I Lost My Band Members | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 102 | Season 3

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • A guest shares his story on how the loss of his band members/friends led to his depression
    Studio Guests: Amstel Maboa
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Комментарии • 118

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 2 года назад +78

    Amstel’s mom is friends with my grandmother from Mamelodi. I got to spend a lot of time with her as a child. She is such a sweetheart. Always showed us kindness as kids🥺
    I never got to meet Amstel during those days because he was fully a superstar. But he comes from a very warm family ❤️

    • @mokgadimatli2246
      @mokgadimatli2246 2 года назад +5

      This is so warm 💛

    • @zetmbonambi4425
      @zetmbonambi4425 2 года назад +4

      Woow,thank you for saying that. We live in the World where nothing is said about good kind people.Many people only talk when they have bad things to say about othern people.May God bless you more as you can say good things you know about people. Stay blessed.

  • @rubysidwell7324
    @rubysidwell7324 2 года назад +17

    He is so articulate, sophisticated and lovely to watch. Very humble and calming he is. Loved this.

  • @bin2kono328
    @bin2kono328 2 года назад +5

    A Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱 watching from Germany am hooked up with unpacked ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @memorymalunga670
    @memorymalunga670 2 года назад +62

    H is so articulate. There is something just so beautiful about him. He comes across as a very genuine, kind and down to earth person. His energy is very warm and beautiful.

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 года назад

      It’s a she

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 2 года назад

      @@ahviwe You're right. Correction taken.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 года назад +10

      Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 года назад +6

      @@ahviwe Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 2 года назад +1

      @@relebogilemabotja215 My apologies. I actually changed my original post after someone corrected me and told me he is "she", so now I'm changing it up again.

  • @molatelomfupa.gossip
    @molatelomfupa.gossip 2 года назад +62

    It’s been so many years in the industry but I must say Amstel still looks good..

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 2 года назад +1

      Yes i agree with u compared to the rough life they went through

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 2 года назад

      He's not aging atall.

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918 2 года назад +14

    This was one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched. Amstel is an absolutely amazing soul 💕💕

  • @tukulaobed7602
    @tukulaobed7602 2 года назад +34

    Amstel is so well spoken.

  • @vusimuzimasina8924
    @vusimuzimasina8924 2 года назад +19

    I bumped into him once at this other perfume shop, ugh and when I tell you he was so sweet to us (family and I) and the guy who worked there

  • @sinethembatwani1460
    @sinethembatwani1460 2 года назад +18

    Amstel is so intelligent, so beautiful and so inspiring. What a storyteller 🥰🥰

  • @ntombozukomatomane9826
    @ntombozukomatomane9826 2 года назад +19

    I grew up watching Three Sum I loved Koyo more may they continue to RIP. Love this interview, Rele always delivers 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123
      @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123 2 года назад +1

      Koyo was from Gugulethu in Cape Town and he was friends with my older sister. What an amazing person, such a lovely soul.. Amstel bethuna so amazing and honesty

  • @sibusisoradebe9642
    @sibusisoradebe9642 2 года назад +9

    They were (3 sum) the "IT" boys of the early 2000s.....this was before the social media days.....i still recall running into them back in 2001 alongside lebo mathosa in randburg drawing attention as usual......Thank God he is still and may God sustain him ❤

  • @mphoentlemahumapelo4021
    @mphoentlemahumapelo4021 2 года назад +7

    This just took me back when I was young. What moment. Amstel still looks good and I love his energy. Always gracious. Keep going 🙌🏽

  • @faithsdollsville2662
    @faithsdollsville2662 2 года назад +18

    Heh! Amstel was my course buddy at Wits Tech. We used to hangout together with another friend of mine. We studied Sports Administration and Marketing together with Stanton Frederick and Owen Nkumane a former rugby player.

  • @boitumelopetlele
    @boitumelopetlele 2 года назад +18

    My favourite. 🎉🎉❤️🤩 Enjoyed the interview. I remember seeing them for the first time in Rustenburg 2004/5. Blessings Amstel💐

    • @sibusisoradebe9642
      @sibusisoradebe9642 2 года назад

      I saw them in 2001 with lebo mathosa and i knew they were destined for greater things

  • @brightdyondzisani4651
    @brightdyondzisani4651 2 года назад +10

    When I first met these crazy people they're were sharing a stage with Lebo Mathosa Koyo called me out the same way he did with Amstel after their performance I miss them so bad. This was a great interview, Amstel is a legend

  • @basadibontsi5866
    @basadibontsi5866 2 года назад +14

    I HV been wondering where is Amstel woow we happy to see you❤️❤️

  • @ratiwabammekwa4219
    @ratiwabammekwa4219 2 года назад +2

    I always command the people who are still here to tell their lovely stories, i wish Lebo was still with us to share hers...lovely Amstel

  • @tinotenda.beasty3973
    @tinotenda.beasty3973 2 года назад +7

    The way I'm getting hooked on unpacked lol hopefully one day I have something to unpack lol I love you

    • @mbhuda2208
      @mbhuda2208 2 года назад

      lol we will keep waiting

  • @eugeniamanana9424
    @eugeniamanana9424 2 года назад +6

    May God bless Amstel. Strong and lovable personality.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for giving our loved icons their flowers 💐

  • @sihleqengqeleka7125
    @sihleqengqeleka7125 2 года назад +8

    Oh man... I remember this group... You guys did wonders!

  • @hlonimokobodi5776
    @hlonimokobodi5776 2 года назад +10

    Much luv for you Amstel 💓 Thanks for bringing him in Relebogile

  • @Bongsipo
    @Bongsipo 2 года назад +4

    Chomi zika Lebo yoo bengaphaphi shuu🤣remember episode kwa City Sesla singing butterfly butterfly oh Koyo the smile 😍... Amstel aa bhoza yam ndkcanywa💕

  • @irenehlapane5082
    @irenehlapane5082 2 года назад +8

    Amstel how beautiful it is to see you my beautiful diva iam watching you all the way from Denver Colorado I love you Amstel. Keep going my my hunny bun ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥#Legend living legend 💟

    • @dikeledimothiba65
      @dikeledimothiba65 2 года назад +1

      Yes I truly agree with that! Living legend. Considering he's been with MaBrrr and Lebo like wooow! It's really nice to see him so happy and alive! His energy is amazing!

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
    @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 2 года назад +2

    This was a closer I didn't think I needed. Thank you Amstel and Lebo.

  • @charlottemthombeni5922
    @charlottemthombeni5922 2 года назад +6

    Amstel you are a warm and genuine person. I love how you love yourself, your family and craft. It's rare to find people like you. Continue to be YOU.

  • @tshohanamokhothu4462
    @tshohanamokhothu4462 2 года назад +3

    Pampamparas! Amstel... You're still looking as young and as stylish as ever! Much love ♥

  • @tsheolarakgahla7450
    @tsheolarakgahla7450 2 года назад +3

    So articulate... love him and his story

  • @pinyepinye1997
    @pinyepinye1997 Год назад +1

    I might not have been born during his/their prime error but I can feel it and see it when he says they gave a performance and the audience asked for more 😆😆😍😍 I believe it ,just by the energy he is giving off so monumental and cheerful #legend

  • @DinnyM051
    @DinnyM051 2 года назад +16

    He's always been so stylist, I hope he's still doing well in life ❣️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 года назад

      It’s a she

    • @SiphiwesihleOnako
      @SiphiwesihleOnako 2 года назад +2

      @@ahviwe he is a man who is gay, not a she

  • @DJ_Ndiks
    @DJ_Ndiks 2 года назад +9

    'Love yourself, respect yourself and live life to the fullest'. That's a good advise.💜

  • @tlhologelomashigo4663
    @tlhologelomashigo4663 2 года назад +1

    They way Amstel speak s si lovingly about the other 2, Jeff really had the most gorgeous smile and Koyo's energy was undeniable even off stage

  • @zandilebindamonokoane7321
    @zandilebindamonokoane7321 2 года назад +2

    They blew us away. Thier craft, fashion and music was on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @utjizembisa
    @utjizembisa 2 года назад +25

    Namibia 🇳🇦 present 😊

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 2 года назад +6

    If youv been young in jhb n ready to explore your can read between th lines..this life can b sweetooooo💕

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole 2 года назад +5

    He is so well spoken.

  • @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888
    @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888 2 года назад +1

    Your closing remark Relebogile is so humbling 🙏👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @_biekies_9738
    @_biekies_9738 2 года назад +6

    I always wondered what ever happened to this group. This was another great episode 👍🏽🦋🌈

  • @shandragossett8075
    @shandragossett8075 2 года назад +2

    Amstel is a very beautiful name that definitely fits YOU. You are STILL ABLE THROUGH IT ALL.
    💯❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    “Amstel”

  • @zeeelove9259
    @zeeelove9259 2 года назад +6

    Koyo came all the way from Cape town to say good byee friends ❤❤

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 года назад +11

    Omg I remember the group 🔥🔥😂aww bathong

  • @FirstLadyTshepi
    @FirstLadyTshepi Год назад

    What a life journey that this group has travelled. They stood firm with themselves, loved life and lived their truths. What a time it was in this country's history
    #UnpackedWithRelebogile

  • @clonapsbethe1261
    @clonapsbethe1261 2 года назад +7

    Thanks to bring Amstell ,I love the guy.

  • @lesegochaane9909
    @lesegochaane9909 2 года назад +3

    I love Amstel’s humanity. Met him a couple of times and what you see is definitely what you get. He is definitely a peoples person. Love him

  • @thatokgobe1403
    @thatokgobe1403 2 года назад +6

    Amstel is a LEGEND!

    • @griffithmagazi3562
      @griffithmagazi3562 2 года назад

      Amstel is a Legend! We need a documentary.This was a great interview 💯

  • @nontobekosibisi7401
    @nontobekosibisi7401 2 года назад +2

    Amstel always on point well put together ❤

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 2 года назад +5

    Tsala😍😍😍😍😍😍looking gorgeous as always. I love this episode

  • @unmutewithnonhli
    @unmutewithnonhli Год назад

    Hope you are well. Very few friends that are authentic. Good luck

  • @TarCarNey
    @TarCarNey 2 года назад +2

    I use to see them all the time on Drum megazine 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 2 года назад +1

    I enjoyed watching this😭 I didn't want it to end🥺❤️🔥 All the best Amstel🎉🎊

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 2 года назад +1

    A beautiful story😍❤️💐🥺

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 2 года назад +1

    Wooow I love him so much we’ll spoken 😍

  • @mapulakola8495
    @mapulakola8495 2 года назад +5

    So sweet, I want to give you a hug hle Amstel

  • @mililzydizzy9695
    @mililzydizzy9695 2 года назад +4

    Aus Relebogile looks so beautiful ! The make up 😍😍

  • @kaingonakauta6460
    @kaingonakauta6460 2 года назад +3

    He so lovely 🥰 💕

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 2 года назад +3

    What a beautiful person in and out

  • @Leradennis
    @Leradennis 2 года назад +1

    This band was lit!

  • @ZomziWeAfrika
    @ZomziWeAfrika 2 года назад +10

    I know Amstel❤️ is so funny and adorable. Rest In Peace Koyo. Three some

  • @marientalphysiotherapy3325
    @marientalphysiotherapy3325 2 года назад +4

    I remember them, the 1st time I read about them was from a move magazine back in the years.....
    Soo thy rest eishhhhhhhhhh
    All the strength to him..

  • @SecondChanceswithSophiaV
    @SecondChanceswithSophiaV 2 года назад +3

    I'm watching the episode on 15 March, the same day Koyo's memorial service was hosted. This was heart warming to watch.

  • @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz
    @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz Год назад

    I really ❤ this soul

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 2 года назад +6

    Oh maan Amstel😍😍😍

  • @edwardmoutlana6248
    @edwardmoutlana6248 2 года назад +1

    Much Love 😍 😍 😍

  • @carolinemotlhabane4386
    @carolinemotlhabane4386 2 года назад +1

    One of my favourite episodes,as for papanras koyo 😂

  • @nomvulalangasiki3927
    @nomvulalangasiki3927 Год назад

    I love the genuine Ness frm Amstell

  • @sibonginkosinyathi7580
    @sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 года назад +1

    Usajaiva like you used to do e Tandoor ubuyenza into yakho back thern Tandoor is no longer the same without you Moffie. Ezasala zazingefani nani

  • @boipelomohlakoane7959
    @boipelomohlakoane7959 2 года назад +1

    KE BA LUVA GORE🥺❤️ ke rata go re o butsi ka Butterfly

  • @julietedochem9041
    @julietedochem9041 2 года назад +2

    Went to school with Koyo...RIP

  • @annetsletsiki5808
    @annetsletsiki5808 2 года назад +1

    Gorgeous Armstel ❤️😍

  • @deborahmurorua5018
    @deborahmurorua5018 2 года назад +1

    Miss XO❤️

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ 2 года назад +3

    Somizi must also come to this show 🥺

  • @diamondgirl1264
    @diamondgirl1264 2 года назад +1

    Nice interview from Amstel

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 2 года назад +2

    TANDOOR!

  • @nduvho94
    @nduvho94 2 года назад +1

    Amstel ♥️♥️♥️

  • @sisandalisa2215
    @sisandalisa2215 2 года назад +1

    Amstel is so lovely ☺️

  • @zamo_ma
    @zamo_ma Год назад

    😭❤️❤️

  • @tebogosenosi2389
    @tebogosenosi2389 2 года назад +2

    Haibo this guy still alive 😳 long time no see or hear from him ijoh guy keep going man I remember u from group 3sum

  • @princesspheto2001
    @princesspheto2001 2 года назад +1

    🦋✨

  • @Amanda-nh7nf
    @Amanda-nh7nf 2 года назад +3

    💐💐🇿🇦♥️

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 2 года назад +1

    I thought she passed too. Am I the only one who thought so?

    • @tatendakatsumbe
      @tatendakatsumbe 2 года назад +6

      You're the only one

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe 2 года назад +1

      @@tatendakatsumbe hahahahaha wow

    • @wangechiwangareassociatead4345
      @wangechiwangareassociatead4345 2 года назад +1

      you definitely are the only one. we can't assume people we love have died. we are even in denial when they do.

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 2 года назад +6

    I got lost between the eye lashes and finger nails

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ 2 года назад

    🥺🥺🥺

  • @wamkelwentuli3130
    @wamkelwentuli3130 2 года назад +4

    Firsttt🥳

  • @cebonkosi5103
    @cebonkosi5103 2 года назад +3

    2nd 💪🏽😂

  • @MrZuneJ
    @MrZuneJ 2 года назад +1

    eyebrows for days

  • @noluvobavuma1332
    @noluvobavuma1332 2 года назад +3

    6th 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿😂

  • @letlotlojoykekana5646
    @letlotlojoykekana5646 2 года назад +4

    6th 🤣🤣

  • @velilengema8188
    @velilengema8188 2 года назад +2

    4th☺

  • @fungaikufa4312
    @fungaikufa4312 2 года назад +3

    Fifth

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 2 года назад +2

    Ask him/her whether Ephriam is gay🙄

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  2 года назад +7

      Him. Why should I ask that?

    • @letshegomelesi8536
      @letshegomelesi8536 2 года назад

      Haaibo 😒

    • @penelopegomez5934
      @penelopegomez5934 2 года назад

      You are out of order

    • @marytsheole2007
      @marytsheole2007 Год назад

      Lebo is professional she knows which questions to ask she knows how to respect people she knows boundaries she is excellent at her craft , girl bona u r killing it ,gape le gape over n over💌

  • @leratomaleke3345
    @leratomaleke3345 2 года назад +3

    Third 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽