How To Stop Caring What People Think of You

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @SUCCESSINSIDER
    @SUCCESSINSIDER  5 лет назад +50

    *If you're struggling with procrastination, self-doubt, or a lack of confidence...*
    *_...WATCH THIS_* 👇👇👇
    www.successinsider.com/secret_revealed

    • @jasengan590
      @jasengan590 5 лет назад +2

      Just saw your RUclips, it is cool.

    • @ioandanpuscas6830
      @ioandanpuscas6830 5 лет назад +2

      SUCCESS INSIDER i really want to commit and challenge myself i how ever believe in God but my belief ain’t 100% but i am working on it cause i have alot of problems

    • @neoshiwei7260
      @neoshiwei7260 5 лет назад +1

      thanks Tim. Love your intro. got my attention right away. lol

    • @christinahahn8485
      @christinahahn8485 4 года назад +2

      This is true and I get what your saying

    • @kuriannellary6835
      @kuriannellary6835 3 года назад +1

      Excellent video Bro 👌👍👍👌😀😀😀😂😁😃thanks you are phenomenal.

  • @maphuthareginah5301
    @maphuthareginah5301 5 лет назад +57

    and for the first time ever in my life i am commenting publicly because i am so tired of taking shelter in my little bubble, because i just care way too much about what other people think of me! This feels soooo good! whooooooo

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  5 лет назад +7

      That's amazing to hear maphutha reginah
      ! Keep it up! 😊

  • @kuzivashebayela
    @kuzivashebayela 5 лет назад +40

    3.Challenge yourself EVERYDAY, that is my take away...I literally have been working on this for a while, it's a process

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 лет назад +27

    Peoples opinions of ourselves don’t matter. It is only what we think of ourselves that matters.

  • @Gracitagouv
    @Gracitagouv 5 лет назад +32

    I didnt know my procrastinating of doing things was holding me back from growing. I watched one of ure vids ( idk wich one) and I got up and started. Just one at a time and I get so much energy from the results. Its like my mind is decluttering and I'm asking my self "why the hell did I wait so long". Even my dreams are diffrent. I'm liking this alot and I cant wait to read/write the rest of my story. Thank you

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  5 лет назад +5

      Keep following your heart and take massive action Grace! :-)

  • @ChessMasteryOfficial
    @ChessMasteryOfficial 5 лет назад +47

    *Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.*

    • @ivandbrunson
      @ivandbrunson 5 лет назад +1

      Discover Your Awesomeness beautiful!!!

    • @emh8861
      @emh8861 5 лет назад +1

      Exactly

  • @leighcolton2
    @leighcolton2 3 года назад +1

    I just found you today...I have been terrified to ever comment publicly, terrified to film myself and to speak publicly, I decided to “stretch” myself for the first time this morning after watching this! Thanks

  • @badassproductions4734
    @badassproductions4734 5 лет назад +2

    You so right man
    *tears up*
    I used to be able to talk to girls casually now i hesitate unless ive gotten comfortable.
    I once started a dance. Now im afraid to dance infront of people in general. I used to be outspoken in class. Nowbim afraid of sounding stupid (in certain classes).
    I need to break out of this i need to get out of my comfort zone.
    I know what i must do and ill come back later this week to comment what i did

  • @ayoubmezoury4134
    @ayoubmezoury4134 5 лет назад +39

    2 Steps To Stop Caring What People Think of You
    1. Understand why you care.
    2. Learn this mantra: What Other People Think About Me Is None of My Business!
    GREAT Cotent Tim Keep up the good work!

  • @laurentbaby449
    @laurentbaby449 5 лет назад +12

    Every bit of your words changed my life....Thank you😭

  • @raads9192
    @raads9192 4 года назад +1

    No body really cares!! In need to hear this. I'm free to do what I wish. My life is so confusing, I am not in a good place. This video is soooo good. I need to change my life!! I need to think about how can uplift myself... quality questions. I have to challenge myself every single day....I have to believe in myself.....I need to experiment a break through!! Must snap the elastic band! Thank you Tim

  • @vaisakhe5462
    @vaisakhe5462 5 лет назад +5

    Iam suffering from social anxiety... And Iam working over it each and every day... It will be very helpful if I get some support 😊

  • @georgesalmas4582
    @georgesalmas4582 Месяц назад

    Tim, your videos are timeless. I'm seeing this video 5 years after it was posted, and it is relevant as the day you created it. Your videos continue to transform my life.

  • @dazz1one
    @dazz1one 3 года назад +4

    I loved this.
    Step 1 really hit me.
    I'm always worrying what people think of me. Not because I desire to be liked or because I have a huge ego, quite the opposite, I'm shy and usually lack confidence.
    It was the movie actor analogy that you mentioned.
    I've never really thought about the point that most people don't care about me because they're too busy worrying about themselves or what others think of them.
    This will definitely help my own confidence when I'm out and about.
    Thank you 😊🤙🏽👍🏼💪🏽

  • @thetruthbetweenthelines8521
    @thetruthbetweenthelines8521 5 лет назад +9

    The more we educate ourselves, the higher we think about our capabilities. When we go through this process, if we manage to keep hubris aside, we start to care less about what other people say. The better we feel about ourselves, the harder it is for anyone to upset us or pull us away from our journey. Great video, Tim!

  • @arjookarmy2866
    @arjookarmy2866 5 лет назад +8

    Tim, this was my main issue..thank you a lot for your words..😊😊

  • @sajid-j3m
    @sajid-j3m 2 месяца назад

    Definitely you waken me up thank you may god reward you and your loved ones ameen

  • @melaniegoodman1129
    @melaniegoodman1129 4 года назад +4

    This video has met me where I am at. I need to take action and be mindful of the questions I am saying to myself. ... It is not about me.
    I am taking action to post daily on inspirational things I am doing to protect my energy and keep myself and family uplifted during quarantine. Thank you!!

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад

      Appreciate your this, you're awesome! You've got this! :) - Mary from Success Insider

  • @wendynadler2303
    @wendynadler2303 2 года назад

    How to lift the other guys day is a great focus. Thank you Tim.

  • @bengerardo2357
    @bengerardo2357 2 года назад

    I’m a success insider graduate it’s been one year now I need to not fear on daily basis. I’ve seen real strides in my work. There is nothing I can’t do. But I still fear what people think. I need to shift into my real self again. I want to control my outcome. I want to use my iPhone everyday to switch off my negative thoughts and begin living in the now. Thanks Tim.

  • @dansmout4359
    @dansmout4359 2 года назад

    Tomorrow morning I'm making plenty of phone calls. I usually lose my words on the phone, hate it. After this I'm focusing less on that and more on how I can get across what's important and make the arrangements that are needed etc. Really transformative video, thanks.

  • @mohammedzan7703
    @mohammedzan7703 5 лет назад +2

    I just challenged myself today by answering a question asked by my professor in front of the whole class and I believe I will be able to stretch the band even more in order to breakthrough

  • @suziewensley4830
    @suziewensley4830 4 года назад +5

    Tim you are so Genuine and teach us authentic valuable lessons about real personal challenges that resonates. I have just finished S10 my 2nd season with LMA and no matter how many times I revisit any of your videos, I can definitely see either my growth, which has shown me where I was and now have broken through, or a new challenge I welcome to work on myself to reach that breakthrough. I am so Grateful for you as I am living a much happier and fulfilled life. Thank you Tim! For anyone reading this, if you are looking for answers in your life, definitely search out LMA with Tim Han. 🙏You will receive valuable insight to make your life better and happier, because you will change yourself. This is worth it.

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for being kind 🙏 That's a beautiful thing to say. We are glad to hear our RUclips videos have had a positive impact on you ✨ . Your feedback means everything to us, thank you so much for being here 😊🙏. Have an amazing day - Georgiana from Success Insider

  • @Star-Stare
    @Star-Stare 5 лет назад +4

    I love to take action and challenge myself everyday. Thank you Insider.

  • @adinacase8215
    @adinacase8215 3 года назад

    Thank you Tim! See you Sunday on the live master class 👍🏼♥️🦋

  • @susannehegenscheidt1128
    @susannehegenscheidt1128 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience, Tim, and giving me new insights about myself. With 54 I start to remember that I have wings to fly. Something I knew as a little child 50 years ago. .😊

  • @PatrickCh1986
    @PatrickCh1986 2 года назад

    Action taker here.
    Thanks for all your amazing input.

  • @oumaymabenadjel6830
    @oumaymabenadjel6830 5 лет назад +5

    when I watch your videos I feel like every second is worth watching, your content is never time wasting... what you share goes either to the bottom of my heart or to my brain, I always remember and work with your tips and every time I do I feel like i"m a better person, Thank you so much Tim

  • @KuchBhi-mj9gm
    @KuchBhi-mj9gm 5 лет назад +2

    Now this days ..m going to trouble..beacuse of thinking so much..what they think, why she not love me, why they not care me..but after watching this video clear my thoughts & vision.
    from today onwards trying to challenge my self everyday..updating my self everyday

  • @jh230377
    @jh230377 3 года назад

    Biggest takeaway - take action daily. Great thanks dude👍

  • @johncondrich3689
    @johncondrich3689 3 года назад +1

    I love your videos it pumps me up

  • @wendyharding3478
    @wendyharding3478 2 года назад

    I have a job interview tomorrow - I'm taking these thoughts in with me. Instead of being terrified at what they will think of me, I'll concentrate on calmly letting them know what I can do for them. Wish me luck :-)

  • @jenniferlewis6835
    @jenniferlewis6835 5 лет назад +14

    Love this, came just in time.

  • @ReinventingU
    @ReinventingU 5 лет назад +3

    Okay, I am going to challenge myself daily! Love the visual of the elastic band theory. I understood about making others the hero (not me) and change the questions. I was challenging myself every month but not every day. Thanks, Tim!

  • @MegenTowney-v8p
    @MegenTowney-v8p Год назад

    Yes please thank you I'd like to join your class everyday thanks again

  • @theenigmatic9271
    @theenigmatic9271 3 года назад

    This is so right ! I have this fear of what people think about me . This day I am gonna take a step ahead in overcoming this fear and speak out confidently

  • @abdallahbelgounche452
    @abdallahbelgounche452 5 лет назад +2

    I love your videos brother!
    Thanks.

  • @Spectre428
    @Spectre428 5 лет назад +3

    I love taking action towards becoming the best version of myself! Enriching myself, practising ideas, thoughts, experimenting (carefully chosen types), and after a certain point, teaching others willing to do the same thing! And this channel has in the past and will continue helping me do that! Thank you, Tim, for everything you've done and will continue to do!

  • @modernmistyk4341
    @modernmistyk4341 4 года назад +2

    Dude I've just found your channel and I love you and your energy. Your enthusiasm almost brings tears to my eyes because I can hear the struggles that you've been through in your voice. One love.

  • @GideonBrowniamgideonbrown
    @GideonBrowniamgideonbrown 3 года назад

    Good morning... I’m a action taker!! Thank you so much!

  • @moontuwamoontu2504
    @moontuwamoontu2504 5 лет назад

    Tim, I'm tired of caring about what I think people think about me! Thank you Tim. I know that I'm gonna meet you soon and share my story with the you and the rest of the world.

  • @mauriceochieng4889
    @mauriceochieng4889 7 месяцев назад

    On the road to greatness

  • @mara1275
    @mara1275 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much!!!😭😭🤧

  • @akiratateishi8202
    @akiratateishi8202 5 лет назад

    you are indeed an angel bro, the more i watch and absorbed every single word of motivation from you i can really see and feel that the litttle demon negative voices in my head starts to loose their dominance and power and weakens every single day

  • @siratuzrashaik
    @siratuzrashaik 3 года назад

    I like the spot light is off me and now focused on how I can contribute and impact people. I liked the elastic band analogy, I’m going to make a break through .

  • @monikachoudhary1796
    @monikachoudhary1796 5 лет назад +1

    The #1 lesson I have learnt is stop making this game all about me. Thanks Tim . This is really inspiring

  • @moontuwamoontu2504
    @moontuwamoontu2504 5 лет назад +1

    I'm free to do my thing indeed! I love this!

  • @ivandbrunson
    @ivandbrunson 5 лет назад

    I can not express enough how life altering this is!!!!

  • @almadelacruz5931
    @almadelacruz5931 3 года назад

    Love it! In reality nobody truly cares like you think they do. Inspiration

  • @edwardjhon180
    @edwardjhon180 5 лет назад

    This video really helped me,I am not going to think what people think about me from now ! Thanks Tim !

  • @nancybrighton4717
    @nancybrighton4717 2 месяца назад

    thank you so much Love this and sharing it with all of myk client

  • @KearaYandall
    @KearaYandall 5 месяцев назад

    i will do all ! thank you so much tim ! you are so amazing and helpfull !!!😃😃😃😃❤

  • @shad38calhoun19
    @shad38calhoun19 Год назад

    Love this video! I’m going to take action on being more confident, and better delivering.

  • @ranaldofletcher1263
    @ranaldofletcher1263 5 лет назад +2

    I willing to challenge myself each day.. Its a really inspiring speech. thank you!

  • @moontuwamoontu2504
    @moontuwamoontu2504 5 лет назад

    I'm challenging myself everyday by reading at least two personal development books every 4 weeks. Tim, you're are a true inspiration. A real champion! Bless you.

  • @ernestjohnandres3550
    @ernestjohnandres3550 5 лет назад +1

    Wow! This just killed my worries... THANK YOU!

  • @wokefish5351
    @wokefish5351 3 года назад

    This is definitely a massive fear of mind, and i look forward to snapping the elastic band. Looking forward to the live sess tomorrow!

  • @joshple1
    @joshple1 2 года назад

    I’ll stop keeping count lol but this is the second video you’ve gotten me to comment on and really appreciate the videos. I actually run a small company but with social anxiety I often refer people to talk to my wife and at 31 I need to get over this.

  • @aidenskywalker6791
    @aidenskywalker6791 3 года назад +3

    I used to always stop something when I got tired, but after watching this video I challenged myself harder than I ever had before and it helped me a lot
    Love your videos Tim

  • @yhetb5918
    @yhetb5918 Год назад

    Thank you. I really need this to remind myself. ❤

  • @sharonfrank7298
    @sharonfrank7298 3 года назад

    Love your teaching so much !
    Awesome!

  • @bcctrombonesl
    @bcctrombonesl 2 года назад

    we have to stretch! Thanks Tim

  • @frankho8843
    @frankho8843 2 года назад

    Thank you, I challange myself every single day now,

  • @shaniquehepburn2717
    @shaniquehepburn2717 4 года назад

    My biggest take away was challenge your self every single day. Thank you so much for these helpful tips i will start applying them in my life starting now.

  • @sothonyem8311
    @sothonyem8311 5 лет назад

    I know you care about us. I am grateful

  • @drsundipshenoy2471
    @drsundipshenoy2471 2 года назад

    Lovely presentation our RUclips pal,worth putting into action practically in life straightaway ☺️👏

  • @KearaYandall
    @KearaYandall 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks Tim Han

  • @Anonymoususer098
    @Anonymoususer098 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for your insight on this common matter!!
    I'm a medical student and we're supposed to learn a chapter and present that topic in class (in grps of 20)
    The thing is that in order to explain and make concepts easier to understand, I have to speak in the local language (although i prefer english as it is easier for me but they seem to not pick up what i said) and simplify complex concepts
    But everytime it's my turn to speak I get anxiety and stutter as i face the students and also forget what i am teaching
    I will definitely try to follow your advice and hopefully improve my skills
    Thank you once again

  • @RWAquariumPages
    @RWAquariumPages 2 года назад

    such a great vide and channel that came up on my feed. great 3 tips and I'll practice those starting today. keep up the great content!

  • @michaelwhite3296
    @michaelwhite3296 5 лет назад +2

    Love the videos and the wisdom you give...it is truly making a difference inn my life!!!

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  5 лет назад

      Thank you, Michael! Keep doing whatever it takes!

  • @MA-tf5sv
    @MA-tf5sv 5 лет назад

    Taking action now
    Always dream of becoming a successful trader, have been practicing it for 2 years, never care if people tell me it s gambling, it s not. This is my passion and the thing I want to do for the rest of my life.
    Cheers Tim

  • @priscanemger783
    @priscanemger783 4 года назад +1

    Love it! Yr awesome, thank you!!! 💙⚘🌺

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад

      So glad you are finding this useful 🥰 - that's why we keep doing what we are doing 🙏 - Georgiana from Success Insider

  • @sabantijana
    @sabantijana 5 лет назад

    Your video is worth watching , and watching it makes me a better person every single day

  • @sheryburton5119
    @sheryburton5119 4 года назад

    Great example of break through! I am having mine!

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад

      You got this! 👊👊👊 - Mary from Success Insider

  • @Ostnizdasht206
    @Ostnizdasht206 5 лет назад +4

    I'm definitely stuck in my ego..

  • @prerakrathod7036
    @prerakrathod7036 5 лет назад +6

    This ones epic !!!! Thanks a lot Tim!!!! #Wordstoliveby 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌 Perfect timing.Thanks again.

  • @StarstruckFerSure
    @StarstruckFerSure 4 года назад +1

    (The advert I saw of yours was also intriguing and what made me search out your channel. Everything you said was spot on, you have a very eloquent yet simple to follow/relate to way of speaking. Keep up the great work and videos, cheers!

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад +1

      @QueenKhaleesi WOW you're super thank you so much for sharing your feedback, we'll continue to inspire and help motivate people. You're awesome! - Mary from Success Insider

  • @carolkelleysparkle5642
    @carolkelleysparkle5642 3 года назад

    Thank you...this video was eye opening for sure!!

  • @marcopolo5938
    @marcopolo5938 5 лет назад

    Number three really got me motivated to take action

  • @kelvinkhor1185
    @kelvinkhor1185 3 года назад

    Excellent video! I've been challenging myself every single day, but I'm still unable to talk confidently and am constantly anxious about speaking in public. (Nonetheless, I will not stop trying and continually challenge myself) Let improve altogether!

  • @nyangiewnolusindiso4029
    @nyangiewnolusindiso4029 4 года назад +2

    Thank you man, this is really making me reflect positively on life. You are an inspiration

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад

      Really so awesome, continue reflecting positively... you're doing a good job! 👍🙌 - Mary from Success Insider

  • @sarahhandy259
    @sarahhandy259 3 года назад

    You're so inspiring🙏🏼Thank God for finding your channel

  • @thatnordiclady3075
    @thatnordiclady3075 3 года назад

    Tim thank you for catching my attention. I suffer from CPTSD and it’s literally taken my life from me. You have triggered something in my brain. I am watching your videos and you have sparked something so good inside me. Thank you

  • @Katmemory
    @Katmemory 4 года назад +1

    I've come across many motivational speakers and success advocates, but I really resonate with you. As someone who comes from a Latino family and an extremely negative and often judgmental environment as well, your words certainly enlighten my mind and heart to keep climbing out of the snake pit. It's difficult to think positively when there's so much sadness , concern in the family and ridicule in the workplace. But this is certainly a great way to take steps towards speaking confidently again, intellectually, and with much practice... influentially.

    • @SUCCESSINSIDER
      @SUCCESSINSIDER  4 года назад

      So sorry to know about your experience but glad that you find this a great way to take steps forwards, keep it up!! 🙌💯 - Mary from Success Insider

  • @juliechurch1799
    @juliechurch1799 3 года назад

    Spot on ! Love video . Inspiring .

  • @joshuarogers3609
    @joshuarogers3609 5 лет назад +1

    This video is definitely so helpful, sometimes I wouldn't post anything on social media Bc I would think about what other people thought about it thankyou Tim

  • @belloadeyemi569
    @belloadeyemi569 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Tim i certainly relate to the third point, no matter how much you stretch letting go will only take it back to the original point but if you dont let go eventually there will be a breakthrough.

  • @aminrezapoor2554
    @aminrezapoor2554 3 года назад

    Great learning for me, thank you Tim

  • @ltrifari
    @ltrifari 3 года назад +1

    Hi Tim, Catching up on this video today. Ready to #challenge myself and create some magic! My take away from today is "how can I best SERVE?" because when you focus on what you can do for other people, most of your "problems" are just dust.....Great work Tim, so happy I discovered you and Success Insider!

  • @Katmemory
    @Katmemory 4 года назад

    I love the "real talk" .

  • @zahiamotivation
    @zahiamotivation 4 года назад

    Thank you ,i changed ,i didn't care about anyone ,excepted my mom ,she is so fragile

  • @toniabrunetti9084
    @toniabrunetti9084 2 года назад

    You are awesome! Thank you!!!!

  • @stevenlillford-wildman7653
    @stevenlillford-wildman7653 3 года назад +1

    Good job!

  • @mayeemk3094
    @mayeemk3094 3 года назад

    Wow realtalk thank you..l really wanted to hear this..amazing🥰

  • @baz3074
    @baz3074 2 года назад

    I needed this video...
    Thank you....
    One of my most problems is caring what others think of me and dealing with haterz, I get alot of that. I just keep to myself, so me being a person, that private.. How do I have haterz??
    I need a more focus mind set to not care what others think..

  • @koomejaden8980
    @koomejaden8980 5 лет назад

    You have inspired me to take on the role of leadership i have been given in my school.I will ensure that i take action on this. Thank you v much. God bless.

  • @narges8438
    @narges8438 4 года назад +1

    I will challenge myself every day thanks 🙏🏻

  • @drsundipshenoy2471
    @drsundipshenoy2471 2 года назад

    Let go is the key Sir. ☺️👏👍

  • @michaellawlor4777
    @michaellawlor4777 3 года назад

    Thank you tim I need to hear this.

  • @dannyburlison8737
    @dannyburlison8737 3 года назад

    This dude is a shining 🌟.