The older sisters may have an inheritance from their biological father as well.
My daughter moved out in July. She has a 0 credit score. Still needed a co-signer for an apartment. There are some places that don't care about credit history. They are often featured on The First 48.
there are many that will accept pay stubs or tax info, and just require an extra deposit
😂😂😂
Love the Disney Christmas sweater Jade!!!!
For the health insurance/meds guy- look at your policy, call them, see if the meds are covered. Also look at mark Cubans pharmacy to see if any of her medications can be bought for cheaper
The father left his only biological daughter 100K for a reason. He raised her two step sister for 2 years old. How do we know they was not left anything? Let’s be honest he could have sent his wife 2 daughter through collage and wanted his only bio daughter to have same opportunity. The mother lied and kept for the bio daughter the info on money what else did she and the step sister keep from her?
Second caller: tell her to change her diet, Keto/carnivore would help her a lot, keto was invented for seizures in the first place and it would help to lower the insulin costs way down.
Absolutely! I second this. I won’t go into details but my health situation was highly debilitating and carnivore is the only way I stay functional and out of the hospital and off medication.
It’s type 1 diabetes, meaning it’s not caused by poor diet, it’s genetic and the pancreas is already dead
Also seizures are caused by TBI, so there’s no reversing that either.
@@alexisbaxter2392true there is no reversing it however, it can be controlled with diet. You’ll have to look at the studies that have been out for decades, they’re pretty interesting.
Mark Cuban Cost Plus Drug Company maybe the medications are cheaper there
The girl that got an inheritance left over to her from her.Father's insurance should not be worried about giving it to her other half-sisters.Her father left her specifically the money because she is his child
No he likely left it b/c she was a small child with the intent it be used to raise her. Since it wasn't and the sisters took on that burden they deserve to be reimbursed from the fund that was supposed to be used in the first place.
Last caller has 100% been let go from previous employers due to his attitude.
She's healed and she's here or she's healed and in heaven 😢❤
Money don't make you happy, its within, you ll not get them to heaven
When your a dude and Dave calls you Honey, your cooked 😅
Also Jade, you’re debt free. You have the liberty to give to your sibs. You don’t have needs for it
The caller didn’t mention if she was debt free or not. For all we know she could be as well.
I would not get married in this guys case. He will be poor medically for the rest of their lives and never be able to get ahead. Stay on Medicaid save the $8000 and invest that for a secure retirement. It is easy for 2 people who have millions of dollars to never have to worry about a deductible and have to worry about where the money is coming from!!!!
Totally agree with you. The guy makes like 3500? Meeting that deductible and and cost sharing will be the end of him. He may have to work multiple jobs for the rest of his life just to put food on the table. They better stay single and live comfortably
mother's mistake.... the 2 half sisters should never have known about the father's daughter's inheritance!! Cinderella?
Maybe the Mother took some of it, and she has to look at the papers to see if Mom's not embezzled it and now wants the youngest daughter to divvy up so that the other two girls will not go to court over it.
Damn women will guilt trip eachother into ANYTHING. Youre gonna do that to your daughter over $100k? What a mess, cant imagine why she was a single mom of 2 before your dad came around.
I cannot believe how Dave is pushing back at her wanting to share with her sisters. Omgoodness even cut Jade off! I would totally give some to my sisters if they’ve sacrificed like she say they did. No she’s not obligated but you’d think THEY were guilting her into giving them money the way he responded
Shes not wanting too. She feels guilty if she doesn’t big difference. Follow the will if he wanted them to receive money they would have. I may share it but that depends on the family dynamic.
She'll be doing it out of guilt. Father raised the step siblings since they were very young. They experienced something she wont have the opportunity to, the love of her father. This was his way of leaving something for his daughter in case he was not there. She should honor that.
Let them buy the truck back!
Second caller, please dont get married. You are signing up for a life sentence those deductibles are not easy to meet on your income and there is no reason to work multiple jobs for the rest of your life to cover prescription cost. Also, what will happen if you lost your job? You would be paying hefty premiums on top of meeting the darn deductibles and cost sharing of things. These hosts are millionaires and your deductible is pocket change to them. Again, live together and stay single let medicaid continue paying for it. One less problem on your plate
she doesn’t sound convinced I think she’s still going to give them😮
We are in the same boat as the gentleman with the medical issues. Never get legally married. Have a wedding ceremony. There is not an out of pocket max on prescriptions. We were all diagnosed after we were legally married. I’m 52 and will be chasing this medical debt for the rest of my life. That’s with insurance. Have an anniversary party every year. Just file taxes separately. With long term medical issues you will never catch the curve. I’m so sorry, but that’s just the way it is in America.
Would she qualify for SSI? Worth checking out if your other issues qualify! Epilepsy meds aren’t expensive anymore because it’s generic if she on Lamictol (Lamotragine). There are also pharmacy discount cards that help a lot.
I’m 100% sure the dad left a whole separate life insurance policy for her sister that are 18 years older than her. Maybe they got their policy at 21 which would be about 20 years ago. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ they got there’s already
Too many parents are so good at the gulit thing....
He was not the sisters dad. Blood is blood
Imagine someone raised you from age 2 and doesn't treat you like their own 😢
Just had a much younger cousin say to me that “You’re not even a blood relative,” although I’ve been a member of this family since 20 years before she was born through my step-mother. Everyone in earshot gasped and guilted her into apologizing for what she thought was a cute joke. People show you who they are by their words and actions. I feel for the older sisters. Their mom allowed her husband to treat them as “less than.”
If they older sisters had a dad, then he wasn't their dad. Why do we gotta keep pretending the STEP in Step-parent doesn't exist?
should I have an IUL, Term life or what please educate us about this
With the first caller, I thought the way to go is generosity. Wouldn’t the right thing is give some back as a form of thank you? Maybe like 10% each? Idk 80k is still a lot to have.
No.
I agree!
Why? They didn't do anything expecting money so why would get it right now? Her father was there for the step siblings in a way he wasn't able to be for his daughter. At the end, the step daughters had more than her. This was her father's way of leaving something behind for her in case he couldn't be there.
WHY NOT GET MARRIED WITH THE BLESSING OF GOD BUT KEEP THE GOVERNMENT OUT OF IT?
IMO, THAT IS WHAT MOST MARRIAGES SHOULD BE.
On top of that the mom hid it from her. So yea no. Don’t go into debt. Use the gift for ur home. And repay there love with love. Or pay for a vacation. No one needs to know about your money. And if ur mom says anything. She is a troubled woman.
You don't need to get married if it will ruin both of your lives.
It's a variable or fixed rate mortage?
"Medicare is welfare". I really try not to feel ashamed for my (crumbling) empire, but statements like these make it really difficult.
Emmanuel,bro, Emmanuel, BRO. Wth are you talking about? You got a multiple princess situation and you've completely fell for it. This is only going to get worse and worse.
I never picked up the cup
IF SHE DECIDES TO BUY A LESS EXPENSIVE HOME, A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO HER HALF SISTERS WOULD BE A KIND THING TO DO. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
Lol superstitious guy
He sounds impulsive and bought the car out of anger and doesn’t ride the highs and lows of sales jobs.
Emmanuel was stressing me out😅
He is a lost puppy. He tried to buy a fiancee and her mom's love with that car, 100%. He's cooked
1:19:00 wait, did this dude just say he was a sugar daddy!?
Yes 😂
36:00 I have commented anti religion comments before and here’s another one. Your book club is making you jump through these hoops
I would like to know how much the other sisters and the mother already got.
Take the poor girl on a Babymoon! FFS.
I vehemently disagree Dave on this one and thankfully Marsha has some sense in this. Mother is dead wrong. No the younger daughter is not obligated to give anything to them but the older sisters were not obligated to step in amd raise her either, which is even more of a reason to give them something. Not saying to split $50K between the 2 but they should have something if for nothing else then being good people. Dave is 100% wrong on this one!!!
Dave said she could give some to the sisters. I hope she buys her house and gives later. He isn't wrong
The third caller is so messed up. I agree they shouldn’t have had all that fun money but he spent his on whatever. She has hers and been saving it but he wants her to throw it at the debt. Ya dolt.
Second called: In India it would cost you might be 7000 inr
I would split some of the money with the siblings..
I agree it doesn’t have to be split in 3 but throw $5000 to say thank you.
Dont agree with Dave on this about the sister. Not even a little.
I kindly disagree with Dave regarding the inheritance! There is absolutely no reason to share a portion of the money with siblings!
Charity is a good reason
@@cutthechicken194when you're b7
@@moni-b1t4u The comment above didn't say anything about steps
@@cutthechicken194 was referring to your comment
Ugh, I wish they would have let the idiot at the end explain why he needed a $56k car due to his mother in law
They LET him, but he was such a doofus, he can't get a coherent explanation out. He bought it because his mother in law said, that man ain't taking my baby and grandbabies out in no junker car, and he said yes ma'am. He is whipped big time, that relationship is going to be a nightmare
Why are people with zero experience, knowledge, wisdom, or expertise, put in front of a microphone on this 'show?'
Because Dave hires them and trusts them. Hey jealousy
"Mhmmm"
"Yup"
"Mhmmmm"
"Uh-huh"
"Mmmm"
"Yeah"
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This is what we get when they need a token. Hogan and AO definitely had faults, but at least they had brains.
Emmanuel needs to learn how to talk less and listen more.
Dave is wrong on the first call. That money was intended to be used to raise her since she was a child when he died. The sisters rightly deserve to be paid back for the money that they never should have had to spend.
No one made the sisters raise her, so there's no should have had to spend. You're assuming and Dave guessed. So what? His show not yours
@moni-b1t4u Right. They were just presented with a scenario where their toddler sister who just lost her dad is destitute and there's no money for her survival. They definitely gave money to raise her despite there being hundreds of thousands available for that purpose without any deceit or guilting. If you buy that then I have some prime oceanfront property in Kansas you'd be perfect for.
It doesn't matter if it's his show or not. He's still wrong. 1st, he's not an idiot so it should've been obvious to him the intent of that money from the jump and as such he should've recognized his sisters got screwed and very likely misled. 2nd, even tho the caller isn't under a legal obligation if she rightly felt the right thing to do was share some of it Dave was wrong to tell her that thought was wrong.
@janise01 they moved into the house and helped raise her. You write like you think they just transferred money into the mom's account. With no rent maybe they helped pay the mortgage where they All lived.
Maybe they stayed home with the girl while the mom worked or took her to the park and such. Maybe they supported each other while under the SAME roof Maybe they split bills with the mom. Maybe there's no pay back but love.
The young woman certainly was grateful for more than money
You don't pay back companionship with money
@@moni-b1t4u She said they financially contributed to raising her so clearly her mom, and thus her, was struggling.
Do you need spoon-fed here to see the obvious?
You seem to be missing the point that the caller isn't their kid and they put their lives on hold b/c they were presented a scenario where they needed to step in so she'd be cared for. If they stayed home to raise her and thus put their careers on hold then morally she should share some of her newfound wealth. If they were misled as to the finances (very likely) then morally she should help right the wrong that was done on her behalf. Hell even if she just wants to give them a gift then rightly she should do so. Again, Dave telling her she's wrong to think of sharing a bit with them is wrong.
Nowhere did she say they needed to financially contribute. The sisters just did. You need to be spoon fed the obvious that the sisters loved her as their own!
Nowhere did she say they were destitute or they gave up their careers!
They lived in the same damn house!
You seriously think all 3 just sat around?
The young lady didn't say her mom didn't work.
They loved her,and Dave said she could give them some if she wanted to BUT not out of guilt.
Love doesn't owe nothing but love.
the 2nd caller about the prescription drugs: here's a wild idea, figure out a way to get off the prescriptions. The conditions he mentioned can be managed without drugs. With some research you can find lots of options. People need to stop being slaves to the pharmaceutical companies
I think you should do some more research on type 1 diabetes before you go commenting
And epilepsy
Does the young wife want a house or a vacation. She needs to make some smart choices. Many expensive things happening in the quick coming year, years.
😢
Did Dave even comprehend the first call?!
did the mom receive an inheritance? she can choose to give that to 'her' daughters if she chooses. Even if said daughter gave the 2 half sisters something, because they know the amt, if she didn't give them both 1/3 they may still be angry, I would say, I need to pray on it and I'm not going to do anything with the money right now, I am going to seek counsel and try to honor my father's wises. I would invest and wait and literally not spend it and see if they ask about it throughout the years.
She wants to use the money for a down payment on a house. Dave believes that's honoring the father
@@moni-b1t4u I know that, however; she's calling in because she is torn about giving anything to the half-sisters, thus, my comments. she can still honor her father and try to keep the peace with the family she has left. Dave is good on financial matters but not always the best on emotional issues. I will always leave blame on the dead family member. at the very least the father should have left a letter to the 2 grown stepdaughters, that these are his wishes. will the half-sisters share their biological father's inheritance with said sister???
@@Wordsmatter4u I agree with you about the family members leaving a letter explanation or changing the will to make things clear.
My grandma caused a deep rift between my mom and her sisters, and my mom and dad caused an even deeper rift between their 5 children all because they were afraid to be assertive.
Funny and sad thing is all 3 were aggressive people.
I hope the young lady puts the money on her future house.
@@moni-b1t4u Sorry to hear about your situation, I also had a similar one. I'm in agreement about the daughter spending the money that her father left her the way she chooses. however, she was calling in because she didn't know how to handle the situation the mother had caused with the 2 half sisters. this young lady wants to honor her dad AND keep her family. Sometimes this is not possible, I've been there as well. not easy. such a shame the mother didn't do the right thing and not tell her 2 much older children about her youngest daughter's inheritance. I would love for Dave to do a 'follow up' with this caller to see what she ended up doing.
@Wordsmatter4u good point. I wish they would do a follow up,too
Her mom worships money
Let me start by saying whatever Dave and others advice in this show do not apply to me, once in while I click on these videos to see Dave loose his mind to some of the callers. However I see time after time that when Dave is in the show he talks 90% of the time and he cuts off the other host compare when he is not in it is more of a 50-50. I can't wrap my mind around that when people start talking back he hangs up on them and keep talking like never happens.
They stupid bro