He does not love her. He loves what he wants her to be. The woman he loves simply does not exist. He loves this image that she first portrayed. Nothing more. Once he accepts this it will be easier to get over it.
200k baht they are lucky if they get a ladies drink from me, its cheaper to pay them and then send them on their way she isnt yours it is just your turn
Falling for a Thai girls charms is one thing (massage, boom boom, lively personality etc etc) but to part with 1 Million Baht is inexcusable. What was you thinking Steve? As for the comment "you was happy to give them a decent home to live in and every human deserves a decent standard of accommodation", I hate to break it to you mate but although Thais dream of that lovely house, Thai's can live quite comfortably in those "shacks". They drink, party, relax, socialise with their friends. They are very comfortable and just out of curiosity, did you observe how many of those shacks have pick ups, 3 bikes, a satellite dish?
Dan, you are an accomplished storyteller. Steve, I just want to say thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it will help a few guys to make better relationship decisions in Thailand.
Good Heavens! How this bullshit idea called romantic love is destroying us!! ...only over the past decade, now 44, am I understanding that it is infatuation that we are experiencing with these good looking women; it is not Love. I want to believe that a couple wants the best for the other one more than for themselves or at least equality.
Zebra and lioness it's a great analogy. But Steve, zebras run away, don't go to the lioness den. Also, 1 million Bath, must have been a hell of a nooky
While loss of money sucks, things get a whole different meaning when there's emotions and heartache. The emotional part must be devastating for these men. Even good honest Thai women would warn farangs against these kinds of arrangements. The only thing we can do is to warn people, and if they want to toss this advice into the toilet and cry later it's up to themselves. Knowing when to call it a day before getting into trouble is essential .
Nah I have a few friends like this. It’s just a bunch of lonely dudes who crave female attention and validation. You think Thai bar girls are bad? My brother in Christ allow me to introduce you to onlyfans and Ai girlfriends. An ai girlfriend will fleece a man bankrupt before a bar girl can ask the mama-san for permission to leave the bar
We sometimes think that the more we give, the more we are entitled (to receive something in return). Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way; in bargirl’s reality, the more you give, the more you are expected to add on - it is an open-ended one-way exponential function. Better say no rather than trying to please.
it hurts hearing the lingering self-doubt men are having over their women. getting in too deep makes the pain even worse. i recall tv celebrity chef anthony bourdain, with his share of personal history baggage, ended his own life over what appears to have been a troubled relationship with a woman. i'm still sad about AB's end.
Flew to BKK and bus to Pattaya. Got a 500B room, close to walking street. Met a girl and moved in day after, in her room. Good time, 1 month. Had to use return ticket and go sell everything. Bought new 1 way ticket 2 months after, 35 years ago. Still here same girl....
You are on point sir about Farang baggage from home. Nothing more said. Peace to you and your son. Looking forward to many more stories in the new year.
I know how this guy can fall into this emotional trap after a long-term relationship failure. Hope he reads this, mate !: those feelings you have are made by you, she gave you nothing, you are generating all those positive interpretations of what happened. You need to reset your emotional state by going out and getting with other women, once you have more experience you will finally realise that its you who is creating all this positive and negative feelings. Once you understand that, you can begin to manage it so it doesn't affect you badly. A good resource is 'How to be a 3 percent Man' by Corey wayne - staying emotionally centered is your primary purpose in life. Women only challenge that state, bad narcissistic women especially. Thai women are high in narcissism so not a good type to get experience with, (will largely be negative) . Try other cultures if you have access to. Wish you a fast learning curve.
Better to write the money off as a charitable donation made directly to a single underprivileged family rather than to an NGO organisation whose staff tool around in huge brand new SUVs.
Guys is business deal. We pay we make the rules we make the culture. We are kings. The are the object to serve us. Never buy anything. Give them little money. If you not happy. Is next girl. Or. The will eat you alive.
Yes Ko Samui ladies can be very persuasive. I stayed there in 05 for about 5 months. Had been there before hand a couple of times years before, i learnt probably the 2nd time there, about the Samui bar lady. They are renowned for telling you they need to do something through the day, and meet you later in the evenings. I stayed with 1 lady in the middle to late nineties, after the first few nights i,d worked out she must be hooking up in the day with another bloke. Because she always be invisible for about 6 to 8 hours. Funny third day i was coming back from the waterfalls about 4 pm in Lamai, and she went passed on the back of another man's bike. She try to make some excuse up he was just a friend. I said stick with your friend she wasn't impressed later at the bar, i just took her friend home that is Thailand, just go with the flow. Ko Samui legendary for gorgeous ladies especially from Isaan and especially from around Surin and Si Seket. Complete Angels with Devil thoughts. Cheers enjoy. Just don,t offload to much on 1 lady. I,ve seen more then a couple of blokes do money over ladies in Thailand and especially in Samui. 2 quick stories 1 bloke i met done 26,000 Australian in 6 weeks partying in 05, and probably about 15 to 18 of that on 1 lady. And it got worse he then apparently went home sold 1 of he,s houses in Australia and come back and married her. Well you know where he ended up after six months later at laest 100,000 grand on a petrol station in her home town and a new 4 wheel drive for his brother in law. And a year or so later it was over, partly because he coud,nt keep his old fella wondering. What a laugh. That's why i,m always cautious when dealing with beautiful ladies. And tje other bloke i met was an Englishmen who jist jad to much money for he,s own good. He brought a lady a BMW, and apartment in Lamai, and give her 500,000 baht. But the funny thing was when he had to go back to England for a month my American mate was jamming her full on for nothing. Typically Thai ladies, just like water off a ducks back. 1 tip don't go big with any Thai lady unless she completely shows you loyalty, and even still be cautious. Because security is a must, for any Lady let alone Thai. But the old saying goes in Thai the more she makes or extracts from you, the more she can flaunt or waste with her friends and especially her family, and if she's really nasty on herself Cheers mate 👍
A fool and their money is soon separated. Like the great Charlie Sheen said, I don't pay women for sex I pay them to go away afterwards. I won't lie I've enjoyed the company of a woman or two that I gave money to, but only for fun. I just left isan and the girl literally gave me money before I got on the bus to leave. I gave it back to her though, as I don't need money from someone else. Y'all seriously need to work on yourselves because you are making farang look bad out here. Making it harder out here than it needs to be.
Great Video Dan 😊. This guy is in love with the thought of being in love even after ALL the Deception. Unbelievable. Happy New Years 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉. Keep the video's comin. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Well number one he needs some self respect but since he helped a poor family improve their house, he did some very wonderful charity work. How come guys dont know what love is. It is friendship, trust, loyalty not sexual attraction and a fantasy about happy ever after.
Since the guy is seemingly happy in having “ helped” her family was he really scammed? The girls are running a business so if the guys are buying their product voluntarily there are no victims here. I completely agree with you that paying a fair price for services rendered is the best approach yet these stories will never end as people are always searching for that elusive love…..
On Beach Road very close to Soi 6 in Pattaya there is a group of around 20 or so Thai women that exercise with an instructor. All of them are over the age of 50 with several in their 60's and 70s. All post menopause. I run past them on my morning run. When I look at them I think to myself here's a group of woman that due to their age have no ability to extract financial resources from farang men in the same manner as the young bar girls working in Soi 6 just a few metres away from here. The Soi 6 bar girls as time progresses have less and less opportunity to extract resources and will in time end up just like the women in that exercise group with men not even giving them a glance (except perhaps for research purposes like I did). No farang will be coming to rescue them. No farang will be providing for them or their families. No farang will be securing them visas to the western world. Youth and fertility in women are massive factors when it comes to their financial extraction ability from western men. Once their youth and beauty have faded they're done.
Well here's a thought. All the time older Falang are dating girls 20 years their junior, the Falang are dumb and will constantly get ripped off. I see it all the time not to mention the stories here. I can't speak for an older Thai woman's past, but i've found dating around my same age range (which I would do in the West too) i've not had any problems and the Falang dating women around the same age don't generally have many problems either.
So for a different spin, 1 million baht a year is about right for an old farang to keep a pretty young thai lady in tow. This guy did not get good value for his baht, and let her walk all over him. You need to tell her what you expect and they need to do it. It can work for a few years, and then one needs to find a new lady, cause they can only fake it for so long, will only listen for so long, and always want more, more, more ...
Welcome to the Narcissistic cycle. Once they know you have fallen for them , after the fake love bombing stage. Your in the devaluation stage . Head says run . Heart says stay. You've got to get away from these relationships. They are all the same. I've been through it and escaped . Luckily without spending my hard earned cash !
DAN , Love the videos, u r only saying what the majority of men need to hear , re hear , reimplement . I know we all have our flaws , our weaknesses and think of our bottom head and not our TOP HEAD 😊. Just amazes me how many blokes get caught up this web / trap . Ya think with all these stories? MEN would wake the F up .. Anyway the key word here is RENT , condo, bike , and company.. The END .
Yes what did arise seemed to turn into a long lasting Erection,Building that would of cost a lot of money,way i see it 9 months fun for that money seems a cut price realy,considering what the daily rate would of been.
I was reading today that Prenuptial Agreement Thailand can offer some protection prior to getting marriage even if you are not thai married to a Thai person. But should be written up prior to marriage, anyone have experience with this? I read about this on the Siam Legal website
I think I met Jesse a couple of nights ago. I can confirm she's a 10/10 visually. My green friend wanted to go with her, and I warned him that a girl that looks like her, in a bar like that, is likely BIG trouble.
This men should know that in Thai culture or a woman finding a foreigner,when she takes you around those families and friends the more she can show that she can dominate you in every way the more those people admire here,they think that some kind of talent or gift that not every woman can do lol.
It appears Steve was never initiated into knowledge of the heart and relationships. He became obsessed, though it is labelled 'falling in love.' This is not love. Obsession does not relate to the significant other, it deals with a projection, and thus is disrespectful, and generally is treated accordingly. In contrast, love is familiarity with one's own heart and its inspiration. It is focused on the heart-owner's activities, so it is a way of living essentially, a way of living that of course others may be invited into and embraced - partners, family, colleagues, friends. Though such love, such a heart, says no as well as yes, as its criteria is always what is best for the project, all things considered.
Still baffled at the quantity of stories similar to this. A lot i think depending on where you are at in a grocery shop, then wanting prime beef centerloin for the price of a weiner. I played my cards close, was respectful, and only persued the ones clear on showing full openess and loyalty .... then after obseving if our characters were compatible. If of interest, the bangkok business career lady may well win my heart or maybe its too late as brings me such immense attraction to her mind and body I will let her work amother year and if all goes well then commit. The few I pursued in discussing the future run around 30,000 baht a month to live together in their home. When i deduct what I would spend living on my own renting the end cost is similar. Well ... my report 😊
I took the trouble to give an extensive reply, since I have lived here for 20 years, so I have quite some experience, but for some reason it has been removed, so I won't be commenting again and I am wasting my time! Do you have any explanation for this Dan? There was nothing untoward in my commentary!
Hi Steve. I don't know if this will help. The way i would deal with a situation like yours having heard your story, the cold shoulder, constantly expecting you to pay for everything ECT. Ask yourself this. What advice would you give a good friend if you could see this shit happening to him. To see it from the outside I think you would be totally put off, for sure. I've had 30+years of experience in Thailand believe me they love to show off at your expense and they would have to be the cruelest race of people I've ever experienced. They lie like nothing I have ever seen,but thier no good at it. Stay positive mate don't let what happened affect your future.
I've got a mate who is nieve AF. He's got plenty of money and wants to come to Thailand with me. I won't let him come. He would be like a lamb to the slaughter house.
This guy cannot see that he got rinsed and abused worse in LoS than by his divorce at home. Only one difference, girl in LoS was way better looking and more willing (one would hope!). BTW the limit is not a $$ amount, it's a few days and you don't look back.
"And I BELIEVED HER!!" As 'Red Pilled' as I am - this is obviously HIS FAULT. Men have a responsibility to society to not allow women to be the spoiled brats many (most) have become.
He does not love her. He loves what he wants her to be. The woman he loves simply does not exist. He loves this image that she first portrayed. Nothing more. Once he accepts this it will be easier to get over it.
Spot on! He's in love with an illusion.
Agreed Spartan. On point
Totally accurate . If these men were more realistic about things this would not happen
Wow dude that was heavy. There's a blunt truth in what you said
Are you speaking from experience, you're spot on
Long time viewer and it still shocks me how stupid some blokes can be when it comes to these women . Absolutely astonishing
You know when you've been in Thailand a long time when you are watching 'Thai talk with Dan'!
stupidity has its own price
200k baht they are lucky if they get a ladies drink from me, its cheaper to pay them and then send them on their way she isnt yours it is just your turn
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Falling for a Thai girls charms is one thing (massage, boom boom, lively personality etc etc) but to part with 1 Million Baht is inexcusable. What was you thinking Steve? As for the comment "you was happy to give them a decent home to live in and every human deserves a decent standard of accommodation", I hate to break it to you mate but although Thais dream of that lovely house, Thai's can live quite comfortably in those "shacks". They drink, party, relax, socialise with their friends. They are very comfortable and just out of curiosity, did you observe how many of those shacks have pick ups, 3 bikes, a satellite dish?
“The renovations we did together” 😂 sorry that was over the top..
Dan, you are an accomplished storyteller. Steve, I just want to say thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it will help a few guys to make better relationship decisions in Thailand.
Only he thinks it was a Draw 😂😂😂
Ya think? 😅
Good Heavens! How this bullshit idea called romantic love is destroying us!! ...only over the past decade, now 44, am I understanding that it is infatuation that we are experiencing with these good looking women; it is not Love.
I want to believe that a couple wants the best for the other one more than for themselves or at least equality.
Zebra and lioness it's a great analogy. But Steve, zebras run away, don't go to the lioness den. Also, 1 million Bath, must have been a hell of a nooky
While loss of money sucks, things get a whole different meaning when there's emotions and heartache. The emotional part must be devastating for these men. Even good honest Thai women would warn farangs against these kinds of arrangements. The only thing we can do is to warn people, and if they want to toss this advice into the toilet and cry later it's up to themselves. Knowing when to call it a day before getting into trouble is essential .
At this point, I have to believe guys who do things like this are simply trolling the rest of us. There is no way someone could be so foolish.
Nah I have a few friends like this. It’s just a bunch of lonely dudes who crave female attention and validation. You think Thai bar girls are bad? My brother in Christ allow me to introduce you to onlyfans and Ai girlfriends. An ai girlfriend will fleece a man bankrupt before a bar girl can ask the mama-san for permission to leave the bar
It's surprising how powerful an effect a willing, beautiful woman can have on a bloke.
I ran a bar in Phuket for a time. You would be surprised how daft some blokes can be.
I understand you but I know quite a few “real life” cases.. including people who are professionally very successful. 🤷♂️
@@BambinoAmericano I’m lived in Phuket for 10 years. They just get sucked in and spat out.
thanks for sharing Steve sorry to hear about the experience wish you well and you learn from the experience
Great show Dan! Hope u and William are doing good. 😊 As alway's stay cool 😎 kind and generous!
Happy New Year 2024 best health & happiness to you Dan and your son🙏
We sometimes think that the more we give, the more we are entitled (to receive something in return). Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way; in bargirl’s reality, the more you give, the more you are expected to add on - it is an open-ended one-way exponential function. Better say no rather than trying to please.
A million Baht is 42,000 Australian dollars for anyone interested
Thanks bro, that’s pretty steep
$30K in USD. In terms of taxable income about $50K.
I think Steve needs to reassess the scores. More like Jesse 1000000-Steve 1
Like giving to a charity with benefits both ways 😅
Few weeks ago 750k Canadian was worth 21.5 million baht. But today the same 750k is worth 19.7 million baht.
This man called himself a Zebra… but found out quickly he was just another Buffalo🤷🏻♂️
Black stripes on white or white stripes on black?
So the moral of this story is that you leave the bar girl in the bar and don't go to her village.
Stay away from her parents
it hurts hearing the lingering self-doubt men are having over their women. getting in too deep makes the pain even worse. i recall tv celebrity chef anthony bourdain, with his share of personal history baggage, ended his own life over what appears to have been a troubled relationship with a woman. i'm still sad about AB's end.
All these simps throwing millions of baht at their rent-a-woman is the reason the baht is so strong and inflation is so bad 😜😜😜😜😜
Great story Steve! Nice work Dan! This is medicine for others that could be vulnerable to this type of situation.
He still loves her after what she has done? Dude, you need some serious therapy.
🤣🤣
He has very low self esteem - he hates himself and takes sh;it from ppl w/o any probs.
Very serious therapy very serious !!!!!
Mug!!
“Super Simp!” Drops money and love in a single bound
I say “pay as you play”. One million baht can buy a lot of one nighters😂😂😂
Flew to BKK and bus to Pattaya.
Got a 500B room, close to walking street.
Met a girl and moved in day after, in her room.
Good time, 1 month.
Had to use return ticket and go sell everything.
Bought new 1 way ticket 2 months after, 35 years ago.
Still here same girl....
Hi dan i ve been waiting on your upload 😊
It's been hectic here but managed to get a little free time today to make this video 👌😁
@@thaitalkwithdanthank you 😊 🙏 we appreciate your work that you put in the videos helping us all more blessings.
Always informative! Heading to Krungthep, Chiang Mai, and Pattaya in January. Where to get nice Thai long sleeve shirts? Need for landscape work!
Makes me feel better about my life choices
Me too
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You are on point sir about Farang baggage from home. Nothing more said. Peace to you and your son. Looking forward to many more stories in the new year.
Happy New year everyone!!!
Much safer to keep to one day rule. 1 million is a lot of money to waste. This should serve as a warning to all men visiting SE asia.
You can have a girl for several days if you can say NO, no problems. I know myself but you have to educate yourself. Most men don't.
You could have spent a million on the BKK orphanage and made Thai TV..
BUFFALO
Quay te
Seasons Greetings to all ! 🧑🎄
I know how this guy can fall into this emotional trap after a long-term relationship failure. Hope he reads this, mate !: those feelings you have are made by you, she gave you nothing, you are generating all those positive interpretations of what happened. You need to reset your emotional state by going out and getting with other women, once you have more experience you will finally realise that its you who is creating all this positive and negative feelings. Once you understand that, you can begin to manage it so it doesn't affect you badly. A good resource is 'How to be a 3 percent Man' by Corey wayne - staying emotionally centered is your primary purpose in life. Women only challenge that state, bad narcissistic women especially. Thai women are high in narcissism so not a good type to get experience with, (will largely be negative) . Try other cultures if you have access to. Wish you a fast learning curve.
Better to write the money off as a charitable donation made directly to a single underprivileged family rather than to an NGO organisation whose staff tool around in huge brand new SUVs.
That I do agree with
This evil family doesn't deserve any charity.
Guys is business deal. We pay we make the rules we make the culture. We are kings. The are the object to serve us. Never buy anything. Give them little money. If you not happy. Is next girl. Or. The will eat you alive.
Yes Ko Samui ladies can be very persuasive.
I stayed there in 05 for about 5 months.
Had been there before hand a couple of times years before, i learnt probably the 2nd time there, about the Samui bar lady. They are renowned for telling you they need to do something through the day, and meet you later in the evenings.
I stayed with 1 lady in the middle to late nineties, after the first few nights i,d worked out she must be hooking up in the day with another bloke. Because she always be invisible for about 6 to 8 hours.
Funny third day i was coming back from the waterfalls about 4 pm in Lamai, and she went passed on the back of another man's bike.
She try to make some excuse up he was just a friend.
I said stick with your friend she wasn't impressed later at the bar, i just took her friend home that is Thailand, just go with the flow.
Ko Samui legendary for gorgeous ladies especially from Isaan and especially from around Surin and Si Seket. Complete Angels with Devil thoughts. Cheers enjoy. Just don,t offload to much on 1 lady.
I,ve seen more then a couple of blokes do money over ladies in Thailand and especially in Samui. 2 quick stories 1 bloke i met done 26,000 Australian in 6 weeks partying in 05, and probably about 15 to 18 of that on 1 lady. And it got worse he then apparently went home sold 1 of he,s houses in Australia and come back and married her. Well you know where he ended up after six months later at laest 100,000 grand on a petrol station in her home town and a new 4 wheel drive for his brother in law.
And a year or so later it was over, partly because he coud,nt keep his old fella wondering. What a laugh. That's why i,m always cautious when dealing with beautiful ladies.
And tje other bloke i met was an Englishmen who jist jad to much money for he,s own good.
He brought a lady a BMW, and apartment in Lamai, and give her 500,000 baht.
But the funny thing was when he had to go back to England for a month my American mate was jamming her full on for nothing. Typically Thai ladies, just like water off a ducks back.
1 tip don't go big with any Thai lady unless she completely shows you loyalty, and even still be cautious.
Because security is a must, for any Lady let alone Thai.
But the old saying goes in Thai the more she makes or extracts from you, the more she can flaunt or waste with her friends and especially her family, and if she's really nasty on herself
Cheers mate 👍
Glad to see you in an upbeat mood, Dan. Happy New Year.
The lionesses of essan sit crouched in their position awaiting their next kill lol.on a separate note Dan I reckon the bar girls absolutely love YOU 😂
Merry Christmas to you Dan and your handsome Son❤️❤️❤️
$29,000 USD in 9 months. Holy moly!
At todays rate, 42,827.88 AUS Dollars.
Steve, please send me Money 💰 lol
It can easily be done.
You can build a whole house in the Philippines for that price.
A fool and their money is soon separated. Like the great Charlie Sheen said, I don't pay women for sex I pay them to go away afterwards. I won't lie I've enjoyed the company of a woman or two that I gave money to, but only for fun. I just left isan and the girl literally gave me money before I got on the bus to leave. I gave it back to her though, as I don't need money from someone else. Y'all seriously need to work on yourselves because you are making farang look bad out here. Making it harder out here than it needs to be.
Great Video Dan 😊. This guy is in love with the thought of being in love even after ALL the Deception. Unbelievable.
Happy New Years 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊 🍺 🍻 🥳 🎉.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
You've heard the old saying 'a fool and his money are soon parted'? Well here it is!
Happy new year to you and your son
Happy new-year another crazy story. We should have a beer in same town 😎
200,000 baht is a lot of gents clubs and massages 😂
Well number one he needs some self respect but since he helped a poor family improve their house, he did some very wonderful charity work. How come guys dont know what love is. It is friendship, trust, loyalty not sexual attraction and a fantasy about happy ever after.
“ she even started wearing her glasses “ 😂
Really enjoy watching all your videos from here in Chiang Mai Thailand. Keep up the great videos.
The fury magnet once again
Those men are ruining
women in Thailand and
it's not because the
rest of us are broke.
If you took their money away,
they couldn't get laid.
In my Experience . The Love of Money Ruins most people in Life, No matter how Good or Bad they may appear to be . BOTH Men and Women .
F em
Since the guy is seemingly happy in having “ helped” her family was he really scammed? The girls are running a business so if the guys are buying their product voluntarily there are no victims here. I completely agree with you that paying a fair price for services rendered is the best approach yet these stories will never end as people are always searching for that elusive love…..
On Beach Road very close to Soi 6 in Pattaya there is a group of around 20 or so Thai women that exercise with an instructor. All of them are over the age of 50 with several in their 60's and 70s. All post menopause. I run past them on my morning run. When I look at them I think to myself here's a group of woman that due to their age have no ability to extract financial resources from farang men in the same manner as the young bar girls working in Soi 6 just a few metres away from here.
The Soi 6 bar girls as time progresses have less and less opportunity to extract resources and will in time end up just like the women in that exercise group with men not even giving them a glance (except perhaps for research purposes like I did). No farang will be coming to rescue them. No farang will be providing for them or their families. No farang will be securing them visas to the western world.
Youth and fertility in women are massive factors when it comes to their financial extraction ability from western men. Once their youth and beauty have faded they're done.
Well here's a thought. All the time older Falang are dating girls 20 years their junior, the Falang are dumb and will constantly get ripped off. I see it all the time not to mention the stories here. I can't speak for an older Thai woman's past, but i've found dating around my same age range (which I would do in the West too) i've not had any problems and the Falang dating women around the same age don't generally have many problems either.
Exactly! That's the key - dating within ones age range @@Paul_in_Thailand
So for a different spin, 1 million baht a year is about right for an old farang to keep a pretty young thai lady in tow. This guy did not get good value for his baht, and let her walk all over him. You need to tell her what you expect and they need to do it. It can work for a few years, and then one needs to find a new lady, cause they can only fake it for so long, will only listen for so long, and always want more, more, more ...
fk me they get a bowl of rice and couple of fried eggs and thats if they are good girl ,,,
For 1 million baht he could have done the whole of pattaya....
And paid for the treatment he'll need afterwards 🤣🤣🤣
Rats
And left over.
Happy New Year Dan!!🎉
Welcome to the Narcissistic cycle. Once they know you have fallen for them , after the fake love bombing stage. Your in the devaluation stage . Head says run . Heart says stay. You've got to get away from these relationships. They are all the same. I've been through it and escaped . Luckily without spending my hard earned cash !
Absolutely narcissistic ..pack mentality
Dan, the movie clips that you include in your videos are great.!
DAN ,
Love the videos, u r only saying what the majority of men need to hear , re hear , reimplement .
I know we all have our flaws , our weaknesses and think of our bottom head and not our TOP HEAD 😊.
Just amazes me how many blokes get caught up this web / trap .
Ya think with all these stories? MEN would wake the F up ..
Anyway the key word here is RENT , condo, bike , and company..
The END .
Renovations always go well when some other sucker is paying.
A fool and there money as the saying goes. If you are going to go with a working gal then pay to play and move on to the next.
Dan saved me millions already.
Some men should not be allowed out,with out a care worker.Yes agree Dan something did Arise there.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 True
I told my buddy if he ever came here with me I'd have to hold his wallet for him. 🤣🤣🤣
Yes what did arise seemed to turn into a long lasting Erection,Building that would of cost a lot of money,way i see it 9 months fun for that money seems a cut price realy,considering what the daily rate would of been.
I was reading today that Prenuptial Agreement Thailand can offer some protection prior to getting marriage even if you are not thai married to a Thai person. But should be written up prior to marriage, anyone have experience with this? I read about this on the Siam Legal website
I think I met Jesse a couple of nights ago. I can confirm she's a 10/10 visually. My green friend wanted to go with her, and I warned him that a girl that looks like her, in a bar like that, is likely BIG trouble.
I love it when they give me the pregnancy story and then I reveal I’ve had a vasectomy
Steve is not a zebra, he is like an ostrich. She saw him as a walking lottery ticket.
It is not the power of love Dan, it is the power of the Growler 😂
This men should know that in Thai culture or a woman finding a foreigner,when she takes you around those families and friends the more she can show that she can dominate you in every way the more those people admire here,they think that some kind of talent or gift that not every woman can do lol.
“You pay” 😂😂😂 if ever one of these little coooonts tried to talk to me like that they’re getting told to foook off instantly!!
The Eastwood/doughnuts clip was priceless
Again and again... If you cannot stand the heat, don't go in the kitchen.
Cheers from Koh Samui
Not 3 day rule, ONE day rule...
Any NON bar girl stories? Let's hear about doctors and lawyers being the same as bar girls.
Fully agree.
Lawyers take your money big time,
Some doctors take your money and leave you sicker than you were originally if not 6ft under.
True..many non bar girls (normal women) act the same way.
A sucker born every minute... Endless supply
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR SON,,,,,, ( Hope you are well) ... No comment on the Aussie... they ask for it.
It appears Steve was never initiated into knowledge of the heart and relationships. He became obsessed, though it is labelled 'falling in love.' This is not love. Obsession does not relate to the significant other, it deals with a projection, and thus is disrespectful, and generally is treated accordingly. In contrast, love is familiarity with one's own heart and its inspiration. It is focused on the heart-owner's activities, so it is a way of living essentially, a way of living that of course others may be invited into and embraced - partners, family, colleagues, friends. Though such love, such a heart, says no as well as yes, as its criteria is always what is best for the project, all things considered.
I understand you spent 1 million on 100 ladies but not on 1 what is a real disaster. 😂
So sad. These guys are so vulnerable after messy divorces or breakups.
Still baffled at the quantity of stories similar to this.
A lot i think depending on where you are at in a grocery shop, then wanting prime beef centerloin for the price of a weiner.
I played my cards close, was respectful, and only persued the ones clear on showing full openess and loyalty .... then after obseving if our characters were compatible.
If of interest, the bangkok business career lady may well win my heart or maybe its too late as brings me such immense attraction to her mind and body I will let her work amother year and if all goes well then commit.
The few I pursued in discussing the future run around 30,000 baht a month to live together in their home. When i deduct what I would spend living on my own renting the end cost is similar.
Well ... my report 😊
I took the trouble to give an extensive reply, since I have lived here for 20 years, so I have quite some experience, but for some reason it has been removed, so I won't be commenting again and I am wasting my time! Do you have any explanation for this Dan? There was nothing untoward in my commentary!
cell phones and gold i think are mostly pawned if u buy it for them
Hi Steve. I don't know if this will help. The way i would deal with a situation like yours having heard your story, the cold shoulder, constantly expecting you to pay for everything ECT. Ask yourself this. What advice would you give a good friend if you could see this shit happening to him. To see it from the outside I think you would be totally put off, for sure. I've had 30+years of experience in Thailand believe me they love to show off at your expense and they would have to be the cruelest race of people I've ever experienced. They lie like nothing I have ever seen,but thier no good at it. Stay positive mate don't let what happened affect your future.
Stay away from the “Stench Trench”.
Took him long enough to figure it out 😂. He deserved every bit of that
Hate the game not the playa
I've got a mate who is nieve AF. He's got plenty of money and wants to come to Thailand with me.
I won't let him come.
He would be like a lamb to the slaughter house.
Wide eyed Meer Cat vs Bloodthirsty Hyena.
This guy cannot see that he got rinsed and abused worse in LoS than by his divorce at home. Only one difference, girl in LoS was way better looking and more willing (one would hope!). BTW the limit is not a $$ amount, it's a few days and you don't look back.
Surin, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, they never learn.
" I still love her very much". *facepalm.
"And I BELIEVED HER!!"
As 'Red Pilled' as I am - this is obviously HIS FAULT.
Men have a responsibility to society to not allow women to be the spoiled brats many (most) have become.
Send money if you like but it won't buy loyalty love, better giving it to family friends here.
you're you're funny man
lol, i rang the bell once, and the girl told me that means i need to buy drinks for everyone, i said im sorry, accident, i didnt know
How long does it take you to write these stories?
Man I am an Australian and that’s about $45k
No one in their right mind would ever spend/ send that kind of money even in Australia 🇦🇺
Ffs 🤷♂️
Almost 30 thousand dollars!!!!
Pay to play is a two way street.
Have a good Thai Bar girl year!
Fools and their money should be the motto