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  • Опубликовано: 23 апр 2022
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    Colton Winder lives in Utah with his two wives, Tami and Sophie, and their three children. The family believes in plural marriage but it took some time for Sophie and Tami to adjust to life as sisterwives. Sophie told Truly: “The hardest part was realising that Tami and I didn’t know each other very well. We didn’t understand each other's personalities”. Initially this created some tension within the family. Colton said: “There were misunderstandings…sometimes it kind of felt like I was standing in the middle of a tornado”. Communication has been key to the success of this plural marriage, with Colton making time each month to go on dates with both his wives. The family also prioritises spending time with their kids by going to the local farm. Tami told Truly: “Our kids have brought us together, they make us feel like a proper plural family”.
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Комментарии • 852

  • @thekeeper8
    @thekeeper8 2 года назад +106

    I don't like how she asked about why she doesn't have more kids. 😒

  • @sarahwilson8115
    @sarahwilson8115 2 года назад +220

    The mother in law was so foul to point out the other woman's struggle to conceive... while pointing out her daughter does EASILY!!! F UP 4ANY WOMAN TO DO THAT TO ANOTHER!!!

    • @Fr0galicious
      @Fr0galicious 2 года назад +36

      I thought that was messed up too!

    • @---CASEY--K---
      @---CASEY--K--- 2 года назад +32

      What an awful woman, I'd be in tears

    • @shrektoo8030
      @shrektoo8030 2 года назад +2

      Actually her daughter had issues to start with and had difficulty conceiving. Making assumptions without knowing the story doesn't serve anyone. In addition, this is video which is clearly edited as are all videos. You have no clue what it might have said if it hadn't been edited. Sophie had issues conceiving in the beginning so it's the opposite of what you all are assuming.

    • @bigmikeobama5314
      @bigmikeobama5314 2 месяца назад

      all evil that flows into this world flows through women. the adam and eve story exists and is the first story in the bible for a reason. this is why women are supposed to submit to their men, and why that kind of a relationship is the only one that works, one where the wife obeys her husband. God knows how he made women.

  • @Marie-Snow
    @Marie-Snow 2 года назад +67

    I low key feel like they tried to shade the girl who is trying to get pregnant…not cool that’s something they shouldn’t have really even asked was

  • @sjrpfr
    @sjrpfr 2 года назад +314

    It's a sweet deal for him. I'm not quite sure why the women think this is a good idea for them.

    • @bannedmann4469
      @bannedmann4469 2 года назад

      Low self esteem, and wanting their bills paid. Women's standards are so high now a days, they mathematically have to share.

    • @jeremiahokoh420
      @jeremiahokoh420 2 года назад

      Because they dont want to work. Lazy women who cant be dependent

    • @hogwartz6360
      @hogwartz6360 2 года назад +23

      Idk, they guy has to support 2 women and deal with two separate mindsets and emotions. It takes a lot of effort to support a family like that. Good luck to them all.

    • @sjrpfr
      @sjrpfr 2 года назад +2

      @@hogwartz6360 It only becomes a problem for him when sex ceases to be the driving force. When he gets older and his priorities change, then it becomes a problem.

    • @hogwartz6360
      @hogwartz6360 2 года назад +9

      @@sjrpfr He could have just cheated on his wife and slept with multiple woman. Instead he communicated with her. I think that's the best approach when you want more in a relationship. However, he do get another woman pregnant so that's a thing.

  • @binkysphinx
    @binkysphinx 2 года назад +280

    Listen to them, they are describing their difficulties primarily revolving around each woman having to deal with the emotional aspect of having to share one man. It’s rather obvious to me that each woman would prefer to be his only partner. Who has a stronger grip on these women? The man or their cult?

    • @---CASEY--K---
      @---CASEY--K--- 2 года назад +15

      Yeah they definitely didn't sell the lifestyle! It would suck

    • @amerahussein1266
      @amerahussein1266 2 года назад

      m

    • @maskedcreations7040
      @maskedcreations7040 2 года назад +9

      Yeah. It's really sickening...

    • @southerngrits
      @southerngrits 2 года назад +3

      They are a lovely family. Until you watch them a while don't judge them . Very sweet couples learning to live for the greater purpose .

    • @kimanigrey-campbell7976
      @kimanigrey-campbell7976 2 года назад +22

      @@southerngrits The greater purpose is???

  • @---CASEY--K---
    @---CASEY--K--- 2 года назад +322

    Sounds like a crappy deal for the poor woman that's struggling to conceive. Sharing your partner with someone you dislike and having to help raise their children. Definitely didn't sell the lifestyle to me!

    • @sabrinar9101
      @sabrinar9101 2 года назад +13

      Why do you think they dislike each other ? If you do not agree with their marriage or lifestyle, why watch ? They are actually a really amazing family.

    • @snoopysrc
      @snoopysrc 2 года назад +4

      Casey I agree with you

    • @---CASEY--K---
      @---CASEY--K--- 2 года назад +8

      Never said I didn't agree with their lifestyle.. its their choice. I watched because I find it interesting. They didn't seem to like each other from what I watched, the talk about the different personalities ect..

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 2 года назад +5

      @@---CASEY--K--- I agree. I can see it in Tami's face. Just look at her eyes. They say it all. It's almost as if she HAS to tolerate it.

    • @snoopysrc
      @snoopysrc 2 года назад

      @@---CASEY--K--- yup your gorgeous

  • @shay-rae138
    @shay-rae138 2 года назад +127

    Her mom is so rude honestly throwing infertility in the REAL WIFE’S face 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @rory7676
      @rory7676 Год назад +11

      She is happy her daughter is the wife that pops out babies, even though she is the second wife

  • @hayleymariemills
    @hayleymariemills 2 года назад +228

    They were on a season of sister wives & I felt so awful for the first wife. She was trying to have another baby & struggling (miscarriages & just not getting pregnant) & at the EXACT same time is when he convinced her to let him have a 2nd wife. And this second wife became pregnant immediately WHILE the first was struggling.
    Edit: after watching this, I see she had ANOTHER baby right after while the 1st wife is still trying.

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 2 года назад +16

      Damn. So basically it was his idea? I would have left him immediately. That's awful.

    • @liv2lrn2luvu18
      @liv2lrn2luvu18 2 года назад +13

      Yes, I remember them on Sister wives as well. I believe a new season will be airing soon but this family is no longer on the show. The second wife's mom was very rude. It's obvious the first wife has fertility issues, why rub it in her face like that?

    • @hayleymariemills
      @hayleymariemills 2 года назад +7

      @@liv2lrn2luvu18 yeah. The 1st wife's mom was Polygymous so she grew up around it. But while watching, you could see she was uncomfortable& didn't want it. She's in one of those religions where the wife obeys the husband. It was so sad when the 2nd was pregnant instantly & you could see the pain in her eyes. According to this video, she still hasn't got pregnant& the 2nd has already had another baby.

    • @imanrusmana8114
      @imanrusmana8114 2 года назад +3

      O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female.
      The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it.
      Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.

    • @NuNu-oo7fp
      @NuNu-oo7fp 2 года назад

      I heard the wide banged the friend and one of the kids isn’t her husbands 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows 😂

  • @Celticgamer89
    @Celticgamer89 2 года назад +35

    They really look uncomfortable

  • @educator8236
    @educator8236 2 года назад +62

    Unfortunately this is so similar to what Meri Brown went through. She struggled to get pregnant after her first baby and that guilt led her to a path of plural marriage which ended in diaster for her. This was very sad to watch.

    • @rohitpandey7866
      @rohitpandey7866 Год назад +2

      Who's Meri brown?

    • @Mxnjxn
      @Mxnjxn 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@rohitpandey7866the first wife from the TV show Sister Wives

    • @lunchyreynolds
      @lunchyreynolds 13 дней назад

      That’s not how it happened with Meri. They were married to Janelle before children were conceived, and Janelle had the first with Leon being born shortly thereafter.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +156

    They don’t seem happy 😕 if feels like the women are doing it for him and would rather have a monogamous relationship

    • @tipsytopsy7534
      @tipsytopsy7534 2 года назад

      Time to laugh ruclips.net/channel/UCO3l1CT5XAOEJkS3mgr8GJQ

    • @austinbenson15
      @austinbenson15 2 года назад +4

      all 3

    • @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA
      @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA 2 года назад +1

      Agreed -JACK

    • @stopworrying8850
      @stopworrying8850 2 года назад

      Ja only you are happy. Almost all women are unhappy even with one man.

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад +1

      Do you think so ? what gave it away all the stress in the house or the sadness

  • @terynb4407
    @terynb4407 2 года назад +56

    I got the vibe that it's not that they don't like each other but they aren't the closest and if it wasn't for their husband they probably would've never became friends

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад +3

      If it wasn’t for the husband wanting a harem they wouldn’t need to know each other he’s a bigamist . And I bet you in a year or two when these two women get older he’ll look for a third wife that’s younger.

  • @cherylcarampot3268
    @cherylcarampot3268 2 года назад +45

    Polygamy is so sickening.

    • @dekev7503
      @dekev7503 2 года назад +8

      Keep this same energy for when the woman has multiple men

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 2 года назад +2

      I know.. it's so gross.

    • @jobangharekhan2601
      @jobangharekhan2601 6 месяцев назад

      True

    • @alandonsaji6673
      @alandonsaji6673 2 месяца назад

      How many wives did krishna had..?​@@jobangharekhan2601

  • @AlllegroPresto
    @AlllegroPresto 2 года назад +103

    Saw these guys on Seeking Sister Wives, definitely the most level headed ones of the bunch!!

    • @goffmichael1380
      @goffmichael1380 2 года назад

      Hello Juliana

    • @solaris5922
      @solaris5922 2 года назад +20

      Nothing about this is level headed

    • @slippysnek9507
      @slippysnek9507 2 года назад +2

      @@solaris5922 fr

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад

      @@solaris5922 right...that's why polygyny was the bedrock of civilization since the dawn of time. You modern day females have become brainwashed into thinking monogamy is the only way to live. Here's a fun fact for you that'll hopefully open your eyes. Throughout the ENTIRETY OF HUMAN HISTORY, 95+% of women have procreated. You want to know what the % of men that have procreated is...? IT'S 40! 40% of men have procreated since the dawn of our ancestry. Do you know what that means? Allow me to explain it to you since logic isn't your strong suit. It means MEN SHARED MULTIPLE WOMEN. It means only the best men were allowed to procreate while nearly all the females were procreating. Women flock to the strongest, most well equipped man for survival. This is their basic natural instinct. This is how our species survived. If humans were monogamous since the beggining of time, we would literally have died out. Women naturally want to get with the best male they can, and men naturally want to get with as many women as they can as to spread their seed and lineage. Men and women have different mating objectives and strategies, and our history proves that. Hopefully you learned something from this basic history lesson.

    • @HorrorHousewife
      @HorrorHousewife 2 года назад +3

      @@solaris5922 Well, I can't speak for the person who left the comment, but she never said the whole situation was level-headed; they were just the MOST level-headed of the bunch. Lol
      Which would be saying a lot about the groups of people on the show they were on.

  • @Xyx586
    @Xyx586 2 года назад +36

    3:09 „… when colton goes on a date with satan- sophie“ 👀

    • @ThrivingReality
      @ThrivingReality 2 года назад +8

      lmao nice catch

    • @sweetpea1322
      @sweetpea1322 2 года назад +13

      Nice catch! I rewatched it a few times and she does say "Satan" before she corrects herself n says Sophie🤣

    • @jessicacooper2993
      @jessicacooper2993 2 года назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @julesherez
    @julesherez 2 года назад +31

    The wives don’t seem too happy 🙃

  • @iwtfdsb
    @iwtfdsb 2 года назад +170

    This could neverrrrr be me. You have to have low self esteem to share a man with other woman! 🤮 No man is worth it..!

    • @sabrinar9101
      @sabrinar9101 2 года назад +16

      Wow! Why get on here and talk bad about people you do not even know!?! They are actually a very wonderful family

    • @iwtfdsb
      @iwtfdsb 2 года назад +1

      @@sabrinar9101 Shut up girl. I can comment whatever I like

    • @heyshawty6946
      @heyshawty6946 2 года назад +12

      @@sabrinar9101 ew hell no

    • @chacho5097
      @chacho5097 2 года назад +8

      @@sabrinar9101 weirdo

    • @nadine4478
      @nadine4478 2 года назад +1

      @@sabrinar9101 you probably have low self esteem issues like these women.😂

  • @micalah8282
    @micalah8282 2 года назад +26

    Listening to them try to convince themselves out loud that this is working for them, is uncomfortable.

  • @PrettyUnique90
    @PrettyUnique90 2 года назад +78

    Forget that I would NEVER share my man with no one 👏

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад +7

      you've already shared him with plenty women, relax

    • @PrettyUnique90
      @PrettyUnique90 2 года назад +5

      @@anklebreaka03 think u misread the comment. Read it again. Relax!!!

    • @kyliCatherine1
      @kyliCatherine1 2 года назад +6

      @@PrettyUnique90 Ignore him. Based on his other comments, he is clearly a misogynistic hypocrite.

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад +7

      @@kyliCatherine1 excuse me? explain yourself and your false accusations. Am I misogynistic or realistic? open your eyes and open your mind lady

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад +9

      @@PrettyUnique90 You said you would never share your man. all I said was you've already shared him with many other women, unless you met him when he was a virgin. The same is also true for yourself, unless you met him when you were a virgin. You've both shared each other with others

  • @rawuelanaji6835
    @rawuelanaji6835 2 года назад +36

    when he said sophie is a spiritual marriage LOL

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 2 года назад +8

      rawuel... she could be setting herself up for a lot of pain and suffering later if he dies ... I think even if he had a will set up she might not have a legal claim to anything because of the state laws .
      ... and that would mean if the first wife wants she could kick the second wife and her children out , probably if she wanted to be unkind .
      I don't think the second wife has any legal protection whatsoever and if he has health insurance she wouldn't qualify chances are as the spouse .
      If he ended up in the hospital half dead or dying she would not have a legal right to speak up for him according to the state laws ... so being the second wife she has put herself in a powerless position ... and that's not fair to her children either .

    • @kimanigrey-campbell7976
      @kimanigrey-campbell7976 2 года назад +2

      @@gardensofthegods That is such an interesting thought because I didn't even think of the fact she has no standing in the eyes of law. Home girl would have to start supporting herself without help.

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад +2

      Spiritual marriage is another term for side project, when my first wife doesn’t do it for me.

    • @merylbonderow5993
      @merylbonderow5993 2 года назад

      I nearly laughed until I cried.

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 2 года назад

      Yep and when she is on her arse and kicked out i wonder if that spirit will be paying her back what she put in. This set up seems real suspect

  • @rawuelanaji6835
    @rawuelanaji6835 2 года назад +66

    omg when sophie said with one wife that’s highly emotional, then he said and one that’s not. that sent me

    • @smashino
      @smashino 2 года назад +1

      What did they mean by that? Who is the emotional one?

    • @rawuelanaji6835
      @rawuelanaji6835 2 года назад

      @@smashino 7:30

    • @smashino
      @smashino 2 года назад

      @@rawuelanaji6835 I still don't know who the emotional one is.

    • @rawuelanaji6835
      @rawuelanaji6835 2 года назад

      @@smashino Tami

  • @Booolove
    @Booolove 2 года назад +29

    I strongly dislike the mom for bringing up her baby situation. This whole scenario is ugly.

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn 2 года назад +5

      Yah, that woman was pure evil, what a nasty witch

    • @arielxmoore
      @arielxmoore 2 года назад +3

      Lol yeaaaa... That seemed so low to do that. Smh

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад +3

      The first wife should’ve never agreed for this . if she seen signs that he wanted another wife leave the a** hole get a divorce and MoveOn.

  • @KittySkeed
    @KittySkeed 2 года назад +53

    I can tell those women despise one another. Sad they are forcing themselves to bow down to this cult

    • @emir5009
      @emir5009 2 года назад +1

      Yep that's why I left that cult lol

  • @tschandraheinze1680
    @tschandraheinze1680 2 года назад +66

    I would never deal with multiple partners I'd lose my sanity 🙃 each to their own business. Judgment is just a negative outlook on others for what? Surround yourself with happiness love and joy leave the rest in the dust.

  • @Grace-kk9ob
    @Grace-kk9ob 2 года назад +8

    The awkward pause after being asked if they would want their kids to live this lifestyle..

  • @jaydeecee1643
    @jaydeecee1643 2 года назад +62

    Intimacy is very intense emotionally....how is it fair that the wives have to tolerate knowing their husband is with another wife? How would HE like it? There is a reason why there isn't one wife with multiple husband's in their "faith" ...the women are being played

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 2 года назад +10

      Most of these Religions do not have any respect or rights in place for the very people that give life and do a chunk of the supporting that new life. Just vessels

    • @AmyLeeAngelLove
      @AmyLeeAngelLove 2 года назад +10

      @@Areyousayingidontknowmyname Yup.. you are right. They are just used for breeding, cooking, and cleaning. Nothing more. F that.

    • @joshbraaksma7455
      @joshbraaksma7455 Год назад +5

      Monogamy for women... Multiple wives for the man. This is NATURE'S WAY. take it up with GOD

    • @rahman-zu1gv01
      @rahman-zu1gv01 Год назад +3

      man is polygamous by nature

    • @EagleZtoTheGrave
      @EagleZtoTheGrave Год назад +1

      ​@@AmyLeeAngelLove Bills paid, full tummy, kids happy, split intimacy responsibility... Seems like a sweet deal, whats the problem?

  • @tampamari030975
    @tampamari030975 2 года назад +122

    People will do all kinds of awful things and say it is for their religion. This is just one more example. Sad!

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад

      What's sad is how dumb our society has become where opinions like yours get upvoted. Humanity would literally not exist in the way it does today without the practice of polygyny. It's extremely normal and natural for men to have multiple partners/wives, you will find this in literally almost any mammalian species on earth. The alpha male mates with all the women. The strongest genes get passed on. It's quite simple. Men can produce many families at once whereas females can only produce one family at a time. Females pick the best partner they can and mate with them, males mate with as many females as possible. We have different mating strategies. This is all from an evolutionary, naturalistic perspective. This has nothing to do with religion. Open your eyes lady. Read a book. Watch a nature documentary. Don't let liberal Western society brainwash you into thinking humans are exclusively meant for monogamy. Also, how shameful of you to judge others. Who are you to say this is an awful thing when it has been practised since the dawn of time by not only humans but quite literally the entire animal kingdom. How ignorant of you. Have some respect.

    • @imanrusmana8114
      @imanrusmana8114 2 года назад

      O kingdom of God God. You are an angel with beautiful eyes sanctified by God. God created humans, male and female.
      The Lord blessed them, and the Lord said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and conquer it.
      Dominate over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over all the beasts that creep on the earth.” God said, I will give you every plant that has seed in all the earth and every tree that bears seed. This will be your food.

    • @tampamari030975
      @tampamari030975 2 года назад +1

      @@imanrusmana8114 you're quoting a book written by a man 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @gaill7908
    @gaill7908 2 года назад +259

    One day I hope these women will realize they deserve more than half a man…. That mom was so rude! Telling the other girl that she’s the problem about not having more kids.

    • @sabrinar9101
      @sabrinar9101 2 года назад +24

      If you do not agree with their lifestyle, why watch ? They are a very loving family.

    • @thryssinstitches9655
      @thryssinstitches9655 2 года назад +26

      @@sabrinar9101 same can be said for if you don't like someone's opinion don't respond. This was put out for public consumption. Everyone has a view on it. Maybe this is their first time seeing plural relationships so they didn't know going into it whether they liked it or not. Doesn't matter either way. There's no need to be rude to someone for having a different opinion then your own. This toxicity is what is wrong with social media. You don't have to be a part of that. You can respect someone else's right to think independently just like you're doing. Be blessed

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 2 года назад +5

      @@thryssinstitches9655 exactly!! 👏👏👏🤣

    • @julissavierra6973
      @julissavierra6973 2 года назад +4

      @@thryssinstitches9655I definitely agree with you 💯

    • @gaill7908
      @gaill7908 2 года назад +2

      @@thryssinstitches9655 I said that they deserve more than they are getting…what is so wrong about that….

  • @Fr0galicious
    @Fr0galicious 2 года назад +563

    I don’t care what other people do but this family does not look comfortable at all. The wives seem like they are forcing themselves to be happy.

    • @---CASEY--K---
      @---CASEY--K--- 2 года назад +41

      Forcing themselves to pretend to be happy for sure

    • @arielxmoore
      @arielxmoore 2 года назад +48

      Just seems so out of balance. You can tell the brown haired one is very jealous of the red head one but is very good at hiding it...(u can still see it tho)

    • @taminakhan4690
      @taminakhan4690 2 года назад +12

      @@arielxmoore he must have a favourite out of the 2 🤔

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад +37

      I sense a lot of sadness in that house. It’s not a great situation at all in fact it’s very toxic. Why the first wife agreed to that blows my mind To begin with. And if the second wife knew he was married already why would she agree with it it’s messed up in many different ways. What makes anyone think that he won’t do this again “hey wives I found a third partner” my harem is growing . He is a complete and utter D-Bag !

    • @ljjavier3605
      @ljjavier3605 2 года назад +6

      I agree with you

  • @Ana-ij2ob
    @Ana-ij2ob 10 месяцев назад +8

    I just know that if something were to happen to colton tammy would immediately kick sophie out (since she's the legal wife).😂

  • @DunDunDun45
    @DunDunDun45 2 года назад +12

    5:43 that is some stare she’s got there-

  • @Desolateyears
    @Desolateyears 2 года назад +7

    Omfg you can SMELL the tension ://///

  • @binkysphinx
    @binkysphinx 2 года назад +83

    Cool… Now do a feel good story about a woman who timeshares 7 different "husbands”.

    • @eb1634
      @eb1634 2 года назад +12

      Polygamy is awful.

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад +5

      It doesn't work the other way around. Try to think logically about why that is the case. I mean you can try it but it is completely unnatural and ineffective.

    • @eb1634
      @eb1634 2 года назад +21

      @@anklebreaka03 Both are unnatural.

    • @ivyrivera8081
      @ivyrivera8081 2 года назад +2

      Yesssss

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 2 года назад +4

      @@anklebreaka03 cringe

  • @naseanamoodie384
    @naseanamoodie384 2 года назад +250

    It would be so nice to see 2 men and 1 women in these kind of relationships.

    • @Lizablue0608
      @Lizablue0608 2 года назад +9

      Agree!

    • @juanjosecorrea7897
      @juanjosecorrea7897 2 года назад +13

      There's a video like that on the channel.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 2 года назад +15

      Naseana ... that is not uncommon in Tibet in the traditional culture where the wife will be married to the brothers or at least two of the brothers .

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 года назад +23

      There was one were she had like 4 boyfriends and she was pregnant. But like apparently one of the guys being abusive to the baby...but then again I got off vibes from the relationship from the beginning

    • @anklebreaka03
      @anklebreaka03 2 года назад +15

      that would be completely unnatural and goes against anything complimentary towards men and women. Men can provide and support multiple families, women cannot. Men can produce multiple families a year, women can only produce one. There's a reason the highest status men practiced polygyny all throughout human history and there was never such a practice the other way around. It doesn't work

  • @blk5124
    @blk5124 Год назад +6

    Everything I've ever heard sister wives say about each other - all the bonuses to the lifestyle - could apply to a biological or adopted sister, a sister-in-law, a best friend, or a close neighbor who becomes your best friend without having sex with the same man. This leaves me always wondering why it's so important for women to share a man? The only thing I could come up with is it's a lifestyle that allows women to limit sexual contact for those to would prefer it be limited.

  • @everythingbeautifulalways6118
    @everythingbeautifulalways6118 2 года назад +6

    If I am in such relationship ,I would need my own home.

  • @jonathantraylor297
    @jonathantraylor297 Год назад +2

    He is Stunning and BRAVE. Living His Best Life! 🙌💯

  • @t-virusterrance4734
    @t-virusterrance4734 2 года назад +16

    Intresting. Where I'm sitting, one wife is already too many.🤣Relationships are not for everyone, but if that human is happy, to each their own.
    TERRANCE OUT

  • @ChaimEren
    @ChaimEren 5 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing ❤❤❤good luck!!! Cheers 🎉

  • @saa7844
    @saa7844 2 года назад +30

    Pretty sure Colton likes Cowboys

    • @Yeahthatshowifeel
      @Yeahthatshowifeel 2 года назад +2

      That’s what I thought too!!!!!!!😂

    • @dekev7503
      @dekev7503 2 года назад

      @@Yeahthatshowifeel is that why he has 2 women

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад

      Yeah I could see he swings both ways

  • @abriesteyn6055
    @abriesteyn6055 Год назад +2

    Well done guys.. I salute you...

  • @lovelyhoney3334
    @lovelyhoney3334 2 года назад +12

    Being in a monogamous romatinc relationship is already exhausting because you always have to consider the other person and make decisions together, imagine having to do that but with 2 other people and the second person who you don’t even like or want anything to do with.

  • @kimberlyr.7046
    @kimberlyr.7046 2 года назад +11

    Awe I really like Tammy she seems so nice. I hope she gets that baby soon! Sadie is a beauty just like her mama so I’m guessing future children will be just as adorable

  • @bmarti7998
    @bmarti7998 2 года назад +9

    The only way this relationship will make it all the way is either the women also having a relationship with each other or the first wife having some very specific kinks.

  • @Dadfromtexas
    @Dadfromtexas 2 года назад +11

    Nobody looks happy besides the husband.

  • @Slow_GTR
    @Slow_GTR 2 года назад +2

    And I can't even get a text back 🤣🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @JennWatson
    @JennWatson 2 года назад +18

    I’m against it because he gets two wife’s and they only get him 😔

    • @sjrpfr
      @sjrpfr 2 года назад +2

      He gets to go on ALL the dates and ALL the vacations while the women get to go on only the ones that pertain to them, like an anniversary, and stay home with all the kids the other times. Sounds like a sweet deal for him.

  • @dekev7503
    @dekev7503 2 года назад +17

    As long as he can afford it, it's fine. It's better than secretly having affairs all over the place.

    • @samanthav563
      @samanthav563 2 года назад +3

      There are a lot of better things than having affairs. It's apples and oranges

  • @puccipower
    @puccipower Год назад +5

    There is a lot of judgement on this comment section. These are adults who are making the decision to do this. They deal with more jealousy than most people but they also do have an abundance of love through their faith and extra support. I completely understand why people do this and I’m not religious at all, even slightly. Raising kids with only two parents or just one is not healthy and many marriages are not healthy. So leave other people up to their own decisions.

  • @kyartistry
    @kyartistry 2 года назад +4

    I watched them on Seeking Sister Wife! So interesting!

  • @Yabuturtle
    @Yabuturtle 8 месяцев назад +3

    Polygamy should be a state thing. I'm not personally into it, but I don't care if they happen to have more than one spouse.

  • @mohammadmahfuz9310
    @mohammadmahfuz9310 Год назад +6

    Polygamy prevents extramarital affairs.

  • @merylbonderow5993
    @merylbonderow5993 2 года назад +11

    I keep wanting to ask them to blink twice if they needed rescuing.
    “My religion” is the basis for all kinds of crap. Plus, I’m sure Colton wouldn’t approve if the kids had “two mamas” as part of a lesbian couple.

    • @hamza170G
      @hamza170G Год назад

      No, homosexuality is evil. Polygamy is fine.

  • @evalenasbabys
    @evalenasbabys 7 месяцев назад +1

    The way they talk about the relationship and the jealousy is just like sister wives on TLC and we all know how that ended….

  • @djburrondarize
    @djburrondarize 2 года назад +4

    1:41 Robot confirmed!

  • @pn7185
    @pn7185 25 дней назад +1

    It’s not “plural marriage”. It’s “plural marriage only for men”

  • @Miss_Nina.
    @Miss_Nina. 2 года назад +11

    Seems like a pretty busy life. I would NEVER agree with having a husband who has/wants to have another wife, but respect to them that they can live with the jealousy and the fact that another woman lives with them. As long as they don't force polygamy on their children, it's good. Also, they keep talking that they do it for religious purposes, anyone know what religion?

    • @jamileebellottie1048
      @jamileebellottie1048 2 года назад +4

      Not LDS or morman but they are called fundamentalists it’s a similar religion with a few differences

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 2 года назад +3

      Yes , that would be the Mormons ( Church of Latter-day Saints ) .
      I actually just saw a bit the other day inside this huge white Mormon church .

    • @jamileebellottie1048
      @jamileebellottie1048 2 года назад

      I have family in Utah lol so I know all about them

    • @jessicacooper2993
      @jessicacooper2993 2 года назад +3

      They're Mormons I think

    • @cookiegamesfamily
      @cookiegamesfamily 2 года назад +1

      They are not Mormons (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints). Back in the day, there was polygamy in the church, but they stopped that practice(I believe it was stopped about the time Utah became a state, but not for sure). Many people had disagreements about that, and a few other things (such as leadership), and branched into what is now the fundamentalist Mormons. The fundamentalists are the ones who continue the practice of polygamy and are now completely different in that regard as well as other parts of the gospel. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (a world wide Christian church), firmly states that marriage is between one man and one woman. 😊

  • @deadlynightshade9615
    @deadlynightshade9615 2 года назад +7

    damn he could have at least picked a second wife who got along with the first wife.. why would u marry someone ur first wife didnt like?!?

    • @AlleenLoveHope
      @AlleenLoveHope 2 года назад +4

      Bc its all about him. It sounds like the wives didnt even know each other well when the second wife was moved in which isnt how actually healthy poly-living-together relationships work. While Im not in the lifestyle myself, I've known several group dynamics that function much better than this bc everyone is valued and respected equally. A new partner should not be brought in at all if they will damage the original relationship

  • @aprilleerose
    @aprilleerose 2 года назад +1

    I remember these guys from that show on TLC. Can’t remember the name of it lol
    Seeking Sister Wives, that’s it

  • @ADHD101Thrive
    @ADHD101Thrive 7 дней назад

    This is the ideal setup

  • @arielxmoore
    @arielxmoore 2 года назад +4

    Lol doesn't seem like that will work out. Even on the tv show on TLC "SISTER WIVES" you can just see just how out of harmony those relationships be.

  • @doingtime20
    @doingtime20 2 года назад +3

    I see some comments saying the women are unhappy and are doing it for him. I don't think it is for him, it's for religion. They even admitted it's a struggle, they just put the effort to be ok with their beliefs. You can indeed tell they don't really want each other around, specially first wife.

    • @doingtime20
      @doingtime20 2 года назад

      @Jasmine Victoria Mormonism I believe

  • @juliejulie1545
    @juliejulie1545 2 года назад +1

    They all off their rockers.

  • @River10000
    @River10000 19 часов назад

    Their poor families. The dude’s family should be embarrassed.

  • @becca8661
    @becca8661 2 года назад +1

    I would be too jealous to be in plural marriage, but I have nothing against it

  • @oranjmusemeyer968
    @oranjmusemeyer968 2 года назад +23

    It's still illegal- just not a felony unless the other partner is threatened or abused or coerced into the relationship. It's a 750 dollar fine and community service currently unless it's an abusive situation then it reverts to a felony.

    • @kenofken9458
      @kenofken9458 2 года назад +3

      Nobody is going to prosecute it, nor should they. Not the state's business.

    • @sabrinar9101
      @sabrinar9101 2 года назад +2

      Why are you so triggered by this ? Calm down they aren’t hurting anymore

    • @ej9618
      @ej9618 Год назад

      And black people using the same bathroom as white people used to be illegal here too. The law does not equal morality! It’s none of the laws business what consenting adults do.

  • @CD-cy9mg
    @CD-cy9mg 2 года назад +11

    I just knew it was Utah

  • @farhancurrentaffairs1298
    @farhancurrentaffairs1298 2 года назад +2

    I don't even have one and he has two...Pain!

  • @theresaquidi
    @theresaquidi 2 года назад +2

    I like the idea a plural husbands 😁

  • @Vaternal
    @Vaternal 10 месяцев назад +2

    And this is another example of why you shouldn’t have multiple partners it will never work. It’s miserable & just cheating with extra steps

  • @bbt4461
    @bbt4461 2 года назад +4

    I’m an open minded person. However I really don’t see any security or harmony in these women’s demeanours. The body language is cold and they are really trying hard to show up for this video. It is what it is. Good luck !

  • @kitkat031
    @kitkat031 2 года назад +5

    Why is this considered "extraordinary"????

  • @misspiggy903
    @misspiggy903 2 года назад +1

    they don't even seem to like each other as friends

  • @waterfull2907
    @waterfull2907 2 года назад +5

    How can you deal with 2?
    Even only with one is so difficult & so demanding.
    I don't get it 🤨

    • @rahman-zu1gv01
      @rahman-zu1gv01 Год назад

      look at arab and africa. learn from them about polygamy

  • @file115
    @file115 7 месяцев назад

    He is TOP G in himself 😂

  • @DeeDee-lx1ef
    @DeeDee-lx1ef 2 года назад +11

    I don’t agree with having multiple partners based on religion but if they’re happy (which his real wife doesn’t look) then good for them...

  • @rhentertainment3941
    @rhentertainment3941 2 года назад +10

    I feel so sorry for the kids, ONE MAN is NOT ENOUGH for all these kids and all these wives, wait until their not the only two wives and the get older and fatter, he will not be interested in an intimate relationship, because he has a NEW younger and dumber wife. Sigh, so stupid

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 2 года назад

      Exactly right, we will see a update of this messed up relationship in a year or two

    • @NuNu-oo7fp
      @NuNu-oo7fp 2 года назад

      Jealous much. May God’s mend your broken heart 😉

    • @rahman-zu1gv01
      @rahman-zu1gv01 Год назад

      you shoul not feel sorry, because he is doing best job

  • @the_man_behind_the_mask116
    @the_man_behind_the_mask116 2 года назад

    Tengen uzui: i raised that boy

  • @helpmireach66subwith0video9
    @helpmireach66subwith0video9 2 года назад +1

    Some have 2/3 wives meanwhile some barely even find 1🤣

  • @louisemerriman1079
    @louisemerriman1079 9 месяцев назад +1

    I wouldnt share my man. No way

  • @yamashokran3859
    @yamashokran3859 3 месяца назад

    Its a really nice and Happy life have these kind if good wives which are understand the reall life❤

  • @vapingamer2723
    @vapingamer2723 2 года назад +9

    my prayer for those who cant get 1 girlfriend, look at this man how it feels fella

  • @nieldcreek2098
    @nieldcreek2098 Год назад +6

    I can’t believe how many hater’s there are making comments on here, when all the same emotions they accuse this family of are also a part of a monogamous relationship. I’m monogamous and I can tell you life isn’t perfect in our relationship either. I think it would be great for my wife to have a sister (wife) to help out and build a relationship with, as well as even myself to have a relationship with. Sometimes we expect too much out of one person. Adding another to our relationship I think would be extremely challenging as well as extremely rewarding for all three individuals, but I think with a net positive experience in life as a whole.

  • @Tobi_Koby
    @Tobi_Koby 2 дня назад

    i cant even get a goddam girlfriend, but this guy got 2 wives

  • @SpicyMartina
    @SpicyMartina Год назад +5

    If my husband said let bring another wife in to our marriage I would be visiting my lawyer. I have 2 sisters and they were a nightmare to live with I would end up hurting someone probably my husband if we did this. I suppose on the flip side the wives have a partner to give the husband hell. But each to their own I suppose. 🤷‍♀️

  • @NuNu-oo7fp
    @NuNu-oo7fp 2 года назад

    Yeah. There is only one Queen in my castle 🏰 😂

  • @deemetrio7247
    @deemetrio7247 Год назад +2

    It is a real tragedy covered up in the most freaky sitcom imaginable

  • @vaibhavkumar1356
    @vaibhavkumar1356 9 месяцев назад +1

    GOD BLESS THEM!! they are already blessed though😂.

  • @ttamay.5443
    @ttamay.5443 2 года назад +4

    GOD says you become one so when you’re married to your first wife You are one and you only have one soul!!

    • @shell7142
      @shell7142 2 года назад

      This is why there is so many religions….. everybody didn’t like the way the Bible truly teaches so they tweak it and BAM new religion. All what the devil wants…. Shame they cant see it.

  • @zeeshanshaikh6805
    @zeeshanshaikh6805 Год назад +1

    This makes me re-think my decision of having multiple wives 🙄😅

  • @christophermartin972
    @christophermartin972 2 года назад +29

    Colty was like “couldn’t get me a 10, so I got me 2 fives!”

    • @fraggelrock9974
      @fraggelrock9974 2 года назад +10

      His first wife is pretty cute

    • @Miss_Nina.
      @Miss_Nina. 2 года назад +33

      Coming from a straight female, I think both women look way better than him

    • @austinbenson15
      @austinbenson15 2 года назад +4

      @@Miss_Nina. ikr

    • @austinbenson15
      @austinbenson15 2 года назад

      @@Miss_Nina. a date well ur a lebesian then

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 года назад +6

      Trust he married up

  • @maddiep1799
    @maddiep1799 3 месяца назад

    What website do they use to find the girls?

  • @samanthav563
    @samanthav563 2 года назад +4

    Not hating I just think poly relationships sell themselves short

  • @saam4312
    @saam4312 Месяц назад

    Bro, they even titled the video EXTRAORDINARY 😂😂

  • @TheMoni700
    @TheMoni700 Год назад

    I can see jealousy being a problem

  • @893097011
    @893097011 2 года назад +1

    if they're happy then why are people pissed? when a guy has 20 girlfriends and multiple partners only to use the person then move on its good no one bats an eye. But if someone chooses to get married like they have and give the other person their rights its a problem?

  • @kaylaball6482
    @kaylaball6482 2 года назад +4

    They were on tlc! Loved this couple!

  • @iamok5417
    @iamok5417 3 месяца назад

    Awesome ❤. They seem peaceful and working out nicely.

  • @PranavSettaluri
    @PranavSettaluri 2 года назад +1

    That's just another Tuesday in the middle east lol.

  • @leonardoparis9975
    @leonardoparis9975 Год назад +1

    Lucky. Even luckier if you guys keep it going.