Idk, they guy has to support 2 women and deal with two separate mindsets and emotions. It takes a lot of effort to support a family like that. Good luck to them all.
@@hogwartz6360 It only becomes a problem for him when sex ceases to be the driving force. When he gets older and his priorities change, then it becomes a problem.
@@sjrpfr He could have just cheated on his wife and slept with multiple woman. Instead he communicated with her. I think that's the best approach when you want more in a relationship. However, he do get another woman pregnant so that's a thing.
The mother in law was so foul to point out the other woman's struggle to conceive... while pointing out her daughter does EASILY!!! F UP 4ANY WOMAN TO DO THAT TO ANOTHER!!!
Actually her daughter had issues to start with and had difficulty conceiving. Making assumptions without knowing the story doesn't serve anyone. In addition, this is video which is clearly edited as are all videos. You have no clue what it might have said if it hadn't been edited. Sophie had issues conceiving in the beginning so it's the opposite of what you all are assuming.
Sounds like a crappy deal for the poor woman that's struggling to conceive. Sharing your partner with someone you dislike and having to help raise their children. Definitely didn't sell the lifestyle to me!
Why do you think they dislike each other ? If you do not agree with their marriage or lifestyle, why watch ? They are actually a really amazing family.
Never said I didn't agree with their lifestyle.. its their choice. I watched because I find it interesting. They didn't seem to like each other from what I watched, the talk about the different personalities ect..
I got the vibe that it's not that they don't like each other but they aren't the closest and if it wasn't for their husband they probably would've never became friends
If it wasn’t for the husband wanting a harem they wouldn’t need to know each other he’s a bigamist . And I bet you in a year or two when these two women get older he’ll look for a third wife that’s younger.
Listen to them, they are describing their difficulties primarily revolving around each woman having to deal with the emotional aspect of having to share one man. It’s rather obvious to me that each woman would prefer to be his only partner. Who has a stronger grip on these women? The man or their cult?
They were on a season of sister wives & I felt so awful for the first wife. She was trying to have another baby & struggling (miscarriages & just not getting pregnant) & at the EXACT same time is when he convinced her to let him have a 2nd wife. And this second wife became pregnant immediately WHILE the first was struggling. Edit: after watching this, I see she had ANOTHER baby right after while the 1st wife is still trying.
Yes, I remember them on Sister wives as well. I believe a new season will be airing soon but this family is no longer on the show. The second wife's mom was very rude. It's obvious the first wife has fertility issues, why rub it in her face like that?
@@liv2lrn2luvu18 yeah. The 1st wife's mom was Polygymous so she grew up around it. But while watching, you could see she was uncomfortable& didn't want it. She's in one of those religions where the wife obeys the husband. It was so sad when the 2nd was pregnant instantly & you could see the pain in her eyes. According to this video, she still hasn't got pregnant& the 2nd has already had another baby.
O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female. The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it. Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.
Just seems so out of balance. You can tell the brown haired one is very jealous of the red head one but is very good at hiding it...(u can still see it tho)
I sense a lot of sadness in that house. It’s not a great situation at all in fact it’s very toxic. Why the first wife agreed to that blows my mind To begin with. And if the second wife knew he was married already why would she agree with it it’s messed up in many different ways. What makes anyone think that he won’t do this again “hey wives I found a third partner” my harem is growing . He is a complete and utter D-Bag !
Unfortunately this is so similar to what Meri Brown went through. She struggled to get pregnant after her first baby and that guilt led her to a path of plural marriage which ended in diaster for her. This was very sad to watch.
That’s not how it happened with Meri. They were married to Janelle before children were conceived, and Janelle had the first with Leon being born shortly thereafter.
@@solaris5922 right...that's why polygyny was the bedrock of civilization since the dawn of time. You modern day females have become brainwashed into thinking monogamy is the only way to live. Here's a fun fact for you that'll hopefully open your eyes. Throughout the ENTIRETY OF HUMAN HISTORY, 95+% of women have procreated. You want to know what the % of men that have procreated is...? IT'S 40! 40% of men have procreated since the dawn of our ancestry. Do you know what that means? Allow me to explain it to you since logic isn't your strong suit. It means MEN SHARED MULTIPLE WOMEN. It means only the best men were allowed to procreate while nearly all the females were procreating. Women flock to the strongest, most well equipped man for survival. This is their basic natural instinct. This is how our species survived. If humans were monogamous since the beggining of time, we would literally have died out. Women naturally want to get with the best male they can, and men naturally want to get with as many women as they can as to spread their seed and lineage. Men and women have different mating objectives and strategies, and our history proves that. Hopefully you learned something from this basic history lesson.
@@solaris5922 Well, I can't speak for the person who left the comment, but she never said the whole situation was level-headed; they were just the MOST level-headed of the bunch. Lol Which would be saying a lot about the groups of people on the show they were on.
Intimacy is very intense emotionally....how is it fair that the wives have to tolerate knowing their husband is with another wife? How would HE like it? There is a reason why there isn't one wife with multiple husband's in their "faith" ...the women are being played
Most of these Religions do not have any respect or rights in place for the very people that give life and do a chunk of the supporting that new life. Just vessels
I would never deal with multiple partners I'd lose my sanity 🙃 each to their own business. Judgment is just a negative outlook on others for what? Surround yourself with happiness love and joy leave the rest in the dust.
What's sad is how dumb our society has become where opinions like yours get upvoted. Humanity would literally not exist in the way it does today without the practice of polygyny. It's extremely normal and natural for men to have multiple partners/wives, you will find this in literally almost any mammalian species on earth. The alpha male mates with all the women. The strongest genes get passed on. It's quite simple. Men can produce many families at once whereas females can only produce one family at a time. Females pick the best partner they can and mate with them, males mate with as many females as possible. We have different mating strategies. This is all from an evolutionary, naturalistic perspective. This has nothing to do with religion. Open your eyes lady. Read a book. Watch a nature documentary. Don't let liberal Western society brainwash you into thinking humans are exclusively meant for monogamy. Also, how shameful of you to judge others. Who are you to say this is an awful thing when it has been practised since the dawn of time by not only humans but quite literally the entire animal kingdom. How ignorant of you. Have some respect.
O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female. The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it. Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.
It doesn't work the other way around. Try to think logically about why that is the case. I mean you can try it but it is completely unnatural and ineffective.
One day I hope these women will realize they deserve more than half a man…. That mom was so rude! Telling the other girl that she’s the problem about not having more kids.
@@sabrinar9101 same can be said for if you don't like someone's opinion don't respond. This was put out for public consumption. Everyone has a view on it. Maybe this is their first time seeing plural relationships so they didn't know going into it whether they liked it or not. Doesn't matter either way. There's no need to be rude to someone for having a different opinion then your own. This toxicity is what is wrong with social media. You don't have to be a part of that. You can respect someone else's right to think independently just like you're doing. Be blessed
@@PrettyUnique90 You said you would never share your man. all I said was you've already shared him with many other women, unless you met him when he was a virgin. The same is also true for yourself, unless you met him when you were a virgin. You've both shared each other with others
rawuel... she could be setting herself up for a lot of pain and suffering later if he dies ... I think even if he had a will set up she might not have a legal claim to anything because of the state laws . ... and that would mean if the first wife wants she could kick the second wife and her children out , probably if she wanted to be unkind . I don't think the second wife has any legal protection whatsoever and if he has health insurance she wouldn't qualify chances are as the spouse . If he ended up in the hospital half dead or dying she would not have a legal right to speak up for him according to the state laws ... so being the second wife she has put herself in a powerless position ... and that's not fair to her children either .
@@gardensofthegods That is such an interesting thought because I didn't even think of the fact she has no standing in the eyes of law. Home girl would have to start supporting herself without help.
There is a lot of judgement on this comment section. These are adults who are making the decision to do this. They deal with more jealousy than most people but they also do have an abundance of love through their faith and extra support. I completely understand why people do this and I’m not religious at all, even slightly. Raising kids with only two parents or just one is not healthy and many marriages are not healthy. So leave other people up to their own decisions.
Everything I've ever heard sister wives say about each other - all the bonuses to the lifestyle - could apply to a biological or adopted sister, a sister-in-law, a best friend, or a close neighbor who becomes your best friend without having sex with the same man. This leaves me always wondering why it's so important for women to share a man? The only thing I could come up with is it's a lifestyle that allows women to limit sexual contact for those to would prefer it be limited.
There was one were she had like 4 boyfriends and she was pregnant. But like apparently one of the guys being abusive to the baby...but then again I got off vibes from the relationship from the beginning
that would be completely unnatural and goes against anything complimentary towards men and women. Men can provide and support multiple families, women cannot. Men can produce multiple families a year, women can only produce one. There's a reason the highest status men practiced polygyny all throughout human history and there was never such a practice the other way around. It doesn't work
A man's marriage to more than one woman causes imprisonment, while a man's marriage to a man like him does not cause imprisonment. Wonders of the West 😂😂
I see some comments saying the women are unhappy and are doing it for him. I don't think it is for him, it's for religion. They even admitted it's a struggle, they just put the effort to be ok with their beliefs. You can indeed tell they don't really want each other around, specially first wife.
This is why there is so many religions….. everybody didn’t like the way the Bible truly teaches so they tweak it and BAM new religion. All what the devil wants…. Shame they cant see it.
I’m an open minded person. However I really don’t see any security or harmony in these women’s demeanours. The body language is cold and they are really trying hard to show up for this video. It is what it is. Good luck !
It's still illegal- just not a felony unless the other partner is threatened or abused or coerced into the relationship. It's a 750 dollar fine and community service currently unless it's an abusive situation then it reverts to a felony.
And black people using the same bathroom as white people used to be illegal here too. The law does not equal morality! It’s none of the laws business what consenting adults do.
Bc its all about him. It sounds like the wives didnt even know each other well when the second wife was moved in which isnt how actually healthy poly-living-together relationships work. While Im not in the lifestyle myself, I've known several group dynamics that function much better than this bc everyone is valued and respected equally. A new partner should not be brought in at all if they will damage the original relationship
Lol, all new partners will cause damage. Men may be physical, but women are emotional. A woman will only share a man if she has no self respect. Same for men.
Intresting. Where I'm sitting, one wife is already too many.🤣Relationships are not for everyone, but if that human is happy, to each their own. TERRANCE OUT
He gets to go on ALL the dates and ALL the vacations while the women get to go on only the ones that pertain to them, like an anniversary, and stay home with all the kids the other times. Sounds like a sweet deal for him.
Being in a monogamous romatinc relationship is already exhausting because you always have to consider the other person and make decisions together, imagine having to do that but with 2 other people and the second person who you don’t even like or want anything to do with.
The only way this relationship will make it all the way is either the women also having a relationship with each other or the first wife having some very specific kinks.
Its so sad these ladies dont think they are worthy of a man for themselves alone, religion is not to blame … hes selfish and shouldnt have any wife at all
If my husband said let bring another wife in to our marriage I would be visiting my lawyer. I have 2 sisters and they were a nightmare to live with I would end up hurting someone probably my husband if we did this. I suppose on the flip side the wives have a partner to give the husband hell. But each to their own I suppose. 🤷♀️
This design is a way to make life way more simple and more functional. My wife had considered letting us do this and I dated but she eventually got cold feet. We have a hard time keeping up with life as just 2 adults. Im telling you a 3 fold chord is not easily broken. I hope and pray one day my wife sees the value in that
I can’t believe how many hater’s there are making comments on here, when all the same emotions they accuse this family of are also a part of a monogamous relationship. I’m monogamous and I can tell you life isn’t perfect in our relationship either. I think it would be great for my wife to have a sister (wife) to help out and build a relationship with, as well as even myself to have a relationship with. Sometimes we expect too much out of one person. Adding another to our relationship I think would be extremely challenging as well as extremely rewarding for all three individuals, but I think with a net positive experience in life as a whole.
I'm wondering if it won't work better if there was two guys and two girls. And then they just would swap Partners every other day or every other week😊 And not be married at all. Its way better to stay in a group than run around town sleeping with everyone❤
This is so unhealthy. Putting the “religious” beliefs aside. This can never work. It may be fine for the man but women are not biologically designed to share a mate. So many issues arise. And the children suffer the most.
Dude better than cheating on your wife with different girls at least this way he is committing to them both and they both look happy and that sharing mate things you said it's a temporary thing that happens at the start but goes away with time, Chill
if they're happy then why are people pissed? when a guy has 20 girlfriends and multiple partners only to use the person then move on its good no one bats an eye. But if someone chooses to get married like they have and give the other person their rights its a problem?
Awe I really like Tammy she seems so nice. I hope she gets that baby soon! Sadie is a beauty just like her mama so I’m guessing future children will be just as adorable
I feel so sorry for the kids, ONE MAN is NOT ENOUGH for all these kids and all these wives, wait until their not the only two wives and the get older and fatter, he will not be interested in an intimate relationship, because he has a NEW younger and dumber wife. Sigh, so stupid
Who’s not convinced this guy is a cowboy? Sure he has a hat and a horse but I’m just not buying the vibe. He looks like he belongs in front of a computer. Just sayin.
I think maybe if the legal wife did not seem so hurt and miserable I'd each their own, they are consenting adults . I think if maybe the legal wife was not having fertility issues she might be happier . Right now it seems like she is watching her husband raise a family with anothet woman and she is the live in baby sitter that he screws when the "other" wifey isn't in the mood
I don’t understand why people are attacking them so much .. when it’s a woman with multiple partners I don’t see this much backlash and when the wife tells the husband that she is bi sexual and wants a female partner that doesn’t get as much backlash either You realise this is how it literally was for most of humanity for the lack of wealth and resources. It’s not the preferred lifestyle of the vast majority of people including myself as a married women but all im saying if both of them are consenting and are ok with it then i see the backlash being a double standard and is truly shaming these women for doing whatever they want to do which shouldn’t never be the case for any woman
@@Yooperskepticz well it is true .. all abrahamic religions have sects that believe in polygamy and none of them see it as a two way street where the female has multiple partners because of the identity of the father or whatever. And the women were were saying (our religion) too they do have a say in it , they belong to this faith.. they are both adults who live in America (not an oppressive country) so they could walk out if they chose it’s their choice and assuming they don’t have a say in it is border line misogynistic imo like “oh these poor women can’t possibly chose this faith for them selves because I don’t think they should so they must be forced into it even then though they’re saying they consent I’m still going to not believe it” Let them have whatever faith they choose and live however they want as long as they have free will to leave anytime then no one should attack them or shame them for how they chose to live and their religion should be respected agree with it or not as all religions should be ..
I keep wanting to ask them to blink twice if they needed rescuing. “My religion” is the basis for all kinds of crap. Plus, I’m sure Colton wouldn’t approve if the kids had “two mamas” as part of a lesbian couple.
I low key feel like they tried to shade the girl who is trying to get pregnant…not cool that’s something they shouldn’t have really even asked was
I don't like how she asked about why she doesn't have more kids. 😒
Why?
It's a sweet deal for him. I'm not quite sure why the women think this is a good idea for them.
Low self esteem, and wanting their bills paid. Women's standards are so high now a days, they mathematically have to share.
Because they dont want to work. Lazy women who cant be dependent
Idk, they guy has to support 2 women and deal with two separate mindsets and emotions. It takes a lot of effort to support a family like that. Good luck to them all.
@@hogwartz6360 It only becomes a problem for him when sex ceases to be the driving force. When he gets older and his priorities change, then it becomes a problem.
@@sjrpfr He could have just cheated on his wife and slept with multiple woman. Instead he communicated with her. I think that's the best approach when you want more in a relationship. However, he do get another woman pregnant so that's a thing.
The mother in law was so foul to point out the other woman's struggle to conceive... while pointing out her daughter does EASILY!!! F UP 4ANY WOMAN TO DO THAT TO ANOTHER!!!
I thought that was messed up too!
What an awful woman, I'd be in tears
Actually her daughter had issues to start with and had difficulty conceiving. Making assumptions without knowing the story doesn't serve anyone. In addition, this is video which is clearly edited as are all videos. You have no clue what it might have said if it hadn't been edited. Sophie had issues conceiving in the beginning so it's the opposite of what you all are assuming.
@bigmikeobama5314 You are correct.
Just like Rachel and Leah.
They really look uncomfortable
Nope
They might possibly be uncomfortable with their relationship BUT it might just be the cameras making them uncomfortable.
Sounds like a crappy deal for the poor woman that's struggling to conceive. Sharing your partner with someone you dislike and having to help raise their children. Definitely didn't sell the lifestyle to me!
Why do you think they dislike each other ? If you do not agree with their marriage or lifestyle, why watch ? They are actually a really amazing family.
Casey I agree with you
Never said I didn't agree with their lifestyle.. its their choice. I watched because I find it interesting. They didn't seem to like each other from what I watched, the talk about the different personalities ect..
@@---CASEY--K--- I agree. I can see it in Tami's face. Just look at her eyes. They say it all. It's almost as if she HAS to tolerate it.
@@---CASEY--K--- yup your gorgeous
I got the vibe that it's not that they don't like each other but they aren't the closest and if it wasn't for their husband they probably would've never became friends
If it wasn’t for the husband wanting a harem they wouldn’t need to know each other he’s a bigamist . And I bet you in a year or two when these two women get older he’ll look for a third wife that’s younger.
Listen to them, they are describing their difficulties primarily revolving around each woman having to deal with the emotional aspect of having to share one man. It’s rather obvious to me that each woman would prefer to be his only partner. Who has a stronger grip on these women? The man or their cult?
Yeah they definitely didn't sell the lifestyle! It would suck
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Yeah. It's really sickening...
They are a lovely family. Until you watch them a while don't judge them . Very sweet couples learning to live for the greater purpose .
@@southerngrits The greater purpose is???
They don’t seem happy 😕 if feels like the women are doing it for him and would rather have a monogamous relationship
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all 3
Agreed -JACK
Ja only you are happy. Almost all women are unhappy even with one man.
Do you think so ? what gave it away all the stress in the house or the sadness
They were on a season of sister wives & I felt so awful for the first wife. She was trying to have another baby & struggling (miscarriages & just not getting pregnant) & at the EXACT same time is when he convinced her to let him have a 2nd wife. And this second wife became pregnant immediately WHILE the first was struggling.
Edit: after watching this, I see she had ANOTHER baby right after while the 1st wife is still trying.
Damn. So basically it was his idea? I would have left him immediately. That's awful.
Yes, I remember them on Sister wives as well. I believe a new season will be airing soon but this family is no longer on the show. The second wife's mom was very rude. It's obvious the first wife has fertility issues, why rub it in her face like that?
@@liv2lrn2luvu18 yeah. The 1st wife's mom was Polygymous so she grew up around it. But while watching, you could see she was uncomfortable& didn't want it. She's in one of those religions where the wife obeys the husband. It was so sad when the 2nd was pregnant instantly & you could see the pain in her eyes. According to this video, she still hasn't got pregnant& the 2nd has already had another baby.
O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female.
The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it.
Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.
I heard the wide banged the friend and one of the kids isn’t her husbands 🤷🏻♀️ who knows 😂
I don’t care what other people do but this family does not look comfortable at all. The wives seem like they are forcing themselves to be happy.
Forcing themselves to pretend to be happy for sure
Just seems so out of balance. You can tell the brown haired one is very jealous of the red head one but is very good at hiding it...(u can still see it tho)
@@arielxmoore he must have a favourite out of the 2 🤔
I sense a lot of sadness in that house. It’s not a great situation at all in fact it’s very toxic. Why the first wife agreed to that blows my mind To begin with. And if the second wife knew he was married already why would she agree with it it’s messed up in many different ways. What makes anyone think that he won’t do this again “hey wives I found a third partner” my harem is growing . He is a complete and utter D-Bag !
I agree with you
The awkward pause after being asked if they would want their kids to live this lifestyle..
Listening to them try to convince themselves out loud that this is working for them, is uncomfortable.
Yes but if i marry you and i also marry another girl what you Say
Unfortunately this is so similar to what Meri Brown went through. She struggled to get pregnant after her first baby and that guilt led her to a path of plural marriage which ended in diaster for her. This was very sad to watch.
Who's Meri brown?
@@rohitpandey7866the first wife from the TV show Sister Wives
That’s not how it happened with Meri. They were married to Janelle before children were conceived, and Janelle had the first with Leon being born shortly thereafter.
Saw these guys on Seeking Sister Wives, definitely the most level headed ones of the bunch!!
Hello Juliana
Nothing about this is level headed
@@solaris5922 fr
@@solaris5922 right...that's why polygyny was the bedrock of civilization since the dawn of time. You modern day females have become brainwashed into thinking monogamy is the only way to live. Here's a fun fact for you that'll hopefully open your eyes. Throughout the ENTIRETY OF HUMAN HISTORY, 95+% of women have procreated. You want to know what the % of men that have procreated is...? IT'S 40! 40% of men have procreated since the dawn of our ancestry. Do you know what that means? Allow me to explain it to you since logic isn't your strong suit. It means MEN SHARED MULTIPLE WOMEN. It means only the best men were allowed to procreate while nearly all the females were procreating. Women flock to the strongest, most well equipped man for survival. This is their basic natural instinct. This is how our species survived. If humans were monogamous since the beggining of time, we would literally have died out. Women naturally want to get with the best male they can, and men naturally want to get with as many women as they can as to spread their seed and lineage. Men and women have different mating objectives and strategies, and our history proves that. Hopefully you learned something from this basic history lesson.
@@solaris5922 Well, I can't speak for the person who left the comment, but she never said the whole situation was level-headed; they were just the MOST level-headed of the bunch. Lol
Which would be saying a lot about the groups of people on the show they were on.
omg when sophie said with one wife that’s highly emotional, then he said and one that’s not. that sent me
What did they mean by that? Who is the emotional one?
@@smashino 7:30
@@rawuelanaji6835 I still don't know who the emotional one is.
@@smashino Tami
This could neverrrrr be me. You have to have low self esteem to share a man with other woman! 🤮 No man is worth it..!
Wow! Why get on here and talk bad about people you do not even know!?! They are actually a very wonderful family
@@sabrinar9101 Shut up girl. I can comment whatever I like
@@sabrinar9101 ew hell no
@@sabrinar9101 weirdo
@@sabrinar9101 you probably have low self esteem issues like these women.😂
Intimacy is very intense emotionally....how is it fair that the wives have to tolerate knowing their husband is with another wife? How would HE like it? There is a reason why there isn't one wife with multiple husband's in their "faith" ...the women are being played
Most of these Religions do not have any respect or rights in place for the very people that give life and do a chunk of the supporting that new life. Just vessels
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname Yup.. you are right. They are just used for breeding, cooking, and cleaning. Nothing more. F that.
Monogamy for women... Multiple wives for the man. This is NATURE'S WAY. take it up with GOD
man is polygamous by nature
@@AmyLeeAngelLove Bills paid, full tummy, kids happy, split intimacy responsibility... Seems like a sweet deal, whats the problem?
I would never deal with multiple partners I'd lose my sanity 🙃 each to their own business. Judgment is just a negative outlook on others for what? Surround yourself with happiness love and joy leave the rest in the dust.
Her mom is so rude honestly throwing infertility in the REAL WIFE’S face 🤦🏾♀️
She is happy her daughter is the wife that pops out babies, even though she is the second wife
It's HORRIBLE!!
People will do all kinds of awful things and say it is for their religion. This is just one more example. Sad!
What's sad is how dumb our society has become where opinions like yours get upvoted. Humanity would literally not exist in the way it does today without the practice of polygyny. It's extremely normal and natural for men to have multiple partners/wives, you will find this in literally almost any mammalian species on earth. The alpha male mates with all the women. The strongest genes get passed on. It's quite simple. Men can produce many families at once whereas females can only produce one family at a time. Females pick the best partner they can and mate with them, males mate with as many females as possible. We have different mating strategies. This is all from an evolutionary, naturalistic perspective. This has nothing to do with religion. Open your eyes lady. Read a book. Watch a nature documentary. Don't let liberal Western society brainwash you into thinking humans are exclusively meant for monogamy. Also, how shameful of you to judge others. Who are you to say this is an awful thing when it has been practised since the dawn of time by not only humans but quite literally the entire animal kingdom. How ignorant of you. Have some respect.
O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female.
The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it.
Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.
@@imanrusmana8114 you're quoting a book written by a man 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I can tell those women despise one another. Sad they are forcing themselves to bow down to this cult
Yep that's why I left that cult lol
Cool… Now do a feel good story about a woman who timeshares 7 different "husbands”.
Polygamy is awful.
It doesn't work the other way around. Try to think logically about why that is the case. I mean you can try it but it is completely unnatural and ineffective.
@@anklebreaka03 Both are unnatural.
Yesssss
@@anklebreaka03 cringe
Omfg you can SMELL the tension ://///
One day I hope these women will realize they deserve more than half a man…. That mom was so rude! Telling the other girl that she’s the problem about not having more kids.
If you do not agree with their lifestyle, why watch ? They are a very loving family.
@@sabrinar9101 same can be said for if you don't like someone's opinion don't respond. This was put out for public consumption. Everyone has a view on it. Maybe this is their first time seeing plural relationships so they didn't know going into it whether they liked it or not. Doesn't matter either way. There's no need to be rude to someone for having a different opinion then your own. This toxicity is what is wrong with social media. You don't have to be a part of that. You can respect someone else's right to think independently just like you're doing. Be blessed
@@thryssinstitches9655 exactly!! 👏👏👏🤣
@@thryssinstitches9655I definitely agree with you 💯
@@thryssinstitches9655 I said that they deserve more than they are getting…what is so wrong about that….
Forget that I would NEVER share my man with no one 👏
you've already shared him with plenty women, relax
@@anklebreaka03 think u misread the comment. Read it again. Relax!!!
@@PrettyUnique90 Ignore him. Based on his other comments, he is clearly a misogynistic hypocrite.
@@kyliCatherine1 excuse me? explain yourself and your false accusations. Am I misogynistic or realistic? open your eyes and open your mind lady
@@PrettyUnique90 You said you would never share your man. all I said was you've already shared him with many other women, unless you met him when he was a virgin. The same is also true for yourself, unless you met him when you were a virgin. You've both shared each other with others
Polygamy is so sickening.
Keep this same energy for when the woman has multiple men
I know.. it's so gross.
True
How many wives did krishna had..?@@jobangharekhan2601
The wives don’t seem too happy 🙃
I just know that if something were to happen to colton tammy would immediately kick sophie out (since she's the legal wife).😂
Here's hoping.
when he said sophie is a spiritual marriage LOL
rawuel... she could be setting herself up for a lot of pain and suffering later if he dies ... I think even if he had a will set up she might not have a legal claim to anything because of the state laws .
... and that would mean if the first wife wants she could kick the second wife and her children out , probably if she wanted to be unkind .
I don't think the second wife has any legal protection whatsoever and if he has health insurance she wouldn't qualify chances are as the spouse .
If he ended up in the hospital half dead or dying she would not have a legal right to speak up for him according to the state laws ... so being the second wife she has put herself in a powerless position ... and that's not fair to her children either .
@@gardensofthegods That is such an interesting thought because I didn't even think of the fact she has no standing in the eyes of law. Home girl would have to start supporting herself without help.
Spiritual marriage is another term for side project, when my first wife doesn’t do it for me.
I nearly laughed until I cried.
Yep and when she is on her arse and kicked out i wonder if that spirit will be paying her back what she put in. This set up seems real suspect
I strongly dislike the mom for bringing up her baby situation. This whole scenario is ugly.
Yah, that woman was pure evil, what a nasty witch
Lol yeaaaa... That seemed so low to do that. Smh
The first wife should’ve never agreed for this . if she seen signs that he wanted another wife leave the a** hole get a divorce and MoveOn.
3:09 „… when colton goes on a date with satan- sophie“ 👀
lmao nice catch
Nice catch! I rewatched it a few times and she does say "Satan" before she corrects herself n says Sophie🤣
🤣🤣🤣
That IS exactly what she said 😂😮
5:43 that is some stare she’s got there-
If I am in such relationship ,I would need my own home.
There is a lot of judgement on this comment section. These are adults who are making the decision to do this. They deal with more jealousy than most people but they also do have an abundance of love through their faith and extra support. I completely understand why people do this and I’m not religious at all, even slightly. Raising kids with only two parents or just one is not healthy and many marriages are not healthy. So leave other people up to their own decisions.
Everything I've ever heard sister wives say about each other - all the bonuses to the lifestyle - could apply to a biological or adopted sister, a sister-in-law, a best friend, or a close neighbor who becomes your best friend without having sex with the same man. This leaves me always wondering why it's so important for women to share a man? The only thing I could come up with is it's a lifestyle that allows women to limit sexual contact for those to would prefer it be limited.
Nobody looks happy besides the husband.
It would be so nice to see 2 men and 1 women in these kind of relationships.
Agree!
There's a video like that on the channel.
Naseana ... that is not uncommon in Tibet in the traditional culture where the wife will be married to the brothers or at least two of the brothers .
There was one were she had like 4 boyfriends and she was pregnant. But like apparently one of the guys being abusive to the baby...but then again I got off vibes from the relationship from the beginning
that would be completely unnatural and goes against anything complimentary towards men and women. Men can provide and support multiple families, women cannot. Men can produce multiple families a year, women can only produce one. There's a reason the highest status men practiced polygyny all throughout human history and there was never such a practice the other way around. It doesn't work
Polygamy should be a state thing. I'm not personally into it, but I don't care if they happen to have more than one spouse.
marrying more than 1 person = thrown in jail lmao
A man's marriage to more than one woman causes imprisonment, while a man's marriage to a man like him does not cause imprisonment. Wonders of the West 😂😂
Amazing ❤❤❤good luck!!! Cheers 🎉
Pretty sure Colton likes Cowboys
That’s what I thought too!!!!!!!😂
@@Yeahthatshowifeel is that why he has 2 women
Yeah I could see he swings both ways
I see some comments saying the women are unhappy and are doing it for him. I don't think it is for him, it's for religion. They even admitted it's a struggle, they just put the effort to be ok with their beliefs. You can indeed tell they don't really want each other around, specially first wife.
@Jasmine Victoria Mormonism I believe
And this is another example of why you shouldn’t have multiple partners it will never work. It’s miserable & just cheating with extra steps
GOD says you become one so when you’re married to your first wife You are one and you only have one soul!!
This is why there is so many religions….. everybody didn’t like the way the Bible truly teaches so they tweak it and BAM new religion. All what the devil wants…. Shame they cant see it.
I’m an open minded person. However I really don’t see any security or harmony in these women’s demeanours. The body language is cold and they are really trying hard to show up for this video. It is what it is. Good luck !
1:41 Robot confirmed!
😂🤣
And I can't even get a text back 🤣🤷🏽♂️
Polygamy prevents extramarital affairs.
😂
Then let women marry multiple men.. you must be son of a bisch
Polygamy is extramarital affairs.
It's still illegal- just not a felony unless the other partner is threatened or abused or coerced into the relationship. It's a 750 dollar fine and community service currently unless it's an abusive situation then it reverts to a felony.
Nobody is going to prosecute it, nor should they. Not the state's business.
Why are you so triggered by this ? Calm down they aren’t hurting anymore
And black people using the same bathroom as white people used to be illegal here too. The law does not equal morality! It’s none of the laws business what consenting adults do.
In your religion, not God's. PERIOD 💯
Not hating I just think poly relationships sell themselves short
damn he could have at least picked a second wife who got along with the first wife.. why would u marry someone ur first wife didnt like?!?
Bc its all about him. It sounds like the wives didnt even know each other well when the second wife was moved in which isnt how actually healthy poly-living-together relationships work. While Im not in the lifestyle myself, I've known several group dynamics that function much better than this bc everyone is valued and respected equally. A new partner should not be brought in at all if they will damage the original relationship
Lol, all new partners will cause damage.
Men may be physical, but women are emotional. A woman will only share a man if she has no self respect. Same for men.
Intresting. Where I'm sitting, one wife is already too many.🤣Relationships are not for everyone, but if that human is happy, to each their own.
TERRANCE OUT
As long as he can afford it, it's fine. It's better than secretly having affairs all over the place.
There are a lot of better things than having affairs. It's apples and oranges
One degenerate behaviour isn't better than another.
He’s got it made but honestly I don’t think the women are getting anything out of this
I’m against it because he gets two wife’s and they only get him 😔
He gets to go on ALL the dates and ALL the vacations while the women get to go on only the ones that pertain to them, like an anniversary, and stay home with all the kids the other times. Sounds like a sweet deal for him.
My dudes just beating child support…..winning
Being in a monogamous romatinc relationship is already exhausting because you always have to consider the other person and make decisions together, imagine having to do that but with 2 other people and the second person who you don’t even like or want anything to do with.
This is the ideal setup
ideal would be 7 wives, there a 7 days in a week ..hello ?
"Religious, spiritual purpose". Yeah, sure.
This is so wrong! Gods plan for marriage is one man and one woman. It gives me the creeps to watch this! It is completely unnatural!
I genuinely would like to know why a religion would require multiple wives????
It’s not “plural marriage”. It’s “plural marriage only for men”
The only way this relationship will make it all the way is either the women also having a relationship with each other or the first wife having some very specific kinks.
3 checks and help with house work lets go lol.
Its so sad these ladies dont think they are worthy of a man for themselves alone, religion is not to blame … hes selfish and shouldnt have any wife at all
may be he made her feel like she doesn't deserve 'a great man' like him alone and he deserves more like her.
Nice ,it's so lovely.
If my husband said let bring another wife in to our marriage I would be visiting my lawyer. I have 2 sisters and they were a nightmare to live with I would end up hurting someone probably my husband if we did this. I suppose on the flip side the wives have a partner to give the husband hell. But each to their own I suppose. 🤷♀️
😂😂😂 same
Super ❤
This design is a way to make life way more simple and more functional. My wife had considered letting us do this and I dated but she eventually got cold feet. We have a hard time keeping up with life as just 2 adults. Im telling you a 3 fold chord is not easily broken. I hope and pray one day my wife sees the value in that
Don’t do it. Your relationship will go south. Get hired help.
I can’t believe how many hater’s there are making comments on here, when all the same emotions they accuse this family of are also a part of a monogamous relationship. I’m monogamous and I can tell you life isn’t perfect in our relationship either. I think it would be great for my wife to have a sister (wife) to help out and build a relationship with, as well as even myself to have a relationship with. Sometimes we expect too much out of one person. Adding another to our relationship I think would be extremely challenging as well as extremely rewarding for all three individuals, but I think with a net positive experience in life as a whole.
Lol, you're actually serious.
You must be one of those people unable to pick up on cues. Those woman hate each other, and they are miserable.
I'm wondering if it won't work better if there was two guys and two girls. And then they just would swap Partners every other day or every other week😊 And not be married at all. Its way better to stay in a group than run around town sleeping with everyone❤
Or be decent guy, and do neither.
Judging from the comments, they are few and far between. I feel sorry for woman looking for husbands these days.
Lol doesn't seem like that will work out. Even on the tv show on TLC "SISTER WIVES" you can just see just how out of harmony those relationships be.
This is so unhealthy. Putting the “religious” beliefs aside. This can never work. It may be fine for the man but women are not biologically designed to share a mate. So many issues arise. And the children suffer the most.
Dude better than cheating on your wife with different girls at least this way he is committing to them both and they both look happy and that sharing mate things you said it's a temporary thing that happens at the start but goes away with time, Chill
@@UNKNOWN-ss2zl he has a big one that's why they want the bone ?
@@UNKNOWN-ss2zlyou'll need to change if you don't want to remain terminally single.
@@Madonnalitta1 ain't happening
my prayer for those who cant get 1 girlfriend, look at this man how it feels fella
if they're happy then why are people pissed? when a guy has 20 girlfriends and multiple partners only to use the person then move on its good no one bats an eye. But if someone chooses to get married like they have and give the other person their rights its a problem?
It's a power game, really evil
I watched their TV show seeking sister wives. Most Mormons don't believe in polygamy.
Awe I really like Tammy she seems so nice. I hope she gets that baby soon! Sadie is a beauty just like her mama so I’m guessing future children will be just as adorable
Dude must make good money to support 2 wives and a bunch of kids. I'm happy for them.
I feel so sorry for the kids, ONE MAN is NOT ENOUGH for all these kids and all these wives, wait until their not the only two wives and the get older and fatter, he will not be interested in an intimate relationship, because he has a NEW younger and dumber wife. Sigh, so stupid
Exactly right, we will see a update of this messed up relationship in a year or two
Jealous much. May God’s mend your broken heart 😉
you shoul not feel sorry, because he is doing best job
@@NuNu-oo7fp
Jealous of what? Some low level creatures as you? Haha
@@NuNu-oo7fpbe serious.
Who’s not convinced this guy is a cowboy? Sure he has a hat and a horse but I’m just not buying the vibe. He looks like he belongs in front of a computer. Just sayin.
More blasphemers living in sin in fake religion..
He is Stunning and BRAVE. Living His Best Life! 🙌💯
Why is this considered "extraordinary"????
Because it's illegal and immoral.
Extra ordinary means; out of the ordinary. Which it certainly is.
I wouldnt share my man. No way
I think maybe if the legal wife did not seem so hurt and miserable I'd each their own, they are consenting adults . I think if maybe the legal wife was not having fertility issues she might be happier . Right now it seems like she is watching her husband raise a family with anothet woman and she is the live in baby sitter that he screws when the "other" wifey isn't in the mood
If it wasn’t for the cult beliefs that dictate these peoples lives, this man would have trouble finding ONE women who wanted him.
I don’t understand why people are attacking them so much .. when it’s a woman with multiple partners I don’t see this much backlash and when the wife tells the husband that she is bi sexual and wants a female partner that doesn’t get as much backlash either
You realise this is how it literally was for most of humanity for the lack of wealth and resources.
It’s not the preferred lifestyle of the vast majority of people including myself as a married women but all im saying if both of them are consenting and are ok with it then i see the backlash being a double standard and is truly shaming these women for doing whatever they want to do which shouldn’t never be the case for any woman
It's their/his wrapping it in religion that many find annoying, I think. That's your clue that the women don't really have a say in it.
@@Yooperskepticz well it is true .. all abrahamic religions have sects that believe in polygamy and none of them see it as a two way street where the female has multiple partners because of the identity of the father or whatever. And the women were were saying (our religion) too they do have a say in it , they belong to this faith.. they are both adults who live in America (not an oppressive country) so they could walk out if they chose
it’s their choice and assuming they don’t have a say in it is border line misogynistic imo like “oh these poor women can’t possibly chose this faith for them selves because I don’t think they should so they must be forced into it even then though they’re saying they consent I’m still going to not believe it”
Let them have whatever faith they choose and live however they want as long as they have free will to leave anytime then no one should attack them or shame them for how they chose to live and their religion should be respected agree with it or not as all religions should be ..
Yes, you do see the same backlash the other way.
Imagine ‘not tonight I got a headache’ ok, time to switch up!
the husband is really selfish.
What website do they use to find the girls?
I don’t agree with having multiple partners based on religion but if they’re happy (which his real wife doesn’t look) then good for them...
polygamy is better
@@rahman-zu1gv01
Yes works well for women to have two husbands. Every muslim lady must marry two men to break your shitty law
No one is happy in this kind of abomination.
Would love to see one woman with multiple husbands
Yes! Thank you!
For that u have to find a weak man, a very very weak man 🥴🤣
man and women are not equal. your idea is stupid idea
Is it really a choice when they believe they HAVE to do this otherwise they won't get to the Celestial Kingdom.
I keep wanting to ask them to blink twice if they needed rescuing.
“My religion” is the basis for all kinds of crap. Plus, I’m sure Colton wouldn’t approve if the kids had “two mamas” as part of a lesbian couple.
No, homosexuality is evil. Polygamy is fine.
God bless your sweet family.
How can you deal with 2?
Even only with one is so difficult & so demanding.
I don't get it 🤨
look at arab and africa. learn from them about polygamy
@@rahman-zu1gv01
They are enslaving women .. locking up. Worst hell on earth are those places
they don't even seem to like each other as friends
I just knew it was Utah