Same like was that her teacher? If it was man I really could never. Even if it was a stranger. I don’t even like talking about it with my mom it’s just straight up weird to me. But if something is going on I do talk with my mom about it and no one else.
I can confidently say, as someone who’s uncomfortable using tampons, I have never once been made fun of for using a pad, nor has anyone ever pointed them out to me… am I just lucky?
My mom is in her 60’s and she wore pads up until she stopped having her period. I believe she said she got toxic shock syndrome when wearing a tampon when she was a teenager and never wore again. I personally hate pads but not everyone likes tampons either
I'm uncomfortable using tampons as well, but I was unfortunately made fun of once when I was younger for using pads. The other girls said it was gross and that it was "like wearing a diaper."
My mom was this way. Did not let us get tampons. Only pads growing up. Those were the years of big bulky pads..not like todays that are thinner and so much better. Any who, I finally 'took the leap' when I got my own car and cash and figured out what worked best for me. Now i have a daugther, shes young but Ive already 'walked her down the aisle". Showed her all choices available to her. And am grateful for things like period underwear that is out there now. Like use all 3 if needed.
My mom had toxic shock from tampons and I got sick with them too 🤷 was told I had allergies to it or something but it isn't as "safe" for all as it appears.
@@mktay2067 that’s because you have to switch out the tampons just like you do with the pads after a certain point if you keep the tampons in too long it won’t be a good thing
There's also some stuff that isn't usually in that aisle, like cloth pads. They need rinsed out in the sink and then run through a washing machine, but they absorb so much more and are way more comfortable!! It doesn't feel like wearing a partial diaper the way paper pads do. I don't think all stores carry menstrual cups/rings, either. They also need rinsed out in the sink, but because of that they're reusable for years instead of creating tampon waste. Definitely not recommended for beginners, though.
I’m surprised this is still an issue with today’s parents. I know that even back in the 80s, tampons were for “experienced” women and the “bad” girls because there was a fallacy about tampons and virginity. Feminine hygiene has evolved beyond pads and tampons. There are menstrual cups, menstrual sponges as well as interlabial pads and period panties that aren’t as “obvious” as traditional pads.
@andrewvelonis5940 l just wanted to comment on that, wearing a tampon is fine l guess but girls must just be aware of that, change it regularly etc. I know of a teenager that died due to it
@@andrewvelonis5940It’s definitely still a concern, especially for people who have things like work, school, or sports where they aren’t able to use the bathroom for long periods of time. But also for people who are just generally forgetful or get so into what they’re doing that they lose track of time. But it’s more widely recognized as a concern now I think, or at least it’s more talked about so people know more about it, and they’re able to try and prevent it.
Maybe there are moms concerned with cotton being gmo and sprayed heavily with endocrine disrupters and then that cotton being in direct contact with reproductive organs? I get so tired of this narrative of moms who try to protect their children are overly controlling. Maybe in 20 years when everyone is sterile we won't look like giant controlling asses. I tell my children these things, talk about alternatives and explain that tampons make cramps worse. They can make their own decisions from there since they're all mostly adults now.
Is it a cultural thing? In Mexico and Malaysia literally no one made fun of me for wearing a pad :/ only white girls would look at me weird if I mentioned I used pads 🙄
That's true. Ya don't have to wear yoga pants every day of your life and certainly not on your period. That sounds like the perfect combo for even more discomfort for the next 7 days.
I remember those days mom said “never introduce anything into your body” meaning tampons and who knows what else… and when dad found out I was on my period he thought I had a miscarriage or an abortion 🤦🏻♀️ why do parents always think the worse I remember my mom arguing with dad that it was my period not an abortion
To be fair, I also come from a Christian conservative family. There definitely are families that are super extreme like this, don't get me wrong, but not all Christian conservative families are that strict and constantly suspicious of their kids. Mine certainly isn't. Really sorry for OP though, that sucks. I also wear pads, of my own volition though, however my mom uses tampons. Sorry. You probably didn't mean for it to come across as stereotyping or anything like that, but I just needed to clear it up... not all Christian conservative families are that strict, and OP having a strict family doesn't mean they're Christian (conservative ≠ Christian, at least not all of the time). Might not even be conservative. Just someone with a strict family, unfortunately. Again, sorry if I'm reading too deep into this... hope things go well for you both ❤️ just wanted to clarify I'm not mad or anything, just kind of tired of my religion's stereotypes because I see a lot of them online lol. Peace
I'm Italian and I ask, as a mother of a grown up daughter: "What on earth is weird about using tampons?" 😮 A young girl can use them, even if she's still a virgin. They are really comfortable, especially when you have to wear a bath suit, at the seaside or swimming pool...or with a particular dress... there's nothing"kinky " or embarrassing with that kind of item. Just be careful to change them often and, at night, better use pads.
I never wear tampons because my grandma almost died because her tampon scratched her insides. And I've heard that it hurts to remove it when it's dried. I'm perfectly content with pads but I understand that not everyone likes the feeling of a pad
I think it only hurts to pull it out when your'e much older like me i am 48 and my period is probably almost over and then theirs menapause. Otherwise i think you should be okay to use them when your'e younger and pull them out easily not fast. Also put them in slowly not fast to. You never want to do anything fast when it comes to your'e personal areas.
🤨 How... how do you scratch your insides??? I can put in a menstrual cup in with 2inch acrylic nails and not scratch myself! Not to dis your grandma but that sounds like bunk so u don't use them. Tampons don't hurt to remove unless you pull them out earlier than recommended but tbh cups are better for your lady bits than either pads or tampons
It’s very possible your grandmother used cardboard applicators instead of the new plastic ones that we have now. I would maybe give the plastic applicators a try. They’re very smooth and it’s not gonna hurt at all. Removing one dry can be a little uncomfortable but it doesn’t hurt it should never hurt.
I’m 20 and don’t wear tampons maybe like 4 in my lifetime to go swimming. There uncomfortable and I just feel like it never is in properly. I have been made fun for asking for a tampon also not for asking for pads. Like had two girls scoff and throw it at me from across the classroom. So the wingless pads the nurse give you i was cool with 😂
Than you did it wrong, maybe u need a thinner tampon. You are not able to feel it if it sit right. The use of Tampons gave me my freedom back., with pad I felt always soo soo uncomfortable.
I had a friend in High School that thought if you used tampons you were no longer a virgin and wouldn’t use one. She was like 16. I felt so bad for her.
A lot of my friends were like that too, and most of us were athletes. So bulky nasty pads that don’t stick well if you’re sweating, while trying to play sports. And one time someone found out I was using tampons and she told my parents because she thought there was no way they’d have allowed it. Luckily my parents knew and didn’t care, but yeah, not a fun time. And then that same girl spread all sorts of rumors about me.
The thing is, when your hymen does break due to intercourse, there’s no mistaking the sensation. It has your full and undivided attention and you can’t comprehend anything else. 🫢
This is gonna sound weird but I am generally scared of tampons so when I hit my period I’ll put a pad on and wear some baggy pants and then tie a jacket around my waist
Nobody intelligent will ever make fun of a girl having a period! If they say anything at all, just know that they're immature and uninformed and in that way you're better off than they are. There's nothing weird or taboo about something healthy and natural for a woman's body. Even if kids act stupid about it, no adult will say anything to you negative. At my job people bring in extra boxes of pads and tampons just in case to support their other women coworkers and it's super supportive and amazing. There's a sisterhood in our shared experiences! A healthy body is better than a Barbie body. Never be ashamed of something every woman ever has to experience 💜 and always ask trusted adults questions if you're concerned! I used to be so anxious and frightened about it, I hid it from my parents for years and used toilet paper because I thought what was happening was wrong and "dirty". I wish I had advice then that there's no shame in it. Parents didn't know and I didnt have proper supplies for three years 😳😳. Don't be like me!! I was overreacting about it trust me, then I finally admitted to parents and female friends and everyone was supportive and shared their own experiences and I felt safe and understood 💜💜
It's completely alright to have a fear of them, plus I prefer pads as well. I just think they are easier and that's pretty much exactly what I do. But, most of the time honestly they don't show. Usually only if you are wearing something like leggings so maybe just check after you put pants on!
Same lol. Although you probably won't need to tie a jacket around your waist, first periods can sometimes be light. And don't worry if you get your first period and it doesn't come back for another 6 months. Your body will be trying to get used to it, so your cycles will be messed up. My second period didn't come until about 4 months after my first. So don't panic if your second period doesn't come after another month
The problem is if the person ends up getting toxic shock from the tampons without their parents knowing what’s up. It hit me in less than an hour but thankfully my mom knew I was trying out the tampon life so she acted fast.
EXACTLY. That can be deadly. the lines of communication should be open for safety. Nobody should overstep a parent's relationship or boundaries unless it's an abusive or neglectful relationship. As a parent I need to know what my children r doing so I can educate and protect them❤
@@e-maginne Yeah I tried once or twice a tampon, didn't felt comfortable, was so akward trying to put it it and honestly I might have some at home and let my girl try (when I do have kids) but I don't know even how to put them comfortably, i don't feel fine buying something i know I'll not even be the best to help her 😅 And tampons can be quite dangerous... Pads don't really show a lot,maybe if you're wearing tight underwear and something like leggings . I've always used pads and never felt bad
Yes, my thoughts exactly! Why do people always think it has to do with some weird sex fears????? It is a safety issue! I want my daughters to be used to managing their periods with a pad most of the time and save tampons for only the necessary times. A friend of my mother died when I was a young teen from toxic shock…and she was familiar with using them.
TSS occurs in leaving them in way longer, like 24 hours or more. Even the box says not to use them that long. There are instructions written by the company who has teams of handsomely paid attorneys to keep them out of legal trouble. Read the box. FOLLOW instructions. They're there for a reason.
It's a parent's and possibly the school nurse's or sex educator's duty to discuss this issue, not just stick your head in the sand and forbid your daughter to use them.
As a father I will do my best to support my girls on there first time let them try what ever they want and the first time no school for the day we go out get a new pair of comfortable clothes go out get lunch and then get ice cream and candy's with a heating pad and let them rest for the rest of the day
As someone with horrible cramps your daughters will thank you. Thank you for understanding and thank you for helping them and letting them rest instead of forcing them to go to school.
They're just controlling mothers not wanting anything to penetrate their little baby girls privates, a very odd controlling, and possibly antiquated, religiously motivated thought process. A loving, supportive mother would want their daughters to feel confident and not have to worry about accidents at school all day long, then have them ridiculed. Being a teenager, and being new to periods, is difficult enough without needing the extra worry.
My mom said tampons were so unnatural. I asked her if she thought it was natural for me to bleed thru pads onto my clothes and the floor. Every time. She relented, got tampons and prescription painkiller Anaprox.
Sadly, there are people that think that tampons affect virginity... Yeah, I know I was surprised too. I was lucky enough. I had an older sister So I was able to use Tampons from the start. I was grateful Because it's horrible being Able to feel yourself bleeding and be in constant fear of an accident.
I like the neatness of tampons but they have never been comfortable for me to wear. Anything by the 'lites' even cause my menstrual cramps to worsen. I have pretty much gone back to pads only using lite tampons during the two days of the heaviest flow as a backup to the pad to avoid an accident. I don't know if the discomfort is common and other women just tolerate it or if I am an oddity but they just don't seem to be all that great to me.
I'm sorry. I first tried them at 12 because I got my period on vacation and my mom didn't want me to miss out on swimming. If you go to school, you could ask the nurse for one, or a friend. You don't have to tell the nurse your mom doesn't want you to have them. Just say your pad keeps leaking and ask if she has a tampon.
@@ladymire your mom probably believed it because your grandmother taught her that, and your grandma was taught that way by generations before her that treated anything related to periods or womanhood as something shameful. I understand you feeling mad about it, but a lot of people from older generations didn't have much information or were socially shamed into not seeking information regarding female health.
I am a husband, father, and uncle to four young women. Other than counseling my daughter about toxic shock syndrome, I have never restricted any feminine purchase of any of my girls. This skit is sad to be happening in this day and age.
Here I am the mom that has a whole drawer of every different kind of tampon, pad, and even cups. I didn't want my 2 daughters going through the whole embarrassing thing of asking me.(cause they were embarrassed) I provided it and then asked when I needed to restock which items were their favorites. We found brands we really liked. Found others that we never used again. Some of the best tampons and pads were not name brand. Eventually soft cups ended up being the family favorite.
Kids Please don’t go against your parents. Other adults have other agendas for your life and DO NOT care about you the way your parents do! Talk things through with your parents and tell them what the other adults have said also. Communication is so important. Love and honor your mum and dad please! ❤
I started using cotton cloths and wow, they are so comfy, they absorb nicely, its a whole new world! I used to be a die hard tampon user, but ive been making healthy natural changes in my life, and cotton cloths are the way to go! And no more spending all that money on disposable, poisonous products
@@melissalaw6634 tried those, couldn't get it in. They probably aren't very comfortable anyway. Everyone has to find what works for them right? I've found what works for me and I'm happy about that. I no longer dread my period like I did when I was using pads. I think anyone who uses pads would find nice soft face cloths a lot comfier than stiff sticky pads, especially at night. Just thought I'd share, most people probably don't even know there's options besides tampons and pads
@@melissalaw6634 Both is honestly great because cups can leak and cloth pads have soft af fabric. Literally makes the garbage experience just slightly better. And they have fun designs.
Okay but the U by Kotex pads r so good they absorb so well and they do not irritate you down there i’m allergic to a lot of pads but those and the flex foam pads are the best they do not irritate you at all
One of my best friends growing up lived with his dad. They had a drawer with different menstrual products in their guest-bathroom for any female visiting. It made it so much easier as I was early.
Reading the comments section reminds me vividly of one time in adolescence when I was in Hong Kong, visiting extended family. Context: bodyshaming is a widespread problem in Chinese culture, especially in females (across all generations). I was in my maternal aunt’s apartment, hanging out with her and my mother, and I walked over to go sit on the couch. I was wearing a pad; my pad had shifted and was extreeemely uncomfortable, but I didn’t think to go to the bathroom to fix it. It changed the way I walked, i.e. I was walking in the only way that would reduce as much discomfort as possible from my pad. Keep in mind that I have ADHD and am very hypersensitive to sensory input. Pretty much immediately as I was walking, both my mother and her sister called me out on the way I was walking. They reprimanded me: “Why are you waddling like a duck??” or whatever they said. They then both proceeded to demonstrate for me “the proper way to walk” - how to walk “normally” and “like a lady”. Back then, introspection wasn’t a hobby for me, so I couldn’t tell my fam that my pad had shifted uncomfortably and was making me walk funny. I’m glad I don’t think about this traumatic memory much, but I fear that because I’ve remembered it now, I will continue thinking about it 😬
Pads are messy. Smear blood all over the labia. Tampons are a bit more neat, but the IUD for a woman after having had a child is by far the most convenient.
I remember being still in elementary school I got my first period very quickly So I already knew a lot about it before we started talking about it at school. You have no idea how surprise i was when a teacher told us we couldn't use tampons because we would get cancer🤣🤣🤣
thats stupid..and I can relate on the elementary school thing. My elementary school didn't even have a bin for pads/tampons alone because I was the only elementary schooler ever at their that started my period that young.
I talked to my mom about tampons at this age and she flat out told me the truth about them from her own experience: they leak, they will hurt dealing with them, and since i was younger it'll be uncomfortable when they are inside if they aren't done properly. Now that I'm an adult and have gotten used to them, i hardly ever wear them XD
Some tampons have chemicals in them. Research has been done on this. Some people have issues with them too. There are reasons that mothers don't want their girls on tampons. If you want them, make sure you get an organic one.
Well I'm all for tampons, but if people stopped wearing skin tight leggins in public they wouldn't have to worry about things showing. Modesty is a virtue that i really wish would become popular again.
I love my mom, no matter what she would try and make me feel comfortable. When I started my . she said "You can try tampons if you want, I never really liked them, but if you need me to I can get you some!"
Moms that tell daughters they cant use a tampon or cant use a pad or cant use period panties, etc, are maximum creepy. When I was younger I had an ex gf whose mom didn't let her use tampons, so that she could check her daughter's vagina to see if her hymen was still intact... Yeah, she doesn't understand how that all works but absolutely disgusting gutter behavior.
@@satsumamoontss is something you should be aware of but it is also very rare. As long as you are changing your tampons regularly you should be fine. Parents can teach their children the risk of things while also letting them make their own choices.
This conversation should have been had at home with a lot more open communication about why the tampons are unhealthy for girls who haven’t been sexually active yet. (And the bleach inside your hoo ha isn’t healthy either for anyone) also the teacher going behind a parents back is exactly what is wrong with the public school system. Absolutely not. Have your own kids and you can raise them however you want. This whole “I disagree with the other parent so I’m gonna take action with their kids behind their back” is disgusting and so inappropriate. Everyone has the right to make the choice to raise their children however they want as long as they aren’t being genuinely abused. A bratty teenage girl griping about not getting tampons over pads is not abuse.
If you ever read about toxic shock syndrome you'll be thankful for your moms who want you to wear pads instead. My mom let me wear tampons and I wish she hadn't. After I saw a video about a girl who lost her legs from TSS I never used a tampon again. They are so bad for you.
I was talking to my mom. I haven't gotten my yk yet.. and I said, "Am I using pads or tampons, and she yells, " TAMPONS!" But she say pads for bed like MOM 😭
No, but she's right. Pads OR a period disc(can stay in longer than a tampon without the toxic shock risk). You have to make sure you remember to change it within the time frame or its dangerous and a breeding ground for bacteria because of the material.
My mom never taught me anything about pads or periods. We had one afternoon at school where it was discussed with female students only (it was sponsored by a prominent period product brand in Germany) and a couple months after when my periods started, I just started using the pads my mom bought for herself (which were hidden away quite well. I was using tons of toilet paper until I found them) I had no cramps at all the first year I got my periods (by now excruciating pain bc I developed endometriosis which my mother also didn’t know was a thing), but I was also constantly soiling my bed and pj’s with blood because of that, and because I didn’t know anything about pads or how long they last or any other tricks to prevent spillage. I still sometimes wake up in the middle of the night, panicked because I felt a twinge in my lower stomach and might’ve bloodied my bed. Those years I felt extremely lonely with my period problems to the point I was too scared to open pads in public bathrooms when someone else was there too because they might hear. Edit: thanks to all that I’m a master at removing bloodstains because I was too embarrassed to throw bloody laundry into the laundry basket. I just cleaned it in the middle of the night.
Who in the world is making fun of someone for wearing pads??? Like every girl who starts their period got treated like a celebrity with bragging rights at my middle school.
My mom didn't want me to wear tampons as a teen either. I just snuck and bought them anyway. When she found out, she was like really?! I told you that you couldn't get them yet. I was like girllllllll....ain't nobody about to be wearing an uncomfortable, bunchy diaper that people can see when you walk away! And that was the last conversation about that. 😂
Tampons, if not used right, can cause toxic shock syndrome. I think, some moms are worried of that, not the whole virginity thing. I've never used a tampon all my life, my mom introduced me to pads and then even after I grew up and learn about tampons and TSS I gave a wide berth. All these hyginene products have lot of unhealthy, and sometimes leathal chemicals included. Tampons can introduce those to high in vagina than a pad which is why TSS gets so fatal with tampons than other methods. But ladies, it's your body and your health. Be informed and make the best choice for you.
My mom never let me buy tampons either, because she was convinced a tampon would cause my hymen to break and me to lose my virginity. I also got my first period like a week before my 12th birthday, so it was years of uncomfortable pads until I finally just said fuck it and started having my dad buy them for me.
Well, she’s holding a pack of pads right in front of her. And they aren’t strangers. She’s the girl’s teacher and teachers sometimes double as counselors as well Edit: that being said, i do still think its a super awkward interaction 💀. It would make more sense if the girl had gone up to the teacher herself on purpose after class or gone to the school nurse, but I get it’s just to make a point in the video
This would be a choice the teacher doesn’t get to make. TSS is deadly!! The lucky who survive usually lose their health not to mention limbs. Is the teacher going to regulate every three hours her student change her tampon? Providing pads, new underwear, pants, emotional support all wonderful! Tampons can be dangerous and those decisions are left to parents.
I remember seeing a lady in the mall who had her pad hanging out. She was with a whole bunch of friends who didn't tell her that it was there even though ypu could see them looking at it. I ended up going up to her and whispering to her about it. She was so embarrassed. I felt so bad for her.
As a twenty something, young, the first cases of tampon-related toxic shock syndrome were occurring. I did not need convincing they were a bad idea. In fact, I had a friend forget she had one in for a month. Once that cord disappears, you forget you put one up there. She was lucky she did not get toxic shock!
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So I heard that you're at a much higher risk of TSS in your first year of menstruation, so I made my daughter use pads her first year. After that, she could use whatever she wanted. Maybe don't assume why people do the things they do and butt into other people's private business. This girl isn't being abused.
@@Palettblad or you could keep your nose out of another families business and let parents work with what's best for their families. If you want to "destigmatize" something do it with your own kids.
@@Palettblad 1. If she was being abused, that would be a good reason to intervene, and that's the only reason I mentioned it. I didn't say anyone claimed she was being abused, you made that up. 2. Worrying about my child's *health* is not the same as stigmatizing something. I never at any point stigmatized anything. 3. Mind your own fucking business. You have NO REASON to butt into other people's family business, provided the child isn't being abused (see point 1). 4. Mind your own fucking business. I know, this is here twice. It's because apparently it bears repeating.
How weird, I didn't know this was an issue for some parents. I'm 62 and had a hysterectomy in 30s so I have not had to even think about the issue since I had sons. Anyone who wants to tell me why they care I would like to know why. My parents had 3 daughters and that was a decision for us. I chose pads, but my older sister chose tampons. Sadly, in 1980 there was an issue with one tampon brand, I have forgotten the name brand, but my sister ended up suing the company after a close call with death of Toxic Shock Syndrome. She was fortunate to survive as many died from the defect that caused this issue. It ofcourse was taken off market and many lawsuits followed. I wonder if this fear comes from many who remember that ordeal. I realize just like with so many prescriptions that cause serious issues and even death due to the fact that the drug companies and FDA are doing a lousy job that my sisters case is just another example of failure to protect the public and it was a very rare unfortunate occurrence. Some of the meds I have taken in past have been recalled for serious side effects. I was just fortunate not to experience any of the most serious effects. Like my Mom, had I had a daughter I believe I would have allowed her to make her own decision as well.I went back and read some comments and had no ideal that some parents believed wearing tampons meant you were no virgin. How backwards, I started mine in '76 and I don't recall such a silly stigma. Where did common sense go. Warn your daughter's about the dangers and symptoms of Toxic Shock, but assuming their no longer a virgin sounds like we're back in the 1950s.
I'm 66 so I know about toxic shock I remember the brand but I just can't remember the name of it it was because the materials it was made of we're cheap. And people left them in too long. If you use a good brand that is cotton 100% cotton is the best it's the most comfortable and the safest but the other brands that are like cotton are okay. They should not be left in for too long. The young girls need to know that they cannot get stuck they will always be able to get them out there's no place for them to go. Even if the string got lost up inside of you all you would have to do is squat and pull it out with your fingers if it hurts you should use something to lubricate with like generic KY jelly. Tampons should never smell bad even when they are full of blood they should not have a bad odor if you have bad odor you might have an infection and you need to see the doctor. I wore tampons from the time I was 13 I think made me feel much cleaner and better.I used to carry a little tin they don't make those anymore a little tin that used to have Excedrin in it I would clean it out and I would put a glob of Vaseline in the tin it was flat just a little flat thing and I carried it in the pocket of my jeans then when I needed to put in a tampon I could put a little Vaseline around the edges of it and then it was easy to use.
that’s so sad, bc no sane person would buy a product that has more than 1% of chance to kill them or cripple them in few hours. and use them multiple times a day, 1 week per month, every year of their lives until menopause. especially when they’re other choices. but somehow tampons got a silent pass. it’s massively generalized denial
Her posture and how unsure she seems reminds me so much of my step daughter when she first got her period. She hated what was going on with her body and seemed so uncomfortable. As her stepdad I did everything I could to let her know what was happening is natural and isn’t gross or weird. She was amazed the first time she reluctantly asked me to pick up tampons for her and I just asked what brand to get. She asked if I’d be embarrassed at the register and I just told her “If they’re going to laugh at me for having a young lady in my life I care about, I feel like I’m not the weird one in that situation.” Her and I are still very close and I’m proud to say she calls me Dad to this day.😊
The ONLY conceivable reason this came up in my feed is my phone is listening and my daughter is having “ female issues” and trying to get an emergency appointment with her OBGYN.
As a parent, I wouldn't want anybody by my child. Something that I have said that they can't use. It is not a teacher nor a friend of the family's place to buy tampons or anything that a parent is against for their child.
Im getting my daughter period underwear for her future cycle. No yucky embarrassing pads and no Toxic Shock Syndrome. Most victims are teens/young adults who leave tampons in too long or forget about them while inserted.
No. You don’t buy tampons for someone else’s kid. The mom might just believe the myth that a tampon can take your virginity or she knows her daughter doesn’t need to have carcinogens shoved up next to her uterus. Also some girls like me have ADHD and might forget to take them out and get TSS. If there’s neglect and a child menstruation is being ignored that’s one issue but you don’t get to make choices for other people’s children.
Moon Cup anyone? I ditched tampons years ago and use an amazing silicone moon cup. It’s a one time purchase and doesn’t dry you out or give you any toxins. Saves you money and the environment.
Apart from publicly humiliating me in the shops once, my dad came home from work with a huge shopping bag full of loose (wrapped) tampons of every size imaginable. He was the only one at work with a daughter old enough to need them. They’d been making a metal detector for some company or other and they’d had test control ones and safe ones. Once the machine was up to spec they didn’t need all the clean (no metal in them), still wrapped and perfectly fine to use tampons. I got them. They lasted me for something like 5 years. At the time I was cringing but not any more. It was an awesome perk to get them.
I have not introduced my 11 year old to tampons yet and it’s not because of her virginity 🙄 She lacks the maturity and self discipline to stay on top of it and will end up with an embarrassing accident, end up forgetting she has one and end up hurting herself, or not change it on time, not to mention all the health risks involved with tampons. I don’t use them. When she’s ready and can be responsible, I’ll switch her her to a cup. It’s not the teacher’s place to override her mother. That is out of line. Hope this doesn’t actually happen.
This entire comment section is wild to me. I dont know where so much misinformation about tampon use is coming from. I started my period at 11 in the 6th grade in 1966. My mother told me about both pads and after a year or so about tampons. I used both over the years as did my daughter. They arent sangerous, dont break your hymen or cause cramps. They dont cause TSS unless you leave a tampon in for days. I had no idea that such nonsense was believed by so many people
No but how awkward would this be irl 💀I could never lol
Same like was that her teacher? If it was man I really could never. Even if it was a stranger. I don’t even like talking about it with my mom it’s just straight up weird to me. But if something is going on I do talk with my mom about it and no one else.
Yea I wouldve hid the pad box in my jacket and said what no theit my sisters
If you have watched all her vids you would know that’s her best friends mom mrs.m
@@Austin-n3q why?? It's embarrassing for ya?
About as awkward as walking around Walgreens watching a girl setup tripods and keep changing to do this...
I can confidently say, as someone who’s uncomfortable using tampons, I have never once been made fun of for using a pad, nor has anyone ever pointed them out to me… am I just lucky?
My mom is in her 60’s and she wore pads up until she stopped having her period. I believe she said she got toxic shock syndrome when wearing a tampon when she was a teenager and never wore again. I personally hate pads but not everyone likes tampons either
I'm uncomfortable using tampons as well, but I was unfortunately made fun of once when I was younger for using pads. The other girls said it was gross and that it was "like wearing a diaper."
@megangreene3955 Of course *I* know that, but that's what some girls told me when I was in high school
Maybe you didn’t wear light coloured leggings and a crop top? Just saying…
Would suck to be a woman. Always leaking something.
My mom was this way. Did not let us get tampons. Only pads growing up. Those were the years of big bulky pads..not like todays that are thinner and so much better. Any who, I finally 'took the leap' when I got my own car and cash and figured out what worked best for me. Now i have a daugther, shes young but Ive already 'walked her down the aisle". Showed her all choices available to her. And am grateful for things like period underwear that is out there now. Like use all 3 if needed.
My mom had toxic shock from tampons and I got sick with them too 🤷 was told I had allergies to it or something but it isn't as "safe" for all as it appears.
@@mktay2067 that’s because you have to switch out the tampons just like you do with the pads after a certain point if you keep the tampons in too long it won’t be a good thing
@@Megz1794yea and some people are more sensitive than others happens a lot actually
There's also some stuff that isn't usually in that aisle, like cloth pads. They need rinsed out in the sink and then run through a washing machine, but they absorb so much more and are way more comfortable!! It doesn't feel like wearing a partial diaper the way paper pads do.
I don't think all stores carry menstrual cups/rings, either. They also need rinsed out in the sink, but because of that they're reusable for years instead of creating tampon waste. Definitely not recommended for beginners, though.
I don’t get it, what’s the rationale?
This entire channel seems to be, "How to get your teenage daughter to run away from home".
It screams trauma to me like she’s scarred from her childhood and expressing herself whilst trying to educate. Sad at.
@@katerinasemenov9479 she’s probably got an OnlyFans, or is a Jew.
You ever so out of place? Because I do why does RUclips think I’m a middle school girl whose going through changes?
@@TokyoXtreme So according to you those who have ONLYFANS or Jewish girls do this ? What else is in there in your fantasy ?
@@JonSnow-pi6jb long time of noticing patterns occurring and reoccurring, over and over
This just brought me back to one time in 7th grade when my dad bought me 240 panty liners instead of pads. 😂
i would die😭😭😂
He tried his best in a situation most men would find embarrassing
@ianedwards8215 no because I got my period in 6th grade and he had bought me pads before 😭
My flow could never😂😂
@@rosealpha2054 fr i literally had to tell my dad that he bought the wrong thing 😭
I’m surprised this is still an issue with today’s parents. I know that even back in the 80s, tampons were for “experienced” women and the “bad” girls because there was a fallacy about tampons and virginity.
Feminine hygiene has evolved beyond pads and tampons. There are menstrual cups, menstrual sponges as well as interlabial pads and period panties that aren’t as “obvious” as traditional pads.
My mother was like this, she didn’t allow me to wear tampons despite me having heavy periods that always bled through my pads.
I recall that in the 1970s toxic shock syndrome was an issue. I don't know if that's still a concern.
@andrewvelonis5940 l just wanted to comment on that, wearing a tampon is fine l guess but girls must just be aware of that, change it regularly etc. I know of a teenager that died due to it
@@andrewvelonis5940It’s definitely still a concern, especially for people who have things like work, school, or sports where they aren’t able to use the bathroom for long periods of time. But also for people who are just generally forgetful or get so into what they’re doing that they lose track of time. But it’s more widely recognized as a concern now I think, or at least it’s more talked about so people know more about it, and they’re able to try and prevent it.
Maybe there are moms concerned with cotton being gmo and sprayed heavily with endocrine disrupters and then that cotton being in direct contact with reproductive organs? I get so tired of this narrative of moms who try to protect their children are overly controlling. Maybe in 20 years when everyone is sterile we won't look like giant controlling asses. I tell my children these things, talk about alternatives and explain that tampons make cramps worse. They can make their own decisions from there since they're all mostly adults now.
How did you come up with the “Mrs M” character? Is she based on a real person?
No
@@cocoscustomedits4404 how would u know that
You need to watch the whole series
@@olivia.pud15 she explained all her charcters
@@cocoscustomedits4404 no she didn't I have watched all of her videos
The ultra thin all night pads are the best
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No their probably the best for you only,every women has a differen't flow and some women need differen't size and thick ness of pad's. Just saying.
@@moonbeam8487 they actually come in different sizes and since they're alnight the absorb quite a bit
I am an adult andnever use tampons, and never had any sort of problem.people should stop un-normalizing pads for young girls.
Pads and tampons are both okay, the point is that people should get to choose what’s comfortable for them
No, people need to stop shaming women who choose tampons. That's ridiculous.
@@chiarac3833 no, this video is shaming women who use pads.
@@chiarac3833I've seen women and men shame women who wear pads. I need to wear pads like 2-3 of them because it's heavy and I don't like tampons.
@@laurenecarter246no the girl got bullied for her pad and wants a tampon? It’s not shaming
Is it a cultural thing? In Mexico and Malaysia literally no one made fun of me for wearing a pad :/ only white girls would look at me weird if I mentioned I used pads 🙄
What’s malasia, u mean Malaysia?
@@quirkygirl4345 oh sorry, my Spanish keyboard autocorrected to Malaysia in Spanish lolol
Definitely a cultural thing, apparently in America everyone uses tampons and looks down on pads? Where I’m from no one really cares what you use lol
I prefer pads, tampons seem like to much of a hassle to put in and out(and an undying fear of them getting stuck)
@@cgfiresoul5473 i wear pads too, I think tampons would make me cry xD
Fun fact…pads won’t show through your pants if your pants are not skin tight. You have several options.
That's true. Ya don't have to wear yoga pants every day of your life and certainly not on your period. That sounds like the perfect combo for even more discomfort for the next 7 days.
but if you move your legs a lot, even just shifting position while sitting, tight pants help holding the pad in place
and even if you do wear yoga pants or tight pants, looooooooong shirt or hoodie helps.
@@SuperUmizoomi That's true, too. It's inevitable. You're always going to be somewhat uncomfortable during that time.
@@SuperUmizoomiso does underwear lol
I remember those days mom said “never introduce anything into your body” meaning tampons and who knows what else… and when dad found out I was on my period he thought I had a miscarriage or an abortion 🤦🏻♀️ why do parents always think the worse I remember my mom arguing with dad that it was my period not an abortion
Oh lord… tell me you come from a conservative “Christian” family without telling me. I feel so sorry for you having to deal with that. 🤦♀️
To be fair, I also come from a Christian conservative family. There definitely are families that are super extreme like this, don't get me wrong, but not all Christian conservative families are that strict and constantly suspicious of their kids. Mine certainly isn't. Really sorry for OP though, that sucks. I also wear pads, of my own volition though, however my mom uses tampons.
Sorry. You probably didn't mean for it to come across as stereotyping or anything like that, but I just needed to clear it up... not all Christian conservative families are that strict, and OP having a strict family doesn't mean they're Christian (conservative ≠ Christian, at least not all of the time). Might not even be conservative. Just someone with a strict family, unfortunately. Again, sorry if I'm reading too deep into this... hope things go well for you both ❤️ just wanted to clarify I'm not mad or anything, just kind of tired of my religion's stereotypes because I see a lot of them online lol. Peace
@@judycroteau482it's alright atleast they came from a caring home, gotta love Christian homes
That's awful and incredibly stupid of your dad and please tell me he was set straight about it..
@@judycroteau482 No need to put christian in quotations. They gotta own up to their bible thumpers
I'm Italian and I ask, as a mother of a grown up daughter: "What on earth is weird about using tampons?" 😮 A young girl can use them, even if she's still a virgin. They are really comfortable, especially when you have to wear a bath suit, at the seaside or swimming pool...or with a particular dress... there's nothing"kinky " or embarrassing with that kind of item. Just be careful to change them often and, at night, better use pads.
problem is in "carefulness"... responsibility
I never wear tampons because my grandma almost died because her tampon scratched her insides. And I've heard that it hurts to remove it when it's dried. I'm perfectly content with pads but I understand that not everyone likes the feeling of a pad
I think it only hurts to pull it out when your'e much older like me i am 48 and my period is probably almost over and then theirs menapause. Otherwise i think you should be okay to use them when your'e younger and pull them out easily not fast. Also put them in slowly not fast to. You never want to do anything fast when it comes to your'e personal areas.
🤨 How... how do you scratch your insides??? I can put in a menstrual cup in with 2inch acrylic nails and not scratch myself!
Not to dis your grandma but that sounds like bunk so u don't use them.
Tampons don't hurt to remove unless you pull them out earlier than recommended but tbh cups are better for your lady bits than either pads or tampons
It’s very possible your grandmother used cardboard applicators instead of the new plastic ones that we have now. I would maybe give the plastic applicators a try. They’re very smooth and it’s not gonna hurt at all. Removing one dry can be a little uncomfortable but it doesn’t hurt it should never hurt.
For me, since my flow is extremely heavy, it never hurts taking out a tampon because it’s usually soaked.
Theres tampons without the plastic hun for virgin girls i still use them as an adult
I’m 20 and don’t wear tampons maybe like 4 in my lifetime to go swimming. There uncomfortable and I just feel like it never is in properly. I have been made fun for asking for a tampon also not for asking for pads. Like had two girls scoff and throw it at me from across the classroom. So the wingless pads the nurse give you i was cool with 😂
I tried once or twice to go swimming and I just couldn't, felt so uncomfortable
It's not sitting right if you can feel it ( probably too low). Or you need a smaller size.
Than you did it wrong, maybe u need a thinner tampon. You are not able to feel it if it sit right. The use of Tampons gave me my freedom back., with pad I felt always soo soo uncomfortable.
With some brands I felt the same. But the Playtex sport are good. I don’t feel anything once their in. I recommend trying those
Tampons are so uncomfortable and borderline painful. I will choose a pad any day over a tampon, unless I'm swimming, of course.
I had a friend in High School that thought if you used tampons you were no longer a virgin and wouldn’t use one. She was like 16. I felt so bad for her.
My mom tried to make me believe that tho
A lot of ladys thought that way...
A lot of my friends were like that too, and most of us were athletes. So bulky nasty pads that don’t stick well if you’re sweating, while trying to play sports. And one time someone found out I was using tampons and she told my parents because she thought there was no way they’d have allowed it. Luckily my parents knew and didn’t care, but yeah, not a fun time. And then that same girl spread all sorts of rumors about me.
People still believe this. Smh
The thing is, when your hymen does break due to intercourse, there’s no mistaking the sensation. It has your full and undivided attention and you can’t comprehend anything else. 🫢
This is gonna sound weird but I am generally scared of tampons so when I hit my period I’ll put a pad on and wear some baggy pants and then tie a jacket around my waist
it’s okay to wear pads they do the job better than tampons anyway
Nobody intelligent will ever make fun of a girl having a period! If they say anything at all, just know that they're immature and uninformed and in that way you're better off than they are. There's nothing weird or taboo about something healthy and natural for a woman's body. Even if kids act stupid about it, no adult will say anything to you negative. At my job people bring in extra boxes of pads and tampons just in case to support their other women coworkers and it's super supportive and amazing. There's a sisterhood in our shared experiences! A healthy body is better than a Barbie body. Never be ashamed of something every woman ever has to experience 💜 and always ask trusted adults questions if you're concerned! I used to be so anxious and frightened about it, I hid it from my parents for years and used toilet paper because I thought what was happening was wrong and "dirty". I wish I had advice then that there's no shame in it. Parents didn't know and I didnt have proper supplies for three years 😳😳. Don't be like me!! I was overreacting about it trust me, then I finally admitted to parents and female friends and everyone was supportive and shared their own experiences and I felt safe and understood 💜💜
It's completely alright to have a fear of them, plus I prefer pads as well. I just think they are easier and that's pretty much exactly what I do. But, most of the time honestly they don't show. Usually only if you are wearing something like leggings so maybe just check after you put pants on!
I was scared of tampons for years, took me forever to get used to them and I had to make a thing of it- legit training regiment.
Same lol. Although you probably won't need to tie a jacket around your waist, first periods can sometimes be light. And don't worry if you get your first period and it doesn't come back for another 6 months. Your body will be trying to get used to it, so your cycles will be messed up. My second period didn't come until about 4 months after my first. So don't panic if your second period doesn't come after another month
I swear my mum used to buy pads that resembled house bricks back in the day
😂
Wow, I'm thinking about building a house & house bricks ARE expensive, so...🤔
@@TheCatBilbo would have saved you money for sure!🤣
The problem is if the person ends up getting toxic shock from the tampons without their parents knowing what’s up. It hit me in less than an hour but thankfully my mom knew I was trying out the tampon life so she acted fast.
EXACTLY. That can be deadly. the lines of communication should be open for safety. Nobody should overstep a parent's relationship or boundaries unless it's an abusive or neglectful relationship. As a parent I need to know what my children r doing so I can educate and protect them❤
@@e-maginne
Yeah
I tried once or twice a tampon, didn't felt comfortable, was so akward trying to put it it and honestly I might have some at home and let my girl try (when I do have kids) but I don't know even how to put them comfortably, i don't feel fine buying something i know I'll not even be the best to help her 😅
And tampons can be quite dangerous...
Pads don't really show a lot,maybe if you're wearing tight underwear and something like leggings . I've always used pads and never felt bad
Yes, my thoughts exactly! Why do people always think it has to do with some weird sex fears????? It is a safety issue! I want my daughters to be used to managing their periods with a pad most of the time and save tampons for only the necessary times. A friend of my mother died when I was a young teen from toxic shock…and she was familiar with using them.
TSS occurs in leaving them in way longer, like 24 hours or more. Even the box says not to use them that long. There are instructions written by the company who has teams of handsomely paid attorneys to keep them out of legal trouble. Read the box. FOLLOW instructions. They're there for a reason.
It's a parent's and possibly the school nurse's or sex educator's duty to discuss this issue, not just stick your head in the sand and forbid your daughter to use them.
“Did ya start your period”
No I’m just walking around carrying a box of pads for fun
You really nailed the mom’s dismissive detachment in the face of her kid’s need for real support
She didn't speak up
The mom thought she was helping
Literally teachers are sometimes more easier to talk to then your family members ngl
Yes, I saw most of my teachers more likeable than my parents lol.
i’m an only child. ALWAYS.
YES.
True.🙁
wow… flash back to my younger years and not being allowed to buy tampons because i “wouldn’t be a virgin anymore” 🤩 i love the south!
Florida be like:
The idea of virginity is STUPID
Wtf.
Virgin just means unmarried person.
I’m a virgin and I won’t put anything up there.
As a father I will do my best to support my girls on there first time let them try what ever they want and the first time no school for the day we go out get a new pair of comfortable clothes go out get lunch and then get ice cream and candy's with a heating pad and let them rest for the rest of the day
As someone with horrible cramps your daughters will thank you. Thank you for understanding and thank you for helping them and letting them rest instead of forcing them to go to school.
@@annamorse5035 o yeha they need to stay home all good in my books like they are already smart and still young lol
They're just controlling mothers not wanting anything to penetrate their little baby girls privates, a very odd controlling, and possibly antiquated, religiously motivated thought process. A loving, supportive mother would want their daughters to feel confident and not have to worry about accidents at school all day long, then have them ridiculed. Being a teenager, and being new to periods, is difficult enough without needing the extra worry.
Or they want not risk their child having toxic shock syndrome
My mom said tampons were so unnatural. I asked her if she thought it was natural for me to bleed thru pads onto my clothes and the floor. Every time. She relented, got tampons and prescription painkiller Anaprox.
Sadly, there are people that think that tampons affect virginity... Yeah, I know I was surprised too.
I was lucky enough. I had an older sister So I was able to use Tampons from the start. I was grateful Because it's horrible being Able to feel yourself bleeding and be in constant fear of an accident.
My dad thought that...
Never understood why we as people give young girls grief and problems just for starting a biological function
These new-age public audition tapes sure are... something.
THIS IS MY MOM, SHE WON'T EVEN LET ME TRY THEM AND DECIDE FOR MYSELF
You must feel so infuriated! That's crazy. I'm so sorry. 😓
My mom was the type who believed it would make me lose my virginity. I believed her too, cuz I was like 13. It makes me mad thinking about it now.
I like the neatness of tampons but they have never been comfortable for me to wear. Anything by the 'lites' even cause my menstrual cramps to worsen. I have pretty much gone back to pads only using lite tampons during the two days of the heaviest flow as a backup to the pad to avoid an accident. I don't know if the discomfort is common and other women just tolerate it or if I am an oddity but they just don't seem to be all that great to me.
I'm sorry. I first tried them at 12 because I got my period on vacation and my mom didn't want me to miss out on swimming. If you go to school, you could ask the nurse for one, or a friend. You don't have to tell the nurse your mom doesn't want you to have them. Just say your pad keeps leaking and ask if she has a tampon.
@@ladymire your mom probably believed it because your grandmother taught her that, and your grandma was taught that way by generations before her that treated anything related to periods or womanhood as something shameful.
I understand you feeling mad about it, but a lot of people from older generations didn't have much information or were socially shamed into not seeking information regarding female health.
I am a husband, father, and uncle to four young women. Other than counseling my daughter about toxic shock syndrome, I have never restricted any feminine purchase of any of my girls. This skit is sad to be happening in this day and age.
How can someone be this pretty?!
IKR🤷♀️💖
Ben Hamilton
Imagine
SHE LOOKS LIKE A DAMN MAN
@@pyroflare7774 umm you realise how rude that sounds?
Here I am the mom that has a whole drawer of every different kind of tampon, pad, and even cups. I didn't want my 2 daughters going through the whole embarrassing thing of asking me.(cause they were embarrassed) I provided it and then asked when I needed to restock which items were their favorites. We found brands we really liked. Found others that we never used again. Some of the best tampons and pads were not name brand. Eventually soft cups ended up being the family favorite.
Kids Please don’t go against your parents. Other adults have other agendas for your life and DO NOT care about you the way your parents do! Talk things through with your parents and tell them what the other adults have said also. Communication is so important. Love and honor your mum and dad please! ❤
I started using cotton cloths and wow, they are so comfy, they absorb nicely, its a whole new world!
I used to be a die hard tampon user, but ive been making healthy natural changes in my life, and cotton cloths are the way to go! And no more spending all that money on disposable, poisonous products
So you bleed on a cloth? 🤮
Or menstrual cups would be best and cleaner.
@@melissalaw6634 tried those, couldn't get it in. They probably aren't very comfortable anyway.
Everyone has to find what works for them right? I've found what works for me and I'm happy about that. I no longer dread my period like I did when I was using pads.
I think anyone who uses pads would find nice soft face cloths a lot comfier than stiff sticky pads, especially at night. Just thought I'd share, most people probably don't even know there's options besides tampons and pads
@@melissalaw6634 Both is honestly great because cups can leak and cloth pads have soft af fabric. Literally makes the garbage experience just slightly better. And they have fun designs.
Okay but the U by Kotex pads r so good they absorb so well and they do not irritate you down there i’m allergic to a lot of pads but those and the flex foam pads are the best they do not irritate you at all
One of my best friends growing up lived with his dad. They had a drawer with different menstrual products in their guest-bathroom for any female visiting. It made it so much easier as I was early.
meanwhile i'd be like-
**tries to hide them behind back** "WHAT- NO- THESE ARE FOR MY NON EXISTANT SISTER WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT"
This defo didn’t happen in London growing up - each to their own was the vibe!
Did for me
I don't think it's appropriate for the second lady to undermine the mother that way
Reading the comments section reminds me vividly of one time in adolescence when I was in Hong Kong, visiting extended family. Context: bodyshaming is a widespread problem in Chinese culture, especially in females (across all generations).
I was in my maternal aunt’s apartment, hanging out with her and my mother, and I walked over to go sit on the couch. I was wearing a pad; my pad had shifted and was extreeemely uncomfortable, but I didn’t think to go to the bathroom to fix it. It changed the way I walked, i.e. I was walking in the only way that would reduce as much discomfort as possible from my pad. Keep in mind that I have ADHD and am very hypersensitive to sensory input. Pretty much immediately as I was walking, both my mother and her sister called me out on the way I was walking. They reprimanded me: “Why are you waddling like a duck??” or whatever they said. They then both proceeded to demonstrate for me “the proper way to walk” - how to walk “normally” and “like a lady”. Back then, introspection wasn’t a hobby for me, so I couldn’t tell my fam that my pad had shifted uncomfortably and was making me walk funny.
I’m glad I don’t think about this traumatic memory much, but I fear that because I’ve remembered it now, I will continue thinking about it 😬
Why is no one talking about how a teacher should never ever override a parent and encourage secrets to be kept??
Honestly, when I’m on my period, all I use is tampons. Unless at night I use a night pad.
Pads are messy. Smear blood all over the labia. Tampons are a bit more neat, but the IUD for a woman after having had a child is by far the most convenient.
This is why kids nowadays believe that their parents are not to be respected. We as parents lost the authority to discipline the right way. 😢
I remember being still in elementary school I got my first period very quickly So I already knew a lot about it before we started talking about it at school. You have no idea how surprise i was when a teacher told us we couldn't use tampons because we would get cancer🤣🤣🤣
thats stupid..and I can relate on the elementary school thing. My elementary school didn't even have a bin for pads/tampons alone because I was the only elementary schooler ever at their that started my period that young.
Were you both fat?
I have personally never worn a tampon. Pads are comfortable; I don't like the idea of placing objects inside my body.
I talked to my mom about tampons at this age and she flat out told me the truth about them from her own experience: they leak, they will hurt dealing with them, and since i was younger it'll be uncomfortable when they are inside if they aren't done properly. Now that I'm an adult and have gotten used to them, i hardly ever wear them XD
Part 9 plz and can u do it every day instead every other day
Mhm
Maybe it just takes time to figure out what she’s going to do next
Some tampons have chemicals in them. Research has been done on this. Some people have issues with them too. There are reasons that mothers don't want their girls on tampons. If you want them, make sure you get an organic one.
Well I'm all for tampons, but if people stopped wearing skin tight leggins in public they wouldn't have to worry about things showing. Modesty is a virtue that i really wish would become popular again.
I love my mom, no matter what she would try and make me feel comfortable. When I started my . she said "You can try tampons if you want, I never really liked them, but if you need me to I can get you some!"
🙂👍
Moms that tell daughters they cant use a tampon or cant use a pad or cant use period panties, etc, are maximum creepy.
When I was younger I had an ex gf whose mom didn't let her use tampons, so that she could check her daughter's vagina to see if her hymen was still intact... Yeah, she doesn't understand how that all works but absolutely disgusting gutter behavior.
Yesss A+ parenting
Trying to control your girls body functions for them so they just suffer yeeeeaaaayy
Imagine if she was forced to wear tampons instead. That would literally be rape.
Or maybe theyre trying to avoid the risk of toxic shock syndrome.
A@++++ parenting.
@@satsumamoontss is something you should be aware of but it is also very rare. As long as you are changing your tampons regularly you should be fine. Parents can teach their children the risk of things while also letting them make their own choices.
This conversation should have been had at home with a lot more open communication about why the tampons are unhealthy for girls who haven’t been sexually active yet. (And the bleach inside your hoo ha isn’t healthy either for anyone) also the teacher going behind a parents back is exactly what is wrong with the public school system. Absolutely not. Have your own kids and you can raise them however you want. This whole “I disagree with the other parent so I’m gonna take action with their kids behind their back” is disgusting and so inappropriate. Everyone has the right to make the choice to raise their children however they want as long as they aren’t being genuinely abused. A bratty teenage girl griping about not getting tampons over pads is not abuse.
Omg sooo reminded me of my strict mother , I needed a teacher like that back in high school.🤦
mom said no to tampons for a reason , its all great till your clawing pieces of it out of you😭
Or you go in toxic shock
If you ever read about toxic shock syndrome you'll be thankful for your moms who want you to wear pads instead. My mom let me wear tampons and I wish she hadn't. After I saw a video about a girl who lost her legs from TSS I never used a tampon again. They are so bad for you.
I was talking to my mom. I haven't gotten my yk yet.. and I said, "Am I using pads or tampons, and she yells, " TAMPONS!" But she say pads for bed like MOM 😭
No, but she's right. Pads OR a period disc(can stay in longer than a tampon without the toxic shock risk). You have to make sure you remember to change it within the time frame or its dangerous and a breeding ground for bacteria because of the material.
@@Dino_Mommy lol ik I wear pads and tampons
@@Dino_Mommy she wore a tampon for 24+ hours because she's goofy
My anger issues could never with my mom 😂
My mom never taught me anything about pads or periods. We had one afternoon at school where it was discussed with female students only (it was sponsored by a prominent period product brand in Germany) and a couple months after when my periods started, I just started using the pads my mom bought for herself (which were hidden away quite well. I was using tons of toilet paper until I found them)
I had no cramps at all the first year I got my periods (by now excruciating pain bc I developed endometriosis which my mother also didn’t know was a thing), but I was also constantly soiling my bed and pj’s with blood because of that, and because I didn’t know anything about pads or how long they last or any other tricks to prevent spillage. I still sometimes wake up in the middle of the night, panicked because I felt a twinge in my lower stomach and might’ve bloodied my bed. Those years I felt extremely lonely with my period problems to the point I was too scared to open pads in public bathrooms when someone else was there too because they might hear.
Edit: thanks to all that I’m a master at removing bloodstains because I was too embarrassed to throw bloody laundry into the laundry basket. I just cleaned it in the middle of the night.
I could probably make some serious bank off an underground tampon smuggling business.
Who in the world is making fun of someone for wearing pads??? Like every girl who starts their period got treated like a celebrity with bragging rights at my middle school.
I love how everyone talks normally and then the teacher is just full on South Dakota accent
There is no age-restriction on tampons. Just go buy some without your parents. It's not like alcohol or tabacco.
Im scared of tampons
They won’t hurt you.
@@harleyquinn5774 if you don't know how to insert them they might
My mom didn't want me to wear tampons as a teen either. I just snuck and bought them anyway. When she found out, she was like really?! I told you that you couldn't get them yet. I was like girllllllll....ain't nobody about to be wearing an uncomfortable, bunchy diaper that people can see when you walk away! And that was the last conversation about that. 😂
The whole reason parents say no to their kids is to feel like authority.
Tampons, if not used right, can cause toxic shock syndrome. I think, some moms are worried of that, not the whole virginity thing. I've never used a tampon all my life, my mom introduced me to pads and then even after I grew up and learn about tampons and TSS I gave a wide berth. All these hyginene products have lot of unhealthy, and sometimes leathal chemicals included. Tampons can introduce those to high in vagina than a pad which is why TSS gets so fatal with tampons than other methods. But ladies, it's your body and your health. Be informed and make the best choice for you.
Whay if the teacher give them to her In front of everyone in class 😳😳😳
Oh god
@@Austin-n3q yeah
I wouldn't mind personally
@@io-ex7bg yeah same.
@@io-ex7bg I so w1ould
My mom never let me buy tampons either, because she was convinced a tampon would cause my hymen to break and me to lose my virginity. I also got my first period like a week before my 12th birthday, so it was years of uncomfortable pads until I finally just said fuck it and started having my dad buy them for me.
I was 11 and a half and I had to try for years to get one of those damn things in. So maybe you didn't miss out on much.
Menstrual cups are way healthier for you and the environment! Forget pads and tampons. 😊
Part 9 pls
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Aye my name is Ava too!!!
OH my goodness this is getting good!!!!! Please post the next part! ASAP!!!!
Moms like that should not be moms. If your daughter has their period they’re old enough to learn about these things
“Did you start your period “
That’s a normal question to ask a women?
Only if ur being polite, but yeah
Well, she’s holding a pack of pads right in front of her. And they aren’t strangers. She’s the girl’s teacher and teachers sometimes double as counselors as well
Edit: that being said, i do still think its a super awkward interaction 💀. It would make more sense if the girl had gone up to the teacher herself on purpose after class or gone to the school nurse, but I get it’s just to make a point in the video
Periods are normal bro wtf
This would be a choice the teacher doesn’t get to make. TSS is deadly!! The lucky who survive usually lose their health not to mention limbs. Is the teacher going to regulate every three hours her student change her tampon? Providing pads, new underwear, pants, emotional support all wonderful! Tampons can be dangerous and those decisions are left to parents.
I remember seeing a lady in the mall who had her pad hanging out. She was with a whole bunch of friends who didn't tell her that it was there even though ypu could see them looking at it. I ended up going up to her and whispering to her about it. She was so embarrassed. I felt so bad for her.
I'll never get that minute or two of my life back...
As a twenty something, young, the first cases of tampon-related toxic shock syndrome were occurring. I did not need convincing they were a bad idea. In fact, I had a friend forget she had one in for a month. Once that cord disappears, you forget you put one up there. She was lucky she did not get toxic shock!
How does the cord 'disappear???
@@MmCellisteit doesnt, it gets "lost" by being matted to your vulva and being harder to find.
It's even more awkward when you're trans and genetically female ;-;
Fr tho 💀
I feel that mtf is way more common than ftm
@@Immortalangel14 what does that ga e to do with anything? He’s saying he’s a trans man so like
@Collin Parker Damn bro, I can tell you from experience: if you’ve got shit you need to get off your chest man, therapy can work real well!! I’ll be happy to point out some resources if you’d like 👍 I think you’re a great candidate :)
This is the best video I've seen in my life
So I heard that you're at a much higher risk of TSS in your first year of menstruation, so I made my daughter use pads her first year. After that, she could use whatever she wanted.
Maybe don't assume why people do the things they do and butt into other people's private business. This girl isn't being abused.
THANK YOU!!
It feels borderline predatory to go behind a parents back like this when the child isn't even in any danger.
Nobody said she was abused? However periods are stigmatized in our society, people are allowed to wear and try if it works for them.
@@Palettblad or you could keep your nose out of another families business and let parents work with what's best for their families.
If you want to "destigmatize" something do it with your own kids.
@@Palettblad
1. If she was being abused, that would be a good reason to intervene, and that's the only reason I mentioned it. I didn't say anyone claimed she was being abused, you made that up.
2. Worrying about my child's *health* is not the same as stigmatizing something. I never at any point stigmatized anything.
3. Mind your own fucking business. You have NO REASON to butt into other people's family business, provided the child isn't being abused (see point 1).
4. Mind your own fucking business. I know, this is here twice. It's because apparently it bears repeating.
How weird, I didn't know this was an issue for some parents. I'm 62 and had a hysterectomy in 30s so I have not had to even think about the issue since I had sons. Anyone who wants to tell me why they care I would like to know why. My parents had 3 daughters and that was a decision for us. I chose pads, but my older sister chose tampons. Sadly, in 1980 there was an issue with one tampon brand, I have forgotten the name brand, but my sister ended up suing the company after a close call with death of Toxic Shock Syndrome. She was fortunate to survive as many died from the defect that caused this issue. It ofcourse was taken off market and many lawsuits followed. I wonder if this fear comes from many who remember that ordeal. I realize just like with so many prescriptions that cause serious issues and even death due to the fact that the drug companies and FDA are doing a lousy job that my sisters case is just another example of failure to protect the public and it was a very rare unfortunate occurrence. Some of the meds I have taken in past have been recalled for serious side effects. I was just fortunate not to experience any of the most serious effects. Like my Mom, had I had a daughter I believe I would have allowed her to make her own decision as well.I went back and read some comments and had no ideal that some parents believed wearing tampons meant you were no virgin. How backwards, I started mine in '76 and I don't recall such a silly stigma. Where did common sense go. Warn your daughter's about the dangers and symptoms of Toxic Shock, but assuming their no longer a virgin sounds like we're back in the 1950s.
I'm 66 so I know about toxic shock I remember the brand but I just can't remember the name of it it was because the materials it was made of we're cheap. And people left them in too long. If you use a good brand that is cotton 100% cotton is the best it's the most comfortable and the safest but the other brands that are like cotton are okay. They should not be left in for too long. The young girls need to know that they cannot get stuck they will always be able to get them out there's no place for them to go. Even if the string got lost up inside of you all you would have to do is squat and pull it out with your fingers if it hurts you should use something to lubricate with like generic KY jelly. Tampons should never smell bad even when they are full of blood they should not have a bad odor if you have bad odor you might have an infection and you need to see the doctor. I wore tampons from the time I was 13 I think made me feel much cleaner and better.I used to carry a little tin they don't make those anymore a little tin that used to have Excedrin in it I would clean it out and I would put a glob of Vaseline in the tin it was flat just a little flat thing and I carried it in the pocket of my jeans then when I needed to put in a tampon I could put a little Vaseline around the edges of it and then it was easy to use.
that’s so sad, bc no sane person would buy a product that has more than 1% of chance to kill them or cripple them in few hours. and use them multiple times a day, 1 week per month, every year of their lives until menopause. especially when they’re other choices. but somehow tampons got a silent pass. it’s massively generalized denial
Her posture and how unsure she seems reminds me so much of my step daughter when she first got her period. She hated what was going on with her body and seemed so uncomfortable. As her stepdad I did everything I could to let her know what was happening is natural and isn’t gross or weird. She was amazed the first time she reluctantly asked me to pick up tampons for her and I just asked what brand to get. She asked if I’d be embarrassed at the register and I just told her “If they’re going to laugh at me for having a young lady in my life I care about, I feel like I’m not the weird one in that situation.” Her and I are still very close and I’m proud to say she calls me Dad to this day.😊
The ONLY conceivable reason this came up in my feed is my phone is listening and my daughter is having “ female issues” and trying to get an emergency appointment with her OBGYN.
My mom did the same shit to me! She said tampons were only for “married ladies” implicating sex had something to do with tampons. 🤷♀️
As a parent, I wouldn't want anybody by my child. Something that I have said that they can't use. It is not a teacher nor a friend of the family's place to buy tampons or anything that a parent is against for their child.
Im getting my daughter period underwear for her future cycle. No yucky embarrassing pads and no Toxic Shock Syndrome. Most victims are teens/young adults who leave tampons in too long or forget about them while inserted.
Tampon police versus tampon smugglers. Is this a Ricky Gervais sketch?
This is exactly whats wrong with our children! Mentors/Teachers undermining parents.
No. You don’t buy tampons for someone else’s kid. The mom might just believe the myth that a tampon can take your virginity or she knows her daughter doesn’t need to have carcinogens shoved up next to her uterus. Also some girls like me have ADHD and might forget to take them out and get TSS. If there’s neglect and a child menstruation is being ignored that’s one issue but you don’t get to make choices for other people’s children.
Moon Cup anyone? I ditched tampons years ago and use an amazing silicone moon cup. It’s a one time purchase and doesn’t dry you out or give you any toxins. Saves you money and the environment.
Apart from publicly humiliating me in the shops once, my dad came home from work with a huge shopping bag full of loose (wrapped) tampons of every size imaginable. He was the only one at work with a daughter old enough to need them. They’d been making a metal detector for some company or other and they’d had test control ones and safe ones. Once the machine was up to spec they didn’t need all the clean (no metal in them), still wrapped and perfectly fine to use tampons. I got them. They lasted me for something like 5 years. At the time I was cringing but not any more. It was an awesome perk to get them.
Knowing how abusive and controlling my mother was, this opened my eyes as to how awful it must have been for my sisters when they started.
As a man, I see this as an absolute win...in more ways than one!
Also...why tf does stuff like this keep showing up in my RUclips feed anyhow? 💀
I have not introduced my 11 year old to tampons yet and it’s not because of her virginity 🙄 She lacks the maturity and self discipline to stay on top of it and will end up with an embarrassing accident, end up forgetting she has one and end up hurting herself, or not change it on time, not to mention all the health risks involved with tampons. I don’t use them. When she’s ready and can be responsible, I’ll switch her her to a cup. It’s not the teacher’s place to override her mother. That is out of line. Hope this doesn’t actually happen.
This entire comment section is wild to me. I dont know where so much misinformation about tampon use is coming from. I started my period at 11 in the 6th grade in 1966. My mother told me about both pads and after a year or so about tampons. I used both over the years as did my daughter. They arent sangerous, dont break your hymen or cause cramps. They dont cause TSS unless you leave a tampon in for days. I had no idea that such nonsense was believed by so many people
I wear period panties cause tampons hurt and pads irritate my skin too much. However every woman should do what is best for them ❤