Imagine having to touch and look at rain, confirming that it is not your mothers blood. Joh Jabulile you've been through the most, but you live to tell your story and help others. May God bless you
The older I get, there more I understand... YOU CANNOT POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP. People cannot give what they do not have. I understand that now as a young woman, I didn't understand it when I was going through it as a little girl. I'm so proud of you sis❤️
I hope this story inspires many people, especially South Africans girls and women. Your birth condition or your past doesn't define you. Look how far she came. She is beautiful, well spoken , and obviously intelligent. Yes she has baggage ( like most people) but she is not carrying it around in her shoulders. She put it down and get on with it. She seized the opportunity of education and made something of herself. I love this woman!!! I am proud to fly the Mzansi flag high all the way from Canada because of people like her. ❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦❤
The most horrific thing about these stories is that they say so many horrible things and then say I was 8 😓how does a 8 year old go through so much, we need to protect our kids at all cost!!!!! Most of all protect them with prayer
As women we need to learn to have a relationship with our kids outside of our partners. So many kids never experienced the love of a mother because she was angry at the father
Woow we thank God that through it all you are an inspiration to the world. Broken and hurt can be healed through your story .You are a blessing to many. So sorry that you had to go through all that.
I've broken down so much after watching this episode. It's like you were telling my mother's story and only today after 17+ years I've remembered those memories... Thank you for sharing love.
The people that were supposed to love and protect you, I am so sorry babe. You are beautiful and I hope you find healing. Sending you love and tight hugs.❤️❤️
I thank God for protecting you my sister, you’re a strong and beautiful woman, May Jehovah bless you more in what you’re doing for other children🙏🏾❣️❣️
Your mother, should have dealt with her own issues before bringing children into this world. But your depth of character and beauty burst through, regardless. 💓
Wow Jabu Thank you so much for sharing your powerful testimony! It happened to you but not for you, it was all for the glory of God. Look at you ❤️I hope to God you are also healing in telling us your story! May everything you touch flourish.
Wow Jabu, what an inspiring story.... you rose about all that hurt and abuse. Become a well grounded woman and contributing positively in the society. May God continue to bless you.
Oooh Jabulile my sweetheart💔my heart broke for you. What you went through no child should experience. You are such a beautiful young woman who is today so empowered and helping others. God bless you my sis❤❤❤
Indeed you have been through the most. I am inspired by your story that despite of all you went through you never gave up on your life and you are still going strong. This can only be God. May you be blessed for your beautiful and tender heart. Mo grace to you my sister 💞💕💓💓
What a life journey Jabu, your story will inspire many young people out there, especially girls...you are a very strong person keep it up and wishing you all the best for the foundation you have started. Stay Blessed
Wow sis.... you are so strong and beautiful. I'm so inspired by you and can't help feeling angry at those who failed to protect you. Still you have risen far above it all. Love and light from the UK x
You're so pretty 🥰 wishing you success & strength my love... am crying thinking about my own abuse from my father... blessings to you, proud of your achievements 🌱... world let us be kind to one another, people are going through a lot🕯
MBOKODO....To all loving and caring teachers we salute you.Thank you for sharing Jabulile may the good Lord carry you further continue to make the difference
Your story brought tears to my eyes, it just made me realize that people are seek out there and really need Jesus. So he was taking out his anger on this poor child because she was not his on the other there is thi woman who just up and left a girl child with an angry and violent man who was not his biological father. Too much and could have been worse but I thank God for protection you sisi. I wish you the best. You just made me realize that I still have a lot of pantup pain from the abuse I suffered as a child. Don't allow anyone abuse you again now going forward.
Omg Jabu what a beautiful story ..God is amazing look at you now so strong and eloquent...you will go on to do great things...your trauma story was each shattering but Gid gave you enough grace to carry through You are so beautiful and you've answered a question I had as I was thinking what could be the emotional state of a girl who has gone through what you had gone through...I thought that that little girl will be damaged forever but I see and I know that you have been healed and your soul is strong Wishing you a blessed life and prosperity for Kwanele foundation
Woow Jabu, lool at you. You look nothing like your painful past. May children going through similar situations look at you and have hope, May use you to chnage may little lives😊 thank you for Sharing your story.
Your story is one of hope Sis Jabu, your strength, your heart is amazing. I'm inspired by part of your journey that you've shared with us. As you told your story I thought to myself, the neighbours, relatives everyone in your community needed to act sooner. We really need to do better to protect the most vulnerable. Somebody needs to say another child, woman, man etc. Will not go through what I went through when I can help. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
True sisi. We all need to do act fast, there's a loy of lives we can save.On my channel I'll also be sharing about 1 person who played a huge role in getting me to where I am today, unintentionally and at just 20 yrs old but she did so much more.
Yhoo Jabu, i am crying😭. What you went through is really painful sisi, you are such a strong woman. People really cannot pour from an empty cup, your mom was soo empty. I am really sorry you had to go through that. I'm sooo proud of you for not giving up, for making something out of your life. Also, umhleeee yhoo. I love you Sisi and may God bless you ♥♥♥♥♥♥
strong sis! but your mother was crazy and cruel for leaving you with a man who is not even your mother i thank God you were not even sexually abused but there she was leaving you...seriously!! sorry but i don't like her at all....have heart love....you will be ok and you are soooo beautiful.
A part of me is glad she left me, she let my journey bring me to where I am today. God is great❣🙏unfortunately I did become an easy target for sexual abuse but God waked that journey with me too❣🙌🙏
Oh my God thank you for sharing your story ❤️ 🙏 and we thank God that he didn't raped you while your mom was not coming back home ❤❤❤ you look amazing sisi❤
Your dad seems like was abusing you because of your mom.This is so sad that had to go through such an ordeal. May God's hand be upon you and thanks for sharing your story... *BearHug!*
u not serious 😳a guy told u he must mistreat u cos u were mistreated by r parents👏 andazi sihlala emhlabeni onjani🤦♀️.But ke someone once said u so proud u would swear u come from rich family🤷♀️ and ke sana we deserve more noba sisukaphi.NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS
Imagine having to touch and look at rain, confirming that it is not your mothers blood. Joh Jabulile you've been through the most, but you live to tell your story and help others. May God bless you
I'm grateful to God for His Grace. And thanks to you for the platform to share my testimony ❤🙏
Teachers play an important role for many children like Jabu❤️
@KhanyaMaweni That is very true
You were not messy love , you were just anxious because of fear !
True. I got used to justifying his abuse. Thank you 🙏
The older I get, there more I understand...
YOU CANNOT POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP.
People cannot give what they do not have.
I understand that now as a young woman, I didn't understand it when I was going through it as a little girl.
I'm so proud of you sis❤️
Thank you sis❣
I hope this story inspires many people, especially South Africans girls and women. Your birth condition or your past doesn't define you. Look how far she came. She is beautiful, well spoken , and obviously intelligent. Yes she has baggage ( like most people) but she is not carrying it around in her shoulders. She put it down and get on with it. She seized the opportunity of education and made something of herself. I love this woman!!! I am proud to fly the Mzansi flag high all the way from Canada because of people like her. ❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦❤
The most horrific thing about these stories is that they say so many horrible things and then say I was 8 😓how does a 8 year old go through so much, we need to protect our kids at all cost!!!!! Most of all protect them with prayer
As women we need to learn to have a relationship with our kids outside of our partners. So many kids never experienced the love of a mother because she was angry at the father
Amen Dali ❤️🥺🤗
Couldn't agree with you more. These are some of the conversations we should be having whenever we meet up as friends for drinks❤🙏
And even in marriage, children need to experience both the love of the mother and the father.
i also think mothers must go to therapy if they can feel something is not right.cos keeping so much anger inside u,u take it out of other ppl.
You did not deserve to go through all of that as a child. I cried throughout this......
Glad God came through for me. Now I know🙏❣
the saddest thing for me, is ending up at an orphanage, while having 2 parents. Im so happy you made it!!
Woow we thank God that through it all you are an inspiration to the world. Broken and hurt can be healed through your story .You are a blessing to many.
So sorry that you had to go through all that.
Thank you so much sis 💟 I'll continue to share my journey
You're too strong girl... Emotionally, yhoo all these with just a smile accompanying your story. SALUTE
There's peace and power in healing ❤. Thank you so much 🙏
I've broken down so much after watching this episode. It's like you were telling my mother's story and only today after 17+ years I've remembered those memories... Thank you for sharing love.
I hope your mom healed❤. May you all find peace and forgive all. Love anf light to mom and all of you 💟
@@jabulileskosana848the forgiving part is what I struggle with. She seems to have healed. But for some reason I fail to forgive him.
@@chiponashakhembo1295 its not easy, 1 step at a time no matter how long it takes. It's all for you, trust me.❤❤❤
The people that were supposed to love and protect you, I am so sorry babe. You are beautiful and I hope you find healing. Sending you love and tight hugs.❤️❤️
Thank you very much @Hazelshozi
I thank God for protecting you my sister, you’re a strong and beautiful woman, May Jehovah bless you more in what you’re doing for other children🙏🏾❣️❣️
@Tshepo kubjane Thank you very much ❣❣❣
Your mother, should have dealt with her own issues before bringing children into this world. But your depth of character and beauty burst through, regardless. 💓
Wow Jabu Thank you so much for sharing your powerful testimony! It happened to you but not for you, it was all for the glory of God. Look at you ❤️I hope to God you are also healing in telling us your story! May everything you touch flourish.
Letlotlo your heart though 😪. "It happened to me but not for me" I've taken that from you. Thank you very much 🙏 May God continue to bless you too
Skosana sorry for what you had to go through. Receive digital hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
You look like Mercy Chinwo from Nigeria
😂💃💃 I just checked her out now! She's sooo beautiful. Thank you very much @JoskyShams 🤗
Wow Jabu, what an inspiring story.... you rose about all that hurt and abuse. Become a well grounded woman and contributing positively in the society. May God continue to bless you.
It's all God's work. Thank you very much 🙏
There's a God 🙏
You survived all that. You know, talking about it is part of healing.
Sending you hugs ❤️❤️
😂 My mom's name is Molly 🤦♀️. You just reminded me of the song that says "because He lives I can face tomorrow..."God is there sis. Thank you ❤🙏
@@jabulileskosana848 Oh yes there's a God 🙏
Such a strong and beautiful young lady. May your organization do well
Thank you so much @Nelly 🙏
The things we went through Nkosi 🥺🥺🥺 Thank God we do not look like the things we've been through 😔😞 NaSkosana, I thank God for your life 💐
@Missntokozo oh we would be a mess if we looked like our experiences! God is amazing!!🙏❣
Sorry
Iyoo cc look at me I'm crying while watching n here u a not dropping even one tear ,ur very strong cc
I can only thank God for healing me sis🙏
Wow our parents have really abused us😭😭😭😭😭u are so positive regardless of what you went through.. I love u even wen I haven't met u
@Lovelove822 they really have...lets just heal and continue to share the love❤❤❤
@@jabulileskosana848 it's hard to heal when they keep denying😭😭😭
Oooh Jabulile my sweetheart💔my heart broke for you. What you went through no child should experience. You are such a beautiful young woman who is today so empowered and helping others. God bless you my sis❤❤❤
@OleMoropa God is amazing sis. Thank you very much. May He bless you too❣
Indeed you have been through the most. I am inspired by your story that despite of all you went through you never gave up on your life and you are still going strong. This can only be God. May you be blessed for your beautiful and tender heart. Mo grace to you my sister 💞💕💓💓
True, this can only be God. Thank you very sesi. Stay blessed🙏❣
Sorry you had to go through all that. Love and light to you💕
Much appreciated ❤
You are one brave lady and definitely an inspiration to many! God bless you💕
What a life journey Jabu, your story will inspire many young people out there, especially girls...you are a very strong person keep it up and wishing you all the best for the foundation you have started.
Stay Blessed
Thank you very much much Machinga🙏
The ending is amazing ♥️♥️♥️
😅❤
Wow sis.... you are so strong and beautiful. I'm so inspired by you and can't help feeling angry at those who failed to protect you. Still you have risen far above it all. Love and light from the UK x
Thank you so much 🙏
You're so pretty 🥰 wishing you success & strength my love... am crying thinking about my own abuse from my father... blessings to you, proud of your achievements 🌱... world let us be kind to one another, people are going through a lot🕯
After all these struggles and you made it in real world you graduated you are a superStar
MBOKODO....To all loving and caring teachers we salute you.Thank you for sharing Jabulile may the good Lord carry you further continue to make the difference
@Malebo Makgetlaneng thank you very much and may God bless you too🙏❣
You are an amazing young beautiful woman. What a journey! Your resilience is remarkable!
@KgaugeloLetwaba thank you very much 🙏❣
You are an inspiration cc...going through so much and still made it...big up to u sthandwa
It's all God's work and I'm beyond grateful 🙏
Thank GOD for caring teachers.What a beautiful girl.
Your story brought tears to my eyes, it just made me realize that people are seek out there and really need Jesus. So he was taking out his anger on this poor child because she was not his on the other there is thi woman who just up and left a girl child with an angry and violent man who was not his biological father. Too much and could have been worse but I thank God for protection you sisi. I wish you the best. You just made me realize that I still have a lot of pantup pain from the abuse I suffered as a child. Don't allow anyone abuse you again now going forward.
It's called anxiety. You had anxiety that's why you kept dropping things, shakes and nervous.
I know that today.
@LeeMay guess I got used to taking the blame and justifying my punishment. Thank you🙏
@@sifisojele4000 me too hey
Half way through and I cant hold my tears
I never thought I'd ever be able to share my story but God made it happen🤗 there's power in healing
Your story reminds me of the book "My father, my monster"
I've always want to read that book. I'll definitely check it out🙏
yah i read that too.i had to stop reading first few paragraphs, then i started again a few weeks later.
You are a strong woman. I wish others could learn from your experience. 🙏
I couldn't help but cry to her story am just thinking of different stories of orphanage children...we do not even think to volunteer there
Let's wipe those tears and do something. Please follow my RUclips channel if you wish to volunteer in 2021🙏
Powerful ending.. Thanks sis for sharing.. By the way you beautifull...indeed we can make impact using our past
Thank you so much ❤
Awsemhle❤️❤️
Your mom+my mom=same whatsapp group
Thank you 😂❣ Choose You and choose God Mtase. Uzobuya and just love her all the way. God does not sleep on us ❤
Umhle nyhani mntase. Its true when they say our scars are not visible to the naked eye but hiden deep within in the safety of our souls.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Such story woman I am inspired ❤🙏
Sorry you had to go through that. Wishing you all the best
Thank you Ika ❤
God bless you and keep praying, much love
Omg Jabu what a beautiful story ..God is amazing look at you now so strong and eloquent...you will go on to do great things...your trauma story was each shattering but Gid gave you enough grace to carry through
You are so beautiful and you've answered a question I had as I was thinking what could be the emotional state of a girl who has gone through what you had gone through...I thought that that little girl will be damaged forever but I see and I know that you have been healed and your soul is strong
Wishing you a blessed life and prosperity for Kwanele foundation
You’re very strong 😢❤
Woow Jabu, lool at you. You look nothing like your painful past.
May children going through similar situations look at you and have hope, May use you to chnage may little lives😊 thank you for Sharing your story.
Your story is one of hope Sis Jabu, your strength, your heart is amazing. I'm inspired by part of your journey that you've shared with us. As you told your story I thought to myself, the neighbours, relatives everyone in your community needed to act sooner. We really need to do better to protect the most vulnerable. Somebody needs to say another child, woman, man etc. Will not go through what I went through when I can help.
Thanks for sharing your story with us.
True sisi. We all need to do act fast, there's a loy of lives we can save.On my channel I'll also be sharing about 1 person who played a huge role in getting me to where I am today, unintentionally and at just 20 yrs old but she did so much more.
@@jabulileskosana848 Indeed ma'am
That is wonderful, I will subscribe to your channel, hit the notification bell so I can hear all about it 😊
This is so so sad it made me cry
@TelesterMurumbi I've cried so many times. I'm glad I have more to smile about now
I am so sorry you had to go through all of this 😭you are beautiful inside out 😘
Why would a mother leave her child with someone she knew wasn't her father and knew how abusive he was😭😢
I've accepted that I'll never get an answer to that
@@jabulileskosana848 we have to accept and heal for our sakes
@@mutshidzimulelu2991 glad I grew to believe and understand that 🙏❣
a mother who could not walk her to school while she heard there are ppl raping kids.
@@mutshidzimulelu2991 just subscribed to ur channel
I love the glow, outside your struggles, thanks for your story sisi.
Am so sorry.. You didn't deserve all this... 😭
Thank you 🙏🤗❣
May God bless you sis. 🙏🏾❤️
May God bless you too 🙏❣
Yu are a strong woman, this is a touching story n thank yu for sharing great lesson for ladies to be there for our kids unconditionally
Thanks you @Nonoe🙏❤
God bless you dearest ❤️
I'm sorry you went through this 💔
Yhoo Jabu, i am crying😭. What you went through is really painful sisi, you are such a strong woman. People really cannot pour from an empty cup, your mom was soo empty. I am really sorry you had to go through that. I'm sooo proud of you for not giving up, for making something out of your life.
Also, umhleeee yhoo.
I love you Sisi and may God bless you ♥♥♥♥♥♥
You are an inspiration sistaz 🙌🏽
Tjoooooo sisi you've been thru so much God bless you
Thank you sisi, ma He bless you too🙏❣
Thx jabu for sharing its encouragng thx
God u r so strong n brave. Wisecwoman i salute u 💕💪👌
Thank you so much Doreen ❤
This is crazy, a grown man beating up a little kid and a bad mother who abandon her daughter with an abuser
💔💔💔💔Yea you broke my heart
GOD is good
ALL THE TIME!🙏
I wonder where was the lil brother when the mom left her.
She is the younger one. Brother was older.
The brother was older and he blessed to be taken by his father at younger age. He's doing very well❣
May God bless you more
May He bless you too. Thank you 🙏
Notification gang
See how she is beautiful
sad sad sad story
This is what I can give you 💐🤗❣️
you are so strong
You are beautiful!
Thank you so much sis❣
strong sis! but your mother was crazy and cruel for leaving you with a man who is not even your mother i thank God you were not even sexually abused but there she was leaving you...seriously!! sorry but i don't like her at all....have heart love....you will be ok and you are soooo beautiful.
A part of me is glad she left me, she let my journey bring me to where I am today. God is great❣🙏unfortunately I did become an easy target for sexual abuse but God waked that journey with me too❣🙌🙏
@@jabulileskosana848 💔💔 Just subscribed to your channel. Such an inspiration you are❤
Yah eishh! 💔
Im sorry💔
I feel your mum had her own trauma and was trying to deal with it she seems very damaged one day she will tell you!
You are a strong, beautiful, and an amazing woman.
Thank you so much Alice 🙏❣
@@jabulileskosana848 You are welcome sis! Wishing you good health and success. Enjoy the holidays❤ 🎄❤
You so beautiful Jabu ...
Thank you very much 🤗❣
Impilo umuntu omnyama ayiphilayo ubuhlungu. Uthini unkulunkulu makunje
Masingamngabazi ngoba ekugcineni wenza izamanga ❤
Despite all these individuals still pull through because God was, is and will ever be present...
@@sisandamfecane1052 Amen❣
Oh my God thank you for sharing your story ❤️ 🙏 and we thank God that he didn't raped you while your mom was not coming back home ❤❤❤ you look amazing sisi❤
You are beautiful Jabu and just mind how much you share with fools , that’s what they do, use such info against you
You're father had many women & didn't respect your mother, even though he was hard working.
Eish this life sometimes
Let's just be glad it gets better at some point🙏
@@jabulileskosana848 sure love,am wishing you all of the good things going forward.
@Fungai thank you very much 🙏
@@jabulileskosana848 Thanks for sharing your life with us. God was on your side- you are special know that Sisi.
Your dad seems like was abusing you because of your mom.This is so sad that had to go through such an ordeal.
May God's hand be upon you and thanks for sharing your story... *BearHug!*
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Ur dad is wicked nxa.....
u not serious 😳a guy told u he must mistreat u cos u were mistreated by r parents👏
andazi sihlala emhlabeni onjani🤦♀️.But ke someone once said u so proud u would swear u come from rich family🤷♀️
and ke sana we deserve more noba sisukaphi.NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS
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