This comment has nothing to do with this case, I just want to take a moment to thank judge toler. I was going through a horrible situation and hurt, I literally healed myself and kept my head up with dignity and pride all due to your advice . My kids are happy and thriving bc I'm more balanced and a relationship that I had given up on and came to peace with came back stronger and better than ever, bc you taught me how to react like a grown woman and what to focus on......myself.....so from the bottom of my heart thank you, thank you thank you♥️
I love All the judges Advise but unfortunately I am still a single Full-time Single Father just can't find the right one yet but still love your show's
OH YES DIVORCE COURT JUDGE YOUR BEAUTIFUL WISE AND MAKEUP ALWAYS ON POINT NICE NECKLACES I LOVE YOU AND YOUR ADVICE I WISH EVERYONE A GREAT LIFE BLESSINGS
If she was 15 and he was 22, then she spent her youth being with him. Now that her kids are older she’s trying to enjoy her life. This happens a lot when there is a big age gap and the younger person didn’t get to enjoy themselves before being tied down. Plus he’s a gambling addict...they both need to move on.
Kev Tony.. THE POINT IS she was a young child and he was young but an ADULT. Being with her was a crime.. he could have went to jail.. If her parents PERSUED that.
Kevwe Tony children can commit murder and is considered a minor in most countries. Either way, he met her when he should’ve been in a completely different life stage. Picture a high school sophomore dating a recent college graduate. They should have nothing in common in terms of life goals at that point. That’s not ok
She said it. She always has to pick up the pieces or find resolution for HIS gambling problem. Staying with him without resolving the gambling addiction would be just asking for more of the same so I'm glad she left.
Granny said never be with a woman whose always in the club , because most time they have hoeish tendencies.Granny was correct and also what kinda example a grown woman showing her daughter by clubbing 4 times a week.
@@gazastripmad exactly. She's not setting a good example for her daughter. My mom said in your 20s it's all about you. When the mom was younger she should of did her clubbing before she had kids.
Well look at them then maybe you can figure it out. She probably said it over if you don't marry her like alot of woman do. He just dumb enough to get married instead of leaving her for the streets where she belongs.
They've been together for 20 years & married for just 4. This is the first situation wherein I feel like maybe they just shouldn't have gotten married. How much money does a man have to have to be able to stay in a casino for 8-10 hrs?????
At the 9:10 mark, He definitely is cheating - when "he's at the Casino", and she tells him she'll come by there ,and he's no longer there. Casino is just the coverup
I divorced my husband last year. He was going to the casino, which led to cheating and drugs. They go hand in hand with gambling. I wasn't shocked at all. I just 🏃♂️.. When your addicted to gambling, it's like being addicted to drugs. The person wants to be able to do what they want. So, they don't want to be in a relationship or marriage that will require them to be accountable.
I'm not going to lie, if my wife spent Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and sometimes Sunday in a club I'd think she was either cheating/ putting herself in a position where she could cheat.
Doward Washington she was 15 when his 22 year old behind got with her she never got to experience it so it seems she’s trying to recapture that part of her life
@@kenishabrown8929 another episode leaving me wondering how did they not know these flaws BEFORE committing to each other? Don't commit to a sh**7th situation. Keep the relationship open. I can do bad all by myself I don't need additional problems.
@@Sabrewood13 if I had a teenage daughter I'd train her on how to use a gun and a switchblade and leave no evidence behind because it's clear, statistically, there are predators out here after that jail bait p**y!!!
Did these people even want to get married? Like, seriously! Sixteen years of their nonrefundable life minutes have been spent only to get this mess in return? I don't get it.
#Huhh? What did he say would keep him in the marriage? I rewinded it about 10 times and still don't understand, I guess whatever he said was rude? At 1st I thought he was snag a tooth becuz most folks with no teeth talk with their mouth half opened but then again it look like he got tobacco in his mouth. I just can't deal with someone feeling as If I'm a babysitter, momma, or in the relationship alone, Jus be alone then, 20 years or not. If someone is pulling you down it's better to get up & go.
i like the way she THINKS, i like the way she LOOKS & I LIKE the way she handles her BUSINESS; i am talkin' about judge TOLER, she's all that and a bag of CHIPS!!! the WORLD need her wisdom to help us figure out how to APPRECIATE one another, guide the younger generation in the right direction... bc how can they get right, watching us do wrong... i dislike that she's gone away; AS IF she can be replaced? what didot made that decison, to CHANGE her and the scenery that was workin'?
Hey both of ya are JACKED UP one FOOL blowing money at the casino the other FOOL running the STREETS together time it seems like they look for a reason to be apart
Lol this dude wants to jump in last minute and try to argue his way outta paying her that $300. Naw bruh, you giving her that money 😂😂😂😂 lil' ol' gambling, money-flushin' ass lol.
That's why they say to do what you love and let love find you. I love dancing too, so whoever I date or marry will probably be met at a dance. Giving up dancing to suit some guy's ego is not an option. Tell him to sign up for a player's card at a casino with a club. That way he can play with some free credit coupons and she can dance at the same time.
The MRS., Really Needs to RUN. 👟👟💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨The MRS., didn't have anything to be at Home fore, beyond the Children. I find it VERY interesting that The Trifling Good for nothing had the nerve to think the MRS., should be sitting around the house while he's out an about. . . SMH!
@@BigAce3000 Greetings Br Kenneth, 1. All Ms. Lady had to do was give thought to the Reasons why she told Him' NO TWICE and RUN. . . 👟👟💨💨💨💨💨 2. He's already Stated that Money would be His Only Reason for Staying Married.
If she would stay home instead of in the club, she would know what her children were doing. How can you expect your children to do the right thing if they have no good role models?
A mother shouldn't be going out four nights a week your daughter's watching what you do show respect for yourself and they will grow up having respect for themselves
They seem a lot (not little) immature. clubbing & pissing away money @ the casino,they act like two brothers living as roommates. These two will always be broke together or separated because they don't know how to be Adult & do Adult things with their money, I feel empathy for the children because the "Mom" acting as a big homie to their Son,so to justify her clubbing without the kids getting upset with her & to have her son be a in home babysitter to his younger siblings she pacifies the son by allowing girls to come over to spend the night in his room unsupervised@ some point she gotta sleep or leave to go clubbing & the baby machine is then activated what good is a no closed door policy if no one is there to watch when it's being closed I guess they don't have to close the door if mom & dad is always gone🤷♀️I wonder if she's gonna stop clubbing when that first grandchild she helped her son get comes along..js
Why did the judge award her that money without any proof that the tablet was even worth that much(receipts etc...) when in other cases she didn't award money because they didn't have receipts....she just took her word for it....unless they are iPads or anything Microsoft, tablets aren't worth the material used to make them
In this case, it really didn't matter the value of the tablet, he admitted to misappropriating household funds for more than the value of the tablet (like rent). It really wouldn't have mattered what the object was.
Your momma told you right. If a man is overly jealous, it’s because he knows what he is sneaking and doing. I wished I believe that years ago. I thought he was so crazy about ME! You can imagine what a wake up call that was!!😳🥵
you have to raise kids and agree together... letting your son girlfriend spend the night is just WRONG!! you teaching them that fornication is ok !! my son moved out to lay up with his gf, that tells me that her mom is as ratchet as her !! she too old to still be clubbing he to old for gambling !!
No good has ever come of clubbing or gambling. Why can’t they take long walks , go to museums, or do volunteer work, as opposed to drinking and shaking a behind in a club or wasting money gambling? Makes no sense....
Someone should ask him if he would feel as comfortable with his daughter bringing a boyfriend to the house for some extra r&r, let's see how blase he is about the whole thing🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
This is a very beautiful couple and I just say that they need time apart to get in tune to themselves and allow God to leave them in their next Direction clearly it's not healthy going and playing three and four thousand dollars in a casino that is not going to take care of you is not going to give you health coverage is not going to secure you a beautiful new home beautiful clothes paying for the children's college degree or vocational skills for whatever they may choose I see the casino is nothing but the devil's household and we need to stay away from it not lecturing but I don't like no casinos in terms of the club the clubs can be fun as opposed to a casino but it comes a time where you just got to get in tune to your higher self and just walk away from that this young lady didn't deserve to have to deal with a man that's a gambling addict and then he want to come and pick a fight with her I'm so against gambling addicts because I've seen so many people lose their homes take their lives many marriages have been destroyed because of a dope fiend alcoholic as well as a gambling addict not a good thing these to good people can make it if they allow God to leave their lives.🤔🌬️😲🤑🥇🥈🥉🌪️🤐🤧☹️
This comment has nothing to do with this case, I just want to take a moment to thank judge toler. I was going through a horrible situation and hurt, I literally healed myself and kept my head up with dignity and pride all due to your advice . My kids are happy and thriving bc I'm more balanced and a relationship that I had given up on and came to peace with came back stronger and better than ever, bc you taught me how to react like a grown woman and what to focus on......myself.....so from the bottom of my heart thank you, thank you thank you♥️
I don't know if Judge Toler reads these comments but she has an IG.
Jessica Newman Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉
Great. I love that. Like my granddaddy used to say. Boy little stones eventually makes big boulders as long as they keep rolling.
Congratulations to you!
I gotta say watching DC actually made me feel a little more equipped for marriage. She drops a lot of jewels
I love All the judges Advise but unfortunately I am still a single Full-time Single Father just can't find the right one yet but still love your show's
They have both found unhealthy outlets to manage their daily stress.
and they seem totally incompatible.
Time to go to therapy..
OH YES DIVORCE COURT JUDGE YOUR BEAUTIFUL WISE AND MAKEUP ALWAYS ON POINT NICE NECKLACES I LOVE YOU AND YOUR ADVICE I WISH EVERYONE A GREAT LIFE BLESSINGS
If she was 15 and he was 22, then she spent her youth being with him. Now that her kids are older she’s trying to enjoy her life. This happens a lot when there is a big age gap and the younger person didn’t get to enjoy themselves before being tied down. Plus he’s a gambling addict...they both need to move on.
Kev Tony.. THE POINT IS she was a young child and he was young but an ADULT.
Being with her was a crime.. he could have went to jail.. If her parents PERSUED that.
@ 15 IS a child. What he did was predotory at the age of 22. Yuck.
Kevwe Tony children can commit murder and is considered a minor in most countries. Either way, he met her when he should’ve been in a completely different life stage. Picture a high school sophomore dating a recent college graduate. They should have nothing in common in terms of life goals at that point. That’s not ok
He gambles way too often- but dang, she is partying WAY WAY WAY too much... Who has all that energy anyway? 😆
She said it. She always has to pick up the pieces or find resolution for HIS gambling problem. Staying with him without resolving the gambling addiction would be just asking for more of the same so I'm glad she left.
Grandma said never marry a gambler and this is why. Grandma is never wrong.
Yep. Granny is never wrong. Never date anyone with any type of addiction.
@@JuicedUpLemon yep or a wife beater.
Granny said never be with a woman whose always in the club , because most time they have hoeish tendencies.Granny was correct and also what kinda example a grown woman showing her daughter by clubbing 4 times a week.
@@gazastripmad exactly. She's not setting a good example for her daughter. My mom said in your 20s it's all about you. When the mom was younger she should of did her clubbing before she had kids.
This man ought to be ashamed of himself letting girls spend the night!!
He is addicted to gambling and she is his "bank"
20 years???? That means she was 15 and he was 22?!?! That’s not a gd look!!!
Is it just me or did anyone see how the wife Rolled The F@#K Out after the judges ruling! 😲😆 lol
They're too old to be clubbing and gambling. They're always broke and being ratchet. Terrible role models for their poor kids.
I was thinking the same thing!
Someone who rejects your marriage proposal twice can bully you into marrying them? How?
Well look at them then maybe you can figure it out. She probably said it over if you don't marry her like alot of woman do. He just dumb enough to get married instead of leaving her for the streets where she belongs.
Ummmm, according to their current ages, if they have been together a total of 20 YEARS then she was only 15 and he was 22 when they started dating 😮
That's disgusting...what was this adult male doing with a child...where were her Parents OMG
@@momonie4
Exactly!
I wonder why the judge didnt say nothing about that
Well, too late for that
He layed away on that poongkants,now he wants a refund. Too late.🤣🤣🤣🤣😋😋😋
Im not surprised he's letting his son's have girls sleep over. He was 22 sleeping with a 15 year old
They've been together for 20 years & married for just 4. This is the first situation wherein I feel like maybe they just shouldn't have gotten married. How much money does a man have to have to be able to stay in a casino for 8-10 hrs?????
Great Point and Question
Dude said FINANCES!!!!!
I feel like both of them cheating
Brandan Charles Yup, seems like it.
At the 9:10 mark, He definitely is cheating - when "he's at the Casino", and she tells him she'll come by there ,and he's no longer there. Casino is just the coverup
I divorced my husband last year. He was going to the casino, which led to cheating and drugs. They go hand in hand with gambling. I wasn't shocked at all. I just 🏃♂️..
When your addicted to gambling, it's like being addicted to drugs. The person wants to be able to do what they want. So, they don't want to be in a relationship or marriage that will require them to be accountable.
Sometimes we just have to realize when someone doesn’t want us
loving these classic episodes!!!!
I'm not going to lie, if my wife spent Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and sometimes Sunday in a club I'd think she was either cheating/ putting herself in a position where she could cheat.
Doward Washington she was 15 when his 22 year old behind got with her she never got to experience it so it seems she’s trying to recapture that part of her life
@@Sabrewood13 Wow!!!!! That makes perfect sense.
Also if he's always at the casino then what's the point coming home to an empty house. Just sad!! Took her youth & trashed it!
@@kenishabrown8929 another episode leaving me wondering how did they not know these flaws BEFORE committing to each other? Don't commit to a sh**7th situation. Keep the relationship open. I can do bad all by myself I don't need additional problems.
@@Sabrewood13 if I had a teenage daughter I'd train her on how to use a gun and a switchblade and leave no evidence behind because it's clear, statistically, there are predators out here after that jail bait p**y!!!
He said finances?? Isn’t HE the reason for their financial issues? That took b. A. L. L. S.
Did these people even want to get married? Like, seriously! Sixteen years of their nonrefundable life minutes have been spent only to get this mess in return? I don't get it.
She in the club five nights a week. She doesn't know who spends the night there.
She's beautiful. Love the cheek bones.
#Huhh? What did he say would keep him in the marriage?
I rewinded it about 10 times and still don't understand, I guess whatever he said was rude?
At 1st I thought he was snag a tooth becuz most folks with no teeth talk with their mouth half opened but then again it look like he got tobacco in his mouth.
I just can't deal with someone feeling as If I'm a babysitter, momma, or in the relationship alone, Jus be alone then, 20 years or not. If someone is pulling you down it's better to get up & go.
I did the same thing..... reminded it several times then decided to go to the comments to confirm what I thought I heard
@Mia Winchester thank you
Same here. I couldn’t understand it at all ☺️
Me too. They must have bleeped it out
He said finances yall. I need my caption to hear
His tight mouth is triggering me in a negative way...
😆😆😆😆
😐🤐Right! Me too lol @CALIFORNIA GODDESS
Lmao
She beartiful i definitely understand that accent😂
Lmao she talking about her kids being a bad influence knowing she a bad influence
I wonder what he would say if the girl asked to spend the night over a boy's house or if she asked to have a boy to spend the night at their home?
Am I the only one who notice the change of necklace that judge Toler is wearing in every episode? 😊😊
She's all the way around lovely 😍
10:18 woman behind husband falling asleep. lol
Does he has any teeth? She needs too drop him and not look back.😂😂😂😂😂
House always win Grandma told me...
Cuz Grandma was a gambler
Is he out of his mind? Letting your sons have girls spend the night. Wtf?
Only a cheating man would allow such disrespect
She needs to take classes, painting, wine poetry etc not clubbing on every outing, she to grown for that
And he’s too grown to be spending the bill money in a damn casino every other day too! How about speaking on that!
i like the way she THINKS, i like the way she LOOKS & I LIKE the way she handles her BUSINESS; i am talkin' about judge TOLER, she's all that and a bag of CHIPS!!! the WORLD need her wisdom to help us figure out how to APPRECIATE one another, guide the younger generation in the right direction... bc how can they get right, watching us do wrong... i dislike that she's gone away; AS IF she can be replaced? what didot made that decison, to CHANGE her and the scenery that was workin'?
So basically he just wants to be married to support his gambling habit. Yikes!
I like the club atmosphere = RATCHED!!!!!!
Yeshurun Israel its too much
not exactly especially if she never got a chance to live her own life being married young
Yeeeeuuuppp .... he was cheating ! He probably got somebody else!
Casino and the club ??! After 20 yrs together y’all ain’t grown up yet??🤦🏽♀️
How is he going to talk about finances he's the one gambling thousands of dollars away every week! This man is truly the definition of foolish
I thought they were much older
The face that lady made at 5:07 tho!!!
🤣🤣
Hey both of ya are JACKED UP one FOOL blowing money at the casino the other FOOL running the STREETS together time it seems like they look for a reason to be apart
Ladies, please think twice before marrying addicted gambler! Children will go to college.
The husband can be called addicted gambler.
Lol this dude wants to jump in last minute and try to argue his way outta paying her that $300. Naw bruh, you giving her that money 😂😂😂😂 lil' ol' gambling, money-flushin' ass lol.
😂😂😂Not money-flushing!!! 💸💸🚽🧻
Cuz talk wit his mouth closed lol 😂 😁😆😁😄😐😑😶😬
They should’ve lied about how long the been together bcuz 15 and 22 that ain’t right 🥴
Did yall see the lady in the back 5:07
😂😂
He needs Gamblers Anonymous.
She had no funds for bills,but she has funds to go clubbing 🤔
He is wanting to punish her for the things and problems he causes. Typical Ninja move!! Gurl learn the game!!
That's why they say to do what you love and let love find you. I love dancing too, so whoever I date or marry will probably be met at a dance. Giving up dancing to suit some guy's ego is not an option. Tell him to sign up for a player's card at a casino with a club. That way he can play with some free credit coupons and she can dance at the same time.
When he gambled away the rent, electric/food money, I would have just🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️and don't look back.
The MRS., Really Needs to RUN. 👟👟💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨The MRS., didn't have anything to be at Home fore, beyond the Children. I find it VERY interesting that The Trifling Good for nothing had the nerve to think the MRS., should be sitting around the house while he's out an about. . . SMH!
They BOTH should be home feeding the marriage, not the club and casino, they're both liable for their failed marriage
@@BigAce3000 Greetings Br Kenneth, 1. All Ms. Lady had to do was give thought to the Reasons why she told Him' NO TWICE and RUN. . . 👟👟💨💨💨💨💨
2. He's already Stated that Money would be His Only Reason for Staying Married.
Pardon me, my honour, is this guy high? Indeed, Miss Green is chasing a ghost. He looks unconcerned about this relationship.
I wish they would quit answering for each other.
Good video
15:50 what did he say??
Yea I didn't catch that but evidently it was deep.
Oh he said finances. Is he chewing tobacco or something?
@@candystayinaturalalexander5869 Finances?! Something's telling me THAT...it's shelter not security💯
@@totalmrmeanor7586 EXACTLY
15:50 Why is saying finances so bad..SHES unemployed ❌
Together time won’t help two people who are escaping one another in the first place
I wonder if they would let their daughter sleep over a boys house. Would they let a boy sleep at their house??? WOW
If she would stay home instead of in the club, she would know what her children were doing. How can you expect your children to do the right thing if they have no good role models?
A mother shouldn't be going out four nights a week your daughter's watching what you do show respect for yourself and they will grow up having respect for themselves
Nice show
They seem a lot (not little) immature. clubbing & pissing away money @ the casino,they act like two brothers living as roommates. These two will always be broke together or separated because they don't know how to be Adult & do Adult things with their money, I feel empathy for the children because the "Mom" acting as a big homie to their Son,so to justify her clubbing without the kids getting upset with her & to have her son be a in home babysitter to his younger siblings she pacifies the son by allowing girls to come over to spend the night in his room unsupervised@ some point she gotta sleep or leave to go clubbing & the baby machine is then activated what good is a no closed door policy if no one is there to watch when it's being closed I guess they don't have to close the door if mom & dad is always gone🤷♀️I wonder if she's gonna stop clubbing when that first grandchild she helped her son get comes along..js
huh the father condonned the son having a girl over
Why did the judge award her that money without any proof that the tablet was even worth that much(receipts etc...) when in other cases she didn't award money because they didn't have receipts....she just took her word for it....unless they are iPads or anything Microsoft, tablets aren't worth the material used to make them
In this case, it really didn't matter the value of the tablet, he admitted to misappropriating household funds for more than the value of the tablet (like rent). It really wouldn't have mattered what the object was.
Your momma told you right. If a man is overly jealous, it’s because he knows what he is sneaking and doing. I wished I believe that years ago. I thought he was so crazy about ME! You can imagine what a wake up call that was!!😳🥵
I’m waiting
When and who takes care of the kids?!?
Why we ain’t see his teeth 🤔
she brutifull lol
you have to raise kids and agree together... letting your son girlfriend spend the night is just WRONG!! you teaching them that fornication is ok !! my son moved out to lay up with his gf, that tells me that her mom is as ratchet as her !! she too old to still be clubbing he to old for gambling !!
16 Yrs and you don’t know if you want to get married. The answer is NO.
I wish predatory behavior should’ve been acknowledged a bit more on this show specifically with Judge Lynn
Clubbing mum and gambling dad , rnr in your home is ridiculous. Unhealthy parenting, these 2 are irresponsible people.
No good has ever come of clubbing or gambling. Why can’t they take long walks , go to museums, or do volunteer work, as opposed to drinking and shaking a behind in a club or wasting money gambling? Makes no sense....
Learnt??
I don't have a lot of friends but the ones I do have don't come to my house around my wife that's a no no
Is it just me or is that bailiff damned hot?
Are these people grown ups???
They both are cheating.
He looks like Marvin Hagler
Someone should ask him if he would feel as comfortable with his daughter bringing a boyfriend to the house for some extra r&r, let's see how blase he is about the whole thing🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Y’all really be crying about the ages. Yes he was 22 she was 15. IT HAPPENS. Not saying it’s right. But it happens A LOT. Can y’all shut up
seems like that hit home for you benny
Two tamikas in one day , I don't like that lol thank God mine is spelt differently ....lol....love me some DC
if she is going out clubbing 5 times a week....come on.....she is a cheater
Jesus they both need Froyd!!!!!
So this man done took every penny to gamble with and now want to leave , Black Man Black Man Black man get it together
Both are behaving badly. Heathen behavior.
Hate gamblers
This is a very beautiful couple and I just say that they need time apart to get in tune to themselves and allow God to leave them in their next Direction clearly it's not healthy going and playing three and four thousand dollars in a casino that is not going to take care of you is not going to give you health coverage is not going to secure you a beautiful new home beautiful clothes paying for the children's college degree or vocational skills for whatever they may choose I see the casino is nothing but the devil's household and we need to stay away from it not lecturing but I don't like no casinos in terms of the club the clubs can be fun as opposed to a casino but it comes a time where you just got to get in tune to your higher self and just walk away from that this young lady didn't deserve to have to deal with a man that's a gambling addict and then he want to come and pick a fight with her I'm so against gambling addicts because I've seen so many people lose their homes take their lives many marriages have been destroyed because of a dope fiend alcoholic as well as a gambling addict not a good thing these to good people can make it if they allow God to leave their lives.🤔🌬️😲🤑🥇🥈🥉🌪️🤐🤧☹️
You need to learn to use some punctuation.
Shit, that’s one long-ass sentence. And hate to tell ya, God is not the answer to everyone’s problems
Bad women for bad men period! Clubbing and casino both bad
The woman has bad sense of dressing.
My pops used to let me bring chicks through and everything was cool
He got another woman r gay.. She got another man r gay..
James Thomas WTF?
@@snarkasticsquid2435 yea what do being gay gotta do with anything 🤷🏽♀️
James your family will still love you if you came out the closest 🤷🏽♀️
If he says it OK then it's OK. He the man
How can they appreciate a good woman when thier mom goes to the club 4 days out of a 7 days a week? That's showing them women don't respect men.