That’s what I was expecting. Haha. The “turning to the grandma” would of been a good ending. I definitely thought the mom was going to say the wrong age or not know. 😂
Thanks for sharing that!!! I literally went with my 23yo daughter resently, and was thinking... "Does mouth move?" I was so puzzled!!! I didn't get it! Now i do. I was questioning my parenting skills (well, I still do...)
@@candilc trust and believe! Having you there helps her relax; idk why but those questions sound like a foreign language cause (my experience) seeing all the equipments and coats my mind starts racing thinking worst case senario; final Destination. So having my mom or dad or siblings eases and this video is literally how I acted lol 😂
This is relatable. my anxiety makes it hard to go to the doctors but at the same time I feel I can be more honest without a family member with me. Growing up though my mom tended to talk for me
Literally me when i go to my psychologist or psychiatrist. I stopped having my mom join me 2 years ago. Ive kinda over come the whole anxiety thing when going to see them. But i definitely did this since i was young.
That’s good though you can be honest with family present, because I literally used to lie when my mom was in the room and say I had to go to the bathroom and then tell the nurses the truth and ask them to tell my doctor
@@daniellegoodhart1785 i cant. my mom would speak for me and I didnt get to be honest about my mental health until I was out of high school and doing my own healthcare stuff.
at least in this case it looks like the mom is trying to get her to speak up for herself and she chooses not to. I've seen parents literally hover and speak for their child who are more than capable.
Yes it’s crazy huh? I always make my boys order their food with the waitress and answer to docs ect… I don’t need them being scared to order a pizza in the future 😂
@@leahlewis6487 good job. My parents always did everything for me and now that I’m 19 and still can’t order for myself my parents finally stopped doing everything for me. I have bad social anxiety now and it’s tough. “Either order by yourself or you won’t eat anything and will also not eat at home” “I’m not calling the pharmacy for you. Either call to order your medicine or no medicine at all. And you will be grounded if your withdrawal symptoms cause you to be irritated with us” (i take antidepressants. I get withdrawal symptoms if I’m out of it for long enough) Etc. now that I already have social anxiety, I panic a lot in fear but they’re being tough on me to try to get me over it.
@@whoopsdidntmeanto yeah it’s their fault for not starting me young but like they can at least be gentle about it. Social anxiety is worse when it’s forced
Our extremely communicative daughter is EXACTLY like this at the doctor's.... oddly I'm an RN and she's been around medical environments her ENTIRE LIFE 😂. 🤷🤦
This is so true 😭, I can relate so much 🤣. When I was kid to 16 years old, when sick, my mom or dad that always accompanied me to the doctors, and they're the one that answer the doctors question. Till I'm 17, when I was sick and went to a doctor with my mom, when the doctor ask me, me and my mom just silent, I look at my mom to let her answer the doctor question, but my mom told me to answer it on my own 😭. It was the first time and I feel awkward, Idk why 🤣. Sorry for my broken English.
You have nothing to apologize about. 99% of the ppl online with crappy spelling, grammar and reading comprehension are born and raised in English speaking countries, like the US. 😅
@@AvrillWolfie ik, but idk why i do that, one time i went to the hospital, the nurse asked my name and age and stuff like that, i kept looking at my dad😭 Idk why, but i do thattt😭😭
Same like idk if its ok even if they tryna help. People are scary and id rather not commune unless ive known them long enough/seen them so many times to the point im comfortable around them
I’m 22 with social anxiety I have to go to all appointments with my mom because she’s my safe person. This is so relatable but if anyone else goes through this know you are loved and so so strong❤️
Shiann. Glad you got your Mom as your helper but hopefully you're working on talking for yourself. Do t use her as a crutch as your parents will not be in your life forever. Everyone struggles with dealing with strangers at medical appointments,school,work etc but if course some more than others. Continue working on it.
I know it's kids/teens who mainly watch this, but when you get older, it'll be YOU answering all the questions for your mom when she's old and you have to help with her doctors appointments.
*That doesn't apply to everybody because some people do not plan on taking care of their parents when they get older.... Especially if they are not close with them!!!*
@@ivoryisgone6009 if you can't take on that responsibility, then yes. I just said this so that y'all are aware about what it takes to care for your parents just like they did for you. However, some will just send their parents to nursing homes to let someone else do the job.
Good point! Like you said a lot of kids and teenagers watch this and it's just a different generation, many won't understand the point you just made. But being adult comes with many and sometimes unexpected responsibilities
As a mother of a three year old, this makes me nervous for the future 😅. I would do anything for my sweet-bean at any age, but god damn. I am happy you have such a loving mum. Get her bomb gifts on mother's day.
This is my child every single time!! I look at my kid like seriously you have no problem talking to your friends, talk! Gives me a look, no you say it. I can't with this child 😂😂
Social anxiety is hard. Mine doesn't manifest like this but for a lot of people talking with anyone who is professional or who has any type of authority is nearly impossible. For others it's being in a setting where people have expectations they feel they cannot meet is what causes it. The possibility for messing and the consequences are so high it's debilitating. For me it's working, not talking on the phone or going to appointments. I get so anxious I start vomiting, my blood pressure and heart rate sky rockets, my breathing increases, my thoughts race and turn very very dark, and I've passed and had seizures before. This is a reality for some people. For some it is worse than others.
This was my daughter. I wrote scripts for her to read when she had to make phone calls. She has 2 kids of her own now and she says it's still hard to talk to people but she's getting better at not avoiding it.
Don’t worry love. I’m 28 too, and when I was 16 - 23 had crippling social anxiety. Watching this was uncanny 😂 but I somehow matured enough to live on the other side of the world on my own and no anxiety can stop me now!
I'm 28 too and I relate to you. Although now I'm trying to do these things on my own because I'm raised as heavily dependent on parents and my anxiety too doesn't help. its difficult but I'm trying :(
My mom doing this to my brother all through his 20’s EVEN when he kept asked her to please STOP 🛑 once she got him used to it goes “he’s a man, let him figure it out!”😳🥸😂😂😂 …I kept expecting “Olivia’s” mom to do the same🤪😅
Someone give this amazing human an award he plays all these parts and look how he contours the nose to look diff for each person 😂😂😂 absolutely hilarious
I'm a doctor and I cannot emphasise enough how accurate this is I once saw a patient, a 22 yrs old male at OPD. It was a first visit. I legitimately thought he was mute because mum told me he had a fever and sore throat for 2 days. She answered every single question and lastly I asked for the previous records for his medical conditions. She told me he hasn't any. I asked if he didn't go through investigations for a diagnosis for his disability and mom was shocked. Thank God she burst out laughing , lol. The boy started talking immediately and I apologised too. Turns out he was shy and me being a female doctor didn't help either. Poor boy was mortified
@@ruggieroaltiprandiferrara4994the commenter could be in the 40's or older...a 22 year old would be a "boy" to them considering the age difference...in addition to how he was acting
Same 😆 I have my dad, mom or husband with me during most visits. If my chronic illness is flaring up or something else is going on, I might be loopy, forgetful or having panic attacks. It helps if there's another person there with their mental faculties intact, in case I have some trouble explaining things 😅
I had a really serious medical issue that required emergency surgery in my early twenties. I thank god my mother was able to drive me to the hospital, stay at my bedside until I was released and help me with self-care at home until I was strong enough to be independent again. Sometimes, no matter how old you are, you really do need your mom or dad there for you…
I was in the same situation, I had appendicits, which is when your appendix, an organ your body doesn't need on the side of your intestines ruptures, and you have to get it removed. It's basically the same situation as you. My mom was there, heck she carried to the hospital. But the only difference is that I'm eleven.
@@JDHFCowanpREACH!!! It works if you’re 11. This is ridiculous if you’re 21 unless you have social anxiety or something like that preventing you from being your beautiful independent self.
It’s great to have support, no matter the age you should always have someone with you to be your medical advocate and caregiver with surgery, but you can still work to speak for yourself and not like a parent or Dr. take over when you need to do your own research and make decisions for yourself, they are there to answer your questions give me the support you need not take over. Your situation was more of an emergency and no matter your age you probably would’ve needed someone to help you. Yet, I took an almost 23 year old friend to get an application and she was so unironicly unprofessional, she kept saying things like “my mom” and “my mom told me you would give me a job.” 😬 She should simply know better and if she doesn’t she should watch videos on how to handle this stuff. She it’s a wonderful person with a lot to offer, but if she can’t be polite and speak for herself it’s not “others judging her wrong” it’s them being wise for their business. When you hire a person, you’re hiring work for yourself or help for yourself, figure out how to prove in an interview and a conversation and meeting someone that you’re going to be a help to them and not a hindrance or troublemaker and then when you get hired don’t be a troublemaker, hindrance, or so when you have to do all the thinking for which is how my friend put herself out there as. So be ready to act like someone that helps realizing that your the adult that makes that company better as you prove you can adult there. There’s nothing wrong with saying you heard about the job from your mother _____ (insert her actual name and the description of the event) and turn it back to you. “…and when she told me about your opening, I realized I really would enjoy working here I wanted to make sure I connected with you.” And then turn it back to respecting them. “What positions are you still looking to hire for?” That’s completely different from walking up to a counter and demanding an application from random workers saying my mommy told me you would hire me. 🤦🏽♀️ They are thinking, “Not anymore!”
I used to act like Olivia's mom, but then realised that kids have to be able to answer the doctor's questions, so I let them answer by themselves. That helps them to be more independent.
I remember as a kid always giving my mom my order at restaurant so she could tell them what I wanted and to this day I'm still nervous about talking to people. Now I'm encouraging my own kid to answer questions for himself if it's something reasonable for a 5 year old to answer. Don't teach your kids that other people are scary and act like you're protecting them from the doctor, the waiter, the person at the cash register. It's really hard to adapt as an adult when you have no experience with these activities.
@@cocoanbella I’ve had my kids order since they were 4/5. Taught them to be polite with a please and thank you and to speak up. Kids will become adults and if they never learn it, it’s stressful.
Not me being 29 and finding this relatable 💀 I have severe anxiety and agoraphobia though, so I haven't been able to leave my apartment without my dad for years. I'm trying though and I am getting better at speaking for myself. Edit: Thank you all for being so sweet and encouraging 🥺 I really appreciate it ❤
This is why I make a symptoms and meds/diet journal so I can just give it to them and not speak cause.... I can't remember alot of things over time I used to bottle it all up.
When I was like 4, I thought the months were combined so when people asked me my birthday I would say junejuly. And my mom kept trying to tell me it was just june.
I just turned 18 a few months ago, the very next day my mom left me at the eye doctor on my own. I went through the whole process by myself, but the funniest part was when they kept asking if my mom was around. They were shocked when I filled out all my paperwork on my own, and asked the doctor questions about which lenses would benefit me and the costs.🤣🤣🤣
HOW?! You're stalking me!! How did you know I do this all the time😭😭 not just doc's appointment. I do this for most of the things. That's the pain of every introvert 😭 but now I try not to hide behind my mom and try to answer things myself too. But damn I really do make my mom say things☠️😂
Yup it represents my generation some of them can't even order pizza or answer the phone. I'm also kind of scared of going to appointments and important things alone but I still try to do it as if I don't mind.
My friend's mom couldn't go to the doctor with her and she has a lot of anxiety. She was 21, i was 23 and had to talk for her during the appointment. The doctor understood immediately and started talking to me after a bit without questions. He was great.
Anxiety is a very real and sometimes very debilitating issue. Many people do not understand until they have seen someone deal with it every single day and the consequences they have to face because of it. No one would ever willingly miss out on so much life has to offer to fake an anxiety disorder and have such horrible symptoms that come with it.
If you've ever seen a panic attack then you'll know how awful anxiety is. I literally think I'm going to die until I realize what's going on and can pull myself out of it. They are scary to go through and scary to watch.
My parents would do this all on their own, and ppl would assume it was because I would refuse to talk 😅 No, it’s just because my parents like to talk for me lolol.. I’m like Shy Ronnie, the minute they leave the room I don’t shut up 😂
Similar for me I had just never felt like I was allowed to have a voice of my own since my guardian would never give me a chance to talk before she'd start talking over me, which just kinda taught me from a young age to not be used to getting to speak for myself since it was so rare I ever got the chance. Whenever she left the room I was suddenly allowed to talk I'd have trouble shutting up cause I was so desperate to get to talk finally.
Pagan Phoenix Ab emotional support person should be there for support if you need it not to speak for you n cripple you further by relieving you of temporary small anxiety and replacing it with long term anxiety n dependence on others for nearly everything. While I suspect there are so e benefits to this more compassionate view of peoples conditions,you have to wonder why people didn't have so much crippling anxiety in the past. 10 yrs ago or 50 yrs ago. Is it possible they just had to get over it . Harsh as that may sound. Constantly having safe places,safe people,safe conversations prevents people from maturing neat I g to deal with life in life's terms. What are these social workers n therapists helping people with. This should not be insurmountable except for very severe n rare cases yet it almost seems like an epidemic.
@@brandyk Just because I said I often have an emotional support person & they speak for me at the doctors that doesn't mean they always do. I am perfectly capable of speaking for myself in many situations.
Same, even in school meetings I need her. I remember orientation day for my college, we had to separate from our parents and I was just like “What do you mean I can’t have my mom come with me?”
Oh, you got me on this!! My little one does this! So spot on! But you got me on the end--I've worked with too many adults who have to leave work early for their adult children, having me take care of extra patients. I wonder who will take care of these adult children once their parents pass away. There's meds, counseling, programs, and volunteering, as well as a plethora of self help books. There's too much to do in the world and too many people and animals to help to be self absorbed in anxiety--I know--I had terrible social anxiety for years, but decided to put others first, and I got over the worst.
I'm so the opposite. I hate it when/if my mom answers for me. And it can be in other areas not just a doctor's office. It's like "I have a voice let me use it please"
My brother is 26 and is the same way. I accompany him to the doctors now as my grandmother is getting older. He has severe social anxiety and just shuts down. Our PCP has a list of questions and we fill them out together at home so when we go in I have all the answers. He just sits there and tries to look as small as possible but he is 6,3 and build like a line backer.
“Olivia, I don’t have your arm!”💀
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She’s 21-
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“I don’t have your arm,” 😂
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Me when I'm 21:
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The fact that she looked to her everytime the doctor asked a question got me dying 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha exactly
Me too😂
It had me wondering if Olivia was meant to be someone with extreme anxiety so that’s why she kept looking over
That’s the point
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That's literally me when I'm with my mom like 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣
Your 21and go to the doctor with your mom😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 me when social anxiety strikes
Bruh I am excited to talk to the doctor
This is actually me every time i go to the doctors
😂😂😂 imagine being a puss😂😂😂😂
I died “she’s 21”. I was expecting you to not know either as the mom and like turn to the grandma or something for that. But this was fantastic lol
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That would have been even more hilarious. 😂
Plot twist the bich is 21 and said she was born in 2022
Yooooo this sounds like what happened to my mom when she was at work
That’s what I was expecting. Haha. The “turning to the grandma” would of been a good ending. I definitely thought the mom was going to say the wrong age or not know. 😂
The disappointment “she’s 21” 😂🤣😂🤣
And funny enough at 21 they have a mouth loud enough to talk about anything else 😅
Ughhh that really hurt me ahaha lmao lol
😂
My mom be answering all the questions for me when I go to the doctor. I don’t say a word. 😂😂
frrrr
Same 😂
Maybe I talk to much but I have no problem to respond every question 🤔😂
Same girl same
Good thing my mum neglected me so I didn't have to depend on her or put up with her in the doctor's office 😂
Mann I feel this!! When I had my mom or dad go with me; the anxiety levels were skyrocket like everything just goes blank when in the doctors office
Right?? I just forget everything 😂
Thanks for sharing that!!! I literally went with my 23yo daughter resently, and was thinking... "Does mouth move?" I was so puzzled!!! I didn't get it! Now i do. I was questioning my parenting skills (well, I still do...)
@@candilc trust and believe! Having you there helps her relax; idk why but those questions sound like a foreign language cause (my experience) seeing all the equipments and coats my mind starts racing thinking worst case senario; final Destination. So having my mom or dad or siblings eases and this video is literally how I acted lol 😂
I'm glad this made you feel accepted
This is relatable. my anxiety makes it hard to go to the doctors but at the same time I feel I can be more honest without a family member with me. Growing up though my mom tended to talk for me
Literally me when i go to my psychologist or psychiatrist. I stopped having my mom join me 2 years ago. Ive kinda over come the whole anxiety thing when going to see them. But i definitely did this since i was young.
Me too
I feel the same, but there's also the "I'm 19, I should be able to go to the doctor alone". So eventually, I now can speak for myself
That’s good though you can be honest with family present, because I literally used to lie when my mom was in the room and say I had to go to the bathroom and then tell the nurses the truth and ask them to tell my doctor
@@daniellegoodhart1785 i cant. my mom would speak for me and I didnt get to be honest about my mental health until I was out of high school and doing my own healthcare stuff.
at least in this case it looks like the mom is trying to get her to speak up for herself and she chooses not to. I've seen parents literally hover and speak for their child who are more than capable.
Yes it’s crazy huh? I always make my boys order their food with the waitress and answer to docs ect…
I don’t need them being scared to order a pizza in the future 😂
@@leahlewis6487 what a great parent you are!
@@leahlewis6487 good job. My parents always did everything for me and now that I’m 19 and still can’t order for myself my parents finally stopped doing everything for me. I have bad social anxiety now and it’s tough.
“Either order by yourself or you won’t eat anything and will also not eat at home”
“I’m not calling the pharmacy for you. Either call to order your medicine or no medicine at all. And you will be grounded if your withdrawal symptoms cause you to be irritated with us” (i take antidepressants. I get withdrawal symptoms if I’m out of it for long enough)
Etc. now that I already have social anxiety, I panic a lot in fear but they’re being tough on me to try to get me over it.
@@johannaappleforest7482 they seriously ground you for having symptoms? Ridiculous
@@whoopsdidntmeanto yeah it’s their fault for not starting me young but like they can at least be gentle about it. Social anxiety is worse when it’s forced
Not my son at 5 holding the poor dr hostage until he fully explained every anatomy poster in the room. 😂
Aye we got a mom commenting 👏
I like your kid😂
Not me thinking that the doctors name was Dr hostage...😂😂😂😂
Haha no way
@I_like.paoh godncakes756
Fr tho 😂
I expect my mum to say everything when I'm at the dentist
Lmao it’s the opposite for me I even have to translate
Frrrr
Frr like how am I going to speak when they say don't move
Why? How old are you?
Same
The fact that she keeps looking at her mom is so funny
Exactly and even more so to find out she's 21
Yeah no shit
@@sinkcat8561 😂
🤣🤣 my kids acting like they never talked a day in their lives at the drs haha
As a kid this is exactly how i act the first time i went back there without my mom i felt like crying
@@tenx2jairon531 that's kinda messed up
Our extremely communicative daughter is EXACTLY like this at the doctor's.... oddly I'm an RN and she's been around medical environments her ENTIRE LIFE 😂. 🤷🤦
‘Olivia, I don’t have your arm’ 😂
The looking at the mom LMFAO this is so accurate
Ikr
I'm 35 and this is still accurate.. 🤣
‘’She’s 21'' GOT ME DEAD ON THE GROUND😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 so true. My daughter said she's fine when I'm not there.
This is so true 😭, I can relate so much 🤣. When I was kid to 16 years old, when sick, my mom or dad that always accompanied me to the doctors, and they're the one that answer the doctors question. Till I'm 17, when I was sick and went to a doctor with my mom, when the doctor ask me, me and my mom just silent, I look at my mom to let her answer the doctor question, but my mom told me to answer it on my own 😭. It was the first time and I feel awkward, Idk why 🤣. Sorry for my broken English.
That’s a very common experience for almost everyone. 😅
Also, your English is good! I understand everything you are trying to communicate.
I'm glad your mom pushed you to become a functioning adult.
@@misstekhead wait this is a common experience? I actually had no idea…
Exactly so true and she's like mom can I answer can I answer can answer can I answer omg shut up and you answer
You have nothing to apologize about. 99% of the ppl online with crappy spelling, grammar and reading comprehension are born and raised in English speaking countries, like the US. 😅
WHY IS THIS SO TRUE, YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT YOUR PARENTS LIKE "is it ok to say?, she's a stranger-"💀💀😭😭
Ofc it's okay, it's a stranger who wants to help you, you need to tell them everything.
@@AvrillWolfie ik, but idk why i do that, one time i went to the hospital, the nurse asked my name and age and stuff like that, i kept looking at my dad😭
Idk why, but i do thattt😭😭
Same like idk if its ok even if they tryna help. People are scary and id rather not commune unless ive known them long enough/seen them so many times to the point im comfortable around them
@@Niela-ql2ti yeahhh, exactly the same as me.
Thought this was just my kids 😂
I’m 22 with social anxiety I have to go to all appointments with my mom because she’s my safe person. This is so relatable but if anyone else goes through this know you are loved and so so strong❤️
Shiann. Glad you got your Mom as your helper but hopefully you're working on talking for yourself. Do t use her as a crutch as your parents will not be in your life forever. Everyone struggles with dealing with strangers at medical appointments,school,work etc but if course some more than others. Continue working on it.
If you're doing this shit, you are NOT strong and people probably barely tolerate you
Same
You need to work on that man. That's not healthy.
Dude, we all have this “social anxiety” when we grow up and start going everywhere alone. Let your mom stay at home next time and you’ll be fine
Why is this so TRUE
When I got asked a question I look at my mom 😂
I know it's kids/teens who mainly watch this, but when you get older, it'll be YOU answering all the questions for your mom when she's old and you have to help with her doctors appointments.
*That doesn't apply to everybody because some people do not plan on taking care of their parents when they get older.... Especially if they are not close with them!!!*
ok? Am I supposed to be scared?
@@ivoryisgone6009 if you can't take on that responsibility, then yes. I just said this so that y'all are aware about what it takes to care for your parents just like they did for you. However, some will just send their parents to nursing homes to let someone else do the job.
I'm dealing with that right now...not just doctor's app...even picking out new glasses XD
Good point! Like you said a lot of kids and teenagers watch this and it's just a different generation, many won't understand the point you just made. But being adult comes with many and sometimes unexpected responsibilities
“She’s 21.” In the most casually unbothered yet defeated parent tone. *I CANNOT!!!* 💀😂🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️🤣🤣❤️
😂😂😂honestly this is too accurate. Im 20 and I still never go to appointments without my mum😅
Ok lucky one, I go alone since I am 13🫠
@@jolina298 oh that is good though. Im a scaredy no joke😅
As a mother of a three year old, this makes me nervous for the future 😅. I would do anything for my sweet-bean at any age, but god damn. I am happy you have such a loving mum. Get her bomb gifts on mother's day.
It’s good to face your fears, it leads to growth
This is actually advised where I live, two people pick up more info and they are less likely to turn you away with the advise to take a asprin
Ahh the "you sont know your name" killed me hahha
This is too relatable especially the mom's expressions and the fact that she's answering all the questions😂😂😂
This is my child every single time!! I look at my kid like seriously you have no problem talking to your friends, talk! Gives me a look, no you say it.
I can't with this child 😂😂
I do it to my mom all the time.
Social anxiety is hard. Mine doesn't manifest like this but for a lot of people talking with anyone who is professional or who has any type of authority is nearly impossible. For others it's being in a setting where people have expectations they feel they cannot meet is what causes it. The possibility for messing and the consequences are so high it's debilitating. For me it's working, not talking on the phone or going to appointments. I get so anxious I start vomiting, my blood pressure and heart rate sky rockets, my breathing increases, my thoughts race and turn very very dark, and I've passed and had seizures before. This is a reality for some people. For some it is worse than others.
A friend isn’t a stranger (idk if strangers the right word but you know what I mean)
@@AnxietyHamstarWell, how do you overcome it? Think about that.
@@quinnruss5541Your doctor isn't a stranger because you usually have an assigned doctor
This is me every time I go to my doctor. My mom would be like "Are you mute?"
STOOP, YOUR SO RELATABLE, this is legit me and my mum's reaction😂😭
This was my daughter. I wrote scripts for her to read when she had to make phone calls. She has 2 kids of her own now and she says it's still hard to talk to people but she's getting better at not avoiding it.
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@@ruggieroaltiprandiferrara4994
lmaooo I'm 28 and I still wish my mother could go with and do all the talking 😂😂😂
Sad
@@sickshade I guess 😂🤷🤷🤷 lmaooo
Don’t worry love. I’m 28 too, and when I was 16 - 23 had crippling social anxiety. Watching this was uncanny 😂 but I somehow matured enough to live on the other side of the world on my own and no anxiety can stop me now!
I'm 28 too and I relate to you. Although now I'm trying to do these things on my own because I'm raised as heavily dependent on parents and my anxiety too doesn't help. its difficult but I'm trying :(
My mom doing this to my brother all through his 20’s EVEN when he kept asked her to please STOP 🛑 once she got him used to it goes “he’s a man, let him figure it out!”😳🥸😂😂😂 …I kept expecting “Olivia’s” mom to do the same🤪😅
Those wigs kill me!😂 And mom always wearing a towel on her head. 🤣
Yeah this towel kill me too each single time 😄
Someone give this amazing human an award he plays all these parts and look how he contours the nose to look diff for each person 😂😂😂 absolutely hilarious
“2022…..” “OLiVIa YOu weRe NOt BoRN IN 2022😭”
I'm a doctor and I cannot emphasise enough how accurate this is
I once saw a patient, a 22 yrs old male at OPD. It was a first visit. I legitimately thought he was mute because mum told me he had a fever and sore throat for 2 days. She answered every single question and lastly I asked for the previous records for his medical conditions. She told me he hasn't any. I asked if he didn't go through investigations for a diagnosis for his disability and mom was shocked. Thank God she burst out laughing , lol.
The boy started talking immediately and I apologised too. Turns out he was shy and me being a female doctor didn't help either.
Poor boy was mortified
At 22 he's a full grown ass guy, not a boy
@@ruggieroaltiprandiferrara4994Once you get older, 22 is a child. Anyone under 30 is just a baby
@@ruggieroaltiprandiferrara4994the commenter could be in the 40's or older...a 22 year old would be a "boy" to them considering the age difference...in addition to how he was acting
@@violettepetals9931 yes, you could be right, I didn't consider this, thank you 😊😊
@@ruggieroaltiprandiferrara4994what is your problem
Congratulations 21 year old kid! You earned the achievement:
C.E.O in dependency of Mom
Yay! I have a dependent adult child too!
"Olivia, I don't have your arm got me rolling
"She is 21" 🗿💀
Literally me!!😅😅😅😭😭😭😭💀💀💀
Yikesss, I am slowly exiting introvert.
I love how your name is Your Mom. It makes this video and comment a 100x funnier to me 😂
Same 😆 I have my dad, mom or husband with me during most visits. If my chronic illness is flaring up or something else is going on, I might be loopy, forgetful or having panic attacks. It helps if there's another person there with their mental faculties intact, in case I have some trouble explaining things 😅
I had a really serious medical issue that required emergency surgery in my early twenties. I thank god my mother was able to drive me to the hospital, stay at my bedside until I was released and help me with self-care at home until I was strong enough to be independent again. Sometimes, no matter how old you are, you really do need your mom or dad there for you…
That's cool, I got ipendicidis
I was in the same situation, I had appendicits, which is when your appendix, an organ your body doesn't need on the side of your intestines ruptures, and you have to get it removed. It's basically the same situation as you. My mom was there, heck she carried to the hospital. But the only difference is that I'm eleven.
@@JDHFCowanpREACH!!! It works if you’re 11. This is ridiculous if you’re 21 unless you have social anxiety or something like that preventing you from being your beautiful independent self.
It’s great to have support, no matter the age you should always have someone with you to be your medical advocate and caregiver with surgery, but you can still work to speak for yourself and not like a parent or Dr. take over when you need to do your own research and make decisions for yourself, they are there to answer your questions give me the support you need not take over. Your situation was more of an emergency and no matter your age you probably would’ve needed someone to help you.
Yet, I took an almost 23 year old friend to get an application and she was so unironicly unprofessional, she kept saying things like “my mom” and “my mom told me you would give me a job.” 😬 She should simply know better and if she doesn’t she should watch videos on how to handle this stuff. She it’s a wonderful person with a lot to offer, but if she can’t be polite and speak for herself it’s not “others judging her wrong” it’s them being wise for their business. When you hire a person, you’re hiring work for yourself or help for yourself, figure out how to prove in an interview and a conversation and meeting someone that you’re going to be a help to them and not a hindrance or troublemaker and then when you get hired don’t be a troublemaker, hindrance, or so when you have to do all the thinking for which is how my friend put herself out there as. So be ready to act like someone that helps realizing that your the adult that makes that company better as you prove you can adult there. There’s nothing wrong with saying you heard about the job from your mother _____ (insert her actual name and the description of the event) and turn it back to you. “…and when she told me about your opening, I realized I really would enjoy working here I wanted to make sure I connected with you.” And then turn it back to respecting them. “What positions are you still looking to hire for?” That’s completely different from walking up to a counter and demanding an application from random workers saying my mommy told me you would hire me. 🤦🏽♀️ They are thinking, “Not anymore!”
*GOD
Bruh it's looks like "mama's girl"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is my favorite blogger 😂😂❤❤❤😂😂
As an Olivia, I am deeply offended 😂
Lol😂
the new Karen
@@MegaTinni I don't really care. It was a joke.
I used to act like Olivia's mom, but then realised that kids have to be able to answer the doctor's questions, so I let them answer by themselves. That helps them to be more independent.
🙌🙌🙌
I remember as a kid always giving my mom my order at restaurant so she could tell them what I wanted and to this day I'm still nervous about talking to people. Now I'm encouraging my own kid to answer questions for himself if it's something reasonable for a 5 year old to answer. Don't teach your kids that other people are scary and act like you're protecting them from the doctor, the waiter, the person at the cash register. It's really hard to adapt as an adult when you have no experience with these activities.
@@cocoanbella I’ve had my kids order since they were 4/5. Taught them to be polite with a please and thank you and to speak up. Kids will become adults and if they never learn it, it’s stressful.
“You don’t know your name?”
Had me dying cuz I literally do this still!!!!
I laughed way too hard at this it was way to accurate. I love being a mom.
Bro I don’t even need to look at my mom, she just cuts me off while I’m talking LMAO- that’s why I don’t speak when doctors ask me questions now haha
I mean, that's always a plus when they just do the informing part for you 🤣
Omg yes. Hahah
Not me being 29 and finding this relatable 💀 I have severe anxiety and agoraphobia though, so I haven't been able to leave my apartment without my dad for years. I'm trying though and I am getting better at speaking for myself.
Edit: Thank you all for being so sweet and encouraging 🥺 I really appreciate it ❤
I am proud of you!
@@muddikissez22 Aww thank you, that's so sweet of you to say 😊💕
Good for you! You're doing great🥰
That's a special circumstance and understandable. That's different than someone who is able but just not willing.
Im going through the same. We should talk.
Introverts be like:
Having anxiety be like:
Being nervous be like:
It do be like that tho
@@cookievalentino196yep
@@dreamintennessee358 right
As an Introvert ,also Anti-Social. I speak at the doctor's and when it's needed, I am glad I'm not like this.
This is why I make a symptoms and meds/diet journal so I can just give it to them and not speak cause.... I can't remember alot of things over time I used to bottle it all up.
"February 11th"
Me: "Y'all describing me?"
Can someone tell me where he gets his lipstick, like DAMN
Im lovin it too
@@Zoey_Halia ikrrr
That blew up-
This is so true and also "Olivie, I dont jave your arm!" 😭
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Fr, I feel bad for the parents who had to say everything 💀.
Seriously tho
that edit is worse than “mom i am famous”
@@anhvu-yp9vs fr💀
@@anhvu-yp9vs yes omg😭😭💀
This is always me and my mom at the doctor!🤣🤣
This is so relatable. I still remember I would go uhhhhh when the doctor would ask for my birthday
When I was like 4, I thought the months were combined so when people asked me my birthday I would say junejuly. And my mom kept trying to tell me it was just june.
@@MaliyahPowell Aww. 😁
I just turned 18 a few months ago, the very next day my mom left me at the eye doctor on my own. I went through the whole process by myself, but the funniest part was when they kept asking if my mom was around. They were shocked when I filled out all my paperwork on my own, and asked the doctor questions about which lenses would benefit me and the costs.🤣🤣🤣
Thats not true. Stop making shit up for the internet like you’re special. No one is asking an adult for their mom.
HOW?! You're stalking me!! How did you know I do this all the time😭😭 not just doc's appointment. I do this for most of the things. That's the pain of every introvert 😭 but now I try not to hide behind my mom and try to answer things myself too. But damn I really do make my mom say things☠️😂
I am an introvert as well. Same thing here when I was living with her. And always blamed me for that.
Same boo same I felt so called out 😂
I am an introvert too but Im still going alone to the Doctor since I am 12-13
@@jolina298 same. I don't think that's an introvert problem.
@@marlene0c Yeah agree
Thats legit me everytime at the doctor i just look at mum and mum answers all the questions
I took my 14yr old daughter to the doctor recently, and this is exactly how that went🤣
This last short of the day was hilarious 😂 oh well time to sleep 😴 with a smile 😊
This is the most RELATABLE thing EVER😭✋
Even I'm 21 and i still sometimes do this 😂😂😂😂😂
Why are we like this 😭
Yup it represents my generation some of them can't even order pizza or answer the phone. I'm also kind of scared of going to appointments and important things alone but I still try to do it as if I don't mind.
That would be me at 21 ngl I make my mom talk the whole time while we’re at the doctors office😭😭💀
See This makes me proud of my little girl, I took her to the doctor when she was 8, and she answered all the doctor's questions herself.
Why is this so relatable as a introvert 😭
My friend's mom couldn't go to the doctor with her and she has a lot of anxiety. She was 21, i was 23 and had to talk for her during the appointment. The doctor understood immediately and started talking to me after a bit without questions. He was great.
Anxiety is a very real and sometimes very debilitating issue. Many people do not understand until they have seen someone deal with it every single day and the consequences they have to face because of it. No one would ever willingly miss out on so much life has to offer to fake an anxiety disorder and have such horrible symptoms that come with it.
If you've ever seen a panic attack then you'll know how awful anxiety is. I literally think I'm going to die until I realize what's going on and can pull myself out of it. They are scary to go through and scary to watch.
The dr probably thought you were her wife 😂
Omg- I legit have had this happen for me…but my mom low key ignored my pleading for her to talk for me🤣😭
My mom has to basically drag me to the doctor, and I'm 23. I'd refuse to talk, too😅😅
😂😂😂
That's how we kids have adequate trust in our parents....
Bro why is this relatable but like that’s not me that’s my brother 💀
My parents would do this all on their own, and ppl would assume it was because I would refuse to talk 😅 No, it’s just because my parents like to talk for me lolol.. I’m like Shy Ronnie, the minute they leave the room I don’t shut up 😂
Similar for me I had just never felt like I was allowed to have a voice of my own since my guardian would never give me a chance to talk before she'd start talking over me, which just kinda taught me from a young age to not be used to getting to speak for myself since it was so rare I ever got the chance. Whenever she left the room I was suddenly allowed to talk I'd have trouble shutting up cause I was so desperate to get to talk finally.
The “ shes 21” is whats got me rolling 😂💀
FEB 11TH BDAY HERE... I NEVER hear that date anywhere but within my fam.. SOOO AWESOME❤
Me to lol
Mine too lol
This is me lol 😅😂 I'm 21, nurodivergnt, extremely anxious and often require an emotional support person
Gen X undoubtedly lol
Pagan Phoenix Ab emotional support person should be there for support if you need it not to speak for you n cripple you further by relieving you of temporary small anxiety and replacing it with long term anxiety n dependence on others for nearly everything. While I suspect there are so e benefits to this more compassionate view of peoples conditions,you have to wonder why people didn't have so much crippling anxiety in the past. 10 yrs ago or 50 yrs ago. Is it possible they just had to get over it . Harsh as that may sound. Constantly having safe places,safe people,safe conversations prevents people from maturing neat I g to deal with life in life's terms. What are these social workers n therapists helping people with. This should not be insurmountable except for very severe n rare cases yet it almost seems like an epidemic.
@@brandyk Just because I said I often have an emotional support person & they speak for me at the doctors that doesn't mean they always do. I am perfectly capable of speaking for myself in many situations.
@@paganphoenix8912 great. Happy to hear it. You didn't mention that so ... Good luck
Same, even in school meetings I need her. I remember orientation day for my college, we had to separate from our parents and I was just like “What do you mean I can’t have my mom come with me?”
I NEED PART 2 sooo badly 😂😂
This had me dying 😂🤣 omg, i laughed so damn hard my cheeks hurts. Amazing acting skills hes got yea. Too good man.
FR it gives me the chills when talking to doctors in front of my parents 😭😂
Oh, you got me on this!! My little one does this! So spot on! But you got me on the end--I've worked with too many adults who have to leave work early for their adult children, having me take care of extra patients. I wonder who will take care of these adult children once their parents pass away. There's meds, counseling, programs, and volunteering, as well as a plethora of self help books. There's too much to do in the world and too many people and animals to help to be self absorbed in anxiety--I know--I had terrible social anxiety for years, but decided to put others first, and I got over the worst.
I like the doctors smile in the beginning. So warm.
I'm so the opposite. I hate it when/if my mom answers for me.
And it can be in other areas not just a doctor's office.
It's like "I have a voice let me use it please"
The last look 😂😂
The look to the mom sent me back to my 5 year old checkups thoooo
The way Olivia looks at her mom every time the doctor asks her a question is so funny 😆😂😂😂
😆😅🤣🤣🤣
My daughter is almost 40 and I still have to take care of her like this....sometimes...
21!! I hollered!! 😂😂😂 You are sooo funny!! ❤
Bro just told every one of me going to the doctor situations😭😭😭
That's not good. Your mom should teach you to speak for yourself so you won't have anxiety in that in the adulthood since she won't help you then.
so relatable like when you mom gets mad and tells you to speak up
My brother is 26 and is the same way. I accompany him to the doctors now as my grandmother is getting older. He has severe social anxiety and just shuts down. Our PCP has a list of questions and we fill them out together at home so when we go in I have all the answers. He just sits there and tries to look as small as possible but he is 6,3 and build like a line backer.
Olivia I don’t have your arm but yes 😭😂
I love the lord Asprec is finally getting the respect that he deserves oh, and your videos are great Manny show
Im 14 now and i still look over to my mom when asked questions💀
Dude you got me at the end. Omfg I am dead and it's only 5am.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
Bro I look to my mom everytime. It’s so relatable!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
The mom knows everything
Omg yes I feel like my mom will just tell them anyways like they actually know how I'm feeling but I just let her talk anyways 😂
The doc won’t stop asking questions she doesn’t care😂😂
this is fr me bro like i just sit there listening to the conversation 😂