ENNEAGRAM Type 6 | Annoying Things Sixes Do in Romantic Relationships

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  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад +17

    Hello Type 6s (and people who love 6s)! The first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: skl.sh/abbeyhowe05211

  • @coconutcat1280
    @coconutcat1280 3 года назад +169

    “I want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts” 😂 Yep, that’s me

    • @amandamcwilliams8470
      @amandamcwilliams8470 3 года назад

      Yep, so true haha!

    • @kellyf2301
      @kellyf2301 3 года назад +1

      Yes, she put it into words for me finally! Haha

    • @nelsonmaam
      @nelsonmaam Год назад +1

      Did she read my personal journal or have a spy cam in my house??

  • @juliesalcido4458
    @juliesalcido4458 3 года назад +49

    Im a six and the one where we’re worried about the house burning down or something bad happened is sooo true even outside a relationship I used to sit in class and think about if a school shooter was to come in what would I do lol

  • @juls_krsslr7908
    @juls_krsslr7908 3 года назад +41

    This is very accurate. I'm glad you are able to see the humor in these things. As a 6 myself, it has really helped me to laugh at myself when I catch myself doing stereotypical 6 things. I've been in therapy for years and I've worked a lot on not projecting, not making negative interpretations, and believing that I can trust my gut and abilities on most things, but I still find myself doing these annoying things in new ways. If I can laugh at myself when I discover it, it's easier to stop and change my behavior.

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones 3 года назад +42

    I’m married to a 6. And examples #6-#7 are VERY accurate. Like... very.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад +1

      😂 amazing

    • @JortsMcGee
      @JortsMcGee 3 года назад +2

      Yep. Newly realized 6 here. Spot on 😂 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Mahogany_Wellness
    @Mahogany_Wellness 3 года назад +19

    “You underestimate my love for thoughtfulness and caffeination” I feel seen 😂

  • @LexaLite
    @LexaLite 2 года назад +23

    I'm 5 dating a 6 and I've just laughed through all of this especially the coffee bit. "I am never not thinking of you when you I run errands" my six has said stuff like this.

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones 3 года назад +32

    I know this is obvious, but CLEARLY she should have gone with the basic cottage core dress.

  • @raluca88798
    @raluca88798 2 года назад +6

    "tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" 😂Wow, now I truly understand my boyfriend, thanks

  • @danielleybelly411
    @danielleybelly411 Год назад +8

    Your content is FANTASTIC, Abbey. I'm constantly looking for proof that I am not truly a 6 - but gosh some of this stuff, like it or not, is totally ME. Thank you for your humor - honestly laughter is the best, it's my favorite! and you are HILARIOUS 🤣

  • @digithuman
    @digithuman 3 года назад +6

    "I just want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" accurate

  • @ashleighprice3492
    @ashleighprice3492 3 года назад +16

    Sooo me! Fearing fear itself is an everyday reality! I know I drive my husband crazy.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад

      It's a hard fear to have, but something that can be worked through!!

  • @wiegraf9009
    @wiegraf9009 11 месяцев назад +3

    To all the sixes out there, we appreciate your loyalty, even though we see it's motivated by fear. When you do find loving and secure environments you can live beyond the fear and become shining stars we all admire!

  • @the_real_littlepinkhousefly
    @the_real_littlepinkhousefly 3 года назад +15

    Dang, girl, you just totally nailed my life. Add in ADHD and OCD (actual, diagnosed OCD, not "oh, everybody's a little OCD" -- no, they are not), and you can imagine the fun times my husband has. (He won't even watch this, he says it sounds too depressing.)
    I wonder if more Sixes have OCD than other types ...?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад +3

      I'm happy to hear you feel seen. I don't know about the OCD and Type 6s. There definitely isn't any data out there (that I've seen) about Enneagram Types and Mental Health. But regardless, I hope your husband does watch the video because I don't think it's depressing!!

    • @the_real_littlepinkhousefly
      @the_real_littlepinkhousefly 3 года назад +2

      @@AbbeyHowe I'll try to get him to! I thought it was great!

  • @denicabishop
    @denicabishop Год назад +4

    "Where's your wallet? I told the pastor I would buy $200 worth of donuts." And then "The pastor was caught stealing the tithes. I'm never going to another church ever again". I'm dying from laughter and freaking out at the accuracy!!! This is bananas how spot on this is for me. Like somebody had a freaking camera in my house! Wait... what if somebody had a camera in my house? Just kidding. Sort of😅

  • @hasamahikaru
    @hasamahikaru Год назад +1

    I FEEL SO CALLED OUT

  • @emmalengel9146
    @emmalengel9146 Год назад +1

    Subscribed within 50 sec. You have an amazing energy

  • @julieknight3534
    @julieknight3534 2 года назад +2

    I love your humor in discussing the types!

  • @auntbeast9640
    @auntbeast9640 3 года назад +5

    i'm a type 7 with a mom who's a type 6 and BOY is this accurate!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад

      I'm glad it resonated!!

  • @lindawebster7877
    @lindawebster7877 Месяц назад

    You are HILARIOUS!! I love this!!

  • @marishaten7399
    @marishaten7399 3 года назад +11

    I was waiting for the type 6 wings video, but this gem came along first. Thank you so much, I understand my Type 6 sister so much better now!
    By the way, I switched from Type 5 to 8 to 9 and now have settled on 7. Is it possible to be an introverted 7? I read Riso, and found out that it doesn't specifically say 'extrovert' for 7. Will you consider making a video on introvert 7s?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад +3

      It is absolutely possible to be an introverted 7! They often appear more extroverted in examples (like my videos!), but you will find introverts and extroverts in every single type!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад +2

      Oh, and yes! I will put introversion and the enneagram in my Trello!

    • @marishaten7399
      @marishaten7399 3 года назад

      @@AbbeyHowe Aww thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤

  • @seven5900
    @seven5900 3 года назад +3

    i love your channel ! i hope you continue to make content

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 года назад

      Thank you! That's the plan!

  • @noopinionslikeswitzerland6966
    @noopinionslikeswitzerland6966 3 года назад +3

    I’m a 9w1, but I sometimes have irrational 6 fears like “gee I hope that power line doesn’t fall on my car and fry me like deep fried chicken”

    • @morxsine
      @morxsine 3 года назад +3

      probably because 9s can disintegrate into 6 anxieties but idk lol

  • @MichelleMod1
    @MichelleMod1 2 года назад +1

    Omg when she brought out the journal…
    😳 SO TRUE

  • @gerrygarcia6247
    @gerrygarcia6247 2 года назад +4

    Haha 😂 I feel deeply offended by underestimating my caffeination!! 😆 thank you! This video helps a lot to be aware when I’m an unhealthy 6. By the way, I saw your other video and I’m clear now that I’m a 6w7. Can you make a video about the enneagram tritype and how we move on it? 🙏🏼 thanks

  • @DariusLong
    @DariusLong 2 года назад +1

    A cottage core basic moment, that made me laugh out loud

  • @meganbeach9932
    @meganbeach9932 3 года назад +4

    lmao. I have had that exact Starbucks arguement with my husband. Why would you only get one coffee when you know I'm at home, and I love coffee?!!

  • @grimkitten8254
    @grimkitten8254 11 месяцев назад +1

    if ya dont laugh at yourself as a 6 your going to be one huge wreck with all that anxiety xD

  • @lucaspit8
    @lucaspit8 2 года назад +2

    I'm a 6... this video had me laughing at how accurate the reinactments were

  • @luandthelion
    @luandthelion 3 года назад +3

    There are several people in my family this reminds me of!! So, can habits like that rub off on people regardless of type? And how do you know what’s “you” and what’s like a learned communication style from your family? Also, can being a counter subtype, like a sunny four, or shifting in levels of health change how you communicate?

  • @heyitskatey
    @heyitskatey 2 года назад

    The IRA thing had me laughing out loud for a good minute. So freakin funnyyyyyy.

  • @monabime
    @monabime 2 года назад +1

    I'm isfp 6w7 and i really do this OFTEN like being a nervous, awkward and easygoing storm
    it's painful cause I'm SO introverted and is a hard style to be

  • @elenaharris6021
    @elenaharris6021 2 года назад +3

    I know it's not great to assume someone's type... but every single one of these is TOTALLY my new boyfriend. Can't wait for him to take the test and get back to me (I want to be right... haha, I am such a type 1).

  • @Lia_Scott
    @Lia_Scott Год назад

    OMG #5 😂😂😂 💯💯💯💯💯💯 especially over following the rules thing. 😂 Oh man and #7 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ambica.n3476
    @ambica.n3476 Год назад

    U r soo much fun❤️..love ur vibe!haha

  • @joshuaselesnick7614
    @joshuaselesnick7614 10 месяцев назад

    You NAILED my partner. Nailed her

  • @sandyzuniga1
    @sandyzuniga1 2 года назад +1

    Omg! I am a 6, and this was On Point!

  • @maunamars968
    @maunamars968 3 года назад

    I'm so like this sometimes except for the image part...but the last part is especially true.

  • @kellyf2301
    @kellyf2301 3 года назад +4

    Sending this to my husband... (I'm a 6)

  • @MikeJ122o
    @MikeJ122o Год назад

    1:50 yes as an INTJ-A 6w7.
    Okay I agree with the whole video XD

  • @christinehallfeldt4280
    @christinehallfeldt4280 6 месяцев назад

    I always don't trust my own decisions lmao

  • @BSingh-on4qr
    @BSingh-on4qr Год назад

    Perfect, 6 is the centre of my tritype

  • @ravindrabej2584
    @ravindrabej2584 2 года назад +1

    No 6 is amazing

  • @medstudent1613
    @medstudent1613 3 года назад +1

    8:08 Can

  • @axielotl2645
    @axielotl2645 3 года назад

    HI THIS VIDEO HURTS ❤️ I’m a 6 with BPD so like. All of this especially applies to me

    • @lh1125
      @lh1125 Год назад

      I love your username btw!

  • @julia.vasilkova
    @julia.vasilkova 3 года назад +1

    I was typed as sx9w1 but this video is sooooo me! Oh my!!! 🙈🙉🙊

  • @refuoecarolina7898
    @refuoecarolina7898 Год назад

    #1 is sooo me. Now I understand why it's hard for me to forgive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my baby daddy hurt me countless times then he came back and wanted us to work things out and we couldn't because I have a long list of what he's done and nope I'm not experiencing it again in future, so I'm gonna run🤣👍🏿

  • @amritagitikam.7922
    @amritagitikam.7922 3 года назад +2

    I want to know abt ennegram 5 and 6 relationship. If you could make a video on this topic then it will be a grt help.
    ~ INTJ 5w6~4

  • @morningglory.213
    @morningglory.213 6 месяцев назад

    as a 6w5 i feel like i also detach in an UNHEALTHY WAY if after constant need of validation, i dont get it

  • @joshuabaines6991
    @joshuabaines6991 2 года назад +2

    There’s no video for 3, 7, or 8 of this series. Do they just not fall in love?

  • @mya9042
    @mya9042 2 года назад

    How accurate this is...lol

  • @KendrixTermina
    @KendrixTermina 2 года назад

    7:23 That is... my father, 1:1.
    Unfortunately for him & his holy ambitions, all the other family members were are night owls/late risers. There has got to be some church that is not at 6 in the morning... Now im not forgiving him if he was the last human on earth, but still, looking back he must've been pretty sad that no one was as enthusiastic about this as him.

  • @honeymoney23
    @honeymoney23 3 года назад +1

    Jesus!! You read me 🙈

  • @dkdndhjscdhsbdhsjjakqhw6244
    @dkdndhjscdhsbdhsjjakqhw6244 3 года назад +1

    Noice, I'm a 6w7 inlove with a 6w5 😎

  • @Vitaminb666
    @Vitaminb666 Год назад

    Seems like I'm a very stable 6, because I do not relate to most of it but I see where such behavior can come from

  • @jonathanskeens79
    @jonathanskeens79 3 года назад

    you're exactly right! My wife is a saint!

  • @whenyousmileismiletoo5419
    @whenyousmileismiletoo5419 2 года назад

    what a hard person i am to love

  • @pointerdogmarketing2197
    @pointerdogmarketing2197 2 года назад

    Would a 6w5 be a blend of the 6 video and 5 video?

  • @medstudent1613
    @medstudent1613 3 года назад +1

    9:19 Not have to

  • @tellaphon6718
    @tellaphon6718 Год назад

    People who forgive dont need to forget the lessons. People do change but not really quickly so i need to know whats coming lol.

  • @Undisputedkingdom24
    @Undisputedkingdom24 3 года назад +1

    Ellooooo👋🏻

  • @user-vj9qz3br6l
    @user-vj9qz3br6l Год назад

    It sounds like 6s are high maintenance and annoying 😢 - I am primarily a 6/2

    • @wiegraf9009
      @wiegraf9009 11 месяцев назад

      Very characteristic of a 6 to be disappointed about being a six.

  • @tellaphon6718
    @tellaphon6718 Год назад

    Except we who are good at mercy dont get the mercy inside of things.

  • @sarahaharper
    @sarahaharper 3 года назад

    I definitely came to have a good time but I’m feeling a little attacked right now

  • @glendamcgee1779
    @glendamcgee1779 9 месяцев назад

    Whoever it is in skillshare who has green hair.....avoid.

  • @danimationstudios9289
    @danimationstudios9289 Год назад

    ….read to filth

  • @TheBoyOnTheBlueMoon
    @TheBoyOnTheBlueMoon 7 месяцев назад

    This is all too real and I'm not sure how to take it