How to Heal Unhealthy Relationship Patterns FOR GOOD
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
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It’s so awesome that you can take these “heady” concepts and turn them into a conversation you might have with a good friend across the kitchen table. Definitely a gift. When the message comes from someone who is unabashedly authentic / real - it’s so much easier to listen with your heart. Thank you for that.
Erin Williams well said!
I have listen to this 5 times!! This has to be the most powerful video and messages received! What a fresh perspective of myself with tools to work on and love myself and life!!! Oh MJ you hit this one out of the park ⚾️for me and I imagine a big chunk of the collective! I wrote notes to journal each step and will work on. Thank you MJ for sharing these amazing messages to navigate me and life a bit more efficient and fulfilling. You are the Best! This channel is Amazeballs!! Muwah!
This was amazing. I've said I've been with the same guy in 4 or 5 different bodies for a long time, showing how stuck I've been. My most recent trauma/drama in September did a really good imitation of my Mom. Now my Mom died in 2016 at 90, had a horribly abusive relationship, & despite wanting zero kids, had 8. I understood her & took care of her until she passed, but she impacted my life hugely, in the relationship arena. My Dad passed in 1973, when I was 16, but he'd left, without leaving. So between the messages of "if I ignore you, that means I love you" and the yelling, name calling, screaming & tantruming of my Mom, it's been dicey. I took notes of the 10 steps & already can feel the healing.
For better or for worse he was my EPIC love story. And that's a gift in and of itself.
I cannot wait to learn how you plan to monetize this new part of your work! This video is SO VALUABLE, seriously. I am a psychotherapist and would happily pay for a continuing education workshop for THIS content. I think you hinted at some offerings to come (spirit-led business, for instance) and I will be ready to sign up! So grateful for you and to you, and for my angels and guides for placing you in my path.
This video is one that I will keep going back to. So much useful information. I was able to recognize some places I need to heal, but also some places where I have overcome! Thanks from my heart! ❤️
Best best video!!! Loved it, made so many notes from it - 5 pages in my journal ☺️🌟 #gratefulheart
Wow! What a powerful talk... absoloutely love the "SCUBA" acronym for self-contained underwater breating aparatus:-) Will be consciously working on my scuba energy. Thank you!
Soooo good, MJ. I can’t thank you enough for this channel already!
Question about #3 (I stopped the video, so you maybe will answer it shortly but I wanted to ask before I forget it).
Besides righteous indignation, which I didn’t have after any of them, leads me to think that the feeling was I wasn’t “good enough” for them. Self-esteem was/is lacking. Could that be a number three?
Hoo boy. Both parents were narcissists, and a good tag team at it. Not only did they act in ways that made me feel like I wasn’t valuable to them or good enough at anything, my father would verbally let me know that I wasn’t meeting his expectations. (And being an HHHSP, sensing the emotion in him too!) And yet in spite of getting a message that I wasn’t valuable, being the oldest of four, (and a girl) they gave me responsibilities that were completely not age appropriate. (Your saying that you had to meet your parents at their level really resonated).
Then my brother comes along before I was 2, and he clearly (and documentably) was the favorite.
Also heard from teachers throughout school that I wasn’t living up to my potential. How could I, being in so much pain and feeling so misunderstood and unsupported? And not knowing I was...
I have a TF. And I couldnt agree with you more. He showed me in the most vibrant way, that I needed to go within and address my stuff. I have released him to do his own work and am grateful for the connection. Your videos helped immensely over the past 10 months. Knowing he is my twin makes it easier to release him- I have nothing to worry about. Eventually the circumstances will be conducive to union. It may be 6 lifetimes from now. My present is about growth and joy and abundance. Thank you for having the courage to answer the call to do this work!
I feel as if something magical has clicked in my brain, after taking these notes and reading them back to myself.
Thank you, this is exactly what I have been thinking about this past weekend. I was at a funeral on Saturday and it was a celebration of life and so beautiful and loving. It took me into a very contemplative place of where am I in my life right now. i want more and I will get more meaning in my life. I have been stuck and looking but I have found something worthwhile to raise my vibration...
This is Key 🔑!!!! Much Gratitude 🙏🏽
I’m totally working on the Forgiveness part! 😩😩😩😭😭😭
You are amazing! I had no idea this new channel could be soooo good!!! This is consciousness expansion at its best!
Thank you, thank you, thank you
Thank you for this - no sugarcoating - learning instead. I LOVE we have moved to focus on to the journey more than the TF/Dm. It is Awesome :)
I am in a very good place and feel really happy and smile A LOT these days. I am Grateful beyond! I know more learning is still there - it is part of life - but wow Am I ever so grateful these days for the joy bubbling inside
Im a HUGE fan! I follow you on Soulful Revolution. This is exactly what we need, is help trying to fix the brokeness. I have learned soo much from you! Thank you for this healing message.❤🙏❤🙏
Thank you for sharin. My X boyfriend works 24/7 could not love deeply and be there showing emoitions at all. I felt badly for his family as well for him and I. There was no real start with honesty there was nothing solid is why I left for good. I wished him the best. I was not perfect but I did try as well was upfront. Still healing. I did forgive even when I was at the hardest hurt in order to grow.
Wow Mary Jo. This is a truly incredible masterclass on uncovering the motivation and responsibility of relationships. Thank you so much. I know what to do and I’m going to dive into this today. Because today is the day for action. I will be working through each step and I will be changing my story. I am so excited that you have given me the tools with which to build that story. Much love to you for all the work that you have done and continue to do to make this crazy world easier to navigate.
I am only 11 mins into this video and I have goosebumps. Content is resonating with me very deeply. Thank you again for your raw honesty sharing your story with us. Since finding your channels you have definitely shined a bright light on my path moving forward 💖
I love and appreciate that the Universe guided me to your Soulful Revolution channel, and I’m forever blessed you expanded. This is everything I needed at this time, and have taken time out in between pausing the video to journal and reflect on things in my personal life. 💜
MJ 🙏🏼🦋🙏🏼♥️😘♥️what an awesome and empowering video. Aikido is the martial art that turns an attacker's strength and momentum against himself. Thank you! My life is blessed by you.🌹
Thank you Marie Jo because of this methode I found my very first wound I never even knew I had and finally get the chance to heal it. Keep doing what you’re doing! It’s really working and even better then you think it is.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
TY for sharing!!!
I too was adopted… both my sister & I at 2&3 YO!
Unfortunately my sister who was born only 3 days after my 1st BDAY passed at only 25… she was cremated a day before her 26th bday so I too had some bad relationships but finally at 35 I’ve been learning about myself& being alone to do so!!!
Miss Mary Jo, May I please just say thank you! Everything that you have said is all and more that I have been trying to articulate to others for years. Rather unsuccessfully I might add. Hard learned lessons and I'm glad that I was on, and still am on the right track. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 💚
Loved the videos!!! I thought my last relationship was "false" twin energy until this video. That relationship had everything including pulling the rug out from under me when I was planning our wedding. He said, coincidentally what your guy said. I can't do this anymore. I'm done. I wrote a note to him when sending the PO Box key. Thank you for the life lessons. The whole relationship was full of HUGE, eye opening lessons. I'm glad I finally get it. Your advice is so helpful. ❤
Thank you MJ, thank you universe and lastly thank you me for doing the work 🧡🧡🧡
Golden words ! Thank you so much ! I've take time to write everything you said to translate it (i'm french) so i could read it as much as i need, and by doing that i realized what was done (7/9) and what is still a challenge (2/9).
Thank you so much for sharing with us and with such clarity. Have a beautiful day ! :)
ps : and your comparaison with "serial killers" is not so strange, if you think about it when we are stuck in patterns, attracting "wrong" people, we are real "serial victims". So all you said about going back to the crime scene makes sense to me. And it's quite close from what is happening in PTSD.
Amazing. This makes so much sense. I totally get what your saying. I would say, I'm at the end of these active steps. Thank you MJ ❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Wishing the best for each and everyone on their life path.
Your wisdom is so highly commendable. Thank you for being the insightful leader you are. 😊
Wow wow wow! The power that you have given us in this video of the steps is mesmerizing and I’m journaling through the whole thing and I’m only halfway through the video I can see my patterns I can see my twins patterns this is amazing thank you so much for such a gift you are a true blessing thank you spirit
Hi there mj. I'm on this journey and it's amazing and it's all thanks to you my lady!💜 I'm able to see. This brings happy tears to my eyes.😊 I want to tell you my name it's Christina and I want to tell you from my heart thank you. I needed this I needed to wake up. 🤗✌💜💜
Hello, MJ. You are awe inspiring to me, I must tell you. I was so excited to join your new channel since I follow Soulful Revolution. Quite honestly I've been avoiding watching these tool videos because intuitively I already knew they would be triggering in a way where I become so emotional I cannot hold back the tears. I'm here now, barely on video #2 and I'm sobbing. :) When your videos resonate with me, unlike other readers on here, I can get immensely emotional. I know I'm meant to be here on these channels with you and just want to say, Thank you. I am so very grateful for how candidly and truthfully you teach and your courage is admirable. This is emotionally difficult, but freeing to absorb. I'm trying to figure out why so much so, but I can already tell this channel will be very therapeutic for me and heart-healing. So Thank You! & many Blessings!
I’ve been trying to figure out all this stuff by myself and kept hitting brick walls - this will be tough but I can’t wait to do these steps as I was really struggling with letting the shitty relationship go for good (even though I did it) and also was really scared of how I’m going to show up in the next relationship due to staying in the previous one longer than I should have. I know this will help a lot. Grabbing my journal - I wanna fix this. THANK YOU SO MUCH! Truly grateful 🙏🏻💐💗xx
I’ve just sat in a cafe for 2 hours working through these steps - it’s felt like I was climbing a spiritual ladder to elevate my consciousness and heal my relationship patterns and boy do I feel more powerful than when I opened my journal and picked up a pen 2 hours ago lol radical acceptance and honesty required. Be brave - this is so, so helpful 🙏🏻💗💐
I have a question about relationships, when you are with a person, how do you talk about these things? Like if they are a generally a good, functioning person but have a few issues (like every human being) but they still have some things they need to heal? I guess what I am asking is how do you talk about these things with your partner, without taking their issues on your shoulders? I'm not talking about saving someone or something like that, but more like, making them reflect on what they bring to a relationship without blaming or not making space for them to heal. I don't know if that makes sense. It was a great video btw, thank you very much.
Great question as often partners are not as conscious and often getting them to observe and integrate behaviour patterns that are your truth are not their truth ... So it's the classical sacred partnership journey planting seeds at their vibration and faith and trust they will do the work so your vibrations align .. If they don't.. I guess that's the twin flame energy we learn from and release with love... And marvel at how much we have gained ...
Thank you MJ. I appreciate so much your wisdom. I definitely have some more things to forgive both myself and the others for. I never connected that my mom was a part of my people choices too. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Namaste 🙏
I totally agree....my TF relationship opted out... we were married 15 years and 5 years before that.
.. and since then ive been experiencing the same issues that he had when he opted out....
1. Emotionally unavailable
2. Addiction
3. Commitment issues or phobic
4. Infidelity
Wow .. Was totally blown away and been excited all day listening to you 2 x ! This channel is awesome ... And amazing my first poem I wrote to my sacred partner was "soul on Fire"... Summarizing all the passion you spoke of today (Will email you)... You are amazing in your truth at the kitchen table... Thank you for your healing 💜
You hit the nail on the head. You're awesome Mary Jo.
Just amazing MJ. By far best video . Clearly we can all learn from these lessons. I love that you share personal memories that we can relate. Thanks 🙏!
Dear MJ, thank you for this channel and your advices! I folllow you on your other channel soulful revolution and patreon since a year now and you have supported me so much on my journey✨💫💥! You mentioned last evening on the empress court this channel here and now im looking all your readings here😅. Great advices! Please make more videos on this channel. They are important in this time now. Many of us are leaving old systems and mindsets and twins/soulmates. Big shifting with this solstice/eclipses and the great conjunction. And people are struggeling with it. you are a big help, thank you! Best regards from Germany😊
So grateful to have seen your post about this channel today 🙏💜🤗
Very helpful. I have been with you since you started. I am always amazed how you continue to gift me with your insights. Thank you. Be blessed.
This was so incredibly helpful, thank you, MJ!! Really helped me to gain a much better perspective...a more complete perspective. I realize how much of my unhealthy relationship patterns I was currently just learning about as it was happening with a potential new partner. I am really grateful that I came across this when I did because I was repeating some behaviors yet again as I'm in the middle of working on becoming a more whole person. Truly grateful, I wrote these steps down and I will take them to heart...some really great advice. ❤🙏🌞
I left my job in January after my entire life fell apart. This has been an intense year of self reflection, self dissection, and self destruction...now I'm putting the pieces back together, or trying to figure out where the pieces go I guess us more accurate. Who I'll be? God only knows!
Thank you Mary Jo ❤️😄
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. I've been trying so hard to find a way for forgiveness from a traumatic childhood and I did what you said. I imagined myself coming to the abused child I was and embracing her with love. Using that brought me to tears I didn't expect, and I felt a lightness in my heart. Thank you.
Thank you for your good advice! I'm looking forward to expanding my horizons.
MJ this was almost word-for-word my history. I am currently working through the steps. It’s hard to swallow my realisations of my role but it is like taking yucky medicine in order to heal. I may screw up my nose but I’d rather heal so I’m accepting the uncomfortable ah ha moments. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 💜
OMG, whew, just a few minutes in and it feels like a revelation, Wow. Wish I'd seen this a year ago 🤔😥😓
Excellent dissection of the law of attraction as applied to relationships. 🙏🏽
I really enjoyed this project.it is new to me about the 9 steps on changing my relationship with whoever I come in contact with thanks
Thanks M.J. love listening to you and your story .. it really makes you think out load ....
Again this was a year ago the algorithms must have picked up my searching thank you very much for sharing
Just seeing this, very timely and really resonates for me, thanks!!!!
You gave me so much food for thought. Thank you for this video!
Thank you so much for your time in doing this video. It has been greatly helpful 💕
Thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏💐
I love this message! 🙏🕊💞🙌
Thank You MJ. These tips are very much appreciated.
I am truly just loving this channel. Huge fan of the other one already and I watch daily but.... this one is soooooooo good and though you've always touched on some of these things in the dailies... being able to go way deeper and explain things more is SO GREAT to listen to. Thank you so much for investing so much time in educating those of us that really need it. 💞
Listened again. Thank you MJ
This is by far my favorite video of yours!!!
Thank you for providing these amazing downloads full of amazing definitions, explanations examples & tips. I took pages of notes & truly appreciate YOU! I am looking forward to processing these in depth this winter 2021. Mercury Retrograde in Libra energy led me to your video lol. Namaste!
Mj thank you so much your videos have helped me so much an I heard you speak an I began to cry with gratitude 🙏 I said something similar to someone an was like a huge ahh haaha thank you so much for all your reading thank you . This is so true an I’m ready to heal more an grow hugs 🤗 thank you 🙏
WOW!! Wowzer!! Thank you MJ!!
Thank you for this! I'm so on this path! I've identified the patterns, taken responsibility and forgiven everyone because, yes, everyone is doing the best they can from where they are. This video was great validation and also helpful as to what my next move should be going forward to correct things.
You’re the best MJ! Thank you so much 😘
I noticed I had choices, but I felt I deserved less (why I don't know). I always picked the wrong one, I'm very careful now and all I hear is your too picky, I tell them I have every right to be.
Wow!! You completely hit the nail on the head. I loved this information. It showed that I have done well in some areas and need work in others. LOVE IT!!! Thank you!!!👏🏻👏👏
You are awesome, I've learned a lot through your RUclips videos. Thank you so much for helping me connect within myself.😎🐓🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱
MaryJo this is AWESOME thank you so much.
This was just what I needed to hear today MJ
Just now I got another reminder from the universe, attracting unavailable men, that leave before even starting a relationship 😳
Thank you so very much 🙏🏽Much love MJ
Ok bingo! Just seeing this video now 😊
I needed this.... thank you so much!!
Thank you so much! Needed this😘💜🤗
Wow MJ this video is so so helpful and reassuring that I am taking the right steps for improvement, Thank you for the teachings I am looking forward to watching more, As a request would you be able to do a video on the Hawaiian meditation Ho'Oponopono? You did that love fountain one that was soo good! Thank you!!
Mary Jo
You are absolutely correct in this video. When my twin flame opted out of a connection in the 3D. It was my major awakening. I ended up doing a lot of shadow work on myself and reviewing connections of the past including my twin flame. I identified the issues and corrected them. I have learned that forgiveness tends to benefit the one doing the forgiving rather than the party being forgiven. When my twin flame came back around wanting another chance. I apologized for my part in why the relationship broke down. This time I was the one who opted out. After a little communication, we agreed on a friendship. I am a Gemini (I was the femine) and my twin flame is a Capricorn ( He is the masculine). He has a new nickname. I call him goat man. He just calls me a pain in the ass. After hearing your twin flame story Mary Jo, I figured you would get a good laugh from hearing that. Goat man wont admit it, but he is a good teacher. I look forward to learning more off this channel. Thank You Mary Jo
Thanks MJ
Great advice!
Will be discussing this with my twin flame this week. My mom was controlling and never trusted my dad, who she kept distant from me. I've had the emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, married guys= (safe). TF is first guy I think will understand and we can heal together. He had the dad who constantly praised him for his sexual conquests, so that's TFs default.
Mary JO, this video was so helpful...thank you! It's not anything i haven't heard in the past but you articulate things so clearly and string things together so well, i needed to hear this again!! Much love and light
omg MJ. i just recently discovered i was living parallel my mothers life!! f'ing mindblowing
Glad I found this one.
Thanks for this great therapy session. It’s going to be listened to over and over.
You have a unique gift MJ. God bless you.
This is spot on free therapy for anyone! I am so grateful that I have done most of this work already, my twin flame sped it up 10 fold. Would you reccomend having the past realization conversations with a twin or someone else?
Thank you 🦋🌱💫
Loving this new channel! I am grateful for you, MJ. Thank you! 😘💜🕯🌙☮🙏💐
MJ. i think #6 is huge and might need its own further spinoff. i know for me this is huge. i grew up in a home with major money issues, def a lack! i think a lot of people equate shit to an expectation. and i love your 80s references!! 💋❤💋
This was Amazing! Thank you
That was really amazing and resonated when you talked about past relationships and really looking at them and what caused break ups. Etc. Thank you for sharing great wisdom.
This was incredible! Thank you. The steps are useful. I have an immediate situation that I'm going to use the process on. It's definitely from childhood
I’m really glad you started up this channel. I can’t wait for your next videos. Thank you
Beautiful!!!!
Thank you thank you!! Great lesson this morning and lots of notes. Again 🙏💥❤💯
Thank you so much!!!
Wow!!!! Loved that!!! I feel this glow inside me
Thank you, your channels are so helpful, and I feel my form of meditation .
This is so helpful! When are you doing the retreat?! My vote is the west coast! San Diego?? :) Let me know! I want a spot for sure! I wanted to make it the other ones and it just didn't align with my schedule. I have been following you for 2 years now and am so grateful that you are choosing to show up so fully for the collective! I love you Mary Jo!
Thank you so much. This was an amazing video. You have a very special gift. I appreciate you ❤️
Gotta love Judy Blume books! I also had older parents too. I’m still waiting for the Talk too... at age 45 😂
Thank you