HOW OUR FAMILIES REACTED| GOOD, BAD AND UGLY

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  • In today’s video we discuss about how our families reacted to us being in a relationship with each other.
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  • @jennyschatocastle6123
    @jennyschatocastle6123 3 года назад +649

    My husband is Caucasian and I'm a black woman. His family was very upset when he introduced me. This was ten years ago. And I can still feel the humiliation. A very painful time in both of our lives. What shocked me was the hatred they had towards me, simply because of my skin. We barely knew each other. We never spoke before. But once they saw a black woman, they shut me down. My husband spoke to them many times, but after ten years, he no longer speaks to his family. So much damage was done, coming at a cost of our peace. Sadly, since we stop talking to them, we found so much peace in our marriage. It was difficult decision for us, but his family wasn't willing to change their prejudice and racist ways. No one should have to suffer in this kind of treatment. Every human should be treated fair.🙏🏿♥️

    • @childofGodsKingdom
      @childofGodsKingdom 3 года назад +54

      J Vall I am sadden by that truth. It's in the heart of man and only God can take that evil away. I'm glad your husband cut the cord and cleaved to you, his wife. That is how it should be anyway, so please love him dearly and treat him with much respect. God bless your marriage.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +44

      Wow. Sorry to hear that you experienced that. Yes it is very sad. I just continue to pray for change. It’s so sad to see people get caught up on differences and pour out hate because of it. I’ll be glad when this hate stops being taught from generation to generation. Thanks for sharing your story with us!! God bless!!🙏🏽❤️🥰

    • @chey_7613
      @chey_7613 3 года назад +14

      I am glad to have come across such an experience for now I have an Asian boyfriend and wants to introduce me soon to his family and part of his family are racist and always felt they will never accept me but after reading your experience I have hope for we love each other and we happy and feel if family would not accept me I will have to turn a blind eye and live life

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +27

      @@chey_7613 that’s all you can do. We don’t have time to wait on others to accept who we choose to be with. No time for hate. No time for racism. Keep doing you and keep God first.

    • @zayidm3218
      @zayidm3218 3 года назад +27

      So true. Kudos to your hubby for walking away. Many Caucasian males marry Caucasian not for love but for how it look and to please their family. For him to marry for love is much respect

  • @TEE_SUNSHINE
    @TEE_SUNSHINE 3 года назад +586

    I think it’s the way he talks that people could think he is black. His voice has soul. Y’all energy is 🙌🏽💜

  • @notfunny5013
    @notfunny5013 3 года назад +73

    Imagine a world full of human beings embracing each other simply because they are just that...human beings.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Yes!!!❤️❤️

    • @kf9346
      @kf9346 3 года назад +2

      Or rather than imagining it, make it so.
      Remember, what you experience in the US is not "the world." You are only a small part of the world and your experience is not the Human experience, just one small slice of it. The first thing folks in the US really have to break out of is the concept of "race." It's a socially constructed concept that reinforces racism and a racist mindset. Until Americans stop speaking and thinking in terms of lines that separate different kinds of people, rather than in terms of a gradation of skin tones on a spectrum and overlapping aspects of identity, you won't get there.

    • @LeileeBaker805
      @LeileeBaker805 3 года назад +1

      👏yess

  • @albania8982
    @albania8982 3 года назад +340

    I've been with my wife for 21years and coming from a country we neva saw black people or any other races it was a bit of shock for my family in Albania but no way anyone was disrespectful to my wife and they welcomed her with open arms. No way that I will alow anyone disrespecting my wife. 🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱no matter what colour it is. But my people loved her. 🇦🇱🇦🇱

    • @shinebrightlikeadiamond6411
      @shinebrightlikeadiamond6411 3 года назад +10

      @Chumnley snoop absolutely true. It means they want there child to be happy. And as mother myself that's the main thing for me, is my son going to be happy with the person he chose to be with, because I can rest in peace knowing that he's been loved and safe.

    • @rofo4610
      @rofo4610 3 года назад +7

      The history of America especially the south created deep divisions.

    • @rofo4610
      @rofo4610 3 года назад +2

      There was a need for many whites to distance themselves from the ex slaves after the war.

    • @lucreziavilante5993
      @lucreziavilante5993 3 года назад +2

      Oh waw! I bet you guys have beautiful kids!

    • @rofo4610
      @rofo4610 3 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/YPr5gYiuKlM/видео.html

  • @michellegousios566
    @michellegousios566 3 года назад +422

    I’m Puerto Rican my husband is Greek my oldest daughter is living with her black boyfriend and my middle daughter is gay !!! So we are a beautiful blended happy accepting family.

    • @tracilewis2483
      @tracilewis2483 3 года назад +11

      Love it. Love it. Love it !!!

    • @uniquebeauty633
      @uniquebeauty633 3 года назад +9

      Not the gay thing its not the same!

    • @frankmount8407
      @frankmount8407 3 года назад +5

      That’s so funny !! You have one really interesting "genetic gumbo" going on !! If you’re all having fun with each other, good for you !!! 👍🏻‼️

    • @kimberlyjeanpierre7540
      @kimberlyjeanpierre7540 3 года назад +3

      💞

    • @evamz9584
      @evamz9584 3 года назад +6

      @@uniquebeauty633
      Most people know homosexuality is not the same as interracial relationships but the enemy keeps people in denial.
      Its not up to any of us to convince them, only God can do this.
      Please Pray for them and for all of us to Trust in Jesus.

  • @JRenee-Sings
    @JRenee-Sings 3 года назад +352

    Don't take this the wrong way, but that white Man got soul & swagger

  • @feemac6561
    @feemac6561 3 года назад +296

    White or black I can tell Jay is a man's man!!! You are both blessed!

    • @lindafelder6385
      @lindafelder6385 3 года назад +5

      Most black families don't have interracial probably they accept more quicker. We was raise to love everybody. You ,at have a few here and there.

    • @foxfire1894
      @foxfire1894 3 года назад +2

      So true.

    • @scorpion777silvermoon3
      @scorpion777silvermoon3 3 года назад

      He is strong...nice couple.. Soioo why do you say its all your money.. Very condescending

    • @homodeus8713
      @homodeus8713 3 года назад

      That's right

    • @spookyl9946
      @spookyl9946 3 года назад

      What exactly is a “man’s man”?

  • @kf9346
    @kf9346 3 года назад +27

    "Would be boring if we all looked the same..." Such a nice, simple, elegant way to say so much. Love this guy!

    • @vanessalucas5553
      @vanessalucas5553 3 года назад +1

      Just put in in Gods hands because we all bleed red I have biracial counsins and I love them all the same. We are all God's children 🙏♥️♥️

  • @atp2016
    @atp2016 3 года назад +178

    I love the way she doesn't interrupt him.

    • @mariahc.crawley884
      @mariahc.crawley884 3 года назад +16

      She Is So Feminine Chill
      ...WITH REALNESS! Loving That!

    • @DestinyMusgrove
      @DestinyMusgrove 3 года назад +9

      Years of patience and love 😂

    • @Stephanie-007
      @Stephanie-007 3 года назад +16

      Their mutual respect for one another is undeniable.

    • @MsWaxxySoapChic
      @MsWaxxySoapChic 3 года назад +8

      She has such a sweet demeanor and he’s looking at her with such admiration. She looks at him so lovingly and you two make people understand real Love.

    • @cdnnykr
      @cdnnykr 3 года назад +2

      @@mariahc.crawley884 this is what a Black woman is like when she is with a real man, regardless of his skin.

  • @lmitch0910
    @lmitch0910 3 года назад +113

    “God made us all equal.” Amen 🙏🏼

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      🙏🏽

    • @karenjones9149
      @karenjones9149 3 года назад +3

      I've always felt that way, even when it wasn't popular... like many have said here, "GOD IS LOVE"

    • @dotgoodwin4312
      @dotgoodwin4312 3 года назад +1

      What a great story!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      @@dotgoodwin4312 thank u

  • @jenniferharden2258
    @jenniferharden2258 3 года назад +124

    I admire how you guys TOTALLY respect one another. I truly get the impression you guys are best friends also. 😊

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much🥰🙏🏽

    • @C2yourself
      @C2yourself 3 года назад +1

      Totally best friends, much love and respect between them

  • @donnatamburelli3106
    @donnatamburelli3106 3 года назад +101

    I've raised my children like this: it doesn't matter the color of someone's skin, but how they treat you and their character. We are ALL God's creation. May God bless your family and relationship

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank u🙏🏽
      God bless!!!🥰❤️

  • @lifecanbebeautiful6548
    @lifecanbebeautiful6548 3 года назад +122

    I am sorry but that is a black man, just kidding but he definitely loves this lady and his body language speaks it.

  • @kylieelle2517
    @kylieelle2517 3 года назад +50

    She’s beautiful! I love the way he looks at her when she is speaking! I love how she is so still when he speaks too. This looks like it took work for get to but it was rooted with love at the core. Making me blush

  • @stephsinger5163
    @stephsinger5163 3 года назад +107

    Why can’t people just live and let live??? Who cares what color someone is as long as they make your family or friend happy... love is love. Ignorant folks are all around us. If my kids brought home a smurf I wouldn’t care if everyone was happy. You guys are beautiful. ❤️ don’t let anyone that’s negative rent space in you’re head. Live and be well

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +5

      The smurf comment!!🤣😂😂
      But it’s true!! I feel you!!
      Thanks for your words!!🥰🙏🏽❤️

    • @margocrenshaw4944
      @margocrenshaw4944 3 года назад +4

      You made laugh, you don't care if they come with a smurf. Love you,GOD BLESS.

    • @stephsinger5163
      @stephsinger5163 3 года назад +1

      @@margocrenshaw4944 👍💙

    • @lindafelder6385
      @lindafelder6385 3 года назад +2

      As long as two people love and respect each other that's all matter. People needs to stop that old mess about color.

    • @karenjones9149
      @karenjones9149 3 года назад +1

      Amen to that!!!

  • @Mingo579
    @Mingo579 3 года назад +118

    Jay doesn't have to be white if he doesn't want to! The silky soft timbre of his voice...that soft hispanic tinge to his skin, not orange. That 1% paid off richly...This is my first time seeing you guys. Sister, you are gorgeous. beautiful couple.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Thank you 🙏🏽❤️🥰

    • @kristineill2378
      @kristineill2378 3 года назад +7

      Beautiful couple. Every ethnicity comes in every shade including white people but orange? Do you see naturally orange white people? If you see that it comes from a tanning lotion or bed or what have you. I'm not pink, not orange, not white.....I'm buff beige. Lol! Btw some families don't just shun you if you marry a different ethnicity. My husbands' family shuns us because we have a profoundly disabled adult child. Some people fear difference, they fear what they don't understand and don't like being out of their comfort zone. So it's easier for them to pretend you don't exist any longer. I call these people...LOSERS.

    • @gailrobinson7023
      @gailrobinson7023 3 года назад +1

      Blessings and prayers and happiness to you always you are a beautiful couple ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @emilemarie3804
    @emilemarie3804 3 года назад +40

    People we don’t need permission we Love who we Love, LOVE is wonderful 😊

  • @suzannemorrow2448
    @suzannemorrow2448 3 года назад +129

    The black community is allllllllllways accepting

    • @alishafrazier8025
      @alishafrazier8025 3 года назад +16

      Not always!!! My ex’s family would not accept me because I was too dark soooo....🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @missy3505
      @missy3505 3 года назад +10

      😂 Not true

    • @nckayakbassinlife9342
      @nckayakbassinlife9342 3 года назад +6

      That's not true.

    • @Siberia087
      @Siberia087 3 года назад +4

      Definitely not true.

    • @goodieyummyumm5650
      @goodieyummyumm5650 3 года назад +3

      @@alishafrazier8025 she meant to others sis . Uk how bm . NVM NVM this a wholesome channel I'm not gonna start

  • @sundressjones4426
    @sundressjones4426 3 года назад +40

    Jay, it’s your voice and vibe. You give off the vibe of a genuine human being not a black or white thing. I like y’all and I’m wishing both of you the best life has to offer 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kaleahcollins4567
    @kaleahcollins4567 3 года назад +178

    Where can I find one like him . 🙋🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +6

      😂😂

    • @kaleahcollins4567
      @kaleahcollins4567 3 года назад +7

      @@SheSaidHeSaid sis he's a hoot he reminds me of my first love John he was literally the same way but he was a proud Italian no matter what.

    • @latrice2236
      @latrice2236 3 года назад +25

      Whew Chile..like if imma crossover its gonna have to be like that👀😂😂 Lord I see what you do for otha's. 😂

    • @chanelrose5045
      @chanelrose5045 3 года назад +4

      @@latrice2236 🤣🤣🤣

    • @JMJ5LIVING5SINGLE
      @JMJ5LIVING5SINGLE 3 года назад +14

      Yes!!! Is that available on Amazon or Ebay?

  • @elizabethgarner4705
    @elizabethgarner4705 3 года назад +114

    My dad passed away and he never met my late husband because he didn't come to our wedding and when I said I would bring him over so they could meet my dad told me "don't bother unless he's as black as me". That statement hurt me to the core and put distance between my dad and I. My mom loved my late husband and his family. We are all God's children and I thank Him for giving me the best mother-in-law ever.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +10

      Wow I’m sure that did hurt. Sorry you had to go through that. It’s things like that, that I’ll never understand. 😔
      Thank you for sharing that story with us and we appreciate you watching🙏🏽❤️❤️

    • @kaleahcollins4567
      @kaleahcollins4567 3 года назад +7

      I understand. To him that was a rejection of him personally. For daughters usually go for a man like their FATHER. So for you to do that in his mind you wasn't trying to find a man like him you was running from him and what he is

    • @blakberree1217
      @blakberree1217 3 года назад

      Im sorry for your loss.

    • @real8551
      @real8551 3 года назад +1

      @Lisa Shipley right. Funny how they straight up called Jay family racist but all this fancy dancing around the issue of her father being a black racist . Stop it .

    • @real8551
      @real8551 3 года назад +4

      @@kaleahcollins4567 bs to the highest degree. Same racist attitude regardless of from whom. Black people can be racist too so let’s be honest about it.

  • @joyceroquemore959
    @joyceroquemore959 3 года назад +68

    ya'll are so positive ---- and cute ------ and wise !

  • @Divested_Jedi
    @Divested_Jedi 3 года назад +72

    On a random note: your locs are so pretty.

  • @jessicaaye3738
    @jessicaaye3738 3 года назад +205

    Y'all better stop lusting over this woman's husband 🧐🤣

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +11

      😂

    • @marisgoldenhour6212
      @marisgoldenhour6212 3 года назад +25

      😂😂😂 I was thinking the same.......while appreciating the timbre of his voice. 😁 In all seriousness, they are a beautiful family with beautiful souls.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +7

      @@marisgoldenhour6212 thank you🙏🏽❤️

    • @linikkithompson1092
      @linikkithompson1092 3 года назад +16

      He is phine though..lol

    • @mariefpaul1875
      @mariefpaul1875 3 года назад +18

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 just appreciating the good job sister did

  • @kimariokiji
    @kimariokiji 3 года назад +55

    Rasha and Jay, very sorry one side of your family are close minded and prejudiced. I don’t know you but you both seem easy to love. At the very least - it’s good to know where people truly stand. If there’s any consolation; you are getting streams of love and caring from your viewers. Take it easy and like you said “keep it moving.”

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Kimberly. We really appreciate the kind words and thank u for watching and supporting❤️🙏🏽

  • @josiekendall
    @josiekendall 3 года назад +6

    The way he looks at her...he's so smitten. I love them.

  • @edithmoore2023
    @edithmoore2023 3 года назад +126

    He has an accent as if he's from Louisiana

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +64

      I am!

    • @KittyClark4433
      @KittyClark4433 3 года назад +35

      I can hear da cajun in his voice👍

    • @zanawashington4472
      @zanawashington4472 3 года назад +6

      I was about to say, he's from my neck of the woods! I can hear it

    • @MD-sv2fy
      @MD-sv2fy 3 года назад +9

      Yeah I knew it. But being from da boot myself, I wouldve just assumed you are creole/cajun.

    • @shamikaaustin2524
      @shamikaaustin2524 3 года назад +3

      @@MD-sv2fy I agree👍🏽 My Husband from Lafayette..

  • @mayastill258
    @mayastill258 3 года назад +70

    My first relationship as a adult my bf was Italian and his mom called me the "pretty dark girl" I just was over the racist comments and remarks. I ended it for my mental health cause he was a moms boys and never defended me. I respect you guys for being so honest. A lot of people avoid interracial relationships because they don't want to deal with family drama. Great video

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +18

      I can definitely understand why you did that. Things can be a headache. I think the biggest factor in your case is you said he never defended you. That goes a long way. It shows where they are mentally with it. Thanks for sharing your story. ❤️🙏🏽

    • @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt
      @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt 3 года назад +1

      Facts

  • @blinkbody3270
    @blinkbody3270 3 года назад +26

    It's usually the black side thats more forgiving which can be a blessing or a curse. 😳 Stay strong. Live your life.

    • @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt
      @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt 3 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @sinverrette9803
      @sinverrette9803 2 месяца назад

      Yep I said the same thing in my comment. They can't even verbalize why they hate us so much...but we can go on for years the pain-- imma leave it alone.

  • @WP1097
    @WP1097 3 года назад +38

    He looks like a Canadian lumberjack, but he sounds like a bruthah! Seriously tho, you two compliment one another. I had some push back from my father in law but everyone else embraced me and we still keep in touch even tho I'm divorced now.

  • @xxmoonlightxx6304
    @xxmoonlightxx6304 3 года назад +24

    My neighbor is white and. We are just friends, he doesn't have transportation so if I go shopping, wash my clothes, he usually go with me. People, he's a nice person. So stop looking at us like we have three heads.

  • @sabrinachevere3826
    @sabrinachevere3826 3 года назад +91

    Like Michael Jackson said it don't matter if you're black or white

    • @jahmehkanhorn1063
      @jahmehkanhorn1063 3 года назад +7

      However he did everything to make himself white so he did believe it mattered.

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 3 года назад +1

      @@jahmehkanhorn1063 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Exactly

    • @FlyGemini79
      @FlyGemini79 3 года назад +2

      After this deep conversation thats all you could come up with??? Like Michael also said, "beat it". Smh

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 3 года назад +1

      @@votesudanusa indeed! Lol

  • @abbdabb6219
    @abbdabb6219 3 года назад +72

    I’m white and my son’s father is black.......BOTH sides were not having it til my baby boy came❤️

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +6

      How are things now days?

    • @bossqueenchannel3100
      @bossqueenchannel3100 3 года назад +10

      I think it’s crazy when ppl look at each other skin color because you can have the same skin color as your partner and he can treat you like shit ppl need to just get over it because god made ppl to love each other and I’m so happy the baby open up grown ppl think and now they have to love each other I’m happy it worked for both sides of the family stay strong 💪

    • @bossqueenchannel3100
      @bossqueenchannel3100 3 года назад +3

      I’m sorry He said She said that was not to you guys

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      @@bossqueenchannel3100 no worries

    • @NicoleOrji
      @NicoleOrji 3 года назад +4

      Yup alot of times the grandchildren break down those walls.

  • @sandrabarrett7837
    @sandrabarrett7837 3 года назад +111

    How did Jay become so open minded, kind and caring. Who taught u all that good stuff?

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +173

      Can’t really say who taught me. Guess it’s just life experiences. Plus I’ve always put God first and God is love.

    • @miaflowers3572
      @miaflowers3572 3 года назад +15

      @@SheSaidHeSaid Amen Jay!

    • @sandrabarrett7837
      @sandrabarrett7837 3 года назад +19

      Much blessings to u and your family. U two make a strong couple.

    • @bridgetmavuma2002
      @bridgetmavuma2002 3 года назад +12

      SheSaidHeSaid amen and may He continue to walk with you both❤️🙏🏾

    • @C2yourself
      @C2yourself 3 года назад +3

      Open mind and caring is his true nature and thank God his parent's bias didn't infect him. Good Lord, love is great and to each his/ her own❤💕🙏

  • @justicelove4745
    @justicelove4745 3 года назад +53

    I admire you guys for being strong for your children and endured the unnecessary withdrawals from disapproving family members.🙏🏼 Yes continue to pray for them and keep the door open for them that's all you can do I agree❤ Beautiful Family Love You Guys❤

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +4

      Thank you so much!
      Thanks for watching again!!🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @kenyareed7668
    @kenyareed7668 3 года назад +105

    Your a cute couple, I think your husband is handsome

  • @Estheticiris9748
    @Estheticiris9748 3 года назад +49

    When I hear these stories I realize how blessed I am. My husband is " of European decent"😂😂 and I am not. Black and proud!!😊. But my in laws have always been loving. In fact I tease my husband his mother loves me more. My family loves my husband also. But, the fact that I sometimes forget that everyone doesn't have my experiences. And it humbles me. I appreciate the respect you show your family even while you handle the disappointments it may have caused.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +5

      Thanks so much for sharing your story🙏🏽
      And regardless we are blessed!!
      I’m so glad that you and your husband have great interaction and love from both sides!!❤️❤️🙏🏽

    • @stl9895
      @stl9895 3 года назад +4

      Love this post!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      @@stl9895 thank u🥰

    • @Estheticiris9748
      @Estheticiris9748 3 года назад +7

      @james michael hugs 🤗 because you need one

    • @Mingo579
      @Mingo579 3 года назад +1

      @james michael Well clearly this is about that 5% so it's okay, James.😍

  • @saleemahfareed4790
    @saleemahfareed4790 3 года назад +24

    I like the both of you very down to earth y'all real 🖐🏾👍🏾

  • @eileenedmonson9485
    @eileenedmonson9485 3 года назад +6

    I love the way he makes her laugh and how they treat each other with such love and respect.

  • @moniquehunt4475
    @moniquehunt4475 3 года назад +4

    I love how he looks at her, it is absolutely beautiful. He has much SWAGGER! People are just people. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍

  • @deegee7424
    @deegee7424 3 года назад +11

    "You love who you love." So true?

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 3 года назад +17

    Now i know why i am hooked to your channel.Wisdom galore.Important is,that someone has to start it,and that is you.Appreciated.

  • @shirleymalone583
    @shirleymalone583 3 года назад +14

    You are SO right in saying that there is only one race. I'm sorry that your family are missing out but it is what it is. Y'all continue moving forward and loving each other! " A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife".☺

  • @davidpeters3322
    @davidpeters3322 3 года назад +2

    This is the 3rd video I've watched of SheSaidHeSaid and I love the way they look at one another. I see nothing but love there.

  • @songsofsolace1620
    @songsofsolace1620 3 года назад +5

    Interestingly, Im black and my family was very excepting. My husband is lebanese and he has fought and tried to educate his family on their unaccepting attitude towards me. They love the grandkids and after 32 years we are very cordial towards each other. It was nothing but the grace of God giving me a forgiving spirit for them. My heart goes out to Jay.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      It’s sad anybody has to fight for these types of things. People should love. There is too much hate.
      Thank you for sharing your experiences. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @saleemahfareed4790
    @saleemahfareed4790 3 года назад +32

    Jay only thing y'all can do is pray for your family

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Most definitely!! Can’t and won’t worry about it!!

  • @kaleahcollins4567
    @kaleahcollins4567 3 года назад +18

    History repeats itself and he was when there was somebody in his family his ancestral paternal line that dipped in the chocolate to

  • @jamesbrown8758
    @jamesbrown8758 3 года назад +7

    Love is love....everybody have soulmate. You guys are soulmate. That’s why there are a lot of divorces because they just get married just because, not knowing they’re not soulmate. Soulmate is deep....

  • @valdenelucas2349
    @valdenelucas2349 3 года назад +8

    Jay this issue will never end, the important thing is for you is to concentrate on your family, the most affecting part is the kids, not having a relationship with the kids is so wrong on all levels, anyway way continue to have faith and always put god first...Love is love..😊😊

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thanks for your kind words🙏🏽
      We appreciate you watching!! Thank u🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @kristakitchen2559
    @kristakitchen2559 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing..... I was in a interracial marriage for 12 yrs, and when we first started dating he said you will never meet my grandfather, but the rest of his family was great and no issues. we are divorced now but still friends our daughter is 17 now and his family adores her.... But I wish everyone had a story like that !!!!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      That’s great to hear his family was accepting! Thanks for sharing!! ❤️🙏🏽

  • @louisefrost2290
    @louisefrost2290 3 года назад +1

    You are both a perfect example of acceptance . There is too much hate in this world and you are a breath of FRESH AIR

  • @dianamarietv4479
    @dianamarietv4479 3 года назад +1

    Baaaaabbbbeeee!!!! When I close my eyes and listen to your handsome hubby, OMG! His vernacular, rhythm, tone, and cadence reflects deep Soul! Never heard such a thing that is so very natural. Beautiful.

  • @janelatimer7324
    @janelatimer7324 3 года назад +7

    The Grandparents that refused to be a part of this Family and the children of this Beautiful Union are the ones who are missing out! This is their Loss and that's very Sad

  • @joannjohnson8334
    @joannjohnson8334 3 года назад +18

    I love your honesty and candor. You two are the real deal. I love it. I am an equal opportunity dater, as long as you treat me right.

  • @a.ireenefortune1553
    @a.ireenefortune1553 3 года назад +1

    Love is colorless, and you both got that right. You two are happier than ‘them’ !

  • @Hampdensipnpaint
    @Hampdensipnpaint 3 года назад +3

    My white sone is in love with a beautiful black woman, and I ADORE her. I can't WAIT until she becomes my daughter-in-law. I am sorry to hear your beautiful family has experienced prejudice. You are wonderful!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thanks for watching and for sharing 🥰❤️

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 3 года назад +16

    When I was dating my now ex boyfriend, who is white, he spent every holiday, birthday, any and all special events with my family for almost 10 years. They loved him and treated him like he was a brother, uncle or cousin. But not once in those almost 10 years did I ever get invited to be with his side of the family, except for with his mom and stepdad for any special family events. He claims that some of his extended family members were racists and he just wanted to avoid the negative comments and fights that would probably happen by having me show up to a family gathering. I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt my feelings. I wish he had invited me anyway but it is what it is. As I stated, he's my ex now lol.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Sorry you had to deal with that. It’s very sad anyone has to go through that type of nonsense. Thanks for sharing your experiences. 🙏🏽🥰

  • @pat7679
    @pat7679 3 года назад +6

    I love the way he talks.

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin6211 3 года назад +8

    Love the way you explain that without bashing anyone LOVE YOUR ENERGY !!!!

  • @CBerry-zw9go
    @CBerry-zw9go 3 года назад +66

    What I wanna know is how does he have that "soulful attitude, voice and mannerisms" and his family don't like black people. I mean they had a black person living in their house already...just saying!

  • @trynisetaylor3068
    @trynisetaylor3068 3 года назад +5

    His voice 😍😍😍 !!!

  • @janicejackson9228
    @janicejackson9228 2 года назад +3

    Like someone said..Look at God! We're your extended Fam! All kinds of colors🤣 She has a sense of humor😜

  • @terri6904
    @terri6904 3 года назад +2

    I see how hurt he is & he is apparently embarrassed that his family has done that & that his wife had to go thru that because he loves his wife. Ya'll have done the right thing to be happy together as a family. Too Blessed to keep hurt or anger in your soul.

  • @alishamurdock3796
    @alishamurdock3796 3 года назад +1

    I wish the world had nothing but beautiful people like you. I feel the same way. 🕊 Bless you both.

  • @raindrops1942
    @raindrops1942 3 года назад +25

    So the white family is missing out in this beautiful-ness?? Too bad for them.

  • @jackieheavens
    @jackieheavens 3 года назад +7

    The lady really acts mature,and she has a very beautiful smile,beautiful❤

  • @music4thesoul-bymastalee6375
    @music4thesoul-bymastalee6375 3 года назад +1

    You love who you love! Respect, Peace and Blessings.

  • @praise777always9
    @praise777always9 3 года назад +1

    He definitely has swag!!! I appreciate your relationship, you guys are awesome!!!!

  • @karenjohnson4656
    @karenjohnson4656 3 года назад +4

    I can only imagine how much that hurts. You are still hanging in there! I love it 14 years and going strong.

  • @kishgrant4078
    @kishgrant4078 3 года назад +7

    I didn't read the title very closely, I thought this was going to be a reaction to the film The Good, the bad and the ugly lol!! Enjoyed it anyway✌️🇨🇦

  • @tafferloncunningham7421
    @tafferloncunningham7421 3 года назад +2

    Just came across your video, thumbs up to you both. My husband white, I'm black, we're both 67. My family accepted him right away, His family, not so much in the beginning. After 21 years, they see it was meant to be, so now they're just now coming around. Love conquers all!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      That’s awesome to hear!!! Congrats on your marriage!! Many blessings to you both🙏🏽🥰❤️

  • @peach3611
    @peach3611 3 года назад +1

    The energy is love and that’s all that matters. And you guys have it. I love that.

  • @ileniepowell
    @ileniepowell 3 года назад +3

    I do appreciate your views. You are two conscious individuals and its wonderful to listen to you. Every blessing to your family.🙏

  • @janiceharper-baptiste8735
    @janiceharper-baptiste8735 2 года назад +3

    I give you guys all the praise...to be able to endure the truths about Jay's side of the family. Jay...how did you escape their way of thinking. You are a wonderful man in every sense. I have biracial grand kids. I'm happy knowing the white grandparents are accepting as well...but when it comes to the great grands...they are not.
    I taught my children to love a person for who they are not their skin color. And make sure they treat one another well. I will teach my grand children the same. The times we are living in that's all we can ask of one another. May God continue to bless your family.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  2 года назад

      Thanks for sharing with us. It wasn’t really an escape for me. I just never thought like that. To me it was just common sense that all people are the same. Who am I? Why am I different than anyone else? I’m not! I’m no better than anyone just as they are no better than me. We are all humans. Just always been my thinking.

  • @tanyahart2396
    @tanyahart2396 3 года назад +1

    Most important thing is that y'all got mad love for each other. Build on that and keep it moving. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jackiemizell9962
    @jackiemizell9962 3 года назад +1

    Pray they come around, and wishing you love, peace, and happiness.

  • @shabrettefreeman6370
    @shabrettefreeman6370 3 года назад +4

    I just want to thank you for sharing your stories with us. This specific topic will help many others. Shout out from Louisiana and cannot wait for the video about the DNA. I am in love with you guys.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Your welcome!!🙏🏽
      What city Shabrette?
      Thanks for watching!❤️

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 3 года назад +7

    " judge by the content of character not the colour of the skin." MLK
    Love you both
    Beautiful channel
    Thanks for sharing

  • @derekwalters4980
    @derekwalters4980 3 года назад +1

    Two beautiful people. THIS is what we need more of in the world.

  • @kathleeng1592
    @kathleeng1592 3 года назад +2

    Love how you guys explained about your kids.

  • @brigettetucker6599
    @brigettetucker6599 3 года назад +39

    Dont worry one day them going to realize how they miss out .

  • @carmenblanchard3596
    @carmenblanchard3596 3 года назад +5

    Hi, your kids aren’t missing out on anything bcuz your family doesn’t want a relationship with them. Relationships are built on love and respect which they aren’t willing to show, or sadly don’t feel for your children. Until their hearts change, there can’t be a relationship. I love the way the two of you are handling the matter. Best wishes to your family and I do hope the family has a change of heart.

  • @deecarter3983
    @deecarter3983 3 года назад +1

    My first time seeing your channel ever. What i like most is the look of love you share one towards the other. That is truly what loving and living life is about. We need more people like you in world...people who simply know how to love! Thanks for the happy feelings!

  • @carolewarrenrealtor
    @carolewarrenrealtor 3 года назад +1

    Happy to come across your video, thanks for sharing real talk around cultural challenges. Can relate ;)
    Love happens and I choose to embrace what makes me happy ... was grateful for the opportunity.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching🙏🏽🥰

  • @mol-charles3616
    @mol-charles3616 3 года назад +3

    Wow, thank you for sharing this with us. This is a touchy subject. Most notably I want to applaud that regardless of the situation, Jay ended up following his heart. That is the most beautiful part. I can't imagine anyone not following their hearts desire.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much and thanks for watching. Yes, we must follow our hearts!

  • @sabrinasheppard4614
    @sabrinasheppard4614 3 года назад +11

    I love how you respect your family inspite of their rejection. Kudos to both of you!!

  • @EviesHangout
    @EviesHangout 3 года назад +2

    My heart hurts for you, but y’all are such a loving, kind and caring couple. Thank you so much for being so open and honest during a tough talk. It’s such a testament as to Living Your Light and Living Your Joy. 💜💜

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank u for your kind words🙏🏽❤️

  • @mizzyoung9836
    @mizzyoung9836 3 года назад +1

    I love the transparency!! Prayers to your family, keep moving forward living your best lives!!😉👍🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @beannieharrison
    @beannieharrison 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for sharing, I'm facing similar problems, it's sad but we have to keep moving forward 🙏💓

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Your welcome and thanks for watching!!🙏🏽❤️

  • @lovin_touchg
    @lovin_touchg 3 года назад +3

    Boy....all of these years I've missed on RUclips. Living in Houston as well. Glad to have found your channel and am subscribed. Looking forward to seeing more!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for subscribing and watching!!!🙏🏽❤️

  • @sharonrozier4984
    @sharonrozier4984 3 года назад +1

    I am sorry that they chose to opt out. I am glad God gave you a queen to make your kingdom strong! Every King need a Queen who is as powerful as he is! Shalom family!!

  • @melodysargent71
    @melodysargent71 3 года назад +1

    Loved the discussion and honesty. Your positive attitudes are amazing! May God continue to bless you guys. Glad I came across your channel!

  • @teresakeane9628
    @teresakeane9628 3 года назад +4

    God bless you both, enjoy your lives together! I am a black woman (59), also married to a white male(68). We were blessed that both of our families never had any issues with our marrying and that was back in 2004. You can't live your life according to others and their racist attitudes.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      That’s awesome to hear!!! God bless!!🙏🏽

  • @NaturalMc2011
    @NaturalMc2011 3 года назад +4

    Love the teamwork. It shows!❤

  • @MsFranzetta
    @MsFranzetta 3 года назад +1

    So glad I saw this, Continued Blessings to you both and your family 🙏🏽

  • @stephanieedwards2360
    @stephanieedwards2360 3 года назад +1

    Love your attitude about going on and living your lives! I need to adapt that attitude for relationships in my life that are not what I wish they were and have very little control. Thanks for sharing!

  • @mystuffforme
    @mystuffforme 3 года назад +6

    LOVE THAT LOUISIANA DEEP DRAWL!

  • @angelasims7377
    @angelasims7377 3 года назад +3

    "You seriously, right now?!"...I love that; consider that one as stolen! -:D

  • @bettiesally6486
    @bettiesally6486 2 года назад +1

    and you right it's so sad that people can be so blinded and ignorant because when we pass on god doesn't have no separated room in heaven