There's no making up for this. You got jealous of your husband's dead wife and tried to erase her. I wouldn't be surprised if he wants a divorce: and believe me, there'll be no shortage of people rooting for him.
I hate hate hate people who do this. You do not get to discard deceased people's things when they're of sentimental value to someone. My own mother did this 3 times with my grandmom's things. Despite knowing how close I was to my grandmom. I didn't talk to her for a while after those events. Idk what people like these gain by doing this.
Ppl need to realize they cannot compete with a dead person. They’re gone never to be apart of the living again. It’s ridiculous to be jealous of someone who is no longer here.
I remember this reddit post. I commented on this Reddit post. The OP got crucified and was accused of killing a dead woman a second time. But there was no walking back from this, at least from me.
Imagine being a widower and having to explain to your daughter that your new wife secretly and systematically erased any trace of her mom from the face of the Earth.
Story 1: What a selfish cruel woman. She’s lucky the husband even forgave her at all which is more than stepmom deserves. The stepmom won but at what cost? She’s a pathetic human being. Also anyone who tells the daughter to just “get over it” can go pound sand.
Destroying someone else’s things out of spite for someone you never knew is horrid. My “father” destroyed all the photos we had when my parents split. Means my mum and my siblings and I have no photos from us as babies or kids or family trips. It hurts when my kids ask to see what it was like when I was a kid, when their grandma was young or the great grandparents who I speak so fondly of who aren’t around anymore. Him wanting to hurt my mum ended up hurting everyone
So, I remember reading Story 2 on Reddit years ago. OP left so much shit out that got clarified in the comments. She didn’t just pick Andy over her fiancé, she basically stalked Andy and only went back to her Fiancé when Andy cut her off. Dude is insecure, but she did everything possible to play into said insecurities.
I do remember the story too. OP is a liar, she torally liked Andy more and only went back to Ryan after Andy broke up with her and cut her off, so he literally was her second choice. Also, is it insecurity if he is right? Sounds like she would not have gone back to Ryan if Andy didn’t broke up with her. It’s also the fact that she hid all this for seven years. She should have confessed long ago.
@@andynorck2389 they’re insecurities that she caused. Everyone has things they’re insecure about; fiancé has one that *a lot* of men deal with (being a backup plan)
OMG, I was with a man who was a widower with a son. We had a spot in our home for her ashes and a picture of her. I felt her son needed acknowledgement he lost his Mom and for his support.
"It's been 5 years, stepdaughter should stop being overdramatic and get over it" By that logic, a victim of SA should forgive their SA-er after enough time passes? Someone who lost their entire family in a house robbery gone wrong should forgive their family's murderer because so many years have passed? What kind of dogshit stance is that?
You know it is only so that they can pretend to be a happy family for the kid. I mean how would the son feal when he finds out what his mom did when he is a teenager. I mean, that would shatter the image of a nice wholesome put together mom right?
@christofa1094 she doesnt deserve that luxury of being admired or seen as "having a good head on her shoulders." Yes it would suck for the kid, I wont deny that, but the son will find out one way or another, the mom's got a decade and a half to come to terms with how fucked up she is, learn to be better, and prepare for whatever the son decides to do upon finding out
Story 2 years a few times and in one video the comments she did on Reddit she’s was awful. In high school her ‘strict’ parents wouldn’t let her date so she kept him in friends zone and promised in college could be a real couple. After she wasn’t straight for Andy he cut contact and then when Andy dumped her she pestered him so he was indeed her back up plan. And the comment also said she would’ve gotten back with Andy if he had wanted to: and that eventually she wasn’t happy with the restart relationship and they broke up
Yeah the way she wrote her story made it seem like she was just using him as a back up plan. Her stating she would wait for him, yeah of course she would she doesn't have any other options.
@@Censorthisbananahamock yeah it’s becoming increasingly that women are more likely to have affairs and manipulate relationships. What’s so funny is the amount of women that get into college not to get Bachelor degree but eligible bachelors and then surprised when their manipulation ends up being their downfall
@@Censorthisbananahamock IIRC, someone connected the rough dates that OP gave in the comments and figured out that she went for him AFTER he became relatively successful. So... yeah, he was the backup plan because he had money.
He wasn't that centred on her in the "new" relationship. Also, she wanted kids. She probably has a new relationship and wants to have kids. She will probably get kids.
S1: OP was lucky they were having their son, but I bet he'll divorce her in the future. As for the stepdaughter, I hope she cuts out everyone who told her to "get over it". OP didn't just get rid of belongings, but what she had of her mother all because of her illogical jealousy and selfishness. S2: As insecure as Ryan was, OP added more information and it implied OP was only using Ryan as a rebound. So, he technically had every right to feel insecure, but he should've just left her. He deserves so much better.
S2: Typical gaslighting. If it was the other way around, and a woman was considered a second choice to the man that she’s engaged to would you be calling her insecure? The fiancé would not be hearing the end of it if the shoe was on the other foot. It is not insecure. It is extremely insulting because it means that OP in this case does not love her fiancé. No person wants to be a second choice in a relationship, and that goes for both men and women.
@@HeoBaby24 No bro, he wasn't. She left him after 2 years of the "new relationship". She was using him. He didn't give her as much attention in the new relationship and she got mad.
How, just HOW is a dead person your competition?!!! Make it make sense!!! Y'all need to realize that they will ALWAYS love and remember their deceased loved one!!! You cannot replace her!!! Instead of being jealous, make new memories and create history!!
Story 1: this is a copy of a similar story where the OP was also jealous of a late wife and deliberately destroyed all photos and mementos of her. Even going as far as taking pictures and keepsakes from the children’s rooms and destroying those too. Thankfully, the dad was smart enough to dump her ass and told everyone what she had done. She lost all her friends and even her family stopped speaking to her. Yet, she was crying foul to Reddit. 😂
ST1 OP really is an evil individual, is this op related to the op in another post who destroyed her fiancé’s late wife’s photos, antique horse and zebra all because that op was also jealous? She calls her stepdaughter all these positives, says she cares about her but then does that, she doesn’t care about her husband or her stepdaughter so why is op lying.
Story 1) The fact that the step mom didn't pay to replace the images with commissions is awful. I'd pay $5000 for 5 pictures of her. Wedding, pregnancy, first steps, any big milestone. I wouldn't tell her it was me.
Are you dumb? Those would essentially be fake photos of her. They would IN NO WAY serve as replacements and would probably only piss everyone off even more. Those photos were literally irreplaceable because they were essentially physical memories. Trying to replace them with commissions just doesn’t make sense.
Enjoy your divorce papers. This is like throwing away a loved one's ashes. The sentimental value of all those items was immeasurable. Yet you threw them away, along with your marriage.
Story 1: I hate that some people think it's ok to erase the memories of someone else's past. This reminds me of a video (title: She's tired of her husband keeping up pictures of his ex girlfriend). It's part of the 'man-hating' side of RUclips- so, regardless of the situation, the people in the comments always find a way to make terrible people look like such saints, for being awful, and make normal people look like evil villains. It's disgusting.
I like how op in story 2 trying to say her boyfriend is just a perfect guy but at the same time chose another dude over him translation The dude she thought she wanted wasn't good so she went back to plan B
I would've divorce her, you can't be so blind as to not see the damage and pain you were bringing to my daughter just for being jealous of someone who is dead. No man, it's inexcusable
@@swedhgemoni8092 Yes, she just annoyed me talking about her "mistake" seven years ago. That was not a mistake to date another man when you were effectively still a teenager. She is a fool if she stays with this arrested development excuse for a man.
@@shells500tutubo This narration didn't include everything, it left out a comment where she'd said that she'd get back with Andy if possible. She too was keeping her "true love" as a contingency. On the other hand, this spineless wretch should have cut his losses and disappeared from her life. I feel more disgusted with such moping and misery coming from a 27 year old man.
Reminds me of the reddit story with the reverse attitude, so husband, 2nd wife, his kids and the husband's mom have dinner and the mil jokes that it is about time to "clean" the house of the 1st wife (including a big family portrait in the living room). And before anyone could respond the 2nd wife responded with something like if her husband allowed to erase a part of his childrens history she would leave him.
S1: There is no walking this back. Frankly, you shouldn't have married a man with a child. You, in a fit of insecure, jealous rage, robbed a daughter's chance to have her mother close to her again. Honestly, I hope and pray to whatever deity that listens to my ramblings that this doesn't happen to you, or your baby. No, if you loved your husband you would have asked him what the box was for. That's what I would do, and give them to my MIL so she could give them to stepdaughter. Daughter's update: Sounds like dad is only staying for his son. Bet you as soon as the boy turns eighteen, he will divorce.
OP from story 1 should thank her husband every day that he didn't divorce her. While I do understand her feelings towards her husband's late wife, it was such a cruel and vile thing to do. And I can feel stepdaughter's pain, I don't know what I would've done if somebody destroyed my father's things
Explain to me how a dead woman is competition. That is a level of insecurity I do not understand. She was jealous from the beginning before they were even married. That is ridiculous. It's actually sick. Story 2: I feel like that "Friend" said that on purpose. That's not a normal thing to say.
As someone with a step mom who is about to adopt me, probably in a few days actually after my birthday, I can’t say I’d be mad if she threw out photos of me and my mother, tho that’s because I don’t see her as a mother - however if someone threw out pictures of me and my mama, my step mom, I would probably have some kind of psychotic break, I’d rather be called slurs, face shoved in toilets, and go through jr high bullying all over again rather than have that happen. Much less if it happened because someone was jealous. I’d be so heartbroken.
The moment she said her vows she KNEW what she was getting into. She knew he had pictures together. And of course the memories and history would be mostly positive because the relationship ended with death, not a divorce. He still loves her, and if she had an issue with that, she should have recognized that as a deal breaker and left. This poor man and young girl. A jealous woman destroyed wonderful memories for them. If she was so jealous and knew it was a problem she should have ended it. Not just for his and his daughter's wellbeing but her own.
Story 1: The evil stepmother won. No more dead wife. No more daughter of dead wife. She gets forgiveness for her selfishness, gets the man for his resources, and the child to now be the beneficiary of the lion's share of said resources, as well as the rest of the family. People like her love nothing or anyone but themself. She never loved the man, only the resources he could provide. And she's gotten them all. Story 3: This is what the second amendment can be used for. Protection from all enemies, both foreign and domestic.
1st story: She's in trouble. She has to recover the photos. There's film. The polaroids are going to be impossible to replace. She has a new hobby now, finding those photos. She needs to find out where the landfill is. 2nd story: He has some issues. Also, the "new relationship" will NOT be like the old one. He will be less supportive and more self- focused. He will be not supporting her in her studies like he used to.
Story one: wow. NGL, that has got to be the most selfish, pettiest, and most vindictive 💩 I have heard in a while. OP, you were extremely lucky that your husband forgave you because if I was in his shoes, I would never forgive you. You have to be a very selfish, insecure person to perceive a dead woman as a threat to you. Story 2: It is not insecure to believe and feel that you are a second choice to your SO. If the shoe is on the other foot, and this whole scenario was the opposite, OP, you would be feeling the exact same thing. No person, regardless of being a man or woman ever wants to be a second choice to someone. And just listening to your story, OP, there are some things that are suspicious and don’t add up. It sounds your story has some glaring omissions.
Reconcile? Are you mentally impaired in some form? Outta jealousy you trashed your husband sentimental property and you want to reconcile? How can people be so naive?
S.1. I understand when your emotions get in the way they run amuck. But, it's no excuse to do what you did to them over petty jealousy of a dead person whom you never met, knew, ECT. But, the daughter was, and your husband. You took all those fun times, pics, and jewelry, momentos, ECT. And just threw it away like a piece of old furniture grow up, she might forgive you but will never forget
"Delusional fiancee" "he's insecure" so instead of giving him space, she completely disregards what he wants and smothers him instead. So she has no respect for him. He is in fact her back up. And she just keeps lying.
He is actually quite unstable, and almost sounds like he was looking for a reason to break up with her. His final words of how he is now "even" just sound like the start of some heinous abusive relationship. Op (the woman) didn't make a mistake, she was young and wanted to date around, as every young person should. Unfortunately for her her ex was available when Andy did not work out. The ex is cray-cray and very insecure/immature for his age.
No he's actually not. But the 'starting over' thing is definitely going to fail, because that's not how it works. Like it just sounds like desperation at that point.
I KNOW like I know like I know like I know that this person got FLAME ROASTED in the comments!!!!!! There's no way she didnt have 3rd degree burns! Can you get 4th degree burns? 😂
Story 1: this woman is so fricken selfish, jealous of a dead woman, pathetic. Story 2: Run, this guy will be jealous of every man you ever interact with. You werent together when you were dating the other dude, so he has nothing to be freaked out about. He will absolutely hold the shit he thinks you did to him over his head, you owe him no explanation for something you did while you WERENT TOGETHER.
Therapy is definitely needed cuz it is WILD to try and compete with the dead. Like that person is gone from this earth, how you gonna compete with someone who is no longer here? Another question is why compete with anyone for your so's attention. That should be a given to get said attention and if it's not.... Don't chase after peeps who show you they don't want you. Again.... Therapy.
Secretvoices, I know you probably just copy paste stories from BoRU, and have AI generate your titles for videos, but I still find it hard to believe that you called the fiance (the guy in the second story) delusional. Especially since you left out the comments where OP states: 1. The breakup with Andy was not mutual. He broke up with her, and she started trying to get him back until he cut her off. Then she hooked up with some other guys, then eventually got with Ryan after all the other relationships didn't work out 2. She openly stated that she still thinks Andy is better than Ryan. Even when they were on the verge of getting married, she still saw her fiance as second-best to a guy she hadn't been with in years 3. After Ryan gave her another chance, she gave up because she didn't care enough to fight for the relationship she destroyed, and she pretty quickly went along with Reddit's hivemind of "he's just weak and insecure, and she should get someone better." And then the parts of the story where she just openly admits the things she says and does which are obviously just wrong (including not giving him space when he specifically asks for it, since she doesn't really care about his wants or needs, and where she says she's not ok with having to put in more effort because she ruined her own relationship.) All this to say, please at least somewhat look into the story on your own, because even the other channels who've posted this video have at least a couple of people talking about the things OP said in her comments
18:56 this is so exhausting. just break up. He's monomaniacally obsessed with a single moment from college. It's never going to be the same. He's just using it to push her and get what he wants now.
Story 1: I can't believe someone was so insecure over a dead person. She actually sounds like my pathetic fathers wife who is equally as insecure. There's is NO COMING BACK FROM THIS. If op truly loved her husband then she wouldn't have thrown out his things. She had no right to have thrown them out. How selfishly stupid of her. The husband is there out of obligation to his son not the op. I won't be surprised if he divorces her once the son is older because the will be lingering resentment towards her for what she did.
imagine being so insecure you get jealous of a dead person ☠️☠️☠️
If you dint want to compete with a dead person (if you are that insecure)….just don’t date a widow then!
True dat
@@Madison-fl4lq dont date at all.
It's funny how OP did all of this, viewing the ex-wife's competition, and now as it turns out she's losing to the dead woman.
@@SnowyWolborgfunny part is there was never any competition. If his wife was alive their relationship wouldn’t even be. She’s ridiculous.
There's no making up for this. You got jealous of your husband's dead wife and tried to erase her. I wouldn't be surprised if he wants a divorce: and believe me, there'll be no shortage of people rooting for him.
Yep. There’s no coming back from this.
I hate hate hate people who do this. You do not get to discard deceased people's things when they're of sentimental value to someone. My own mother did this 3 times with my grandmom's things. Despite knowing how close I was to my grandmom. I didn't talk to her for a while after those events. Idk what people like these gain by doing this.
Ppl need to realize they cannot compete with a dead person. They’re gone never to be apart of the living again. It’s ridiculous to be jealous of someone who is no longer here.
@@chinaking918 Tell that to your fellow sisters, most men understand, women dont, do you even pay attention to the stories both fake and irl?
@@juanleal8418 Beg to differ. Many men are insanely jealous of their partner's past relationships, whether that person is alive or dead.
I remember this reddit post. I commented on this Reddit post. The OP got crucified and was accused of killing a dead woman a second time. But there was no walking back from this, at least from me.
*reads title* you can't get forgiveness, nor do you deserve it. Divorce the man, taking nothing of his, and never contact him or his daughter again
She's carrying his son she has to continue contact divorce or not
@@shanewoody4232 best she gives birth and gives up custody
@@shanewoody4232 Only when it concerns their child do they need contact. And, if that were the case, there's apps for this exact purpose.
This
@@shanewoody4232 I guess someone gotta learn how to co-parent.
Imagine being a widower and having to explain to your daughter that your new wife secretly and systematically erased any trace of her mom from the face of the Earth.
And then he STAYS with the evil creature who destroyed the tangible memories of your mother!
@@shells500tutubo Honestly, daughter mentioning that their marriage Isn't the same means, to me at least, he's only staying for the kid.
Story 1: What a selfish cruel woman. She’s lucky the husband even forgave her at all which is more than stepmom deserves. The stepmom won but at what cost? She’s a pathetic human being. Also anyone who tells the daughter to just “get over it” can go pound sand.
Imagine desroying everything that was imprtant to both your husband and step daughter, then thinking there is a way to fix it.
Destroying someone else’s things out of spite for someone you never knew is horrid.
My “father” destroyed all the photos we had when my parents split.
Means my mum and my siblings and I have no photos from us as babies or kids or family trips.
It hurts when my kids ask to see what it was like when I was a kid, when their grandma was young or the great grandparents who I speak so fondly of who aren’t around anymore.
Him wanting to hurt my mum ended up hurting everyone
So, I remember reading Story 2 on Reddit years ago. OP left so much shit out that got clarified in the comments. She didn’t just pick Andy over her fiancé, she basically stalked Andy and only went back to her Fiancé when Andy cut her off.
Dude is insecure, but she did everything possible to play into said insecurities.
I do remember the story too. OP is a liar, she torally liked Andy more and only went back to Ryan after Andy broke up with her and cut her off, so he literally was her second choice.
Also, is it insecurity if he is right? Sounds like she would not have gone back to Ryan if Andy didn’t broke up with her.
It’s also the fact that she hid all this for seven years. She should have confessed long ago.
Yeah. I was seeing her shitty responses in real time. She got dragged for it, and was deleting her comments.
@@andynorck2389 they’re insecurities that she caused. Everyone has things they’re insecure about; fiancé has one that *a lot* of men deal with (being a backup plan)
She definitely will cheat on him with andy years later.
@@blue3532 It doesn't even have to be Andy. It could be any other guy of the same type.
OMG, I was with a man who was a widower with a son. We had a spot in our home for her ashes and a picture of her. I felt her son needed acknowledgement he lost his Mom and for his support.
"It's been 5 years, stepdaughter should stop being overdramatic and get over it"
By that logic, a victim of SA should forgive their SA-er after enough time passes? Someone who lost their entire family in a house robbery gone wrong should forgive their family's murderer because so many years have passed? What kind of dogshit stance is that?
You know it is only so that they can pretend to be a happy family for the kid. I mean how would the son feal when he finds out what his mom did when he is a teenager. I mean, that would shatter the image of a nice wholesome put together mom right?
@christofa1094 she doesnt deserve that luxury of being admired or seen as "having a good head on her shoulders." Yes it would suck for the kid, I wont deny that, but the son will find out one way or another, the mom's got a decade and a half to come to terms with how fucked up she is, learn to be better, and prepare for whatever the son decides to do upon finding out
@@christofa1094Honestly, I hope he asks his sister so she can tell him.
the worst part is that he tried to accomodate her multiple times. and she STILL did this
The dad is a fool and betrayed his daughter, that daughter will always remember how he decided to forgive her
Story 2 years a few times and in one video the comments she did on Reddit she’s was awful. In high school her ‘strict’ parents wouldn’t let her date so she kept him in friends zone and promised in college could be a real couple.
After she wasn’t straight for Andy he cut contact and then when Andy dumped her she pestered him so he was indeed her back up plan.
And the comment also said she would’ve gotten back with Andy if he had wanted to: and that eventually she wasn’t happy with the restart relationship and they broke up
Yeah the way she wrote her story made it seem like she was just using him as a back up plan. Her stating she would wait for him, yeah of course she would she doesn't have any other options.
@@Censorthisbananahamock yeah it’s becoming increasingly that women are more likely to have affairs and manipulate relationships. What’s so funny is the amount of women that get into college not to get Bachelor degree but eligible bachelors and then surprised when their manipulation ends up being their downfall
@@willgroody5296 You sound like a caricature of a man in the 1960s.
@@Censorthisbananahamock IIRC, someone connected the rough dates that OP gave in the comments and figured out that she went for him AFTER he became relatively successful. So... yeah, he was the backup plan because he had money.
He wasn't that centred on her in the "new" relationship. Also, she wanted kids. She probably has a new relationship and wants to have kids. She will probably get kids.
S1: OP was lucky they were having their son, but I bet he'll divorce her in the future. As for the stepdaughter, I hope she cuts out everyone who told her to "get over it". OP didn't just get rid of belongings, but what she had of her mother all because of her illogical jealousy and selfishness.
S2: As insecure as Ryan was, OP added more information and it implied OP was only using Ryan as a rebound. So, he technically had every right to feel insecure, but he should've just left her. He deserves so much better.
no he wasn't bro just mad insecure
S2: Typical gaslighting. If it was the other way around, and a woman was considered a second choice to the man that she’s engaged to would you be calling her insecure? The fiancé would not be hearing the end of it if the shoe was on the other foot. It is not insecure. It is extremely insulting because it means that OP in this case does not love her fiancé. No person wants to be a second choice in a relationship, and that goes for both men and women.
Andy dumped op for another girl....op try to get back him it ended in failure ....finally Ryan return back , Op use him as option
@@HeoBaby24
No bro, he wasn't. She left him after 2 years of the "new relationship". She was using him. He didn't give her as much attention in the new relationship and she got mad.
@@bobfg3130 still bro was insecure
How, just HOW is a dead person your competition?!!! Make it make sense!!! Y'all need to realize that they will ALWAYS love and remember their deceased loved one!!! You cannot replace her!!! Instead of being jealous, make new memories and create history!!
Story 1: this is a copy of a similar story where the OP was also jealous of a late wife and deliberately destroyed all photos and mementos of her. Even going as far as taking pictures and keepsakes from the children’s rooms and destroying those too. Thankfully, the dad was smart enough to dump her ass and told everyone what she had done. She lost all her friends and even her family stopped speaking to her. Yet, she was crying foul to Reddit. 😂
How is she your "competition" ???
You do not deserve forgiveness. Give the man back his freedom, get out of his life and get therapy.
ST1
OP really is an evil individual, is this op related to the op in another post who destroyed her fiancé’s late wife’s photos, antique horse and zebra all because that op was also jealous?
She calls her stepdaughter all these positives, says she cares about her but then does that, she doesn’t care about her husband or her stepdaughter so why is op lying.
Sympathy! She wants them to pat her on the back and tell her that's it's okay.
Story 1: Look, this is a problem where the only fix is a time machine.
Story 2: No way is BF not going to hold this over OP for the rest of time.
Story 2, he's right, they had a budding relationship and she just chose someone else. I'd be mad too
Story 1) The fact that the step mom didn't pay to replace the images with commissions is awful.
I'd pay $5000 for 5 pictures of her. Wedding, pregnancy, first steps, any big milestone. I wouldn't tell her it was me.
How would commissions bring them back? Is that possible fr? That would be fire
Are you dumb? Those would essentially be fake photos of her. They would IN NO WAY serve as replacements and would probably only piss everyone off even more. Those photos were literally irreplaceable because they were essentially physical memories. Trying to replace them with commissions just doesn’t make sense.
If you see a dead person as competition you already lost or you are just a idiot. Sometimes both
No going back from this. No remorse shown for this poor daughter
Enjoy your divorce papers.
This is like throwing away a loved one's ashes.
The sentimental value of all those items was immeasurable.
Yet you threw them away, along with your marriage.
But he Is married to her? Does that mean he married her bc his wife is dead or bc he loves her?
Story 1: I hate that some people think it's ok to erase the memories of someone else's past. This reminds me of a video (title: She's tired of her husband keeping up pictures of his ex girlfriend). It's part of the 'man-hating' side of RUclips- so, regardless of the situation, the people in the comments always find a way to make terrible people look like such saints, for being awful, and make normal people look like evil villains. It's disgusting.
The men in Story 1 and Story 2 were both utter fools to take the OP back
unfortunately the husband in 1 is tied to that monster because of his son but it also seemed to cost him his daughter
I can never fathom being jealous of someone who is dead...wth
She should have said to her family and friends how would you like it if someone destroy your parents stuff if they died
Story 1: The stepmother really broke everything, it even caused the daughter to have problems with relationships
Oh nahhh, blud's beyond cooked at this point.
"As she is my competition".
She's dead, Hun. Wrong tense.
Op is a horrible person ad deserves no forgiveness
I like how op in story 2 trying to say her boyfriend is just a perfect guy but at the same time chose another dude over him translation The dude she thought she wanted wasn't good so she went back to plan B
Found the insecure boyfriends youtube account
@@JayElJay found the first choice of OP
@@JayElJay found him lmao
@@JayElJay
Found the white knight
Andy dumped her and she stalked him. She left a lot of context out
I would've divorce her, you can't be so blind as to not see the damage and pain you were bringing to my daughter just for being jealous of someone who is dead. No man, it's inexcusable
Shame OP in story 1 was able to stay.
Ok, I wanted a story where op is the villain, now I regret wanting that
This kids, is how people get themselves clapped.
Yikes, all the red flags. Narcissistic vibes. It's all about her.
He really said they should restart the relationship like that’s gonna erase her relationship with Andy from history or something. 💀
I don't know who's more deluded, him or her.
@@swedhgemoni8092 Yes, she just annoyed me talking about her "mistake" seven years ago. That was not a mistake to date another man when you were effectively still a teenager. She is a fool if she stays with this arrested development excuse for a man.
@@shells500tutubo This narration didn't include everything, it left out a comment where she'd said that she'd get back with Andy if possible. She too was keeping her "true love" as a contingency.
On the other hand, this spineless wretch should have cut his losses and disappeared from her life. I feel more disgusted with such moping and misery coming from a 27 year old man.
@@shells500tutubo
You're "arrested development excuse of a man".
She will reconcile when you create a time machine and get the thrown away things back
Reminds me of the reddit story with the reverse attitude, so husband, 2nd wife, his kids and the husband's mom have dinner and the mil jokes that it is about time to "clean" the house of the 1st wife (including a big family portrait in the living room). And before anyone could respond the 2nd wife responded with something like if her husband allowed to erase a part of his childrens history she would leave him.
S1: There is no walking this back. Frankly, you shouldn't have married a man with a child. You, in a fit of insecure, jealous rage, robbed a daughter's chance to have her mother close to her again. Honestly, I hope and pray to whatever deity that listens to my ramblings that this doesn't happen to you, or your baby.
No, if you loved your husband you would have asked him what the box was for. That's what I would do, and give them to my MIL so she could give them to stepdaughter.
Daughter's update: Sounds like dad is only staying for his son. Bet you as soon as the boy turns eighteen, he will divorce.
No you can't. Who tf does that??! She's dead! What do you mean competition???
Timestamp's in the description are a bit wrong
OP from story 1 should thank her husband every day that he didn't divorce her. While I do understand her feelings towards her husband's late wife, it was such a cruel and vile thing to do. And I can feel stepdaughter's pain, I don't know what I would've done if somebody destroyed my father's things
Based on daughter's update, sounds like dad is only staying because of the kid.
Husband is a baby trapped doormat.
Explain to me how a dead woman is competition. That is a level of insecurity I do not understand. She was jealous from the beginning before they were even married. That is ridiculous. It's actually sick.
Story 2: I feel like that "Friend" said that on purpose. That's not a normal thing to say.
This story never gets old. That lady was jealous of a dead woman ffs
There’s no reconciling, none.
As someone with a step mom who is about to adopt me, probably in a few days actually after my birthday, I can’t say I’d be mad if she threw out photos of me and my mother, tho that’s because I don’t see her as a mother - however if someone threw out pictures of me and my mama, my step mom, I would probably have some kind of psychotic break, I’d rather be called slurs, face shoved in toilets, and go through jr high bullying all over again rather than have that happen. Much less if it happened because someone was jealous. I’d be so heartbroken.
For second story how is no one bringing up the friend that pretty much set off their whole debacle
"She was my competition"
Do you think hes a necromancer?
The step daughter is a better person than me cause I think I would have gotten physical even though the step mom was pregnant.
Story 2: "i don't need therapy" (proceeds to show why he needs therapy)
The moment she said her vows she KNEW what she was getting into.
She knew he had pictures together. And of course the memories and history would be mostly positive because the relationship ended with death, not a divorce. He still loves her, and if she had an issue with that, she should have recognized that as a deal breaker and left.
This poor man and young girl.
A jealous woman destroyed wonderful memories for them.
If she was so jealous and knew it was a problem she should have ended it.
Not just for his and his daughter's wellbeing but her own.
How do you have beef with a dead person. I don't get it
Day 17 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
Day 17 of telling you to have a great day
Bro how do you even have competition with a dead person💀
Story 1: The evil stepmother won. No more dead wife. No more daughter of dead wife.
She gets forgiveness for her selfishness, gets the man for his resources, and the child to now be the beneficiary of the lion's share of said resources, as well as the rest of the family.
People like her love nothing or anyone but themself. She never loved the man, only the resources he could provide.
And she's gotten them all.
Story 3: This is what the second amendment can be used for.
Protection from all enemies, both foreign and domestic.
Story 1 op is insane. What an awful person.
1st story: She's in trouble. She has to recover the photos. There's film. The polaroids are going to be impossible to replace. She has a new hobby now, finding those photos. She needs to find out where the landfill is.
2nd story: He has some issues. Also, the "new relationship" will NOT be like the old one. He will be less supportive and more self- focused. He will be not supporting her in her studies like he used to.
You can't!
No words. OP is a horrible human
"My competition". Wow.
Join his late wife.
I am baking cakes waiting to hear from you.
Hope you enjoy
This resolution in post 2 is the biggest cope I've ever seen
There's no reconciling from that, ye done fucked up permanently. Deal with it.
Story one: wow. NGL, that has got to be the most selfish, pettiest, and most vindictive 💩 I have heard in a while. OP, you were extremely lucky that your husband forgave you because if I was in his shoes, I would never forgive you. You have to be a very selfish, insecure person to perceive a dead woman as a threat to you.
Story 2: It is not insecure to believe and feel that you are a second choice to your SO. If the shoe is on the other foot, and this whole scenario was the opposite, OP, you would be feeling the exact same thing. No person, regardless of being a man or woman ever wants to be a second choice to someone. And just listening to your story, OP, there are some things that are suspicious and don’t add up. It sounds your story has some glaring omissions.
Reconcile? Are you mentally impaired in some form? Outta jealousy you trashed your husband sentimental property and you want to reconcile? How can people be so naive?
S.1. I understand when your emotions get in the way they run amuck. But, it's no excuse to do what you did to them over petty jealousy of a dead person whom you never met, knew, ECT. But, the daughter was, and your husband. You took all those fun times, pics, and jewelry, momentos, ECT. And just threw it away like a piece of old furniture grow up, she might forgive you but will never forget
"Delusional fiancee" "he's insecure" so instead of giving him space, she completely disregards what he wants and smothers him instead. So she has no respect for him. He is in fact her back up. And she just keeps lying.
He is actually quite unstable, and almost sounds like he was looking for a reason to break up with her. His final words of how he is now "even" just sound like the start of some heinous abusive relationship.
Op (the woman) didn't make a mistake, she was young and wanted to date around, as every young person should. Unfortunately for her her ex was available when Andy did not work out. The ex is cray-cray and very insecure/immature for his age.
No he's actually not. But the 'starting over' thing is definitely going to fail, because that's not how it works. Like it just sounds like desperation at that point.
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No, he's stable. 🤣 You're not. She admitted that she wanted Andy. The ex is not immature, you are. He figured it out.
I hope ops husband divorces her
Imagine competing with a dead woman
So he bought a whole new house to basically help her feels more secure and she still did it?!
I KNOW like I know like I know like I know that this person got FLAME ROASTED in the comments!!!!!! There's no way she didnt have 3rd degree burns! Can you get 4th degree burns? 😂
Story 1: this woman is so fricken selfish, jealous of a dead woman, pathetic.
Story 2: Run, this guy will be jealous of every man you ever interact with. You werent together when you were dating the other dude, so he has nothing to be freaked out about. He will absolutely hold the shit he thinks you did to him over his head, you owe him no explanation for something you did while you WERENT TOGETHER.
They did break up because she wasn't happy about the "rEsTaRt" 🤡
Good riddance, that woman couldnt give him boundaries as well@swedhgemoni8092
Timestamp for the 2nd story is off.
How can you be jealous of a CORPSE???? HOW????
Therapy is definitely needed cuz it is WILD to try and compete with the dead.
Like that person is gone from this earth, how you gonna compete with someone who is no longer here?
Another question is why compete with anyone for your so's attention. That should be a given to get said attention and if it's not.... Don't chase after peeps who show you they don't want you.
Again.... Therapy.
S2: Screw you SecretVoices. The ex-fiance is not delusional.
Secretvoices, I know you probably just copy paste stories from BoRU, and have AI generate your titles for videos, but I still find it hard to believe that you called the fiance (the guy in the second story) delusional. Especially since you left out the comments where OP states:
1. The breakup with Andy was not mutual. He broke up with her, and she started trying to get him back until he cut her off. Then she hooked up with some other guys, then eventually got with Ryan after all the other relationships didn't work out
2. She openly stated that she still thinks Andy is better than Ryan. Even when they were on the verge of getting married, she still saw her fiance as second-best to a guy she hadn't been with in years
3. After Ryan gave her another chance, she gave up because she didn't care enough to fight for the relationship she destroyed, and she pretty quickly went along with Reddit's hivemind of "he's just weak and insecure, and she should get someone better."
And then the parts of the story where she just openly admits the things she says and does which are obviously just wrong (including not giving him space when he specifically asks for it, since she doesn't really care about his wants or needs, and where she says she's not ok with having to put in more effort because she ruined her own relationship.) All this to say, please at least somewhat look into the story on your own, because even the other channels who've posted this video have at least a couple of people talking about the things OP said in her comments
18:56 this is so exhausting. just break up. He's monomaniacally obsessed with a single moment from college. It's never going to be the same. He's just using it to push her and get what he wants now.
Women ☕
Not your second choice? That's literally what second choice is
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Story 2: That guy is an insecure bloke and needs help.
He sounds controlling. She needs to dump him. He's playing mind games
Its about trust and she didnt trust him. And she leaked their problems. Shes also at fault@CamCam-mq6ji
@@CamCam-mq6ji If he doesn't seek help, she should.
It’s been 7 years. What a little snowflake ❄️
Story 2 Summary: A 19 year-old made a decision that a 19 year-old would make and now years later their partner is insecure about it.
Story 1: I can't believe someone was so insecure over a dead person. She actually sounds like my pathetic fathers wife who is equally as insecure. There's is NO COMING BACK FROM THIS. If op truly loved her husband then she wouldn't have thrown out his things. She had no right to have thrown them out. How selfishly stupid of her. The husband is there out of obligation to his son not the op. I won't be surprised if he divorces her once the son is older because the will be lingering resentment towards her for what she did.
Story 1. 😕🫤😟🙁☹️😮😯😲 Jealous of the dead.
I'm disgusted that she was pregnant and had a baby!
I don't blame the daughter