A young woman who never knew her birth mother became close to my mother. They were so close that they even travelled together. This individual moved to another state and my mother would visit her. Then this woman ghosted my mother. My mother later learned from a mutual friend that the woman was upset because my mother supposedly borrowed a hat and the woman claimed she didn’t get the hat back. My mother said she didn’t remember this. My mother was a very responsible person and if she borrowed a hat she would have returned it or paid to replace it. The woman went to her grave not talking to my mother. She passed away before my mother at a relatively young age. Ghosting my mother was her loss. It’s no telling what’s wrong with your friend. It could be jealousy.
Hi Sheila good morning ...let it go beautiful because most times it's the other person and it has nothing to do with you doll ❤ AND AND it could even be jealousy... I've experienced this some years back and it ended up being jealousy from the other person who I thought was my dearest friend...it hurts YES but just let it go... there's nothing you can do about others' emotions...you are a beautiful spirit and God knows what's best for all of us🙏🏽... Love you❤❤❤
I had a friend who would go dark every couple months and would pop back up again like she didn’t ghost me for weeks at a time and would never acknowledge this. One time we had plans for dinner and she event ghosted me to the point of standing me up for dinner!! I thought it was so bizarre and inconsiderate how she would do this and later realized this disappearance and reappearance was her going through manic episodes. When she would disappear she was in an episode and would come back later as if nothing happened. Never know what someone is dealing with when they ‘disappear’ on us. Regardless we should honor our boundaries feelings and needs; honor what your instinct is telling you about the friend.
@@GreenGoddessCreative Well stated…I always go into worry mode because of something just like you said….not that you want them to be ill…but you feel better knowing they have a good reason…💚💚💚💚
Sheila, I have been where you are and it is so painful. I totally agrre with you 100%. I think it is cowardly to not face a person and express feelings. Keep your head up! God has you!
Recently, probably since October 2024 I have separated myself from everybody, it has nothing to do with my friends I just need some time alone, i did explain that to my friends and im sure they understand. It's not always a bad thing that people "Ghost"💕
@@RealLifewithSheila sometimes there is no explanation or you don't even have the energy to explain. There are a lot of people that are going through a lot nowadays. Just having time and space to recharge and reflect❤
Hey Sheila, I think sometimes people just grow apart, been ghosted also but know it’s ok because as my mom used to say some people are for a lifetime and some are just a season.
Hi Sheila, I have been a “ghoster”. In my experience, the other person didn’t deserve an explanation. For me, it had nothing to do with being a woman or man, as you stated. Sometimes it’s best to just set physical, mental, and spiritual boundaries for YOURSELF, regardless of what the other party thinks of it. In the end, we’re all adults and will move on with our lives. It’s nothing to hold on to because, trust me, the “ghoster” isn’t giving it a second thought. Go on with your life and reevaluate how you’d like to create different relationships and friendships moving forward. It’s life…
It’s unfortunate that you feel that way jomr.. my life experiences have shaped how I choose to protect my peace. We all have that choice. It’s not arrogance or one-sided. It’s life choices that suit how you see your future and what you can offer someone else in a more genuine, reciprocal relationship. I hope this doesn’t come off as rude or offensive or arrogant. That’s not my intention. Freeing myself from a relationship that no longer serves either of those involved, makes space for a more intentional relationship. Shouldn’t we all want that regardless of who’s the ghoster vs the ghostee?
Hi Shiela You look good. You can take your shawl to a cleaners or tailor that has a sewing machine have the bottom cut and sewn I have been ghosted and you know what, you do not need that person in your life. That person was there for the seasons that they were supposed to be in your life. Move forward and don't look back. ❤
I have had the same experience of being ghosted, and while it was painful at first, I now see that it was never a genuine relationship. So here's to being ghosted! 🎉
Sorry this happened to you lady Sheila , do not let it happena THIRD time ! Cherish the memories you have had with this person - what is that saying : things happen for a reason, a season or a lifetime ! God's continued best health to you and hubby always !
I wonder if you could sew or use no sew tape to add a trim on the bottom of your shawl. Maybe a tailor could add a trim. Or you could cut off the trim all together! You’re a very creative person! Somethings have such a beautiful sentimental value that it’s worth keeping and preserving it. Just a thought 💭🥰 Have an amazing day 💓🌺
Hi Sheila… This is a great topic. It would be a great panel discussion. I think I can see it from both sides. Like in your situation you have been a very good friend to someone and they ghosted you and you don’t know why, but there are other situations where people have been ghosted and they know exactly why. probably because of how they treated someone, disrespected and disregarded their feelings and maybe that person got tired of it. So I can see it from both sides. I can see how you can feel blindsided when you’ve been a very good friend, but I can also see when somebody has just had enough of mistreatment from a person for years and decides to just end it and go their separate way.
@@TrishtheNatural So true that’s why when I got the email from my subscriber…and having had it happen to me…I thought let me do a video with hopes to have people share thoughts and there are definitely thoughts and opinions….i love a good topic of discussion.💚💚💚
I can’t imagine ghosting a friend like you. I only pray I find really good true friends like you are. I truly believe, rejection is God’s protection. Good and better friendships will surely replace this.
I will ghost someone if I find them doing negative things toward me. You have friends , I am your friend and all of us who follow you. love you little sister. ❤I say little because I am older than you
Being ghosted by someone you care for is perplexing. Sorry for your friendship...trying to be nice but maybe it is for the best. I hope your friend is alright otherwise your friend is showing you who they are & how she feels....believe them. Don't take it personal, people ghost for various reasons...."let them" & live your best life.🎉 It will get better...
When someone is a SERIAL ghoster, they are the problem. No emotionally functioning adult does this. It IS disrespectful but it is also a power play. They know that it leaves the door open to circle back when they have no one else they can turn to after they have blown up all the bridges to every relationship they enter into. The older they get, the more stealth they become at doing it. The last person that did that to me for the last time, I healed in silence and surprised the heck out of them when they tried to circle back when they realized that door was slammed shut, locked, chained and walked off. Taking your power back should never be underrated. Leave this person where they are and never listen to anyone who tells you not to feel how you feel and work it out the way you need to. I could care less about someone who behaves like that over and over again. That has nothing to do with hating anyone. My motto is “ You don’t exist in my world anymore” and they can take that how they want.
All you “ghosters” on here taking about it being okay to shit people off are selfish and immature. There’s no excuse for choosing not to communicate and at least give the other person an opportunity to understand what’s going on. Setting boundaries and choosing peace doesn’t excuse you from being an adult and showing a bit of empathy for someone who was supposedly a friend or loved one. Grow up already. This is some middle school level immaturity and unless the other person has been abusive to you, there’s no excuse for this. So tired of selfish people.
Ghosting is very common these days. If the relationship is close, one should at least be kind enough to let the other person at least know. Even some spouses walk away in the dark of the night never to return. Some people are not compassionate. Unless you’re in an unsafe situation, pls let your friend know respectfully. You would want the same.
Unfortunately know one is required to give any explanation. It’s also outside of our control. But what we can look at is what did “I miss” what about me makes this person comfortable with coming back. What parts of me are drawn back to the person or people who don’t value me. Hard truths but fortunately they can produce growth.
Maybe their phone is broken and possibly lost their contact information 🤷🏽♀️ I understand because if I’m the only one always reaching out to a friend then I eventually stop because I’m a great friend but I’ll never chase you down. I pray this is not weighing you down any longer. I enjoy your content. Maybe I’ll run into you one day before you leave Myrtle Beach. Although it’s not the prettiest I really enjoy visiting and being near the water. The sounds of the ocean is like medicine for me. 🙏🏾❤️
Regarding the scarf, if you're handy with a needle you can cut and attach a new or different trim😂 Heard a saying one time, I think it was "Wayne Dyer" that said your friends are God's gift for making up for your family 😊 Humans say they love you, but the love is usually conditional to the way you treat them 😆 Just imagine what real unconditional love is really, like the love you have for your son, that love is the status level for everyone I say that I say I love meaning when they are going through something, I am going to love them regardless. I rarely tell people I love them because to me, I will love you though the tough times even if I'm not feeling their love is reciprocal 🥰 I have ghosted and been ghosted, some relationships are just for a season, because I ghosted you doesn't mean what we shared for that season wasn't beneficial, just may mean time to move on and don't want to waste any more time trying to explain myself, some things are better unsaid because the truth of why may not make sense to you or can be even more painful to share with you 😬
Hi Sheila, I've been ghosted myself or I can rsay I've ghosted a friend of mine. I didn't do it intentionally but we grew apart. But yrs later we saw each other and fell back in step. It depends I guess. Life go figure.
I feel like the person ghosted knows why they have been cut off. No need for any explanation. Being a grown up you also have the choice to let it go. The disrespect caused the ghosting to happen. IMO
@@winonasewell4766 Perhaps sometimes I can certainly see that…I’m just a straight forward person with people. 😆 It’s so good to get peoples views…great for conversation.💛💚
I 100% disagree with this assessment. I am 49 y/o grown woman and can say that I try my best to keep it real. People who ghost are cowards usually. Cowards and lack effective communication skills and emotionally IMMATURE. If a person has NOT explained to the person what is bothering directly and has not given the person the opportunity to address or fix the issue, then they are a coward. Especially, if it someone who professed to love you. There is no reason outside of abuse or manipulation, that someone needs to ghost a grown a** person. There is a way to end something indeed, but if you have to be so abrupt, then the person is usually the issue. Sadly, this used to be something that young kids did, but now grown people are engaging in the same toxic behavior.
@GlamGadzdefinitely emotionally immature. But they should continue. The crazy thing is folks who do this will never have close relationships unless emotional work is done.
@@shirleydavis5060 Agreed. It takes work to overcome the behavior and in today’s age, people don’t want to do inner work. Be honest why you are hurt or disappointed or why you don’t think communication is warranted anymore. Also, people need to be receptive to hearing it and not going off when the person tells them. I think you owe it to people who have invested a lot of time in you, or vice-versa. Ive ended two long-term friendships last year and wished them well, thanked them for their role in my life, and explained why and released them. If they leave this earth or if I do, there is no guilt on my end. I strongly believe in treating people how you would want to be treated and karmas effect as time goes on. I’m done on the topic. Have a great night. 💜
@GlamGadz sometimes people realize there is no point in trying to have a conversation with the person because they just don't get it, or the conversation will go the wrong way turning into a unpleasant situation.
Ahh I knew this was for me❤❤ Literally of what you said, but I’m grateful because will not allow this foolishness for years and years. Not for me. I will move forward and not think nothing about it. Leave it in God’s hand. It’s so deep like internal childhood issues that has to be dealt with in therapy maybe lifetime. But yea
Sheila, sounds like your friend maybe a narcissist. They are controlling and selfish. They also play a lot of mind games like ghosting, gaslighting and they lack empathy.
I’ll be honest… I think the person doing the ghosting is selfish. It’s inconsiderate & one sided. No one is obligated to stay connected but there is a proper way to go about disconnecting. Be sure to remove connections on social media and you’ll feel better moving forward. It ended, not in the way you would have preferred but it’s ok. 🩵
Hi. I will ghost most of my 60 years of living. Yes if the relationship is not working for me I will just ghost you because my peace of mind is more important than trying to get this person to understand what when why. They really know what happens if they get in touch with their emotions and feelings. I don't read minds and I can only control myself. I pray for the situation and if it was meant to be we will pick up at a later time in life and keep moving on with peace. People don't share everything regardless of how long you have been in the relationship.
That’s a selfish immature way to be. You’ll just ghost someone because it suits you. Funny how you say you’re not a mind reader but also said that the other person should just “know” if they get in touch with their feelings. What in the hypocritical confusion is that supposed to mean?
You sound so angry rhondalucy. It’s a healthy conversation that Sheila proposed and hearing other people’s thoughts and perspectives can hopefully help improve how we respond to being ghosted or being the ghoster. But your tone, accusations and insults isn’t helpful. May I suggest some therapy? Never take life situations this seriously. This too shall pass..
A young woman who never knew her birth mother became close to my mother. They were so close that they even travelled together. This individual moved to another state and my mother would visit her. Then this woman ghosted my mother. My mother later learned from a mutual friend that the woman was upset because my mother supposedly borrowed a hat and the woman claimed she didn’t get the hat back. My mother said she didn’t remember this. My mother was a very responsible person and if she borrowed a hat she would have returned it or paid to replace it. The woman went to her grave not talking to my mother. She passed away before my mother at a relatively young age. Ghosting my mother was her loss. It’s no telling what’s wrong with your friend. It could be jealousy.
Hi Sheila good morning ...let it go beautiful because most times it's the other person and it has nothing to do with you doll ❤ AND AND it could even be jealousy... I've experienced this some years back and it ended up being jealousy from the other person who I thought was my dearest friend...it hurts YES but just let it go... there's nothing you can do about others' emotions...you are a beautiful spirit and God knows what's best for all of us🙏🏽... Love you❤❤❤
I had a friend who would go dark every couple months and would pop back up again like she didn’t ghost me for weeks at a time and would never acknowledge this. One time we had plans for dinner and she event ghosted me to the point of standing me up for dinner!! I thought it was so bizarre and inconsiderate how she would do this and later realized this disappearance and reappearance was her going through manic episodes. When she would disappear she was in an episode and would come back later as if nothing happened. Never know what someone is dealing with when they ‘disappear’ on us. Regardless we should honor our boundaries feelings and needs; honor what your instinct is telling you about the friend.
@@GreenGoddessCreative Well stated…I always go into worry mode because of something just like you said….not that you want them to be ill…but you feel better knowing they have a good reason…💚💚💚💚
Sheila, I have been where you are and it is so painful. I totally agrre with you 100%. I think it is cowardly to not face a person and express feelings. Keep your head up! God has you!
Recently, probably since October 2024 I have separated myself from everybody, it has nothing to do with my friends I just need some time alone, i did explain that to my friends and im sure they understand. It's not always a bad thing that people "Ghost"💕
@@jackiehudgins1138 But you didn’t ghost you told them you needed time.💛💚💛 I hope all is well with you….take the time you need
@@RealLifewithSheila sometimes there is no explanation or you don't even have the energy to explain. There are a lot of people that are going through a lot nowadays. Just having time and space to recharge and reflect❤
Hey Sheila, I think sometimes people just grow apart, been ghosted also but know it’s ok because as my mom used to say some people are for a lifetime and some are just a season.
@@BlackLivesCount I do agree!
@@BlackLivesCount I do agree!
very true
Yes I agree with you @reallifewithsheila ghosting people is very disrespectful!
@@rondalucy 💚💛💚
Great video!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Watching you on this Friday morning have a great day
@@cherylbailey6161 Happy Friday! TGIF😂
Hi Sheila, I have been a “ghoster”. In my experience, the other person didn’t deserve an explanation. For me, it had nothing to do with being a woman or man, as you stated. Sometimes it’s best to just set physical, mental, and spiritual boundaries for YOURSELF, regardless of what the other party thinks of it. In the end, we’re all adults and will move on with our lives. It’s nothing to hold on to because, trust me, the “ghoster” isn’t giving it a second thought. Go on with your life and reevaluate how you’d like to create different relationships and friendships moving forward. It’s life…
@@quit2quilt525 Good input! I love hearing everyone’s thoughts. There’s just so many ways we can look at things….😊💛💚
Sounds like you are only looking at things from your own perspective and in an arrogant way.
It’s unfortunate that you feel that way jomr.. my life experiences have shaped how I choose to protect my peace. We all have that choice. It’s not arrogance or one-sided. It’s life choices that suit how you see your future and what you can offer someone else in a more genuine, reciprocal relationship. I hope this doesn’t come off as rude or offensive or arrogant. That’s not my intention. Freeing myself from a relationship that no longer serves either of those involved, makes space for a more intentional relationship. Shouldn’t we all want that regardless of who’s the ghoster vs the ghostee?
Hi Shiela
You look good. You can take your shawl to a cleaners or tailor that has a sewing machine have the bottom cut and sewn
I have been ghosted and you know what, you do not need that person in your life. That person was there for the seasons that they were supposed to be in your life. Move forward and don't look back. ❤
Ah nice I said the same about both comments. Shawl and the moving forward. ❤
I have had the same experience of being ghosted, and while it was painful at first, I now see that it was never a genuine relationship. So here's to being ghosted! 🎉
@@mgrant8376 🍷🍷💚💛💚
When you have been ghosted by someone it's seasonal come to and end in your life . Let it go it hurt but let it go
People just grow apart.
Sorry this happened to you lady Sheila , do not let it happena THIRD time ! Cherish the memories you have had with this person - what is that saying : things happen for a reason, a season or a lifetime ! God's continued best health to you and hubby always !
@@blutru1328 I’m actually saddened for my subscriber that messaged me than I am for myself…💛💚💛 yep things happen for a reason!!!!!
I wonder if you could sew or use no sew tape to add a trim on the bottom of your shawl. Maybe a tailor could add a trim. Or you could cut off the trim all together! You’re a very creative person! Somethings have such a beautiful sentimental value that it’s worth keeping and preserving it. Just a thought 💭🥰 Have an amazing day 💓🌺
@@synolve hmmmm! Good idea!!!
Getting ghosted never feels good. I’ve come to learn over the years that relationships that are not sealed with a real commitment are very seasonal.
That’s true!💛💚💛💚💛
Hi Sheila… This is a great topic. It would be a great panel discussion. I think I can see it from both sides. Like in your situation you have been a very good friend to someone and they ghosted you and you don’t know why, but there are other situations where people have been ghosted and they know exactly why. probably because of how they treated someone, disrespected and disregarded their feelings and maybe that person got tired of it. So I can see it from both sides. I can see how you can feel blindsided when you’ve been a very good friend, but I can also see when somebody has just had enough of mistreatment from a person for years and decides to just end it and go their separate way.
@@TrishtheNatural So true that’s why when I got the email from my subscriber…and having had it happen to me…I thought let me do a video with hopes to have people share thoughts and there are definitely thoughts and opinions….i love a good topic of discussion.💚💚💚
I am in the same boat. It happens and it does hurt. We hav to.love from afar.
@@buzzinbee9463 Amen! 😉
You may be able to take it to someone who sews and get the trim cut off and have it sown without anything. This way it’s a win to keep the shawl❤
I can’t imagine ghosting a friend like you. I only pray I find really good true friends like you are. I truly believe, rejection is God’s protection. Good and better friendships will surely replace this.
@@WestchesterLatina Awww! That’s such a compliment💛💚 I do agree it’s Gods protection…
Hey girl hey, sorry yo got ghosted. Its their loss. By the way... you hair looks fabulous>
@@vernicedennison6217 Awww thank you! It’s ok! People go through things they have to live with.
This is an awesome topic thanks🎉🎉
@@PeaceLove77 I love having deep conversations!💚💚💚
I will ghost someone if I find them doing negative things toward me. You have friends , I am your friend and all of us who follow you. love you little sister. ❤I say little because I am older than you
@@vickicampbell2736 💛💚💛😊😊😊
Being ghosted by someone you care for is perplexing. Sorry for your friendship...trying to be nice but maybe it is for the best. I hope your friend is alright otherwise your friend is showing you who they are & how she feels....believe them. Don't take it personal, people ghost for various reasons...."let them" & live your best life.🎉 It will get better...
When someone is a SERIAL ghoster, they are the problem. No emotionally functioning adult does this. It IS disrespectful but it is also a power play. They know that it leaves the door open to circle back when they have no one else they can turn to after they have blown up all the bridges to every relationship they enter into. The older they get, the more stealth they become at doing it. The last person that did that to me for the last time, I healed in silence and surprised the heck out of them when they tried to circle back when they realized that door was slammed shut, locked, chained and walked off. Taking your power back should never be underrated. Leave this person where they are and never listen to anyone who tells you not to feel how you feel and work it out the way you need to. I could care less about someone who behaves like that over and over again. That has nothing to do with hating anyone. My motto is “ You don’t exist in my world anymore” and they can take that how they want.
Exactly!
All you “ghosters” on here taking about it being okay to shit people off are selfish and immature. There’s no excuse for choosing not to communicate and at least give the other person an opportunity to understand what’s going on.
Setting boundaries and choosing peace doesn’t excuse you from being an adult and showing a bit of empathy for someone who was supposedly a friend or loved one. Grow up already. This is some middle school level immaturity and unless the other person has been abusive to you, there’s no excuse for this. So tired of selfish people.
I like your earrings!
Ghosting is very common these days. If the relationship is close, one should at least be kind enough to let the other person at least know.
Even some spouses walk away in the dark of the night never to return. Some people are not compassionate. Unless you’re in an unsafe situation, pls let your friend know respectfully. You would want the same.
@@cclibre3832 💛💚💛Yes!
Have you tried two strand twists with your natural hair?
I really dont think ghosting or being is any different than a breakup by someone leaving and never going back. Unfortunately, it's life.
Unfortunately know one is required to give any explanation. It’s also outside of our control. But what we can look at is what did “I miss” what about me makes this person comfortable with coming back. What parts of me are drawn back to the person or people who don’t value me. Hard truths but fortunately they can produce growth.
@@lorilashan3925 Another way to look at things it’s been fun reading so many different thoughts.💚💛
Maybe their phone is broken and possibly lost their contact information 🤷🏽♀️ I understand because if I’m the only one always reaching out to a friend then I eventually stop because I’m a great friend but I’ll never chase you down. I pray this is not weighing you down any longer. I enjoy your content. Maybe I’ll run into you one day before you leave Myrtle Beach. Although it’s not the prettiest I really enjoy visiting and being near the water. The sounds of the ocean is like medicine for me. 🙏🏾❤️
@@sonya1613 awww! I’m good as for me being ghosted….but my subscriber…I’m a little sad for. This has affected her!
Regarding the scarf, if you're handy with a needle you can cut and attach a new or different trim😂
Heard a saying one time, I think it was "Wayne Dyer" that said your friends are God's gift for making up for your family 😊
Humans say they love you, but the love is usually conditional to the way you treat them 😆
Just imagine what real unconditional love is really, like the love you have for your son, that love is the status level for everyone I say that I say I love meaning when they are going through something, I am going to love them regardless.
I rarely tell people I love them because to me, I will love you though the tough times even if I'm not feeling their love is reciprocal 🥰
I have ghosted and been ghosted, some relationships are just for a season, because I ghosted you doesn't mean what we shared for that season wasn't beneficial, just may mean time to move on and don't want to waste any more time trying to explain myself, some things are better unsaid because the truth of why may not make sense to you or can be even more painful to share with you 😬
Hi Sheila, I've been ghosted myself or I can rsay I've ghosted a friend of mine. I didn't do it intentionally but we grew apart. But yrs later we saw each other and fell back in step. It depends I guess. Life go figure.
I feel like the person ghosted knows why they have been cut off. No need for any explanation. Being a grown up you also have the choice to let it go. The disrespect caused the ghosting to happen. IMO
@@winonasewell4766 Perhaps sometimes I can certainly see that…I’m just a straight forward person with people. 😆 It’s so good to get peoples views…great for conversation.💛💚
I 100% disagree with this assessment. I am 49 y/o grown woman and can say that I try my best to keep it real. People who ghost are cowards usually. Cowards and lack effective communication skills and emotionally IMMATURE. If a person has NOT explained to the person what is bothering directly and has not given the person the opportunity to address or fix the issue, then they are a coward. Especially, if it someone who professed to love you. There is no reason outside of abuse or manipulation, that someone needs to ghost a grown a** person. There is a way to end something indeed, but if you have to be so abrupt, then the person is usually the issue. Sadly, this used to be something that young kids did, but now grown people are engaging in the same toxic behavior.
@GlamGadzdefinitely emotionally immature. But they should continue. The crazy thing is folks who do this will never have close relationships unless emotional work is done.
@@shirleydavis5060 Agreed. It takes work to overcome the behavior and in today’s age, people don’t want to do inner work. Be honest why you are hurt or disappointed or why you don’t think communication is warranted anymore. Also, people need to be receptive to hearing it and not going off when the person tells them. I think you owe it to people who have invested a lot of time in you, or vice-versa. Ive ended two long-term friendships last year and wished them well, thanked them for their role in my life, and explained why and released them. If they leave this earth or if I do, there is no guilt on my end. I strongly believe in treating people how you would want to be treated and karmas effect as time goes on. I’m done on the topic. Have a great night. 💜
@GlamGadz sometimes people realize there is no point in trying to have a conversation with the person because they just don't get it, or the conversation will go the wrong way turning into a unpleasant situation.
I just had a faux leather jacket crumble on me that I got from Target ages ago, I feel you Mrs. Sheila. ❤
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Ahh I knew this was for me❤❤
Literally of what you said, but I’m grateful because will not allow this foolishness for years and years. Not for me. I will move forward and not think nothing about it. Leave it in God’s hand. It’s so deep like internal childhood issues that has to be dealt with in therapy maybe lifetime. But yea
You can have it rehemed.
Sheila, sounds like your friend maybe a narcissist. They are controlling and selfish. They also play a lot of mind games like ghosting, gaslighting and they lack empathy.
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@@Gigi-i3g 💚💚💚
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You look like Angela Davis right now.
I’ll be honest… I think the person doing the ghosting is selfish. It’s inconsiderate & one sided. No one is obligated to stay connected but there is a proper way to go about disconnecting.
Be sure to remove connections on social media and you’ll feel better moving forward. It ended, not in the way you would have preferred but it’s ok. 🩵
Hi. I will ghost most of my 60 years of living. Yes if the relationship is not working for me I will just ghost you because my peace of mind is more important than trying to get this person to understand what when why. They really know what happens if they get in touch with their emotions and feelings. I don't read minds and I can only control myself. I pray for the situation and if it was meant to be we will pick up at a later time in life and keep moving on with peace. People don't share everything regardless of how long you have been in the relationship.
That’s a selfish immature way to be. You’ll just ghost someone because it suits you. Funny how you say you’re not a mind reader but also said that the other person should just “know” if they get in touch with their feelings. What in the hypocritical confusion is that supposed to mean?
You sound so angry rhondalucy. It’s a healthy conversation that Sheila proposed and hearing other people’s thoughts and perspectives can hopefully help improve how we respond to being ghosted or being the ghoster. But your tone, accusations and insults isn’t helpful. May I suggest some therapy? Never take life situations this seriously. This too shall pass..