🤣 He's right about the pain of relationship. My husband betrayed me. It challenged me to go deeper . I abandoned my consciousness to accommodate another egoic form. He's correct about the message he tries to point to. I don't have to stay with a deeply unconscious person, nor do I have to stay deeply unconscious myself.
As Eckhart taught, feeling is transcending. When there is pain in the Now, FEEL it. Don't think about it, feel it. You'll soon thank the experience 😑...😅
A great video He tells everything he could say We are thinking we cant forgive somebody hurting us, but nobody can hurt us for real Plus, if you find out the deeper love in you, people will want and love you and your presence. But your love and presence will be enough.
When someone betrays us (actually they betray themselves 😊) it is just our ego that get's hurt. "I thought I was special and now you insulted me, I don't feel special anymore now". 😊 We are all special regardless what people say or do, carve that into your mind and let humans be and search as they want. Just decide for yourself what you will allow and what you will not allow and be at peace with everything. 😊🙏
My bf cheated on me but he denies it. I received some screenshots with conversations between him and another lady. I was asked not to show them to him. He said if he can't see them then the accusations are false and won't confess to something he didn't do. Says he loves me and wants to patch things up. He sounds so convincing and I want to believe him, but I just can't 😢😢
I like the teachings of Eckhart, but the question here is not answered completely which may be because the video was cut half way. When he talks about forgiveness, the question about the loss of creativity is unanswered. I can understand the question completely since it's my story too. While I have completely forgiven the person and myself and have moved on, I've lost that creativity. I always thought how and why and after years I have started to understand it may because the breakups changes us as people. A part of us goes away and while that cannnot be replaced the same way, it's replaced with new things. I got tired and stopped trying to get that inspiration back eventually. I have learned that it's not the person who inspires the creativity, but the loss of what we were even before we met the person which the person helped us discover in ourselves. So how can we gain that creativity back? I don't know. I haven't. May be in rare moments. It's been 5 years. Just accept that your creativity won't be the same because you aren't the same person anymore. Creativity is love. You'll be creative again when you will feel the love of same purity again. You can find it through yet another person or may not, it could be found in the nature or just your own being, doesn't matter. Because all of it comes from wtithin you, finally. You are the creator of it. Alternatively, as I believe Eckhart might have said further- after you forgive the person and it doesn't mean you have to be with the person who betrayed you, but you don't have to forget the love and how it felt. You can continue to feel that love within yourself. Also, the new person that you have become can mean opening of new dimensions for your creativity. Change is the only constant. There is beauty in the broken heart. It's a gift for it takes us to depth of the emotions we wouldn't get into otherwise. Be friends with it. Learn to appreciate it. And then you will create again, and beautifully so. Hope it helps somebody. 🙏❤️😊
Hello there do you need help to fix all kinds of problem in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours
yes absolutely i agree with you. I am also creative and ofcourse when i am in love it goes like nothing haha. But when there is a dispute or any sort of ugliness then yeah we are in the ego and as you said so beautifully "Creativity is love." so when we stop loving our creativity stops. I think it is perfectly possible to deeply love an imperfect person (no matter what he did), I am not going to say it is easy but we can learn to live with the intention to love rather than with the intention to get. 😊And yeah every time when we suffer we create better soil for more beauty in the future, to become an even more beautiful flower if we allow ourselves to live with a completely open heart and smile at everything that comes our way. 🥰Life is a tragicomedy. It is hilarious when you look at it from far away.
Of course the story is real to that person. No need to deny that. But She can decide how to react to the story. Angry or not angry. We all have the freedom.
Girlfriend canned me a few weeks ago. Sent a message out to my sister stating their relationship hasn’t changed but everything has between her and I. Said she wanted me to give me space to heal so I can figure out what makes me happy...wtf she is the one that broke up with me.
@@fordey2933 no positives from the relationship. Had to call and her and we meet for breakfast. She said she to accept the breakup and in hopes we can start again someday. She has pretty much moved on and I am still stuck on her
@@laylis12no I went back to her and now we are in the midst of trouble again. She broke up with me again a couple of months ago but says if I don’t get engaged to her in a month she is moving on
One of the worst things in this life is a "teacher or a lecturer" who unnecessarily make the simple things complicated, and that's exactly what this gentleman is doing.😒💔👎
It does, the answer isn't complex. If you arent ready to access the love and creativity that comes from you, and nothing or nobody else. To accept your own being beyond the self. You will see the attachments you had to anybody or any external thing was flawed to begin with. Until accepting the simple fact that forms come and go, and are meant to be enjoyed while they last. Your attachment to any external things will bring you pain
im scary my partner and me love each other from a toxic relationship we went to a conscious relationship suddenly! i started feeling pain inside of me! it all has changed now! i am confused, maybe something in my has give up, and there is other part in me that says nooo awake! which one is real though?
hi Alondra, i would suggest you to be true to yourself and your growth. i have recently exited a toxic / unconscious relationship. we were at different stages of consciousness towards the end of the relationship. we shared a similar consciousness level (low) when we first met. it’s hard when this happens. eckhart has helped me so much in how i should look at the situation. we are both human beings who loved eachother but at some point, suffering happens to show us where we should go or what we should address in order to tune into our true reality. i wish you the best in tuning into what you need to feel conscious and ultimately happy and aligned again.
Relationships mirrors ourselves and pain is the way to awake You seem very attached in this relationship so you need to let go in order to move on Moving on doesn't mean breaking up, but it means to be unattached When we are unattached we can take right actions
🤣
He's right about the pain of relationship.
My husband betrayed me.
It challenged me to go deeper .
I abandoned my consciousness to accommodate another egoic form.
He's correct about the message he tries to point to.
I don't have to stay with a deeply unconscious person, nor do I have to stay deeply unconscious myself.
this helped.. thank you
It's very hard to find a conscious person so u might just stay single forever
Where???
It’s all a matter of a blessing. Pray/ meditate and ask for your mate to come into your life.
As Eckhart taught, feeling is transcending. When there is pain in the Now, FEEL it. Don't think about it, feel it. You'll soon thank the experience 😑...😅
A great video
He tells everything he could say
We are thinking we cant forgive somebody hurting us, but nobody can hurt us for real
Plus, if you find out the deeper love in you, people will want and love you and your presence. But your love and presence will be enough.
When someone betrays us (actually they betray themselves 😊) it is just our ego that get's hurt. "I thought I was special and now you insulted me, I don't feel special anymore now". 😊 We are all special regardless what people say or do, carve that into your mind and let humans be and search as they want. Just decide for yourself what you will allow and what you will not allow and be at peace with everything. 😊🙏
My bf cheated on me but he denies it. I received some screenshots with conversations between him and another lady. I was asked not to show them to him. He said if he can't see them then the accusations are false and won't confess to something he didn't do. Says he loves me and wants to patch things up. He sounds so convincing and I want to believe him, but I just can't 😢😢
I like the teachings of Eckhart, but the question here is not answered completely which may be because the video was cut half way. When he talks about forgiveness, the question about the loss of creativity is unanswered. I can understand the question completely since it's my story too. While I have completely forgiven the person and myself and have moved on, I've lost that creativity. I always thought how and why and after years I have started to understand it may because the breakups changes us as people. A part of us goes away and while that cannnot be replaced the same way, it's replaced with new things. I got tired and stopped trying to get that inspiration back eventually. I have learned that it's not the person who inspires the creativity, but the loss of what we were even before we met the person which the person helped us discover in ourselves. So how can we gain that creativity back? I don't know. I haven't. May be in rare moments. It's been 5 years. Just accept that your creativity won't be the same because you aren't the same person anymore. Creativity is love. You'll be creative again when you will feel the love of same purity again. You can find it through yet another person or may not, it could be found in the nature or just your own being, doesn't matter. Because all of it comes from wtithin you, finally. You are the creator of it. Alternatively, as I believe Eckhart might have said further- after you forgive the person and it doesn't mean you have to be with the person who betrayed you, but you don't have to forget the love and how it felt. You can continue to feel that love within yourself. Also, the new person that you have become can mean opening of new dimensions for your creativity. Change is the only constant. There is beauty in the broken heart. It's a gift for it takes us to depth of the emotions we wouldn't get into otherwise. Be friends with it. Learn to appreciate it. And then you will create again, and beautifully so. Hope it helps somebody. 🙏❤️😊
Hello there do you need help to fix all kinds of problem in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours
What'sapp him now???
yes absolutely i agree with you. I am also creative and ofcourse when i am in love it goes like nothing haha. But when there is a dispute or any sort of ugliness then yeah we are in the ego and as you said so beautifully "Creativity is love." so when we stop loving our creativity stops. I think it is perfectly possible to deeply love an imperfect person (no matter what he did), I am not going to say it is easy but we can learn to live with the intention to love rather than with the intention to get. 😊And yeah every time when we suffer we create better soil for more beauty in the future, to become an even more beautiful flower if we allow ourselves to live with a completely open heart and smile at everything that comes our way. 🥰Life is a tragicomedy. It is hilarious when you look at it from far away.
@@elisabethcrokaerts1980 ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Of course the story is real to that person. No need to deny that. But She can decide how to react to the story. Angry or not angry. We all have the freedom.
I forgave a ex for cheating. It can be diffcult but if you can see past it then it can show you what you're ready made of.
You forgave him but still ended the relationship, right?
Hurt is part of it, I guess. Fk me, human is hard sometimes.
great vid
doesn't seem like a break up so much tho rather than
Girlfriend canned me a few weeks ago. Sent a message out to my sister stating their relationship hasn’t changed but everything has between her and I. Said she wanted me to give me space to heal so I can figure out what makes me happy...wtf she is the one that broke up with me.
How are you buddy its been three weeks what is the positives recently
@@fordey2933 no positives from the relationship. Had to call and her and we meet for breakfast. She said she to accept the breakup and in hopes we can start again someday. She has pretty much moved on and I am still stuck on her
@@livenow13 ❤😘
@@livenow13did you meet someone new?
@@laylis12no I went back to her and now we are in the midst of trouble again. She broke up with me again a couple of months ago but says if I don’t get engaged to her in a month she is moving on
All this theory doesn't help...
it does help. do not take anything personally. it is not personal and it will never be. Only the ego takes it personally.
♥️♥️
Sometimes things are real...
Let's ask ourselves what is true reality ?
Only the eternal self is real, everything else are passing clouds
material life is an illusion, a convincing one. you will wake up when you leave your body. watch nde's.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
One of the worst things in this life is a "teacher or a lecturer" who unnecessarily make the simple things complicated, and that's exactly what this gentleman is doing.😒💔👎
no he did not, it makes completely sense to me, very beautiful.
Doesn’t help
It does, the answer isn't complex. If you arent ready to access the love and creativity that comes from you, and nothing or nobody else. To accept your own being beyond the self. You will see the attachments you had to anybody or any external thing was flawed to begin with. Until accepting the simple fact that forms come and go, and are meant to be enjoyed while they last. Your attachment to any external things will bring you pain
Who hurt you 😂
Marly Anderson right，who！
All of these comments have helped
im scary my partner and me love each other from a toxic relationship we went to a conscious relationship suddenly! i started feeling pain inside of me! it all has changed now! i am confused, maybe something in my has give up, and there is other part in me that says nooo awake! which one is real though?
hi Alondra, i would suggest you to be true to yourself and your growth. i have recently exited a toxic / unconscious relationship. we were at different stages of consciousness towards the end of the relationship. we shared a similar consciousness level (low) when we first met. it’s hard when this happens. eckhart has helped me so much in how i should look at the situation. we are both human beings who loved eachother but at some point, suffering happens to show us where we should go or what we should address in order to tune into our true reality. i wish you the best in tuning into what you need to feel conscious and ultimately happy and aligned again.
Relationships mirrors ourselves and pain is the way to awake
You seem very attached in this relationship so you need to let go in order to move on
Moving on doesn't mean breaking up, but it means to be unattached
When we are unattached we can take right actions