Why Africa Could Be Black American Women's Last Hope
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- Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
- In this video, I'm sharing why Africa could be black American women's last hope. Africa is a continent with a wealth of potential for black American women - if we can only get there.
Africa is home to the world's second largest black population, and there are millions of black American women waiting to meet someone special. If we can find a way to get these women out to Africa, we can change the course of their lives and help them to achieve the dreams they've always had.
Take a look at this video to learn more about the potential for black American women in Africa, and why it might be our best hope for finding love. Thanks for watching!
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Africa will humble you FAST! You can’t come to Africa with a nasty attitude or you’ll be in for a RUDE awakening 😳😳
That's good to know! 👍
I think they try to reproduce the masta attitude they try to dominate the man as if he was a slave or something. Me being a slave of descent from the Caribbean... if a woman does that ... first it's laughable because no matter her money to me a woman is a woman.. she is smaller she is cute she is not dangerous to me it's just hot air coming from her mouth and tantrum looking like a child to me. and second. I have no time for that I will just look at her as if she is crazy and walk away like Craig David. No matter if I am married or not by the way. if she is not smart enough to know how to talk to a man she is a low quality woman in my opinion no matter her job she can be actually beyonce if she is not able to do that... it's 101 woman behavior... Meh she is very average or below average to me instantly
@@ZeeZaidA man try some the nonsense yall pull in the states in Naija and a man wil slap thunder fire out of you 😂 Our cultures are based on respect. Disrespect a man like he's an animal you'd leave him no choice. But all will be avoided if you just be normal
@@ZeeZaidA You sound Americanized... Those women would never disrespect a man to degree a black american woman would be honest. And if they did it wouldn't go over well for them. Not much finger waving in your face, yelling, saying Ima get a new nigga destroying your property, yo dick is small hitting you below the belt going on anywhere in Africa. Or those men will definitely deal with you. Never said the women stay just said that'd be the end of it. Most men wouldn't even want her to stay they'd send that disrespectful woman back to her father's house. If you been there you know nobody in Africa plays that mess except maybe south africans because they've been indoctrined by white feminism too
@@ZeeZaidA- Sis, You have to understand that Nigerian men boast 24/7 about things that are real and things that are fictional.
Im a Nigerian woman and I can emphatically tell you that if a man beats a woman in public, he get killed on the spot by bystanders b4 any policeman arrives. If a man abuses or beats his wife, her brothers and dad will deal with him.
My Dad told me the story of his own mother, my grandmother, who was being abused by her then husband. She was newly married and had a little boy. My great granddad grabbed his shotgun, got on his bicycle and went and retrieved his dear daughter and her son and brought them home. He conducted their divorce at gunpoint.😂
She later married the man who would be my granddad and then they had my dad and other children together and they lived together until they both passed.
I just don’t understand why our brothers feel this pressure to “impress” the world at all costs. This guy can’t even pause to think of how widely disrespectful his comment was.
Kenya is like America, but we are quiet and mostly conservative. I was married to a Black American man from Texas, and we are going through a divorce because he’s loud, aggressive, cruel and a host of all things that wouldn’t make the relationship work. If B American men want to marry us, they may have to make a whole paradigm shift in order to fit into our black fabric. We don’t get yelled at, we are supported and our men do everything they can to make us comfortable and especially in terms of being a provider. Our Kenyan men love quiet, respectful, and supportive women.
This man did not mention that they're plenty of African women who have successful businesses but still come home and serve their man, African women are happy in their feminine state.
@@visiow2691 Exactly, there's no excuse for BW, no hardworking BM should put up with a bad attitude and disrespect.
He’s a clown. A simp. A art of the problem because he will encourage their behavior.
@@visiow2691What? You mean like Dr. Umar??😆
Oh...he means well. I could tell by his tone!😂
Hahahaha
I don't understand this guy, I'm Kenyan and women here are well educated as he said and they do own properties, they're quite aggressive in business and their careers. Difference is Kenyans don't talk about their material wealth bragging and showing off is frowned upon and if you want that traditional woman they're there too but you have to provide for her 100% if you don't she will walk.
As she should!
Spot On! You hit the nail on the head on everything!
Yeah.I heard that part and I was like🤔.He needs to meet a lot of women from different scenarios .Kenyan women are into land ownership(alot),chamas that invest into properties, and so forth....the Kenyan woman can be driving a cheap car and own a little bit of property that you wouldn't believe..They don't brag
The elephant in the room is Feminism. There is a reason why these brothers who were raised by black women refuse to date them. People call them stupid but if you grew up in this system of Feminism that could change your mind about dating black women.
What people are calling these men stupid??🤔
It certainly isn’t a large enough percentage of them to be concerned about, I’d say!🤷🏽♀️
Feminism is all over the world where girls and women have an opportunity to get an education. It is not feminism that make some people uneasy; it is the ability to attain knowledge and utilize that knowledge to become self sufficient. Without knowledge of how to feed, clothe, secure yourself, one has to depend on someone else which is quite risky. An educated woman can barter, start a business - no matter how small, feed her children when there is little resources, send her kids to school etc. Do you know that in many of the developing world, women are the backbone of the community and the economy as a whole. The men of means and power often have several families. The women in those situations whose children are successful usually draw qualities right out of feminism. These women go out almost every day to make a dollar. They have to be strong, neglect themselves, and battle their horrendous circumstances like a man. The man’s money is for himself. Seldom are men in developing countries put their families future at the forefront. The poor men in those societies are even worst. Often time they work in difficult and dangerous conditions that when they get out all they seek is fun. They oftentimes consume their hard earn currencies in Bose, alcohol, or sex. What is left for the family little to nothing. Go all over the developing world and you would see that it takes the essence of feminism to provide and support the unfortunate.
It didn’t take “Feminism “ to give these women the inspiration to do do what they had to do.
For them it’s called common sense…learning how to survive.🤷🏽♀️
@@mandyb6414 Thank you. Feminism is nothing but a fight for women's rights. If it wasnt for feminism women would not be allowed to go to school, work or learn how systems function. They wouldn't even be allowed to vote, learn driving, train to be nurses/doctors etc. As an east African woman that lived in the US for almost 20 years, I DON'T understand all this HATE for African American women. Not every AA woman has an attitude. I've lived with them long enough to understand their struggles, their challenges, their strengths, their weaknesses, and what forces SOME OF THEM to adopt or develop attitudes.
AA men are quick to talk about attitudes but cannot address why they themselves become deadbeats, cheat on the women, steal from them, disrespect them, physically and emotionally abuse them or use them and dump them. My advice to African women (especially Kenyan women) is to BEWARE of some of these AA men. Isn't it enough what we go through with our own men?
Some AA men need to leave their nasty attitudes at their airports of departure because if they come to Africa assuming they'll find a woman that will sheepishly submit to their aggression, rudeness, violence, laziness etc. they are in for a RUDE AWAKENING. 99% of African women are now educated women. You are not easily going to find a woman that will put up with nonsense. You coming to Africa expecting African women to look, talk or act in a certain way is not going to happen. No sane Kenyan woman for example, is going to be found anywhere in a bush pounding cassava and yams in a mortar for 8 hours just to make a traditional african meal that can easily be prepared in 20 minutes in a microwave. My point is African women are just as enlightened as African American women.
Exactly!
That one question 😂 “ How’s that been going😂. Damn
As a retired medical professional I've worked predominantly with black women for over the past 30 years. I'm located outside of Atlanta and Troy couldn't be more wrong on almost everything he talked about concerning black women. The majority of these medical professional who earned excellent wages lived paycheck to paycheck, were single mothers, drowning in student loan debt, had enormous car payments, had horrible attitudes and still felt entitled to successful men such as myself. I know this is not all women but typically the vast majority I encountered were financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually bankrupt.
Facts. Could not have said it better.
@@williamlevan7190 … amen to that, enough said !!
Facts. I've seen it in Atlanta
But perhaps you too were lacking. You attract what you are.
@@loriannrichardson7644stated like a broken, bitter, black female.
I attract and deal with only feminine, fit, agreeable women who are not single mothers.
This is why I'm primarily only dealing with women overseas. Western women are combative, argumentative and bring on drama and chaos to the relationship.
90 percent of what Kevin Samuels have stated on his shows are correct. Forget, I did not like how he said it B.S. He was trying to help women and let them know what they needed to work on. Many women are not taught by their mothers how to be a lady, how to be a good wife or mother.
It's generational.
They aren’t taught how to love a man here. They can’t understand. Some don’t love themselves. Don’t understand how to add value to a that man’s life so that he loves her for that. Not just the value they see in themselves. I don’t care what she “got” unless she “got” me. That’s what “we” need.
Dude Auston has on is outdated like Dr. Umar
Dude was capping
It's three generations into destruction. Its no saving the black community at this point. Coming from Chicago, living in LA and Houston, I've seen too debauchery and nonsense. I can't possibly live here anymore.
His crib is nice but his soul’s nicer and he got good temperament and manners !!! This is what I call a valuable person !!!!
I'm so jealous. You get to kick back and soak up game, knowledge, history, wisdom and life experiences from so many interesting people. When I was your age I was bushittin, not taking life seriously and just wasting time. I'm so proud of you man! You got you mind right, your money, your health, your priorities... I hope you channel blows up to inspire as many young minds as possible. I hope these new generations make good decisions and don't waste time like I did
Thanks a lot man this comment means everything. Its more motivation and validation that doing the right thing.
I believe you look at the clowns following RUclips personalities instead of going out and discovering the world themselves like Auston
Never too late okay!!
Yoh come out. As long as you are breathing now is the best time to explore
@@حببتي.سوديا You know what... I will start planning a trip today! I appreciate you!
As an african american woman thats been married for 9yrs i will say this.....African American men and women BOTH have a lot to work on. Instead of pointing fingers and blaming each other we need to focus on hearing each other. We all we got literally. No one understands us like us. You cannot compare a black woman to no other race because no other race of woman has been through what we have been through. Now its time to mend. Its time to respect each other instead of insult each other. We can say the same thing about african american men. Im sure the women in other countries are great because they have great men. Lets try to be that for each other
Hearing is not the essence of resolving all problems. Intentionality, and commitment/desire to solve problems is the essence of solving problems. BAW have been programmed to have a Superiority Complex over BAM. That complex makes BW who have it dangerous and unmarriageable if you sense it.
@KraigMoultrie hearing is the start. Its definitely important because we keep pointing fingers. Black men have assisted greatly in the programming. Yall have played a role in not earning the leadership role you so greatly deserve. Lets be honest, all races and genders feel superior over the black man.
We BOTH have failed each other. Half of the men talking about they want a woman from overseas ain't healed enough to nurture that relationship either. We need to all take accountability of us being fucked up. Now let's discuss solutions. Thats the only thing that matters. People can keep the bashing to themselves
@@shawright1 The difference between what your saying and what the Redpill/ Manosphere/Passport Bros are saying is miles apart. That's why BM have given up and have an open ear but are not taking women that speak like you seriously. Lets be honest now. We've been hearing our whole lives. Its been a one way conversation with BM being "bashed" becoming a cultural norm. BM have NEVER feigned innocence. Its the majority of BW who are denying their role. For instance: >80% of BM were in the home for 100 yrs from Emancipation to the early 1960's when BW ALONE embraced virulent 1.Black Feminism that came out of CIA funded and managed White 3rd wave Feminism, 2. Welfare and 3. The Sexual Revolution. BW changed the moral code and the social contract and have never owned up to this. It was divide and conquer social engineering in reaction to the Black Revolution and Counter Culture movements. And then BW continue to spread the now discredited lie that BM abandoned them when the opposite is the truth. There is soo much more too. People looking down on BM is pretty irrelevant. The demonization of the Black race is not our fault. For the most part BM are not bashing BW, just getting the facts straight because BW have been manipulated to shame, emasculate and undermine the Black Community but they feign complete ignorance.
@shawright1 brilliantly stated
Ase
That was a great promotion for the country..I can wait to see it for my self.. love sent
Troy, I appreciate your use of your position of influence in promoting a positive perspective of African-American women. The Queens need this! Thank you.
You just need to be accountable to someone wiser than you, preferably a husband who can advice you when your behavior is out of order.
@@chrismog286 And for the women who are not married????
@@sub2inheels259 your father! If you don't have a father, you are shit out of luck. We tried to warn you about baby mama syndrome 🤷♂️
Auston, thank you for stopping this brother at 6:35 and calling out the "understanding" bit. Kevin Samuels used to tell his callers that inspite of all the trauma, hardships, misfortune they have been through "the world does not owe you understanding." People need to seek out therapy in any of its different forms and heal for real.
Exactly, you can not expect the world to understand you. Nor can you continue through life with a victim mentality and think everyone will give you a pass. When will the accountability ever come into the door if you allow that?
Black women have no choice but to adapt to African culture because…
1) There is no social assistance to prop them up
2) The society is still based around a traditional nuclear family
3) There are no special interest groups in Africa that encourage degeneracy and bad behaviour
This is also why Africans can come to America and do very well for themselves. They place a premium on family and education and don’t have their children running the streets looking like thugs.
Although I respect this man’s POV I prefer Kevin Samuel’s message of accountability over excuses. At the end of the day we are ALL responsible for the choices that we make.
Africans family mean extended family not nuclear family
@@janendegwa5462According to you
@@iamtheking3545 not according to me it's supposed to be that way and that's the way most people practice it because the nuclear family only stands as long as the husban and wife are alive our ancestors planned for every thing death especially who will take over after ,it's someone In the man's family so our families are not about nuclear family that's a western ideology and all those ideologies just lead to chaos
You effectively removed ALL responsibility from the husband's and fathers. Why aren't they financially responsible to the family and respinsible for their children's behavior??? And here's a fact for you -- Black men have the highest rate of UNEMPLOYMENT among ALL races of men in the US.
I’m an e.African in America and I can tell you that this is a stereotype that doesn’t represent AA women. This type of divisiveness harms all of us. It’s a stereotype much in the same way African people are stereotyped as stupid, poor, always begging for US aid…
Great stuff Auston as always. However, this dude thinks that liking manly ABW is a macho thing. He is taking this opportunity to show off. Yet he divorced an ABW and went to live in Kenya. Don't fool us dude. There is a reason for your current state of life, so say the truth or remain silent. Men don't need BM like these to muddy the pond and lead other men astray.
Yeah I didn't feel that cat at all. Except that at least he was willing to love black women from America. But he really didn't address Austons questions, and didn't address the issues that a lot of black men have with African-American black women.
And like one guy said, hes trying to erase all accountability for the actions of modern westernized black women
Yes there was some things where the government of the United States wouldn't let. Black man stay in the project housing. So oftentimes there were women back in the 50s and 60s who were black had a man or husband. And because the government said to the black people and the black woman. No the man cannot stay in the house in these projects the black woman took the project housing over the black man
Whereas I think some black women for maybe the Caribbean island countries would have said well to hell with your ghetto project housing.
This was a major cause of division of the black man and woman and the black family. Especially in large metropolitan Democrat control cities
And that would by and large the start of that rebellion and I don't need a man. Yeah I guess not if you got a house from the government your sugar daddy by another name.
Then your American sugar daddy government gave you food stamps. Hey you set room and board, at very low cost or no cost.
Then with the divorce laws and and child support laws. If that man did knock up a sister back in the 50 60 70s or whatever. He would have to pay out of his check from work the woman in that same ghetto project housing getting food stamps he would also have to pay her child support
Where does she need a man that except for getting some sex and maybe somebody to fix her car or something broke at the house?
There is no excuse for the behavior no matter what happened, and the attitude, do not being fit feminine and cooperative
Not being submissive, thinking they are wearing the pants and they are the head of the family. Yeah a lot of that stuff may have brought that mentality to a head that I mentioned above.
But that ain't the way God planned it and that ain't the way nature the natural course between man and woman is
So if that brother can manage things with what's out here more power to him. But like one brother did say he's divorced from a American black woman and now he's getting more submissive, feminine treatment from them sisters in Kenya. Though they are somewhat westernized a little bit too
But Kevin Samuels failed at his marriage, lied about his education, and was a deadbeat dad. I just don't understand taking advice from someone who has failed at EVERYTHING he gives advice about. Like, WTF. 🤷♀️
@loriannrichardson7644
It’s unfortunate that these are the ideas you have about a man you’ve never met!
Sure, what he said was extremely triggering to so many of us ABW.
However…if much of it were untrue
MOST of us wouldn’t have been so dang bothered!
It’s as the saying goes:
The hit dog hollers the loudest!
Sadly, we’ve chosen to identify with, and listen to , and believe all those hit dogs! ☹️
As a 31 year old black man I can see how a 24 year old could circum to the negative content of Kevin Samuel. I’m glad you had an older brother to counterbalance that message for you. I think the one thing about the African American passport bro’s as a first generation Kenyan-Ugandan born n raised in the states is that African Americans don’t offer each other enough grace. Men are critical and harsh to the women, and the women are the same with men, I find they approach interactions with a high level of skepticism which creates for tenuous transactional relationships filled with micro aggressions and miscommunication. Also in the grand scheme of recorded history slavery didn’t end that long ago, and post slavery was Jim Crow. There was only a 98 year gap between the ratification of the 13th amendment and the March on Washington. Even as Africans we are now just beginning to heal from the wounds of colonialism as an African Americans dealing still with trauma of slavery. It affects everything about us as black people globally. We need to be more empathetic towards one another, and listen, and not look for short cuts.
He dropping good stuff on the youngster. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Great discussion! It's okay if people have a different opinion than you. People need to stop being triggered when someone talks in opposition of you. Just accept you disagree and move on. You don't have to insult the guy. He seem like a really nice dude.
Mr. Todd is an adult, a real man. Unlike this narcissistic little Meerkat who is running around the word degrading black American women.
I agree. Kudos for being brave enough, Aston, to tackle this very tricky subject. We are all growing as a people and we will make mistakes along the way as none of us are perfect. The important thing is to be open to learning and growing.
I hope he has much success in his channel.
I would love to see more of this conversation 😊really good 👍
He mentions everything but "Substance". No man wants a lady in a range rover if she treats him like a pet.
He clearly did date or get around much, yet Africa has spoiled him clearly. AMERICAN woman would call him a square & weirdo as free as he dresses in Africa. These women here are looking for Thuggo pookie ray rays
Great insight from Mr. Troy there. Wish he had time to share more.
As African man from Africa living in the US now the dude say some truth
Troy, you are so right! I'm 77yoa and raised 3 boys alone. It was not easy. The stress of the grind hits you like a ton of bricks in old age. You are so on point.
I am truly considering connecting with and doing business with the passport bros, the entitlement and disrespect of these lovely ladies in the US that generational ABM built is disgusting.
@@ZeeZaidA Educated middle class African/Kenyan women are not a problem. The problem is where they meet these women ... at the club. No African man meets his wife at the club. You meet wife material in church, at school or at work. The women who club all days of the week are likely to be about the money.
you "truly considering" ? what are you waiting on ??
@@ZeeZaidA You are not being real. The Richest Real Estate on Earth and The Condition ? All Has Had a hard Time. Peace And Blessings To Juda.
@@ZeeZaidA I've met and corresponded with many an African-born women (engineers, PhD's, doctors, nurses, etc). The educated ones don't act the same as the ones born in America. They're more respectful and classier. And less twerking.
@@josephjohnson1057You have to lying. You make it sound like black women just walk around twerking. You must not actually meet women in the real world. Lol. Its usually the incel lames who love to diss black.women online.
We African men are old-fashioned. We want women who can cook, clean, obey, submit, and babysit. Happily married 15 years with 3 boys. 🤣
Well black American women would call that slavery.
factual
😂
@@lorenzo1753You are not lying. Feminism has really done a number on Western women. Mention the word “submit” around a ABW and she will literally have a mental breakdown 😂.
Yeah I’m glad clowns like this guy are dying off. They’re part of the problem and they’re full of 💩.
I love what these men are doing. Leading their people back home where they need to be.
Dude stop babbling! Home is where a person can trace their genealogy, not a story of a white man based on politics or political interest! Get off the thePan-Africann drugs!💊
Home is where your heart feel at ease. Lots of Europeans left their initial homes and went to other continents like Australia, America, south africa, south America and make those countries their home. Black people in America were forced to make America their home. My initial home is Congo, my second home is Tanzania, now in my 3rd home in mozambique. The whole.of africa is my home. Stop.with the bs. You can't trace no damn genealogy in America. Your initial home is africa, that's where your genealogy and don't come to me with we were always here bs
@@laurenclark1990Haven't seen u in a while. You still watching huh? 😂
@@laurenclark1990so black women don't disrespect black men?
East Africa ain’t your home buddy go back to Congo
Unless they are fit, willing to take on more traditional roles, and can keep their attitudes in check then no.....
Facts. With that aggressive attitude I'm not even joking they'll get a big reality check in Africa. No woke culture out there so you get judged by your actions not your gender
I love your show Auston, and i agree that Kenya is very appealing to many foreigners, May everything in Kenya favor you
Yes indeed , Salute to Troy and you .
He from Philly? It’s definitely starting to make sense now, I like him to be on the Umar 🚂. Why even bother, I could hear it in your voice 😆
I call cap 🧢. The women are a part of the overall quality of life. Much easier to build with women who aren’t pre programmed to give you difficulty. He doesn’t want to offend his Howard friends. But he is 💯% correct about the hamster wheel. Can’t get with the Quean rhetoric.
Super Simping personified.
It's not simp-ish. It's reality. Black men aren't doing well in the States. They are behind all other races. When they go overseas, they are purchasing prostitutes. They aren't marrying the women they say are superior. They are causing the same damage that they complain about in the States. The one thing they need to do, take responsibility and be men, they refuse to do. They first blamed the White man. Next, they blamed Black women. Now, it's every woman in the western hemisphere. The truth is, everywhere they go, they are. Perhaps they are the biggest issue. Kevin Samuel knew this and stated that they don't want correction but noted that if he bashed Black women, he could make tons of money. We are dealing with men who, largely, don't want to take responsibility.
I appreciate the Howard brother thank you for your perspective
Great content. He has great advice and wisdom. I believe culture and the type of woman choose makes the difference.She can be from anywhere. When you go to other countries you can find more traditional women..
With respect, this brother just spent nearly half his time big-upping sisters in the states; and I can agree with SOME of what he says. That said, if they're so great and he likes their "sauce", why is he over there then?
He said it for business and for a better living. Not every one move to Africa for women or men. Some leave because it's much secure other places
@@africaine4889 So, then do you think he's waiting on an American black woman or is he more likely than not "dating" African women? Do you think he would ultimately come back to dealing with American women in the end? Hard to say, but honestly he has Umar vibes with his talk.
Don't get me wrong, I believe in family and marriages. I love our women here in the states. Unfortunately, many of our sisters stand against us. I wish it weren't the case but it's true. Especially the ones indoctrinated into this societal system.
@@mikeandrews9944 from what I heard he prefers BA women.
Dude said a warm heart..... That's difficult to locate......
I been trying to understand this channel... but on this episode I think your guest brought knowledge. You can't just blame black American women neither can you run to Africa and expect salvation.... the start to any journey I guess it begins with self evaluation .
I hope you aren’t saying I need that
@@AustonHolleman I think that you as an american have some things your escaping from in the states. A form of trauma possibly, maybe a feeling of being oppresed, black families are not what they used to be, everyone is violent or obnoxious. Enjoy your travels but be careful in africa, it can bite back. People would kill to go to the country you are escaping from.
Yeah gtfo of the U.S. and let it Burn to the ground, which their doing a great job of doing anyway. BABYLON is falling just wait until inflation set in and the toxic food & water has a change to develop Cancer and DNA castration from all the chemicals they're pumping into to Food. Besides the toxic Femininism from all races including KKKiesha yeah I'm sure people are beating the doors down to get OUT NOT in the States!
@@Blanko.84 Lol here we go again, every time a brother is living a positive, life, be careful this be careful that. America is all a show case built on corruption.
Then we reverse it
We would do the same to leave
So now..tell us what's wrong. You will possibly lose YOUR LIFE in the U.S. then abroad. We're trying to tell you this BUT you don't listen and can't figure out why we would leave OBVIOUSLY the country ISN'T ALL IT'S CRACKED UP to be. But isn't that everyone learning that the grass isn't greener on the other side
In africa you fall in line or you suffer
So, what you’re saying is:
Fall in line with Africa…
Or Africa will fall on YOU!😂
Women in Kenya own properties too,Kenyan women are very independent yet submissive and respectful.
He’s right Kenyans are well educated, American college students even pay 💰 Kenyans to write their essays and other college work. The standard was so good that American colleges became suspicious and questioned the work. Now Kenyans are LOWERING their standard of work so not to be rumbled by American colleges 😂😂
🤐🤐🤫🤫🤣🤣😂
So true. This story was featured in major news media all over the world. And the young Kenyans "assisting" these American college students with their assignments are students themselves or recent graduates. Shows just how good the Kenyan education system is.
WOW! 🤣
@@mumbingugi when they accuse graduates in Kenya for being jobless, what do you say? we blame our education system and recently changed it to another system. but for me, the blame is the rot of the governance that has lead to corruption, tribalism and lack of innovation and building of business due to broken policies and corrupt environment. Educated people cannot thrive in this environment that exist in Kenya. You come across educated people as the guy says, but no business, or well paying job or property ownership which happens in the US.
@@calvoh9715 Youth unemployment is certainly one of the most acute challenges facing Kenya and Africa as a whole. It is particularly hard for graduates and their families because they have sacrificed a lot of time and money. Increasingly, young Kenyans are working abroad and in the process, improving their lives, their families' and their governments through much-needed remittances. And because they are mostly well-educated, Kenyans are on the whole able to get well-paid jobs outside Kenya. Btw there are well-paid jobs in Kenya but they are not enough to absorb all seeking them. There is also a vibrant private sector with a dominance of small and medium-sized businesses. Kenyans love owning their own small businesses are proud to call themselves The Hustler Nation!🤣🤣
I’m just viewing this video (late) I find this dialog quite interesting. Just wondering about the family dynamics of each male that has a negative view point of AA Women. I believe this would show some similarities that helped shape your point of view. The inventory of one’s self may also be helpful. I say this because the brush you’re using appears to be quite broad and your canvas seems to be equally narrow. jsmpov
Great interview
Loving your guest
Dope interview! I don’t really care if she got money or not tbh.
Blaming others 1.
Self accountability 0.
What the interviewed person said was true
It depends which country you are in Africa not only in America where women have cars, properties . There’s lots of women in some countries in Africa who own property.
Yep .
When you go to 5:55 Auston has a look on his face like what this dude is saying is just not sinking in at all.
Range rover analogy killed me because if a woman is fine. I don't care if she sitting at the bus stop.
Well done Aston, for taking on a very controversial subject, I hope your channel takes off. Ignor the jealous folk.
No, Brazil, Fiji, New Papua, Bahamas, Panama, Columbia, Australia, Jamaica, DR. Like it's plenty of places we can go, along with foundational black Americans or Africa.
Foundational Black Americans represent a diaspora group that experiences significant hardships, leading some individuals to believe that any other place would offer better opportunities than the United States.
God was cuttin that man mic out so we didn't have to hear that pandering 😂. I was with him in the beginning talking about how our division is systemic.. He lost me after that though.
He a flip flopper
Lol
@@africaine4889 👀 Hey Beauté!
Nice work, Auston.
Lol. They've damaged their own reputation GLOBALLY. Everywhere they go it's arguments, fights and tension. You don't see BM twerking on sacred land and fighting at the airports...
You think BM have a great reputation globally? All they have to do in watch American TV and see all the crime committed by BM to get a picture of them.
@@globalcitizen1138 odds are good that you had more BM run through you than there are BM in jail...
I like that the brother said that.
Understanding your opponent’s what society opposes in every culture is different
Auston, thank you for all of your efforts and on the ground reporting as you visit various countries around the world. In particular, countries within the Motherland. Also, thank you for introducing me to Mr. White (Troy) the OG. I really appreciate hearing his perspective as an experienced, traveled, distinguished gentlemen. I'm about a decade younger, however, I'm picking up what he's putting down. I hope you guys continue to build together. This is dope! The both of you have pretty much sold me on Nairobi, Kenya, I cannot wait to visit!
In Africa a lot of people own their mansions and cars while in America people are paying mortgages and car lease which I don't consider as owning.
Forget cars and mansions. They don't even own their own phones 😂 In Africa we're forced to buy everything outright.
Facts
What concerns me is the fact that people can't see Auston's obvious narcissism and poor social skills. The guy took his warped mentality to Rio and had his life threatened due to how disrespectful he was towards the women and culture. This guy went to an Asian country and was slapped by a 'fit, friendly, and feminine' Asian woman. Yet again, another continent...another negative encounter with women. I don't think this guy was reared with a strong father or surrounded by intelligent males and it shows.
Auston 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Once again this is an awesome discussion.
Auston, I want you to remember you are the host and you asked people to have a discussion with you for your audience which makes them your special guests. This dear Brother was NOT attacking you or your opinion, he was merely speaking as a 50+ year Brother that has real life experience with African American Women for over 35+ years. He has more experience than you are alive. All I’m saying is slow down sometimes and understand your opinion is valid it’s just a very small sample size of women and you have a small sample size of years past the age of 18 year old women.
This brother was not debating you nor could he. You don’t have enough data to debate him. But you could’ve used him as a credible reference source and value his 50+ year experience and for you at acknowledge its so much more to the historical story of African American women than you a acknowledging, mainly because you don’t fully understand how history effects women in the culture of oppression.
It appears to me that you got in your feelings and personalized his comments and then you cut off the conversation that we the audience was really enjoying. Auston you chose to have a public conversation with a 50 years Brother that was in the HBCU community. Honor him with your patience and respect and openness to listen even if you are not in season to receive. You don’t have to receive but as a guest, you owe it to him to listen with respect and to show you value his perspective even though you have your own perspective.
I support you and your channel and I have no doubt that you will continue to grow and learn from your experiences.
Go In Grace
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No it’s not a very small sample. The majority of women I dated were in their 30s because the women that were 21 when I was 21 were busy chasing my grandpa so I don’t that statement you made is valid.
Where are you getting this defense mode from? We weren’t debating? I just asked him questions I barely even talked.
@@AustonHolleman Dear Brother, when I speak of sample size I’m referring to the amount of dating years you spent in America since you turned 18 to the time you left. Because you only had 5years of full time meaningful dating under your belt, that would be considered a limited sample size. And I should have been more clear in saying the discussion seemed to cut off and end rather suddenly. I admit my impression is just that, because I was not in the room to pick up on the energy directly. I will concede I am reading something that does not exist.
Please forgive.
However,… Auston you are on the cusp of $Millions$!
The opportunity is coming into absolute clear focus.
For now continue your travels around Africa having discussions with women and men like your doing. And in 6 months tell the world this…
Make an announcement saying for the last however long you have been traveling and meeting people of all different backgrounds and cultures outside of the United States. Tell the world for some reason the woman of the United States continue to defend themselves and say they are misunderstood! Tell American women they are in luck. Announce a 30 or 60 day stop to interview and have open conversations for women to come on your platform to explain where black men and black women are not understanding each other.
Start things off in the American Black Mecca Atlanta. Have tour dates in New York, DC, Detroit, Chicago, all the way to Las Angeles and every big city in between.
You would become a major brand and you will have reached millions in a short period of time. In 9 months you can be a 6 figure a month RUclipsr. The sacrifice is immense, the details are massive. But the rewards is life changing for you and your family.
It’s time!
@lovelife247lol not sure what your trying to say but dating has changed from the 90's and 2000's to today, I'm speaking from experience.. I'm successful now well established but at one time I was a savage running the streets of Chicago was I given a pass on my actions then? No one said it's his environment that made him this way so we need to try to understand. That was a me problem and I had to fix that, so I have to disagree with the guy from philly,
@lovelife247lol
What? Aren’t there Enough platforms and podcasts out in the world of RUclips Land where bw of every age and circumstance are explaining themselves?
Where have YOU been, friend?🤣
When he said I’m a Christian🙄 I knew the direction the interview was heading
Facts lol I knew the direction this was heading once I saw he was wearing those shorts and topaz jewelry
So what’s wrong with his shorts and turquoise jewelry?!🤷🏽♀️😉
Thank you Mr. Troy, You know your history concerning "The Black Women".
Good conversation. Thank you.
Excellent content Auston.
The Brother made some valid points.
Truth is, if most of these special sauce women he’s referring to would listen to men, many of the problems would be solved.
There’s always hope for everyone, but it doesn’t mean they want help. I also noted that this brother is also divorced for some reason… Hopefully it wasn’t to much special sauce for him to handle.
Haha! This reminds me of a comment made in a scene on the tv series FAME.
Apparently, there was a battle being made for Leroy between the bgirl and the wgirl during a ballet practice.
Sista was bragging” the darker the berry” rhetoric which the wgirl very calmly replied..” yes, and perhaps it’s (the juice) a little TOO sweet”.which is a problem if you’re diabetic, which was her point!
I heard , and saw that exchange and thought…oh SNAP! 😳
What an amazing observation! Most probably never looked at it quite like that!
I know the term used here is sauce…but it’s all the same thing!
Since then I never used that as a measuring tool against other races of women, and me.
In truth, given similar upbringing & circumstances, women are all the same.🤷🏽♀️
Black men, in general, tend to have animosity toward Black women, mainly outside of Africa, across the board. Even when Black women come from Africa into the Western world, Black men of all strides transfer that animosity to African women. This is a deep psychological hate of self. This is a phenomenon that requires deep thought and dismantling. It is terrifying and disheartening to look into the mirror, into your soul, and literally detest what is looking back at you. To detest ones women is to regrettably hate the womb from which the Creator give you life. Other men listening to Black men lament on their hatred for their mothers and sisters are left to wonder, “Are Black men curse?” When I say Black men, I am referring to Black men born to Black women. The creator gave Black women the assignment, in the face of exponential hate emanating from everyone on the planet towards her, at the expense of sacrificing their lives 36-40 weeks, to give Black men the opportunity to EXHALE. What a feat. No Black woman’s womb, no Black man. In as much as all the other non Black women claim entitlement to the respect and the resources of the Black man, they certainly would not grant you, Black men, the pleasure of giving you life. Curse the root and you curse the tree. Cursing your women is cursing yourselves.
Hmm. Didn’t Kim Kardasian have 4 kids by her black husband?
Black women clearly aren’t the ONLY women on earth who carry, and give birth to black offspring, so let’s get over that nonsense shall we? 🤷🏽♀️
HAHAHA Facts! Hold the "special sauce".
Nice dialog, that being said what is the name of this apt/condo as I want to travel to kenya on a vacation to celebrate my 50th .
This guy is out of touch, Kevin Samuels was a Truth Serum for men and women. You couldn't b.s. your way through a conversation with that man. Trauma isn't a healthy place to build any relationship from. We all need counseling and then understand what a relationship is for, the roles both parties should play and the duty involved. You can't as a woman run your mouth cuss out your husband and think things will be ok, the reverse is true, you can't berate your wife, punch her, cuss her out not provide for her and think things will be well.... Kevin Samuels was the man, the truth, the legend he will be missed.
Well…usually it’s the wife or girlfriend punching the men!
Most guys know better than that, if they have ever an ounce of sense!
Best guess ever!!! He said some real shit
Love this conversation. Enjoyed the other parts as well, but glad you got to unlock this side as well. I would say though that The States is not the only place you will find the professional black women with their own as you describe. There are more and more places, including further down south on the continent.
Good sit down with a foundational Blk American who understands history very refreshing . Good 1 Auston
Kenya women especially the Kikuyu women at minimum own some land but won’t tell or advertise it.
I think that guys likes to hear himself talk regardless if he makes sense or if he contradicts himself as he talks.....
What does her having material things has to do with her attitude and behaviors?
This was exactly my thought as I watched.. that statement is the result of American commercialism as a measurement of ones worth.. or a major part of their self worth.. the individualistic mindset.. things vs internal wealth.. .true riches. I would take a poor (not broke) woman who has riches in attitude and mental attitude over a go getter boss chick with her own porche and 5 room mansion fk her SPECIAL SAUCE there's a reason she's cooking with that sauce ALONE 🍳 😅
One of the best video iv'e seen in a long time ! sorry Austin he is RIGHT that is us in American black women for sure, Esau made it hard for us and we excelled in what we have accomplice here thank you !were seviers for sure!!! my sisters are happly married in my family with a good life also? we all are not the same but we work hard to get what we got like no others black being slaves in the past in America? as women. Auston i don't know how your life was but all black families are hard some lives are good? but dealing with the system is crazy. in America.
Fake hair, nails, butts, eyelashes and tattoos is a turnoff for me in any race. Or location..
Butts? 😅
It's not women's problems if you choose to skin it.
@superodalisque lol. The data shows that whenever men have standards, it becomes a problem with women.
Smart men know this.
@patriciacoley3801 Absolutely. You do understand the data shows black women in some locations percentage-wise undergo BBLs at a higher rate than other women. Again, location is relative, but I take my standards wherever I go.
@@icycaribe Umm. That is, when you yourself don't ALSO have such things, being an american black woman. It seems as if the world expects us all to be the exact same thing these days! It's really getting to be a tiresome drag (is that an expression?) 🥱!
Yes Kenyan education is top notch
good stuff love the knowledge in this
TROY is speaking facts 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊
How did Auston find a traveling simp 😮😂
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Auston, you are in the right place...for you and your generation. Black women have carried the black family on their backs for 400 hundred years. No man, No money...no respect not even from the people they carried. Stay over there and find what YOU think YOU need. Your mentor Troy is very wise...listen to him. You are not old enough to understand what happened to us...black women have lost homes, jobs and money behind their sons, husbands and brothers committing crimes, stealing from them and they have bailed them out, taken them in and prayed for them. Allow Troy to help you better understand. I was blessed to have both my parents and an extended family who were top notch. I wish you well.
Your words have deeply touched me as a Kenyan woman - so painful and yet so true. I see you my sister.
I’m African American, my husband is Nigerian… the men are born and raised to lead families and to provide for them especially first sons. ( I personally haven’t been with an African American man for almost 15 years… not because I don’t like them but because I lived in nyc and it’s all black people that live here but I’d never bash them because I respect them tremendously)
Our children are seeing a dynamic that hasn’t existed in generations. I do think we should all see things other places to then heal and fix ourselves.
But I definitely feel like this young man is young and he doesn’t have a tremendous amount of life experience or understanding which is why his videos don’t offend me at all.
I’m happy to see him explore and travel and hopefully read to fully understand life, he’s asking the right questions because our community is in shambles, but he’s not getting the right answers. Post traumatic slave syndrome by dr joy Degruy is good starting place.
Black women are goddess. They are warriors, very strong ,and intellectual compacity.
That said African women know how to be feminine with their man. They separate warrior mom with loving submissive mate.
Black USA women need to learn this skill.
This is a mature Black Man speaking from Wisdom, not youth.
Cause he travelled outside of US and more specifically now he is where his roots are...
Glad Auston stopped the guy when he did. Call out the results this man is so proud of.
The results are horrendous. Nothing i would ever be proud of.
Ok, I’m an e. African (Tanzanian + Ugandan) in America and I definitely 💯 support African-American Women. Auston, when you become wealthy (and I wish that for you) I believe that you’ll have another epiphany and fall in love with AA women again.
I bet my life on it I won't.
😜😜😜😜😜😜😜 I hear ya Auston. That they would have to do a 360° turn around completely from the way. The average, every day black American woman thanks and behaves. Though yes of course there are good black women that we can deal with but they seem to be in the major minority
But I hear you bro ain't no way when a man get used to feminine fit cooperative submissive women who appreciate you. And know how to talk to you right will ever want to get back with the American westernized defiled typet black American or any other ethnicity American woman that are the norm in 2023.
It's hard to find those who are not programmed and messed up by us and Western societies brainwashing
@@AustonHolleman ok then stop talking about them/ us. We’re not all the same and it’s tough out here when we have to shoulder everything and still look pretty. I was like you going to a new land, and it was AA women who showed me the most compassion. So as an African I guess I kinda feel a bit protective. Please stop talking bad about AA women. Just enjoy your preference.
@@imaleo7181 so you aren’t African then you are just an American
@@imaleo7181 who talked bad about them in this video?
That brotha needs to be a politician.
Auston you did not introduce your guest. He is a USA based producer based in Kenya?
PHILLY IS RIGHT ON POINT THATS WAH IM COMING BACK HOME KENYA IS THE SHIT
Salute KS 🌊
A black man should be opened to his options and quality of life regardless of race of woman he chooses to be with.
I say it's time to change the recipe, because that secret sauce, for the majority of us, just isn't cutting it.
Bro where did you get this Simp from?
Was it windy? I couldn’t hear most of what your guest was saying, something wrong with the microphone?
Male feminist or simp talking about partnership
Facts 😂
Now i agree with this brother, that's my opinion too
As an African I feel both American Black Men & Black Women have alot of trauma and need alot of healing . I feel both of you cannot blame each other. You both have to change & break the culture acquired or build whilst you were living in all that trauma. Again like the Jews like the Indians like the Arabs you need to create a community that changes this new damaging culture and start a fresh. It means both Older Men and Women sitting down like elders and coming together and designing something beautiful ( not draconian for todays times) that will work and better the lives of your communities as a whole and change th narrative of your communities. You already have the amazing churches I feel church pastors can be involved. Not forgetting some Blacks are muslims and some are atheist. I guess it has to be something that caters for the diverse. I know it can be done, because there is already a few systems in place. If other communities can do it I think you all can do it. That used to be the status Quo in ancient Africa. Why is it that we cannot do it now?
You can’t be a lawyer in Kenya without being certified and approved by the authorities here 😊
Although the guy spoke well, he doesn't know much about reality. He has a Matrix mindset and not a realitt mindset..
This is also true for all other high-calibre professions like doctors and engineers and is done to weed out quacks with questionable qualifications.
Yah but can apply for kenya school of law and within 2 years he can be a lawyer
@@charlesbabu5845 True. Wanted them to realize that as professionals, it is not a question of simply setting up shop in Africa. There is a process to be followed and it can be lengthy.
I have a question for this guy if American black woman is so great and strong like he say, then why is he in Africa? This guy sounds like Dr. Umar low key, in the 1980s black woman made a choice and they chose the Government over black men. Ks gave the woman who called into his show what they deserved. The thing is they didn’t like what they heard, the delivery man come on, this dude is low key pandering. Be honest women have no tact when it comes to telling men anything. It’s a two way street, they confusing be load, masculine, rude, cursing, and uncountable with being strong 🤦🏽♂️. I’m sick of these pandering lies, Kevin Samuel tried to help black women not destroy them. Keep flying my brothers ✈️✈️
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤that response 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯AFRICA
I don't want nothing to do with a strong aggressive woman those are masculine traits hes saying he love it what lol
He doing all that pandering...I got 2 questions for bro.
1. Why is he not with his "kick-ass" ex-wife?
2. Why is he in Africa? Lead by example brother.
He’s a hypocrite if ABW are so great tell him to move back to Atlanta and find him a queen. There’s a reason he’s in Kenya lol
Does he HAVE to be living in ATL ?
Can’t he find an ABW in the states, and decide to live in Africa WITH her?🤔