Just know this whole tactic is because if she gets rejected she can still say " i was only friendly" women want man to aproach and walk the risk of rejection and not them thats why " its very subtle" is just translation for "if i send out q's and he rejects me he cant claim i was flirting shooting my shot at him" that also why she says " your not going to walk towards him" because this would be a indefinite signal and she cant argue back on that but u can argue a smile or glance was just friendly and "either hes gonna be interested " aka i dont want to give total evidence of an avance i made and get rejected " total camouflage for " im insecure and dont know if i am wanted enough so ima just be bread crumbing " she doesnt want it to go around SHE got rejected 😂😂. Ive learned to talk womanese..
@@skillsphere9245 i learned their language very early on and definitely learned that almost all women are very scared of rejection because they believe men should always approach!! Lol if we ask women all of them will say they approached the man theyre with lol women are very predictable once we open our eyes and stop being thirsty
That's great for you happy here bro. We wish more women would do this and stop leaving us to figuring out games. Especially nowadays with the women viewing masculinity as toxic and sexual harassment, and the clowning of black women on you in public and all that we don't stand a chance to try to figure out to approach. Females have created a different environment today so needs to step up to the plate and go for what they want or they going to be missing out on a lot of good men😏
🥛🍑🥥🍎🌶😏 now that's what Granddaddy was trying to tell us about the Promised Land it may start off with sweetness but do expect some spiciness along the way 👍😂😂
When I first saw my husband, I was like fuck it I will not let this guy go , I definitely talked to him first and me being an African woman it's almost like a taboo but I didn't care at that moment, 15 years later we are still going❤ strong ❤❤❤
Exactly. Most men don't walk up to the women, due to games. We not in high school. We're grown. Sad alot these females think the eye contact game works.
If a man has been through it enough. He'll understand just because a woman waves or smiles doesn't mean she's interested. Smiles don't equal attraction much in our society. You can't go by signs anymore. Probably the clearest way to know if a woman likes a man is if she agrees to a date or they become friends over time. If not the almost guaranteed answer is no sign is good enough.
Commutation is mostly body language.. smiling makes people in general more approachable. Thats not really a signal more of an mood or an expression of mood. Where all a man needs is time to take initiative to approach.. theres easy complex and difficult women.. a man cant date an easy woman because shes dating everybody on YOUR time. So.. life’s a trade off . Just be a person don’t stress gender
😂😂 Girl bye that ain’t shooting your shot! lol, there’s zero risk or any element of vulnerability to that. Looking at them and looking away is NOT shooting shot! lol 😂😂
That's total BS. That doesn't mean shiiit! A girl can look at you and smile and that doesn't mean a thing. You go try and have a civilized or decent conversation and they become dismissive.
If a fem looks at you and smiles, she's laughing at you. Fems are weak and self centered. And, they have absolutely no game. The most you can expect is for her to make herself approachable.
Civilized after she gave you the cue that's why they rejected you civilized should have nothing to do with it where was your witty comment, where was the subtle innuendos? You talking about Donald Trump or office politics ain't going to get you anywhere plus how long did it take?
That doesn't work with all women lol. A lot of toxic women out there will bait a man to holla then turn them down. They want the power to reject but don't want to be rejected. Case enpointe. It happened to the best of us. Years back I had a chic kept glancing at me then when I said something she said nah she's good. I said ok kept it moving. Nowadays men are waking up and seeing the game.
@@allgasnobrakes919 eye contact and a smile is a power move don't fall for it. If you feel to go over don't cower to her play the power play back, how many men do you smile at like that. Or is that how you bait men in. Now she is on the back foot and if she likes you will have to back down. Or come up with something equally as witty.
You are absolutely right. Girls do this shyt always. I see them at my gym. I’m wise now. Imagine a girl asking how many sets you got left, it’s on normal when u are done to go tell her you’ve saved the machine for her and she can step in but then she goes, I’m good. B-txh you are stretching on the mat, i thought you wanted a different workout? These days I don’t care, when I’m done I am leaving even without a glance. I don’t care if someone else jump in ahead of you. I’m just not acting nice to these hoes again. That shyt affects me too much. Emotionally I’m in ruins.
Looking at a man and smiling is NOT a signal that it's ok to come talk to you. Because when men do that, women will say, hey, I do that to everybody. Women love playing games. Don't fall into their trap.
@@barrytelesford5265It's not cowardice. It's supply and demande. Every cute chick has a near infinite supply of men lining up to shoot their shot. So why would she give a shit and try when she's a dick magnet. Same with men who have what women want: money. Men with money have a damn near infinite supply of chicks lining up to catch their attention. Money is men's pussy magnet. Same way a millionaire not jumping through hoops to get a female's attention is not cowardice cause he got way too many options to give a shit, same way a cute girl is not a coward for not simping for broke dudes, cause her options are infinite.
There have been times where initially I wanted a guy to talk to me but once he started speaking, I changed my mind. Maybe what's going on with the woman who say that.
True…but it took me a LONG ASS Time to know the difference, learn to have social awareness. And there is a process to follow after too. After getting to know her you find that she is MEAN or she has changed her mind about you or you to her. It can go both ways.
Women should definitely approach men, I've been saying this for the longest. Women approach everything else in life she wants, what makes approaching a guy any different?
This is a sweet and honest woman. What she may not realize is how many women out there live to destroy men who approach them, even after an apparent green light is given by them, and then laugh and ridicule the men who approached them. Women will even edit and then post such occurrences to make a man appear to be a creep with the goal of humiliating the man. Nothing crueler than women who do this. This is why men do not approach women.
And I'd literally just keep going about my own business if I saw HER do THIS in public. I'm NOT a trained lap dog to read minds,jump through hoops, etc bc SHE is afraid of being rejected or even getting HER EGO bruised. I'm VERY handsome... I'm NOT gonna do the same shih a lesser SMV dude would have to do SOLEY bc she wants right to first refusal 😒😒😒😒💯💯💯💯💯🧔🏾♂️
Men approach me often. Some men don’t share this experience, some do and it still doesn’t deter them from approaching women they find attractive. If multiple women show you this kind of cruelty simply for showing interest you must a have a particular taste in women….Toxic.
And that's a fact. I've been rejected several times still after I approached them when they smile and look at me. So now I do it right back and they get mad😂😂
I just had a woman look at me, smile and she got very close to my personal space. I asked if she was married or had a man, she didn't say, just asked if I was trying to get her number. Well, duh! She said she was married after all that, still smiling all up in my face. So it doesnt really matter.
Nah you thinking bout it too much even if they are being nice make a move if they don’t fw it don’t fw them it’s simple and most times you prolly might get rejected or she might be playing games but don’t play their game play yours 💯
lmao.... it's all lies they tell to keep the Disney fantasy illusion going. Most of their social cues are from grade school, alot of them never get out of it. But dudes have immature ways to, still coming to women trying to game them with the same ole shit lol.
The 'men' mature faster than men, sure...aka, they mature for men standards faster... For women standards, they're on the same maturity clock men are....hence the "where have all the good men gone" phase...
Outside of the most obvious of desirable men, and all that means is famous men, that's all women will generally do when they say they are making the first move. They'll either look and look away. Or if they feel they look good enough that there's a chance you might approach or they think you already have an interest, then they'll do something like stand or place themselves in a spot where you're going to see them. If women generally think you're attractive, if you're out somewhere and say you're sitting at a table by yourself, and there are several open tables around you. If a woman sits at a table that's next to yours or just one table away, and she's not trying to space herself out, good chance that's her making what she thinks is a move and she's hoping you'll strike up a conversation. Women can't take rejection and their ego always has them feeling they shouldn't have to make the first move. So that's usually as much as they'll do. And congratulate yourself if they've ever done more because that means they find you more attractive than what they normally run into. And of course, all that I said can change to more drastic, more overt actions under unique circumstances. Like vacations, spring break, if they know you're visiting in town and will only be around for a limited time.
@@chosen1one67 facts..a woman will have a better chance if she smile, have good conversation and approach the man.....Instead doing the usual, waiting for the man to make the first move pretending like he the best man,selling her dreams....But they complain about men being no good, trying to justify why they single..... Women need to start approaching a man that they're satisfied with and not trying to find a perfect man….
I don't think its the rejection aspect but the disrespect that some dude like to do and im not saying all but some of yall do go out yall way to disrespect a female especially if shes not attractive and i have seen it alot of times. You can reject somebody without be disrespectful and thats how i feel about it on both ends.
@@TaylorsKaNolsha this is the most ridiculous comment ever, when men reject women "the first few times" it's always polite and considerate unless they are persistent then it escalates, women will reject a man with contempt and disgust on a level that a man cannot even mimic let alone do by default. Women are way worse rejecting a man they don't like in general.
Women are typically attracted to an assertive man. Why would we approach (being dominant) if we want someone that’s just that, dominant. So it’s natural to let the guy approach or lead. Nothing to do with with rejection.
Still as a man, I can tell you most of the time when women do that it’s because they’re being NICE. Too many times as men we’ve been called creepy weird or bad at reading women because we assumed you liked us or want to fuck us.
Guys look there’s truth in both statements. The way to tell is to make a proposition. If she’s giving you signs and you ask for her number and she says no, then she’s not interested. If you ask and she gives it to you then yes 👍 it’s a go. But it can all go to hell between those two points. If you ask her out and she starts filibustering then she found another guy that she likes better between the time that you got her number and called and asked her out. Listen I used to run five women at a time and they gave me sex , money, clothes, gifts one gave me a car etc.. This shyt is simple she’s either interested or not. Normally though their choosing between a set of guys that they like and you.. See??
@@logicalmalethink4925 You’ve obviously never had a woman smile and be polite to you out of curiosity. Because believing or not they do that. And idiots assume she wants to fuck you or she likes you
OldSchool here. Listen and learn. Lol Fellas there is a look twice rule. If they look twice with a smile and it’s just not glance. Go holla. A simple hello with NO lame lines always works. And if it doesn’t. Just keep it moving. You don’t know them anyway.
They're too stuck in their excuses to listen. Then get mad when women go for older men. Yall know what it is unc 💯 My bf was raised by old-school parents, I smiled and entertained his conversation but he approached me. We've been together since then.
I was in this situation the other day… thought of a bunch of lame lines but thought to my self “just go say HI” and see what happens….I didn’t go say hi so I will never know 😢hahaha
That's why when I was single learned to just ignore them when they do smile and they did shoot their shot they hate to be ignored especially when they THINK they look good
My brother and I had this happen one Christmas going to see a movie. Two of the women working there were standing near us while we were at the concession area. One yells out "dang! I guess we must be ugly then.". We both looked at each other and laughed while ordering our food.
It's because they love to play games like that, manipulation tactic, they like the attention, and the energy you give them. Just don't give them the time of the day because they are backwards creatures!
Its because they don’t like to appear thirsty, so they act like they’re not interested, if they’ve been single for a while then their bitch shield is on auto mode. As the man she thinks you are and the other options she thinks you have, you just gotta lead and not talk about the obvious signs she’s giving you and just small talk and carry your way into funny interesting conversations. It’s takes practice for most, for some it’s second nature.
I ignore the looks and smiles. Start a conversation like a fucking adult say hi or good morning or some lame shit. Don't be playing games like this is middleschool no one has time for that.
Boy, if I had a nickel for every time a woman smiled at me, just to find out later it was a whole other nigga behind or beside me, I'd be Bill Gates' nephew. 😭🤣
Fellas, what's the worse that can happen? All she can say is "no, I'm good", so dont be afraid of rejection! Women are like busses, 1 comes every 15mins ✊🏾
Naw bro a lot more can happen, these chics literally posted vids of them rejected men 😂 i see them all the time, im not saying dont shoot your shot but just know clout is a real drug now a days
@@proact8093 So, once I know a woman isn't a romantic option, everything after that is white noise. I just walk away until I'm can't hear the chirping lol
@@mishad8002 naw for sure most dudes do be in there head to much when it comes to approaching women but at the same time everybody don’t know that most dudes oblivious to that type of shit.
Not even about fear. There’s plenty of women who do this and then hit you with the plot twist. We’re adults, speak what’s on your mind. Most guys will simply say yes or no. Most women will turn it into a chance to ruin your reputation or you’re gonna get some skins. Too risky to miss these days.
Women have had it way too easy for way too long. Literally looking at someone for 2 seconds is all the work they expect to have to put in. That’s crazy.
It's time for them to sit at the adult table from now on otherwise they can expect to be lonely for the rest of their lives. Almost every woman out there is never going to score a Brad Pitt so they're just going to have to settle for the average JoeBlow instead if they are ever going to want something serious.
I had women do this man times and they were just being nice. Not interested. So yeah that don't mean crap. Some do that just for attention and validation.
@tracydorsey1675 REALLY?? if so why there's a lot of men are avoiding or going their own way then? I think 🤔 the REAL scare is that most will find other ways to enjoy themselves and a lot of women are very concern of the next Generation that will think the same of the current one.
Women don't understand rejection that shit is discouraging getting rejected time and time again and then have the mindset to keep doing it is very discouraging
So many women refuse to make the 1st move, so they don't understand this. They won't understand until they initiate romantic/dating stuff with us men on the regular.
A woman smiled at me as we walked past each other today. It was NOT and invitation. Just a friendly acknowledgement. Men need to understand this type of situation to avoid coming across creepy. Context is important.
Problem is when they shoot their shot, they’re VERY indirect. Most guys can’t tell she’s interested in something more than an irrelevant gesture or small talk.
Nah it's Hella direct. EYE CONTACT is her seeking your attention. The next move is on you. Even pimps know that it's women who initiate the game by CHOOSING.
@@chumajamesnxele106 No it’s not direct. A look by itself isn’t direct. And what the hell does the pimp game have to do with directness. That’s generally about the subliminal. Using that as an example for directness is contradictive lol
@@JrRimp No its not a contradiction. The izm understand women better than all y'all squares😂 The izm is the MOST DIRECT. Ain't nothing subliminal about a smooth criminal getting residuals from females. Quit wanting women to display attraction like men, that's boring, chase my brother, chase!
Naaaaah gang a lot of men don't know because the only men that get that love is in the 20 percent ... 80 percent will never feel it and just because she smiles it doesn't mean she's interested... I don't think y'all understand how many men don't have game just good hearts.
That's like 1/10 of the signs that we need to be sure. Giggling, nervousness, proximity, etc. We need more than that because the girl could be super friendly or you're getting played for attention
honestly, I don't want to be getting all these proposed mixed signals and all, so I just no longer bother approaching women. Whenever I notice a woman my age subtly look and me for a few secs and smile, I just take it as they're not into me & are just being nice.
I've asked out girls at work who did this and they still rejected me. Some women like to play games and i ignore them afterwards when they pull that bs. Just because she finds u attractive doesn't mean she'll make it easy for you.
Dont try to find women from work. Nothing but problems and as a man if something happens even though you never did, you will be out of employment before you even know it.
That’s why I don’t do that walking up shit if you wanna fw me say that I feel like when they do shit like her it’s lame asf why not say something instead of giving looks it don’t make sense to me
Well she isn’t exactly open for just anyone… you gotta get your game up… improve yourself first to the point where the name calling doesn’t come or effect you
I wouldn't even say scared. It's just a lot of trial and error for most guys, and on top of that you can be accused of things and the target of gossip. Just to be told that just cause a woman smiles doesn't mean they are interested in you. It's a lot of hassle. Sometimes the whole situation just isn't worth the hassle.
The secomd part is that its exhausting , at some point you realize the fine line between and a relationship is also the fact that some women that would otherwise be interested in you dont let it be known. So its like...this isnt all on men. Women need to be direct.
KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her. Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.” Ecclesiasticus 25:13 “Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman:” Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.” Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.” Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.” Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.” Proverbs 6:26 “For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.” 2 Esdras 16:49 “Like as a whore envieth a right honest and virtuous woman:” Proverbs 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Proverbs 9:13 A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing. Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.” Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.” Ecclesiasticus 26:25 “A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.” Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman. Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her. Ecclesiasticus 26:23 “A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.” 1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.” Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.” Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.” Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.” 1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.” 1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.” 1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.” 1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.” Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.” Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.” Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.” Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.” Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” 1 Esdras 4:26 “Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes.” Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.” Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope. Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.
If a woman smiles at you. It doesn't mean anything really. She's just friendly. The same woman probably smiled at the last 10 guys that walked by her, doesn't mean she was physically attracted to or interested in everyone.
@@amarirasheed6Lol I think we’re talking about a simple smile. These woman will stare until you see them. Then when you make your move they’ll reject you, that’s bs.
Funny. I was at a bar. This chick made DIRECT eye contact with and waved at me. So I pulled up to get at her. She told me she engaged. I was mind boggled like well wtf was that then? 😂😂😂
Perpetual singles talk like this. Most married women are very intentional. Men of value generally don't have to go talk to any woman. This works for average men, and below.
Conservative because we respect the rights of woman and the biggest rights violation is approaching a woman that dosnt want to be approached especially if she’s just a nice girl
I think what Melli was trying to say it depends with a place also, maybe at a party or pub or in a social event/ gathering but not when walking in the street or in a public transport or something. Place matters for this to work. IMO..
The way it used to be. Give the man a sign to approach you, that’s it. Too much computer meeting/dating. No one knows how to communicate in person anymore. We’re all gonna have hump backs from looking at our phones.
Since she got rejected online for everyone to see, she doesn't approach men anymore. 😂 so basically, she wants men to act out of insecurity and ask her, “What are you looking at?”
@@313Martin You should be able to look it up here. Just type Meli Marraco gets rejected. I'm not hating on her, either. I just stumbled across that video.
I figured that . Cause before then she was totally advocating females make the first move. Explains the hesitancy. Women really cant stand getting curved. Fcks with thier self worth 🙃
@@deep.679 women are supposed to drop little hints for us to pick up so we can come and approach.. its always been like that, but nowadays its “a stare” like wtf am I supposed to do with that lol
I agree what you're saying. But not very many women do that nowadays because they are not acting like females girly girls. What I'm saying is natural femininity will still do this but a lot of women don't embrace their natural gender any more getting away from that acting more masculine that's why it's getting very confusing with mixed signals 😕 the men are the ones supposed to be more stoic and stone face looking. It would help if they smile a little bit more and try using a higher and softer tone. 💯♥️
dude women can stare and smile ear to ear to their dad, brothers, friend zoned friends etc. In fact they smile more to strangers then they would with the partners. so what vague kind of signal is this?!! even some men have a happy smile natural stare...
That's what she's saying now! I saw her shoot her shot once. It was on camera. Should still be on RUclips. The guy rejected her and she looked like she couldn't believe it lol.
They be looking down in their phones trying to avoid eye contact checking windows and reflection to see if you are looking or coming but want you to talk to them. And then complain no men approach them anymore.🙄 Can they be anymore ridiculous. It’s either me too and sexual assault accusations, or sexual harassment and calling me creeps then moaning where have all the good men gone and they don’t approach me. 🙃🙄 You ain’t gonna get Brad pit you’re gonna have to settle for standard old Russell and give him a clear sign you like him or he’s not coming.
If you approach a woman as the average Joe, the success rate is extremely low though. You got a higher chance to get a harassment charge than you have of just getting a polite rejection.
Me too. She has to qualify to me. She has to come to me. If not, she gets nothing. So 99.99999% of chicks get nothing. But that’s all good. I only need 1 quality chick.
@@tylergary5953 true,I like that. All you need is that quality one but if I cant get that one I will settle for one that wants to fck me anytime Im ready and Im good.
They must know just because a girl looks at you and smiles doesn’t mean shit absolutely nothing
Exactly I said a similar thing
Just know this whole tactic is because if she gets rejected she can still say " i was only friendly" women want man to aproach and walk the risk of rejection and not them thats why " its very subtle" is just translation for "if i send out q's and he rejects me he cant claim i was flirting shooting my shot at him" that also why she says " your not going to walk towards him" because this would be a indefinite signal and she cant argue back on that but u can argue a smile or glance was just friendly and "either hes gonna be interested " aka i dont want to give total evidence of an avance i made and get rejected " total camouflage for " im insecure and dont know if i am wanted enough so ima just be bread crumbing " she doesnt want it to go around SHE got rejected 😂😂. Ive learned to talk womanese..
@@skillsphere9245 This… this comment right here
Agreed
@@skillsphere9245 i learned their language very early on and definitely learned that almost all women are very scared of rejection because they believe men should always approach!! Lol if we ask women all of them will say they approached the man theyre with lol women are very predictable once we open our eyes and stop being thirsty
You know how many times I’ve gotten the “signal” just to be told “nah”
Too many times.
But watch some buffoon in the comments go "dude you just gotta keep trying and not be scared bro" 🙄
Facts same here. They just want attention
@NebulaSon Facts you already know the simps are coming
Yeah a lot of women do this for attention. It’s weird af that’s exactly why I don’t take most of them serious
My wife snagged me with a compliment and 34 years later still going strong.
❤️🙏🏾❤️
That's great for you happy here bro. We wish more women would do this and stop leaving us to figuring out games. Especially nowadays with the women viewing masculinity as toxic and sexual harassment, and the clowning of black women on you in public and all that we don't stand a chance to try to figure out to approach. Females have created a different environment today so needs to step up to the plate and go for what they want or they going to be missing out on a lot of good men😏
🥛🍑🥥🍎🌶😏 now that's what Granddaddy was trying to tell us about the Promised Land it may start off with sweetness but do expect some spiciness along the way 👍😂😂
Love it for you
Amen
Same. My homie approached my wife than girl but I did something he didn’t do. I walked her home to make sure she was safe and gave her my number.
That's just being nice. That's not flirting
That’s flirting. A lot of them want to flirt without following through; but it’s still flirting.
@@logicalblackman8228 That's weird behavior to take any woman smiling at you as flirting.
@@mikeruck2888 what’s weird about it?
@mikeruck2888 bruh how is that weird?
@@logicalblackman8228 So if u smile at someone its flirting, no way ur an adult telling ppl this
When I first saw my husband, I was like fuck it I will not let this guy go , I definitely talked to him first and me being an African woman it's almost like a taboo but I didn't care at that moment, 15 years later we are still going❤ strong ❤❤❤
Well done
Smart
You liked him first. Not him approaching you... those are the long-lasting ones.
Africa os large, where from Africa?
@@masonridgewell8063 U speak like a snowflake.... No America for You. Stay where you are.😂😂
Smiling and giving eye contact is not always meaning you are interested
Yes, it does. I mean it's enough. If you see a woman you really like, I trust you will make your intentions known, whether she looks at you or not.
And not biting you when you approach
Agreed. stupid shit
@@deep.679 bro.. i have milfs coming on to me then.. i always have long eye contact with them but it doesn’t mean they interested or something lol
So why would she be smiling at you with eye contact. Just think about it for a second. Please don't come up with these crazy thoughts.
“Why are you arresting me officer!?! She looked at me and smiled!!”
Wtf do y’all be saying to these women wtf😭
@@jaswazhere7679 it’s the other way around 🤔 women have created a environment where men just don’t want to bother with approaching women anymore.
😂 She said talk to her family not throw her over your shoulder and take her to your trunk.
@@antwill8933🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@jaswazhere7679🤣🤣🤣
Men are not mind readers. A note is the best way to communicate. Woman hates rejection, A man hates rejection
And how many men get called creepy for talking to a woman who glanced at them because he thought it was a signal.
Exactly. Most men don't walk up to the women, due to games. We not in high school. We're grown. Sad alot these females think the eye contact game works.
Exactly. They use that tactic to get attention
Cap bro. Those guys didn’t get no signal 🤣
@@AdultMoobyStarr 😅😂😂😂😅
As a man, fuck it, move on and keep the same technique.
No ma’am! Women literally say just because I’m smiling doesn’t mean I’m inviting you to talk to me. She’s sending mixed signals.
Not all of us .
The thing is, she isn't talking for anyone else but herself
@@michelle0877Yes all of you, if you want a man to approach you just wave him over.
How would you know?
If a man has been through it enough. He'll understand just because a woman waves or smiles doesn't mean she's interested. Smiles don't equal attraction much in our society. You can't go by signs anymore. Probably the clearest way to know if a woman likes a man is if she agrees to a date or they become friends over time. If not the almost guaranteed answer is no sign is good enough.
Anyone can look and smile that doesn't mean *hit.
It’s for you to come forward to check it out and be checked out first , nothing more at this stage .. don’t be creepy 😊😊
@@axdel24 to come forward and check out over a smile 😒..riiiight. Sounds like a manipulation tactic to me. 🤷🏾♂️
@@axdel24grow some balls and go talk to the man creep staring at people is not right
You can say shit, I promise your comment won’t lose ad revenue
Exactly 😂😂😂
This is why men date easy women. We don’t have time to figure out your code in signals.
its more like "i cant sacrifice my reputation if I read the situation wrong."
Facts sigma
Exactly
Why women just say hey come let's get busy 😅
Commutation is mostly body language.. smiling makes people in general more approachable. Thats not really a signal more of an mood or an expression of mood. Where all a man needs is time to take initiative to approach.. theres easy complex and difficult women.. a man cant date an easy woman because shes dating everybody on YOUR time. So.. life’s a trade off . Just be a person don’t stress gender
Or you can just blatantly let us know that you're interested in us so we don't have to "guess" if you like us back. -Men
💯
Every guy on the planet is asking this same question 🤣
Weak Men* -
Yall be getting me hot 🤦🏽♂️ its mating signs all in nature be a man
@@SouthsidemirSo men got to be mind readers but women don't 🤦♂️
😂😂 Girl bye that ain’t shooting your shot! lol, there’s zero risk or any element of vulnerability to that. Looking at them and looking away is NOT shooting shot! lol 😂😂
She said girl bye 😅😅
My wife made the first move. Fellas, if she wants you, she’ll work for you
true
Jesus Christ no
@@kamkam4571 its true why chase a girl who dont want u why chase a girl who shows no interest? smart dudes know to go for the women who wants u
Yep
Wait U think your wife wants to work for me
Some women do that these days just to REJECT men 🤦🏾♂️ like a boost ego stroke
maybe they thought you were interesting at first and then once you opened your mouth they were like naaaah 😂😂😂
SOME females just 💙 to play GAMES!!!
Most
Exactly and then think we some telepathic creatures
Women are all crazy to some extent
@@Switcheroo-hu3cc 🤣💯👏🏾 BIGGG FACTS G.....
Women shoot their shot like a sniper. So hidden that the target doesn't even see it coming
Nah more like a suppressed pistol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
And is men supposed to spit game in front of the public so everybody knows 🤯 🥱
😂😂😂
That’s because they are scared of rejection
Most women don't smile when they look at the guys
Yeah it’s just the most blank look ever
Speak for yourself 😂
All women smile at me, and I know it means she is being friendly, and that's it
@@biggerbitcoin5126 i hope you don’t believe that
A look, followed by a smile, is a super clear signal. A look while smiling is a moment that is completely unclear and not specific.
That's total BS. That doesn't mean shiiit! A girl can look at you and smile and that doesn't mean a thing. You go try and have a civilized or decent conversation and they become dismissive.
Maybe she liked how you looked but your approach was terrible. Don’t blame the woman for your lack of
If a fem looks at you and smiles, she's laughing at you. Fems are weak and self centered. And, they have absolutely no game. The most you can expect is for her to make herself approachable.
@@logicalmalethink4925 No approach is guaranteed a success friend,,, tactical or not.
Civilized after she gave you the cue that's why they rejected you civilized should have nothing to do with it where was your witty comment, where was the subtle innuendos? You talking about Donald Trump or office politics ain't going to get you anywhere plus how long did it take?
@@shan5445 you said a whole lot of nothing. Never been rejected. You didn't read to understand but to get sentimental.
That doesn't work with all women lol. A lot of toxic women out there will bait a man to holla then turn them down. They want the power to reject but don't want to be rejected. Case enpointe. It happened to the best of us. Years back I had a chic kept glancing at me then when I said something she said nah she's good. I said ok kept it moving. Nowadays men are waking up and seeing the game.
Speaking the truth
Maybe she was short sighted and when you came up she saw you on 4k???
I been saying this exact Shyt for 20 plus years!! Chics use dudes to uplift they dry ass insecurities 🤷♂️
@@allgasnobrakes919 eye contact and a smile is a power move don't fall for it. If you feel to go over don't cower to her play the power play back, how many men do you smile at like that. Or is that how you bait men in. Now she is on the back foot and if she likes you will have to back down. Or come up with something equally as witty.
You are absolutely right. Girls do this shyt always. I see them at my gym. I’m wise now. Imagine a girl asking how many sets you got left, it’s on normal when u are done to go tell her you’ve saved the machine for her and she can step in but then she goes, I’m good. B-txh you are stretching on the mat, i thought you wanted a different workout? These days I don’t care, when I’m done I am leaving even without a glance. I don’t care if someone else jump in ahead of you. I’m just not acting nice to these hoes again. That shyt affects me too much. Emotionally I’m in ruins.
Looking at a man and smiling is NOT a signal that it's ok to come talk to you. Because when men do that, women will say, hey, I do that to everybody. Women love playing games. Don't fall into their trap.
they are just cowards. not playing games. they dont have courage to do what they want us to do
@@barrytelesford5265but will shame a man ,if he missed the signal or didn't approach.
then defy such shaming. if we are men.then be men master the situation...
@@Eman14128
It's Ok to respond 😂
@@barrytelesford5265It's not cowardice. It's supply and demande. Every cute chick has a near infinite supply of men lining up to shoot their shot. So why would she give a shit and try when she's a dick magnet. Same with men who have what women want: money. Men with money have a damn near infinite supply of chicks lining up to catch their attention. Money is men's pussy magnet. Same way a millionaire not jumping through hoops to get a female's attention is not cowardice cause he got way too many options to give a shit, same way a cute girl is not a coward for not simping for broke dudes, cause her options are infinite.
My dumbass don't be catching hints like that at all. My nervous ass a smile back and keep walking 😂😂😂.
Catching those "signals" is like following directions from a blind man
Have a damn headache tryna figure that shyt out😂
@@cj2k779 swear bro..
@cj2k779 Smart man keep walking CHILD SUPPORT RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER 😂😂😂
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Satan has agenda 😂😂😂..The Devil will send women at Men also...
That's how men get fired for sexual harassment. She smiled at me so I shoot my shot smh
don't do it at work.
Lol yea don’t do it at work but it’s still bull jive either way
Excuses
Lmao bro don't ever try this at work
Facts..
I'm terrible with these mind games shii! I be fighting my own thoughts sometimes! I gotta think for you too 🤣🤣💀
Exactly
Lmaoooo !!
No fr
Every other woman will say she was just being nice. "Just because I look at you and smile doesn't mean I want u to come talk to me"
Word
Then simple just keep it movin, do the same thing they not all gonna say the same thing
True but....
There have been times where initially I wanted a guy to talk to me but once he started speaking, I changed my mind. Maybe what's going on with the woman who say that.
@@The-Oneness11proves his point even further.
This what it sounds like when a woman is scared to approach❤
Hit him with the “look at him” lmaoo 😂. Cause no one’s ever looked at anyone before so he knows exactly what that look is
😅😅😅
True…but it took me a LONG ASS Time to know the difference, learn to have social awareness. And there is a process to follow after too. After getting to know her you find that she is MEAN or she has changed her mind about you or you to her. It can go both ways.
And smile
Precisely
DON'T FORGET THE SECOND PART!:
Then she looks away 😂😂😂😂
Women should definitely approach men, I've been saying this for the longest. Women approach everything else in life she wants, what makes approaching a guy any different?
And they say men are lame. That's one of the lamest ways to let someone know you like them or are interested in them.
I completely agree!! I don't know why women think that it's cool for approaching someone to be one sided
Weakness
She is letting you know that for Women it's not lame. Listen, and learn, for when you are interested.
@@johnburgess3488 She is letting you know that Women approach men differently than Men Approach Women.
The question is, are you interested or not?
Which is y they dont approach men
Select few will approach or complement men. Most women are afraid of rejection but have no problem doing it to men.
A girl smiled at me one time, so I went and spoke to her and she said 'she smiles at many people' 😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ouch
This is a sweet and honest woman. What she may not realize is how many women out there live to destroy men who approach them, even after an apparent green light is given by them, and then laugh and ridicule the men who approached them.
Women will even edit and then post such occurrences to make a man appear to be a creep with the goal of humiliating the man. Nothing crueler than women who do this. This is why men do not approach women.
And I'd literally just keep going about my own business if I saw HER do THIS in public. I'm NOT a trained lap dog to read minds,jump through hoops, etc bc SHE is afraid of being rejected or even getting HER EGO bruised. I'm VERY handsome... I'm NOT gonna do the same shih a lesser SMV dude would have to do SOLEY bc she wants right to first refusal 😒😒😒😒💯💯💯💯💯🧔🏾♂️
Don’t do it at work. This is nightlife shyt
Sound gay
@@mh2584 I'm a woman, idiot!
Men approach me often. Some men don’t share this experience, some do and it still doesn’t deter them from approaching women they find attractive. If multiple women show you this kind of cruelty simply for showing interest you must a have a particular taste in women….Toxic.
Lol yeah she really doesn't get it at all 😂😂 just because a woman smiles and looks at you doesn't mean she's interested in you at all
It’s crazy. I used to like her a lot. But she is proof that women know the game, they just don’t care.
And that's a fact. I've been rejected several times still after I approached them when they smile and look at me. So now I do it right back and they get mad😂😂
@@highrising5266 ya fuck them 304’s
She gets it and that’s why she’s still single 😂😂😂
@@-Clarence- 😂😂
I just had a woman look at me, smile and she got very close to my personal space. I asked if she was married or had a man, she didn't say, just asked if I was trying to get her number. Well, duh! She said she was married after all that, still smiling all up in my face. So it doesnt really matter.
WTF😂
Wahmen are seriously fken stupid and annoying people.. they clearly aint got anything worth much
It’s always tough to determine flirting or if someone just being nice
Nah you thinking bout it too much even if they are being nice make a move if they don’t fw it don’t fw them it’s simple and most times you prolly might get rejected or she might be playing games but don’t play their game play yours 💯
Always
right
I agree.
The answer is being direct and stop being a bitch .
Women have abused their power for men to approach them , I think the dating world would be better if women approached men.
Agree
Ya but men including myself will still be hesitant.. especially if the laws havent or wont change.. that they favor women..
It would but they never want to work for anything or deal with rejection.
I approve this comment..
Its ok to approach wirh feminity & charm.
Women ain't got no game...lol
Women flirt like lil girls look at you and look away wtf are we in kindergarten? These women bruh. But they mature faster than us? RIIIIIIGGGGGHHHHTTT
lmao.... it's all lies they tell to keep the Disney fantasy illusion going. Most of their social cues are from grade school, alot of them never get out of it. But dudes have immature ways to, still coming to women trying to game them with the same ole shit lol.
RIIIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGGGHHHHTTT!!! 😂😂😂😂
Exactly!
The 'men' mature faster than men, sure...aka, they mature for men standards faster...
For women standards, they're on the same maturity clock men are....hence the "where have all the good men gone" phase...
😂😂😂
She don’t know what she’s talking about, now if she’s staring that’s a better sign. A smile ain’t much!
I think that’s what she means
She knows exactly what she's doing. She's cap
Outside of the most obvious of desirable men, and all that means is famous men, that's all women will generally do when they say they are making the first move.
They'll either look and look away. Or if they feel they look good enough that there's a chance you might approach or they think you already have an interest, then they'll do something like stand or place themselves in a spot where you're going to see them.
If women generally think you're attractive, if you're out somewhere and say you're sitting at a table by yourself, and there are several open tables around you. If a woman sits at a table that's next to yours or just one table away, and she's not trying to space herself out, good chance that's her making what she thinks is a move and she's hoping you'll strike up a conversation.
Women can't take rejection and their ego always has them feeling they shouldn't have to make the first move. So that's usually as much as they'll do. And congratulate yourself if they've ever done more because that means they find you more attractive than what they normally run into.
And of course, all that I said can change to more drastic, more overt actions under unique circumstances. Like vacations, spring break, if they know you're visiting in town and will only be around for a limited time.
No its a certain look with a smile than look way, it works.
Her energy is always so good. I’m glad for all the success she’s had
The only way a woman's gonna find a good man that she can trust… she's gonna have to go approach him… and break the cycle
BOOM
Exactly 💯😭 times have changed
@@chosen1one67 facts..a woman will have a better chance if she smile, have good conversation and approach the man.....Instead doing the usual, waiting for the man to make the first move pretending like he the best man,selling her dreams....But they complain about men being no good, trying to justify why they single..... Women need to start approaching a man that they're satisfied with and not trying to find a perfect man….
They only approach chad material. So if an ugly chick came talk to you, she thought you are a chad 😂
Dante Black
So true - Facts! Respect!
Women don’t approach they can’t handle rejection. They rather be the ones doing the rejection. They’re scared
Big facts
@violet's place No it's equal. A good man can be ruined by a bad woman. A good woman can be ruined by a bad man. I witnessed this multiple times
I don't think its the rejection aspect but the disrespect that some dude like to do and im not saying all but some of yall do go out yall way to disrespect a female especially if shes not attractive and i have seen it alot of times. You can reject somebody without be disrespectful and thats how i feel about it on both ends.
@@TaylorsKaNolsha this is the most ridiculous comment ever, when men reject women "the first few times" it's always polite and considerate unless they are persistent then it escalates, women will reject a man with contempt and disgust on a level that a man cannot even mimic let alone do by default. Women are way worse rejecting a man they don't like in general.
Women are typically attracted to an assertive man. Why would we approach (being dominant) if we want someone that’s just that, dominant. So it’s natural to let the guy approach or lead. Nothing to do with with rejection.
Still as a man, I can tell you most of the time when women do that it’s because they’re being NICE. Too many times as men we’ve been called creepy weird or bad at reading women because we assumed you liked us or want to fuck us.
Women don’t csre about being nice to a man they’re not attracted to you just don’t know how to seal the deal
Guys look there’s truth in both statements. The way to tell is to make a proposition. If she’s giving you signs and you ask for her number and she says no, then she’s not interested.
If you ask and she gives it to you then yes 👍 it’s a go. But it can all go to hell between those two points. If you ask her out and she starts filibustering then she found another guy that she likes better between the time that you got her number and called and asked her out. Listen I used to run five women at a time and they gave me sex , money, clothes, gifts one gave me a car etc..
This shyt is simple she’s either interested or not. Normally though their choosing between a set of guys that they like and you..
See??
@@logicalmalethink4925 You’ve obviously never had a woman smile and be polite to you out of curiosity. Because believing or not they do that. And idiots assume she wants to fuck you or she likes you
@@mrquick6775 privileged talk 😂 if you’re attractive you’re not creepy. If you’re not attractive, you’re creepy
@@-Clarence- I mean yea but that’s just my opinion!! 🤷
Seems you agree right?
lol that’s how you end up in jail for assault or harassment. Stay safe boys.
PLEASE!!! They don't have a problem cussing you out or belittling you but won't come up and speak🤔. Damn dizzy broads.
They are terrified of rejection like a hunter is afraid to be without his gun and you know what they say. It's no fun when the rabbit got the gun.
A man is supposed to pursue the female
The man is the hunter, she is not supposed to go after no man he is supposed to go over to her.
Factsss
😂 uh oh weirdo alert
@@yvettefambro3587 And a woman is to stay in her place and stay a virgin until marriage. That traditional BS is over...and ya'll made it that way.
OldSchool here. Listen and learn. Lol Fellas there is a look twice rule. If they look twice with a smile and it’s just not glance. Go holla. A simple hello with NO lame lines always works. And if it doesn’t. Just keep it moving. You don’t know them anyway.
They're too stuck in their excuses to listen. Then get mad when women go for older men. Yall know what it is unc 💯
My bf was raised by old-school parents, I smiled and entertained his conversation but he approached me. We've been together since then.
If she look then she took OG 💪🏼
I was in this situation the other day… thought of a bunch of lame lines but thought to my self “just go say HI” and see what happens….I didn’t go say hi so I will never know 😢hahaha
@@ricardorichmond2211 bruh??? Lol. You will get it right next time my guy!!
Mane hell nah this not the 60s just let us know cause tbh most women now ah days ain’t gone even do this
Most women hope their body language is enough. Unfortunately, ALOTTA men suck at reading body language. 😵💫🤣🤣
All women suck at approaching men.
Unfortunately, you are correct. Guilty as charged...
Fj bidy language speak because i dont wantnto hear no BS if i approached you
Yep and alot of women suck at giving signs too
There's nothing to read
That's why when I was single learned to just ignore them when they do smile and they did shoot their shot they hate to be ignored especially when they THINK they look good
My brother and I had this happen one Christmas going to see a movie. Two of the women working there were standing near us while we were at the concession area. One yells out "dang! I guess we must be ugly then.". We both looked at each other and laughed while ordering our food.
They all average, soon as you get their clothes off, it’s nothing special, just average. Yet they think their body be something no man has seen before
*A subtle gesture is not shooting your shot. it's called energy games. Either woman up or stay single.🔥💎🔥*
Weak.
@@4everyoung869yes you are.
@@marioalonzo1474 you men are weak. Y’all alway crying an complaining about women
Well it will deter the type we don't like. Assertive types are better.
I have been looked and smiled at before approaching several times, but it was never what I thought it was several times 🤷🏿♂️
It's because they love to play games like that, manipulation tactic, they like the attention, and the energy you give them. Just don't give them the time of the day because they are backwards creatures!
Its because they don’t like to appear thirsty, so they act like they’re not interested, if they’ve been single for a while then their bitch shield is on auto mode. As the man she thinks you are and the other options she thinks you have, you just gotta lead and not talk about the obvious signs she’s giving you and just small talk and carry your way into funny interesting conversations. It’s takes practice for most, for some it’s second nature.
I ignore the looks and smiles. Start a conversation like a fucking adult say hi or good morning or some lame shit. Don't be playing games like this is middleschool no one has time for that.
Facts
@@dominiquebrooks5842
Hahahaha 😅 😅 😅 😅 😅 backwards creatures lol 😆
Just because a woman glances at you doesn't mean a thing. If she glances and smiles, now she saying something
Nyyyye...Not Really.
SOS
DONT Really Mean Sh*t.
It's ALL About MATURITY.
Pce.
The smile included doesn't always mean anything either 😂
So could be happy or just admiring you... doesn't mean she wants to talk. And you can get rejected either way lol
She’s saying I hope he doesn’t try to talk to me 😂
We not scared just time consuming to start a conversation to charm and convince you.
Its called being scared.
@@falsealarmno Never. It's tiyering and boring.
@@BoMaedso you want the man to do the boring job? Oh the double standards
@@vedanshsingh5251 I really don't care I got important things to do than entertaining women.
@@vedanshsingh5251 ironic coming from you women. Double standards is your middle name.
She is right! Women always do what she is saying
"I don't do shit, I expect them to read my mind like every other woman" would've been a much shorter answer
100%
I'm with you man, bcos they are also said to be mind readers
"I'm not gonna bite you"
Translation: I can humiliate you in public and tarnish your reputation but I don't want you to think that.
😂😂😂😂😂
Go outside bro
Ladies just like anything else in life go for what you want. Don't sit there and wait for it to come to you.
And women wonder why they make less than men. They don’t do the hard things that men are willing to do
They are child. They never go for what they want , someone has to do the job for them
Boy, if I had a nickel for every time a woman smiled at me, just to find out later it was a whole other nigga behind or beside me, I'd be Bill Gates' nephew. 😭🤣
Yoo you snapped with this comment cause that shit kinda true 😭
@@toniodagreat9761 it happens WAAAAAAAY too often for my liking, fam. 🤣🤣🤣
You a real one for this🤣🤝
Fellas, what's the worse that can happen? All she can say is "no, I'm good", so dont be afraid of rejection! Women are like busses, 1 comes every 15mins ✊🏾
Unless she clowns you in front of people. Ugh you ugly, yo shirt wrinkled, you got a big nose lol
Naw bro a lot more can happen, these chics literally posted vids of them rejected men 😂 i see them all the time, im not saying dont shoot your shot but just know clout is a real drug now a days
@@rickh9811So, lol. Its a no. Everyone is going to hear no. If the dont getbused to "no". They will just be alone 😂
They do more than say I'm good They try to shame, disgrace, belittle, clown on you sometimes get real ugly with you just cuz you approach them.😈
@@proact8093 So, once I know a woman isn't a romantic option, everything after that is white noise. I just walk away until I'm can't hear the chirping lol
Looking and smiling is not often times enough to convey interest to a man as he said most men are afraid to approach women 🤦🏾♂️
Thats a wide open invitation dawg. A random girl isn’t just gonna smile and keep lookin at you for no reason. Yall be too in ya head.
@@mishad8002 naw for sure most dudes do be in there head to much when it comes to approaching women but at the same time everybody don’t know that most dudes oblivious to that type of shit.
Not even about fear. There’s plenty of women who do this and then hit you with the plot twist. We’re adults, speak what’s on your mind. Most guys will simply say yes or no. Most women will turn it into a chance to ruin your reputation or you’re gonna get some skins. Too risky to miss these days.
@@joejett5084 Facts 💯
@@mishad8002 no.. women just smile to be nice alot of then times.. stop confusing it.
Women have had it way too easy for way too long. Literally looking at someone for 2 seconds is all the work they expect to have to put in. That’s crazy.
It's time for them to sit at the adult table from now on otherwise they can expect to be lonely for the rest of their lives. Almost every woman out there is never going to score a Brad Pitt so they're just going to have to settle for the average JoeBlow instead if they are ever going to want something serious.
Last thing you need for her to say is “oh no i was smiling to the guy behind you .” 😂😢
That happens a lot!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭
Or "eww, get your lil ugly ass away from me, creepy guy." Lol ive seen sone women clown dudes who approach them
Usually, they smile 😃 at me but only because I'm god's gift 🎁 to women. 😶
Gentlemen! please keep in mind, a smile ain't what you think it is.
I had women do this man times and they were just being nice. Not interested. So yeah that don't mean crap. Some do that just for attention and validation.
That Always worked for me. If she looks for 2 more seconds or more I know I can approach.
A simple introduction is appropriate by either party. You’ll know by the response or eye contact.
It's STILL not safe to talk to women these days it's SO not worth it.
lol
Facts
That's how I feel about men. Scary.
@tracydorsey1675 REALLY?? if so why there's a lot of men are avoiding or going their own way then? I think 🤔 the REAL scare is that most will find other ways to enjoy themselves and a lot of women are very concern of the next Generation that will think the same of the current one.
U must be soft it's always worth it
Women don't understand rejection that shit is discouraging getting rejected time and time again and then have the mindset to keep doing it is very discouraging
So many women refuse to make the 1st move, so they don't understand this. They won't understand until they initiate romantic/dating stuff with us men on the regular.
@@marcus813they understand rejection perfectly. They just dont have the courage to face it.
What's wrong with a woman approaching a man... We both are sexual beings.. who have wants and desires go after what you want man or woman
Nothing wrong with it but women should start approaching cause men are literally giving up nowadays
One of the best comment sections in RUclips history, you guys definitely did not disappoint 💯🛋️🍿
I like how she's afraid of rejection 😂😂😂
Men are afraid of rejection. Rejection is the name of a woman’s existence.
She too pretty tho
She's wak tho😂
@@musasumareh3000which is why she scared of rejection. “If someone that fine gets rejected she must be really bad” type shxt
@@flatbkush6she’s really not though shes not 10/10 looks wise but this is a real women not a lil ass female with no morals
A woman smiled at me as we walked past each other today. It was NOT and invitation. Just a friendly acknowledgement. Men need to understand this type of situation to avoid coming across creepy. Context is important.
I went to a party and had a couple of girls keep looking at me the whole evening. Ever since I stopped drinking, I'm not risking it 😂
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Why can't you just go to a party to just make some friends?
Y'all men really got no game at all 😂😂
@@Victoria-gc6ms since you got game better than us then do the approaching, you hypocritice
@@jossy__fresh I didn't say I have good game at all
Shoot your shot, ladies. It’s fine. Then give him the space to pursue you.
Problem is when they shoot their shot, they’re VERY indirect. Most guys can’t tell she’s interested in something more than an irrelevant gesture or small talk.
Nah it's Hella direct. EYE CONTACT is her seeking your attention. The next move is on you. Even pimps know that it's women who initiate the game by CHOOSING.
Well said
@@chumajamesnxele106 No it’s not direct. A look by itself isn’t direct. And what the hell does the pimp game have to do with directness. That’s generally about the subliminal. Using that as an example for directness is contradictive lol
@@JrRimp No its not a contradiction. The izm understand women better than all y'all squares😂 The izm is the MOST DIRECT. Ain't nothing subliminal about a smooth criminal getting residuals from females. Quit wanting women to display attraction like men, that's boring, chase my brother, chase!
And then they say "wow I can't even be friendly anymore"
Don't listen to this woman and end up being called the office creep.
Naaaaah gang a lot of men don't know because the only men that get that love is in the 20 percent ... 80 percent will never feel it and just because she smiles it doesn't mean she's interested... I don't think y'all understand how many men don't have game just good hearts.
That's like 1/10 of the signs that we need to be sure. Giggling, nervousness, proximity, etc. We need more than that because the girl could be super friendly or you're getting played for attention
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honestly, I don't want to be getting all these proposed mixed signals and all, so I just no longer bother approaching women. Whenever I notice a woman my age subtly look and me for a few secs and smile, I just take it as they're not into me & are just being nice.
If a woman smiles and initiates conversation then thats when u go for it
I've asked out girls at work who did this and they still rejected me. Some women like to play games and i ignore them afterwards when they pull that bs. Just because she finds u attractive doesn't mean she'll make it easy for you.
Dont try to find women from work. Nothing but problems and as a man if something happens even though you never did, you will be out of employment before you even know it.
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She makes it sound so easy like this is the 70’s knowing damn well us guys get called names before we could even introduce ourselves for “the look” 😂
That’s why I don’t do that walking up shit if you wanna fw me say that I feel like when they do shit like her it’s lame asf why not say something instead of giving looks it don’t make sense to me
Well she isn’t exactly open for just anyone… you gotta get your game up… improve yourself first to the point where the name calling doesn’t come or effect you
Damn lol smh!!
I wouldn't even say scared. It's just a lot of trial and error for most guys, and on top of that you can be accused of things and the target of gossip. Just to be told that just cause a woman smiles doesn't mean they are interested in you. It's a lot of hassle. Sometimes the whole situation just isn't worth the hassle.
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The secomd part is that its exhausting , at some point you realize the fine line between and a relationship is also the fact that some women that would otherwise be interested in you dont let it be known. So its like...this isnt all on men. Women need to be direct.
Energy never lies it is what it is
I'll reject a woman real quick...
My red flags.
1. Fake Hair
2. Fake Eyelashes
3. War Paint
4. Jurassic Park Pterodactyl Claws
KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.
Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.”
Ecclesiasticus 25:13 “Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman:”
Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”
Proverbs 6:26
“For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.”
2 Esdras 16:49
“Like as a whore envieth a right honest and virtuous woman:”
Proverbs 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
Proverbs 9:13 A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing.
Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:25 “A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.”
Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.
Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 “A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.”
Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.”
Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”
Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.”
1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.”
1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.”
1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord.
Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.”
Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
1 Esdras 4:26 “Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes.”
Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.”
Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.
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😂😂😂not the war paint. Some women spend hours putting that mask on!
Lol is any woman giving you the opportunity to reject them though?
@@theangryblackman5054 that BMW 325I does it, now what
She’s capping…..if a woman smiles at you it’s not an invitation to go talk to her……That’s Bullshit woman!!!!! ✊
@calvarado1520 She's talking about herself amigo
If a woman smiles at you. It doesn't mean anything really. She's just friendly. The same woman probably smiled at the last 10 guys that walked by her, doesn't mean she was physically attracted to or interested in everyone.
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@@amarirasheed6Lol I think we’re talking about a simple smile. These woman will stare until you see them. Then when you make your move they’ll reject you, that’s bs.
Funny. I was at a bar. This chick made DIRECT eye contact with and waved at me. So I pulled up to get at her. She told me she engaged. I was mind boggled like well wtf was that then? 😂😂😂
Maybe trynna see if she still “got it”😂
@itsddashrock lol yea most def. I just kept it moving tho. I'm not pressing anybody in any type of relationship. That's drama waiting to unfold.
If she's still playing and claims she has another man, she still has the side door unlocked.
So do you want us to be friendly or not then we’re considered mean
@@rubyreign289 lol why are you trying to flip this into something it ain't?
Perpetual singles talk like this. Most married women are very intentional. Men of value generally don't have to go talk to any woman. This works for average men, and below.
Thing that’s crazy is good men are shy. Think about how many good men passed u up cuz all u did was look at him.
💯 facts!!
Exactly I like woman who are honest and not afraid to say something
Ive had women stare at me as they walk away.. shit makes me nervous/shy too.. like no smile, just a deer in the headlights look.. 😂
Conservative because we respect the rights of woman and the biggest rights violation is approaching a woman that dosnt want to be approached especially if she’s just a nice girl
@@couldnevabmegangsta1340 Facts! They just gotta be straight-up about it (Not sloppy, ghetto, or rude, but just direct with it). Respect!
I would just smile back and carry on with my day. Happens all the time...
😂 i really do this. Then she comes in and rolls her eyes at me the next day. Egomanics😂
I think what Melli was trying to say it depends with a place also, maybe at a party or pub or in a social event/ gathering but not when walking in the street or in a public transport or something. Place matters for this to work. IMO..
The way it used to be. Give the man a sign to approach you, that’s it. Too much computer meeting/dating. No one knows how to communicate in person anymore. We’re all gonna have hump backs from looking at our phones.
As a woman, I would compliment something on him and just be myself. If he’s not into it, then oh well. Men should have the same attitude.
Men should have the same attitude?. We do and beyond, women love to be difficult
What is a compliment supposed to do
And women aint shooting shit..Us men are forever shooting out shot..We win some or lose some..
My current score : wins:1 , loses: idfk I lost count
You're looking and smiling while the man's thinking 3 to 5 years and called creepy and a pervert for looking back at you!
Facts!!!
It couldn’t be that bad.. 😅
Wtf do y’all be saying to these women
@@jaswazhere7679nothing thats the problem!
Since she got rejected online for everyone to see, she doesn't approach men anymore. 😂 so basically, she wants men to act out of insecurity and ask her, “What are you looking at?”
😂😅 I knew it was something, which video is that? If you don’t mind me asking
Shes going to be looking and smiling for the rest of her life if thats what she think, will make a man approach her
@@313Martin You should be able to look it up here. Just type Meli Marraco gets rejected. I'm not hating on her, either. I just stumbled across that video.
@@danteblack193 Yeah, and does she know how many females do that just to be nice?
I figured that . Cause before then she was totally advocating females make the first move. Explains the hesitancy. Women really cant stand getting curved. Fcks with thier self worth 🙃
Why is it so difficult for women to recognize that they created the dynamic where men just don't see them as worth the effort.
We need verbal conformation, not just looks. #AfricanGrowth #PleaseSpeakUp
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Woman never come and express her feelings she will always sit back and wait for you to approach.
Bcus she is less of a woman
And that's how it should be.
@@deep.679 No it shouldn't
@@deep.679 women are supposed to drop little hints for us to pick up so we can come and approach.. its always been like that, but nowadays its “a stare” like wtf am I supposed to do with that lol
@@deep.679 Based on pride or inferiority?
Or what ur society has made u believe?
She does it *just right* 👌 A certain look from a woman *is all* that's necessary 💯
Nigga what? What she just did in this short looks like she just staring into space.
I agree what you're saying. But not very many women do that nowadays because they are not acting like females girly girls. What I'm saying is natural femininity will still do this but a lot of women don't embrace their natural gender any more getting away from that acting more masculine that's why it's getting very confusing with mixed signals 😕 the men are the ones supposed to be more stoic and stone face looking. It would help if they smile a little bit more and try using a higher and softer tone. 💯♥️
Hell no
dude women can stare and smile ear to ear to their dad, brothers, friend zoned friends etc. In fact they smile more to strangers then they would with the partners. so what vague kind of signal is this?!!
even some men have a happy smile natural stare...
That's what she's saying now!
I saw her shoot her shot once. It was on camera. Should still be on RUclips. The guy rejected her and she looked like she couldn't believe it lol.
They be looking down in their phones trying to avoid eye contact checking windows and reflection to see if you are looking or coming but want you to talk to them.
And then complain no men approach them anymore.🙄
Can they be anymore ridiculous. It’s either me too and sexual assault accusations, or sexual harassment and calling me creeps then moaning where have all the good men gone and they don’t approach me. 🙃🙄
You ain’t gonna get Brad pit you’re gonna have to settle for standard old Russell and give him a clear sign you like him or he’s not coming.
That thing she said not to do is exactly what you gotta do ladies. Approach guys
Exactly. They're the ones with the unlimited requirements, super high standards and super shallow, superficial desires
If you approach a woman as the average Joe, the success rate is extremely low though. You got a higher chance to get a harassment charge than you have of just getting a polite rejection.
“I might look at you” proceeds to do 1000 yard desolate stare
Smile and move along. People are weird and you may not want to be near them.
The same "Im the shit attitude women have for theirselves" I also have for myself as a Man.fck that.
Me too. She has to qualify to me. She has to come to me. If not, she gets nothing. So 99.99999% of chicks get nothing. But that’s all good. I only need 1 quality chick.
@@tylergary5953 true,I like that. All you need is that quality one but if I cant get that one I will settle for one that wants to fck me anytime Im ready and Im good.