GRWM: PREGNANT AGAIN, ECTOPIC PREGNANCY, MENTAL HEALTH
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India, I had a fallopian tube removed when I was 19. I went on to have many pregnancies, some of which resulted in 5 full-term births. I'm sure it'll all work out for you. God is good. 😊
Amen God is good through the valleys & the mountains 🫶
All the time!
Natural hair will look STUNNING on you! Also, thank you for being so open about your fertility journey, it has really helped me cope with my own struggles
Yesssss I agree😍 especially in the fall!!
Definitely agree!!!
Thank YOU for the love ❤❤❤❤❤❤
As a cosmetologist I highly recommend going towards your natural hair color!! It would look amazing and very flattering ❤
I"M SCARED BUT ALSO EXCITED !!!! XX
I think going more towards your natural hair color would look gorgeous on you! ❤
I MIGHT DO IT 👀😅👀👀👀👀
@indiabatson26 do it! I let my hair grow out to its natural blonde and it made it so much healthier!
YES. DO THE HAIR. During COVID I stopped dying my hair and grew out my natural color which is the same as yours. I just recently highlighted it again more similar to the photos shown and I have no regrets. It's so fun!
OMG TWINS 👯♀️
I spoke to another friend today who had an ectopic pregnancy with her first pregnancy, and now she has two beautiful healthy babies! You got this
I vote yes for the natural look for your hair! I think it would make your eyes pop even more!
I had a miscarriage the same day as you! Also got my iud removed the same day as you. My mom was born with one fallopian tube and had two kids! It will happen for us girl! Love that your being so open bc this has been so hard 😭
Yes to the more natural hair color! And I'm praying for you all!
Yessss natural hair color!! 0:33
Dear India, I have PCOS and I have not ovulated every cycle. However, I conceived twice naturally and gave birth to two healthy sons. I recently had a hysterectomy for a large fibroid, so I'm done with the pregnancies. Believe me you will soon be a mother and I know you will be the best!! I wish you and your family the best of luck. And btw, I would love to see you in your natural hair color🥰❤
Natural hair! Do it!! Also I'm sorry for your loss...I've had 2 miscarriages, and with time it gets easier to deal with, but it never goes away...May 1st always stings...I have had 2 healthy girls since, so there is hope! Sending you lots of love and prayers for you and ur hubby❤
100% on the hair color! There is something so beautiful about balayage highlights with mostly natural color. I think your natural hair will make your eyes pop even more
I love your current hair color, but I love the natural color as well.
You REALLY pull off the lightest blonde. It makes your eyes POP!❤
GO NATURAL! I was born blonde too, did highlights for YEARS like you but now I love my natural hair! Natural blonde hair with just a touch of highlights like your inspo pics would look amazing on you 😍 also my waves are soooo much healthier!
My husband and I just recently got married and as I am learning more about fertility and about how women's bodies work with that, it's really an amazing and beautiful process that God created...
Looking forward to see what happens with you and your family in the future 💓
Thank you for being so open and honest about your loss. Sending you and Daniel much love during this sad time. Also as someone who embraced their natural colour (which is now grey) it would be nice to see you try a colour closer to your natural colour.
Thank you so much for sharing and making so many women feel less alone! On another note, I also had blonde hair when I was little and highlighted my hair when it started getting darker and finally decided to go natural a year ago! I HATED it at first and cried in my car immediately after leaving the salon and felt like I was having an identity crisis. Once I got used to seeing my hair this way I LOVED it! It’s so nice not having to get my roots touched up every 3 months and its so much healthier!
India I am a 62 yr old women, my mother had an ectopic pregnancy and lost her tube as well. After that they decided not to have more children she only ovulated every other month one night they had one too many martinis and thought it was the month she didn’t ovulate and surprise I was conceived, needless to say they were shocked but very happy. I have high hopes that you too will conceive a beautiful baby at just the right time!
I had a rough fertility journey. Both of my fallopian tubes were removed. I know how this affects you mentally, physically, and spiritually. I wish nothing but the best for your continued journey.
I was told I'd need IVF to conceive. I have five children and didn't have IVF for any of them. You will get your baby 💜 I did lose a baby between my youngest two, us women are in this together.
I think definitely go towards your natural colour, it would really suit you.
Sending love from the UK 🇬🇧❤
I love the idea of a darker color and a change up!!
I just saw your last video today, and I also just started my fertility journey after 2 pregnancy losses in the last year. I am with you, I hope that you get your rainbow baby comes soon.
Nautical hair! Go for it, feel your best through the process!!
Love to see your natural hair color coming through. Hope you are feeling better.
The pics of hair color you showed would look fantastic on you!
I think i'm going to try it for the first time in my life ahhhhhhhhh
The timing thing...man oh man. I got pregnant at 19. Obviously it wasn't planned and it led to years of struggling as a single mom( my family was supportive but it was still a struggle) and the father was not the best person for me physically or emotionally. 12 years later I meet my current husband who very much is the best person for me and we have loss after loss. Now I'm 50 so the 2nd child ship has sailed. It took me a long time to reconcile why I could have a baby with a jerk but not a wonderful man. Why it happened so easily when I was too young and dumb but when I was ready it didn't. My husband loves me regardless, loves my daughter and her babies like his own so I can't ignore than blessing.
The first and second photo you showed would look SO GOOD on you fr ❤
I love the idea of you leaning into your natural color since you’re feeling the natural vibe with your oura ring/cycle right now. If you ever wanted to return more blonde it would be easier to brighten up again too.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I love your openness and willingness to share your journey. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts 🩷
Love love love your hair, but I'm totally in favor of embracing your natural tones with some honey highlights mixed in. Just stunning!!
Lastly and totally random, but do you happen to know the paint color used in your kitchen? Love how it goes with the white cabinets and trying to find a contrast exactly like this 😁
Ohh I think that would be soo pretty India, I like 2 I think! But honestly they all look so good! You could rock any look you want so do whatever makes you feel good!!!
Something my husband I decided to do to remember our baby by and help us heal was to give it a name.
I miscarried too early to know the gender, but we both had unanimously felt like it was a boy and decided that we would name him Benjamin “Son of My Delight” because we delighted so much in his presence for the short time he was in my womb.
And while maybe not everyone would agree with what we did, naming him and calling him “him” instead of “it” has brought healing and wholeness to the situation.
It has helped me to humanize the child and know that he is a soul waiting for my husband and I in heaven ❤
And I also feel the pain you mentioned at the end 💔 My friend found out her pregnancy less than a week before I did, and I was so excited to share the news with her. But now I won’t be able to share in that joy 💔
(I’m still super happy for her though, and I know I’ll be pregnant again ❤)
I'd recommend doing highlights in the bright blonde you have, that way you can slowly move towards more of your natural colour showing through and do less damage❤
I love the color in the 3rd picture you showed. ❤ Also I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. I had a missed miscarriage 8 years ago and I still grieve especially around due date and the date I lost my baby. I know I will see him or her in heaven one day so until then I will keep their memory in my heart. ❤My thoughts and prayers are with you! ❤
I also only have 1 tube left, yet we still got pregnant at first try with our first son. Currently pregnant with our second boy and it only took a few months. They can only guess and nothing is certain, simply keep the faith! ✨️
I went through all the same emotions after my ruptured ectopic. Some days would be great and the next I would think about how my sister and I would've had our babies weeks apart. Grief is a process.
After years of fertility struggles- ended up with 3 sons. Took 11 years to have them, all worth it.🥰🙏👶
So happy for your beautiful family friend ❤🎉
I have three kids too! After many, many miscarriages. It's so hard, but my three living babies are so healing.
After a devastating miscarriage at age 28, I did not have another pregnancy until many years later. I remember breaking down at work one night (I’m a nurse) and couldn’t stop crying while my co workers tried to comfort me about how hard it is to raise kids…it didn’t help because I wanted all of the ups and downs. I appreciated their concern, but it was the greatest heartbreak of my life not to be a mother. Fast forward to my 41st birthday…I finally tested positive…I was pregnant! I waited a lifetime, but I finally was going to be a mom! I was obnoxiously happy! Fast forward 25 years, my beautiful, precious son just turned 24! He has never given me a minute of trouble, but he has given me the best moments of my life. I wanted 24 children, but I only had one…I’ll take that! Even though I questioned God a lot, He knew when the time was right for me to be a mom…I wouldn’t change a thing!
@@Katrn30 this is the worst and best story all at once. I'm so glad you got your son! Such a blessing.
@@kunya16 awww thank you so much. ❤️ I was married at 19 and wanted kids right away…God had other plans…I believe I needed the education and experience I got in order to be qualified to mother the extraordinary young man I was granted. He is brilliant, kind, generous, creative, and is the best person I know. I’ve done much in my life, but nothing comes close to being my son’s Mom. I truly pray India is able to have a child, because I know the heartache when you can’t.
Oh my baby boo, I love you like you’re my own child. My heart hurts for you, but don’t get me wrong, I know you are strong. However, I’ve been there - losing a child and so I get you. I still sob when I watch Marley and Me. ( the part when she loses her baby). 🥹
Your hair will be amazing any shade of blonde that you choose. I thought that the photos you showed are all gorgeous and will look incredible on you! Hugs my gorgeous friend! 🥰
I’ve never commented on one of your videos, but hang in there. I took us 3 years of hard trying before we got pregnant. I think the worst part was everyone telling us/me to “relax or put your faith in God”, especially for women whose husbands just look at them and they get pregnant……they mean well, but it’s really hard not to want to throat punch them.
My mother is German, we plant a tree for every baby born into our family. My son has a magnolia, my nephew has a river birch, and my niece has a willow. My son is almost 30, so his tree is producing the magnolia pods now, and every fall I gather some and make Santa face ornaments with them for friends and family.
I love this comment. Thank you for sharing ♥️
Yes let your natural hair grow ! You are a beautiful girl. Naturally!
natural hair are gorgeous, but the blond is sooo precious on you, it illuminates your beautiful face and makes your eyes pop a lot more
PCOS lost left fallopian tube which is the side I almost only ovulate on. It was COVID I had lupus and was used to chronic pain and painful periods. I thank God a friend encouraged me to go the ER. My husband was on a ship he’s US navy and by the time I got there I had been internally bleeding for over 24 hours and could have died. I had to be alone because it was the height of covid.
We tried other fertility treatment for a year and then moved over to IVF and were blessed on our first transfer with twin boys. Going through such rough journey was hard but it’s taught me so much about my body, being thankful and grateful for life.
Yes, your natural color would be so nice, would make your blue eyes pop even more!
I think that's a great idea you planted a crepe myrtle tree! . Also, I like the first 2 pictures of new hair color/style for you!
So glad you are doing ok. Totally YES on embracing a darker color. It would look great on you!
Go natural!!! I recently just did it and went a dirty blonde color and have been LOVING it for fall! Sending love and prayers your way, trust in his timing everything is gonna work out babes!
Fall/Winter is the perfect time to go darker. I usually do that myself and I am getting mine done next week.
I recently went back to natural roots and having a really blended out balayage with lowlights and highlights so I feel like my hair has so much more depth and feels better too and grows out so pretty
My vote is for picture #3! 0:37
About 8 years ago I went from golden blonde back to my natural hair colour. I am still shocked many times when I look in the mirror. I miss my blonde hair but my curls are so much better…like 1000x! Also it is so nice not having to go and get my roots done every 6 weeks. It is so freeing! I highly recommend that you do it!
First off, go for it with the natural hair color! It's so fun to mix it up and try something different.
Second, I'm gonna have to check out the oura ring. Been trying for our second for 5 years with several miscarriages along the way. Trying to be content in all circumstances, but emotions and hormonal cycles don't make it easy.
Yes do your hair close to your natural! You won’t regret it. Plus your beautiful so any hair color will be great on you. Natural is my favorite.
Yes girl get that natural color. I was highlighting since I was 16 and now I'm 30 and can't possibly be bothered to spend my money and time on that
Oof. Your faithfulness honestly shakes me. I'm going through a season of life that is not nearly as hard and find it hard to remain so positive. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
Do a nice blended bronde balayage! You could totally pull off the darker colour and it’s less maintenance
the honey hair (third photo) would look amazing on you I think!!!
Would love to see your natural hair color!! Give it a go, see how you feel about it!
Dear India, My mother lost one of her fallopian tubes in a horseriding accident when she was a teenager. The doctors told her she would probably not be able to have children and she was crushed because she always wanted to be a mom. Over the course of 12 years, she had 7 children - three of those deliveries were followed by another delivery a little over a year later. All this to say: though you suffered this loss, there is reason to hold on to hope. Best and Blessings!! ❤
Love to see you with a warmer darker blonde. Your natural hair is probably pretty light it’s just hard to tell against the contrast of the white blonde
I’m old enough to be your mom, back in the day I used a basal thermometer and graph paper to follow my cycle. I had a miscarriage in my early twenties. I’m so sorry for your loss. After 6 months of taking my temperature and while having a uterine biopsy (which can cause a miscarriage because they have to do the test when you’re about to get your period) I found out I was pregnant. 38 years ago. I have three sons. Add low lights to your hair, you probably won’t want to bleach when you get pregnant and you will. Be blessed. 💗🌸💗
God has an absolute plan for you. My husband and I lost a baby on August 8th. A month later doing out i was pregnant again. It's very likely to get pregnant right after a loss. Things may be different for you of course because you have one less fallopian tube. You are not alone. I will never understand why God lets id go through such pain but i do know God doesn't waste pain.
Blonde!!!!!!! Your eyes pop so much! 🙋🏼♀️ team blonde! You look glowing, India!
DO ITTTTTTTTT! Girl, natural you is beautiful. Omg.
Yes to natural hair colour. Happy to see you feeling a bit better.
Your natural hair colour will be stunning and make your already beautiful eye colour pop even more
Yes to the more natural hair! It will be beautiful. You are a beautiful warrior and your time will come again at the perfect time. I wish you much love on your healing heart.
I think that you should switch it up for sure. It will look pretty for fall, it won’t be a HUGE change, and honestly I have found that making a hair change is a helpful way to process and start a new season of life.
Just fyi, Crape myrtle trees do lose ALL leaves in the winter and you HAVE to get those trap-a-bug bags right before Spring! DON'T FORGET or they will get eaten by the those Beatle bugs, I forgot the name! The aphids can also turn them black and you have to spray it down, it's so bad in GA. 😢 You just hang the bag close by on the fence. You may not have any problems but thought you might want to know! 🙂
Hair-wise, I liked the pics you showed of looks you were considering. I think they were all “somewhere in between.” Prayers and best wishes for your continuing fertility journey.
Yes, the natural hair with dark blonde highlightd 😊
Hi India, I was a bright blonde like you are for a few years. Then last March I decided to go darker with more my natural hair color. The reason I chose to go darker was because 1. I was tired of the dark roots and 2. I wanted a change. Long story short, here I am back to the bright blonde again lol. I really missed it! Yes, it was nice having a change for a bit but in my opinion I liked myself as a bright blonde much better. Oh and also, when I wanted to go back to the bright blonde it took 3 visits to the salon to achieve what I wanted. Real pain!
My vote is natural color! You can gloss it up with dphue as it’s growing out. Best of luck with starting your family, you had an awful start but I really hope you get pregnant again soon.
So proud of you, India! Way to go for choosing to continue to trust in the Lord and His perfect timing. That's so hard!
As for the hair, I think it would be fun to see you try something closer to your natural color. Maybe use that as a base and do some fun ombre/balayage moments to lighten it up.
Uuuuu the natural peeks we get to see make your eyes pop so much! It is absolutely beautiful❤ also I lost my baby 3 years ago and I still have those sad days..but I dont mind them anymore because I know tomorrow will just be better..you love (not loveD) your kid no matter how long it has been so let youself feel all the feels that comes originally from love itself 🤗
I vote for natural hair! Thank you for sharing your struggles. I know it means a lot to so many.
Sending prayers to you 🙏🏻 God is SO good. Natural hair color- YES GIRL!!!
Chiming in to say go for it, with the natural hair color! Those inspo photos are gorgeous, and I’m confident that hairstyle will look amazing on you. 🫶
My mother had an ectopic pregnancy when I was 5 and almost died. But even with all her other health issues, she still was able to get pregnant (even when the doctors said she would never be able to have another pregnancy) and my brother was born! You never know what life will bring you and anything is possible
I’ve went natural for fall and am loving it. I miss my bright but it’s growing on me.
My due date just passed and it was a beautiful but very sad day for me.
I totally understand where you're coming from. It's OK to lie around In your pajamas every once and a while after a miscarriage. Or anytime you feel like it really but definitely after losing a baby
Don't put too much pressure on yourself. It'll happen in time. Keep praying!
Before starting my pregnancy journey I booked a consultation session with my gynecologist. She is really sweet and gave me some unofficial suggestions. It's not proven yet that these tips and tricks affect our pregnancy. But I think there is no harm following them.
1. No retinol, salicylic acid and tretinoin once you start trying.
2. Avoiding hair colour and nail colour mainly which requires UV lights.
3. Try to avoid bleach for both face and hair.
4. No smoking, alcohol or recreational drugs (most common)
5. Know your skin care products and the ingredients before applying them.
Hope this helps. And all the best for your future.❤
HAIR - ok, so i wanted to do the same thing. My hair dresser recommended that that put in a different toner to start with the see if i like it, its a toner so it does wash out. But it was good to see if i like it without making any drastic decisions. 💛
Sending you all my love angel and youre in my prayers. You will be a mum and you will be such an incredible one ❤❤
6 years of infertility (medicated cycles, several unsuccessful IUIs, IVFs, and embryo transfers)… lots of faith and prayers… now we have a beautiful son. We planted a maple tree for him to grow up with this fall 🍁. Also, I vote you try going natural with your hair!
I vote for the 3rd hair color pic. Nice & warm!
Yes love the more natural hair color!!❤
I would definitely go to your natural color with some blond highlights mixed in.
Yes to the more natural hair color! I haven't bleached my hair in over a year and I love not having to deal with the maintenance. I would have thought it would be harder to go back to my natural dark blonde color but I actually like it! 😅
You ARE BEYOND GORGEOUS. The tree was so beautiful. You are right sister. Gods timing is perfect. ❤❤❤ wow I went to a women’s breakfast this past Friday and a girl who was pregnant was crying bc her friend lost her baby and then she got pregnant so she felt super sad for her. 😢 God is merciful and faithful ❤ keep leaning on him❤ I think the natural hair would be stunning. You can’t go wrong with anything on you sister. 🤗
Yes, on the natural hair, it would be stunning!
Ooo, loving that natural hair! The second pic was my favorite.
I like the bright blonde on you! I think since your eyes are so high contrast a high contrast color would suit you best (bright blonde or dark brown, bright red, etc)
That being said you are gorgeous and could 100% pull off anything!!
India, you’re such an inspiration for me! I love how vulnerable you are on the internet, and you’ve helped so many people including me! Also, TOTALLY think you should go more natural with your hair ;)
You’ve inspired me to switch to natural cycles using the ours ring! I love ittt
I love all three of the more natural hair colors!! I think they would suit you well. The last picture was my favorite though.
I did an azalea bush for my daughter who passed away. Beautiful colors and they are hardy.
Love the natural hair idea!
(Probably start with a more gentle transition/ in between)
Yes do your natural hair color. It’ll look sooooo good
Yes!!! Goooo natural bestie
Any of those hair colors would look stunning and fun and maybe you’re ready for a change. Your courage to speak out about your journey will help so many women and makes you lovelier than any hair color you choose ❤️
Praying God gives you strength🌸🩵I know all too well the health challenges.
Your natural hair is going to make your eyes & skin glow & pop ✨