Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson
You understand more about the human experience than anyone I know. It’s all been helpful to me and validated me many times. That’s mind blowing since I’ve lived alone with what’s inside me since I was not yet 2 years old.
You should make it clear that people are not donating to Jordan Peterson himself. It's one thing to take content that is already online for free and clip it or add stock footage etc. It's another to use his face as your avatar, make a donation link as "jordan.peterson" and start begging for money. Edit: I wouldn't normally say anything but this is content aimed at people in distress and pain. It would certainly be unethical to... deceive and exploit those people. Right?
@mrjordanperterson sorry jordan, I don't know how to, I am totally tech illiterate 🤣😂but I will ask my daughter how to do this when she gets back from work, and I will contact you asap, be blessed beloved of god💜
I have said to myself many times how broken I am. People and life have deflated me. I’m blessed that I have found you. I read your books, I watch your videos, and I take notes. People are so messy and they will run you over…if you let them. Thank you, Dr. Peterson. You are such a significant influence in my life.
I hear you, I feel like life has broken me beyond all hope too. Everything that could have gone wrong has gone wrong, even more 'spectacularly' and catastrophic than I ever could have imagined. I don't know what happened. I thought I was doing things the right way. A lot of it has been because of my relatives, they are really evil people. Some would say I'm just blaming but it's true.
@@dunexapa1016 out of all of the people in this thread, I would like to know why you chose to respond to me? I believe that is weak. Do you constantly go around and pick on women? That shows what type of character you possess. and that type of character is very weak. You do not have to announce to the world that you don’t like some thing especially when you’re choosing to comment on somebody else’s comment that is positive. If you want to be a jerk, it’s OK, you can be a jerk. Just don’t be a jerk on my shit. Understood?
I seem to have been surrounded by narcissistic bullies all my life. Now, either I have been extremely unlucky or that is the harsh reality of the human condition or I have completely misjudged the whole situation and am at least partly to blame. The constant conflict between these 3 possible explanations has led to my withdrawing from life to the point of almost complete inertia. He is gently but brutally saying that I must move forward however frightening, uncomfortable and uncertain that may be. Sometimes we need somebody to tell us what we already know.
I have 3 of your books. They have helped me to be more positive and to weed negativity out of my life. Also, I have reached out to friends and family as a positive influence in their lives.
Jordan, I beat benzodiazepine withdrawal after being prescribed for over 13 years. I'm working out but can't work yet. Had a seizure yesterday so I gotta go to a neurologist. People thought I was crazy. Im feeling better today. Working out and reading. Im gonna convert to Orthodoxy. What's your take on that? You helped me so much and still are. Love ya Jordan!! Tell Mickalah she is an angel and she is strong for helping you through that purgatory.❤
I'm on a benzo taper too. At the moment I'm on 16mg diazepam but I have severe chronic anxiety so it is very hard work. During Covid I was taking clonazepam and xanax at doses equivalent to 120mg diazepam so I was stabilised on 40mg by an addiction psychiatrist. Good luck on your journey of healing - ♥
@@wallybingbang4350 You got it!! Your doing awesome! Keep goin, I'm completly off now and I can honestly say, you will come back. I feel the anxiety but it's something I had to come to terms with. Now I have to go out and make some mulah!
No pressure Doctor Peterson, but, when my dad died you became my living father. You are so incredibly helpful to me as far as taking stock of myself, acting on it and understanding the significance of what it means to lose your father and be a man. Resurrecting the ancestral father is unbelievably real to me ❤
Absolutely! We don't do all the things we should do and get more organized, because it's impossible. Doing all the things we should do at the exact right time is simply asking too much. One cannot sacrifice the present for a future, which will just be more sacrifice for the future. Then of course we also need to keep people at bay who wish us harm. What happens: far too many people turn into aggressive, soul crushing moral preachers, just to steer away attention from their own miserable self. The only conclusion I came to is (and I tell this to everyone who cares enough): never ever become bitter and resentful! Try to be one of that person the world needs so desperately: be that teacher who comes when the student is ready. Don't judge, help. Don't berate all the time, ask the student (or your sons and daughters): "How do you feel? How can I help you?". Motivate with a strong and commanding voice, while never giving in to your impatience. It's hard, I know from experience. Laziness and procrastination most of the times are fear of failure and suffering.
Anyone who calls jordan evil and nefarious is honestly so misguided and led astray by the wrong pepoles opinions he is literally just trying to help pepole who have lost all hope thank your dr peterson
I experienced EMDR therapy for PTSD, concerning a heavy loss for me. My entire life was one traumatic event after another, it seems. But this one needed attention fast, so I shared it and was offered EMDR by a wonderful retired lady with a PHD + 2-3 years schooling in psychology, the most loving knowledgeable woman Ive ever met. Her description of it sounded like hypnosis and impossibly simple but I went with an open mind desperate for relief. AND IT WORKED!!! I highly recommend it. Thats all I will say. I wasnt cured but the relief came and I was able to proceed from there. Best of luck to those experiencing symptoms. You can recover. Thank you Dr Jordan for reaching out to anyone who will listen and seeks recovery for the mind and and spirit.
Honestly the light has gone out of my life. Nothing and no one makes it any better. After 23 years of life, I just keep being shown it’s for nothing. I keep feeling pain. I don’t feel value in anything or doing anything anymore because look where it’s gotten me, in the depths of utter despair so dark that no light makes it recede. I just can’t describe. I’m stuck. I don’t see what is good about living anymore. I’m too cowardly to die. Professionals don’t help. I can’t help myself. God isn’t helping me. Why am I cursed
You have moved me. I have been at the very bottom. Keep following JP work on your thought system. Begin with gratitude. There is so much to be said but you are far too young to have tried everything. Best wishes to you❤️
Wow! This was absolutely me. Still struggling to deviate from this person I've become after a horrible past. 😢 I always thought about helping others until I chose to rebel against myself and all my ideals because I got tired of feeling the pain of having a soft side. I became harsh, more aggressive, somewhat uncaring and self absorbed. It's hard to get out of there because this place gives u a sense of false security
I'd have to say that I've been seriously broken Jordan, family gone don't even know if my kids are still alive let alone how or where they are (or the grandkids) & I've been inundated with people clamouring for my trauma (rather than helping me to avoid more) If that happened, I'd probably die of shock (the last time I wasn't breathing & didn't have a heartbeat for a while was 2017) Coming back, seems to be harder than going, although that was pretty traumatic (every time I relive it)
Jordan, I admire and trust you! Your speeches and conversations are always deep and true. I have been wondering for a while if you are familiar with the Urantia papers? I have never heard you mention this book and I am not sure if you have read the documents contained in it but your voice is transcendental and it will make the heavens rejoice if you take a peak! Thank you for all you do, you have the mind of a genius :) Tania
Colossians 2:24-29 Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ on behalf of his body, which is the church, of which I am a minister in accordance with God’s stewardship given to me to bring to completion for you the word of God, the mystery hidden from ages and from generations past. But now it has been manifested to his holy ones, to whom God chose to make known the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles; it is Christ in you, the hope for glory. It is he whom we proclaim, admonishing everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone perfect in Christ. For this I labor and struggle, in accord with the exercise of his power working within me.
Yes! Idealistic thinking and perfectionsm have got to go! They keep us from seeing what's good or changing for the better. JP said they are negative "judges." The only was to fail is to quit. Dont quit.
I come from a narcissist family and I was the scapegoat for 37 years and for 25 years I was hunted to be killed so 58 years I fought to stay alive and I have no addictions and society has never been kind to me but yet I love myself I'm fit I live in my Waggon I'm kind I volunteer to organisation and I don't break the law I walk alone and I have no sympathy for myself and I'm strong in my mind and body and I'm a minimalist and I'm always happy so what do you think that means
Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos
that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this
isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful
videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson
You keep creeping into my feed..😢
I agree with half of this.
Absolutely love your videos. Learn a lot from them.
You understand more about the human experience than anyone I know. It’s all been helpful to me and validated me many times. That’s mind blowing since I’ve lived alone with what’s inside me since I was not yet 2 years old.
You should make it clear that people are not donating to Jordan Peterson himself. It's one thing to take content that is already online for free and clip it or add stock footage etc. It's another to use his face as your avatar, make a donation link as "jordan.peterson" and start begging for money.
Edit: I wouldn't normally say anything but this is content aimed at people in distress and pain. It would certainly be unethical to... deceive and exploit those people. Right?
Love you jordan, father to the fatherless ❤
And yet he's just as unavailable.
Bruh 💀
Many fatherless sons. Young men and old men. A Father is a powerful necessity.
@@seerking I so agree, no matter how old or young we are, my family has suffered for the lack of good fathers
@mrjordanperterson sorry jordan, I don't know how to, I am totally tech illiterate 🤣😂but I will ask my daughter how to do this when she gets back from work, and I will contact you asap, be blessed beloved of god💜
I have said to myself many times how broken I am. People and life have deflated me. I’m blessed that I have found you. I read your books, I watch your videos, and I take notes. People are so messy and they will run you over…if you let them. Thank you, Dr. Peterson. You are such a significant influence in my life.
I hear you, I feel like life has broken me beyond all hope too. Everything that could have gone wrong has gone wrong, even more 'spectacularly' and catastrophic than I ever could have imagined. I don't know what happened. I thought I was doing things the right way. A lot of it has been because of my relatives, they are really evil people. Some would say I'm just blaming but it's true.
@@heliotrope3345 It’s not us, it’s them. We have to heal, and we will. We got this!
Life has broken Jordan Peterson as well ... the blind leading the blind ... Jordan is weak ...
@@dunexapa1016 out of all of the people in this thread, I would like to know why you chose to respond to me? I believe that is weak. Do you constantly go around and pick on women? That shows what type of character you possess. and that type of character is very weak. You do not have to announce to the world that you don’t like some thing especially when you’re choosing to comment on somebody else’s comment that is positive. If you want to be a jerk, it’s OK, you can be a jerk. Just don’t be a jerk on my shit. Understood?
I seem to have been surrounded by narcissistic bullies all my life. Now, either I have been extremely unlucky or that is the harsh reality of the human condition or I have completely misjudged the whole situation and am at least partly to blame. The constant conflict between these 3 possible explanations has led to my withdrawing from life to the point of almost complete inertia. He is gently but brutally saying that I must move forward however frightening, uncomfortable and uncertain that may be. Sometimes we need somebody to tell us what we already know.
“The greater the difficulty, the more the glory in surmounting it.” ―Epicurus
Epictetus, not Epicurus.
Easy to confuse, the names sound similar but there is a big difference in their schools of philosophy.
I have 3 of your books. They have helped me to be more positive and to weed negativity out of my life. Also, I have reached out to friends and family as a positive influence in their lives.
Mr. JORDON ,YOU ARE UNIC,BECAUSE YOU ARE AND KNOW SO MUCH! THE MOST AMAZING THING IS THAT YOU CARE WITH OUR PAIN AND TRY WITH LOVE TO HELP...
Jordan, I beat benzodiazepine withdrawal after being prescribed for over 13 years. I'm working out but can't work yet. Had a seizure yesterday so I gotta go to a neurologist. People thought I was crazy. Im feeling better today. Working out and reading. Im gonna convert to Orthodoxy. What's your take on that? You helped me so much and still are. Love ya Jordan!! Tell Mickalah she is an angel and she is strong for helping you through that purgatory.❤
I'm on a benzo taper too. At the moment I'm on 16mg diazepam but I have severe chronic anxiety so it is very hard work. During Covid I was taking clonazepam and xanax at doses equivalent to 120mg diazepam so I was stabilised on 40mg by an addiction psychiatrist.
Good luck on your journey of healing - ♥
@@wallybingbang4350 You got it!! Your doing awesome! Keep goin, I'm completly off now and I can honestly say, you will come back. I feel the anxiety but it's something I had to come to terms with. Now I have to go out and make some mulah!
No pressure Doctor Peterson, but, when my dad died you became my living father. You are so incredibly helpful to me as far as taking stock of myself, acting on it and understanding the significance of what it means to lose your father and be a man. Resurrecting the ancestral father is unbelievably real to me ❤
Absolutely! We don't do all the things we should do and get more organized, because it's impossible. Doing all the things we should do at the exact right time is simply asking too much. One cannot sacrifice the present for a future, which will just be more sacrifice for the future. Then of course we also need to keep people at bay who wish us harm. What happens: far too many people turn into aggressive, soul crushing moral preachers, just to steer away attention from their own miserable self. The only conclusion I came to is (and I tell this to everyone who cares enough): never ever become bitter and resentful! Try to be one of that person the world needs so desperately: be that teacher who comes when the student is ready. Don't judge, help. Don't berate all the time, ask the student (or your sons and daughters): "How do you feel? How can I help you?". Motivate with a strong and commanding voice, while never giving in to your impatience. It's hard, I know from experience. Laziness and procrastination most of the times are fear of failure and suffering.
Anyone who calls jordan evil and nefarious is honestly so misguided and led astray by the wrong pepoles opinions he is literally just trying to help pepole who have lost all hope thank your dr peterson
God bless you JP!
I experienced EMDR therapy for PTSD, concerning a heavy loss for me. My entire life was one traumatic event after another, it seems. But this one needed attention fast, so I shared it and was offered EMDR by a wonderful retired lady with a PHD + 2-3 years schooling in psychology, the most loving knowledgeable woman Ive ever met. Her description of it sounded like hypnosis and impossibly simple but I went with an open mind desperate for relief. AND IT WORKED!!!
I highly recommend it. Thats all I will say. I wasnt cured but the relief came and I was able to proceed from there. Best of luck to those experiencing symptoms. You can recover. Thank you Dr Jordan for reaching out to anyone who will listen and seeks recovery for the mind and and spirit.
Honestly the light has gone out of my life. Nothing and no one makes it any better. After 23 years of life, I just keep being shown it’s for nothing. I keep feeling pain. I don’t feel value in anything or doing anything anymore because look where it’s gotten me, in the depths of utter despair so dark that no light makes it recede. I just can’t describe. I’m stuck. I don’t see what is good about living anymore. I’m too cowardly to die. Professionals don’t help. I can’t help myself. God isn’t helping me. Why am I cursed
You have moved me. I have been at the very bottom. Keep following JP work on your thought system. Begin with gratitude. There is so much to be said but you are far too young to have tried everything. Best wishes to you❤️
Thank you. This article has given me a lot to think about regarding the ego and self-determinism.
A big brother to me….that I go to for advice…always leaving blessed.
Not life has broken me. People have.
JBP is the father figure we all need, but not everyone appreciates or deserves his wisdom. Their loss...
Wow! This was absolutely me. Still struggling to deviate from this person I've become after a horrible past. 😢 I always thought about helping others until I chose to rebel against myself and all my ideals because I got tired of feeling the pain of having a soft side. I became harsh, more aggressive, somewhat uncaring and self absorbed. It's hard to get out of there because this place gives u a sense of false security
I'd have to say that I've been seriously broken Jordan, family gone don't even know if my kids are still alive let alone how or where they are (or the grandkids) & I've been inundated with people clamouring for my trauma (rather than helping me to avoid more)
If that happened, I'd probably die of shock (the last time I wasn't breathing & didn't have a heartbeat for a while was 2017)
Coming back, seems to be harder than going, although that was pretty traumatic (every time I relive it)
My family just completely ghosted me after I ended up in a wheelchair. It's so painful to know this every day.
Good morning JP 😊
Jordan, I admire and trust you! Your speeches and conversations are always deep and true. I have been wondering for a while if you are familiar with the Urantia papers? I have never heard you mention this book and I am not sure if you have read the documents contained in it but your voice is transcendental and it will make the heavens rejoice if you take a peak! Thank you for all you do, you have the mind of a genius :)
Tania
Standup to an employer, you’re fired. Caught mine cheating on EPA regs, out of work. So what does one do?
The song ORESTES/A Perfect Circle
I always knew that pretending was an important thing for kids to do.
When ur sitting down looking like your taking a shxt meme u created on the front of this video
Notice the truly happy people don't have to say so 72 times in the pod cast
Colossians 2:24-29
Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ on behalf of his body, which is the church,
of which I am a minister in accordance with God’s stewardship given to me to bring to completion for you the word of God,
the mystery hidden from ages and from generations past. But now it has been manifested to his holy ones,
to whom God chose to make known the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles; it is Christ in you, the hope for glory.
It is he whom we proclaim, admonishing everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone perfect in Christ.
For this I labor and struggle, in accord with the exercise of his power working within me.
You should have some perspective about Tom MacDonald.
done.
Ok, interesting but it has nothing to do with the title. I find that a lot with JP videos. Whoever titles them is almost always way off.
What do you do when you’ve just lost the will to live?
I’m trying to figure that out myself 😢
@@fishdog70 Sorry to hear you’re feeling the same way xo
Yes! Idealistic thinking and perfectionsm have got to go! They keep us from seeing what's good or changing for the better. JP said they are negative "judges." The only was to fail is to quit. Dont quit.
Oops! The only WAY to fail is to quit
All who call on the name of YHWH will know His Salvation. Honor the name of YHWH that it may go well with you.
When lies are broken you😂😂
I come from a narcissist family and I was the scapegoat for 37 years and for 25 years I was hunted to be killed so 58 years I fought to stay alive and I have no addictions and society has never been kind to me but yet I love myself I'm fit I live in my Waggon I'm kind I volunteer to organisation and I don't break the law I walk alone and I have no sympathy for myself and I'm strong in my mind and body and I'm a minimalist and I'm always happy so what do you think that means
Everything and nothing
@@markstubington8730 fair enough
You are living your life on your own terms and going in the right direction, I am doing exactly the same.
@@stevenmallory3768 cool were you from ol mate