Entitled Landlord INVADES my Personal Space, so I SHUT DOWN his BUSINESS - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 My Entitled Land Lord allowed my room mate to use my room while I was gone, and so I got his business shit down, and the roommate kicked out.
7:02 My Maid-of-honor and best-man ruined my wedding. (u/brandyaidenluv)
10:52 My wife just told me that she had an affair four years ago. (u/ThrowRA_paused)
14:04 My ex boyfriend from over 15 years ago wants to meet up, and I don’t know what to do about it. (u/JaliBeanQueen)
16:49 An Entitled couple gets mad at my coworker for not being able to speak their language. (u/bootysnacksdotcom)
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Story 1, Im not sure about in Canada but in the US what happened would've been super illegal. The landlord must give 24 hours notice to entering your personal living space and is not allowed to enter without permission except with probable cause like house maintenance or repairs. Definitely not allowed to let someone else in your room except a hired professional to complete the tasks I just stated.
local canadian landlord always take advantage of immigrants who dont know the law or their rights SMH its common practice unfortunately
i own a Building Yeah This I Super Illegal
@@brandonjacobs2864 Yeah I figured thats what they were doing. Super messed up!
Lol you never had a chinese landlord.
In Canada. A landlord needs to give 24 hours notice to EVERYBODY before they can EVEN enter the residence.
That last story about the language barrier reminds me of when I use to work at a big box retailer in an area with a large Mexican immigrant population. Several employees did double duty as translators for those when they couldn't speak English, but a lot of them wouldn't speak English out of some sort of spite when they did know it on a functional level. We had one sweet old lady that often answered a page for a translator and I loved how she handled it. Often times the interaction went something like this.
SWL (in Spanish): Hi, can you speak English?
Customer (in Spanish): Yes.
SWL (in English): Ok, then that associate would be happy to assist you.
At which point she would leave and the customer reluctantly let me serve them after being called out.
That last story remind me of how French get told they don't speak English, because "When an American comes to France and start talking English, French respond with a strange accent and weird words." Dude, if the only words of the language of the country you visit is "Baguette" and "Omelette du (du ? Wtf is a du doing here, idk...) fromage", you're gonna have a bad time.
Hahahaha im french and Omelette "du" fromage doesn't make sense
@@mahokira504 it’s from an episode of the cartoon Dexter’s Laboratory.
Story 3:
The longer the lie the more it will worsened when it is reveal and she waited 4 years to confess should’ve told him sooner but it is really good to know this guilt was eating if it wasn’t then I would be LIVID😅
Thing is the guilt was not eating her. So I searched some more into the story. She only told OP to avoid her dying with guilt. So she cheated on OP to feel better, she lied to OP for herself, and she told OP to not die with guilt. In all of this she sounds incredibly selfish. On top of that she only told due to the death of her friend. So if the friend did not die she wouldn't of told? Thats what I am getting. To me the wife seems extremely selfish.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd good eye,
The way I see it now, if it was any longer than holy shit can’t imagine his reaction any longer than 4 years😅
@@Kumo5980 Thing is, from what I read, OP would of still probably acted the same way. In the update, cuz there is an update that AITJ missed, he is going to couples therapy with her. While I personally would of not done so that is up to him. My point is moreso, OP's reasons stem from not wanting to lose the benefits of the relationship between him and the wife. Such an ideology, in my opinion, disregards the duration of how much she lied. I just think OP is so focused on the good parts he has seen he is ignoring the core issue in that all of her actions are done for selfish reasons and not with him in mind.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd screw couples therapy!
Can’t save this relationship of lies!
The way I see it I think it’s best to leave her because it’s not worth it especially for their mental health or if the dishonesty gonna continue because for all we know she could be lying about something else!
@@Kumo5980 I do not disagree. The way I see it is this, and the view may be pessimistic. However, she stopped the affair not for him but for her cuz the affair partner was being creepy asf. She left the job for herself given the affair partner was at the job. She kept the texts to keep herself covered incase the affair partner tried something. Etc etc. I personally do not believe the woman OP is with is worth the time or money. However, it is OP's choice. The way I see it though is if OP decides to stay with her he better hope nothing causes that level of distress again cuz he already saw what she does when she reaches that low of a low.
She cheats for three months but at least she is Loyal
So... she cheated with a female coworker? Sorry, I didn't understand very well the third story
@@user-dp2zl2ch7i yes the wife of OP cheated on OP with a female coworker
Yeah I didn't see the problem if it was another male it would be different stroy
13:17 how's she loyal?
Deciding to tell him in the first place I guess and just not saying "it was far away he won't care"
I. Live this young man for standing up 4himself ....u r not the jerk ...whatever we sow we reap...natural laws man.
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To the OP in story four: 14:04
If you both aren’t currently in a relationship with other people, then I say go for it. If you hesitate, you’ll regret it for a long time, and possibly for the rest of your life. Tell me something: What does your heart say? Do you want to go back to him after 15 years, or do you want it to be a weight on your shoulders? It’s your choice. Listen to what your heart is telling you what to do!
With the last story, who goes to a random restaurant and expects to be able to get outside food heated up? I heard of something like that happening in a Starbuck once, but at least that was Starbucks food. It still doesn't make sense though..
The 2nd story, i sense some bitter jealousy from both the maid of honor and the best man, starting they are a couple. So It seems they planned this carefully for screw with you and your fiance on that specific day, knowing it will be an important day to you 2. Plus the friends are a little idiots to think they will be different. People doesn't learn their lesson that quickly or demand unexitent respect when they didn't earn it at all.
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@@madjoy4803 actually 3
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I got to disagree about the wife in story #3. She’s not at all “faithful” she cheating on him and kept it a secret for 4 years, I don’t think her friend passing was some type of motivation. I’m betting the death made her think you can die at any moment, and if that was her her husband would most likely never know what she did. I’m betting that if her friend didn’t die OP would’ve never even written that post.
Like imagine you were dating someone in the 8th grade then by the end of your senior year they told you they cheated on you when you two were freshman and is really only telling you because she didn’t want to have a guilty conscious of never telling you.
Sometimes when I hear you say “cream of the stream” I think of something really gross
Girst, I love spelling this wrong :)
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Story 1 not a jerk story 2 not a jerk story 3 not a jerk story 4 not a jerk story 5 not a jerk
In Australia a landlord must give two weeks notice before entering.
Well not only did they have a dress code for the wedding they also bought the dresses and the shirts for the men so they just wasted it
About story 2, I did something similar on accident. My brother was having his wedding, and he told me to dress how I wanted, so I put the whole thing on, dress pants, collared white shirt, black tie, blazer, everything. And when I got there, everybody else had what looked like semi casual dress wear and I felt so bad
Yours wasnt even that bad since you didnt have a dress code or a hint of what is appropriate or what others are gonna wear, so dont beat yourself up to much for trying to look good for your brothers wedding
I used to work sub station at a gas station and a group of guys didn't speak a lock of English except for 1 and he would help them order subs and they always came back and said good things about my subs
Story 2,
I would have told the maid of Dishonor and the groomsman to leave
I just like to think the people from the last story are dutch, cause no one knows or talks dutch. So these 2 people going to the other side of the world and expecting people to speak a language that's only spoken in a country not even as big as new york probably, is just very funny to me
Nice
Person in the US:
THIS IS AMARICA, SPAKE ANGLISH!
Same person traveling abroad:
Sorruh, say that in Anglish!
If someone showed up at my wedding dressed entirely different from what was required they’re getting kicked out immediately I do not care.
Not only did the wife cheat on op, but she lied and hid it from him for 4 years and roped 2 innocent children into this situation. There is never an excuse to cheat, it is a total betrayal of your partner and shows the true colors of the cheater and the content of her character. Op should leave her, if not divorce, then legally separate. Have some respect for yourself op.
Every time he says Cara I think of CHARA from Undertale
Am I the jerk for imagining those tourists as sounding like the chef from the Muppets?
19:41 Who else started humming Megalovania when he said that?
Pretty sure the last couple was Dutch. Blonde, matching tracksuits, cheaply trying to heat up their own chicken wings in a sandwich shop.
I’m sorry but if I were in the same situation as the guy whose wife cheated on, I would be extremely upset if someone told me to look at the silver lining, which is my wife choosing me instead of her disgusting affair partner, particularly if she’s devastated about the lover passing away! Eff that noise! I would be gone and she would be hearing from my divorce lawyer the next day! But that’s just me, everybody is different!
ok about the final story id like to say this is why people think Americans are dumb because we don't speak your language. if my first language is English and then I know a good amount of French and small Italian, if I went to Rome for a vacation I wouldn't expect people to know English this is courtesy not knowing the language of whoever comes our way some Americans are complete idiots and can be extremely rude but a lot of us only appear that way from how confused we are because we might not know what language you speak from what I know I could understand simple phrases In latin based languages even not knowing the language but id be pretty scared if someone started yelling at me and myself trying to say "I don't understand" or "do you speak English" in language I know how to say it in while trying to stand my ground as a very nervous person hell I'm scared someones gonna be mad that I'm posting this. using a translator can clear that barrier and if you knew what we were saying if you didn't we sound a lot nicer its mainly the " I don't know English but they sound rude" story
The last one has me wondering. I'm from Europe and i know 2 European languages plus English. I thought that was the norm here. But if you don't even know English you shouldn't go to the us
They were probably French
Description typo line 3 "and so I got his business *shit* down"
Game name is called spiral roll
Tell me this guy doesn’t sound like Quandale
the background gameplay is giving me anxiety.
It's called spiral roll
In story one op is Pubjabi
I don't know why but I feel like if a heterosexual person has a brief relationship with someone of the same sex that it's not really cheating. And the husband was self-medicating with booze and work.
Story 1,
It sounds to me that you can’t trust anyone from India and if India is so great, then why do they want so badly to go to another country?
In the story about the affair, I'd probably end it. It'd be hard not to screw around on her after that but at the same time I'd feel like a scum bag because I don't agree with cheating. I don't think I would ever be able to trust her again. Everyone has their opinion, and some people are desperate to avoid loneliness or to cling onto what they have but when someone cheats and you forgive them it's basically teaching them that they were allowed to get away with it, and then comes the next question...will they lose respect for you because they know you'll give them a pass. The narrator mentioned that she was loyal to her husband in the end, I disagree, cheaters by definition have forfeited being able to be considered loyal, especially when they hide it for 4 years. It'd be so damn hard to give a shit about someone after they betray you like that.
I would say your use of words is based on your narrow perspective, karma is an action that is unrelated to the actions of the recipient. the OP decided to move out and that caused the other minus the mean girls to also move out. not karma, poetic justice
what game is being used as a background
It's called spiral roll
I have to disagree with the idea the wife is loyal regarding story number three. OP's wife was a cheater and a massive liar. The only reason she stated it was not grief of what she did but grief of a death causing a moment of reflection. Which is good because it gives OP the truth but, to me, this means she would of kept it hiding if something did not trigger that thought process. If I was OP I would leave her. I get the news of OP being sterile made both of them go into a bad space, however, if her solution is to cheat than that is someone I firmly believe is worth avoiding.
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In story 3 I think along the lines of if it had to be someone at least it was with a girl rather than a guy
That may be an unpopular opinion but that's just my thoughts on it I guess...
As for the wife...sure it was wrong of her to do it but clearly it started because she was trying to deal with her own problems and things went a bit too far
she could have taken that secret to the grave but she owned up to it and is trying to make things right now while many others would lie as much as possible to get away with things
Also now dude might be in for some 3somes as apology lol
Last story: I am Hungarian and went abroad on vacation many times. There were numerous times when a fellow Hungarian doesnt know any other language and try to speak it to server staff in foreign countries. And when they obviously dont understand them the entitled idiot gets ang raises their voice and start speaking slowly like the server is an idiot.
I mean its not their problem you are an idiot and cant speak 2 words of english.
At least she had the decency to tell the truth
So ik it's only on twitter or reddit but I have a story 2 and I dont know if I can go to a therapist at my age and my friends don't know my situation, my parents think il get over it, but I can't. So I'm going to tell it to you. Yesterday I was my 11th birth day and everything was going great until my best friend slaped me twice and so I slaped her not that hard to and she started crying so I said sorry but she just left and I started to cry because I just lost my best friend who I was friends for 5 years. Now she blocked me and I dont know what to do :( please suggest something I don't want to lose my relationship with her
I know this is unrelated. But god damn what is the name of that game. Someone Anyone please tell me
It's called spiral roll
Abou the 3rd story.
I think people are capable of redemption.
If the wife was someone who didn't care about her husband and was just into having affairs she would have no reason to tell and would probably just keep having affairs.
She did the opposite, she spontaneously confessed about something the husband would probably never find out, if she was completely dishonest, all she needed would be to keep her mouth shut and she wouldn't risk her marriage.
I think her actions show she feels guilty for what she did and that it is unlikely she would do it again.
I disagree. Yes both OP and the wife were in bad places, however, to me this shows her solution is to cheat. Furthermore, reading more into the situation she told OP so she did not die with guilt. So she cheated on OP for herself, hid the cheating for herself, told OP for herself and the only reason she told was due to the death of a friend. So if the friend did not die she would of not told him? That does not sound like guilt to me but her just being incredibly selfish.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd, if she felt no guilt, the death of the friend would not make her confess.
As far as I understand, she felt guilt and the death made her what to confront the guilt and confess.
I'm not saying that what she did was ok, but I think she probably is truly trying to repent.
@@thomasfplm No because she told OP so she did not die with guilt. I personally cannot count that as genuine guilt. She told him for a selfish reason and not because he deserved to know. To me that marks the difference of her feeling guilt or being selfish.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd, if she didn't want to die with guilt, it means she was feeling guilty and wanted to solve it.
If she didn't feel guilty, she wouldn't need to confess in order to not die with guilt.
Also, every single thing you do is ultimately selfish.
Even if you do something for someone else widout any expectation of return or even acknowledgement, you feel good about yourself or at least expect that feeling.
Even being loyal is in a way selfish, because you feel good with yourself about your loyalty.
If you sacrifice your life for your family, you do it in order to avoid the feeling of sadness and/or regret.
@@thomasfplm If she felt guilty she could of told the husband before the friend's death. To me, to say she felt guilty before the death is not right. However, regarding that I will agree to disagree.
Regarding the idea of being selfish. Yes an argument can be made that humans do things for selfish reasons. However, to me, when I hear she cheated on the husband for herself to feel good, she kept the lie so she did not receive backlash, and she told the husband solely to avoid guilt. That is too selfish and is not a person I would wanna be with. Everything she did was for her own pleasure and her looking out solely for herself. To me, that is not how a relationship should be.
Game name?
It's called spiral roll
Hey don’t you drop kick the women
What is the game called
It's called spiral roll
Story #3 I would be upset and be a little worried about how committed and happy she was with me after finding that out but I wouldn't take it as serious seeing that it was just another woman and ultimately chalk it up to a temporary phase she went through while she was in a vulnerable state of mind as long as there was nothing else going on that made me feel insecure or uncomfortable.
If she was getting railed by another dude though I would feel pretty betrayed, humiliated, and emasculated. Especially with the knowledge that I was sterile and probably already feeling less virile than other men that didn't have that issue. I'd question if she was really telling the truth about the timeline of when she cut off the affair with him and would most likely file for divorce.
I am not trying to come off as condescending but how is the wife cheating with a female any different than cheating with a guy? She cheated on OP in either case. I am genuinely curious because I have never heard such a POV before even amongst my bi friends.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd I'm assuming that you're a straight, cisgender, heterosexual male, but if your wife was bisexual and she wanted to have a threesome to spice things up, would you be more comfortable with bringing another woman into your bedroom or another man? And let's just say that you're not going to get to do anything with the other woman so that's not a factor in the matter either. Be honest.
Cheating's cheating but most straight men that are in a relationship with a bisexual woman are more open to them messing around with other women whereas them sleeping with other men is a dealbreaker.
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At least she told her instead of finding out himself but that doesn't excuse that idk how to feel
Ex boyfriend story, 15 years is a long time and he have his life together now, that means his market value is going up and hers is going down (they are maybe in their late 30's or early 40's). Why am i telling this, well this story was shared by a woman (that it self tells a lot), what we did learned from that story was that they broke up 15 years ago and now she is thinking that maybe this man from her past is now good enough for her. So he wasn't before? Seriously there is millions of these stories out there, every single story is the same. When they are young, they sleep with thousand Chads and Tyrones and when none of them wants her and when her youth is gone, well now they are ready to settle for this random dude they didn't want. I say no, it wasn't true love if they didn't end up in together. This story was about her, what about him? can he get someone younger? someone who wants him from the very first time they meet?
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Story #3 What happened, happened. The OP admits that he kind of checked out of the marriage for a while. The wife was also depressed and since her husband wasn't there for her, she found comfort somewhere else. Once she realized what was going on, she left the relationship on her own, and cut off contact. The OP finally came around, and once everybody was back on the same page, they worked really hard to fix their marriage.
Concerning the story about one spouse cheating during a tough time with finding they can't have children, geez. Don't overthink this. It was a bad time. You weren't there. Just forgive and go on.
I have to disagree. A bad time or mistake is if it happened once. She kept it going for a couple of months. To me, that logic just is an excuse to lessen the wife's cheating.
Lol. So what happens when they almost miss rent, or food prices go up, or there's a death in her family? Gotta forgive her after she cheats THEN too, because life was hard.
Fuck that! Either you commit to your partner or you're just too shallow to deserve one. Even one.
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Why does no one use violence anymore? It's simple violence will solve any problems with snarky annoying people.
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What's the name?
Stories like this make me ashamed to be Canadian.
About the last story, i think its safe to asume that the European language was polish. I mean, its such a comon think to people from that country
Story 2 is he drove her to it needs to forgive
for the story where the wife cheats on the husband for being infertile, i would like to say that if your wife is doing everything she can to cheer you up and is trying not to be devastated infront of you and you ignore he it is hard but she was practically single for that period of time but she pulled herself togeather to it was a unfortunate thing but in my opinion it is no one to blame there
I have to disagree. Just because the husband retracted into a shell and was not attentive does not make her practically single. That logic justifies the wife cheating. If the wife felt so alone she could of left the relationship to search for a partner that is more attentive. However, she did not do so. Why? Because she did not want to leave her husband. She does not get her cake and eat it to.
@@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd I agree with you. Cheating is filthy no matter what. I don't care if the dude became a drunkard. She should have divorced him first.
So by that logic if a wife denies her husband sex for long periods of time, he should be able to find his relief elsewhere?
No, that’s a shit thing to do. If you don’t want to be with someone just tell them you don’t and break up like a mature adult.
Dude what kind of Indian was this guy in the first story? Correct me if i'm wrong but aren't the women supposed to worship and obey the men in India? Isn't that why men over there were allowed to have harems up until the mid 1980's? Put your foot down and assert your dominance bro.
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