Healing from Parental Incarceration | Nicole Ausmer | TEDxCincinnatiWomen

When a parent goes to prison the child is left behind to mourn the dream of a different life. With more than 2.7 million children living with a parent in prison Dr. Nicole Ausmer wants to create a space for them to heal and grieve the loss of a parent. Children of incarcerated parents have unique social and emotional needs and they are an after thought in society. It is time to make a change. Kupona! Learn more: nicoleausmer.w... Hailing from Lorain, Ohio, Dr. Nicole Ausmer currently works in Higher Education. She is a 3-time graduate of the University of Cincinnati with degrees in Psychology and Education. An aspiring author and co-owner of Alex and Aus Apparel Company, Nicole considers herself a creative. In the fall of 2018 she launched her stage show Mommin' Ain't Easy Cincy that allowed women to share stories of love, laughter, trials, and tribulations when it comes to motherhood. The success of her stage show inspired Nicole to pursue her current project. Nicole is working on a book about the effects of parental incarceration on children and a non-profit called Kupona Kids. Kupona means to recover in Swahili. Nicole wants to provide a space of healing for children who experienced childhood trauma from the stigma associated with a parent in prison. Nicole is the wife of Lionell Ausmer Jr. and the mom of Avery and Jackson. To learn more about Nicole visit: nicoleausmer.w... This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@brylaw]

I can't believe that there aren't more people talking about this! My father has been in prison for the majority of my life, and it is a unique experience. There absolutely should be more resources for children navigating the big feelings that come along with parental incarceration.

[@richelletvforyou8324]

Hi, I am working to serve children in this space. Any chance I could gain some insight from you? -Richelle

[@celestej9812]

@@richelletvforyou8324 still need info?

[@melissacoleman3804]

I find it so hard to write my dad in prison and even harder to even open and read letters from him! I feel like the worse daughter in the world! Anyone else feel this way or is it just me?? Much LOVE !

[@Jana-ln2wv]

Perhaps your pain could serve others in your future. It's okay to have feelings, you are not a robot.

[@kaylene_gramps_medina_307]

Me too girl

[@MeatloafCreep]

My dad was locked up for 7 years and he went away when I was like 4? We used to do cassette tapes and letters. It was so awkward how a tape player and piece of paper was "my dad." It's ok if you feel this way, and don't know what to say. We're not supposed to even be put in that situation. Just do what you think is best for you and sometimes there really isn't anything to say. Good luck 🤞

[@blacklollypop8551]

My dad has been in jail since I was 10 I am now 27 and he’s still in there. I didn’t even really realize how much it’s affected me.

[@tessaking1334]

Thank you!!! My dad was also incarcerated most of my childhood/teenage years.

[@allisonwondersgars3715]

Thanks Nicole for bringing to issue to our attention. You delivered it beautifully!

[@leffordfate2426]

Well done Nicole, this is a great talk. Thank you for working so hard to get this message out.

[@vavulvlogs5642]

Nicole, this was an amazing talk and important message and perspective. Great job

[@reginamckinney5482]

My story thank you

[@Jana-ln2wv]

❤️

[@gettingoldisnt4sissies534]

Nicole, thank you for this talk.

[@chrislah187]

Really good topic. Really good talk!

[@lchan2430]

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