Dating and Wigs! Telling Your Date You're WEARING A WIG!

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025

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  • @WigsWithSteph
    @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +5

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  • @rainbowleta
    @rainbowleta Год назад +13

    I have worn wigs throughout a variety of relationships. I prefer being upfront and telling them before making out because I don't want them to find out by (like you said) their hand going up my neck!! This happens usually around the 2nd/3rd date. I feel so validated when you said that. But every guy (and yes even the situationships) were very accepting and it didn't hinder our sex life at all. I have had 1-2 'one night stands' after telling them but there were red flags for other reasons. I am now in a serious relationship and I also told him early on. It is possible to date and find love while wearing wigs, you just have to own it and they will realize how confident and sexy you are. ✨

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      Hey!!! YES!!! Absolutely!!! I am resonating with everything you're saying here. Thank you so much for sharing this with us, and I hope others read your comment as well 💜

  • @susannah7797
    @susannah7797 Год назад +7

    My last relationship ( together 9 years), I told him on about date 5. At the time, I wore very long/big wigs. He was surprised, but I just made it sound like it was a fun thing to do. He didn't care. :)
    I was nervous about my thinning bio hair, but he also was fine with that. That was a huge relief.
    Very soon in our relationship, I had to get used to being open about my wig wearing because we were always on his motorcycle, out riding with his friends, and I couldn't wear wigs with a full face helmet. I never mentioned it to his buddies, but would show up for rides without my big hair, and just act like nothing was different. Haha
    With my current boyfriend, we had talked and texted for 3 months before we met up. When we met the first time, he complimented my hair and I simply said, "Thank you, it's fake!" With a big, confident smile. He was surprised, but didn't care. ❤

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      Susannah!!! I LOVE your stories!!! That's totally been my experience too... they've never cared. =D

    • @susannah7797
      @susannah7797 Год назад

      @@WigsWithSteph
      Yes!! ❤️
      What I try to remember, in regards to men, is that they are either beginning to thin, have thinned out hair, or are hoping they won't lose their hair later in life. I believe that they understand more than we realize.

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      @@susannah7797 Yes!!! Totally!!! I always keep in the back of my head that they’re trying not to bald (hehe), and so really I don’t think they get too caught up with it. My fiancé for example has thinning hair now too and he’s got a few white hairs, and it’s cute!! He feels bad about his thinning at times, but then I just remind him that I wear wigs and we laugh together 😁❤️ Tis’ life

  • @peperlover99
    @peperlover99 Год назад +8

    I haven o idea if it's different being a lesbian but I'm open with the fact that I wear wigs every day and no one has cared. Many woman and femmes have found my confidence alluring and there is nothing better than when I'm able to share my wig wearing with dates and partners.

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +3

      That is amazing to hear!!! Love your story, thank you for sharing 🥰❤️

    • @peperlover99
      @peperlover99 Год назад +2

      @@WigsWithSteph I find it romantic dating another woman who also wears wigs, definitely a unique experience.

  • @dangerwolfdavis
    @dangerwolfdavis Год назад +5

    This is exactly what I needed. I am newly single after 17 years in a relationship. So not only do I have to like... learn how to date I also have to do it with alternative hair, lol. I had a guy touch my hair recently and I hated it! I didnt hate it before. I didnt know how to say please stop. It was uncomfortable. So thanks for this. Also yes please I'd love to hear his perspective.

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      Hi Heather!! Oh my, yes that would be a challenge suddenly being thrown into the dating world again. When I was dating, I remember guys trying to touch my hair too, and I kept thinking.... Are they going to feel wefts and not know what it is???!!! They're going to think my head is lumpy!! LOL .... And that's when I realized I needed to just figure out a fun way to say I wear wigs RIGHT at the start so that I never have to deal with the hands in the hair... Also tell them that I don't like when people touch my hair. LOL. I hope my video was a little helpful and brought you some ideas of how to handle various situations ❤ You've got this!! XO

  • @paddypaddy2834
    @paddypaddy2834 Год назад +4

    GREAT video! I have always been big about not wanting my hair touched. In the past it’s been because I have to use so much hairspray and products to keep my thin fine hair in place. Now it’s because of that along with hiding extensions. Eventually it will be because of wigs. Thank you for addressing this anxiety inducing topic for women.

  • @rochellemorgan4385
    @rochellemorgan4385 Год назад +5

    Steph!!! I absolutely love the term "alternative hair"! What a great thing!! I'm using this term from now on!!!
    I'm married, and my husband says, he gets to see a different girl all the time😉. I have several alternative hair styles.
    And yes, this has been a great version of me. I even feel different now about myself.
    Anyone reading my comment, you got this!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад

      YES!!!!!!! I love your positivity, Rochelle!!!! Your husband sounds like an amazing man!!! He's got a beautiful woman, and he KNOWS IT 😍❤❤❤

    • @rochellemorgan4385
      @rochellemorgan4385 Год назад

      @@WigsWithSteph Hugs!!! And happy tears🥰🥰🥰

  • @aoalvidrez
    @aoalvidrez Год назад +2

    I love your videos and contact and hope you always list which Wig your wearing. I can’t thank you enough for all you videos! I’m fairly new at using wigs AB’s I won’t go a day without wearing one. I love this RW Simmer. I’m hoping to get one in Shaded Biscuit once I find one at a sale price or an affordable price. Thank you again.

  • @mariaroqueta3135
    @mariaroqueta3135 Год назад +1

    Thank u thank u thank u for this supportive and uplifting explanation of a situation that scares me to death bc I’m single at the moment. Now I know how to approach the time of revealing alternative hair on me!!!!👏👏💋👏👏👏

  • @martacrespo5358
    @martacrespo5358 Год назад +11

    Wigs are jerk repellent! hahahhahah Brilliant!

  • @WigsWithSteph
    @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +4

    HI FRIENDS!!! If you have any stories about your own personal dating life, or you have a burning question you'd like me to address in my next video, PLEASE write it down below here 🥹 I read every. single. comment. And I love creating content that YOU want to see. Thank you!!!! LOVE YOU ALL. XO

    • @yeseniavega2400
      @yeseniavega2400 Год назад

      I have been dating this wonderful man for about 3 weeks now. I have lupus and due to it lost most of my hair. I have scars so therfore I need to wear a wig for life. I still haven't told him anything. I am afraid he would reject me

  • @yeseniavega2400
    @yeseniavega2400 Год назад +2

    I am dating a man. We have been on a 4th date already. I don't know how to tell him about me wearing a wig due to my hair loss with lupus. He has so many plans for us, however my stomach is in knots

  • @jazznbluessinger
    @jazznbluessinger 2 месяца назад

    Well I had a horrific story just tonight!! First date. Making out and somehow it came off and i think he noticed it before I could fix it!! Horrifying! Just started wearing a wig about a week ago... feeling kind of freaked out since there's nothing false about me and I didn't tell him about it on our first date... which is what your saying not to do anyway but still... ugh!! I feel sad and humiliated. Not wanting to date again until my hair grows back. Your video helped a lot though. 🙏🙏

  • @Clara-wo1hg
    @Clara-wo1hg Год назад +3

    Fantastic video you must do more because it's one thing to love a wig and another to have the confidence to wear it especially on dates. Would be great to get a man's prospective with Dan. I want to see more of your fur baby I'm a dog lover with a capital D! 😂

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад

      I’ll get Zeus to come on my video the next time 😍😍😍💕 although sometimes he sticks his butt in my face and ruins my videos hahahah… but we’ll try 😁

  • @noobiechick833
    @noobiechick833 Год назад

    Thank you for this video! Just what I needed today as I get to grips with my own evolving story.

  • @fereyal
    @fereyal 3 месяца назад +1

    In a world where fake boobs and fake lashes are appreciated, I don't see why fake hair can't be appreciated. Anything that makes you feel more confident and enhances your self-esteem should be appreciated.

  • @1010divajap
    @1010divajap Год назад +2

    Great video. I think I would tell him in before we were in the bedroom but that's just me. And by the way what wig are you wearing in this video I really like the color and style. Is it January?

  • @DeniceTaylor-t1j
    @DeniceTaylor-t1j Год назад +1

    Loved loved loved this video

  • @lachlanmunro5320
    @lachlanmunro5320 7 месяцев назад

    I think wigs are awesome and as s baldy I totally understand wanting to have lovely (any) hair...
    However I dated a girl then turned out she was wigged. I really didn't fancy her without it. I may have done if she had her natural hair to start with though. I strongly believe it. I'm a bit sensitive to change shocks or whatever. I also don't want to be rude by asking if she's wearing a wig. I really don't want to hurt her feelings.

  • @martacrespo5358
    @martacrespo5358 Год назад +1

    Great advice! Thank you!

  • @elenaaguas4037
    @elenaaguas4037 Год назад +2

    You look so beautiful ❤️, what's the name/brand of the wig you are wearing in this video?
    Thanks☺️

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      Hi Elena!! ❤️🥹 thank you so much! This wig is called Simmer Elite, and the brand is Raquel Welch

    • @WigsWithSteph
      @WigsWithSteph  Год назад +1

      This is the review of Summer Elite if you want to see it up close :)
      ruclips.net/video/r4GrQaLeu-E/видео.html

    • @sarahbarlowmusic
      @sarahbarlowmusic 9 месяцев назад

      I love your video! Thank you for helping us gain the confidence about dating with wigs ❤😊🙏

  • @cjw8817
    @cjw8817 Год назад +4

    Jerk repellent. I love thst!❤

  • @aggieglitter
    @aggieglitter Год назад

    I love your videos. You are great.

  • @shanhare76
    @shanhare76 Год назад +2

    Other Women care way more than men do honestly

  • @lynecleroux7779
    @lynecleroux7779 Год назад

    I have a shaved hair under my wig but i am missing hair in sections, it is inconcevable for me to show myself like that..🥺🥺🥺