I have a friend that dealt with the same infertility issues. In the end her husbands brothers all made anonymous “seed” donations and their doctor mixed the donations and they did Ivf. No one knows whose donation fertilized but regardless dna isn’t what makes someone a dad. Best of luck on your decisions.
I thought the same thing! I was afraid to post my idea. That would be a wonderful thing and I hope they take that route!! Fingers crossed and prayers!❤️
I had the same thought. It would be wonderful. I had a friend who needed an egg so her sister donated one. It worked perfectly, the child looks like the mother.❤
@@evavandenborne1864 As an adopted person I can say that it won’t matter! Jared and Britt’s kiddos will have the very best life possible however they come to be! The entire family with shower them will infinite love! At the end of the day Love overshadows any and everything!
WOW, THIS VIDEO WAS GREAT! I was unable to experience motherhood, due to cancer (and being still u married!) But I am SO PROUD of the bravery you both show in the midst of your ",infertility storm!" Your willingness to share such intimate details and emotions, is touching SO MANY LIVES!! I am learning how I can be more sensitive and supportive to friends who are also going thru infertility heartbreak! Even tho it's not me, I desire to know just how to be loving and sensitive to those going thru this!! YOU TWO ARE CHANGING TBE WORLD, AS YOU WILLINGLY OPEN YOUR HEART AND SOUL, TO SHARE THIS PART OF YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY!! I know the sacrifice of time and emotion that this kind of sharing takes! I continue to pray for God's special strength to each of you, individually and that YOUR MARRIAGE WILL JUST GROW STRONGER, AS YOU PREPARE FOR THAT MOMENT YOUR CHILD IS PLACED IN YOUR ARMS!! I DO BELIEVE THAT DAY WILL COME, SOONER THAN LATER MY FRIENDS!! IGNORE ANY HATERS AND NAYSAYERS, THEY ONLY COME AT YOU, TO STEAL YOUR PEACE AND JOY!! JUST SCROLL PAST THEIR HURTFUL COMMENTS, AND FOCUS ON ALL OUR LOVE AND ENCOURAGEMENT!! YOU ARE MEANT TO BE ON "THIS JOURNEY, TOGETHER!" GOD IS DIRECTING EACH STEP YOU TAKE! AND AS SILLY OR STUPID AS THIS MIGHT SOUND, "YOU BOTH WERE MEANT TO BE HERE, ON THIS PATH!!" ONLY YOU TWO CAN TOUCH ALL THESE BROKEN HEARTS, ANSWERING QUESTIONS, VALIDATING FEARS AND UNCERTAINTIES!! JUST IMAGINE WHERE WOULD ALL OF THESE LIVES BE RIGHT NOW, IF THEY HAD NOT HEARD YOUR STORY, HAD NOT BEEN GIVEN HOPE, HAD NOT HAD QUESTIONS ANSWERED, HAD NOT BEEN HEARD!!!! WHERE WOULD THEY ALL BE??? YOU TWO ARE CHANGING AND TOUCHING SO MANY LIVES!! I KNOW THE HURT AND DEEP ROOTED PAIN YOU FEEL, I KNOW YOUR DREAMS HAVE BEEN CHANGED AND DASHED, BUT ALL IS NOT LOST!! YOU WILL HAVE HOME AND HEARTS FILLED WITH CHILDREN....JUST IN A DIFFERENT WAY THAN YOU HAD HOPED!! BUT WOW, GOD HAS CHOSEN YOU TWO, TO CHANGE AND TOUCH SO MANY LIVES!! GOD IS HEALING SO MANY HEARTS, THRU YOU BOTH!! PEOPLE WHO HAVE FELT HOPELESS AND SITTING IN THE DARK, ARE NOW HOPEFUL AND STEPPING INTO THE LIGHT!! CHAINS OF DEPRESSION ARE BEING BROKEN! PEOPLE HAVE SEEN JARED AND BRIT SAD, HOPELESS, DEPRESSED AND AFRAID, BUT ARE NOW SEEING YOU BOTH HOPEFUL, HAPPIER, PEACE-FILLED, THANKFUL AND SO WILLING TO SHARE AND ANSWER QUESTIONS THAT THEY THEMSELVES HAVE HAD, BUT WERE TOO AFRAID TO ASK!!! YOU ARE BOTH CARRYING A HEAVYOAD, BUT GOD SEES YOU BOTH STRONG ENOUGH!! YOU ARE SUCH A JOY AND BLESSING TO US ALL! SORRY FOR THIS LONG COMMENT, I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO ALL OF US!! ❤❤❤❤
Whatever you chose to do for yourself will be the best answer. But any child you chose, if that is your decision, will be incredibly lucky to have you two as parents.
We, as your internet family have prayed with y’all and for you. And at times grieved with you. I remember after Jarrod’s diagnosis, and Brittany was the only one one the vlog. I went straight in prayer. When I pray it’s like I’m talking to my best friend. I talked different scenarios and feelings you both must be feeling. And it was like a straight answer from him. The song that’s mostly played during Christmas, It’s God’s Child, kept coming too me. And still does today. I just felt I needed to share this. After seeing how happy y’all were in Panama, I didn’t want to bring you down. I just wanted to share with y’all, and know we’re still praying for you all. God Bless
You guys are so sweet and caring towards others! Britt, I just saw you for the first time on your sister’s channel. I have sooo much I would love to comment on but it would turn into a novel…and not a short one. I laughed to myself when I heard you talk about your family in Utah and traveling there the day after you left NY. Btw: I cried with you when you had to kiss Madelyn and Nora goodbye. Back to Utah.I love in New York because I moved here to nanny, however I was born and raised in Utah and it is my home. When I heard you lived in Florida I was surprised 😮 I was thinking to myself, I could have sworn you had the Utah vibe. If you know you know! 😁 so when I heard heard that I said out loud to myself “I KNEW IT” Maybe I’m a dork, but my Utah radar is spot on. This is only the 3rd vlog I’ve watched and I already love your family. I went through it and my marriage didn’t survive it. You are SO lucky to have each other. I didn’t have a strong spouce and at times felt like I was in it alone. Anyway, I will pray my heart out for you guys! Trust in the Lord. He knows you and knows of your pain and struggles. Turn to him, not away from him. I can tell your faith is unwavering and so is mine. It’s the only thing that got me through. I’m trying so hard to find a new nanny position back home, if you know of anyone. I’m a stranger to you now but I don’t have to be. I love you my brother and sister in Christ. Thank you for being the GOOD in this suffering world. 💙🩷 Love is the answer 🤍
Any child/children would be so blessed to have you guys as parents!!! I know God will lead you to the right next step. All the love & prayers! We have be “not preventing” pregnancy for about 3 years now with no luck with a 2nd baby. I’m so thankful we were able to have 1 four years ago!
God will open the doors for what is his answer and the timing for you. God doesn't make mistakes. In the end he works everything out for good and you can look back and see his hand and his blessings. Praying for you.
Thank you both for spreading awareness of infertility and being so open. We struggled for 6 years with unexplained infertility, multiple ivf retrievals, transfers and miscarriages. We were blessed 5 months ago with our miracle son. If you guys decide on a donor route, sperm or embryo, please make sure they do a full work up on you first Britt, if they haven’t already, including a hsg and shg. All our results were perfect until I had the hsg done. Praying you guys find peace in whatever option you choose. You will make awesome parents I’m sure.
I love that you guys bring such awareness to infertility! It’s such a difficult thing to experience and knowing you aren’t alone, is so helpful! We have one son who is 7.5 years old. It took us 4 years to conceive him. We are two and a half years into failed IVF transfers and multiple miscarriages trying for a second baby with no luck. Really praying you guys find a path forward to your future family and your dreams come true!
Regardless of how it happens, you will be amazing parents and your child will be so loved and cared for. Praying for the 3 of you knowing it is meant to be. 💜🙏💜
We went through the same thing in 2022 and I am now pregnant with a donor baby! I highly recommend talking to a counselor that specializes in cases like these we found it sooooo so helpful! Sending you love ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing how you feel. Infertility is such a hard process to go through. We all assume that everything will be fine and you never consider that it might not happen for you, or at least not in the way you thought. Great answer to how to help others as it is very much like when we go through a bereavement, as there are days you want to talk and others when you dont, we dont know ourselves so how can others. But just letting us know you are there and ready to listen when we want to talk or just being there for company. Take care you wonderful couple xx
Grief is a real thing! It’s an up and down journey! My youngest daughter has a son followed by two miscarriages, she told me tonight she worries if she can’t get pregnant again! My oldest daughter lost her first and only baby at 4 months with a rare chromosomal disorder! She wants another a daughter! Praying she has a healthy baby!
You are amazing, and so generous with your journey which is helping so very many people struggling with infertility as well. My prayers that you find clarity and peace will continue, and I have no doubt your future will be wonderful and happy,
This was beautifully presented Jared and Britt. I didn't go through your experience, but it is wonderful that you have the strength to share your experiences for others. I admire your courage. Prayers as you make decisions for your future. Can't wait to see you both as parents in whatever form that takes.
You both are in my thoughts through this journey. I love that you are sharing this struggle because you never know who you are helping to encourage and you are being an example of faith in God’s plan. I have been through infertility myself. My journey didn’t go down the same path as y’all are but I do recall how hard it was emotionally for my spouse and I. Y’all are in my prayers.
About timing on getting the diagnosis, that's exactly what happened to me. I was going through a very difficult moment, all alone having to solve a heavy family crisis and trying to keep a roof over my mother's head, and i was diagnosed with endometriosis. One of the biggest dreams I had, being a mother... i felt it was shattered right in front of my eyes. It really was the worst moment to get these news, and it was such a difficult year :(
Loved this video..and love you two. I'm 66 years old..have never faced infertility. But am watching just because I love y'all...and are praying for you...and this video has already taught me how to better...more specifically...pray for you. I've just completed one year of battling the most aggressive form of breast cancer.. and realize that we are dealing with very similar emotions/challenges even though very different situations. I loved hearing your thoughts on keeping your faith. Mine is very strong. Having said that...there have been moments when it was all over the place...not at the core....but there have been "moments". And I would just like to add this thought..for anyone experiencing this right now....just know this....that no matter what you're feeling/questioing....God's "shoulders" are sooo broad...that there is NOTHING you could ever feel or think that would be too big for Him to handle. His mercies are new each morning. Lay it all at His feet. Nothing can ever separate you from His love from you. God bless you two (and all others) on this journey!! Hope I didn't ramble too much💕💕🙏🙏
I am right here for you guys no matter white you guys make a big difference in me I see the bright future what God provides. I hope someone can come through and donate through this, but one thing is important you guys always keep going negative love about you guys and it is very true to have somebody like you guys in my eyes to face this awful I’m thinking about you guys very much. Love, Brandon.
I haven’t been pregnant or married, but I know infertility can be hard and I could only imagine how this makes you guys feel. Praying for you and your family!
Just fyi there is a You Tube couple by the name of “Phil and Alex”. They have been on the infertility journey for many years. They struggle with male factor and female infertility. Alex is a nurse and she has a mountain of wealth on this subject. I too believe you will find what is right for you in God’s timing.
Just thank you…. We all go through the “lows” in our own ways… but Thank God for the “Highs”. ITS coming! 💯. Can’t wait to get to celebrate THAT moment w u all. Keep praying, keep believing that your moment is coming and it will be 10,000 times as sweet! ❤
Still praying for you guys. I heard an ad today on the radio advertising a Infertility office and I told my daughter (she was my passenger) that I think it is so sad that it is so hard for some to conceive and have a healthy pregnancy. You hear of people putting babies in dumpsters, shaken their baby to death, etc. and then there are people like you guys that want a family so bad! I will never understand why things work the way they do. I know God has his plans, but I still question, “why”? I am glad there are other routes to consider and whichever route you take your child(ren) will be so lucky to have you as parents. Love to you guys!
You two are such a strong couple and your faith is so strong, I believe it will all work out how it is suppose too and that you two will make it through this journey together and come out glorious in the end. I don’t understand your battle, I had my own personal battle with 3 miscarriages, which is completely different. I have been praying for you both and will continue to pray for you and will also have my dad put you on the prayer list at church ❤ sending lots of love 💕
God's plan is the best plan. ❤ God gave you this journey and your knowledge is going to help so many other's. Especially male infertility your taking away the stigma
Dear Jared & Britt, I know you have a wonderful faith and a wonderful church. Have you ask your family or the Elders in the church to give both of you a Special Blessing to help you through this difficult situation. I know from personal experiences that a Special Blessing has helped me through some serious and difficult situations. I am sending special and prayers to you❤❤❤
I was never blessed with children. You’ll figure out what route you want to take. ❤ 🙏 regardless, any child you are bless with will be very fortunate to have you as parents.
I am an adoptive mom of two …. Have two complete different situations that occurred with each one . Would love to share with you if you ever decided to go that route . Always here !!!!
My heart goes out to both of you as I've had my own infertility journey. I am surprised that your husband was not tested before you were put on Clomid. It seems it's almost always assumed that it's an issue with the female first. As I was going through testing twenty-two years ago, my partner was also tested to see if his sperm was viable before I was ever allowed to go on Clomid. Otherwise, it's a waste of time, money, energy, etc. Thank you for educating and sharing with us your journey.
Take as much time as you need - I know this is very hard for you both and remember you have lots of people who care and pray for you to have a family of your own!! Whichever road you take - you have so much love to give and it is amazing for you to share your experience with others especially male factor infertility.🤗❤️
We love you both and little fin too .. what ever you decide were behind you 100 percent .. and ever you dont feel like picking up a camera to video its totaly fine .. we will always be here for you both , much love and prayers for you both and little fin too, I hope and pray fin become's a big brother or sister to his human family soon .. he will be the best big fur brother in the world .❤🐕🙏 From Canada Nova Scotia ,Timberlea area .🇨🇦
It sounds like you two already know which route you plan to go and that is great! 🙏🙏 One of my best friends recently told me about the process she and her spouse went through to get pregnant and it was a completely new way to me! I had never heard of this before, but the story is very sweet. - They actually adopted an embryo! It’s very new to the US, but it’s a less expensive way and you’re saving an embryo or embryos that would otherwise have been discarded. - These embryos come from families who do IVF and have their embryos frozen and once they have completed their families they donate their embryos that are left to be used for others rather than having them destroyed. - it’s their way of helping other families be able to conceive. I thought I’d share this here in case this will help anyone. Embryo adoption can be $2500-$4000 which is a fraction of IVF.
I know you have your support from your families, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and thank you for sharing this hard journey, God Bless from Canada
I just want to say, you have ‘Options’ there’s hope. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You will be great parents someday. It’s frustrating when you see people give birth to babies that they don’t even want and here you are desperate and wanting your own. My brother in law is in the process of adopting. She’s 18 months now. They ended up going to the hospital and naming themselves the foster parents. The mother gave birth and left the same day. Their friend’s adopted the first baby. He’s a boy that is almost 3. They are an older couple and couldn’t handle the sibling. So my brother and sister in law went to the hospital and scooped her right up so she could still be in the same town as her brother. She’s such a sweet girl. They have 3 other kids youngest is 14. They are starting over, but still young enough. Early forties and late thirties. It’s fun to have the little one around now for all our family get together’s and softball games ect… my brother in law coaches and my husband does as well. God will give you the right path 🙏🏼
Thank you for your heart felt video! You both are in my prayers 💕 I know that you will make the best decision for your family! It’s wonderful to see you both smiling and enjoying life! Take care
The two of you are awesome,of course little Finn also. If you chose to do the donor route it would be great if one of Jarred’s brothers could donate then the baby would have Bingham genes.
Love and support you both!!! 💕💕 Random but I love how you keep looking outside every chance you get. I think it brings your soul some happiness looking out at the beautiful sun-shiny views!! 🌴🌴💕
A question I have is Jared, are you going to get tested for the genetic diseases associated with azoospermia? I think you may have already but I just want to make sure you are aware of them as it appeared to be it was an overwhelming experience. Praying for you all!
You could always kidnap a couple nieces or nephews😉 teasing of course. Wishing you all the best in whichever avenue you choose. Though our timing is not the same as Gods, it will happen as it should and when it should.❤
As strange as it sounds you are lucky you are going through this now! When I found out I would never have a baby of my own I was in my teens I was often told that no man would ever want me I was defective goods. So I made sure no one ever got close to me. And. It changed my relationship with God “why did he hate me so much he would make me this way?” I asked that question to so many of the religions around at that time. No one ever gave me an answer that made sense to me fragile emotional self
I also want to tell you that I teach the 4 years olds in Primary and our singing leader has Four adopted children. They are so awesome. They got them through the church and are a wonderful family.
You mentioned in one of your videos that there could be some health issues for Jared in his future with relation to the hand tremors and this current diagnosis. Could you review that? My husband went through a similar diagnosis many years ago when technology was not as advanced and currently he has so many health problems he is pre leukemia and has bowel issues where he suddenly bleeds and has to be hospitalized, he’s has circulation issues related to the pre-leukemia, just so many issues and has been through so much treatment.
Secret doner no one but you both comfortable with. No one else's business 🙏🙏 or a beautiful baby to adopt. See why it's even harder that you're sister in-law and sister both expecting a beautiful baby. But now just go forward with what gives you peace and happiness 💙💖🌹🌻🪻🌺🌷 Heavenly father will guide you both along . ✝️
Awesome video. Hugs to you guys! Just curious: have you guys looked into embryo adoption at all? I have a friend who did it (about to do it again!) and it’s the most beautiful thing.
That’s a great question! In short no, I was born with it, and will likely never change, but a good diet and healthy lifestyle changes will help me in the long run with other side effects.
Thank you for sharing❤ It helps others to not feel alone. Infertility is such a hard journey. My husband and I share the same type of infertility/diagnosis. We eventually went the domestic infant adoption route and then the embryo donation route, and we now have our two beautiful boys. If you have any questions on navigating this journey, we would happy to share. We will pray for you. We know you will make the best parents.
So when you thought you were pregnant was it just a fluke that it was positive or were you actually pregnant considering Jared outcome now. I was just wondering.
Is there any chance that pregnancy MIGHT happen. I watch several other channels that that is what happened. Also because of the lower T for Jarred after his surgery will he have to have T shots and if that is so --watch out for A-fib caused by the T shots. My heart is with you.
Loved this video but next time could you lose the background music please? Really difficult to focus on you speaking and may be difficult if you have hearing difficulties. I wish you guys the very best x
I have a friend that dealt with the same infertility issues. In the end her husbands brothers all made anonymous “seed” donations and their doctor mixed the donations and they did Ivf. No one knows whose donation fertilized but regardless dna isn’t what makes someone a dad. Best of luck on your decisions.
I thought the same thing! I was afraid to post my idea. That would be a wonderful thing and I hope they take that route!! Fingers crossed and prayers!❤️
This same idea came to me.
I had the same thought. It would be wonderful. I had a friend who needed an egg so her sister donated one. It worked perfectly, the child looks like the mother.❤
Oh that's sounds terribly unethical. Doesn't the kid deserve more?
@@evavandenborne1864 As an adopted person I can say that it won’t matter! Jared and Britt’s kiddos will have the very best life possible however they come to be! The entire family with shower them will infinite love! At the end of the day Love overshadows any and everything!
WOW, THIS VIDEO WAS GREAT! I was unable to experience motherhood, due to cancer (and being still u married!) But I am SO PROUD of the bravery you both show in the midst of your ",infertility storm!" Your willingness to share such intimate details and emotions, is touching SO MANY LIVES!! I am learning how I can be more sensitive and supportive to friends who are also going thru infertility heartbreak! Even tho it's not me, I desire to know just how to be loving and sensitive to those going thru this!! YOU TWO ARE CHANGING TBE WORLD, AS YOU WILLINGLY OPEN YOUR HEART AND SOUL, TO SHARE THIS PART OF YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY!! I know the sacrifice of time and emotion that this kind of sharing takes! I continue to pray for God's special strength to each of you, individually and that YOUR MARRIAGE WILL JUST GROW STRONGER, AS YOU PREPARE FOR THAT MOMENT YOUR CHILD IS PLACED IN YOUR ARMS!! I DO BELIEVE THAT DAY WILL COME, SOONER THAN LATER MY FRIENDS!! IGNORE ANY HATERS AND NAYSAYERS, THEY ONLY COME AT YOU, TO STEAL YOUR PEACE AND JOY!! JUST SCROLL PAST THEIR HURTFUL COMMENTS, AND FOCUS ON ALL OUR LOVE AND ENCOURAGEMENT!! YOU ARE MEANT TO BE ON "THIS JOURNEY, TOGETHER!" GOD IS DIRECTING EACH STEP YOU TAKE! AND AS SILLY OR STUPID AS THIS MIGHT SOUND, "YOU BOTH WERE MEANT TO BE HERE, ON THIS PATH!!" ONLY YOU TWO CAN TOUCH ALL THESE BROKEN HEARTS, ANSWERING QUESTIONS, VALIDATING FEARS AND UNCERTAINTIES!! JUST IMAGINE WHERE WOULD ALL OF THESE LIVES BE RIGHT NOW, IF THEY HAD NOT HEARD YOUR STORY, HAD NOT BEEN GIVEN HOPE, HAD NOT HAD QUESTIONS ANSWERED, HAD NOT BEEN HEARD!!!! WHERE WOULD THEY ALL BE??? YOU TWO ARE CHANGING AND TOUCHING SO MANY LIVES!! I KNOW THE HURT AND DEEP ROOTED PAIN YOU FEEL, I KNOW YOUR DREAMS HAVE BEEN CHANGED AND DASHED, BUT ALL IS NOT LOST!! YOU WILL HAVE HOME AND HEARTS FILLED WITH CHILDREN....JUST IN A DIFFERENT WAY THAN YOU HAD HOPED!! BUT WOW, GOD HAS CHOSEN YOU TWO, TO CHANGE AND TOUCH SO MANY LIVES!! GOD IS HEALING SO MANY HEARTS, THRU YOU BOTH!! PEOPLE WHO HAVE FELT HOPELESS AND SITTING IN THE DARK, ARE NOW HOPEFUL AND STEPPING INTO THE LIGHT!! CHAINS OF DEPRESSION ARE BEING BROKEN! PEOPLE HAVE SEEN JARED AND BRIT SAD, HOPELESS, DEPRESSED AND AFRAID, BUT ARE NOW SEEING YOU BOTH HOPEFUL, HAPPIER, PEACE-FILLED, THANKFUL AND SO WILLING TO SHARE AND ANSWER QUESTIONS THAT THEY THEMSELVES HAVE HAD, BUT WERE TOO AFRAID TO ASK!!! YOU ARE BOTH CARRYING A HEAVYOAD, BUT GOD SEES YOU BOTH STRONG ENOUGH!! YOU ARE SUCH A JOY AND BLESSING TO US ALL! SORRY FOR THIS LONG COMMENT, I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO ALL OF US!! ❤❤❤❤
Whatever you chose to do for yourself will be the best answer. But any child you chose, if that is your decision, will be incredibly lucky to have you two as parents.
We, as your internet family have prayed with y’all and for you. And at times grieved with you. I remember after Jarrod’s diagnosis, and Brittany was the only one one the vlog. I went straight in prayer. When I pray it’s like I’m talking to my best friend. I talked different scenarios and feelings you both must be feeling. And it was like a straight answer from him. The song that’s mostly played during Christmas, It’s God’s Child, kept coming too me. And still does today. I just felt I needed to share this. After seeing how happy y’all were in Panama, I didn’t want to bring you down. I just wanted to share with y’all, and know we’re still praying for you all. God Bless
Can’t thank you enough for your prayers and thinking of us 😭🙏🏻 thank you for sharing
You guys are so sweet and caring towards others! Britt, I just saw you for the first time on your sister’s channel. I have sooo much I would love to comment on but it would turn into a novel…and not a short one. I laughed to myself when I heard you talk about your family in Utah and traveling there the day after you left NY. Btw: I cried with you when you had to kiss Madelyn and Nora goodbye. Back to Utah.I love in New York because I moved here to nanny, however I was born and raised in Utah and it is my home. When I heard you lived in Florida I was surprised 😮 I was thinking to myself, I could have sworn you had the Utah vibe. If you know you know! 😁 so when I heard heard that I said out loud to myself “I KNEW IT”
Maybe I’m a dork, but my Utah radar is spot on. This is only the 3rd vlog I’ve watched and I already love your family. I went through it and my marriage didn’t survive it. You are SO lucky to have each other. I didn’t have a strong spouce and at times felt like I was in it alone. Anyway, I will pray my heart out for you guys! Trust in the Lord. He knows you and knows of your pain and struggles. Turn to him, not away from him. I can tell your faith is unwavering and so is mine. It’s the only thing that got me through. I’m trying so hard to find a new nanny position back home, if you know of anyone. I’m a stranger to you now but I don’t have to be. I love you my brother and sister in Christ. Thank you for being the GOOD in this suffering world. 💙🩷 Love is the answer 🤍
Any child/children would be so blessed to have you guys as parents!!! I know God will lead you to the right next step. All the love & prayers! We have be “not preventing” pregnancy for about 3 years now with no luck with a 2nd baby. I’m so thankful we were able to have 1 four years ago!
God will open the doors for what is his answer and the timing for you. God doesn't make mistakes. In the end he works everything out for good and you can look back and see his hand and his blessings. Praying for you.
Thank you both for spreading awareness of infertility and being so open. We struggled for 6 years with unexplained infertility, multiple ivf retrievals, transfers and miscarriages. We were blessed 5 months ago with our miracle son. If you guys decide on a donor route, sperm or embryo, please make sure they do a full work up on you first Britt, if they haven’t already, including a hsg and shg. All our results were perfect until I had the hsg done.
Praying you guys find peace in whatever option you choose. You will make awesome parents I’m sure.
I love that you guys bring such awareness to infertility! It’s such a difficult thing to experience and knowing you aren’t alone, is so helpful! We have one son who is 7.5 years old. It took us 4 years to conceive him. We are two and a half years into failed IVF transfers and multiple miscarriages trying for a second baby with no luck. Really praying you guys find a path forward to your future family and your dreams come true!
Infertility is sooo hard! I'm so glad you are opening up! Love you!
Regardless of how it happens, you will be amazing parents and your child will be so loved and cared for. Praying for the 3 of you knowing it is meant to be. 💜🙏💜
We went through the same thing in 2022 and I am now pregnant with a donor baby! I highly recommend talking to a counselor that specializes in cases like these we found it sooooo so helpful! Sending you love ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing how you feel. Infertility is such a hard process to go through. We all assume that everything will be fine and you never consider that it might not happen for you, or at least not in the way you thought. Great answer to how to help others as it is very much like when we go through a bereavement, as there are days you want to talk and others when you dont, we dont know ourselves so how can others. But just letting us know you are there and ready to listen when we want to talk or just being there for company. Take care you wonderful couple xx
Grief is a real thing! It’s an up and down journey! My youngest daughter has a son followed by two miscarriages, she told me tonight she worries if she can’t get pregnant again! My oldest daughter lost her first and only baby at 4 months with a rare chromosomal disorder! She wants another a daughter! Praying she has a healthy baby!
You are amazing, and so generous with your journey which is helping so very many people struggling with infertility as well. My prayers that you find clarity and peace will continue, and I have no doubt your future will be wonderful and happy,
Oh bless both of you. Good luck for the future. My son is going through similar and it’s heartbreaking.
This was beautifully presented Jared and Britt. I didn't go through your experience, but it is wonderful that you have the strength to share your experiences for others. I admire your courage. Prayers as you make decisions for your future. Can't wait to see you both as parents in whatever form that takes.
You both are in my thoughts through this journey. I love that you are sharing this struggle because you never know who you are helping to encourage and you are being an example of faith in God’s plan. I have been through infertility myself. My journey didn’t go down the same path as y’all are but I do recall how hard it was emotionally for my spouse and I. Y’all are in my prayers.
About timing on getting the diagnosis, that's exactly what happened to me. I was going through a very difficult moment, all alone having to solve a heavy family crisis and trying to keep a roof over my mother's head, and i was diagnosed with endometriosis. One of the biggest dreams I had, being a mother... i felt it was shattered right in front of my eyes. It really was the worst moment to get these news, and it was such a difficult year :(
Thinking of you all! ❤
Loved this video..and love you two. I'm 66 years old..have never faced infertility. But am watching just because I love y'all...and are praying for you...and this video has already taught me how to better...more specifically...pray for you. I've just completed one year of battling the most aggressive form of breast cancer.. and realize that we are dealing with very similar emotions/challenges even though very different situations. I loved hearing your thoughts on keeping your faith. Mine is very strong. Having said that...there have been moments when it was all over the place...not at the core....but there have been "moments". And I would just like to add this thought..for anyone experiencing this right now....just know this....that no matter what you're feeling/questioing....God's "shoulders" are sooo broad...that there is NOTHING you could ever feel or think that would be too big for Him to handle. His mercies are new each morning. Lay it all at His feet. Nothing can ever separate you from His love from you. God bless you two (and all others) on this journey!! Hope I didn't ramble too much💕💕🙏🙏
I am right here for you guys no matter white you guys make a big difference in me I see the bright future what God provides. I hope someone can come through and donate through this, but one thing is important you guys always keep going negative love about you guys and it is very true to have somebody like you guys in my eyes to face this awful I’m thinking about you guys very much. Love, Brandon.
I haven’t been pregnant or married, but I know infertility can be hard and I could only imagine how this makes you guys feel. Praying for you and your family!
Just fyi there is a You Tube couple by the name of “Phil and Alex”. They have been on the infertility journey for many years. They struggle with male factor and female infertility. Alex is a nurse and she has a mountain of wealth on this subject. I too believe you will find what is right for you in God’s timing.
❤ infertility can be soul consuming. Take care of each other.
Just thank you…. We all go through the “lows” in our own ways… but Thank God for the “Highs”. ITS coming! 💯. Can’t wait to get to celebrate THAT moment w u all. Keep praying, keep believing that your moment is coming and it will be 10,000 times as sweet! ❤
You guys are amazing! You are helping so many people sharing your story
Still praying for you guys. I heard an ad today on the radio advertising a Infertility office and I told my daughter (she was my passenger) that I think it is so sad that it is so hard for some to conceive and have a healthy pregnancy. You hear of people putting babies in dumpsters, shaken their baby to death, etc. and then there are people like you guys that want a family so bad! I will never understand why things work the way they do. I know God has his plans, but I still question, “why”? I am glad there are other routes to consider and whichever route you take your child(ren) will be so lucky to have you as parents. Love to you guys!
Thank you for sharing ❤ I pray for you guys every day🙏🏼🥰❤️
Wow! You're so strong talking about this. Thank you for sharing! Sending you lots of luck and prayers for an awesome future.
Always a way, never give up hope, it’s the greatest thing when it does happen xx
You two are such a strong couple and your faith is so strong, I believe it will all work out how it is suppose too and that you two will make it through this journey together and come out glorious in the end. I don’t understand your battle, I had my own personal battle with 3 miscarriages, which is completely different. I have been praying for you both and will continue to pray for you and will also have my dad put you on the prayer list at church ❤ sending lots of love 💕
God's plan is the best plan. ❤ God gave you this journey and your knowledge is going to help so many other's. Especially male infertility your taking away the stigma
Praying for you both. God will help y’all through this hard thing y’all are going through.
Praying for you and your family!! Finny is so dang adorable!!
I’m continuing to pray for y’all 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Dear Jared & Britt,
I know you have a wonderful faith and a wonderful church. Have you ask your family or the Elders in the church to give both of you a Special Blessing to help you through this difficult situation.
I know from personal experiences that a Special Blessing has helped me through some serious and difficult situations.
I am sending special and prayers to you❤❤❤
Thank you both for your response to my comment/question i appreciate you both and pray your journey is kind to you both much love from ireland x
Blessings to you both,thank you for sharing and making a difference helping others as well as healing for you both. Blessings sweethearts❤
I was never blessed with children. You’ll figure out what route you want to take. ❤ 🙏 regardless, any child you are bless with will be very fortunate to have you as parents.
Hi 👋 Jared and Britt how are you feeling today as you guys back soon your family again.❤
I am an adoptive mom of two …. Have two complete different situations that occurred with each one . Would love to share with you if you ever decided to go that route . Always here !!!!
I'm still praying 🙏 🤲 that you all get your miracle baby no matter what way you all decide!!!!
My heart goes out to both of you as I've had my own infertility journey. I am surprised that your husband was not tested before you were put on Clomid. It seems it's almost always assumed that it's an issue with the female first. As I was going through testing twenty-two years ago, my partner was also tested to see if his sperm was viable before I was ever allowed to go on Clomid. Otherwise, it's a waste of time, money, energy, etc. Thank you for educating and sharing with us your journey.
Take as much time as you need - I know this is very hard for you both and remember you have lots of people who care and pray for you to have a family of your own!! Whichever road you take - you have so much love to give and it is amazing for you to share your experience with others especially male factor infertility.🤗❤️
Thanks for sharing ❤. A wonderful vlog. You two are so special. Always praying for you ❤❤
How are you both doing and you have a great family and take care and have a wonderful night
We love you both and little fin too .. what ever you decide were behind you 100 percent .. and ever you dont feel like picking up a camera to video its totaly fine .. we will always be here for you both , much love and prayers for you both and little fin too, I hope and pray fin become's a big brother or sister to his human family soon .. he will be the best big fur brother in the world .❤🐕🙏 From Canada Nova Scotia ,Timberlea area .🇨🇦
It sounds like you two already know which route you plan to go and that is great! 🙏🙏
One of my best friends recently told me about the process she and her spouse went through to get pregnant and it was a completely new way to me! I had never heard of this before, but the story is very sweet. - They actually adopted an embryo!
It’s very new to the US, but it’s a less expensive way and you’re saving an embryo or embryos that would otherwise have been discarded.
- These embryos come from families who do IVF and have their embryos frozen and once they have completed their families they donate their embryos that are left to be used for others rather than having them destroyed. - it’s their way of helping other families be able to conceive.
I thought I’d share this here in case this will help anyone. Embryo adoption can be $2500-$4000 which is a fraction of IVF.
I follow a page on Facebook. About 20 years ago this couple put embryos up for adoption and they just met a set of triplets from those placements.
What an awesome informative vlog. How wonderful to help educate so many.💜💜💜
What a beautiful video. Praying you both be blessed beyond measure. Take care! Love you guys!
I know you have your support from your families, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and thank you for sharing this hard journey, God Bless from Canada
You guys are amazing!! We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers!💜💜 love you both❤️
I just want to say, you have ‘Options’ there’s hope. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You will be great parents someday. It’s frustrating when you see people give birth to babies that they don’t even want and here you are desperate and wanting your own. My brother in law is in the process of adopting. She’s 18 months now. They ended up going to the hospital and naming themselves the foster parents. The mother gave birth and left the same day. Their friend’s adopted the first baby. He’s a boy that is almost 3. They are an older couple and couldn’t handle the sibling. So my brother and sister in law went to the hospital and scooped her right up so she could still be in the same town as her brother. She’s such a sweet girl. They have 3 other kids youngest is 14. They are starting over, but still young enough. Early forties and late thirties. It’s fun to have the little one around now for all our family get together’s and softball games ect… my brother in law coaches and my husband does as well. God will give you the right path 🙏🏼
Thank you for your heart felt video! You both are in my prayers 💕 I know that you will make the best decision for your family! It’s wonderful to see you both smiling and enjoying life! Take care
Praying for you guys hope ye will be parents soon, and I adore Finn your beautiful dog he is super cute, best of luck to ye from Ireland 🇮🇪🍀🙏
My prayers and love for you both. Your relationship and faith is beautiful! Love and all the best always. 🥰🙏💕
The two of you are awesome,of course little Finn also. If you chose to do the donor route it would be great if one of Jarred’s brothers could donate then the baby would have Bingham genes.
Love you guys!!! I know you will do what is best for you! This video is going to help so many people!
Continue to pray for you guys, love ya
Love and support you both!!! 💕💕 Random but I love how you keep looking outside every chance you get. I think it brings your soul some happiness looking out at the beautiful sun-shiny views!! 🌴🌴💕
Glad you guys are doing well.
Stay strong an stay positive. Love you both
With your faith, are there any options for growing your family that are taboo?
Also, you guys were surrounded by family when the procedure was done. Momma specifically ❤
Times like that, you need all the family support and love.
Sending you guy positives vibes!♥♥♥♥
I'm praying for you two!! Sending hugs!!❤😊
I wish you both the very best!
A question I have is Jared, are you going to get tested for the genetic diseases associated with azoospermia? I think you may have already but I just want to make sure you are aware of them as it appeared to be it was an overwhelming experience. Praying for you all!
Love you guys! Blessings to all of you.
You could always kidnap a couple nieces or nephews😉 teasing of course. Wishing you all the best in whichever avenue you choose. Though our timing is not the same as Gods, it will happen as it should and when it should.❤
Beautiful video. Would you use a donar for ivf or someone close like friends or family member? Prayers to both of you during this journey.
Great job you guys! Great information today! Still praying for you both for continued health and strength as you navigate this journey ❤.
As strange as it sounds you are lucky you are going through this now! When I found out I would never have a baby of my own I was in my teens I was often told that no man would ever want me I was defective goods. So I made sure no one ever got close to me. And. It changed my relationship with God “why did he hate me so much he would make me this way?” I asked that question to so many of the religions around at that time. No one ever gave me an answer that made sense to me fragile emotional self
I also want to tell you that I teach the 4 years olds in Primary and our singing leader has Four adopted children. They are so awesome. They got them through the church and are a wonderful family.
You mentioned in one of your videos that there could be some health issues for Jared in his future with relation to the hand tremors and this current diagnosis. Could you review that? My husband went through a similar diagnosis many years ago when technology was not as advanced and currently he has so many health problems he is pre leukemia and has bowel issues where he suddenly bleeds and has to be hospitalized, he’s has circulation issues related to the pre-leukemia, just so many issues and has been through so much treatment.
Secret doner no one but you both comfortable with. No one else's business 🙏🙏 or a beautiful baby to adopt. See why it's even harder that you're sister in-law and sister both expecting a beautiful baby. But now just go forward with what gives you peace and happiness 💙💖🌹🌻🪻🌺🌷 Heavenly father will guide you both along . ✝️
Can you let Jared answer more? His answers are clearer and more to the point. Just for us ADD people..
Awesome video. Hugs to you guys! Just curious: have you guys looked into embryo adoption at all? I have a friend who did it (about to do it again!) and it’s the most beautiful thing.
LOVE YOU GUYS BLESSING FOR YOU GUYS
Sending all the hugs!!!!!
Glad you are are doing well.
Can your diagnosis ever change with diet or lifestyle changes?
That’s a great question! In short no, I was born with it, and will likely never change, but a good diet and healthy lifestyle changes will help me in the long run with other side effects.
I am so sorry to ask, ignore it if it’s too hard. Did you get pregnant before? I thought you saw two pink lines?
Praying for you too and no you are loved So very much
Thanks for sharing your story
Ok I got ? If y’all adopt will you just focus on a baby from the USA of would y’all adopt from another country
Thank you for sharing❤ It helps others to not feel alone. Infertility is such a hard journey. My husband and I share the same type of infertility/diagnosis. We eventually went the domestic infant adoption route and then the embryo donation route, and we now have our two beautiful boys. If you have any questions on navigating this journey, we would happy to share. We will pray for you. We know you will make the best parents.
❤❤❤ so beautiful
So when you thought you were pregnant was it just a fluke that it was positive or were you actually pregnant considering Jared outcome now. I was just wondering.
I saw that video too. Unfortunately maybe it was an evaporation line
Is there any chance that pregnancy MIGHT happen. I watch several other channels that that is what happened. Also because of the lower T for Jarred after his surgery will he have to have T shots and if that is so --watch out for A-fib caused by the T shots. My heart is with you.
God bless you both
Well better soon
Give Finn a big pat
I pray for both God with you all time
Glad bless u ❤ hope god knews how great u 2 ( I see twin or triples 😊)
Love you Guy's prayers❤🙏🏻🙏🏻❤🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love you guys💞🐕
I love you guys so much
Loved this video but next time could you lose the background music please? Really difficult to focus on you speaking and may be difficult if you have hearing difficulties. I wish you guys the very best x
Hey I got another ? Does all this push Jared not getting his yacht or matching jet skis lol