Those parts where she was exhausted and just feeling very blue were just very relatable for me. Sometimes life just colapses down to ashes, and there is no other thing to do than cry and that is totally ok. As they say, no rain; no flowers.
Thank you for showing us the less “showable” side it made me feel less alone and that even when there is times we feel down we can always look forward! I hope you have a great year!!
i don't want you to ever feel like you have to film when you're having a difficult time, but know that i really appreciated that moment of vulnerability as someone who has been struggling with settling back into university myself. it's ok to not be ok, and seeing someone i really look up to also sharing this felt like a warm hug
oh, u don't know how much i love every single of your content- especially you! you're the kindest, sweetest, and amazing person : ( i love you! thank you for being here and letting us to join on your adventure
exactly!! she is the most adorable comfort character who always never fails to make us happy!!! she is the best! srsly like i dont need vitamins...we need our smol deborah
oh my gosh, deborah 🥺🥺 i just want to say that you're so strong for powering through the second day even though it was rough for you and you were stressed out 🥺 i know in the moment, life can be so stressful- especially when you're in college, but i promise you that you're doing an amazing job at being you! you're doing great!! we all love you so much and please never forget that, okay? 🌷🥺
I think it's really admirable that you dare to be so open and vulnerable online, I can't imagine how hard that must be and I respect you immensely for that! Also, just from one college student to another: it does get better
This is such a comforting video❤️. Often, I tend to forget that we never really have our lives put together 24/7, and being a youtuber I can only imagine how hard and sometimes frustrating it might be for you. But I hope you don't feel too pressured to constantly be positive for us. We all have our own customized lemons thrown our ways anyway😅. I just wanna say you n your videos bring me a lot of warmth ,and I hope you feel at ease with the way things are, and keep being the beautiful person you are❤️💕🌸💜💘💕🌼✨
First week of school is always so exhausting. I remember when we started our in-person classes and literally everyday I’d want to cry but somehow I managed not to. I feel you Deborah. Your not alone in this. And sometimes its okay to have a mental breakdown. Stay strong. I love your content so freakin much. Keep making content for us and we’ll always keep loving you. Ilysm
Having a new transition in your life can be overwhelming and sometimes you don't realise how much it's taking a toll on you. You're doing great, and I love your content. Remember not to be too hard on yourself or set super high expectations whilst you're settling in. Take one day at a time
When you were crying it just broke my heart. This is my first time seeing your channel but I feel so emotional after seeing you upset. I hope whatever you are going through, you get better. Don't forget that you are strong. You are amazing
started tearing up because im in a similar situation :,) i had my freshman year all online as well so i hadn't done any in-person classes in over a year. going to my first in-person college class was scary & i cried the first week because there was just so much happening. seeing i'm not the only one is really reassuring & i hope you have a good school year!!!
I'm going to college in a week exactly, enrollment tomorrow for student ID etc. I'm absolutely shitting it but your videos make me feel so much better and I really appreciate you for that. I know it's silly to gush over, but just simply showing your emotions was enough. The past few years have been challenging and I'm just happy that you were part of my self healing journey. Lots of love and luck for the future 💖
hey deborah, I dont usually comment on videos but I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your vulnerable side with us. 2021 has been a rough year for me, and you made me feel less alone. I love your videos and stay safe and healthy! 💞
I miss more content creators like you on social media. You do not just show the “perfect” parts of life, I love how realistic you are and it really makes me feel comforted.
Hello! You're right, it's perfectly normal for a person to feel abandoned, but it's not. There is always a person who will support you, even if he is not around. You know, I was a little jealous of people who used to lead such a life, but later I realized that I could create such a life myself, and I want to work on it. You give me the motivation that I sometimes miss so much. I'm very grateful to you for that. And I really liked your university! We are waiting for the next video :) Love you💕💞💗
3:19 lol I can relate. I am in a new university 'academy' and here I had an option to try staying the dorms for 3 weeks so i did. ●7 to 8 am is the time when usually people are ready, here its considered "free time" when they go out and maybe hangout do stuff ●7 o'clock is the time when we have this dorm check-out. Practically if you wanna throw the garbage etc. ●its despair •in addition its 2 am, im doing a history project, gotta wake up at 6am tomorrow.
I just wanted to say thank you for all your hard work deborah! :)) There is also one quote that keeps me going,and i would like to share it with you: "Life is hard because it is. There’s no easy answer. It’s just a matter of whether we’re willing to face the hardships." (have a great day!)
I’ve seen and loved so many of dobo’s vlogs but this one has my soul. I think I didn’t realise how much I was holding inside until I saw her crying and realised maybe I needed a cry too, I’m so scared of never moving on to do more, different, independent things and be stuck here and at the same time I feel so ungrateful because I have everything I need and everyone I love around me, but sometimes it’s so stressful and stifling and how I wished I was dobo. But this made me realise no where is perfect and no one is happy all the time, thanks dobo I think I needed to cry with you to know I’ll be alright lol
12:20 i felt those emotions so strongly because that happens a lot to me, to every one of us. sometimes, nothing goes according to us and it may seem a tiny thing to others but we know how deeply it affects us. but kudos to those who go through these rough times and still manage to be happy. like later on the video, she was happy. and that's the thing i wanna say, that even tho going through those shitty days, you still managed to have a positive attitude. and i just wanna say I'm proud of y'all for being so strong
last week i had a mental breakdown and i was just feeling empty and exhausted about my self and my school life. even though i just try to make an effort and still going, sometimes it's just too hard and i just end up crying thank you for sharing a bit of your emotions, deborah this makes me feel very understood and all those emotions were very relatable to me i hope everyone to be healthy and keep going, love you love you
today i also had a not so good day. i said i'd turn it around but i really couldn't bring myself to do so. i felt weak and i let myself just take a break. after all, i couldn't force myself to be okay.. sometimes we have to let ourselves be vulnerable. crying it out helped a ton. hope you're feeling a lot better now bub 💓
Hey Deborah, I just want to say that I’m so proud of you. You’ve achieved so much and will continue to learn and grow as a person, and I know you’re going to make an amazing impact on the world. Thank you for reminding us that it is ok to not be ok, because we are humans with valid feelings. Many youtubers show this amazing life where they’re always happy and everything always goes their way (there’s no problem with that) but it’s comforting to see that everyone is vulnerable and has off days sometimes. I’m so proud of you for being open in this video, we will always support you. You’re definitely a comfort youtuber of mine and I wish you all the best :)) 💗
Thank you so much for sharing! As someone who's pretty much in the same situation in life right now, seeing that other people also go through the same ups and downs is really comforting and relieving! Also mad props to you for even sharing 20% of your life with us! Always having to place a camera near you must be very exhausting sometimes.
I will never forget the first mental breakdown of my junior year. I had sat there and cried silently on my first french quiz of the year because I had received a 0 out of 30. I had put so much pressure on myself to do better that it just came crashing down that day. I feel like students forget that we shouldn't put so much importance on school and forget ourselves. we have to remember that life exists outside of school and have a more realistic view.
I started crying when you were crying. Idk why but I didn't feel like crying , it was all ok but when I cried it felt like I needed this. Stay strong girl, I'll be too.
oh mannn, i cried when you cried because I am feeling a little blue here in my first week of college as well, and living in my dorm missing home. i feel like I shouldn't be sad because it's such a great time to be at college and I should be living my best life, but I guess it's okay to have these kind of days as well and living the best life doesn't mean we have to be happy and go out all the time :')))
I hope you have good days more often and this makes me excited for college/uni, but I have to get high school over with first. TT - TT Also I can't get over your hair and your outfits.
literally omg your videos are so comforting and warming. they make me want to be more productive and just stay positive. your really an inspiration for me and i wanna thank you for that. i feel like every video you make just has a little message in it and they help me with the ways i think of life. so thank you for being you and making these videos.
you showing that one cut of you going through a breakdown is something that's just so important to me,,,,, i've been watching college themed vlogs ever since my last year of school (in 2020) and i had this really romanticized idea of what college would be. now that i'm here (though it's still online 🤢🤢) it can be so so so overwhelming most days, triggers me in so many different horrible ways and makes me cry my eyes out. it's just, this feeling of solidarity with someone else going through a bad day when you are as well, and i'm really grateful that you've given that to me. we're on opposite sides of the planet, i know, but we're in this together
those clips where you showed your life isn’t perfect helped me more than you can imagine. everyday i feel like i don’t understand why i’m so slow why i’m so behind why other people have so much free time and i don’t and it makes me feel miserable. it’s good to know i’m really not alone, thank you.
I just want to thank you, cause I'm actually having pretty bad times, my depression hits hards this months and the things you wrote literally made me cry, like I felt so understood and in security in kind of a soft space... I love so much your content, definetily one of my comforts youtubers
I’m only 14, and sometimes watching those “productive videos” of college make me excited to grow up and have opportunities, I also sometimes wish I was an adult, but then I realize how hard it can be being an adult and how many responsibilities I will be taking care of, and watching REAL influencers help me realize what it’s actually like. And you’re a real influencer, dobochobo.💖
this is so comforting seeing you start in-person-college and moving out of your parents house at the same time as me. Ive been feeling quite overwhelmed with life since classes startet and seeing you get vulnerable kind of made me realize that I'm not alone in this. tysm
I hope that soon you can find a solution to your problems and the things that overwhelm you, always keep in mind that you have your subs/fans. I appreciate you too much Deborah, please take care of yourself and eat well. I also hope time passes quickly so you can rest from college ♡
11:06 oml this happened to me today 😭 I was planning on waking up at 8:40 am even set an alarm and then I wake up ready for the day, more energized and when I see the clock it was 12 pm and I totally missed my Spanish class which now I get to see the recording but still I wasn’t planning on missing it 😭 It’s my first year at college so :') P.s: Dobo, I made it to watch all your videos yay it was so much fun!! 💜 I saw the rest of the video :c remember not all days are good days, some of them are difficult but we can’t let negativity enter. Remember there will be a brand new day the next day and that we learn from the mistakes. Such a comfort to watch your videos and that you get more close to us subscribers. Really appreciated. ❤️
honestly when you started crying it reminded me of when I was in university and it is hard and you'll find yourself wondering "is it worth the struggle?" and I will assure you it is you just have to take the good moments and cherish them so you can remind yourself there are good days and there will be many more than the bad ones after all the struggle. I took a leave of absence and will go back next fall so never give up you got this!
I just started watching your videos but let me tell you you promote such a healthy relationship between real life and online content! Keep it up, Dobo ^^
I know that it's hard being vulnerable in front of a few people, let alone 229K of us, but it really is a relief for us. Especially those of us who are in school right now. Your content is always so refreshing and calming. I hope your first few weeks of school have been better, and we love you so much!
Hey, it's alright to express your feelings sometimes. And actually seeing this vid kinda make me happier since I know I'm not alone having emotions like these. I hope ur doing better now!
My school had a quarter system too and I loved it. Semesters seem to drag on so long and only provide more busy work. Quarters are definitely more my speed. Your campus has some very nice areas and give me all the cool and cloudy weather. My campus was more modern (in architectural style. Not my favorite.) and in a constantly warm and sunny place (I was not meant for constant sunshine). As long as you're comfortable with it, I think it's good that you share some real and vulnerable moments on your vlogs. Some days are just tough mentally and physically and you don't always know why. Try not to be hard on yourself and do something that brings you comfort on those days, like you did with your comfort meal. It's been a while since I finished school but I think vlogs are helping bring to light how important and often neglected mental health is in the college and university environment. It's a time of a lot of changes in life and growth with the pressure of "decide what you want to do for the rest of your life". Just be kind to yourself and hopefully faculty can be kind too because a professor or department can have both a very positive but also very negative impact on students' lives and I often found they didn't take that influence they had seriously enough.
thank you so much for sharing that moment with us, i completely saw myself in you and this shows how after all we are not alone in these little 'storms' life throws us in. there is no best feeling in being able to pick yourself up from those moments and shining a light on what once was dark, no matter how long it takes. i love your content so incredibly much, thank you for creating comfort. have a beautiful day ahead of you💛
AAAA IM A LIL EARLLYYY im rlly rlly thankful to know that im not the only one having a hard time with life these days...! its my first year of being a senior and im not really at my best right now but thanks for cheering me up!!!
I really appreciate the fact that you included your vulnerable moment in the video because it feels like you are real. You know, not much people show their real faces and struggles. It really helps to understand that the person you`re subscribed on is similar to you I personally LOVE every blog you post, every video is so heartwarming Hope you have a great day! 💛💛
The moment you enter the library I just started crying, the country where I live doesn't have that kind of gorgeous places, and it makes me so sad everytime I think about it, bc maybe is not that big deal for others but for me it's like a way of saying that what I'm doing is not worth it, and somedays the only thing that cross my mind is quitting everything, but then I realise that it's ok not to be ok, as long as we don't stop for what we really want and desire, I'll go someday to a library like that
i remember reading cheese in the trap and it made me sob so many timesT^T you'll probably relate to her if your studious or your trying to maintain grades for scholarship omggg or if you're just a student altogetherT^T i was just even a high schooler at that time but the feeling of having groupmates who makes you do all the work, students' fund that was corrupted, mean classmates and your bestfriends that very thankful for,,, everything just hits home i was crying on bed at 3 am reading this one honestlyT^T
what u were saying about online school was SO true! like yeah, I did well in online school but I felt like i had learned nothing! not to mention how unstimulating it is. call me weird but I was so excited to get back in a classroom with real people, a real teacher to interact with, and actually have the motivation to get up. this video was so cute and aesthetic I loved it. and I can appreciate the vulnerability with your audience. its very commendable
It's okay to show your vulnerable side too Debo. I hope whoever is going through something knows that you're not alone and you are loved. Have a great day :)
hey deborah! I think most people who upload content to youtube or social media aren't entirely 'realistic', you know? , we all have difficult times, we go through stress, we wander in our minds, and it is difficult for us to simply follow the path. But, what makes us human are those moments of vulnerability. Sometimes we see people on social media having a 'perfect life' and compare ourselves inevitably and unconsciously, but seeing other people go through moments of vulnerability and overcome them with a smile on their faces definitely makes us feel better and motivated. I really really love your channel, deborah. I'm from Mexico and I don't understand English very well, but when I look at your videos I learn more english and I feel calm. (I wrote this part without translator so, sorry if there's any mistakes) take care and be happy, debo ♡
having not so random breakdowns cause of emotional stress is SO REAL . thank you for being so comforting like I legit came to this video cause I was stressed over the fact that I've been getting PROPER assignments and essays to do this week. you're always so comforting calming and funny I hope you have someone like yourself in your life. love from Newcastle
Don't value your worth w productivity and numbers and always ALWAYS forgive urself! (obvs idk what ur going thru btw but) I've lived with disorders (mainly anxiety & depression) for years and no matter what thoughts u tell urself, sometimes u just feel a certain way for day. It's not good or bad
Ughh !! when the notification came I was so exicted ^^ I was scrolling to find a good video and you POSTED. I was so happy. Thankyou so much dobochobo for posting this beautiful video I really appreciate the hardwork you put in ur video 🖤and the transition where you change ur clothes at 4:00 was so smooth !! I was like :😦
I'm so grateful that where are youtubers like you who shares how life sometimes go out of plan a little bit (okay maybe not a little bit🙄). And when I heard you saying that crying is good for your soul I felt so touched, because this week was very hard for me. I won't lie I've cried a couple of times and it just colmes me down knowing it's okay to cry and that you sometimes cry too. Please excuse my spelling mistakes 😅
OMG DEBORAH. I just finished watching this Korean movie named door lock and I was scared shitless and THANK GOD I saw your notification and reminded myself that real life isn't that scary 😭🥺💀💞
thank you for being vulnerable and honest with us!! One of the things I wish we didn’t feel obligated to do, anytime (negative) emotions are shared, is apologize over being stressed or second-guess the fact that we’re mentally in a bad spot. If anything, you’ve helped a lot of people (me included) and given perspective over the fact that we’re all human beings with similar thoughts and emotions, regardless of our differing experiences. love you and everything you do, please take care. 🥺💕
this is my first video i’ve seen of yours because the algorithm is insane! thanks so much for the subtitles for those of us who are hard of hearing or have auditory processing issues like me ❤️
your vlogs bring me so much comfort!! thank you for sharing some of your more vulnerable moments as well, you’re completely valid in your feelings and crying is definitely good for the soul!!!🤍
As someone who entered college one year after my senior year I can relate that you get to miss classrooms and being considered an student. Due I graduated during pandemic I also felt that my High school year did not have a real closure. 2022 was a sabbatycal year that I invested in studying languages and getting my first job, along with meeting new people and exploring the city. Now that I started college in 2023 I feel that as much I missed studying I wish I could have taken more time before starting this new chapter in personal life and I am glad to see that others feel the same. Just a Though I wanted to share
ik you don’t know me but I just wanna say. Thank you. Thank you for being part of my life you changed me sm. Ever since I started watching you, I felt happiness again. And I even gained the confidence to do self care and take care of myself and realise life is really worth living, even if we aren’t friends I still appreciate you alot. and because of you, I was able to get better with my mental health by enjoying ur videos, it makes me feel so much better even at my worst days
My first day of college is in two weeks, I'm really terrified and don't know what to expect, so I searched for "my first day of college" videos. Your video felt so real and pure, thank you
Those parts where she was exhausted and just feeling very blue were just very relatable for me. Sometimes life just colapses down to ashes, and there is no other thing to do than cry and that is totally ok. As they say, no rain; no flowers.
I agree:) watching her made me emotional as well. (Loved the quote at the end) But, DOBOCHOBO you are my comfort videos
this is unrelated but i luv your pfp
yea i mean,it is okay not to be okay
"No rain, no flowers" I really like this idea, thanks for reminding me
Thank you for showing us the less “showable” side it made me feel less alone and that even when there is times we feel down we can always look forward! I hope you have a great year!!
im glad you were able to find some comfort in this video :'')
i don't want you to ever feel like you have to film when you're having a difficult time, but know that i really appreciated that moment of vulnerability as someone who has been struggling with settling back into university myself. it's ok to not be ok, and seeing someone i really look up to also sharing this felt like a warm hug
you uploading is the only thing getting me excited these days:""""D
honestly same :')
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oh, u don't know how much i love every single of your content- especially you! you're the kindest, sweetest, and amazing person : ( i love you! thank you for being here and letting us to join on your adventure
exactly!! she is the most adorable comfort character who always never fails to make us happy!!! she is the best! srsly like i dont need vitamins...we need our smol deborah
i stayed for a little longer thinking dobochobo would update and was not disappointed! thank youuuu dobochobo
oh my gosh, deborah 🥺🥺 i just want to say that you're so strong for powering through the second day even though it was rough for you and you were stressed out 🥺 i know in the moment, life can be so stressful- especially when you're in college, but i promise you that you're doing an amazing job at being you! you're doing great!! we all love you so much and please never forget that, okay? 🌷🥺
ah god u r cute 😭‼️
I think it's really admirable that you dare to be so open and vulnerable online, I can't imagine how hard that must be and I respect you immensely for that! Also, just from one college student to another: it does get better
thank you for the encouraging comment!
Super excited watching her upload 👏🏻🥳 love from Mexico 🇲🇽
Me too from México
¡¡yo tambien soy de mexico!!
I’m also from Mexico :)
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This is such a comforting video❤️. Often, I tend to forget that we never really have our lives put together 24/7, and being a youtuber I can only imagine how hard and sometimes frustrating it might be for you. But I hope you don't feel too pressured to constantly be positive for us. We all have our own customized lemons thrown our ways anyway😅. I just wanna say you n your videos bring me a lot of warmth ,and I hope you feel at ease with the way things are, and keep being the beautiful person you are❤️💕🌸💜💘💕🌼✨
🥺🥺y'all have no idea how much i appreciate u + this community - so grateful
First week of school is always so exhausting. I remember when we started our in-person classes and literally everyday I’d want to cry but somehow I managed not to. I feel you Deborah. Your not alone in this. And sometimes its okay to have a mental breakdown. Stay strong. I love your content so freakin much. Keep making content for us and we’ll always keep loving you. Ilysm
DEBORAH U DONT KNOW HOW MUCH EXCITED I AM TO WATCH THIS
Having a new transition in your life can be overwhelming and sometimes you don't realise how much it's taking a toll on you. You're doing great, and I love your content. Remember not to be too hard on yourself or set super high expectations whilst you're settling in. Take one day at a time
When you were crying it just broke my heart. This is my first time seeing your channel but I feel so emotional after seeing you upset. I hope whatever you are going through, you get better. Don't forget that you are strong. You are amazing
Deborah is such a serotonin boost :D
Oh man, I’m so glad I’m a semester away from finishing university. Good luck to you and this quarter!
this girl is literally the definition of aesthetic~ ☁️✨
started tearing up because im in a similar situation :,) i had my freshman year all online as well so i hadn't done any in-person classes in over a year. going to my first in-person college class was scary & i cried the first week because there was just so much happening. seeing i'm not the only one is really reassuring & i hope you have a good school year!!!
I'm going to college in a week exactly, enrollment tomorrow for student ID etc.
I'm absolutely shitting it but your videos make me feel so much better and I really appreciate you for that. I know it's silly to gush over, but just simply showing your emotions was enough. The past few years have been challenging and I'm just happy that you were part of my self healing journey.
Lots of love and luck for the future 💖
She's so genuine and so real
hey deborah, I dont usually comment on videos but I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your vulnerable side with us. 2021 has been a rough year for me, and you made me feel less alone. I love your videos and stay safe and healthy! 💞
I remember watching you when you had 4000 subscribers and now you’re in the 400k I’m sooo proud of you love
I miss more content creators like you on social media. You do not just show the “perfect” parts of life, I love how realistic you are and it really makes me feel comforted.
as the linh troung poster says, "IT'S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY" i love you deborah you will always be a queen
Hello! You're right, it's perfectly normal for a person to feel abandoned, but it's not. There is always a person who will support you, even if he is not around. You know, I was a little jealous of people who used to lead such a life, but later I realized that I could create such a life myself, and I want to work on it. You give me the motivation that I sometimes miss so much. I'm very grateful to you for that. And I really liked your university! We are waiting for the next video :)
Love you💕💞💗
3:19 lol I can relate. I am in a new university 'academy' and here I had an option to try staying the dorms for 3 weeks so i did.
●7 to 8 am is the time when usually people are ready, here its considered
"free time" when they go out and maybe hangout do stuff
●7 o'clock is the time when we have this dorm check-out. Practically if you wanna throw the garbage etc.
●its despair
•in addition its 2 am, im doing a history project, gotta wake up at 6am tomorrow.
I just wanted to say thank you for all your hard work deborah! :))
There is also one quote that keeps me going,and i would like to share it with you: "Life is hard because it is. There’s no easy answer. It’s just a matter of whether we’re willing to face the hardships."
(have a great day!)
I’ve seen and loved so many of dobo’s vlogs but this one has my soul. I think I didn’t realise how much I was holding inside until I saw her crying and realised maybe I needed a cry too, I’m so scared of never moving on to do more, different, independent things and be stuck here and at the same time I feel so ungrateful because I have everything I need and everyone I love around me, but sometimes it’s so stressful and stifling and how I wished I was dobo. But this made me realise no where is perfect and no one is happy all the time, thanks dobo I think I needed to cry with you to know I’ll be alright lol
I started crying when I saw you cry sis
12:20 i felt those emotions so strongly because that happens a lot to me, to every one of us. sometimes, nothing goes according to us and it may seem a tiny thing to others but we know how deeply it affects us. but kudos to those who go through these rough times and still manage to be happy. like later on the video, she was happy. and that's the thing i wanna say, that even tho going through those shitty days, you still managed to have a positive attitude. and i just wanna say I'm proud of y'all for being so strong
last week i had a mental breakdown and i was just feeling empty and exhausted about my self and my school life. even though i just try to make an effort and still going, sometimes it's just too hard and i just end up crying
thank you for sharing a bit of your emotions, deborah
this makes me feel very understood and all those emotions were very relatable to me
i hope everyone to be healthy and keep going, love you love you
4:02 okay that transition was really smooth, wtf??
today i also had a not so good day. i said i'd turn it around but i really couldn't bring myself to do so. i felt weak and i let myself just take a break. after all, i couldn't force myself to be okay.. sometimes we have to let ourselves be vulnerable. crying it out helped a ton. hope you're feeling a lot better now bub 💓
The person who makes me feel better😊😊
Hey Deborah, I just want to say that I’m so proud of you. You’ve achieved so much and will continue to learn and grow as a person, and I know you’re going to make an amazing impact on the world. Thank you for reminding us that it is ok to not be ok, because we are humans with valid feelings. Many youtubers show this amazing life where they’re always happy and everything always goes their way (there’s no problem with that) but it’s comforting to see that everyone is vulnerable and has off days sometimes. I’m so proud of you for being open in this video, we will always support you. You’re definitely a comfort youtuber of mine and I wish you all the best :)) 💗
Wow that library 📚😳👏🏻
STAY STRONG DEBORAH!! I'm so proud of you for not giving up ily!!
ILY2😭❤️
this is my boost of energy every morning/night
I love getting to see this more vulnerable side of you, Deb. It makes me feel less stupid about my own emotional breakdowns
Thank you so much for sharing! As someone who's pretty much in the same situation in life right now, seeing that other people also go through the same ups and downs is really comforting and relieving! Also mad props to you for even sharing 20% of your life with us! Always having to place a camera near you must be very exhausting sometimes.
I will never forget the first mental breakdown of my junior year. I had sat there and cried silently on my first french quiz of the year because I had received a 0 out of 30. I had put so much pressure on myself to do better that it just came crashing down that day. I feel like students forget that we shouldn't put so much importance on school and forget ourselves. we have to remember that life exists outside of school and have a more realistic view.
!!!! the best way to start the day is by watching Deborah's videos
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I started crying when you were crying. Idk why but I didn't feel like crying , it was all ok but when I cried it felt like I needed this. Stay strong girl, I'll be too.
oh mannn, i cried when you cried because I am feeling a little blue here in my first week of college as well, and living in my dorm missing home. i feel like I shouldn't be sad because it's such a great time to be at college and I should be living my best life, but I guess it's okay to have these kind of days as well and living the best life doesn't mean we have to be happy and go out all the time :')))
Your videos are literally the only things that keeps me going rn
I hope you have good days more often and this makes me excited for college/uni, but I have to get high school over with first. TT - TT Also I can't get over your hair and your outfits.
literally omg your videos are so comforting and warming. they make me want to be more productive and just stay positive. your really an inspiration for me and i wanna thank you for that. i feel like every video you make just has a little message in it and they help me with the ways i think of life. so thank you for being you and making these videos.
you showing that one cut of you going through a breakdown is something that's just so important to me,,,,, i've been watching college themed vlogs ever since my last year of school (in 2020) and i had this really romanticized idea of what college would be. now that i'm here (though it's still online 🤢🤢) it can be so so so overwhelming most days, triggers me in so many different horrible ways and makes me cry my eyes out. it's just, this feeling of solidarity with someone else going through a bad day when you are as well, and i'm really grateful that you've given that to me. we're on opposite sides of the planet, i know, but we're in this together
those clips where you showed your life isn’t perfect helped me more than you can imagine. everyday i feel like i don’t understand why i’m so slow why i’m so behind why other people have so much free time and i don’t and it makes me feel miserable. it’s good to know i’m really not alone, thank you.
I just want to thank you, cause I'm actually having pretty bad times, my depression hits hards this months and the things you wrote literally made me cry, like I felt so understood and in security in kind of a soft space...
I love so much your content, definetily one of my comforts youtubers
I’m only 14, and sometimes watching those “productive videos” of college make me excited to grow up and have opportunities, I also sometimes wish I was an adult, but then I realize how hard it can be being an adult and how many responsibilities I will be taking care of, and watching REAL influencers help me realize what it’s actually like. And you’re a real influencer, dobochobo.💖
this is so comforting seeing you start in-person-college and moving out of your parents house at the same time as me. Ive been feeling quite overwhelmed with life since classes startet and seeing you get vulnerable kind of made me realize that I'm not alone in this. tysm
I hope that soon you can find a solution to your problems and the things that overwhelm you, always keep in mind that you have your subs/fans. I appreciate you too much Deborah, please take care of yourself and eat well.
I also hope time passes quickly so you can rest from college ♡
Honestly, with college classes, the stress can just be so much, even at my most vulnerable moments.
11:06 oml this happened to me today 😭 I was planning on waking up at 8:40 am even set an alarm and then I wake up ready for the day, more energized and when I see the clock it was 12 pm and I totally missed my Spanish class which now I get to see the recording but still I wasn’t planning on missing it 😭 It’s my first year at college so :') P.s: Dobo, I made it to watch all your videos yay it was so much fun!! 💜 I saw the rest of the video :c remember not all days are good days, some of them are difficult but we can’t let negativity enter. Remember there will be a brand new day the next day and that we learn from the mistakes. Such a comfort to watch your videos and that you get more close to us subscribers. Really appreciated. ❤️
honestly when you started crying it reminded me of when I was in university and it is hard and you'll find yourself wondering "is it worth the struggle?" and I will assure you it is you just have to take the good moments and cherish them so you can remind yourself there are good days and there will be many more than the bad ones after all the struggle. I took a leave of absence and will go back next fall so never give up you got this!
Your videos motivate me a lot
You're so strong for being vulnerable with us Dobo :( rest well my love
I just started watching your videos but let me tell you you promote such a healthy relationship between real life and online content! Keep it up, Dobo ^^
i hope you got tons of relief after that cry. let yourself feel things every once in a while, it's how i got thru college too.
I know that it's hard being vulnerable in front of a few people, let alone 229K of us, but it really is a relief for us. Especially those of us who are in school right now. Your content is always so refreshing and calming. I hope your first few weeks of school have been better, and we love you so much!
Hey, it's alright to express your feelings sometimes. And actually seeing this vid kinda make me happier since I know I'm not alone having emotions like these. I hope ur doing better now!
My school had a quarter system too and I loved it. Semesters seem to drag on so long and only provide more busy work. Quarters are definitely more my speed.
Your campus has some very nice areas and give me all the cool and cloudy weather. My campus was more modern (in architectural style. Not my favorite.) and in a constantly warm and sunny place (I was not meant for constant sunshine).
As long as you're comfortable with it, I think it's good that you share some real and vulnerable moments on your vlogs. Some days are just tough mentally and physically and you don't always know why. Try not to be hard on yourself and do something that brings you comfort on those days, like you did with your comfort meal. It's been a while since I finished school but I think vlogs are helping bring to light how important and often neglected mental health is in the college and university environment. It's a time of a lot of changes in life and growth with the pressure of "decide what you want to do for the rest of your life". Just be kind to yourself and hopefully faculty can be kind too because a professor or department can have both a very positive but also very negative impact on students' lives and I often found they didn't take that influence they had seriously enough.
thank you so much for sharing that moment with us, i completely saw myself in you and this shows how after all we are not alone in these little 'storms' life throws us in. there is no best feeling in being able to pick yourself up from those moments and shining a light on what once was dark, no matter how long it takes. i love your content so incredibly much, thank you for creating comfort. have a beautiful day ahead of you💛
AAAA IM A LIL EARLLYYY im rlly rlly thankful to know that im not the only one having a hard time with life these days...! its my first year of being a senior and im not really at my best right now but thanks for cheering me up!!!
I really appreciate the fact that you included your vulnerable moment in the video because it feels like you are real. You know, not much people show their real faces and struggles. It really helps to understand that the person you`re subscribed on is similar to you
I personally LOVE every blog you post, every video is so heartwarming
Hope you have a great day! 💛💛
we really do enter sadness phase sometimes, but it's okay to! just don't dwell on it for too long :)
The moment you enter the library I just started crying, the country where I live doesn't have that kind of gorgeous places, and it makes me so sad everytime I think about it, bc maybe is not that big deal for others but for me it's like a way of saying that what I'm doing is not worth it, and somedays the only thing that cross my mind is quitting everything, but then I realise that it's ok not to be ok, as long as we don't stop for what we really want and desire, I'll go someday to a library like that
i remember reading cheese in the trap and it made me sob so many timesT^T you'll probably relate to her if your studious or your trying to maintain grades for scholarship omggg or if you're just a student altogetherT^T i was just even a high schooler at that time but the feeling of having groupmates who makes you do all the work, students' fund that was corrupted, mean classmates and your bestfriends that very thankful for,,, everything just hits home i was crying on bed at 3 am reading this one honestlyT^T
what u were saying about online school was SO true! like yeah, I did well in online school but I felt like i had learned nothing! not to mention how unstimulating it is. call me weird but I was so excited to get back in a classroom with real people, a real teacher to interact with, and actually have the motivation to get up. this video was so cute and aesthetic I loved it. and I can appreciate the vulnerability with your audience. its very commendable
It's okay to show your vulnerable side too Debo.
I hope whoever is going through something knows that you're not alone and you are loved. Have a great day :)
hey deborah!
I think most people who upload content to youtube or social media aren't entirely 'realistic', you know? , we all have difficult times, we go through stress, we wander in our minds, and it is difficult for us to simply follow the path.
But, what makes us human are those moments of vulnerability. Sometimes we see people on social media having a 'perfect life' and compare ourselves inevitably and unconsciously, but seeing other people go through moments of vulnerability and overcome them with a smile on their faces definitely makes us feel better and motivated.
I really really love your channel, deborah. I'm from Mexico and I don't understand English very well, but when I look at your videos I learn more english and I feel calm. (I wrote this part without translator so, sorry if there's any mistakes)
take care and be happy, debo ♡
Hola dobo espero que estes bien! Gracias por subir video y acordarte de nosotros! Te queremos
Can we just appreciate the work and effort she put in the description??
i don't comment often but i really appreciated the emotional moment you had in the video. it really validated my feelings about starting school
you are the strongest person i’ve ever known
i’m really proud of you
Finally!! I’ve been waiting for this… i can say that i missed youuuuu
having not so random breakdowns cause of emotional stress is SO REAL . thank you for being so comforting like I legit came to this video cause I was stressed over the fact that I've been getting PROPER assignments and essays to do this week. you're always so comforting calming and funny I hope you have someone like yourself in your life. love from Newcastle
ur videos are so comforting ! we truly appreciate u being so vulnerable esp in front of a camera, im sure better days await u :)
Don't value your worth w productivity and numbers and always ALWAYS forgive urself!
(obvs idk what ur going thru btw but) I've lived with disorders (mainly anxiety & depression) for years and no matter what thoughts u tell urself, sometimes u just feel a certain way for day. It's not good or bad
Ughh !! when the notification came I was so exicted ^^ I was scrolling to find a good video and you POSTED. I was so happy. Thankyou so much dobochobo for posting this beautiful video I really appreciate the hardwork you put in ur video 🖤and the transition where you change ur clothes at 4:00 was so smooth !! I was like :😦
I'm so grateful that where are youtubers like you who shares how life sometimes go out of plan a little bit (okay maybe not a little bit🙄).
And when I heard you saying that crying is good for your soul I felt so touched, because this week was very hard for me. I won't lie I've cried a couple of times and it just colmes me down knowing it's okay to cry and that you sometimes cry too.
Please excuse my spelling mistakes 😅
I can just say: it‘s going to be ok:) I heard this so often but it‘s true
Life goes on. Don‘t stress yourself
OMG DEBORAH. I just finished watching this Korean movie named door lock and I was scared shitless and THANK GOD I saw your notification and reminded myself that real life isn't that scary 😭🥺💀💞
thank you for being vulnerable and honest with us!!
One of the things I wish we didn’t feel obligated to do, anytime (negative) emotions are shared, is apologize over being stressed or second-guess the fact that we’re mentally in a bad spot. If anything, you’ve helped a lot of people (me included) and given perspective over the fact that we’re all human beings with similar thoughts and emotions, regardless of our differing experiences.
love you and everything you do, please take care. 🥺💕
proud of what you’ve accomplished so far :’))
I'm early!!! I always love to look out for your vlogs :3
this is my first video i’ve seen of yours because the algorithm is insane! thanks so much for the subtitles for those of us who are hard of hearing or have auditory processing issues like me ❤️
your vlogs bring me so much comfort!! thank you for sharing some of your more vulnerable moments as well, you’re completely valid in your feelings and crying is definitely good for the soul!!!🤍
I hope you feel better soon and know that you do not have to demand so much of yourself and that you are perfect
As someone who entered college one year after my senior year I can relate that you get to miss classrooms and being considered an student. Due I graduated during pandemic I also felt that my High school year did not have a real closure. 2022 was a sabbatycal year that I invested in studying languages and getting my first job, along with meeting new people and exploring the city. Now that I started college in 2023 I feel that as much I missed studying I wish I could have taken more time before starting this new chapter in personal life and I am glad to see that others feel the same. Just a Though I wanted to share
Best notification i received today
girl don't overwork yourself and thank you for the vid.
ik you don’t know me but I just wanna say. Thank you. Thank you for being part of my life you changed me sm. Ever since I started watching you, I felt happiness again. And I even gained the confidence to do self care and take care of myself and realise life is really worth living, even if we aren’t friends I still appreciate you alot. and because of you, I was able to get better with my mental health by enjoying ur videos, it makes me feel so much better even at my worst days
ur videos inspire and motivate me so much. it's okay to not be okay deborah, so you can cry all u want until ur fine. we'll always be by your side ♡
Watching your videos these days i'ts like the only thing getting me happy, thank you.
I am always so happy when I see your videos, please don't be hard on yourself. we got this together !!
you made it to one of my top 100+ favorite RUclipsrs! Congrats, and I hope you have a wonderful day/night. Ilysm.
currently binging all of her UW vlogs as an incoming freshman... i'm so excited!!
My first day of college is in two weeks, I'm really terrified and don't know what to expect, so I searched for "my first day of college" videos. Your video felt so real and pure, thank you
how was it?