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*So two correctionsthat people brought to our attention.*
1) The child entered the store in nothing but diapers, the city they are in is very cold at that moment (19* farhenheit or -8 celcius). An employee saw the child shivering and began recording and as more people told her to put clothes on the shivering kid she put on that thin coat on the kid but since it didnt fit well or covered him he continued shivering. Thats when other good samaritans bought the kid some clothes.
2) The walmart employee was fired for filming this incident. UNFKINBELIEVABLE
Fired for filming...
9😢 1:57
Shameful. Fired for doing the right thing is so unfortunate
so basically Walmart is pushing for a society of cowards. You talk you get fired, mind your business no matter what! Trash company.
Where is the gofundme for the employee?
The craziest part is the Walmart employee got fired. This culture is INSANE.
Posting an ABUSED CHILD ON SOCIAL MEDIA GOT HER FIRED. LIKES AND CLICKS GOT HER FIRED
@@GEECHIEGirl posting a video on social media to have the community correct terrible parenting behavior got her fired.
You think Walmart cares about abused children's identity? Nope, when People of Wal-Mart was normalized in cultural vernacular, they cut down on employees filming real quick.
My story is nothing like what happened to this poor baby, but I was almost bitten in the throat by an aggressive pet last week in Walmart. It saw my service dog and went for him, just barely missing my neck since I fell. Only service dogs are allowed by law, and never allowed in carts for food regulations. Walmart did NOTHING and corporate keeps hanging up. The local manager was furious about it, but if she does anything she’ll get fired for following the laws. That company thinks they’re untouchable. I wish this poor baby a better future.❤
Everything was fine until she posted it, this is bad promo for Walmart, not making an excuse but that’s how business works. She also claimed she was gathering proof as if they don’t have 20+ security cameras. There were issues with how the employee handled the situation and that’s why she was fired, not because she stood up for the kid. If it was just that Walmart would of kept her for the positive response. I do think there is iffy things about their policy like Aba said though.
@@Dontrolling Them Walmart cameras be at 9p quality. Those aren't proving a damn thing lol.
Update: The mother was arrested. Then, released she posted a crappy response for her inexcusable parenting. She is facing child neglect charges.
Talking about god.
*single mother behavior*
Let a father have done this he wouldn’t have been released to even post on social media. Some one had to say it!!!!
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c because she is her only priority. The baby is just a handbag for the gram.
Where can I find the video
AND that woman threw a bag of frozen food on his little lap ON PURPOSE. She's not just negligent, she is malicious with that child.
Disgusting honestly. And hurt people hurt people.
@@LongLostInideQueen I was hurt almost every day as a child and I'm careful to never hurt anyone.
If she thinks that's acceptable treatment of her child *_in public,_* then just imagine what she does in the privacy of her home. That poor kid is probably being abused in ways we can't imagine.
for sure. what we see in public is what theyd call being behaved and civil. worst part this women got multiple kids. this is why the society needs parenting laws. theres to many neglected children out there and hardly any consiquences for parents
@@dendrien You _said_ it.
A stranger took it upon themselves to dress the child, I don't think she has a single thought about anyone other than herself.
Probably why the kid is behaving so well and not crying from being so cold. That kid probably gets beat whenever he cries so the kid would rather just be cold then catch a whooping for saying anything. SAD.
@@dendrien she probably warfare/child support babies that use the system to there adventage. big sad her hopeful with the dad get him if hes any better.
The kid is not reacting because he’s BEEN abused. He has ZERO stranger danger. He’s not trying to climb on to his birth giver (she doesn’t deserve the mom title). This is just so heart breaking.
100% Absolutely picked that up.
😢😢😢 sadly true
Birthing person is the new liberal pc term 😂
Birth givers are moms. There are good moms and bad moms.
Yes, it's a clear sign of abuse when kids have no negative response to a stranger. I know some kids with autism who also experience relatively low negative responses to strangers, so that could be exception, but given the evidence, it's probably abuse that's eliciting the lack of response.
That HERO was fired. Walmart is GARBAGE.
They probably have a black and white policy about filming customers or some nonsense. I doubt she was fired because she tried helping that poor kid.
She was fired for posting it on social media. Someone set up a go fund me for her, which is at more than she'd probably even come close to making at Walmart in a year.
Walmart's 50,000sqft sack of flaming dogshit though.
@@protoman1214yes you are correct, the Lululemon women were fired for saying we will call the police when people were stealing merchandise.
From the video I watched, the 2 women didn't block the door or even try to stop the fleeing thieves. They got fired for speaking.
@@protoman1214 "You filming in the store takes precedence over you helping protect a child, therefore you're fired" fucking good. why would I want to work for such a shitty corporation in the first place? doesn't matter if it's a policy: there's exemptions to every rule, and if they don't permit one in a scenario like that, the company/corporation clearly doesn't respect their employees time and effort in the first place; you're better off finding a better employer anyways.
@@drunkkeymasterfor some companies there aren’t any exception to the rule. & most companies aren’t super moral
The aunt came out and made a statement how this lady is a "good mom". The whole family is messed up, and the child is probably better off elsewhere.
If she's a good mom I'd hate to see what the aunt thinks a bad mom is.
damn feel bad for the kid, he doesn't have a single parent or guardian in his family who's on his side
That’s disgusting
if the parent was responsible in her life, the kid likely wouldn't've been born.
@@LongLostInideQueen nah, it's predictable
A toddler being that “well behaved” is actually a sign of an attachment disorder and severe neglect. Being totally fine with strangers touching you and not discriminating between your mom and a stranger is a sign of not being solidly attached to a primary caregiver. Not crying when you are clearly so cold you are shaking is what happens when babies have been so neglected they have learned that crying is pointless and doesn’t lead to their needs being met and just stop trying.
😢😢😢😠😡
i relate to this because i used to behave the same way. it wasn’t this severe but i definitely lost my voice as a child just like him. this breaks my heart so much knowing what this child could’ve gone through at home. i hope she goes to jail.
Some kids are just shy
Yes! Kids are supposed to be naughtier if they have good parents, this is because they’re completely comfortable in their environment and the relationship a good parent creates. They’re constantly pushing boundaries and seeing how they fit in this world. To see this child not complaining shows how absolutely neglected this poor baby is. Breaks my heart 😢
Yep.
CPS needs an overhaul. I could have sworn she literally bragged for successfully passing an investigation 2x. There's more than one "mother" like this in America.
Facts. CPS did absolutely nothing for me as a kid until my 7th (maybe 8th, idk, lost count) social worker pulled all my old files that had been closed & apparently raised hell because it was very clear case of neglect & abuse. I found out later that my case triggered a whole internal investigation, ppl got fired, other cases were reinvestigated & kids removed as needed. So something good did come out of it, but took YEARS before someone finally did their job despite my mother having over 200 reports to CPS from various ppl. I've also spoken to several ppl who've worked for the system & eventually quit because it was all about "politics & budget" rather than helping kids.
@@justacoginthefkerydamn that’s FIRE!!!!! Yessss! You changed MULTIPLE LIVES and that’s ducking sick.
They are HORRIBLE at their one job. I hope the kid gets into a good situation, because staying with an abusive parent wasn't good either 😕
CPS should remove kids from the 🤪s and admit that deinstitutionalization was wrong
CPS is useless most of the time and even when they do shit they fuck EVERYONE over
So correction. She put her black jacket on the child AFTER people were calling her out. Which is only WORSE because she was dressed in a jacket and her child was naked.
Exxxxxxactly
Priorities. She is her only priority. Her baby is just another handbag for the gram.
He isn't naked his clothes just happened to be made from a trash bag.
It is called upcycling or sumn like that.
It is eco friendly and high fashion and it is a statement on society like that modern fashion is garbage and also that uh like global poverty. I think if anyone needs a media spin doctor consider this my application
It’s even worse- it’s not her coat. Another shopper was so upset they used their own coat.😞
OH LAWD! SHE IS BLATT KWEEN 👸🏿
Anyone who defends that woman or threatened the people who called the police should be immediately investigated and monitored.
You don't excuse shit like that.
the fact the kid was so quiet, to me, is horrifying, its like hes fucking defeated as a baby
Hes freezing.
@@murdahmammiezi was thinking the same thing when aba said he was well behaved. He just to cold to cut up... wait till he defrost
He's quiet because he does not expect her to meet his needs 😢
@@DontMindMee89 abused kids give up at some point. they learn that if they complain, they get only more abuse.
@@rgar21that hurts my heart so bad 😢 god help this poor child
Let's give credit to the disabled random stranger that paid for new kids clothing and prevented a possible childs death by freezing. You are an angel.
in other parts of the world where women rule the home and raise their children, it's normal for the community to help mothers raise their kids as their own. if the kids misbehave the entire community disciplines that child. if that child is seen without clothes with their mother the community will step in and clothe the child. they wouldn't see it as child abuse or neglect. they see every child as their own.
@@whateverman2674no you are delusional.
@accountnotfound4209 they might be delusional but you're out of touch with reality and a waste
@@whateverman2674 yeah, and in civilized society, when you see a baby with no clothes in the winter, you do all those things and call the cops on their selfish ass uneducated moron parents.
@@whateverman2674 but this isn’t other parts of the world. her baby should be wearing her clothes if she can’t afford clothes for him. and maybe you’re talking about small communities (
Directly to jail. Lose all custody of that kid.
Complete lack of empathy.
Straight 2 jel
The SICK part is when she gets outta jail, she'll just have another one and ......... 💔🤢
She had three kids all removed
The woman that who called the police and video lost her job from that Walmart
@@allismama WalMart sucks she did the right thing
🤷🏿♂️I'm glad child services got called on the mother of my children. That one call allowed me to acquire full custody of my sons. I've been a single father for 2yrs now and I would've have it any other way. Ladies if the father is more capable of caring for the child/children, let him have custody💯
Father of the year 🎉🎉🎉
The internet appreciate your service sir! Keep being the best father you can be we need more men like you ❤
Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid
Facts.
Damn right
Every person deserves a brain but not every brain deserves a person 😢
AMEN!!!!
That's true....... no lies
I’m familiar with this story, sadly the Walmart employee that confronted her got fired. Thankfully the child and her other kids were taken away from her and given in the care of close relatives. In regard to the Walmart employee, she started a GoFundMe and last I heard it raised up to $29,000.
I hope she didn't get them back
They fired her for saving that baby?! Fking craziness. Fk walmart
@@moonutella5581THEY FIRED HER FOR POSTING AN ABUSED CHILD ON SOCIAL MEDIA FOR LIKES WHILE ON THEIR CLOCK
@@moonutella5581these business are trash and couldn't care less about anyone they employ.
thats while. walmart be dumb af for doing that
the fact she has multiple kids and this is how she treats them is scary. no kid should be raised in an environment like that
*SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* 🤣
A *cancer* on society.
Very true! Both her and CPS are to blame. The system is extremely overwhelmed, but the fact that she accurately listed what's viewed as the bare necessities is beyond frightening. I'm really hoping that things change for the better. I just wonder what happened to her children when she went to jail
Smh poor kids with a mother like that they don’t stand a chance
CPS is just a tax funded money sink they purposely do less than bare minimum just to absorb more tax money.
Correct and those two others (3yr old + 5 MONTH old), were left home, alone, while she took this poor baby out in no clothes! Thank goodness they’re no longer with her.
_However,_ two are with her mother and if she raised her to be like this, those babies _still_ don’t have a chance! Hopefully she’s a better choice and actually limits the amount she can see her children (because we know that usually isn’t the case).
That's because he's been abused. He's severely neglected. That's why he's so docile. Anything that inconveniences her will cause him pain.
This is what happens when you profitize children.
lol he’s a child 😂
@@Michael-mt6yb your point is what, exactly?
That kid isn't well behaved. He's dissociated. He's probably learned to cope like that a while ago.
Or the start of hypothermia!!!
As a former healthcare professional and soon to be trauma therapist, you’re correct! The child has been neglected so badly from day one, that he learned that crying is not going to help him at all, so he gave up and just take the abuse cuz he has no other choice if he wants to survive. I hope she stays in jail for a long time.
@@analozada9475yep I know the signs all too well,
@@analozada9475 jail time? never gonna happen. unless the child is either killed or attempted this type of abuse will never put a mother behind bars. a father the other hand. gez he'll be set behind bars for a decade or two. i bet that women has multiple fathers to likely getto daddies.
@@Looshfarmer Don't underestimate how tough, the human body is.
I got an adopted little sister that we adopted from a poor orphanage in Nigeria (before anyone asks we're all Nigerian, my parents never had a daughter ) when she first came into our home, I was surprised how calm she was, she'd never cry unless we missed her meal time which was precise on the dot. After a couple days, I realized that in her case it wasn't neglect per say, it's just that the orphanage was so full of kids and understaffed that the babies would only be fed and cared to at precise times, 3 times a day. She had never had someone react directly to her when she expressed any signs of discomfort (crying) so she never did, it wasn't because she was calm. After a few mounths with all of that had gon away. So that child's apathy really reminded me of my sister and nearlly broke my heart. It's apathy born from a deep form of neglect. I pray he got in a better situation. Sorry for the long tirade.
Did your sisters behavior change after a few months living with you guys? Just curious
@@daughterofthemosthigh3417 yes it does with time. As a bond and connection is created. Comfort is built in and kids revert back to their default behaviour with a bit of
✨ trauma ✨
Why clarify you all Nigerian? Would it be wrong in your view for a non Nigerian to take her in?
@@vorbo01 don't let the story be for what it is. We all know why she added that because of bs questions that would follow. Don't start the bs.
Thank you for sharing
This happened in Byram MS. The kid showed up in only a diaper. The black thing he's sitting on is a hoodie that a stranger took off and gave the kid. The police caught her outside and arrested her. She has 3 kids. All of them were removed for now. It was 12F outside during an ice storm. Normal winter temperatures are 50F in the winter. The person filming is a Walmart worker. They fired her. She has a GoFundMe.
Link it
@@narutolol3199links don't work on RUclips anymore. They get shadowed. Gotta Google it my dude.
Thanks for the overview. I just don't the stomach to go looking for those details myself
@@narutolol3199 I don't have a link but it's been on the news and at least a dozen RUclips pages. Pink book lessons is one with more of the video and a news report.
The mother posted bail Tuesday morning. claiming that the Walmart worker ruined her life. SMH
as a mother this breaks my heart. you can tell he has suffered so much more abuse at her hands by the way he was reacting. he was frozen. Jesus please wrap your arms around this child.
bless that womans heart. it must have killed her seeing a kid neglected when her own had already passed, people are fucking crazy.
She didn't bring it up at the store while speaking on camera. I feel like a self absorbed person would do that. But she didn't. Her only concern was the well being of the other child. Bless her. And my condolences. Man, that was so sad to learn.
I saw that poor baby in the picture on her wall and prayed my immediate thoughts were wrong. The strength that woman had is just... I hope she understands how good she is.
Bro…She comes off as a satirical character from the Boondocks. 💀
she'd be like cristal.
Stinkmeaners BM 😂
if boondocks comes back theyll have enough viral ratchet content for 10 seasons with 24 hours long episodes and even a couple movies.
My heart goes out to the woman who posted the update video. She lost her own baby, then tries to save a neglected baby and people giving her hate? God bless this woman please 😢❤ she seems kind and genuine
Andddd she lost her job for what she did. IN F.. SANE.🤯
@@lucomvalius3572 that's terrible 😭 I hope she finds a new workplace with morals
A bird helping a bird what a coincidence😂
She got arrested. Thank god.
The black females that were giving the lady hate for helping that child are the real reason why we are getting no where with our social justice issues in todays culture. We lack accountability. Why can’t we as black people call out our own?! Ignore abuse so you can feel like a “true supporter of black women “ what about a supporter for black lives? That child also matter.
Where are the black females giving the Walmart lady hate?
deadass
@@tikifreaky5204Preach literally called it out.
The same reason why people championed OJ for killing two people and cheered when he was found not guilty. Eye for an eye crab mentality. "White people did it so why cant we"
Eh I live rural, only dark complexion girls I know are working class daughters that are very humble. I’ve only really endeared trailer park women acting like this.
Shoutout to the lady in the electric wheelchair and the woman who called the cops. That baby deserves better.
The kid isn't well behaved, he's traumatized. I can only imagine the abuse this kid suffers behind closed doors from a parent with so little humanity in them they would see no wrong treating a child this way in public.
When I was younger a church member mentally and physically abused her 8-year-old son and everyone knew. The way she unabashedly spoke of her treatment of him was always met with silence and I doubt anyone even scolded her for it.
Years later I found out from another church goer that he committed suicide when he was 18. Why was an abuser's feelings considered more important than a child's torment, and his future? Get involved, people. CPS isn't perfect but many parents are worse.
Thank you for your comment, my mother had mental illness and no one ever check to see if I was okay. I made it by the grace of God and He rescued me when I was forgotten and abused. Praise God 🙌
@@ruthhailu9886Your god has failed many
@@NoIdea68 so has the world 🤷♀️
A man bought the clothes and the older woman put them on the baby. Two amazing human beings. ❤
7:33 This is a sign that the kid has screamed and cried and no one has listened or responded only negatively. He’s learned his voice and actions won’t be listened to regardless. 😞
8:01 Preach knowing 30 seconds later, of course haha
So many children in this situation and they rarely get help because people think Mothers can do no wrong until it's too late.
Yep, nobody want to talk about females creating *single mother homes* so children will keep suffering.
True as this is. We need to make a change a some point. Men we gotta stop sleeping with crazy women. We know they crazy too and still. As a dad I know where my kids are at all times. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Everyone needs to be accountable here. Because ain’t no way I’m letting that lady do my son like that. Even if I hated her I can’t let me kids go out like that.
No because Noone actually helps mothers and there are close to no recourcess.
And because Noone wants to take a child away from their mother's, cause that's the most important relationship a human beeing has for his early life (if not throughout life)
And Noone also wants to help another adult. So nothing happens.
My mom used to be a CPS worker and it's true, you can really get away with crazy stuff as long as there's heating, food in the cupboards, your kid is going to school and there's no visible wounds on the child. She has stories about doing homechecks where the client is pimping out her teen daughter and there's a mountain of heroin out in the open on the coffee table: CPS still wouldn't do anything. It's insane. I'm glad they did something about this lady, at least.
I've been that kid. Mom hated my Dad so much and she took it out on me. I survived and left the house well before 18.
I just feel for the child.
Same. Congrats, bro. People wonder why I don't call her or get along with her. Her lack of accountability is horrifying.
@@LuisHernandez-jg3gusamesies. The worst is my mom's absolute different version of my childhood, according to her. Like we didn't live in the same apartment. Smh Hang in there!
Hope you're doing well!
Same here. All of it.
So sad. Some people really should not have children. There are too many children enduring these situations. Hope you’re doing better now.
The way his lip was shaking broke my heart, poor kid.
It’s a shame that some people who want to be parents can’t have kids at all and spend thousands doing IVF. But there are people who don’t deserve to be parents who can have kids so easily and treat their kids like this. Life is cruel sometimes.
I told my sister the same thing.
No facts, my wife and I want kids so bad and have issues having them but I see this mess and jus lose faith completely that parents like this can have kids.
It just breaks my heart man
I just had my miracle daughter 2 weeks ago through ivf and I adore every breath she takes so it saddens me that she's treating her baby like this
It's never been about wanting to have kids. If this woman wanted kids he wouldn't be in this situation. Some people just dont believe in abortion so they live with it, but don't actually take care of the kid. Kids for a lot of people are a means to an end.
As a parent, who actually took in my teenage daughter’s friend when her mom went to prison. I will say this loud and clear “It takes a village to raise a child” we don’t leave kids behind. You see a kid in a bad situation help them, they will remember. Glad they called the cops and got this child out of a bad situation.
That poor child was so calm because he was dissociating. This is trauma response to fight or flight. Heartbreaking
Just my experience from my nearly 3 years in foster care as a teenager, in rural Kentucky they have alot of elderly foster parents that get into fostering for the money and most of the time they used us for labor, farm work, yard work, etc. With the stipulation that if you DIDNT comply, youd be moved farther from your original home, school, friends, etc. into the backwoods and youd never see your friends/ family as often, if ever. Or theyd threaten to throw you in a group home where they KNOW the kids are abused. Needless to say, they emancipated me at 17 and put me on the street. Here I am at 32 now, in a new world that I've watched quickly change over the years and all I can say is, I wish I had the recording technology of today, back then. People are so surprised that stuff like this happens, not knowing how truly frequent it is but how rarely its ever called it out. And the few that did were told to, "Mind their business." Well, sometimes, not minding your business can save a childs life. Props to the woman that called the cops knowing the stigma that comes with that in her case. People are just lost. Ignorant.
Hey. I hope you’re doing OK out there.
Twerking must be a new defense system or something 😂
Uncle Ruckus from the Boondocks warned us about tactics like this.
@@bigmel26women ☕️...
It's a signal of damn crazy is what tf it is.
I didn’t know I was gonna laugh yet here I am dying laughing 😂😂😂😂
That mother behaved like the ones that end up starving their own child to death. Thank goodness for the people who called the police for that child.
Sad The Walmart employee was fired and then the mom has the audacity to come on social media and say she's lost 10 pounds since the incident because her child was taken away from her. But doesn't provide any context as to why the child had on what they were wearing in the first place. And saying that she's taking donations to be able to see her child. Do you really even deserve to see your child at this point like I am very confused.
She's just looking to milk the situation that's all.
Where on social media, a friend of mine wants to tell her about herself
I'm surprised she hasn't accused her critics of some "ism"
@@bobdollaz3391probably because not all black people use the race card
Unfortunately, you have to remember that Walmart is a business first. They put their perception above true morale. Also, I believe if the employee had just recorded the incident and not post it on IG, she would still have her job. Mind you, the mother would've blamed her online, as she did, but anytime you work for a corporation, you need to understand that they don't care about you or your image - it's all about how you make them look. Truly disgusting if you ask me.
So the fact that the Walmart employee was FIRED for reporting child abuse is the WILDEST shit I've ever heard.
These companies will let someone get murdered in their store, just don't record, report, or intervene if you work there 😬
They fired her for posting the video not for reporting the incident.
I dont have a high opinion of walmart, as ive worked there for alittle under 2 years about 11 years ago. They treat their employees like ripe steaming dog waste. I wouldnt be surpised if the real reason they terminated her has to do with them being afraid of loseing out on money from this one customer and her being the reason for it.
@@mariahjordan5232
Is that supposed to make their actions more acceptable?
@@derschwarzgeistExactly
@@derschwarzgeist not saying I agree with that but that’s why
as a poor mexican growing up in Texas my mom used to have us walking around as penguins when we were little while she could barely afford a light sweater for herself freezing. my mom went above and beyond, i dont see how parents can be like this.
There is a difference between being an actual parent and just having kids. Your mom was a parent. This lady was just a person who used her eggs to have a kid that's all.
This 403 hates this baby
@GiftsAmimalsGiveUs no she is a mother like most of these bad mothers out here now.
That's because you had a mother who did her utmost to be your caregiving parent.
That woman in the video has no business being in your mother's league.
@@rustyhowe3907 nah she is a mother like everyone else.
As a new mom stories like this hit way different than they ever have before. I lost it when that sweet lady showed up and started dressing him. God bless that kid.
Someone rescue this kid please. I’m not even a minute in and I’m already pissed
Buckle up cause it gets worse...😢
*SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* 🤣
A *cancer* on society.
Prayers for that boy and his siblings
He’s in state custody now
@@luluisfunnyhe’s with his dad, actually. Or the sibling is with his dad now.
Call the Police, that is child abuse and CPS needs to be notified.
A family mamber got the child and it's a guarantee she got him back through them smdh
Good news! She was arrested and now facing child neglect charges
It's okay because she has a fire extinguisher...
🤦🏿♂️
No shit????
CPS won't do jack, they're about as useful as a balloon in a tornado
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child. 🥺
Its heartbreaking to see this
2:28- "How you gone tell me...? With my multiple kids I'm clearly succeeding!" 😂😂😂😂
Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father - Preach.
Hmmmm....... Do you think mothers ever become toxic because of absent fathers?
Just sayin
(Not that an absent father situation would justify this by any means. Putting clothes on your kid is day one chit)
So she will be charged with neglect but the father won't be a charged with straight up...... Abandonment
@@stepfaniehawkins205. Modern woman in general want to live that luxury lifestyle and sometimes the absent father can’t adhere to. Most of the time folks blame the absent father but in reality it’s most independent s woman that act like 304 because they know the court system will 100% side with the woman. Most of the time men are to deal with way more just because woman open there legs for anyone
@@stepfaniehawkins205 - Nah, that ain't cutting it.
@@stepfaniehawkins205
I think sometimes they might. And I think sometimes they take out their issues with the father on the kid.
@@d2dar459yea that’s what happened with me, and she wonders y I don’t care if she’s sick or in a problem, problem is that woman and my mother are selfish and put themselves before the child
Well behaved sometimes means traumatized.
That was just a dimb comment by Aba anyway.
The kid wasn't being "well behaved". The kid was cold, freezing. Babies obviously aren't equipped to handle incredibly high or incredibly lower temperatures. They're still growing.
@@anonymousbo0318 man I just feel bad for little dude.
@@anonymousbo0318i think the sentiment is that kids who usually come from parents like this are just as bad if not worse . They usually join in the on the parents bullshit. Especially traumatised kids.
@@kidsyxnot at this age
I was a very quiet and stoic child. People liked to claim it was because I was well-behaved. In reality I was exhausted and jaded. Home was war, day in day out.
I haver never seen Aba so angry.
I understand the "seeing something so insane you just have to vent by moving and doing something ANYTHING"
I was thinking he was personalizing it. I believe Aba said he has nieces that visit and he helps take care of them. And he LOVES his family.
Any decent human beings would be pissed at this
@@andrewmilton4679 That is exactly it.
I was watching a donut operator video.
I wont even tell you the context beyond that.
I experienced blind rage for the first time in my life.
Like legit 2 seconds in my life I was not conscious or in control. It is like they didn't happen.
"One kid, oh so you don't understand"
"Perhaps not, but I'm sure the police and the judge will understand just fine."
It's not over for that kid. That woman is going to make him pay for embarrassing her.
Kid was taken away n sent to another family member
@murdahmammiez they are going n g to give him back to her because they are family
@@frontin2he has been given to family. That makes it harder for the trash mom to get custody back. The other kids have also been taken too.
This other lady crying made me tear up. God bless her .
I saw this the other day. They fired the Walmart employee. Like I just don’t understand how you can bring your shivering cold kid to a Walmart like that. It’s just disgusting behavior.
11:00 and not even just that SHE THREW FROZEN FOOD ON HIMMMMMMM I’m pissed off
I worked for CPS and don't have kids. Trash parents would throw that, "How you gonna tell me what to do with no kids?" line at me all the time.
In my head I was like, "We gonna be in the same boat with no kids soon once we sever your rights 😗"
Have to ask, how many children did you help abduct from good homes for your bonuses. The people aren't ignorant of the children for pay system. Were you ever ordered or did you lie and exaggerate on reports to have poor peoples children trafficked to farmers for hard labor?? Or into "good people's" hands that rape and abuse em because they have no paternal bond with em. It's a fact 90% of children taken by the state are more mistreated than the family ever would have allowed. And we know you ignore the constitution too.
@@screweverything2215 Bonuses? Honey, we shoulda had a 15-20 family case load, and most of us were running 40. Pay raises were set by the state. I worked for 4 years and got a "cost of living adjustment", never a raise. I worked EVERY holiday for those 4 years because everyone was so busy and no one else had time to cover my visits.
I have problems with the system too (without citing whatever 90% bogus number you just threw out), but most of those problems come from the fact that it is severely UNDERSTAFFED and UNDERFUNDED. I wish investigations could CSI-level factfind on every referral. I wish we could have given poor parents the financial support they needed to get on their feet. I wish I could have paid for my heroin addict parents rehab instead of basically saying, "Go to TASC, here are some treatment options we know you can't afford, and good luck." But I was a caseworker, not a miracleworker..
So I'm gonna need you to take that energy to the politicians who underfund critical systems and the powers that be, not a former caseworker who made 50k a year and still has PTSD from the stuff I saw.
Whaaaaaa!!! Mic drop
😂😂😂
Too bad RUclips is censoring it and no one can see it!!!
Not everyone deserves to be a mother. This video broke my heart
*single mother behavior* EVERYWHERE 💊
Fatherless runaway dads everywhere too 😔
@@RandomNoob1124one guy vs 10 women? Yeah ok
@@NoFreedoms-f1d in a fist fight? Uhm... okay. I'm putting my money on the guy
@@youtubestudiosucks978 well he fits all of the ten while the other 9 guys had to take left overs or go over seas.
I used to volunteer for those in need. I’ve seen kids like this- when they are 2,3,4 coming from neglect and abuse DO NOT REACT or cry just like this baby. God bless these good Samaritans . F you, Walmart.
God bless you. That made a difference for those children. I wish I could hug those babies and let them know they are important.
I remember preach saying in a video last year that most adults don’t want to be parents, they just want to have kids. That statement is applicable to this. Sad and crazy.
If you didt notice at 0:13 The lady literally just tosses the frozen food onto her sons knees into the shopping cart...
That kid has unfortunately seen some things....
and notice that even though the food is cold, her son didn't even push it away.
I wish his situation will be resolved and have a happy ending but i don't believe it.
I'm here feeding my baby and just started crying less than a minute in. I struggled to get pregnant. STRUGGLED! Meanwhile this sweet face baby is cold and mistreated. Breaks my heart. I hope somebody gives this baby real love and security 🙏🏽
@@JanieGotAPun it's not the baby's fault to be born, they have no choice or control about that. It's the parents. However, seeing that some people dehumanize babies or infant, and having no problem 'killing' (abortion) them, treating them like somekind of property or item attachement, it's telling me a lot about the state of humanity in general.
Why society treating babies, or kids, or teenagers like mini adult nowadays?
At the time I saw the baby shivering in cold, only wearing diapers and trash bag, my heart just ache. THE BABY IS IN COLD!! An obvious abuse and neglect seeing in our own eyes!
Women ☕️...
@@aubreysong not like mini adults. Like property. Claiming they have no agency until magic number birthday. Claiming that adults can do to them whatever they want, they should just be grateful for being brought into this world.
Claiming their life means absolutely nothing if it causes any sort of imposition to the mother.
This legal system was written by adults, but not "for the children". So many aspects harm infants, chiIdren and teenagers.
Here's a messed up example: if a chiId or teen has a se×ual encounter with someone, and mutually agrees to it (I'd use cønsent but technically that's a legal term), they generally won't be traumatised, as is the case with adults on adults. However, through societal programming and beliefs, they will have it drilled into them that they have been abūsed. They will keep being told this until they're traumatised and actually believe it (because this good thing is now bad, so everything's on its head), and then they can be put through the system, where many psychiatrists and pharmacists can make money from this.
And there's so much programming in the modern world that people believe "chiIdren can't cønsent" is some kind of biological truth. But actually, it's about the same as "breakfast is the most important meal of the day".
The crazy part about this when I was on tik tok people were trying to defend her on tik tok live 🤦🏽♂️ . “Oh she might be going thru mental issues blah blah”. Ok if she got mental issues why is she out shopping alone with none of her family members??? People will make excuses for people they don’t know and I will never understand why 🙄 🤦🏽♂️. Everyone wants to protect this woman but don’t want to protect this baby boy. Then they will bring up CPS and how bad the system is (yes it’s true) but if this wasn’t happening we wouldn’t need to call the calls Cops/CPS 🤦🏽♂️. I guess people just want us to mind our own business and when that child comes up dead then it will be like “OH WHY DIDNT ANYONE HELP THAT LITTLE BOY!!! REST IN PEACE LITTLE MAN!!”
Probably alot of people wanting to justify their own shitty treatment of their children with piss poor excuses.
@@metalteuffel2484 I really do think this is it. No one defends shitty behavior unless they're guilty of it too. They're not defending the woman's actions, they're defending THEIR actions cause they know they're doing the same shit.
CPS saved mine and my siblings life. People who say don't call when they see abuse or neglect are almost always doing something wrong.
Unprovoked twerking should affect your credit score
😂😂😂
Lmaooo
She has no credit or credibility for as I'm concerned!!!🎭🎭🎭
I'm a mother of 2 amazing kids. This video hurt me, deep down into my soul. This isn't just about the poor little guy in the trash bag. This is a representation of this mother's priorities, her lack of care, thought processes (or lack thereof), her narcissism, cruelty, lack of empathy, and her unadulterated failure as a mother.
You sacrifice everything for your children. Not enough food for everyone to eat? Then you go hungry so your kids can eat. Insufficient money for clothes? Then you wear goodwill so everyone has clothes. No money for heat? Then, the kids get the blankets. The fact she so clearly habitually places her own needs in front of the needs of her children, means she is an unfit mother, who does not deserve the privilege of being a mother, and that privilege should be removed from her.
This is utterly appalling.
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Tf?? @@OliverNorth9729
Well said. I'm praying for this poor boy. He deserves so much better.
@@taram9409 Stop attacking bw. You take their men then wonder wtf is wrong wit dem????
@@OliverNorth9729 What the fuck is wrong with you? You just gonna sit here and defend that mother? you perfect for her!
That shit made me cry as a mother I could never imagine. Kudos to that woman. I have assisted children in need and done what needed to be done and this video is so touching to see other people step in because too many parents don’t deserve their kids, use their children to project stuff, fulfill a hole they have and don’t actually take care of them. KUDOS TO THAT COMMUNITY HELPING PROTECT THAT CHILD. How complacent they were, exactly what preach said. They’ve been through some shit this can’t be the first instance of neglect.
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I went shopping yesterday at Walmart and my four year old, who was already wearing her jacket, said her butt hurt from sitting in the cart. I gave her the sweater I was wearing to sit on so her butt wouldn’t hurt. If I saw she was cold or uncomfortable, I would give her all of the clothes off of my back. This mother should be ashamed and embarrassed. And bless those sweet people who helped that poor baby. What a cruel world.
A moment of respect also for the lady putting the clothes on the baby and the man that also helped out, bless their hearts.
People act like child protective services is worse than neglect and abuse that could end up in the kid dying or being severely traumatized.
Liam Fee, Star Hobson, Arthur Hughes and Eli Hart are all kids who died because CPS failed them.
Because the parents/stepparents were pure evil
Sometimes, it is, and that is what's so difficult about finding genuine help for children. "Helping" is a pedos/abusers way in the door. They don't help, they help themselves. There are many reasons why people have that view of CPS.
@@exuberanttarot I get that cps can put kids in more dangerous situations, but that's really with older children, but that's more of a bag of worms where the parent takes care of the kid, but doesn't really know what to do with them because they were too much of a bad role model to be around a mini-me. Adoption agencies are a lot more stringent when it comes to babies that age who would bond easily with a new parent. Also, being molested is unironically better than being in this woman's care. Babies die when they're in the cold without a jacket. This kid may not make it on the way home. My mom worked as a child advocate who works with cps and you'd be suprised how many times they show up to try to help out the "surviving" children. Way more than what gets on the news. Frankly, I think the problem with cps is that there really just aren't enough workers so each worker has like 20 cases going at a time who all need therapy and just a whole slew of legal problems. Just one case with 2 grade school age siblings involved 1. dealing with the drug-addicted mother, 2. fighting off the grandmother 3. sewing the grandfather for molestation 4. trying to reach one of the baby dads for child support who was a pimp and denied being the dad but ended up getting run over by a car by his new gf in a mall parking lot and his family not wanting to do a dna test on his remains. This was an easy case too, where the kid was willing to work with authorities and live life on the straight and narrow. Like, none of these kids are in a simple situation, and multiplying that x20 is hard for one person.
Well seeing as if the child ends up in Foster care yea it can be even worse. As a ton of these people doing it for a pay check and have no need for emotional attachment. And will abandoned said child at 18 easily with no help. CPS isn’t the issue its the issue that after being taken away from the parents they either end up in the same toxic family or end up most likely with a foster family that’ll down right basically do the same and get paid.
@gucciguy3408 you have no idea what you're talking about though. My wife used to work for DCFS. At around 17 they help the kids get jobs and their own apartments so they can live by themselves. And still check on them after.
The most annoying thing is how bundled up this mom was. Sweater boots jeans hat.. and a damn diaper only for the kid.
Woman needs prison time!!!
Also, what the child is wearing is her jacket. She only put her jacket on him once people started saying something.
YUP
*SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* 🤣
A *cancer* on society.
@@ashtonv1730wasn't her coat. Bystander gave it to the kid before the other stranger bought some clothes for the kid to wear.
@kopykat6843 wow, horrible, i missed that part, knew about the lady buying him clothes though.
Poor baby shivering in cold 😢💔 is she hate her baby or what?? No emotional connection at all.
My heart breaks for the children out there that go through life with parents like this..
As someone who was taken away from their family as a preteen by the state - it was the best thing that ever happened to me and I thank God for those people who intervened. Idk how anyone in their right mind can be upset with this employee or those folks for trying to help a baby who was suffering and incapable of helping themselves.
About 10 years ago, my mother called cps on my sister because she had left all 5 of her children with us after saying she would be back with donuts.... She didn't come back for 5 months.... (We wish we could have taken care of them but we already lived on disability because my mom is deaf and half blind, and i was 18 & had just started my first job at subway at the time and lived in a small trailer home in the IE CA.) CPS put them in foster home. Not 1 month later, The eldest, was taken in by her father which apparently was well off (Which took us by surprise because we were always told he didn't want anything to do with her, she was 7). The other 4 children were adopted TOGETHER into a beautiful and caring home & my mom and I still live close to all 5 and I am so glad to see they are all growing up in such a healthy environment.
The system is not always bad.
What happened to your sister if you don’t mind me asking?
@@Aaron-zt5ee She ran off with some druggie, still with him to this day. :c We've tried to help but this past year, i think her mentals too long gone.
Also had a kid with him was put up for adoption right away, never met her or know of her whereabouts... Shes probably 5 years old now...
@@Baenannashake Damn, sorry to hear that. I hope she gets help.
The diaper at that age just says she doesn't give a damn about that child.
Same thing I thought
Or, if the kid has cognitive issues/is disabled and can't go without a diaper, that might be one reason for her cruelty (I don't think thats the case here tho. hopefully its not). Some parents treat their disabled children HORRIFICALLY, with targeted malice. I took care of a little girl about that age with lots of physical and mental disabilities, and her mother would at best completely ignore her and at worst abuse her verbally and physically, sometimes even withhold food, while treating her other more 'normal' kids decently. She was always dirty, usually had diaper rashes, and all her medical needs were ignored, resulting in illness/infections, just because her mother was disgusted by her. Some people are just monsters, and they make up their own reasons for being cruel
I thought the kid looked a little old for diapers but I'm terrible at aging people
I thought i was the only one thinking that kid was too big to be in diapers .it could be a special need child
You can wear a diaper and be 12 or 18 year old lol
This breaks my fucking heart dude! As a father this disturbs me to my core. I hope the kid is put into a home that cares for him they way he should be cared for, and that lady gets put away for a long time.
Bro the lady in the wheelchair is doing more than the mother who’s just sitting on her phone doing nothing.
Yeah that part made this situation even more fucked up. Complete strangers showing this kid more care and attention then his supposed "mother".
My wife and I have been trying to start a family for years, 3 failed fertility treatments later, this breaks my heart. I would adopt this boy in a heartbeat and give him the loving home he deserves
She not for the streets, she's for the dirt road.
nope, she's for the bin
She can be the speed bump
@@nobodylmportant don’t insult the homeless. Remember the case where the mother discarded her new born baby in the trash? It was a homeless woman who found the baby and sheltered them in her arms while someone else contacted police. Nah don’t group her with the homeless like that, she’s worse.
As someone living in a rural area. Nah, she for the sewage drains.
She’s for the dump.
So when we see calm kids like this, we often times associate it with them just being, “well behaved”. Well when kids aren’t acting like kids, it’s honestly a cause for concern. Some kids really are just chill and they’re fine, but a lot of the times it’s due to abuse and their first thought is always to just keep it cool or else my abuser will abuse me again. That kid is for sure calm and, “well behaved”, out of fear. I hope that kid gets the type of love he deserves.
Every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid.
My toddler woke up cold and shivering from wetting his bed and it broke my heart. She had no emotions to seeing her baby like that. It was like a game to her. Pure heartless and evil... Her family even tried to defend her actions afterwards! And sadly they have that baby now... I pray God keeps protecting him 🙏🏿
It's not a trash bag. It's a customer's jacket. This child needs a real parent
Unfortunately they don't even have a parent.
The kids screwed. R.i.p.
… and then the heifer threw bags of frozen food on him in the buggy … like how much of a piece of shit can one be so openly in public? Makes you fear what the kid is exposed to and experiences at home.
It was a trash bag and a worker BOUGHT HIM CLOTHES!!
@@ldf.4 I looked at the trash bag, and it appears more like it might be a Yeezy jacket that has the trash bag aesthetic inspiration to be honest if you look really closely at it… Part of what helps makes this observation noticeable is if you look at the jacket around the kids neck, it looks like the shape of a collar and trash bags typically don’t have collars, but jackets do
@@ldf.4 You're really emotional and it was a puffy jacket, they say it in the beginning of the video. Calm down.
That woman who helped did amazing, God bless her. She should not be shamed. People often turn their heads away when seeing neglected or abused children. And many of those kids lose their health or life later
This is the worst kind of abuse.
That’s the stuff that will ruin that little guys life!
I’m hella proud of everyone who stepped up!
Find a person that treats their child poorly, then see how they act when you call them a bad parent. They will want to fight you.
Fighting solves their issue by ignoring their child like always
SHE DIDN’T EVEN HOLD HIM IN HER ARM TO WARM HIM UP😭😭😭😭😢
I've observed mothers punishing their children in the past due to conflicts with their children's fathers, much like the situation with this woman.
*single mother behavior* 🤷🏼
@@DTreatzno that’s not single mother behavior. I foster by myself and never have I ever allowed any child to be out like that. My mother went without so we could have.
She is not mother!
@@allthatsheizno, it is single mother behavior
@@NoFreedoms-f1d women who treat their kids like a furniture, attached item, something like that, is not a mother.
A mother would go into a fire and giving her life to save you.
Women who using her womb to get food coupon (read: kids) or child support money, is not a mother. But slave master.
As a mother, this made me cry for that baby. Smh
I get so sick of that "if you don't have kids then you can't talk" type mentality. You don't have to be actively raising a child in order to understand things like basic decency, empathy, foresight, patience, fundamental communication skills, etc. Sometimes people just want to make excuses instead of accepting the reality that they need to improve.
They forget we all were children and actually had parents too that gave the good example :)
"I'm not a pilot, but if I see a plane in a tree I know somebody done fucked up."
"You don't have kids, so you don't understand!"
"Here's the thing. I've never flown a helicopter. If I saw one in a tree, I could still be like, 'Dude f***ed up.'"
- Steve Hofstetter
Eww that guy stinks
This is like a parent eating a sandwich while giving their starving child a piece of gum... I am shaking with rage right now.
This video was too much😭💔 I have been crying lots from news about children of gaza 🇿🇦💔
The older I get the more thankful I am for my parents.
Truth. My mom was a great mother even though she didn't had a happy life. I wish I had more time with her but I'm grateful she was my mom. Watching this kid just breaks my heart.
Parents... a single father would be better than a single mother
@@NoFreedoms-f1d you need both. A functional and healthy (physically and mentally) father and mother, to develop a strong mental fortitude basic.
A lot of parents these days don't even know or clueless how to survive the life. In that condition, they also have to teach their kids how to survive the life. You can predict the result.
@@aubreysong you need a father more than a mother.
I grew with cps...they gave me common sense,love and many opportunities.I traveled for the first time with my foster family,they raised me from 7 to 16 with 7 other teenagers and im gratefull they saved me and give me great education.this child is gonna be safe with cps trust me..he will be fed,clothed,educated and loved by the foster family.not all foster families do wrong,not all blood relatives can be trusted.
You came here for 🅱️🅱️C.
@@OliverNorth9729 niet..voir que jrepond a ste connerie la le pire 😑
@@Mlem1918 How?🤣🤣
I almost had cps take me away when i was a kid, and its still the biggest what if to me. I dont know too much about how they treat their children but i do feel you might be one of the luckier stories. Either way im glad you got a good experience
@@leanio8740 it is always a what if frpm case to case,I got lucky to be in the best foster family in canada 2012.my brother was less lucky and went to a center(alot of kids there had behavior issues).plus i had friends with fosters who did it for the money.if the children have good social workers they will be oky
It's wild how different the comment sections on RUclips and Instagram are. I originally saw this on majority of the comments I saw were defending/ excusing the mother. With some even demonizing the bystanders for getting the child clothes.
The amount of people on Twitter and TikTok defending her was heartbreaking bruh. Just because she’s a black woman, you’re not allowed to criticize her. Doesn’t matter if she’s harming a child or not.
As a black woman and a mother of a 3 year old son trust me I'm not one of those people I'm completely disgusted!!!! And anybody defending her are probably just as psychotic as she is!! there is absolutely NO reason at any time should a child be out in public with just a diaper on, no matter what the weather is!!!!