I personally find it refreshing and relatable that you are showing your down in the dumps/struggling side. All too often people paint pictures of life that are idililic, even though i know a lot of it is manufactured, and it actually makes me feel like I'm failing at life. Annnnnd there is nothing I hate more than people speculating that someone in public eye is pregnant..as you said you don't know if that person is dealing with something; a miscarriage, fertility struggle etc..it's sooooo freaking rude. Keep being Lily, Lily!
Lorraine Sands I couldn't agree with you more. Very well said! I want the raw & real not all the shiny perfect bits and I definitely get how you say that it sometimes makes you feel like you're not doing things right. On the pregnancy front you nail it too. It baffles me how rude people can be about such personal things. You just never know what someone is going through! And even if everything is good, it's simply none of our business.
Lorraine Sands yep agree. I get asked all the time if I have kids, then when up I say no I either get - well plenty time yet or why not?? I'm 35 and have no plans for kids. No ones business but mine why not. Chin up lily and dont worry. Everyone has ups and downs. I still think your amazing. Xxx
Watching you be sad and moany is making me feel like I'm not alone feeling this way today, so don't hesitate to show us how you really feel. You really don't need to be all bright and shiny all the time for us to want to watch your videos and crave for more :)
Lily, thank you for being honest about how you've been feeling. Sometimes the you tube world can project this idea that there is some magical place where everything is jolly all the time. Of course there isn't for you, any more than there is for the rest of us. Your authenticity is one of the things I most appreciate about your work. You balance that with keeping your privacy intact quite well.I have a lot of respect for the way you conduct yourself. Wishing you happier times.
I love how this was just titled "a home day vlog" but was insted a vlog that featured loads of interesting discussions, including how life is when you're not feeling well, being called pregnant all the time and how your relationships with your friends change as you get older. Understated title, interesting content!
I get that. The pace of working online / on social media really is hard to keep up with... But the quality of your content is not decreasing in any way. Maybe a weekend away and offline would help? 😘
I like it when you're honest about feeling. This might sound silly but it's nice to see that you're just like us and have off days too. It honestly feels like rare for youtubers to be genuine now but it is so brave to do that in my opinion and we as your audience appreciate that so much. Love youuu x
Just a thought if this down time continues or worries you unduly, a full blood test to check hormone levels, thyroid etc. might be an idea. It's as normal as hell to have low days and this is hardly acknowledged on social media where everyone appears to be perfect. I see from your comments how many appreciate your honesty and can relate totally. Love your content and take care. X.
Lily I actually really like that you talk about if you're feeling down or something like that. You keep your content real for us by doing that and I definitely appreciate it.
Thank you Lily for speaking so openly, I haven't commented on here before but wanted to let you know I appreciate your honesty. We all have times we we feel low and it's so important to talk about our mental health.
Lily, I've only just discovered your channel and I just wanted to say how lovely your videos are. You seem so grounded, humble and kind. Hope you're feeling better! Going on a binge watch now! x
I think that what we want is for you to be well & happy, but we also want you to be real. Hope whatever has you a bit down in the dumps passes quickly and you're back to your old self. :) Always look forward to your content, whatever it is...vlog/vid/post.
Lily we love you, and I feel you don't have to be little miss sunshine all the time. I appreciate your ability to be yourself. We all go through highs and lows, and that's ok! Thanks for being you and sharing your time with us. You are awesome, just as you are 🤗
Actually, its nice to hear someone not painting life as rainbows and ponies, trips and red carpets! It's nice to hear you discuss other things and how you feel in yourself because WE ALL FEEL LIKE THIS and don't want to talk about it either for the same reasons as you. As always you are so eloquent with how you explain yourself and I think even I feel more comfortable talking about about when i feel like this more now that you have. I do hope you feel happier again soon. You might well do by the end of the video, I paused to right this, now to continue :) x
Paushed again! I feel the exact same way about Fenty, so impressed with what she has done, and she really has made such a statement but as a consumer, i didnt feel like it spoke to me either. OK back to watching, back soon. xx
I totally agree that people should not ask others if they are pregnant. If a person is, and they want to tell you, they will. I have a friend, and because they have been married for 14 years, people always ask her, "Don't you want kids?" Well, they do. They really do. They have been trying to get pregnant for 10 years, but there are some health issues that have interfered. So when people ask her, it hurts.
Hi Lily, I watch every one of your videos but don't think I've ever commented before. It sounds like you are going through a tough time and it can't be easy working on your own and motivating yourself at times like that. All your viewers are here for you (even the less vocal ones). I enjoyed this vlog so much even though you think you moaned, you are one of the most authentic 'youtubers' out there and I really admire the courage and integrity you put into your work every single day. Enjoy your honeymoon when it comes - a well earned break! xx
Hi Lily, I just wanted to tell you about something: There was a time a few months ago when I really wasn't feeling that well either. It was the time before my A levels which doesn't sound that hard but it was such a horrible time for me since I am really ambitious and was just studiying the whole day for months. In the end it turned out all well but you know what? It was yours and Annas videos (the old and the new ones) which got me through that time and I am thankful for that. Especially now that you are not feeling too well I would love to give back some of what you gave to me but I really can't - it kind of sets me up. So all I can do is hope that you are reading this comment and feeling better for two seconds because you really did help me, no matter if you were in a bad or in a good mood. Don't pretend to be something that you aren't. xx
Lily we always feel sad and awkward Sometimes and this is a part of our lifes. Just concentrade on your love, family and these little things which bright your day and bad days will go away. You are so funny, honest and magnificant human being. I love watching you and Anna! Xxx
Hi Lily! I personally have these days too but instead of trying to 'get over it' and be positive, I actually savor the 'bad mood' and dwell in it. But I give myself a deadline to really feel it out and hopefully understand what's causing it. I found that when I try to 'get over it' so quickly, the feeling never goes away and I just get frustrated. We love you either way, we like you for being you, being real, not being happy and 1 mood all the time! x
I totally understand how you are feeling. It is so hard to put on a cheery public face when you feel down. Hang in there and remember how much you inspire and help others through your work.
Aww lily! I hope you feel better. No need to pretend you're feeling positive if you're not. We all have times when we're feeling a bit down. Be kind to yourself and feel how you need to feel. Lots of self care and being nice to yourself is the best thing you can do. When I feel like that I always think.. treat yourself the way you'd treat your best friend if they felt down. I do hope you feel better soon. I ALWAYS love your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lily, I truly appreciate you being honest about your feelings and conveying your real feelings rather then being superficial. This is especially important with social media constantly showing us how "good" other people have it....we all feel down at times and it's so refreshing to hear someone else who feels the same way that I do sometimes. Just this Tuesday I was so sad and anxious and I didn't have any reason. Listening to you today made me feel so much better ❤️
Thanks for sharing. Love your vlogs. Quick question: have you had your vitamin d levels checked? It may sound odd but I was feeling like you....not quite right and sad. Didn't know what was happening. Got full blood work and my vitamin d and iron were barely traceable. I have been taking supplements for awhile now and they have changed me completely. People who live in places where there isn't loads of sun tend to be more prone to defencencies. Just thought I would mention it. Might be worth looking at.
Kelly Miller exactly what I was thinking, most of us are Vitamin D deficient in this country.....definitely worth having it checked. It really does make a massive difference to your wellbeing, mood and energy levels, vitamin D3 is what's needed x
Second this! Your iron, vitamin D and B12 levels have an enormous effect on mood, energy levels and general wellbeing but they're often overlooked. Might be worth a blood test. Hope you feel more like yourself soon! x
Two things....1. My grandmother used to say "Never insinuate a lady is pregnant unless you literally see a baby emerging from her"...well said. 2. Dreaming of snakes is normal if your emotions are kind of out of whack. Conversely, it also represents transcending consciousness. Sounds like you are subconsciously acknowledging your current mood and trying to work past it as you've said....hope it passes soon :)
I think it's awesome that you are being 100% transparent with us about not feeling super cheery and upbeat right now. Life is about going through various cycles and that means having some ups and downs. It's comforting for me to see a successful blogger such as yourself that is just as human as me with you good days and not so great days. We love you no matter what phase of your life you are in Lily and your honesty makes you even more endearing 💞
Sadness is a part of life, whether we want it to be or not. It's ok to feel gloomy. It's human. Sending a lot of love your way ☺️ hold on, you will be ok, I am sure of it. Love your genuineness. ❤️
I'm really glad you told people to be more considerate with their comments and questions - well done because I think sometimes a line needs to be drawn! ❤❤❤
Thanks so much! Can't wait to get back into the work force. I've been at home with my kids for 6yrs. The nerves are real but all your words of encouragement are greatly appreciated
Lily - I loved this vlog. It felt like having a long chat with a good friend about real life things. I also really appreciate that you're authentic with us and aren't buying/reviewing the Fenty Beauty products just because they've been newly launched. I'd rather hear an honest review of products that you genuinely like and will be using. I hope that you're feeling better this week! xx
Lily, I like that you've been really honest about feeling a bit down lately. This is real life and we all go through periods of feeling like we're uninspired or in a rut or lacking motivation, and that's ok. Thanks for keeping it real. I often find in moments like this it's important to grasp on to the things that do bring you joy until you start feeling a shift towards being 'yourself' again. Keep your chin up and I hope you'll feel better about things soon.
I love how you are being honest with us. Everyone has a day or a few days where we don't feel that well an bright. I hope that those days end anytime soon :)! can't wait for the next videoooo
Hi Lily, I just wanted to let you know that I totally feel you! Sometimes you just don't know what's making you sad. Sometimes time just has to solve the problem. I am also feeling that way at the moment. Also, I totally agree on the pregnancy topic. A friend of mine just can't get pregnant and everyone around her is just asking her why she isn't pregnant yet. Every time i hear that it makes me so angry! It is such a personal topic!
Don't worry, you don't look pregnant. It's just a combination of your age and the fact that you're recently married. You see, you're a woman and it's your responsibility to breed. Even coming from other women it's sexist, controlling bullshit. But that's how it is, some people are just incapable of thinking for themselves and making their own choices so they assume everyone else is the same. And before anyone starts, I'm not having a go at anyone who has kids, I just think if you have kids you should make a conscious choice to have them, instead of just doing it because you're expected to.
Talking about pregnancies and babies always remind me of awkward moments at work.. Used to have a male colleague who's been married for over 10 years and had no kids, our boss wished him fertility for every birthday, it was beyond horrible and cringy.
I'm sorry to hear that you're sad, but as regards being fake chirpy, I really appreciate your authenticity. Hopefully the lull will pass for you soon. Keep on keepin on x
Lydia Carels, hmmm...I've been thinking about getting that. This time of the year, my scalp freaks out. In California, its hot and particularly dry in the fall. I think I'll give it a try.
I know that you're conscious that you may not come across as being incredibly chipper or bubbly in your videos; but one of the reason I'm subscribed to you and keep watch is because of your realness. It's nice to see how honest you are unapologetically human quite frankly! You come across in a genuinely relatable way which is refreshing. I also love that you check people that ask of assume that someone is pregnant - you're so right about online etiquette! I too feel that fruit flies are the bane of my life right now! Thanks for sharing Lily, much love 💜 x
I appreciate that you are honest. Life isn't always perfect even when there's nothing "wrong." I feel your honest vlogs make you seem more realistic because honestly, no one can always be "up"
it's okay not being happy and positive all the time, no one does. i think, people often feel pressured by the happy youtube world and it's important to show that it's not always like this. sending you love and energy for whatever you're going through! ♥️
I love you Lily for being true in your videos and being sad and moany sometimes because it's impossible not to feel those some days! And for that it feels like you're a friend 💕
Your videos are the perfect combination of an escape from a hectic day and someone that I can so relate to. Been such a fan for so long and hope whatever has you down gets better!
I had dry (painful) lips my whole life and also episodes of severe cold sore all over my lips... the only lip balm that has healed them is the Cold Cream Lip Balm by Avene. It comes on a squizzy tube. It's like a creamy pomade. I put a thick layer on my lips every night before going to sleep and has done wonders for my lips! Best thing ever. Of course, everyone is different and we react differently to products but I thought I would share in case you want to give it a try. xx
The one thing I love about your channel is you come across completely genuine so please don't feel like you have to hide how you're feeling it'll just make you feel more stressed and pressured. Always love your content whatever you put out ❤️
I have also been feeling a bit down in the dumps recently and to see something so realistic and so relatable makes me feel like I'm not alone! i love all your vlogs no matter what you're doing with your day. You're amazing Lily and thank you for being you x
Hi Lily, I don't usually comment on videos but I really relate to what you said at the start of the video. I'm in a sad headspace and it sometimes feels like too much trying to contain it and not bring others down or worry them. It must be a lot harder for you being in the public limelight as people are quick to judge and criticise you for having a down moment. Sometimes you just need to work your way through what you are feeling and you'll know when you are back to being you. Sending you lots of love and hope you well in all other respects. Peace! Rosina xx
Don't worry about vlogging while you are feeling down. I have had a bit of a "meh" week myself, and it actually made me feel better to watch your video and see that other people have a similar experience--struggling to be and feel positive all of the time. Thank you for sharing your day and speaking openly and honestly!
I totally agree with regarding pregnancy questions , I am TTC for 5 years and every time people ask me these kind of questions i feel sad , really sad .
Personally, I find you so much more 'real' than other youtubers. I don't mind the ranting, or grumbling, it's really refreshing actually! Keep on being you, that's why we like you! Your videos are almost like hanging out and catching up with a friend, with bits of travel, makeup, and fashion thrown in. Also total side note, as a fellow curly-haired girl I know you love your hair straight, but I'm so curious so see what it would be like styled with a good curling mousse or gel!
Lovely Lily, credit to you for being so honest. Make sure you're taking enough care of yourself and take well deserved breaks. A lot of feeling down can be linked to sheer exhaustion and burn out. Make time for the things that you love doing and remind yourself that 'this too shall pass' take care xx
I appreciate your realness Lily. Your energy really came through, and we all have days like this. I've also had a crappy feeling week, and i like that you vlogged anyway and didn't try to force the excitement. Personally i don't like watching people who seem to be on cloud 9 all the time, that stuff messes with your mind and you can give in to feeling like your own life is crappy cz it's not on go all the time. Feel free to be honest always, your followers won't mind. I really like your personality, all sides that you share, and no fluff, but i think you're cooler than most. xxx
Bed + sandwich + cup of tea + video from Lily = perfect combination! We can't be happy all the time so it's ok if you're not feeling well lately. In fact, I appreciate that you show what you're going through. I'm not having a great time either and your videos help a lot because I enjoy them so much. I really love your content. I like that you are an spontaneous person. Hope you get better soon. It must be really hard to deal with social media and all that it implies (negativity, disrespectful comments) but as in life we must work to focus in the good things and positive feedback. I've been following you for years so I feel like I know you a little bit and that is great. Thanks for making my day! ❤️
oh Lily, really sad to see you struggling, such an honest genuine chat on your vlog, your content is still as good as it always was, if not better. I do hope you have a lovely holiday in Italy, and you get your enthusiasm back. so sad to see you like this. when you said " I don't really know much anymore " that was heartbreaking ! also you were so happy with your office a while back is it dull lighting ? or working alone that is making you feel isolated, also your lips this has been such a long time now and no wonder you are not feeling yourself with your lips hurting you. i'm glad you addressed the ridiculous rude pregnancy comments. take care of yourself. I look forward to seeing your next vlog, Gillian XX
Loved this vlog. I have days where I just feel kinda low for absolutely no reason at all, it's nice to know that I'm not alone! You're just so real, this is why I love you!!
This is so real and relatable. Thanks for just being you, no bullsh*t or trying to hide a bad day. Just know your online community are all here for you 👍🏼 love from Australia
Hi 👋🏼 - I know you said that you've literally tried everything to cure your lips but I just wanted to say I was in a similar boat last year until I used Lanolips - I've had the strawberry and the peach ones (don't look at the tinted ones) and I would never use anything else now. You can get them in boots. Just thought I'd mention it in case it helps :)
the christophe robin salt scrub is my favorite scrubbing shampoo and it smells amazing! you don't have to worry about getting anything gritty out of your hair because the salt will eventually dissolve under the spray of your shower
61 year old fan here. Love your stuff! Stalked the blush jumper and I love it, wouldn't have it if not for you. I personally feel that there is pressure on women to "put on a happy face" and found your honesty to be refreshing. I agree with the previous comment about vitamin D levels, is it time for a checkup? It's hard to be a human sometimes. Keep depression on your radar and take care! The Christophe Robin salt scrub solved all my scalp issues.
This is how I've been feeling lately. I'm working away like mad on my blog and seeing zero progression and I always look at successful online women like you and think they have it all and must be so happy all the time. It was refreshing to hear you still go through those times were your negative and down about life. Hopefully it'll pass and we will both be back on track ❤️ I appreciate your honesty in this video so much!
Lily I love your videos and watch every single one of them! I love it because of the realness of it whether you're in a negative mood or not. Im not annoyed by it I guess after watching you for years you are like a friend to me talking about everything in life or whinging about stuff which is perfectly normal between friends!
Lily, I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate and enjoy this type of vlog content! Always happy and perky vlogs are not only unrealistic, I often find them to be quite annoying. I'm having a home day right now with laundry and errands and it feels oddly comforting and positive to know I'm not alone in feeling down. I'd rather watch this than non-stop excitement all the time :)
I absolutely adore the fact that you're so true and just saying how you're feeling at the moment in life. I guess that we all have times when we don't feel great and that's all right, that's how it is! You're so honest, loving it! Keep going 😊💋
Not to say that I was happy to hear that you're dealing with sadness and negativity, but it was refreshing to hear you mention it. In the beauty community I always feel like theres such a pressure to be happy all the time with high energy levels. It's okay to go through a bad patch of time, your content is still as interesting as always and it's refreshing to watch you address issues you have with comments and such.
I usually never comment your videos... I don't speak very good english so i hope my words will be well understood... Don't stop being yourself, you're just a wonderful human being with good and bad days... I mean, it's life! And life is not always made of smile and positive energy!!! It's ok to feel sad, nobody should have to pretend (even the youtubers)... because everybody have ups and downs (well, I have actually big ups and big downs... So I empathize a lot!) You're a smart and also sensitive person, and that's why I love you! I hope you're be better soon, take care!
Felt inspired to comment after your instagram story, as I never do! I always come back to your channel purely because you're not sickly sweet or squeaky, but relaxing, straight talkin and a real person! Keep it up!
Really appreciate the honesty of this vlog...too often on social media people portray the "perfect" which can be disheartening when you have struggles. Keeping it real shows you are just human that sometimes doesn't feel 100%. Hope you can work through your struggles.
I'm not used to comment, but I just wanted to tell you that it's so refreshing to see that you can have ups and downs, like everybody else, we can really relate to you. I love watching your videos and I think you are amazing!
I loved your closet videos in the past where you looked through what you have and then go shopping for the missing parts 😍 I hope you feel better soon and I love your videos either way 😊
Well you and your outlook and videos inspire and motivate me .... just got a new job and bought my first home, so remember that when you have your down days Lilly that you do that for a lot of young women too. We all have periods in our lives where we feel exactly how you describe in your video, it's normal don't beat yourself up your human. Allow yourself to feel that way, take sometime and do what makes you happy. Your more than what you do.
I actually LOVE this vlog, it's nice to see a day in the life where your just doing regular every day stuff. I hope your feeling a bit happier and more positive soon! I also watched the Apple launch, which I agree was so funny either little dramatic pause! I was totally geeking out, I LOVE apple products and literally watched the whole thing to see the phone! Haha x
Lily i think it's the change of season that's making you feel low. I honestly have been feeling the same very negative and i for sure think it's the winter blues! Love the honesty, after all you are human and can't possibly always be happy in life. Hope you feel better soon xx
I support you and appreciate you, Lily. Difficulties in life happen and it's not always something you want to share. Thanks for being open. I enjoyed the vlog. 💜
I'm one of your older fans (36), and I loved this video. I went through a 4 month period of feeling off and down and I'm finally coming out of it. Good luck! I felt a little lost so if you're feeling that way, I hope you find yourself and discover how to be good with life.
We all have negative periods in our lives, I love that you're so honest about everything. Re; the baby thing, That's all I get all the time and it's so so draining having to constantly answer to people. It's so rude!. People have no idea what struggles others may be facing and how hard it is having people constantly talk about it! Hope you feel better soon. Sending hugs. Xxx
Hey Lily, I watch all of your videos but Ι hardly ever comment. I watch your video last night but came here again today after watching your insta story about how happy these comments make you feel. I like your vlogs because they are so genuine. Life is not all about hauls and travelling and fancy events, sure they are nice to watch but it is even nicer to watch that you have a normal life like most of us. I wish you find your motivation soon!
Hi Lily - I have watched yours and Anna's videos for years and absolutely love them but never comment. They are sometimes the highlight of my day. I don't understand why people post negative comments or try to tell you what to do, thats surely not the point of it all. I loved this video and the honesty of it, think we all go through bits like this where you just feel flat and then things pick up again. Keep posting the videos- I love them!
I'm so glad you don't hide when you're feeling down (not glad you're down though obvs!) ☺ I think you're really helping your followers by making it a very normal thing and accepting it. Life isn't always rosy but it can sometimes seem like it online! I love your vlogs, they inspire me to be better and to keep pushing through even if I'm feeling down xx
I don't usually comment on videos but I watch all your videos and wanted to say that you shouldn't apologise for being down. I think there's a culture of being "falsely positive" and then, it makes the regular youtube watcher worry about why they're not as happy as the person on-screen. Similarly, thanks for not joining the flood of Fenty reviews. I really enjoy your own unique product views- don't be discouraged, I think you're great!
I am so glad I started watching you a few months ago (and therefore, I started following Anna ofc hahaha). I LOVE how real you are. Your videos are so pleasing to watch and your insta too. X from Belgium
Lily, I loved this vlog. I fully empathise with you, as I also don't feel all that great these days. I loved how you did lots of small things to cheer your self up a little. Very healthy and nice to watch. Lots of love xxxx
I am feeling the same exact way you are at the moment... so good to see someone else struggling as well, as weird as that sounds. Makes me feel less alone.
I actually really enjoyed this video, I really appreciate that you were so honest in telling us you're not feeling yourself at the moment! I still enjoyed this vlog as much as your super happy ones! The fact that you show both sides is why I love your channel 💕x
"I need to be a big girl and figure it out. " I just love you Lily! you're honest even when you're not feeling your best, which is totally relatable, since we all have bad days. love your videos 😄
Found your comment on the whys of not commenting that someone looks pregnant to be the most direct, succinct, honest, polite and refreshing one I've seen. As for feeling down, everyone does at times--whether or not they own it or not. Love the honesty!
It is ok to not be ok! I just had a super brutal day of teaching and I almost cried when a bus driver asked me to sit down because I'm just stressed and exhausted. Take some time out and offline time always helps! Also chocolate, chocolate is always the answer.
I personally find it refreshing and relatable that you are showing your down in the dumps/struggling side. All too often people paint pictures of life that are idililic, even though i know a lot of it is manufactured, and it actually makes me feel like I'm failing at life. Annnnnd there is nothing I hate more than people speculating that someone in public eye is pregnant..as you said you don't know if that person is dealing with something; a miscarriage, fertility struggle etc..it's sooooo freaking rude. Keep being Lily, Lily!
Lorraine Sands 100% agree with you x
Lorraine Sands I couldn't agree with you more. Very well said! I want the raw & real not all the shiny perfect bits and I definitely get how you say that it sometimes makes you feel like you're not doing things right. On the pregnancy front you nail it too. It baffles me how rude people can be about such personal things. You just never know what someone is going through! And even if everything is good, it's simply none of our business.
Lorraine Sands yep agree. I get asked all the time if I have kids, then when up I say no I either get - well plenty time yet or why not?? I'm 35 and have no plans for kids. No ones business but mine why not. Chin up lily and dont worry. Everyone has ups and downs. I still think your amazing. Xxx
Lorraine Sands thanks Lorraine x
Lorraine Sands you took the words right out of my mouth!
Watching you be sad and moany is making me feel like I'm not alone feeling this way today, so don't hesitate to show us how you really feel. You really don't need to be all bright and shiny all the time for us to want to watch your videos and crave for more :)
Agreed 100%!
Agreed!!!
Exactly!!!
natalka.b thank you x
Lily, thank you for being honest about how you've been feeling. Sometimes the you tube world can project this idea that there is some magical place where everything is jolly all the time. Of course there isn't for you, any more than there is for the rest of us. Your authenticity is one of the things I most appreciate about your work. You balance that with keeping your privacy intact quite well.I have a lot of respect for the way you conduct yourself. Wishing you happier times.
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I love how this was just titled "a home day vlog" but was insted a vlog that featured loads of interesting discussions, including how life is when you're not feeling well, being called pregnant all the time and how your relationships with your friends change as you get older. Understated title, interesting content!
I get that. The pace of working online / on social media really is hard to keep up with... But the quality of your content is not decreasing in any way. Maybe a weekend away and offline would help? 😘
You're always so kind in the comments, Justine. Love your channel!
I like it when you're honest about feeling. This might sound silly but it's nice to see that you're just like us and have off days too. It honestly feels like rare for youtubers to be genuine now but it is so brave to do that in my opinion and we as your audience appreciate that so much. Love youuu x
Just a thought if this down time continues or worries you unduly, a full blood test to check hormone levels, thyroid etc. might be an idea. It's as normal as hell to have low days and this is hardly acknowledged on social media where everyone appears to be perfect. I see from your comments how many appreciate your honesty and can relate totally. Love your content and take care. X.
You and those sunglasses! You crack me up. Sending lots of love LP xx
Lily I actually really like that you talk about if you're feeling down or something like that. You keep your content real for us by doing that and I definitely appreciate it.
Thank you Lily for speaking so openly, I haven't commented on here before but wanted to let you know I appreciate your honesty. We all have times we we feel low and it's so important to talk about our mental health.
Lily, I've only just discovered your channel and I just wanted to say how lovely your videos are. You seem so grounded, humble and kind. Hope you're feeling better! Going on a binge watch now! x
I think that what we want is for you to be well & happy, but we also want you to be real. Hope whatever has you a bit down in the dumps passes quickly and you're back to your old self. :) Always look forward to your content, whatever it is...vlog/vid/post.
Lily we love you, and I feel you don't have to be little miss sunshine all the time. I appreciate your ability to be yourself. We all go through highs and lows, and that's ok! Thanks for being you and sharing your time with us. You are awesome, just as you are 🤗
Actually, its nice to hear someone not painting life as rainbows and ponies, trips and red carpets! It's nice to hear you discuss other things and how you feel in yourself because WE ALL FEEL LIKE THIS and don't want to talk about it either for the same reasons as you. As always you are so eloquent with how you explain yourself and I think even I feel more comfortable talking about about when i feel like this more now that you have. I do hope you feel happier again soon. You might well do by the end of the video, I paused to right this, now to continue :) x
Paushed again! I feel the exact same way about Fenty, so impressed with what she has done, and she really has made such a statement but as a consumer, i didnt feel like it spoke to me either. OK back to watching, back soon. xx
OMG ITS BEEN A YEAR SINCE YOU GOT MARRIED! THIS IS NUTS!!!
I can't believe you are still struggling with your lips!!!
Lydia you're hilarious! This is cute - I love how supportive you all are of each other as you-tubers, it's so sweet and refreshing to see!
At least you stay true to yourself and your viewers. Not everyone is super positive, that's ok. I appreciate this a lot.
I totally agree that people should not ask others if they are pregnant. If a person is, and they want to tell you, they will. I have a friend, and because they have been married for 14 years, people always ask her, "Don't you want kids?" Well, they do. They really do. They have been trying to get pregnant for 10 years, but there are some health issues that have interfered. So when people ask her, it hurts.
Hi Lily, I watch every one of your videos but don't think I've ever commented before. It sounds like you are going through a tough time and it can't be easy working on your own and motivating yourself at times like that. All your viewers are here for you (even the less vocal ones). I enjoyed this vlog so much even though you think you moaned, you are one of the most authentic 'youtubers' out there and I really admire the courage and integrity you put into your work every single day. Enjoy your honeymoon when it comes - a well earned break! xx
Hi Lily,
I just wanted to tell you about something: There was a time a few months ago when I really wasn't feeling that well either. It was the time before my A levels which doesn't sound that hard but it was such a horrible time for me since I am really ambitious and was just studiying the whole day for months. In the end it turned out all well but you know what? It was yours and Annas videos (the old and the new ones) which got me through that time and I am thankful for that. Especially now that you are not feeling too well I would love to give back some of what you gave to me but I really can't - it kind of sets me up. So all I can do is hope that you are reading this comment and feeling better for two seconds because you really did help me, no matter if you were in a bad or in a good mood. Don't pretend to be something that you aren't.
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I appreciate your honesty that is why I watch you. Persevere you will get through this time and things will improve.
Lily we always feel sad and awkward Sometimes and this is a part of our lifes. Just concentrade on your love, family and these little things which bright your day and bad days will go away. You are so funny, honest and magnificant human being. I love watching you and Anna! Xxx
Hi Lily! I personally have these days too but instead of trying to 'get over it' and be positive, I actually savor the 'bad mood' and dwell in it. But I give myself a deadline to really feel it out and hopefully understand what's causing it. I found that when I try to 'get over it' so quickly, the feeling never goes away and I just get frustrated. We love you either way, we like you for being you, being real, not being happy and 1 mood all the time! x
I totally understand how you are feeling. It is so hard to put on a cheery public face when you feel down. Hang in there and remember how much you inspire and help others through your work.
Aww lily! I hope you feel better. No need to pretend you're feeling positive if you're not. We all have times when we're feeling a bit down. Be kind to yourself and feel how you need to feel. Lots of self care and being nice to yourself is the best thing you can do. When I feel like that I always think.. treat yourself the way you'd treat your best friend if they felt down. I do hope you feel better soon. I ALWAYS love your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lily, I truly appreciate you being honest about your feelings and conveying your real feelings rather then being superficial. This is especially important with social media constantly showing us how "good" other people have it....we all feel down at times and it's so refreshing to hear someone else who feels the same way that I do sometimes. Just this Tuesday I was so sad and anxious and I didn't have any reason. Listening to you today made me feel so much better
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Thanks for sharing. Love your vlogs. Quick question: have you had your vitamin d levels checked? It may sound odd but I was feeling like you....not quite right and sad. Didn't know what was happening. Got full blood work and my vitamin d and iron were barely traceable. I have been taking supplements for awhile now and they have changed me completely. People who live in places where there isn't loads of sun tend to be more prone to defencencies. Just thought I would mention it. Might be worth looking at.
Kelly Miller exactly what I was thinking, most of us are Vitamin D deficient in this country.....definitely worth having it checked. It really does make a massive difference to your wellbeing, mood and energy levels, vitamin D3 is what's needed x
Second this! Your iron, vitamin D and B12 levels have an enormous effect on mood, energy levels and general wellbeing but they're often overlooked. Might be worth a blood test. Hope you feel more like yourself soon! x
Kelly Miller yes, all my levels are fine. And I take Vitamin D every day :-) thanks though x
Two things....1. My grandmother used to say "Never insinuate a lady is pregnant unless you literally see a baby emerging from her"...well said. 2. Dreaming of snakes is normal if your emotions are kind of out of whack. Conversely, it also represents transcending consciousness. Sounds like you are subconsciously acknowledging your current mood and trying to work past it as you've said....hope it passes soon :)
I LOVE your grandmother!
EEN63 Me too! 😁
I think it's awesome that you are being 100% transparent with us about not feeling super cheery and upbeat right now. Life is about going through various cycles and that means having some ups and downs. It's comforting for me to see a successful blogger such as yourself that is just as human as me with you good days and not so great days. We love you no matter what phase of your life you are in Lily and your honesty makes you even more endearing 💞
Sadness is a part of life, whether we want it to be or not. It's ok to feel gloomy. It's human. Sending a lot of love your way ☺️ hold on, you will be ok, I am sure of it. Love your genuineness. ❤️
I'm really glad you told people to be more considerate with their comments and questions - well done because I think sometimes a line needs to be drawn! ❤❤❤
This makes me happy. Starting a new Job soon and my Anxiety is super high... But this calms me down a bit. 😬😀😬😀
Samantha Diaz good luck!! 🍀
stockinettestitch Thanks so much! 😁
Samantha Diaz you will smash it!😘
Samantha Diaz good luck with your new job! x
Thanks so much! Can't wait to get back into the work force. I've been at home with my kids for 6yrs. The nerves are real but all your words of encouragement are greatly appreciated
Lily - I loved this vlog. It felt like having a long chat with a good friend about real life things. I also really appreciate that you're authentic with us and aren't buying/reviewing the Fenty Beauty products just because they've been newly launched. I'd rather hear an honest review of products that you genuinely like and will be using. I hope that you're feeling better this week! xx
Thanks for this vlog- I think it's really inspiring and healthy for people to see that it's normal to feel down sometimes. Hope you feel better xxxx
Lily, I like that you've been really honest about feeling a bit down lately. This is real life and we all go through periods of feeling like we're uninspired or in a rut or lacking motivation, and that's ok. Thanks for keeping it real. I often find in moments like this it's important to grasp on to the things that do bring you joy until you start feeling a shift towards being 'yourself' again. Keep your chin up and I hope you'll feel better about things soon.
I love how you are being honest with us. Everyone has a day or a few days where we don't feel that well an bright.
I hope that those days end anytime soon :)!
can't wait for the next videoooo
Hi Lily, I just wanted to let you know that I totally feel you! Sometimes you just don't know what's making you sad. Sometimes time just has to solve the problem. I am also feeling that way at the moment.
Also, I totally agree on the pregnancy topic. A friend of mine just can't get pregnant and everyone around her is just asking her why she isn't pregnant yet. Every time i hear that it makes me so angry! It is such a personal topic!
Don't worry, you don't look pregnant. It's just a combination of your age and the fact that you're recently married. You see, you're a woman and it's your responsibility to breed. Even coming from other women it's sexist, controlling bullshit. But that's how it is, some people are just incapable of thinking for themselves and making their own choices so they assume everyone else is the same. And before anyone starts, I'm not having a go at anyone who has kids, I just think if you have kids you should make a conscious choice to have them, instead of just doing it because you're expected to.
Talking about pregnancies and babies always remind me of awkward moments at work.. Used to have a male colleague who's been married for over 10 years and had no kids, our boss wished him fertility for every birthday, it was beyond horrible and cringy.
Unfortunately you (and I) are that age where everyone is expecting some kind of announcement about children. Try and ignore it x
I'm sorry to hear that you're sad, but as regards being fake chirpy, I really appreciate your authenticity. Hopefully the lull will pass for you soon. Keep on keepin on x
Scalp scrub: have you ever tried the Christophe Robin one? You only need the tiniest amount and is a scrub and shampoo in one!
Lydia Carels Yes! I was going to suggest this as well. I love that stuff!
Lydia Carels, hmmm...I've been thinking about getting that. This time of the year, my scalp freaks out. In California, its hot and particularly dry in the fall. I think I'll give it a try.
I know that you're conscious that you may not come across as being incredibly chipper or bubbly in your videos; but one of the reason I'm subscribed to you and keep watch is because of your realness. It's nice to see how honest you are unapologetically human quite frankly! You come across in a genuinely relatable way which is refreshing. I also love that you check people that ask of assume that someone is pregnant - you're so right about online etiquette! I too feel that fruit flies are the bane of my life right now! Thanks for sharing Lily, much love 💜 x
I appreciate that you are honest. Life isn't always perfect even when there's nothing "wrong." I feel your honest vlogs make you seem more realistic because honestly, no one can always be "up"
it's okay not being happy and positive all the time, no one does. i think, people often feel pressured by the happy youtube world and it's important to show that it's not always like this.
sending you love and energy for whatever you're going through! ♥️
I love you Lily for being true in your videos and being sad and moany sometimes because it's impossible not to feel those some days! And for that it feels like you're a friend 💕
Your videos are the perfect combination of an escape from a hectic day and someone that I can so relate to. Been such a fan for so long and hope whatever has you down gets better!
I had dry (painful) lips my whole life and also episodes of severe cold sore all over my lips... the only lip balm that has healed them is the Cold Cream Lip Balm by Avene. It comes on a squizzy tube. It's like a creamy pomade. I put a thick layer on my lips every night before going to sleep and has done wonders for my lips! Best thing ever. Of course, everyone is different and we react differently to products but I thought I would share in case you want to give it a try. xx
Lorena Espinoza my dad swears by this stuff!
how cool is that! a dad loving it makes my day :) it truly is a healing product more than a 'beauty' thing if that makes sens
Lorena Espinoza totally agree
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The one thing I love about your channel is you come across completely genuine so please don't feel like you have to hide how you're feeling it'll just make you feel more stressed and pressured. Always love your content whatever you put out ❤️
I have also been feeling a bit down in the dumps recently and to see something so realistic and so relatable makes me feel like I'm not alone! i love all your vlogs no matter what you're doing with your day. You're amazing Lily and thank you for being you x
Hi Lily, I don't usually comment on videos but I really relate to what you said at the start of the video. I'm in a sad headspace and it sometimes feels like too much trying to contain it and not bring others down or worry them. It must be a lot harder for you being in the public limelight as people are quick to judge and criticise you for having a down moment. Sometimes you just need to work your way through what you are feeling and you'll know when you are back to being you. Sending you lots of love and hope you well in all other respects. Peace! Rosina xx
Don't worry about vlogging while you are feeling down. I have had a bit of a "meh" week myself, and it actually made me feel better to watch your video and see that other people have a similar experience--struggling to be and feel positive all of the time. Thank you for sharing your day and speaking openly and honestly!
I totally agree with regarding pregnancy questions , I am TTC for 5 years and every time people ask me these kind of questions i feel sad , really sad .
Personally, I find you so much more 'real' than other youtubers. I don't mind the ranting, or grumbling, it's really refreshing actually! Keep on being you, that's why we like you! Your videos are almost like hanging out and catching up with a friend, with bits of travel, makeup, and fashion thrown in. Also total side note, as a fellow curly-haired girl I know you love your hair straight, but I'm so curious so see what it would be like styled with a good curling mousse or gel!
I love your honesty and how real you are. I'm going through a weird couple of weeks as well. It's nice to know you're not alone!
Lovely Lily, credit to you for being so honest. Make sure you're taking enough care of yourself and take well deserved breaks. A lot of feeling down can be linked to sheer exhaustion and burn out. Make time for the things that you love doing and remind yourself that 'this too shall pass' take care xx
I appreciate your realness Lily. Your energy really came through, and we all have days like this. I've also had a crappy feeling week, and i like that you vlogged anyway and didn't try to force the excitement. Personally i don't like watching people who seem to be on cloud 9 all the time, that stuff messes with your mind and you can give in to feeling like your own life is crappy cz it's not on go all the time. Feel free to be honest always, your followers won't mind. I really like your personality, all sides that you share, and no fluff, but i think you're cooler than most. xxx
Bed + sandwich + cup of tea + video from Lily = perfect combination! We can't be happy all the time so it's ok if you're not feeling well lately. In fact, I appreciate that you show what you're going through. I'm not having a great time either and your videos help a lot because I enjoy them so much. I really love your content. I like that you are an spontaneous person. Hope you get better soon. It must be really hard to deal with social media and all that it implies (negativity, disrespectful comments) but as in life we must work to focus in the good things and positive feedback. I've been following you for years so I feel like I know you a little bit and that is great. Thanks for making my day! ❤️
Lily I loved this chatty video! Don't ever feel sorry for being your true, authentic self. It's beautiful.
oh Lily, really sad to see you struggling, such an honest genuine chat on your vlog, your content is still as good as it always was, if not better. I do hope you have a lovely holiday in Italy, and you get your enthusiasm back. so sad to see you like this. when you said " I don't really know much anymore " that was heartbreaking ! also you were so happy with your office a while back is it dull lighting ? or working alone that is making you feel isolated, also your lips this has been such a long time now and no wonder you are not feeling yourself with your lips hurting you. i'm glad you addressed the ridiculous rude pregnancy comments. take care of yourself. I look forward to seeing your next vlog, Gillian XX
Always good to know that one is not alone in feeling negative/under the weather. Some days get the worst out of us. As usual, love your vlogs Lily!
Loved this vlog. I have days where I just feel kinda low for absolutely no reason at all, it's nice to know that I'm not alone! You're just so real, this is why I love you!!
This is so real and relatable. Thanks for just being you, no bullsh*t or trying to hide a bad day. Just know your online community are all here for you 👍🏼 love from Australia
Hi 👋🏼 - I know you said that you've literally tried everything to cure your lips but I just wanted to say I was in a similar boat last year until I used Lanolips - I've had the strawberry and the peach ones (don't look at the tinted ones) and I would never use anything else now. You can get them in boots. Just thought I'd mention it in case it helps :)
the christophe robin salt scrub is my favorite scrubbing shampoo and it smells amazing! you don't have to worry about getting anything gritty out of your hair because the salt will eventually dissolve under the spray of your shower
61 year old fan here. Love your stuff! Stalked the blush jumper and I love it, wouldn't have it if not for you. I personally feel that there is pressure on women to "put on a happy face" and found your honesty to be refreshing. I agree with the previous comment about vitamin D levels, is it time for a checkup? It's hard to be a human sometimes. Keep depression on your radar and take care! The Christophe Robin salt scrub solved all my scalp issues.
Ruth Preminger Where did you find that jumper! I looked online but had no luck.
Lily you need to try the Fenty foundation. I hate a matte finish but I've fallen in love with it. I would love to see you do a review. x
This is how I've been feeling lately. I'm working away like mad on my blog and seeing zero progression and I always look at successful online women like you and think they have it all and must be so happy all the time. It was refreshing to hear you still go through those times were your negative and down about life. Hopefully it'll pass and we will both be back on track ❤️ I appreciate your honesty in this video so much!
Lily I love your videos and watch every single one of them! I love it because of the realness of it whether you're in a negative mood or not. Im not annoyed by it I guess after watching you for years you are like a friend to me talking about everything in life or whinging about stuff which is perfectly normal between friends!
Lily, I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate and enjoy this type of vlog content! Always happy and perky vlogs are not only unrealistic, I often find them to be quite annoying. I'm having a home day right now with laundry and errands and it feels oddly comforting and positive to know I'm not alone in feeling down. I'd rather watch this than non-stop excitement all the time :)
I absolutely adore the fact that you're so true and just saying how you're feeling at the moment in life. I guess that we all have times when we don't feel great and that's all right, that's how it is! You're so honest, loving it! Keep going 😊💋
I really like your long chatty vlogs Lily ! I find them so relaxing and i usually watch them when i have my coffee. Hope you are feeling better!
Not to say that I was happy to hear that you're dealing with sadness and negativity, but it was refreshing to hear you mention it. In the beauty community I always feel like theres such a pressure to be happy all the time with high energy levels. It's okay to go through a bad patch of time, your content is still as interesting as always and it's refreshing to watch you address issues you have with comments and such.
I usually never comment your videos... I don't speak very good english so i hope my words will be well understood...
Don't stop being yourself, you're just a wonderful human being with good and bad days... I mean, it's life!
And life is not always made of smile and positive energy!!!
It's ok to feel sad, nobody should have to pretend (even the youtubers)... because everybody have ups and downs (well, I have actually big ups and big downs... So I empathize a lot!)
You're a smart and also sensitive person, and that's why I love you!
I hope you're be better soon, take care!
Felt inspired to comment after your instagram story, as I never do! I always come back to your channel purely because you're not sickly sweet or squeaky, but relaxing, straight talkin and a real person! Keep it up!
Really appreciate the honesty of this vlog...too often on social media people portray the "perfect" which can be disheartening when you have struggles. Keeping it real shows you are just human that sometimes doesn't feel 100%. Hope you can work through your struggles.
I'm not used to comment, but I just wanted to tell you that it's so refreshing to see that you can have ups and downs, like everybody else, we can really relate to you. I love watching your videos and I think you are amazing!
I loved your closet videos in the past where you looked through what you have and then go shopping for the missing parts 😍 I hope you feel better soon and I love your videos either way 😊
Well you and your outlook and videos inspire and motivate me .... just got a new job and bought my first home, so remember that when you have your down days Lilly that you do that for a lot of young women too. We all have periods in our lives where we feel exactly how you describe in your video, it's normal don't beat yourself up your human. Allow yourself to feel that way, take sometime and do what makes you happy. Your more than what you do.
I actually LOVE this vlog, it's nice to see a day in the life where your just doing regular every day stuff. I hope your feeling a bit happier and more positive soon!
I also watched the Apple launch, which I agree was so funny either little dramatic pause! I was totally geeking out, I LOVE apple products and literally watched the whole thing to see the phone! Haha x
Lily i think it's the change of season that's making you feel low. I honestly have been feeling the same very negative and i for sure think it's the winter blues! Love the honesty, after all you are human and can't possibly always be happy in life. Hope you feel better soon xx
I support you and appreciate you, Lily. Difficulties in life happen and it's not always something you want to share. Thanks for being open. I enjoyed the vlog. 💜
I'm one of your older fans (36), and I loved this video. I went through a 4 month period of feeling off and down and I'm finally coming out of it. Good luck! I felt a little lost so if you're feeling that way, I hope you find yourself and discover how to be good with life.
I always love your vlogs whether they are cheery or not, you're so real which is what I appreciate the most ❤️
I'm so glad you mentioned the pregnancy thing in a vlog aswell! It's so rude to assume or ask!
We all have negative periods in our lives, I love that you're so honest about everything. Re; the baby thing, That's all I get all the time and it's so so draining having to constantly answer to people. It's so rude!. People have no idea what struggles others may be facing and how hard it is having people constantly talk about it! Hope you feel better soon. Sending hugs. Xxx
I go through many sad moments and find it difficult to get out of the funk. I found it comforting that I'm not the only one.
Hey Lily, I watch all of your videos but Ι hardly ever comment. I watch your video last night but came here again today after watching your insta story about how happy these comments make you feel. I like your vlogs because they are so genuine. Life is not all about hauls and travelling and fancy events, sure they are nice to watch but it is even nicer to watch that you have a normal life like most of us. I wish you find your motivation soon!
I really like your videos, you're just so honest and such a kind person. What youre saying makes u so authentic
Hi Lily - I have watched yours and Anna's videos for years and absolutely love them but never comment. They are sometimes the highlight of my day. I don't understand why people post negative comments or try to tell you what to do, thats surely not the point of it all. I loved this video and the honesty of it, think we all go through bits like this where you just feel flat and then things pick up again. Keep posting the videos- I love them!
I'm so glad you don't hide when you're feeling down (not glad you're down though obvs!) ☺ I think you're really helping your followers by making it a very normal thing and accepting it. Life isn't always rosy but it can sometimes seem like it online! I love your vlogs, they inspire me to be better and to keep pushing through even if I'm feeling down xx
I don't usually comment on videos but I watch all your videos and wanted to say that you shouldn't apologise for being down. I think there's a culture of being "falsely positive" and then, it makes the regular youtube watcher worry about why they're not as happy as the person on-screen. Similarly, thanks for not joining the flood of Fenty reviews. I really enjoy your own unique product views- don't be discouraged, I think you're great!
I am so glad I started watching you a few months ago (and therefore, I started following Anna ofc hahaha).
I LOVE how real you are. Your videos are so pleasing to watch and your insta too. X from Belgium
Thanks for your honesty as always- it's one of the reasons yours is my favourite channel as it makes it so much easier to relate to you. Xx
Lily, I loved this vlog. I fully empathise with you, as I also don't feel all that great these days. I loved how you did lots of small things to cheer your self up a little. Very healthy and nice to watch. Lots of love xxxx
I really enjoyed this vlog Lily, I know you've been feeling down so you're a trooper for doing this and I really respect you for keeping it real! X
I am feeling the same exact way you are at the moment... so good to see someone else struggling as well, as weird as that sounds. Makes me feel less alone.
You go,girl! It is perfectly OK to feel bad every once in a while, just take the time you need to get through it.
I actually really enjoyed this video, I really appreciate that you were so honest in telling us you're not feeling yourself at the moment! I still enjoyed this vlog as much as your super happy ones! The fact that you show both sides is why I love your channel 💕x
"I need to be a big girl and figure it out. " I just love you Lily! you're honest even when you're not feeling your best, which is totally relatable, since we all have bad days. love your videos 😄
Found your comment on the whys of not commenting that someone looks pregnant to be the most direct, succinct, honest, polite and refreshing one I've seen. As for feeling down, everyone does at times--whether or not they own it or not. Love the honesty!
A very relatable day! Even if you didn't feel cheery, your vlogs always brighten up my day! X
It is ok to not be ok! I just had a super brutal day of teaching and I almost cried when a bus driver asked me to sit down because I'm just stressed and exhausted. Take some time out and offline time always helps! Also chocolate, chocolate is always the answer.
I really like how honest you are! I love it!