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Relaxed Hair Tips (summary) 1. Deep condition regularly (focus on moisture cuz relaxed hair is thirsty hair.) 2. Turn down the heat! If you cannot dial it down, get a flat iron/curl iron you can regulate. 3. Watch frequency of relaxers. STRETCH! 4. Never overlap relaxers (and watch type of relaxers to avoid build up - avoid Calcium Hydroxide.) 5. Bone straight hair is not the goal of a relaxer. 6. Scalp health matters! Always base scalp. 7. Relaxer is for the hair, not the scalp. 8. Relaxer should not be applied to the edges first. 9. Do not shampoo hair 3 days before a relaxer. 10. The scalp is not an indicator of when the relaxer is gone professing. Processing time starts as soon as the relaxer touches the hair. 11. Avoid caffeine going into your relaxer appointment! Makes scalp more sensitive. 12. Do not wear a hat to appointment. 13. Do not workout before a relaxer 14. Opt for low heat styling. 15. Maintain style by wrapping at night. Do not apply heat daily. 16. Always sleep on satin or silk (these are moisture resistant fabrics.) 17. PROFESSIONALLY: ask stylist about using OLAPLEX 1 in relaxer and OLAPLEX 2 post relaxer. 18. Stay on top of trims. 19. Relaxer and bleaching do not go together. 20. Be gentle (wet hair tells all the truth dry hair lies about.) 21. Detangle hair starting at from the ends. 22. Relaxed hair is high porosity. 23. Use heat protection (isopropyl alcohol and SD alcohol free.) 24. Do not be afraid of silicones after moisturizing hair. 25. Hair should not be relaxed prior to puberty. Additional tips not listed: medical and psychiatric conditions (thyroid disease, lupus, alopecia , depression, anorexia etc) impact hair. My tip: Puberty is not a license to process!
1. Deep condition 2. Watch your temperature- 350° max 3. Watch your frequency 4. Never overlap relaxer 5. Never get your hair bone straight 6. Scalp health matters (base your scalp) 7. Avoid getting relaxer on your scalp 8. Do not apply relaxer to your edges first 9. Do not wash your hair 3 days prior to getting a relaxer 10. The scalp is not an indicator of when the relaxer is processed 11. Avoid caffeine prior to getting a relaxer 12. Do not wear a hat prior to your appointment 13. Do not workout before getting a relaxer 14. Opt for low heat styles such as twist outs, roller sets etc 15. Wrap your hair at night 16. Sleep on silk 17. Mix Olaplex #1 in the relaxer 18. Stay on top your trims 19. Relaxer & bleach are not a good combination 20. Be gentle with your hair especially when it’s wet 21. Start at the ends of your hair & work your way up 22. Relaxed hair is high porosity hair 23. Use heat protection & products that are alcohol free 24. Don’t be scared of silicones 25. Do not relax your child’s hair prior to puberty.
He was my teacher in cosmetology school, just wanted to drop in and thank him for being an awesome teacher! Happy to see your page doing well and thriving!
I hope it is okay to say this. For those with relaxed hair, just know that ALMOST every thing he talks about natural hair, can be applied to relaxed hair. I am relaxed for years, followed him and applied a lot of his teaching to my hair routine. With some research, I tweak some advice to take care of my hair as relaxed. I stretched between 11 to 13 weeks.
Hey! Like always, I enjoyed reading your content. I'm a licensed cosmetologist and instructor as well. Relaxer is making a huge comeback. At 46, I was tired of the long hair and wanted a new mature look. Then I saw you posted a new video. I'm going to relax my hair. ❤ What sodium base relaxer do you use?
I’ve also used his natural hair advice for my relaxed hair. The blend of deep conditioner and protein made my hair blossom and corrected some weakness. Thanks Linwood
My fave one is SafeRX by Vitale Pro. I used to have to special order it, but it was one of the few that I was actually satisfied with in the relaxer market.
Thank you for saying that it’s an individual journey on whether you would like to be natural or relaxed. I’m relaxed and happy. Natural hair isn’t for everyone and I respect everyone’s hair journey.
Why is this man so amazing!?! Dropping a ton of knowledge that a lot of us relaxed girls need while NOT being judgmental bc of our decision to relax! He’s funny and his voice is so relaxing and reassuring! I always feel better at the end of watching his videos and short clips! Thank you so much for being you and being a beacon of light and positivity in our community!💕💕🌸
That part about being NOT judgmental is true, it's appreciated. The fact that some "professional" hairstylist come very rude to relaxed hair is quite shocking. We all choose how we'd like our hair, whether that's relaxed, natural, blue, blonde, baby hairs or none just be professional. So I'm thankful for his positive and professionalism.
Not being judged is the number one thing Thank you! The judgement is real sometimes so I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels that way at times (Especially from fellow people of color….unfortunately) I like to relax my hair but THATS WHAT I WANT TO DO I’m not trying to be “white” or whatever I just like to do what I want to do So I’m really glad I saw this comment -peace and love
Just because you’re enjoying your natural hair journey doesn’t mean you have to tear up someone else’s journey.” He said it all there. I like the non judgmental approach towards relaxed hair. I’m over the people with natural hair who act like they’re the poster child of good health or the “real black people.” My hair is relaxed, thick, long and healthy because I take care of it by incorporating over 90% of his tips. Having relaxed hair is my choice. I love being a black woman and having a relaxer does not change that. Sorry I had to vent.
I braided my hair up every night and 😊 take it down in the morning. I use olive oil on my hair. Just a drop olive all on my hair. I braided it up at night some weekend. I just rock. My braide hair relaxing around the house 😊 I try to make my life very simple, no fake hair, not fake nails 🙂 Jus t me, Mrs. B. I see a lot of women don't know who they are on the inside 😊love yourself this gentleman has good intentions, very nice advice 😊
I am 54 years old and have had a relaxer since I was 14. I was never told 6-8 weeks was the minimum for a retouch. I will be using the 12-15 weeks from now on.
These tips are 1000% spot on. Relaxed girl here, still loving the creamy crack for well over 30 years and my hair is super healthy. I am at 12 to 14 weeks for a relaxer. First, having a fabulous hairdresser is key. When Covid hit I was forced to deal with hair that had not been relaxed in well over a year. During that time I relied on the relief and hydration of natural hair products gave me. As Lindwood says, (I love that he and my cousin share the same name!❤) hydration is the key. Most people believe If you get a relaxer you are done with your hair. As your hair is your crowning joy why on earth would you not tend to it and treat it like gold? I only use heat on my hair after wash and blow-dry. I always wrap my hair in silk and/or satin. I pin curl my hair or use Spoolies. I don't weigh my scalp down with heavy oils as your head needs to breathe. I only use product when necessary. Do all the tips in this video and you will have lovely locks always.
@@halleenjohnson7311 You are very welcome! I've spent a lifetime researching products for myself. Believe me I was not always careful in my youth. When you have your hair fallout you will learn the hard way that your hair no matter who you are or how you process or don't process your hair, you have to take care of it. Blessings to you.
I agree and love your comment. I’ve been relaxed over 30 years. My hair is healthy as I go to a professional hairdresser who use top tier products. I also take care of me hair.
Omg, I needed you 25 years ago. I have gone through the cycle of being natural and relaxed for decades. This final time, I relaxed my hair 6 weeks ago, and let me tell you, we are going to do it right this TIME!
I was just thinking the other day that I wish you would do a video on relaxed hair. I am almost embarrassed to say that my AH-HA moment came when you posted the TikTok about Oil is not moisture. I am 50 years old and no one ever told me that they just tell you to grease your scalp and use a good oil. I am now on a journey to healthy relaxed hair. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
There were so many things they didn’t tell our generation about our hair. I was thinking the same thing. I didn’t find out what constituted a moisturizer until I went natural. And I was today years old when I found out that hydration and moisturizer were distinct things.
Yes the hydration moisturizer topic is something else. I’m trying to learn so many things and then on top of that have to apply what is learned. I’m so thankful for this man
Yessss! Shout out to the girly whose comment led to this content. I've known for a while that moisture and protein balance matter for both relaxed and natural hair - so most of your content has always been helpful to me. Most of your tips are already a part of my hair routine, but the biggest takeaways are: the sensitive scalp chemical difference, that coarse hair is really fine and how to use silicones. I live in Houston and sweat in my head, so the humidity has me at war with frizz. So many products to combat frizz have silicones so I haven't been able to find a solution to the frizz. Your tips on how to use them are much appreciated!
Have you by chance tried Miel rosemary styling cream? Can’t remember the exact name but it’s part of that rosemary oil line… if doing twist outs of even buns or whatever m, it helps smooth frizz. Honestly the shampoo thick rich conditioner and the oil are great
As someone that was traumatized during my first relaxer at 9 years old, I truly appreciate your call to not relax a child’s hair. Thank you for sharing such rich information and I look forward to learning more tips along the way! Love and light 💖
I was always led to believe by my mother that she had to relax my hair because I didn't want it combed as a child. So I grew up believing that my natural hair would be so hard to handle. My hair stylist for years kept telling me that my hair would not be hard to take care as a natural. I am now in my late 40s and have just stopped relaxing my hair and I can't believe that my hair is not hard to handle as my mom led me to believe. So I 100 per cent agree with you with waiting and letting people decide once they are older to get their hair relaxed.
I relax my hair and literally treat it like it's natural. The less you do to your relaxed hair as far as intricate styles, the better. I stay keeping my hair moisturized! And my hair just keeps on flourishing 😊
Thank you Linwood for these amazing tips! I did not know relaxing prior to puberty was so risky until you broke down the reasons why & it makes perfect sense. Also, thank you to the subbie who brought the lack of relaxed content to Linwood’s attention; i hope you didnt unsubscribe and miss this amazing video❤
The relaxing schedule, I have been told six to 8 weeks. I always do minimum 12wks and the have fine texture relaxed. Down to bra top now. Growing back to mid back.
OK, so I went back to a relaxer about a year ago. I was previously relaxed for years. So you want to know which point resonated with me...all 25. I thought I knew a few things about relaxed hair but boy was I mistaken. Thanks Linwood. As of today I will handle my hair with a lot more care.
Just wanted to say I got your recommended deep conditioner from Giovanni, and it was exactly what I needed! The hunt for the right one is finally over. Thank you!!
Love your videos! The info regarding moisture and protein balance was new to me as well as consuming stimulants before relaxers is new - but totally makes sense. I wish I had this advice when I wore my hair relaxed for 20 years (scalp burns, over processing, relaxing prior to puberty, shedding, ...I experienced all that). Now that I've been natural for 16 years, I've realized that education is key. One is not "easier" than the other. I've experienced dryness and breakage with both relaxed and natural hair due to lack of education. Thank you, for informing and educating Linwood! ❤ This was very helpful.
Thank you very much for teaching me to turn down my flat iron. I was burning out my hair so now I know all I need is two taps on medium , turn and straight down.
I truly believe that many professional stylist don't know this. I still have scalp damage 20 years later from a bad relaxer where she pulled, scratched and then put a processing cap on my head. It finally stopped having pain in the areas around three years ago but my hair grows in weakly in those areas. As a matter of fact. I'm lossing three of my locs in that area now.
I'm so sorry you went through that. I have never heard of anyone especially stylists pull or scratch during processing a relaxer let alone put on a process cap. Thats something you may do with conditioner.. I hope you were compensated .
I'm watching this like I'm about to relax my hair lol. I wish I knew this when I got relaxers. Thanks for making this video! Shout out to all the relaxed girlies.
Thank you, thank you so very much...I've learned so much! My Mom started relaxing my hair when I was 9 because, to this day, I sweat in my head...btw I'm 64 yrs old. I'm going to watch this video several times to absorb all the info!
This video is so informative. Thanks for not bashing people with relaxed hair. I appreciate your professionalism and your desire to want to share your knowledge.
Low key, this makes me want to get a relaxer again. Now that I have better knowledge and tools, I'm sure I can remedy the previous issues I had prior to going natural.
I too am relaxed and although I’ve taken a lot of your profession hair care knowledge of the natural men and women to some of my hair routines….I have also been one of those who felt like I was missing even more valuable information. I’m so glad that you first apologized to the (hopefully still subscribed RUclips member), and then addressed every thing possible for us relaxed hair viewers/subscribers can now take even more information and apply to our daily, weekly, or even monthly routine….and if nothing more it’s just good for me to finally see a male do a relaxed hair care video. THANKS for posting!!
One of the most important tips you gave was not to relax prior to puberty. I've heard far too many stories or children as young as 4 getting a relaxer. I was around 8 or 9 when I had my first relaxer. Additionally, we start so much self hatred with children and their hair when we relax when they are so young.
OMGGGGGGG! I love love love what you say about not trying to get the hair bone straight! I went to a beauty school a couple of times for relaxer and tried to tell them NOT to make it bone straight and the instructor (yes, I said the instructor) approached me and said it HAD to be on my hair a set amount of time. SMH, the student put it in and walked away putting the timer on her phone!
Thank you sooo much . Please please give us more and more tips. Also talking about shampoos to use and those not to use… conditioners to use and those not to use. Yassss
👋🏾 👋🏾 👋🏾 Im definitely subscribing. Im a black female from Florida. Ur sooo intelligent and a great teacher. And second but definitely not least you made me feel safe at the very end saying you love us. 👋🏾Im a sucker for genuine love that toy gave ❤❤❤
Much needed and appreciated. Relaxed life is just as much of a struggle for me than natural life was. Thank you for your expertise and wisdom on the matter.
Than you!! This video was needed. I recently relaxed my hair after going natural for 6 years. I need some education on how to maintain my relaxed hair (I felt out of looped lol). This was extremely helpful. I will look into the deep conditioning and hydration products as well. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!! @GetGlamFam ❤❤❤⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Thank you thank you! I am relaxed but I still took the foundational advice you give to maintain it. I always deep condition with protein/moisture or hydrating mix. I roller set to dry on medium heat which takes forever as I am mid-back but I make it work. I have stretched my relaxers to twice a year and I get a deep protein treatment then. No permanent color and I trim whenever it needs it. You are the GOAT for all hair care but as a relaxed girl thanks for the special attention. I do use the Olaplex 1 & 2 with my relaxers and I love the results.
I just watched this on my TV and I remember seeing one of your first videos on how to revive a wig. I know this comment may go unnoticed because there’s so many comments here but I just want to say thank you! I was considering getting a relaxer for my hair Because my hair grow best when I run through it every four days… It’s odd, but it really is a thing. Having natural hair for the past 11 years has made it such a tedious thing to do. I also realized that while on this natural journey when my hair was moisturized, I completely went platinum blonde once, and my hair was so moisturized and so taken care of that the hairstylist who was going to give me a haircut Swore up and down my hair was damaged. And when he touched my hair, he was shocked that it was not. This video reminded me how important it is to moisturize my hair here on the West Coast. It also noted the importance of having that hair bonnet nearby. I found new products, shampoo and conditioner that I’m going to try, and I’m absolutely going to find some satin rollers! I thank you for this video🙏🏾
Thank you for this. A few years ago I relaxed my hair and my licensed cosmetologist relaxed my hair and left it on for so long. I asked her how long is supposed to sit, she said until my scalp burns…. I had been natural for about 12 years at the time and I even knew that was false. I pretended to be burning. She rinsed it out and my hair was boooone straight. My hair was so straight I didn’t need to flat iron at all, and my hair felt gummy. I was so upset because I had been a client for a while and I trusted her. I cut my hair and restarted. Never went back to her again.
Wow, smh😮. This is Exactly why for 36years I have done it myself 14-51yo. No one will take as much care as you do. I'm sorry to hear you had that experience 🙏
Im so glad you said that about the about of times people can get their hair relaxed. I will only get mine about 3 times a year. Had a lady do my relaxer and it didn't even take. I wasted a $100 just for it to still be frizzy and unmanageable for me. I work to much to be fully natural so that's why I get my relaxers to make it easier on me.
You knocked it out the park with this one. I’m natural, had a perm for 29 years but went natural in 2011. You are “hair” for all of us.🖤➰🖤❗️GlamFam 4 life.
Thank for sharing this. I no longer relax my hair. But maaaan I've made a lot of mistakes and it explains a lot about some issues that I have. Now armed with this knowledge, I will approach my hair differently. You're the best Linwood ❤
I went back to relaxing my hair after 10 years of natural hairstyles. I hate wrapping my hair and prefer rollers and flat ironing. Im listening to your every word. 😅
I'm so thankful for this video. I have been relaxing my own hair for about a year now and completely damaged my hair and scalp the last time I relaxed it 2 months ago. I believe my hair was in shock and my scalp. After about two months I am finally seeing New growth but my hair is no longer growing in as thick as it was. Can you please help in suggest any products I can use on my scalp. Especially now that is in such a sensitive and damaged state. I said I will go natural
Thank you so much for sharing these 25 tips. I had a hair stylist that used no lye relaxers on my hair and over time I noticed this weird white cast on my hair. My stylist and I couldn’t figure out what it was or how to get rid of it. Now after watching this video, I know that it was calcium buildup. Not sure why my stylist didn’t know that, but thanks for educating me on what it is and how to fix it. ❤
After a 2-time run with being natural I’m back to relaxed hair. Exercising daily and sweating was murder on my natural so I cut it and went back to a style I can manage. I appreciate the tips and u sharing your knowledge.
Aww shucks, I was contemplating going natural because I thought the sweating was annoying and destructive to my relaxed hair and it would be easier to manage when natural. Glad I read this comment.
@@its_ebony The sweat made my hair very dry and even coarser so it was impossible to comb on a daily basis and a silk press would only last a day or I had to rearrange my workout routine. It became too much of a hassle and constantly wearing braids wasn’t good either. With all of the products on the market and your texture of hair, you may have a totally different and much better experience being natural.
Omg 😢 maybe that's what happened to me. I am natural and kept crochet braids. My stylist thinks natural isn't working for me. I sweat and workout a lot plus I have hot flashes sometimes.
I’m late to the party but THANK YOU! I was in the middle of prepping my hair for a touch up and came upon this video and straight up STOPPED when I heard “6-8 weeks is the minimum”…. I learned so much and moisturized my hair and it looks so much better from some TLC and moisturizer. Thank you for the in-depth explanation(s) very educational, informative and helpful.
Thank you so so much for this Linwood. I've been relaxed for 15 years now and can't see myself ever going back natural. I love your helpful informative content. God bless you.
When I tell you that my dry, relaxed hair and I jumped for joy seeing this video!!! Thank you!! I'm already on it! I'm no longer allowing relaxers to sit longer than 17 minutes, and I am concentrating on "hydrating" My inner strands and moisturizing my outer strands...adding protein once every 6 weeks. Ty!!! Also, not believing stereotypes about this 4z hair on my head. I'm not chewing gum, I'm medium what you said!😅
I will have to say that I am grateful for this video because I’ve been doing hair for 14 years and these are things I did not know about relaxers… Even for myself, I stopped relaxing my hair for eight years and just began doing so again this past year
LINWOOD!!! As a fellow educator and master stylist, you hit it every important point. Most of the time you can hit on a few during consultation but it’s nearly impossible for clients to retain all of the information. Grateful for you and your channel, saving heads 1 strand at a time! 💜💜💜
You do discuss relaxed hair. I remember you explaining in detail relaxed hair porosity. You utilized the whiteboard in your classroom. Thank you for another great video! ❤️
Thank you Linwood again for this video. I’m returning after leaving comments when this first released. I was using a “no-lye” and couldn’t figure out why my hair was a mess. I switched to a regular relaxer and boom, what a difference. I also began stretching past the 6-8 into 10-12. Boosted the hydration and moisture, and in between conditioning. Now my hair is growing, no more se- through ends, and no more crazy looking hair. I deep condition twice between touch-ups. I became disappointed with hairdressers. I was going to one for almost a year, she allowed her assistant to work on my gray coverup while she attended to another client, within weeks I noticed my hair breaking like crazy. Unfortunately, this was at the time I was relocating, so I could not go back after the initial realization of the breakage. She acknowledged the color may have stayed on too long, and would treat my hair. Unfortunately, I was moving 4 states away. New city, no one wanted to touch my hair. I went through that on my own. When I permed it again, I chose the “no-lye”, but then remembered your channel. So, thank you again. It’s been a journey, but you have been a fountain of advice and real help. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Linwood out her doing the Lord's work!! I was on the creamy crack from 12-24 and then transitioned to keratin treatments for the last 16 years. I couldn't tell you my curl pattern but I follow all his tips for high porosity hair and I have seen not only growth but RETENTION!!! Let them ends go and deep condition!!❤❤❤
Hey Linwood, I followed your advice on trims. I got a trim a day ago and my stylist even didn’t want to trim because I had no split ends for 3 months I am impressed. Your videos have enhanced my at home hair care A LOT!. I oil my ends religiously with Kerastasé Elixir Ultime for color treated hair. I also followed the amino acid/ protein treatments for color treated hair. Thank you for being so informative
Yayyy I'm so happy someone spoke up for us with relax locs. I went back natural nearly 3 yrs ago. Absolutely 💯 hated it. That journey lasted 8 months, but seemed like an eternity in frustration hell. It brought back the memories of back in the day why I had my hair relaxed in the first place. 😮 Thanks for doing this video. I'm about to reach for the remote to watch this on a big screen TV. 👏 #relaxhairgal
I am so glad to hear you say how long you have your clients wait for touch ups. I relax my hair every 3-3.5 months it’s tough the older it gets but I feel my hair is healthier. People think I’m crazy saying that’s too long.
This is my first video of yours I am watching..I have natural hair/haven’t had a relaxer since 2011..but this video is very informative and helpful even for what I need to do for my own kinky curly hair.. and you are funny..glad you love your career and do what you do…
Thanks so very much! I greatly appreciate you watching and leaving your feedback! I have several other videos so if you are interested in other hair related topics, please feel free to check them out as well! 😊🙏🏽 Have a great day!
I big chopped from relaxed hair March 2019, after relaxing my hair for 3 decades. I love my natural hair and would not change my decision. However, Linwood, I wish I was armed with the wealth of information you provided in this video while I had relaxed hair. I would have been spared a lot of the breakage and agony of burnt scalp. You are truly precious! ❤❤
Linwood, thank you for this video...I especially found the info on cocktailing protein with the deep conditioner extremely helpful because I do each separately and I'm always in and out of the shower, cocktailing will definitely save time. Thank you once again.
The tips regarding relaxers for kids; wearing a hat before relaxing; and relaxing my own hair. After your advice, I started letting stylist do it and my hair went down my back. Mind blowing stuff. ❤
Wow - what a treasure trove of information. I have been relaxed since I was a child, and I'm only NOW realizing that my hair has been permed incorrectly for a few decades! It's definitely time for some much needed TLC and moisture! Thank you so much for making this video.
That mic brings out the bass in your voice wow.. you have always done great edits, the music compliments the sound of your voice.. do you have a podcast!? ❤❤❤❤
I just been schooled you said ALOT I never heard before caffeine / hat point. Make us another video with all viable products low n high prices that can help based on hair type damaged dry frizzy etc Am amazed
Thank you. Transitioning back to relaxing. Due to your expertise, I have length & healthy hair. I don’t leave on more than 10 min . As I don’t want bone-straight. Go to 13/15 weeks or more. Less heat❤
I watched to the very end!! Very informative, especially since I’m starting my relaxed hair journal after being natural for about 12 years…my choice. Thanks
Everything he has spoken about is so true. I did know 95% of what he said, but actually, hearing it just makes it or the more real. I'm thinking of going back to relaxers, but it does take a lot of maintenance. Heck, afro hair takes a lot, regardless! 😩🙏
@GetGlamFam oh yes. Thanks for that message. Wish we had really good hair stylists like you in the UK. We do have hair salons that can do it, but the large majority of them are not adequately trained to deal with the challenges of Afro hair.
Got my hair relaxed when I was 9 and never learned how to take care of it myself. This video answered more questions in 30 minutes than I've ever gotten in all my years of living, including why it randomly burned a lot last time I got it relaxed Thank you You're a wonderful teacher
You know ur stuff,did not know about puberty and hair loss,I had stylist put a super relaxer in72,they did not know much relaxers were new 8 had long thivk hair,after that relaxer it was ultra sheen,threw my hair out im 63 now hair finally growing back,knew better,overlapped my light colored hair figured since I use deep treatment weekly and Olaplex I would be finr,fine, hair shed thin all of it I cut it will start over,I relax every 3 to 4 months do u believe 8n detailing leave in likePureo.ogy 21 C9,or Fanatic a dredging extreme anti snap treatments?please let me know u know ur stuff brother God bless u and ur fam8ly.
@@adrienneroxanne9833 Hi, I do through the weird growth periods. My stylist cut a lot of hair off so, I'm in a short style now and will wear one when I don't want to style too much.
I am not relaxed anymore and am never going back, but that tip about stretching out your time between relaxers blew my mind. I never know 6-8 weeks was the minimum.
This popped up as I’ve been researching videos on relaxed hair. I’ll be going back after 10years! Where were you when my hair was breaking off like crazy early 20’s! HYDRATE! HYDRATE! HYDRATE!
Thank you for this! I was feeling a little slighted because I am relaxed but still follow you faithfully. My take away was the staying away from coffee, and stop wearing hats before relaxer. I did have a bad reaction with Olaplex the very first time I used it. It was like it caused protein overload! I assumed I used it incorrectly or it didn’t mix well with other products I used (Giovanni hydrating shamp/0laplex 3, that’s it). I didn’t return to it. Again thank you for the info. The only thing left that I struggle with is I really can’t tell when I need protein or moisture, so I just use moisture and occasionally use the ROUX porosity in my conditioner.
THANK YOU for addressing relaxed hair needs! ❤ I have followed most of these steps throughout my journey. 2 Chic has been my favorite for a while. It really helps my hair maintain moisture, which prevented breakage. Shout out to TJ Maxx & Marshall's for the best price! My hair is the longest it's ever been (mid-back).
New subbie here! I just watched your video and I'm absolutely blown away. Thank you so much for sharing your expertise! After 4 years of maintaining a relaxed pixie cut (following 8 years of painful 4c bra-length hair), I feel hopeful about growing out my relaxed hair. The constant styling of 4c was painful, exhausting, and seemed endless so I relaxed it - but your advice has given me renewed optimism that I can have long relaxed hair. 🇿🇦❤✨
I have long relaxed hair( older lady) its been shedding a lot! I’ve got it now, I think I’m touching up too early. Also I will start doing protective styles more and deep conditioning! Thank you young man ❤
Thank you for saying all of the things! Let people enjoy/experience their journey. It's not always about self hate. I'm natural thinking about becoming texlaxed.
Thank you, Linwood, for the great information!!! ❤ Hydration with deep conditioning has helped me care for my hair and stretch my relaxer to 12 weeks. I like the cocktail advice. I will try that to see how my hair responds.
#4, your definition of coarse hair, #11-12, 16, 17 wowwwww! Thank you for this video. I’m natural and have been for about five years now, but I’m over it and ready to go back to relaxers. Everyone is telling me that I will regret it, but I seriously doubt that. It’s extremely expensive and difficult to manage my natural hair and it’s hard to find a hairstylist that I can trust. I jumped from Braids to twist, etc. with little Braids and I just wanted to figure out the healthiest way to transition back to relaxed hair. this is the first video that I’ve watched that made me feel comfortable with my decision. I really appreciate you posting this.
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I always sleep on satin or silk on my hair. But what do you think about bamboo pillow cases??
Hi there can you please talk about the pros and cons of keratin treatments? Do you like keratin treatments? Thank you so much
Can you please tell me where your salon is?
Can we talk about anti reversion kits? Like Beautiful Textures?
Relaxed Hair Tips (summary)
1. Deep condition regularly (focus on moisture cuz relaxed hair is thirsty hair.)
2. Turn down the heat! If you cannot dial it down, get a flat iron/curl iron you can regulate.
3. Watch frequency of relaxers. STRETCH!
4. Never overlap relaxers (and watch type of relaxers to avoid build up - avoid Calcium Hydroxide.)
5. Bone straight hair is not the goal of a relaxer.
6. Scalp health matters! Always base scalp.
7. Relaxer is for the hair, not the scalp.
8. Relaxer should not be applied to the edges first.
9. Do not shampoo hair 3 days before a relaxer.
10. The scalp is not an indicator of when the relaxer is gone professing. Processing time starts as soon as the relaxer touches the hair.
11. Avoid caffeine going into your relaxer appointment! Makes scalp more sensitive.
12. Do not wear a hat to appointment.
13. Do not workout before a relaxer
14. Opt for low heat styling.
15. Maintain style by wrapping at night. Do not apply heat daily.
16. Always sleep on satin or silk (these are moisture resistant fabrics.)
17. PROFESSIONALLY: ask stylist about using OLAPLEX 1 in relaxer and OLAPLEX 2 post relaxer.
18. Stay on top of trims.
19. Relaxer and bleaching do not go together.
20. Be gentle (wet hair tells all the truth dry hair lies about.)
21. Detangle hair starting at from the ends.
22. Relaxed hair is high porosity.
23. Use heat protection (isopropyl alcohol and SD alcohol free.)
24. Do not be afraid of silicones after moisturizing hair.
25. Hair should not be relaxed prior to puberty.
Additional tips not listed: medical and psychiatric conditions (thyroid disease, lupus, alopecia , depression, anorexia etc) impact hair.
My tip: Puberty is not a license to process!
1. Deep condition
2. Watch your temperature- 350° max
3. Watch your frequency
4. Never overlap relaxer
5. Never get your hair bone straight
6. Scalp health matters (base your scalp)
7. Avoid getting relaxer on your scalp
8. Do not apply relaxer to your edges first
9. Do not wash your hair 3 days prior to getting a relaxer
10. The scalp is not an indicator of when the relaxer is processed
11. Avoid caffeine prior to getting a relaxer
12. Do not wear a hat prior to your appointment
13. Do not workout before getting a relaxer
14. Opt for low heat styles such as twist outs, roller sets etc
15. Wrap your hair at night
16. Sleep on silk
17. Mix Olaplex #1 in the relaxer
18. Stay on top your trims
19. Relaxer & bleach are not a good combination
20. Be gentle with your hair especially when it’s wet
21. Start at the ends of your hair & work your way up
22. Relaxed hair is high porosity hair
23. Use heat protection & products that are alcohol free
24. Don’t be scared of silicones
25. Do not relax your child’s hair prior to puberty.
Thank you!
I need Linwood to come do my hair. Lol!
Great video!
You’re the real mvp🎉 1:53
Honey there is a special place for people such as yourself. Thank you. ❤️
He was my teacher in cosmetology school, just wanted to drop in and thank him for being an awesome teacher! Happy to see your page doing well and thriving!
Thanks fam! ❤️❤️ I hope you are well!
Great video!!!
I hope it is okay to say this. For those with relaxed hair, just know that ALMOST every thing he talks about natural hair, can be applied to relaxed hair. I am relaxed for years, followed him and applied a lot of his teaching to my hair routine. With some research, I tweak some advice to take care of my hair as relaxed. I stretched between 11 to 13 weeks.
Same, sis!
Agree 🎉
Hey! Like always, I enjoyed reading your content. I'm a licensed cosmetologist and instructor as well. Relaxer is making a huge comeback. At 46, I was tired of the long hair and wanted a new mature look. Then I saw you posted a new video. I'm going to relax my hair. ❤
What sodium base relaxer do you use?
I’ve also used his natural hair advice for my relaxed hair. The blend of deep conditioner and protein made my hair blossom and corrected some weakness. Thanks Linwood
My fave one is SafeRX by Vitale Pro. I used to have to special order it, but it was one of the few that I was actually satisfied with in the relaxer market.
Thank you for saying that it’s an individual journey on whether you would like to be natural or relaxed. I’m relaxed and happy. Natural hair isn’t for everyone and I respect everyone’s hair journey.
Why is this man so amazing!?! Dropping a ton of knowledge that a lot of us relaxed girls need while NOT being judgmental bc of our decision to relax! He’s funny and his voice is so relaxing and reassuring! I always feel better at the end of watching his videos and short clips! Thank you so much for being you and being a beacon of light and positivity in our community!💕💕🌸
That part about being NOT judgmental is true, it's appreciated. The fact that some "professional" hairstylist come very rude to relaxed hair is quite shocking. We all choose how we'd like our hair, whether that's relaxed, natural, blue, blonde, baby hairs or none just be professional. So I'm thankful for his positive and professionalism.
Not being judged is the number one thing
Thank you!
The judgement is real sometimes so I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels that way at times
(Especially from fellow people of color….unfortunately)
I like to relax my hair but THATS WHAT I WANT TO DO
I’m not trying to be “white” or whatever
I just like to do what I want to do
So I’m really glad I saw this comment
-peace and love
@@jessvester8741wow
I said me comment and just saw your comment and you took the words from my mouth
Just because you’re enjoying your natural hair journey doesn’t mean you have to tear up someone else’s journey.” He said it all there. I like the non judgmental approach towards relaxed hair. I’m over the people with natural hair who act like they’re the poster child of good health or the “real black people.” My hair is relaxed, thick, long and healthy because I take care of it by incorporating over 90% of his tips. Having relaxed hair is my choice. I love being a black woman and having a relaxer does not change that. Sorry I had to vent.
I braided my hair up every night and 😊 take it down in the morning. I use olive oil on my hair. Just a drop olive all on my hair. I braided it up at night some weekend. I just rock. My braide hair relaxing around the house 😊 I try to make my life very simple, no fake hair, not fake nails 🙂 Jus t me, Mrs. B. I see a lot of women don't know who they are on the inside 😊love yourself this gentleman has good intentions, very nice advice 😊
Ain't nothing "old and dusty" about you. You are the hair guru for healthy hair. 💜
I am 54 years old and have had a relaxer since I was 14. I was never told 6-8 weeks was the minimum for a retouch. I will be using the 12-15 weeks from now on.
These tips are 1000% spot on. Relaxed girl here, still loving the creamy crack for well over 30 years and my hair is super healthy. I am at 12 to 14 weeks for a relaxer. First, having a fabulous hairdresser is key. When Covid hit I was forced to deal with hair that had not been relaxed in well over a year. During that time I relied on the relief and hydration of natural hair products gave me. As Lindwood says, (I love that he and my cousin share the same name!❤) hydration is the key. Most people believe If you get a relaxer you are done with your hair. As your hair is your crowning joy why on earth would you not tend to it and treat it like gold? I only use heat on my hair after wash and blow-dry. I always wrap my hair in silk and/or satin. I pin curl my hair or use Spoolies. I don't weigh my scalp down with heavy oils as your head needs to breathe. I only use product when necessary. Do all the tips in this video and you will have lovely locks always.
Enjoyed your information on relaxed hair,thank you.
@@halleenjohnson7311 You are very welcome! I've spent a lifetime researching products for myself. Believe me I was not always careful in my youth. When you have your hair fallout you will learn the hard way that your hair no matter who you are or how you process or don't process your hair, you have to take care of it. Blessings to you.
I agree and love your comment. I’ve been relaxed over 30 years. My hair is healthy as I go to a professional hairdresser who use top tier products. I also take care of me hair.
@@erikacruz4609 That is so awesome. I am glad I am not the only one! Especially as I get older it's even more important to maintain health overall.
Omg, I needed you 25 years ago. I have gone through the cycle of being natural and relaxed for decades. This final time, I relaxed my hair 6 weeks ago, and let me tell you, we are going to do it right this TIME!
I was just thinking the other day that I wish you would do a video on relaxed hair. I am almost embarrassed to say that my AH-HA moment came when you posted the TikTok about Oil is not moisture. I am 50 years old and no one ever told me that they just tell you to grease your scalp and use a good oil. I am now on a journey to healthy relaxed hair. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
There were so many things they didn’t tell our generation about our hair. I was thinking the same thing. I didn’t find out what constituted a moisturizer until I went natural. And I was today years old when I found out that hydration and moisturizer were distinct things.
Yes the hydration moisturizer topic is something else. I’m trying to learn so many things and then on top of that have to apply what is learned. I’m so thankful for this man
It’s about time! Us relax sistas still hanging in there
Exactly girl
Your so pretty
Yessss! Shout out to the girly whose comment led to this content. I've known for a while that moisture and protein balance matter for both relaxed and natural hair - so most of your content has always been helpful to me. Most of your tips are already a part of my hair routine, but the biggest takeaways are: the sensitive scalp chemical difference, that coarse hair is really fine and how to use silicones. I live in Houston and sweat in my head, so the humidity has me at war with frizz. So many products to combat frizz have silicones so I haven't been able to find a solution to the frizz. Your tips on how to use them are much appreciated!
Silicones are great
Yess. Shout out to you girlfriend
Have you by chance tried Miel rosemary styling cream? Can’t remember the exact name but it’s part of that rosemary oil line… if doing twist outs of even buns or whatever m, it helps smooth frizz. Honestly the shampoo thick rich conditioner and the oil are great
As someone that was traumatized during my first relaxer at 9 years old, I truly appreciate your call to not relax a child’s hair. Thank you for sharing such rich information and I look forward to learning more tips along the way! Love and light 💖
I was always led to believe by my mother that she had to relax my hair because I didn't want it combed as a child. So I grew up believing that my natural hair would be so hard to handle. My hair stylist for years kept telling me that my hair would not be hard to take care as a natural. I am now in my late 40s and have just stopped relaxing my hair and I can't believe that my hair is not hard to handle as my mom led me to believe. So I 100 per cent agree with you with waiting and letting people decide once they are older to get their hair relaxed.
I relax my hair and literally treat it like it's natural. The less you do to your relaxed hair as far as intricate styles, the better. I stay keeping my hair moisturized! And my hair just keeps on flourishing 😊
Thank you Linwood for these amazing tips! I did not know relaxing prior to puberty was so risky until you broke down the reasons why & it makes perfect sense. Also, thank you to the subbie who brought the lack of relaxed content to Linwood’s attention; i hope you didnt unsubscribe and miss this amazing video❤
I knew 5 year olds that got relaxers. I'm shocked that that is the norm.
The relaxing schedule, I have been told six to 8 weeks. I always do minimum 12wks and the have fine texture relaxed. Down to bra top now. Growing back to mid back.
OK, so I went back to a relaxer about a year ago. I was previously relaxed for years. So you want to know which point resonated with me...all 25. I thought I knew a few things about relaxed hair but boy was I mistaken. Thanks Linwood. As of today I will handle my hair with a lot more care.
How come I just discovered your page....here with relaxed hair plus a daughter with natural hair.....Thank you so so so much for this
I wish my parent had had this video when I was 8. Sally's had us fooled - thankfully we found a good stylist in my teens and my hair bounced back 🙌🏼
Just wanted to say I got your recommended deep conditioner from Giovanni, and it was exactly what I needed! The hunt for the right one is finally over. Thank you!!
Love your videos! The info regarding moisture and protein balance was new to me as well as consuming stimulants before relaxers is new - but totally makes sense. I wish I had this advice when I wore my hair relaxed for 20 years (scalp burns, over processing, relaxing prior to puberty, shedding, ...I experienced all that). Now that I've been natural for 16 years, I've realized that education is key. One is not "easier" than the other. I've experienced dryness and breakage with both relaxed and natural hair due to lack of education. Thank you, for informing and educating Linwood! ❤ This was very helpful.
My joy fam! Thanks for watching!
Thank you very much for teaching me to turn down my flat iron. I was burning out my hair so now I know all I need is two taps on medium , turn and straight down.
I truly believe that many professional stylist don't know this. I still have scalp damage 20 years later from a bad relaxer where she pulled, scratched and then put a processing cap on my head. It finally stopped having pain in the areas around three years ago but my hair grows in weakly in those areas. As a matter of fact. I'm lossing three of my locs in that area now.
I'm so sorry you went through that. I have never heard of anyone especially stylists pull or scratch during processing a relaxer let alone put on a process cap. Thats something you may do with conditioner.. I hope you were compensated
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I'm watching this like I'm about to relax my hair lol. I wish I knew this when I got relaxers. Thanks for making this video! Shout out to all the relaxed girlies.
Thank you, thank you so very much...I've learned so much! My Mom started relaxing my hair when I was 9 because, to this day, I sweat in my head...btw I'm 64 yrs old. I'm going to watch this video several times to absorb all the info!
This video is so informative. Thanks for not bashing people with relaxed hair. I appreciate your professionalism and your desire to want to share your knowledge.
Low key, this makes me want to get a relaxer again. Now that I have better knowledge and tools, I'm sure I can remedy the previous issues I had prior to going natural.
I got a relaxer and i treat it way better. I hope for the best. But if it falls out, I know how to be natural. Im good
Ah! You are a KING! As a person considering relaxing my hair, I thank you so much for this info and education!
I too am relaxed and although I’ve taken a lot of your profession hair care knowledge of the natural men and women to some of my hair routines….I have also been one of those who felt like I was missing even more valuable information. I’m so glad that you first apologized to the (hopefully still subscribed RUclips member), and then addressed every thing possible for us relaxed hair viewers/subscribers can now take even more information and apply to our daily, weekly, or even monthly routine….and if nothing more it’s just good for me to finally see a male do a relaxed hair care video. THANKS for posting!!
Wow!!!! Relaxed hair is high porosity hair. Whaaaaat?!!! Thank you for all of your wisdom. I'm here for all of your pearls of wisdom.
One of the most important tips you gave was not to relax prior to puberty. I've heard far too many stories or children as young as 4 getting a relaxer. I was around 8 or 9 when I had my first relaxer. Additionally, we start so much self hatred with children and their hair when we relax when they are so young.
LOVVVVVE YOUR 25 tips FOR RELAXED HAIR as a fellow stylist for over 20 years YOU WERE ON THE MONEY ❤
OMGGGGGGG! I love love love what you say about not trying to get the hair bone straight! I went to a beauty school a couple of times for relaxer and tried to tell them NOT to make it bone straight and the instructor (yes, I said the instructor) approached me and said it HAD to be on my hair a set amount of time. SMH, the student put it in and walked away putting the timer on her phone!
Thank you sooo much . Please please give us more and more tips. Also talking about shampoos to use and those not to use… conditioners to use and those not to use. Yassss
👋🏾 👋🏾 👋🏾 Im definitely subscribing. Im a black female from Florida. Ur sooo intelligent and a great teacher. And second but definitely not least you made me feel safe at the very end saying you love us. 👋🏾Im a sucker for genuine love that toy gave ❤❤❤
Much needed and appreciated. Relaxed life is just as much of a struggle for me than natural life was.
Thank you for your expertise and wisdom on the matter.
Than you!! This video was needed. I recently relaxed my hair after going natural for 6 years. I need some education on how to maintain my relaxed hair (I felt out of looped lol). This was extremely helpful. I will look into the deep conditioning and hydration products as well. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!! @GetGlamFam ❤❤❤⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Thank you thank you! I am relaxed but I still took the foundational advice you give to maintain it. I always deep condition with protein/moisture or hydrating mix. I roller set to dry on medium heat which takes forever as I am mid-back but I make it work. I have stretched my relaxers to twice a year and I get a deep protein treatment then. No permanent color and I trim whenever it needs it. You are the GOAT for all hair care but as a relaxed girl thanks for the special attention. I do use the Olaplex 1 & 2 with my relaxers and I love the results.
I just watched this on my TV and I remember seeing one of your first videos on how to revive a wig. I know this comment may go unnoticed because there’s so many comments here but I just want to say thank you! I was considering getting a relaxer for my hair Because my hair grow best when I run through it every four days… It’s odd, but it really is a thing. Having natural hair for the past 11 years has made it such a tedious thing to do. I also realized that while on this natural journey when my hair was moisturized, I completely went platinum blonde once, and my hair was so moisturized and so taken care of that the hairstylist who was going to give me a haircut Swore up and down my hair was damaged. And when he touched my hair, he was shocked that it was not. This video reminded me how important it is to moisturize my hair here on the West Coast. It also noted the importance of having that hair bonnet nearby. I found new products, shampoo and conditioner that I’m going to try, and I’m absolutely going to find some satin rollers! I thank you for this video🙏🏾
Thank you for this. A few years ago I relaxed my hair and my licensed cosmetologist relaxed my hair and left it on for so long. I asked her how long is supposed to sit, she said until my scalp burns…. I had been natural for about 12 years at the time and I even knew that was false. I pretended to be burning. She rinsed it out and my hair was boooone straight. My hair was so straight I didn’t need to flat iron at all, and my hair felt gummy. I was so upset because I had been a client for a while and I trusted her. I cut my hair and restarted. Never went back to her again.
Wow, smh😮. This is Exactly why for 36years I have done it myself 14-51yo. No one will take as much care as you do. I'm sorry to hear you had that experience 🙏
this "gummy" texture i hear sometimes, sounds so odd. literally sounds like it melted your hair
Sorry.
Im so glad you said that about the about of times people can get their hair relaxed. I will only get mine about 3 times a year. Had a lady do my relaxer and it didn't even take. I wasted a $100 just for it to still be frizzy and unmanageable for me. I work to much to be fully natural so that's why I get my relaxers to make it easier on me.
You knocked it out the park with this one. I’m natural, had a perm for 29 years but went natural in 2011. You are “hair” for all of us.🖤➰🖤❗️GlamFam 4 life.
Lame
Thank you for making this video. What I never heard is how you use Ola Plex, good to know.
Thank for sharing this. I no longer relax my hair. But maaaan I've made a lot of mistakes and it explains a lot about some issues that I have. Now armed with this knowledge, I will approach my hair differently. You're the best Linwood ❤
I went back to relaxing my hair after 10 years of natural hairstyles. I hate wrapping my hair and prefer rollers and flat ironing. Im listening to your every word. 😅
I'm so thankful for this video. I have been relaxing my own hair for about a year now and completely damaged my hair and scalp the last time I relaxed it 2 months ago. I believe my hair was in shock and my scalp. After about two months I am finally seeing New growth but my hair is no longer growing in as thick as it was. Can you please help in suggest any products I can use on my scalp. Especially now that is in such a sensitive and damaged state. I said I will go natural
Thank you so much for sharing these 25 tips. I had a hair stylist that used no lye relaxers on my hair and over time I noticed this weird white cast on my hair. My stylist and I couldn’t figure out what it was or how to get rid of it. Now after watching this video, I know that it was calcium buildup. Not sure why my stylist didn’t know that, but thanks for educating me on what it is and how to fix it. ❤
After a 2-time run with being natural I’m back to relaxed hair. Exercising daily and sweating was murder on my natural so I cut it and went back to a style I can manage. I appreciate the tips and u sharing your knowledge.
Aww shucks, I was contemplating going natural because I thought the sweating was annoying and destructive to my relaxed hair and it would be easier to manage when natural. Glad I read this comment.
@@its_ebony The sweat made my hair very dry and even coarser so it was impossible to comb on a daily basis and a silk press would only last a day or I had to rearrange my workout routine. It became too much of a hassle and constantly wearing braids wasn’t good either. With all of the products on the market and your texture of hair, you may have a totally different and much better experience being natural.
I Didn't Know Sweat Was Badd Forr The Hair. I Always Thought Itt Morsterized.
Omg 😢 maybe that's what happened to me. I am natural and kept crochet braids. My stylist thinks natural isn't working for me. I sweat and workout a lot plus I have hot flashes sometimes.
I’m late to the party but THANK YOU! I was in the middle of prepping my hair for a touch up and came upon this video and straight up STOPPED when I heard “6-8 weeks is the minimum”…. I learned so much and moisturized my hair and it looks so much better from some TLC and moisturizer. Thank you for the in-depth explanation(s) very educational, informative and helpful.
Thank you so so much for this Linwood. I've been relaxed for 15 years now and can't see myself ever going back natural. I love your helpful informative content. God bless you.
Great content for us relaxed hair girls. Thank you so much.
When I tell you that my dry, relaxed hair and I jumped for joy seeing this video!!! Thank you!! I'm already on it! I'm no longer allowing relaxers to sit longer than 17 minutes, and I am concentrating on "hydrating" My inner strands and moisturizing my outer strands...adding protein once every 6 weeks. Ty!!! Also, not believing stereotypes about this 4z hair on my head. I'm not chewing gum, I'm medium what you said!😅
I will have to say that I am grateful for this video because I’ve been doing hair for 14 years and these are things I did not know about relaxers… Even for myself, I stopped relaxing my hair for eight years and just began doing so again this past year
LINWOOD!!! As a fellow educator and master stylist, you hit it every important point. Most of the time you can hit on a few during consultation but it’s nearly impossible for clients to retain all of the information. Grateful for you and your channel, saving heads 1 strand at a time! 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for all of these relaxed hair tips. Best i heard on relaxed hair. Please make more videos on relaxed hair
You do discuss relaxed hair. I remember you explaining in detail relaxed hair porosity. You utilized the whiteboard in your classroom. Thank you for another great video! ❤️
Thank you Linwood again for this video. I’m returning after leaving comments when this first released. I was using a “no-lye” and couldn’t figure out why my hair was a mess. I switched to a regular relaxer and boom, what a difference. I also began stretching past the 6-8 into 10-12. Boosted the hydration and moisture, and in between conditioning. Now my hair is growing, no more se- through ends, and no more crazy looking hair. I deep condition twice between touch-ups. I became disappointed with hairdressers. I was going to one for almost a year, she allowed her assistant to work on my gray coverup while she attended to another client, within weeks I noticed my hair breaking like crazy. Unfortunately, this was at the time I was relocating, so I could not go back after the initial realization of the breakage. She acknowledged the color may have stayed on too long, and would treat my hair. Unfortunately, I was moving 4 states away. New city, no one wanted to touch my hair. I went through that on my own. When I permed it again, I chose the “no-lye”, but then remembered your channel. So, thank you again. It’s been a journey, but you have been a fountain of advice and real help. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Linwood out her doing the Lord's work!! I was on the creamy crack from 12-24 and then transitioned to keratin treatments for the last 16 years. I couldn't tell you my curl pattern but I follow all his tips for high porosity hair and I have seen not only growth but RETENTION!!! Let them ends go and deep condition!!❤❤❤
Hey Linwood, I followed your advice on trims. I got a trim a day ago and my stylist even didn’t want to trim because I had no split ends for 3 months I am impressed. Your videos have enhanced my at home hair care A LOT!. I oil my ends religiously with Kerastasé Elixir Ultime for color treated hair. I also followed the amino acid/ protein treatments for color treated hair. Thank you for being so informative
I needed this l just relaxed my hair for the first time in 15 years...and baby that will be a journey
Yayyy
I'm so happy someone spoke up for us with relax locs. I went back natural nearly 3 yrs ago. Absolutely 💯 hated it. That journey lasted 8 months, but seemed like an eternity in frustration hell. It brought back the memories of back in the day why I had my hair relaxed in the first place. 😮 Thanks for doing this video. I'm about to reach for the remote to watch this on a big screen TV. 👏 #relaxhairgal
I am so glad to hear you say how long you have your clients wait for touch ups. I relax my hair every 3-3.5 months it’s tough the older it gets but I feel my hair is healthier. People think I’m crazy saying that’s too long.
Tip number 10 hit a nerve 😂 "your scalp is not an indicator of when the relaxer is done processing" wish somebody told me this 10 years ago.
Needed this 50 yrs ago!
This is my first video of yours I am watching..I have natural hair/haven’t had a relaxer since 2011..but this video is very informative and helpful even for what I need to do for my own kinky curly hair.. and you are funny..glad you love your career and do what you do…
Thanks so very much! I greatly appreciate you watching and leaving your feedback! I have several other videos so if you are interested in other hair related topics, please feel free to check them out as well! 😊🙏🏽 Have a great day!
I big chopped from relaxed hair March 2019, after relaxing my hair for 3 decades. I love my natural hair and would not change my decision. However, Linwood, I wish I was armed with the wealth of information you provided in this video while I had relaxed hair. I would have been spared a lot of the breakage and agony of burnt scalp. You are truly precious! ❤❤
I won't relax anymore because I don't want chemicals on my hair. These chemicals used to relax hair are dangerous
Thank you sooo much !!! I really needed this ❤
Linwood, thank you for this video...I especially found the info on cocktailing protein with the deep conditioner extremely helpful because I do each separately and I'm always in and out of the shower, cocktailing will definitely save time. Thank you once again.
The tips regarding relaxers for kids; wearing a hat before relaxing; and relaxing my own hair. After your advice, I started letting stylist do it and my hair went down my back. Mind blowing stuff. ❤
I don’t use heat unless it’s my birthday. I deep condition like it’s my first language and my hair loves it.
Wow - what a treasure trove of information. I have been relaxed since I was a child, and I'm only NOW realizing that my hair has been permed incorrectly for a few decades! It's definitely time for some much needed TLC and moisture! Thank you so much for making this video.
That mic brings out the bass in your voice wow.. you have always done great edits, the music compliments the sound of your voice.. do you have a podcast!? ❤❤❤❤
I just been schooled you said ALOT I never heard before caffeine / hat point. Make us another video with all viable products low n high prices that can help based on hair type damaged dry frizzy etc Am amazed
This video is EVERYTHING! Tips 22:08 that I needed to hear - keep heat well below 400 degrees, hydration and keep up with trims. So informative!
Thank you. Transitioning back to relaxing. Due to your expertise, I have length & healthy hair. I don’t leave on more than 10 min . As I don’t want bone-straight. Go to 13/15 weeks or more. Less heat❤
I watched to the very end!! Very informative, especially since I’m starting my relaxed hair journal after being natural for about 12 years…my choice.
Thanks
Everything he has spoken about is so true. I did know 95% of what he said, but actually, hearing it just makes it or the more real. I'm thinking of going back to relaxers, but it does take a lot of maintenance. Heck, afro hair takes a lot, regardless! 😩🙏
Absolutely! Proper care can be a good degree of work, it helps to build a routine around it so it doesn’t feel overly laborious.
@GetGlamFam oh yes. Thanks for that message. Wish we had really good hair stylists like you in the UK. We do have hair salons that can do it, but the large majority of them are not adequately trained to deal with the challenges of Afro hair.
Amazing advice. My hairdressing has been doing it wrong for years and I started relaxing my hair at a very young age
I haven't relaxed my hair in 4 years. But I watched this whole video and found it very informative. Now do one on moisture vs hydration.
When i was relaxed...a braid out was my favorite style. The beach wave look was a vibe.
Got my hair relaxed when I was 9 and never learned how to take care of it myself.
This video answered more questions in 30 minutes than I've ever gotten in all my years of living, including why it randomly burned a lot last time I got it relaxed
Thank you
You're a wonderful teacher
You know ur stuff,did not know about puberty and hair loss,I had stylist put a super relaxer in72,they did not know much relaxers were new 8 had long thivk hair,after that relaxer it was ultra sheen,threw my hair out im 63 now hair finally growing back,knew better,overlapped my light colored hair figured since I use deep treatment weekly and Olaplex I would be finr,fine, hair shed thin all of it I cut it will start over,I relax every 3 to 4 months do u believe 8n detailing leave in likePureo.ogy 21 C9,or Fanatic a dredging extreme anti snap treatments?please let me know u know ur stuff brother God bless u and ur fam8ly.
Thank you so much! I've been inching towards going back to relaxed hair after 16 yrs, and wanna do it the right way
My absolute pleasure! Thanks for watching and I hope this helped!
Perfect timing of this video. Just went relaxed after years of natural and wigs. Thank you!!!
Do you still wear wigs with a relaxer?
@@adrienneroxanne9833 Hi, I do through the weird growth periods. My stylist cut a lot of hair off so, I'm in a short style now and will wear one when I don't want to style too much.
natural girl going through it but i am still deciding if i want to do this. thank you so much . subbie for life
I am not relaxed anymore and am never going back, but that tip about stretching out your time between relaxers blew my mind. I never know 6-8 weeks was the minimum.
This popped up as I’ve been researching videos on relaxed hair. I’ll be going back after 10years! Where were you when my hair was breaking off like crazy early 20’s! HYDRATE! HYDRATE! HYDRATE!
Thank you for this! I was feeling a little slighted because I am relaxed but still follow you faithfully. My take away was the staying away from coffee, and stop wearing hats before relaxer. I did have a bad reaction with Olaplex the very first time I used it. It was like it caused protein overload! I assumed I used it incorrectly or it didn’t mix well with other products I used (Giovanni hydrating shamp/0laplex 3, that’s it). I didn’t return to it. Again thank you for the info. The only thing left that I struggle with is I really can’t tell when I need protein or moisture, so I just use moisture and occasionally use the ROUX porosity in my conditioner.
I love that you out the video up many people think when you hair relaxed you can not have healthy relaxed hair .
THANK YOU for addressing relaxed hair needs! ❤ I have followed most of these steps throughout my journey. 2 Chic has been my favorite for a while. It really helps my hair maintain moisture, which prevented breakage. Shout out to TJ Maxx & Marshall's for the best price! My hair is the longest it's ever been (mid-back).
New subbie here! I just watched your video and I'm absolutely blown away. Thank you so much for sharing your expertise! After 4 years of maintaining a relaxed pixie cut (following 8 years of painful 4c bra-length hair), I feel hopeful about growing out my relaxed hair. The constant styling of 4c was painful, exhausting, and seemed endless so I relaxed it - but your advice has given me renewed optimism that I can have long relaxed hair. 🇿🇦❤✨
Can you do a video on lightening/coloring relaxed hair?
I have long relaxed hair( older lady) its been shedding a lot! I’ve got it now, I think I’m touching up too early. Also I will start doing protective styles more and deep conditioning! Thank you young man ❤
Thank you for saying all of the things! Let people enjoy/experience their journey. It's not always about self hate. I'm natural thinking about becoming texlaxed.
Thank u so much. I am natural now but know eventually I’m going back to perms. When I was relaxing my hair I only touched up 2 or 3x a year.
This video came right on time! I was desperately in need of all these information. Thanks Linwood. You are an answer to prayers 🥰
This video was AMAZING! There are so many jokes about relaxed hair but if people watched this video, they would understand SO much more.
Thank you, Linwood, for the great information!!! ❤ Hydration with deep conditioning has helped me care for my hair and stretch my relaxer to 12 weeks. I like the cocktail advice. I will try that to see how my hair responds.
#4, your definition of coarse hair, #11-12, 16, 17 wowwwww! Thank you for this video. I’m natural and have been for about five years now, but I’m over it and ready to go back to relaxers. Everyone is telling me that I will regret it, but I seriously doubt that. It’s extremely expensive and difficult to manage my natural hair and it’s hard to find a hairstylist that I can trust. I jumped from Braids to twist, etc. with little Braids and I just wanted to figure out the healthiest way to transition back to relaxed hair. this is the first video that I’ve watched that made me feel comfortable with my decision. I really appreciate you posting this.