I'm here to say I'm pleasantly surprised you picked up my comments and discussed them. Follow up for the dates: they went really good and I'm awaiting a second date with the first girl and possibly with the second girl as well. The second girl was inexperienced in dating just like I am, and I honestly discussed different relationship things with her, and I think she liked it. We also discussed how guys were not at all polite to her on dating apps, so she's out of them now. On the mindset of positivity, that's something I started trying to implement just recently, around the time I found your channel. I also wanted to thank the bus driver for driving me around like in the old times. Didn't do it, but I'm sure to do it next time =) I got your play to win course downloaded, couldn't watch it just yet but I think I got a lot of ideas from there just from listening to your videos while I'm outside
My man!! Holy cow that's amazing! You and those girls are gonna have a great 2nd date, just like I predicted in this vid. You seem like a genuinely great human being with a ton of love to give, so that's not surprising. One thing you can do (if you want to!) on the next dates is have some fun asking really cool, deep questions. I use this app on my phone: www.partyqs.com/ You pick one question to ask her, then give her your phone and let her pick one question, then you, then her. It's a great way to quickly build a connection and get to the deeper, more interesting questions. Thanking the bus driver - every time you ATTEMPT to give a compliment (even if you can't do it), mate that's huge. I promise the more you push yourself to try, eventually you'll actually do it, you'll see the positive response, and then the momentum starts to build. Before you know it, you're complimenting everyone and giving out gratitude like crazy. Then life becomes REALLY fun, because you feel good, everyone around you feels good, they start giving you compliments back, which makes you feel even better, etc. Then life feels like you're surrounded by an entire world that loves you/respects you/likes you. It's nice. The Play to Win video course - just pick one chapter and watch 1 minute of the first video. Just 1 minute. Start with tiny little baby steps like that, rather than feeling like "I can't watch the whole course". Just watch 1 minute. You're doing great. Keep going. -Andy
I've started your approach anxiety program and after struggling with it for 3 months, I managed to talk to a woman. The conversation was only like 3 sentences before she said "sorry, I'm already taken, but it's great your taking the initiative.". I cried a tear of joy while walking home that day.
I started uploading videos on RUclips which was something I wanted to do FOR SO LONG and i finally did it mainly thanks you to Sir you're an absolute G 🔥💪
I highly identify with the third guy as you started describing him but I don't have any degrees. I'm barely holding my attitude and I "lost much of what I gained three months ago. I have the intention to move forward but everything is very wavy and unclear, I don't know if things will go well but listening to your podcasts is one of the things that still keeps me floating instead of sinking and my own way to attempt to move forward despite all the negative thoughts inside and lack of trust. Thanks for keeping my good attitude somehow alive and thanks for this podcast, it was very helpful yesterday and it still is. Celebrate each step
I'm here to say I'm pleasantly surprised you picked up my comments and discussed them.
Follow up for the dates: they went really good and I'm awaiting a second date with the first girl and possibly with the second girl as well.
The second girl was inexperienced in dating just like I am, and I honestly discussed different relationship things with her, and I think she liked it. We also discussed how guys were not at all polite to her on dating apps, so she's out of them now.
On the mindset of positivity, that's something I started trying to implement just recently, around the time I found your channel. I also wanted to thank the bus driver for driving me around like in the old times. Didn't do it, but I'm sure to do it next time =)
I got your play to win course downloaded, couldn't watch it just yet but I think I got a lot of ideas from there just from listening to your videos while I'm outside
My man!! Holy cow that's amazing! You and those girls are gonna have a great 2nd date, just like I predicted in this vid. You seem like a genuinely great human being with a ton of love to give, so that's not surprising.
One thing you can do (if you want to!) on the next dates is have some fun asking really cool, deep questions. I use this app on my phone: www.partyqs.com/
You pick one question to ask her, then give her your phone and let her pick one question, then you, then her. It's a great way to quickly build a connection and get to the deeper, more interesting questions.
Thanking the bus driver - every time you ATTEMPT to give a compliment (even if you can't do it), mate that's huge. I promise the more you push yourself to try, eventually you'll actually do it, you'll see the positive response, and then the momentum starts to build. Before you know it, you're complimenting everyone and giving out gratitude like crazy. Then life becomes REALLY fun, because you feel good, everyone around you feels good, they start giving you compliments back, which makes you feel even better, etc. Then life feels like you're surrounded by an entire world that loves you/respects you/likes you. It's nice.
The Play to Win video course - just pick one chapter and watch 1 minute of the first video. Just 1 minute. Start with tiny little baby steps like that, rather than feeling like "I can't watch the whole course". Just watch 1 minute.
You're doing great. Keep going.
-Andy
@@Andy_Wells I'll make sure to try both things. Thanks again and I wish you all the happy things
I've started your approach anxiety program and after struggling with it for 3 months, I managed to talk to a woman. The conversation was only like 3 sentences before she said "sorry, I'm already taken, but it's great your taking the initiative.". I cried a tear of joy while walking home that day.
You're an absolute legend. I did a video reading out and responding to your comment - it'll be out in a few days.
-Andy
I started uploading videos on RUclips which was something I wanted to do FOR SO LONG and i finally did it mainly thanks you to Sir you're an absolute G 🔥💪
Mate, amazing job! I left comments on a few of your vids.
@@Andy_Wells Thank you so much sir I literally look up to you so much it means a lot to me 🫱🏻🫲🏼🫂
@@Andy_Wells thank you so much bro that is so incredibly motivating for me 🫂🔥
Feel free to share your wins here in the comments so we can celebrate and give you credit.
-Andy
I highly identify with the third guy as you started describing him but I don't have any degrees. I'm barely holding my attitude and I "lost much of what I gained three months ago. I have the intention to move forward but everything is very wavy and unclear, I don't know if things will go well but listening to your podcasts is one of the things that still keeps me floating instead of sinking and my own way to attempt to move forward despite all the negative thoughts inside and lack of trust.
Thanks for keeping my good attitude somehow alive and thanks for this podcast, it was very helpful yesterday and it still is. Celebrate each step