1.don’t gossip 2.dont judge openly 3. Don’t over Exaggerate 4. Don’t take opinions as facts 5. Be true to yourself 6. Have integrity in your words( do what you say 7. Weave love into your words 8. Learn to shapeshift(engage your body while speaking) 9. Do things differently as you do usually 10. Journal 11.our thoughts are not always valid 12.speak with your diaphragm???13. Don’t get monotonous 14. Pace of speech should be slow 15. Don’t use filler speech 16. Warm up your voice and tongue
@@Yourlocal_Vampirelover i don’t mean to press religion on everyone, it’s just that in my religion Christianity spreading the good news or gospel of what we believe is required of every believer. But i’m sorry if i came off in a pushy way💝💝
@@iloverobbie9042 no no, I have no problem with you spreading the gospel as I am Christian myself. It's just we have to keep in mind not everyone is religious due to prior toxic Christians in a way. But continue to spread the gospel ❤️
1. be kinder and set reasonable expectations. give yourself credit. 2. create good habits and keep removing your bad habits. 3. i cannot explain this well as this isn’t something i have a strong belief in. 4-8. this: - avoid using the presentation voice for silly things. - be less judgmental. - be less negative. - stop using hyperbole. - don’t speak of opinions like they’re facts. - be honest - have integrity - put love into your words - engage your body while speaking (shows true honesty) - do things differently than usual - journal - thoughts aren’t the most valid - didn’t understand, sorry - don’t be too monotone - slow pace when talking - don’t use filler speech - warm up the voice and tongue
just stumbled upon your channel, and i felt like its a sign that i need to get out of the toxic mindset cycle i’ve been in for years. been in and out of working on my personal growth, but this is finally my sign to push past this uncomfortable feeling of change!🍀⭐️
To have articulate speaking skills, you should first believe in yourself, say positive affirmations to yourself,then u can use AI to have a small talk; avoid gossip, judge anyone, dont try to exaggerate, stories from anyone can be different, we need to accept cuz the colour also doesn't only have black and white❤
These are some good tips for chatting with someone! Especially love the beginning chapter "setting expectations", we really do set extremely high expectations when we start to talk with someone (many times its subconscious), when in fact we should really just start talking with them. nice vid Mae!
mae and thewizardliz are both carrying the light of truth in this world. Nearly everything you said parallels and is exactly what I have learned as well which means that we must be doing something right. Love the concept of neuroplasticity.
after several head injuries I'v) e had a hard time being confident in my eloquence and writing, now im realizing it is all in my head (lol) I can be helped.
In fact 🤓☝️ expressing ourselves in another language releases stress and makes us be more confident as we speak, so if you struggle talking abt your emotions in your mother tonge journaling in other language is a good option it has work for me¡!
Dropped by this video randomly but got hooked. The content and connections make you stay and actually make you understand the topic. I hope you continue with such useful content 😊😊.
I am very grateful for your videos cause every morning I start my day with your videos now I can’t afford therapist so instead I listen to you you are like my sister
I'm not good with people by a long shot, but one thing I've noticed is that you should monitor the emphasis of words you use. If you always use dramatic words like 'absolutely,' you can lose dramatic emphasis in times you need it because you condition people to expect that from you.
This is exactly what I needed Mae. Omg like spot on. I used to have 3 jobs (customer service and I was a supervisor while juggling school for nursing😭😭)and my communication skills were top tier. But after working a year of introverted job I sorta lost that ability and needed this video so much ily ily ily.
I love this channel. It is full of excellent information and doesn't meander to draw out watch times or spend the whole video trying to sell us things. I've really enjoyed watching every video, and it brought me out of my "conditioning" and got me back on track.
You know what I love your soul the effort you putted in this video is a SAVIOR act making me feel confident enough to engage in such a way I LOVE YOU FOR THAT love😭😭🙏❤
Glad this showed up in my recommendation I literally lost my communication skills because of the ppl I started surrounding myself with, they made me feel unheard that’s why I just stopped talking and gradually I lost the ability to hold a conversation and I started becoming awkward I also sounds like I’m muttering rubbish words while speaking thats why they cant hear it:((
Honestly?- life's not about "being ahead of the game". No one is competing against anyone , we are all sojourners.. fellow-comrades, one big family on earth, come from one BIG SOURCE that is full of LOVE, POWER AND ABUNDANCE! There's no competition! We are all just meant to enjoy this beautiful , exhilarating, "physical " adventure, which we call 'life' alongside each other and do so by recalling to our memory who we REALLY are - we are POWERFUL, magnificent, ABUNDANT "conscious creators". And we are all ONE at our core having different physical expressions, we are not separate in true sense. So, there's no one to get ahead of really. Rather, to just create beautiful things for our individual, beautiful expressions. This has been my greatest revelation in life, so grateful!! 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you so much for your videos, they give me so much confidence and it’s really nice to see your inputs on these topics, especially since I relate to your journey so much myself.
Affirmations work. When you start telling yourself something that feels like it isn’t true.. for example if you feel unhappy with yourself start affirming that you are that.. for example if your inner voice says you are ugly.. rewrite that and say to yourself intentionally I am beautiful. It will be silly and be very difficult to say that bc you don’t believe that but keep at it.. everyday on the way to and from work or school. Overtime you will rewire your brain and you will start feel beautiful and most likely will take steps to improve your look and also inner happiness reflects outward.
Thank you thank you! I have a hard time expressing myself and talking efficiently for what I want to say, versus what I actually say lol. I really appreciate this!!
I rarely even use youtube unless im listening to an audiobook or watching a music video but, I am so happy I stumbled across your channel! Really great advices with tangible explanations!
I'll say this skill is only as good as the message you're delivering. Can't tell you how many egomaniacs I've run into who can smooth talk their way into anything but it's of no substance in that it's only for them to hear how cool they are out loud lol.
i just found your channel, it’s only been 2 minutes but i already know i’m in love w you & your videos! thank you for dropping all these life gems i’ve got hours of level ups! ❤
Thank you for such a helpful video. I have Asberger’s syndrome and difficulty with finding words and knowing when to speak. But I have high intelligence, so it gets frustrating because people often project that I don’t have confidence. This is a work in progress it’s not my easiest skill lol.
learned a lot in this video, also found ways to relate lkike your customer service experience. I find that I am a rather anxious individual outside of work , however while working I lose most if not all sense of anxiousness or nerrvousness while speaking. Lots to digest.
I just came across your channel and I just wanted to say that I resonated with everything you said, thanks for your advice and keep going with your channel! Also pls post a makeup tutorial bc you look amazing girl!!💗
I would love to work with you one day! I have friends who calls me crazy for using our astro chart to make some decisions but you're the first one to have the same theory as me. I am currently working on trying to introduce something similar to astro chart but its from the asian culture that's been around for thousands of years
This is my first time coming across your channel and I just wanted to say you're very elegant upon first impression. It's also really easy to see that you love what you're talking about and I think that enticed me to stay and watch the whole video⭐⭐you're excellent
for anyone who isn't sure, the Einstein quote she's referring to is "doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is insanity" this is not verbatim though.
I've noticed a big difference in my cognition, focus, mood etc from taking Tria Alchemy products the past few years… There are a couple that have the neuroplasticity properties along with pineal gland support etc.. pretty awesome stuff!
Just ignore all the astrology bs and just focus on the key points of the topic of this video. Don't have to agree with everything she or anyone else says.
you brought out many great points in this bideo, like i never even thought about why i sou d so strange when i first speak but its because i didnt warm up before hand. Co grats on reaching 100k subs!❤❤
“She was saying that humans may be easily provoked by the simple use of language. Because language is frequently misused to create conflict or war. She believes that humans are unsuitable as language users.”
I guess my phone heard that awkward conversation i had earlier
SAMEE
LMAO
Haha sameee
FOR REAL
Same 😭😭
1.don’t gossip 2.dont judge openly 3. Don’t over Exaggerate 4. Don’t take opinions as facts 5. Be true to yourself 6. Have integrity in your words( do what you say 7. Weave love into your words 8. Learn to shapeshift(engage your body while speaking) 9. Do things differently as you do usually 10. Journal 11.our thoughts are not always valid 12.speak with your diaphragm???13. Don’t get monotonous 14. Pace of speech should be slow 15. Don’t use filler speech 16. Warm up your voice and tongue
Looks like someone watches TED talks
17. Be with the Lord our God❤
@@iloverobbie9042remember not everyone is religious
@@Yourlocal_Vampirelover i don’t mean to press religion on everyone, it’s just that in my religion Christianity spreading the good news or gospel of what we believe is required of every believer. But i’m sorry if i came off in a pushy way💝💝
@@iloverobbie9042 no no, I have no problem with you spreading the gospel as I am Christian myself. It's just we have to keep in mind not everyone is religious due to prior toxic Christians in a way. But continue to spread the gospel ❤️
fellow introverts, we meet again
hello mate!
😂😂😂😂
heheh
hello (shy)
lmao being an introvert is so goddamn hard 😭😭😭
once i learn to stop stuttering it's over for yall
Honestly 😂😂😂
realest💯💯
🤣🤣🤣 its the end game
lmao fr
Same here
I'M REALLY SHOCKED WITH THIS TIMING! THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR!!. thanks Mae😭🔥
yay💜!
The universe
Same for me girl!!
Me too 🥺💜
Omg same ❤😂
1. be kinder and set reasonable expectations. give yourself credit.
2. create good habits and keep removing your bad habits.
3. i cannot explain this well as this isn’t something i have a strong belief in.
4-8. this:
- avoid using the presentation voice for silly things.
- be less judgmental.
- be less negative.
- stop using hyperbole.
- don’t speak of opinions like they’re facts.
- be honest
- have integrity
- put love into your words
- engage your body while speaking (shows true honesty)
- do things differently than usual
- journal
- thoughts aren’t the most valid
- didn’t understand, sorry
- don’t be too monotone
- slow pace when talking
- don’t use filler speech
- warm up the voice and tongue
I love that we are all growing together 💞
we have a lovely community here ☺️🤍
i love this for school, i used to stutter and fumble over my thoughts while speaking to someone who is being hostile towards me.
i hate that, how is it so far
Hi I'm from Nigeria I just want to say Thank you so much ♥️
You're an angel!!
Your timing is perfect.
You know exactly what we need.
never hesitate. if you gonna speak, speak clear or they will ignore you.
just stumbled upon your channel, and i felt like its a sign that i need to get out of the toxic mindset cycle i’ve been in for years.
been in and out of working on my personal growth, but this is finally my sign to push past this uncomfortable feeling of change!🍀⭐️
CONGRATS ON REACHING 100K SUBSCRIBERS 💖
thank you!🙏
English isn't my mother tongue, and i am trying to improve my speaking skills.This is really helpful, thank you, 🙏🏻
To have articulate speaking skills, you should first believe in yourself, say positive affirmations to yourself,then u can use AI to have a small talk; avoid gossip, judge anyone, dont try to exaggerate, stories from anyone can be different, we need to accept cuz the colour also doesn't only have black and white❤
This is one of the most informative, no bs videos on communication that I have seen in a while, tysm for sharing your insights!
These are some good tips for chatting with someone! Especially love the beginning chapter "setting expectations", we really do set extremely high expectations when we start to talk with someone (many times its subconscious), when in fact we should really just start talking with them. nice vid Mae!
I don’t talk so much it actually feels like my brain is forgetting English some times, thank you for this❤
mae and thewizardliz are both carrying the light of truth in this world. Nearly everything you said parallels and is exactly what I have learned as well which means that we must be doing something right. Love the concept of neuroplasticity.
after several head injuries I'v) e had a hard time being confident in my eloquence and writing, now im realizing it is all in my head (lol) I can be helped.
Your videos are helping me improve on my self and I want to thank you.
whaattt u can donate on youtube now that's crazy
im happy it helps you! :)
She’s gooooooddd at what she does, amazing!
the cat sleeping in the background ❤0:32
after I noticed your comment, I cannot concentrate anything but the cutie cat 😂😂😂😂
In fact 🤓☝️ expressing ourselves in another language releases stress and makes us be more confident as we speak, so if you struggle talking abt your emotions in your mother tonge journaling in other language is a good option it has work for me¡!
Dropped by this video randomly but got hooked. The content and connections make you stay and actually make you understand the topic. I hope you continue with such useful content 😊😊.
this is actually something i really needed 😵💫
ALSO CONGRATS ON 100K ITS VERY WELL DESERVED!!
I am very grateful for your videos cause every morning I start my day with your videos now I can’t afford therapist so instead I listen to you you are like my sister
I'm not good with people by a long shot, but one thing I've noticed is that you should monitor the emphasis of words you use. If you always use dramatic words like 'absolutely,' you can lose dramatic emphasis in times you need it because you condition people to expect that from you.
This is exactly what I needed Mae. Omg like spot on. I used to have 3 jobs (customer service and I was a supervisor while juggling school for nursing😭😭)and my communication skills were top tier. But after working a year of introverted job I sorta lost that ability and needed this video so much ily ily ily.
I love this channel. It is full of excellent information and doesn't meander to draw out watch times or spend the whole video trying to sell us things. I've really enjoyed watching every video, and it brought me out of my "conditioning" and got me back on track.
omg when i edit podcast eps and hear all the “likes” it’s SO annoying this video is perfect timing😭
I think you're very well spoken and insightful. Your words resonate with me ❤
Wow!!!! Your subscribers are growing really fast!!! You deserve it!!! Keep inspiring and influencing us to be the best version of us!!!
You know what I love your soul the effort you putted in this video is a SAVIOR act making me feel confident enough to engage in such a way I LOVE YOU FOR THAT love😭😭🙏❤
I have an interview tomorrow so this is really helpful!
How did it go ?
Glad this showed up in my recommendation I literally lost my communication skills because of the ppl I started surrounding myself with, they made me feel unheard that’s why I just stopped talking and gradually I lost the ability to hold a conversation and I started becoming awkward I also sounds like I’m muttering rubbish words while speaking thats why they cant hear it:((
Honestly?- life's not about "being ahead of the game". No one is competing against anyone , we are all sojourners.. fellow-comrades, one big family on earth, come from one BIG SOURCE that is full of LOVE, POWER AND ABUNDANCE! There's no competition! We are all just meant to enjoy this beautiful , exhilarating, "physical " adventure, which we call 'life' alongside each other and do so by recalling to our memory who we REALLY are - we are POWERFUL, magnificent, ABUNDANT "conscious creators". And we are all ONE at our core having different physical expressions, we are not separate in true sense. So, there's no one to get ahead of really. Rather, to just create beautiful things for our individual, beautiful expressions. This has been my greatest revelation in life, so grateful!! 🥰🥰🥰
First time watching her the intro definitely was made smartly!! It’s ear catching Thanks
I was looking for this just before school starts
"You're more smarter than you think". I personally felt it
this is the most beautiful human i’ve ever seen
I seen better(yes you asked)
truly
@@apparition149no. they didn’t
I love how she added subtitles too bcz I can't understand English when I hear so subtitles helps me😂💗
Girl your cat is so cute and thank for telling me I needed this
Congrats on exactly 100 k subscribers!! Also thanks for this video, it came at the perfect time as I am trying to work on this =)
Communication can be simple but language can be complex periodt ✨🎀
Thank you so much for your videos, they give me so much confidence and it’s really nice to see your inputs on these topics, especially since I relate to your journey so much myself.
Affirmations work. When you start telling yourself something that feels like it isn’t true.. for example if you feel unhappy with yourself start affirming that you are that.. for example if your inner voice says you are ugly.. rewrite that and say to yourself intentionally I am beautiful. It will be silly and be very difficult to say that bc you don’t believe that but keep at it.. everyday on the way to and from work or school. Overtime you will rewire your brain and you will start feel beautiful and most likely will take steps to improve your look and also inner happiness reflects outward.
Thank you thank you! I have a hard time expressing myself and talking efficiently for what I want to say, versus what I actually say lol. I really appreciate this!!
CONGRATULATIONS ON 100K !!! ❤❤❤❤ LOVE YOU
Let it out. If you store it up, you are a ticking time-bomb. Just release emotions as they pass. Express yourself.
MOTHERR THANK YOU
I rarely even use youtube unless im listening to an audiobook or watching a music video but, I am so happy I stumbled across your channel! Really great advices with tangible explanations!
I'll say this skill is only as good as the message you're delivering. Can't tell you how many egomaniacs I've run into who can smooth talk their way into anything but it's of no substance in that it's only for them to hear how cool they are out loud lol.
this comment is so spot on
your channel is exploding. very happy for you!
Mae!! Congratz on reaching 100k!! YOU DID IT!!
i just found your channel, it’s only been 2 minutes but i already know i’m in love w you & your videos! thank you for dropping all these life gems i’ve got hours of level ups! ❤
Love the way you put across everything you want to say, more power to you Mae❤
Thank you for such a helpful video. I have Asberger’s syndrome and difficulty with finding words and knowing when to speak. But I have high intelligence, so it gets frustrating because people often project that I don’t have confidence. This is a work in progress it’s not my easiest skill lol.
I was just thinking about how to better the way I talk and then I SAW YOUR VIDEO
learned a lot in this video, also found ways to relate lkike your customer service experience. I find that I am a rather anxious individual outside of work , however while working I lose most if not all sense of anxiousness or nerrvousness while speaking. Lots to digest.
i watched a video on this topic and i actually wished you were the one making it! and what do you know :3
I just came across your channel and I just wanted to say that I resonated with everything you said, thanks for your advice and keep going with your channel! Also pls post a makeup tutorial bc you look amazing girl!!💗
My mercury is in cancer too! You are so inspiring 🤩🤩🤩
this timing is crazy
I would love to work with you one day! I have friends who calls me crazy for using our astro chart to make some decisions but you're the first one to have the same theory as me. I am currently working on trying to introduce something similar to astro chart but its from the asian culture that's been around for thousands of years
This is my first time coming across your channel and I just wanted to say you're very elegant upon first impression. It's also really easy to see that you love what you're talking about and I think that enticed me to stay and watch the whole video⭐⭐you're excellent
i need you on spotify 😩
U made me cry and motivated me too thank you 😭😭 gonna watch this whenever I feel low 😭
Congratulations for 100k subscriber ❤
for anyone who isn't sure, the Einstein quote she's referring to is "doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is insanity" this is not verbatim though.
You are very interesting human to listen to mae. I love your vibe. Please make more videos on social confidence and improving conversational skills
youre truly an inspiration !!! thank you Mae :)
Congratulations for 100k!
i needed this badly THANKK YOU SO MUCH
What a refreshing voice on RUclips ✨
Love your channel, and congrats for reaching 100K subs 💗💗💗
Thank you so much!!! I just found your channel and I love it. 😍
I've noticed a big difference in my cognition, focus, mood etc from taking Tria Alchemy products the past few years… There are a couple that have the neuroplasticity properties along with pineal gland support etc.. pretty awesome stuff!
You’re channel is blowing up
Tips to train your brain while speaking: practice speaking in front of mirror, try to move your body in relaxation way, notice your postures ❤
Congratulations Mae 🎉 on 100k 😊
Hii Mae this video is so helpful thank you for sharing your knowledge !! I’ll make sure to give Astra a try 😊
Congrats on 100k
Nice
great video, gonna check more content of yours pretty soon. much love from Brazil ❤
DAYM HER VOICE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOA
please create a podcast channel!! I need more of this!!
I was hooked but she lost me when she started talking about astrology
Lost all her credibility with one word
Just ignore all the astrology bs and just focus on the key points of the topic of this video. Don't have to agree with everything she or anyone else says.
2:15 I do indeed adore your vibe so far 😂
Thank you for the video. Btw, I like your style, has a unique aesthetic
this vid felt like an ad
you brought out many great points in this bideo, like i never even thought about why i sou d so strange when i first speak but its because i didnt warm up before hand. Co grats on reaching 100k subs!❤❤
This was super insightful.. thank you
I love your accent it is enough attractive and powerful ❤thanks for the video
cant even focus properely u so pretty
THE MORE YOU DO IT THE MORE YOU'RE GONNA GET THERE
THANNNNKK YOU SO MUCH G ❤YOU ARE SUCH A SAINT
Keep it up Mae! So happy for you.
“She was saying that humans may be easily provoked by the simple use of language. Because language is frequently misused to create conflict or war. She believes that humans are unsuitable as language users.”
smartly
i love your videos omg but can they be on spotify? i feel like these will be perfect to listen to on the plane …
i like ur vibe so muchhh girlll