Hey - what great advice for guys! It gels totally with my experience. I used to be the worst of the worst in terms of being grossly disabled by rejection. To fix myself, I deliberately put myself into triggering situations every day and did exactly what you said in terms of challenging my negative self-talk. Because I was such a bad case, it took a while before I experienced the emotional shift on the inside that I was looking for. However, the process did change my life powerfully just as you described. I now have no problem approaching high status females no matter how attractive and accomplished they may be - the kicker being that the rejection I previously needed to trigger my wayward emotional baggage, just does not occur any more.
Thank you for sharing about your experience, Richard! How wonderful that you were able to complete those exercises to feel freedom from any potential rejection anxiety.
Thank you for watching and sharing! We have lots of videos covering what to say and how to approach. Have you had a chance to browse through any of them yet?
Hey neofulcrum5013 - that type of fear is fixable! The thing is that while there are technical things about what to say and how to approach high status females that are useful to know, none of that matters as much as what you communicate by means of your non-verbals. Unfortunately, unless you are a highly trained actor or undercover agent with years of experience, you will not be able to control your non-verbals by willpower. The only practical and worthwhile way forward, is to follow the teaching contained in this video. I was probably a lot worse than you because my personality stopped developing normally when I had a mental and emotional breakdown at 5 years old and which turned me into a totally dysfunctional loser with women. It took me over 2 years of engagement in the process described here to become confident and competent at the dance of the male and female - but it worked and I could not be more grateful!
Hi Joseph! Thank you so much for asking. Our ebook is currently only available in written format, and you can download it here: introvertedalpha.com/ebook
Thank you for stopping by and commenting! We have several videos about how to read body language and approach a woman. Have you been able to browse through any of those on our channel?
I don't actually recommend this. I was in door to door sales and it decimated my confidence. Combined with my already 0% success rate with women I went on to try to kill myself. It's taken many years to recover to a normal state where I didn't want to end my life when I had a slight failure or feeling of rejection. Rejection is directly tied to hopelessness so even dabbling in it is not a good idea, you could do serious damage to your heart and risk breaking your spirit all together.
![[DRAGON BALL LEGENDS REVEALS ＆ STUFF] LEGENDS FESTIVAL 2024 Special Edition Part 1](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/mV5bGIswTtQ/mqdefault.jpg)
Hey - what great advice for guys! It gels totally with my experience. I used to be the worst of the worst in terms of being grossly disabled by rejection. To fix myself, I deliberately put myself into triggering situations every day and did exactly what you said in terms of challenging my negative self-talk. Because I was such a bad case, it took a while before I experienced the emotional shift on the inside that I was looking for. However, the process did change my life powerfully just as you described. I now have no problem approaching high status females no matter how attractive and accomplished they may be - the kicker being that the rejection I previously needed to trigger my wayward emotional baggage, just does not occur any more.
Thank you for sharing about your experience, Richard! How wonderful that you were able to complete those exercises to feel freedom from any potential rejection anxiety.
I think I’m afraid of being rejected hard just from saying the wrong thing or approaching wrong.
Thank you for watching and sharing! We have lots of videos covering what to say and how to approach. Have you had a chance to browse through any of them yet?
Hey neofulcrum5013 - that type of fear is fixable!
The thing is that while there are technical things about what to say and how to approach high status females that are useful to know, none of that matters as much as what you communicate by means of your non-verbals.
Unfortunately, unless you are a highly trained actor or undercover agent with years of experience, you will not be able to control your non-verbals by willpower.
The only practical and worthwhile way forward, is to follow the teaching contained in this video. I was probably a lot worse than you because my personality stopped developing normally when I had a mental and emotional breakdown at 5 years old and which turned me into a totally dysfunctional loser with women.
It took me over 2 years of engagement in the process described here to become confident and competent at the dance of the male and female - but it worked and I could not be more grateful!
@@sunwheel01 sorry to hear about your breakdown but glad it worked out for you in the end. Thanks for the vote of confidence!
@@neofulcrum5013 You are welcome my brother. All the best on your journey of doing likewise.
Is the free E book available in audiobook format? If so how can we download?
Hi Joseph! Thank you so much for asking. Our ebook is currently only available in written format, and you can download it here: introvertedalpha.com/ebook
Unfortunately, I don’t like reading but thanks anyway.
@@josephpolicastro3149 if you enjoy watching the videos, be sure to check out our other videos and playlists on our channel! ☺ Have a wonderful day!
Oh, I can get blown off. Dozens of times in a row, for months at a stretch. What I want to know is, how to be accepted?
Thank you for stopping by and commenting! We have several videos about how to read body language and approach a woman. Have you been able to browse through any of those on our channel?
Thanks for watching! What is your experience with rejection? Which of these tips do you think would be helpful for you?
I don't actually recommend this. I was in door to door sales and it decimated my confidence. Combined with my already 0% success rate with women I went on to try to kill myself. It's taken many years to recover to a normal state where I didn't want to end my life when I had a slight failure or feeling of rejection. Rejection is directly tied to hopelessness so even dabbling in it is not a good idea, you could do serious damage to your heart and risk breaking your spirit all together.
We are so sorry to hear this, Phill. We certainly hope things are better for you now.
Great video. Check your dms on Instagram if you get a moment
Thank you, Alex! We will!