I am a feminist! But WOW!!! The woman in this story blows my mind! That is taking things to the extreme. It's not about getting permission from your spouse but mutual respect for the other person's feelings, thoughts and ideas.
By reading the comments, most of you are still behind. Saying that it’s about mutual respect. It sounds like she’s been respecting him for 20+ years. She didn’t have any friends, only wore what he wanted her to, he takes her on cheap vacations, etc. this woman wanted more. To me, this guy was too controlling, and she unfortunately put up with it for too long. I’m glad she left that psycho man and marriage.
What good is it gaining a group of friends who destroyed your family and inner peace? Family unity is the #1 priority for me as a mother and wife. Sounds like your wife lost herself and the place she belongs to.
Wanting to experience more in life is fine but there are borders. My hubby use to be scared to travel and not allow me to travel but when I booked and we just adventure, he came to love hiking and seeing all kinds of the world. We adventure 6-8x a year. Ease them to love what you love. He also knows I love to hike and I do hikes with a few friends here and there - we hike in the most beautiful places and when our husbands can, we have couple hike trips. Everything is mutual for what we do. We don’t stop each other from “growing and exploring” but it’s not to party, go out of country, or drink and play. Those situations are putting yourself at risk. We women just be smart about what you do. It’s not being dumb but ignorant.
You want an "obedient" wife who doesn't know how to think for herself. Well, you got one .. one who was obedient to you and then became obedient to her friends.
My husband books trips for himself and my sons, and his brothers. It’s healthy to have family bonds with his siblings and his sons. The sisters, my daughters and I are planning our own trips too. My husband and I travel together and it’s always fun. But it’s also nice to give each other space as well. If people are mature, time away for ourselves only build a stronger marriage.
It’s ok to have “ladies getaway” once in a while. It’s healthy for couples to have a little space. I go places with my sisters but we know our boundaries and we don’t talk to other men. We only go to enjoy each other’s company. Some married women are more thirsty than the single/divorced women.
There are some men who married their wife and keep them locked up, she can't allow to have friends or even hang out with her own family, so then when they get a little freedom they go crazy. You kept her in the dark, you and her do not need to be around each other 24/7, people need room to breathe. See if you had let her breathe, she wouldn't have made the wrong friends. Remember when married your wife allow her to breathe too, have some time for herself too. Not all women who go out have bad intentions.
Ua tau li koj tus poj niam lawv ua no mas yeej tsim nyog kawg, tej niag txiv no tsis yuav los tau lis nas tsuav muaj kev lom zem li lawv xwb ces zoo lawm, tsu ua txhua yam ywj siab tsis muaj leej twg cheem li os. Peb ua neeg nuob ces nyias muaj nyias lub plawv lub siab txiav txim rau nyias nawb mog
Wonder what these ladies do for a living? I'm a teacher and can't afford these types of luxuries. Yes, I agree with hanging out with friends, but I won't waste money on nonsense staff.
God created a man first and He created a woman from his rib to be his companion. Therefore, a woman must always obey and respect her husband. He is the head, and she is the body…a woman who doesn’t obey and respect her husband is heading to a damnation… This Hmong woman is acting rich and bad influence in your clan for sure. Rich people never act like her. They even drive regular car back and forth to work…eg. action super star Keanu Reeves is taking a city train to the studio. If my wife does that to me, I would go to Laos on my next vacation with my friends without her. She’s better not say anything…”the fall of a marriage”…the moment my wife tells me that, if I can’t handle what she’s doing, running around, I can’t be her husband…that’s the last draw…! Goodbye…!good things that you guys got rid off them. Freedom comes with a hefty price…!👍🤠!!!
Some people when they change, they will do a 180 changed. They don’t know how to balanced at all. Same thing with guys. It’s okay to go on trips with friends but some people overdue it. Yog poj niam ua yus ua kiag thiab xwb mas. Some women don’t deserve a good man too.
Poj nruam lo lus freedom tsi yog siv lo ua poj laib. Thiam si siv lo freedom yog mus sib tw nrog txiv ua lag luag si tw lo mus khiav hauj lwm nyob hoob ka nrog luag lwm haiv neeg thiab txiv neej muaj vaj huam sib luag lo ua nom ua tswv xwb tsi tau ko koj siv lo lus freedom lo mus tawm tsam koj tus txiv. cov poj niam tsi nkag siab txog lo lus freedom thaum kawg ces yuav tau mus nyob ua lub neej freedom tsi muaj chaws cob cuab. 😂
Cov poj laib ruam tsab ntse, pluag tsab muaj no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws. Cov coj li no yog cov txiv yeej tseem ib tug txiv tsev tiag ces yeej muab nrauj mus thaiv qab ke li no tas ma. Cov maum dev coj zoo li no cia mus ua kom txaus nws lub siab lub ntsws li nws txoj kev ntshaw. Cov no yog cov thaiv qab ke lawm xwb os, peb txiv neej tsis muaj ib tug yuav ntshaw cov poj niam coj cwj pwm phem li no.
Women, by nature, need a man to control them. Like the old hmong saying goes - "txiv neej mus ib kauj tsuam ces mus 1 kauj tsuam xwb, poj niam mus 1 kauj tsuam ces yuav mus 10 kauj tsuam". When a man takes 1 step, he's only taking 1 step, when a woman takes 1 step, she will go and take 10 steps.
Lady knight American cultural and normal activities, but for those Hmong women gone beyond and could take Hmong men another 50 more years to accept American culture.
Cov txiv no mas npwb tshaj, so controlling. Cov poj niam no los tau ua ces tsis paub tsum thiab. We should all be allowed to explore life even after married, but with boundaries and respect.
Couples need to compromise and communicate. The problem in every relationship is one person wants to be dominant over everything and expect the other person to be submissive. Bottom line is you should know your spouse better than anyone.
Funny... Hmong people say Americanize, but even the true blond hair blue eyes people don't do what they do. What does Americanize really mean? Please educate me.
Tij co phob nyiaj loulou xwb os. Tsis yog freedom ntawm ib tug Poj niam os. Yog nws freedom Tiam si los siv tux txiv cov nyiaj xwb es. Freedom mas xwb div nws nyiaj PoB ! Nws twb depend of his money !
I always say, if you go somewhere just go together. If one doesn't go just stay home together. If it is a necessity for the hubby or the wife to go without their spouse, then ok, but if not, then just go together.
Kuv los kuv yuav ua li tus niam tsev no ua thiab vim cov txiv neej hmoob og no ruam li ruam tis kuv tias ruam no os kuv tus txiv no twb tusb kawm ntawd tag high chool thiab tab sus yuav tau 40 xyoo no nws yeej tsis kam coj kuv mys qhov twg ob peb zaug tas lawm ces kuv tus tub con wb mus ua si los nws yeej tsis mus kuv tsaw mus suav teb great wall yog nej cov niam tsev leej twg mus no thov yaum kuv thisb kuv nyob pacific nw
You can still have girls night out but that’s too much when all over guys. That is a no no. I guess when good girl have a taste of fun, that’s it you can never turn them back. I’m a married woman and have girls night out too, but never in our minds we go hang with bunch of guys.
Yuav txiv tsis tau kev lom zem lawm ces twb dim txiv, tsis muaj tus khoo lawm thiaj tsis rov yuav txiv lawm los mos. Es koj tseem nug tias cas ho tsis muaj txiv yuav. Oh thaub ruam aw.
I 100% support ladies trips or outings. But there's always gotta be clear boundaries. Personal boundaries, financial boundaries, and mutual understanding. The husband sounds slightly controlling. And the wife sounds like she over does things when she does get a chance to get out.
Sorry to say this but, peb ib txhia cov hmoob yuav ruam los tsis ruam yuav ntse los tsis ntse kiag tau ua tuaj ces ua tsis muaj limited. Peb hmoob lub neej sib nrauj sib tso thiaj li ntau ntau lawm.
Cas koj tus tij laug yaim koj niag niam tij pim xwb phem ib yam li peb niag niam tij tij laug thiab ua li no yeej tsi muaj leej twg yuav tau li koj tsi tas noog leej twg li os yog ruam ces kav tsij uv kom txau thaum uv tsi tau lawm tsi qhia los koj yeej yuav paub mus foob kawg mas kuv twb mag li ko los lawm os yus kav tsij ua niam hlo xwb cas yus thiaj tsi nyuaj siab xwb mas
Hom poj niam coj tu cwj pwm muaj phlu Liam no ua rau Kuv ntxub npaum li ib txhia txiv neej twb tseem muaj poj niam lo yeej tab meeg mus tham hluas nkauj ua ca tseem muaj tib co neeg xyob txhiaj zoo li no thiab meska lo yeej tsis xav yuav Hom poj niam lwj Liam zoo li txhob tias ua li luag haiv neeg tub qhaug meska os hmoob ruam hlwb rwj
This guy needs to loosen up and quit being so controlling! My besties and I travels once a year, and we make plans to meet up once a month. Its okay for your ex-wife to have friends and to travel/ hang out with them. However, it's wrong for them to make out with strangers for fun. Now that's messed up.
Say nothing, give them freedom and become the good spouse they desire and compliment and compare them to their new best buddy and become buddy buddy with their new buddy. That's how you could have fixed your problem.
The wives didn't get to enjoy their youth so they're enjoying it when they're married. The ladies are living the life they want so move on. Don't be mad, time to find a wife that is compatible.
Hrm. Sounds like a case of OGs who's never experienced freedom and once they get a taste they go all out. Married at age 14, controlled by their husband's til their 40s and once they're out the cage, they ain't coming back. Lol This is a one sided story only. The narrator sounds innocent but it's hard to believe this is all to it because He sounds controlling af too. Also, why is he so concerned about his ex wife not re marrying, he's not either. Lol just do you.
Umm your wife's brain is not smart enough to stand up for herself, and she let others control her. But at the same time, she craves freedom (single lady). She met the people who brought out her real side. You can't blame her because your wife is a lowkey mes cab (she belongs to the street like niam kuam). It's okay to go enjoy your personal time, but when people act like they are "too single," they are living in a different world and taking everything for granted. Good luck!
These are the people who cannot handle their midlife crisis well. Stay FAR away from them. In addition, LV and Chanel bags have lost their prestige and quality has declined drastically. It’s not a clear indication of money, unless one can afford their most expensive line that the 1% can afford and wear then now we’re talking about money 😂
Asking your Husband and putting his consideration in decision making is respecting him. Not bowing to him, not under his control. My Husband is MeKas and WE both always ask one another. When we travel out of the country. Our rules is we travel together. If it’s a girls trip/ boys trip, then it’s only with those we trust to make medical decisions for us.
These ladies are too much. You cannot spend what you cannot afford. Sounds more like trashy than classy. When you are married, it’s not asking for permission; but it’s respectful to ask and tell each other what you are doing or want to do. Brother, zoo cancel koj tus Poj Niam thiab mas.
I am a feminist! But WOW!!! The woman in this story blows my mind! That is taking things to the extreme.
It's not about getting permission from your spouse but mutual respect for the other person's feelings, thoughts and ideas.
By reading the comments, most of you are still behind. Saying that it’s about mutual respect. It sounds like she’s been respecting him for 20+ years. She didn’t have any friends, only wore what he wanted her to, he takes her on cheap vacations, etc. this woman wanted more. To me, this guy was too controlling, and she unfortunately put up with it for too long. I’m glad she left that psycho man and marriage.
What good is it gaining a group of friends who destroyed your family and inner peace? Family unity is the #1 priority for me as a mother and wife. Sounds like your wife lost herself and the place she belongs to.
Take your woman on vacation often so she doesn't hang out with the people you don't like. Lesson learned and start over😊
Wanting to experience more in life is fine but there are borders. My hubby use to be scared to travel and not allow me to travel but when I booked and we just adventure, he came to love hiking and seeing all kinds of the world. We adventure 6-8x a year. Ease them to love what you love. He also knows I love to hike and I do hikes with a few friends here and there - we hike in the most beautiful places and when our husbands can, we have couple hike trips. Everything is mutual for what we do. We don’t stop each other from “growing and exploring” but it’s not to party, go out of country, or drink and play. Those situations are putting yourself at risk. We women just be smart about what you do. It’s not being dumb but ignorant.
Hahahahaha. Men can’t handle it when the tables are turned.
You want an "obedient" wife who doesn't know how to think for herself. Well, you got one .. one who was obedient to you and then became obedient to her friends.
My husband books trips for himself and my sons, and his brothers. It’s healthy to have family bonds with his siblings and his sons. The sisters, my daughters and I are planning our own trips too. My husband and I travel together and it’s always fun. But it’s also nice to give each other space as well. If people are mature, time away for ourselves only build a stronger marriage.
Wow keej kawg!👏👏
It’s ok to have “ladies getaway” once in a while. It’s healthy for couples to have a little space. I go places with my sisters but we know our boundaries and we don’t talk to other men. We only go to enjoy each other’s company. Some married women are more thirsty than the single/divorced women.
Wow good story teller
Thanks for sharing brother pojniam mhoob miskas phimbab cesyog pab maum dev no qiasneeg tiag2
It's not called "asking for permission", it is called "respecting your husband's opinion".
Yog xav nyob ywj siab ces txhob yuav txiv.cov maiv no ces kawg ua poj nrauj tag.koj nrog tus phooj ywg liam ces kawg liam
There are some men who married their wife and keep them locked up, she can't allow to have friends or even hang out with her own family, so then when they get a little freedom they go crazy. You kept her in the dark, you and her do not need to be around each other 24/7, people need room to breathe. See if you had let her breathe, she wouldn't have made the wrong friends. Remember when married your wife allow her to breathe too, have some time for herself too. Not all women who go out have bad intentions.
I love travel with my husband. It’s way funnier with him and no dramas!
Cov poj niam tiam 21 ntawm ko, yeej kawg ua poj nrauj xwb thiaj tag. Vim tsab ntse dhau lawm, thiab ua nkais thab xub, ua dab nrhiav dauj rau qhov txhia chaw xwb ne. Tus txiv zoo yeej tsis xav yuav.
well, men of these wives you need to form your own men travel team. Its a dream come true lol
Hom pojniam ko mas kav tsis ntev tsuas yog niam uasi xwb tsis yog niam tsev, txawm yog miskas kiag los cov tsim txiaj yeej tsis coj li ko thiab
Cov kav ntev ces yog cov niam qhev yom.
nice picture!!!
Cav txaus luag thiab zoo ploog kawg cov poj niam zoo li ko tso mus ua poj nrauj
Ua tau li koj tus poj niam lawv ua no mas yeej tsim nyog kawg, tej niag txiv no tsis yuav los tau lis nas tsuav muaj kev lom zem li lawv xwb ces zoo lawm, tsu ua txhua yam ywj siab tsis muaj leej twg cheem li os. Peb ua neeg nuob ces nyias muaj nyias lub plawv lub siab txiav txim rau nyias nawb mog
As a wife, you can still hang out with friends and still respect your husband. Truly sorry brother. Wifey did a 1 to 100 real quick on you.
Can’t lock up your wife. Husbands and wives need friends and need to be clear about boundaries and what acceptable.
Wonder what these ladies do for a living? I'm a teacher and can't afford these types of luxuries. Yes, I agree with hanging out with friends, but I won't waste money on nonsense staff.
Wow haib tiag li
Tus poj niam twg yog coj li ntawd ces lub neej tsis txog twg, vim nyiam txoj kev loj leeb tsis xav ua neej, tsuas yog xav ua neeg kom zem xwb.
Zoo mloog heev 👍 👏 👌
God created a man first and He created a woman from his rib to be his companion. Therefore, a woman must always obey and respect her husband. He is the head, and she is the body…a woman who doesn’t obey and respect her husband is heading to a damnation…
This Hmong woman is acting rich and bad influence in your clan for sure. Rich people never act like her. They even drive regular car back and forth to work…eg. action super star Keanu Reeves is taking a city train to the studio.
If my wife does that to me, I would go to Laos on my next vacation with my friends without her. She’s better not say anything…”the fall of a marriage”…the moment my wife tells me that, if I can’t handle what she’s doing, running around, I can’t be her husband…that’s the last draw…! Goodbye…!good things that you guys got rid off them. Freedom comes with a hefty price…!👍🤠!!!
I support this Hmong man. He did the right thing: divorced cov niam hmoob dev no pov tseg.
Koj txawj hais neej neeg kawg koj txhob ua li ntawd nawb. nco ntsoov tias koj nrog cov neeg ua laib ces yuav ua laib koj nrog cov neeg haus cawv yus yuav haus cawv koj nrog cov neeg ncaws npas ces yus yuav ncaws npas xwb tiag. yog kuv ces kuv muab nws xa mus neej tsa lawm os
Nej tu ntxawm kua mam muaj peev xwm tshaj 😅
WOW! Twb txog lub caij xa niag
poj maum dev no rov mus neej
tsa lawm. Kav xyeem thaum nws
ua tej yam tsis tau cai no ces
ncaws kiag nws tawm lawm tom
neej. ntag hos. Niag neeg qias
neeg no koj tseem mus quav
ntsej nws ua dabtsi. Zoo kawg
uas koj muab nws ntsaws rau khib
nywob lawm. Pab koj zoo siab
tias koj tsis magrauj ua ntej koj
koj muab ntsaws khibnywob.
muab
Some people when they change, they will do a 180 changed. They don’t know how to balanced at all. Same thing with guys. It’s okay to go on trips with friends but some people overdue it. Yog poj niam ua yus ua kiag thiab xwb mas. Some women don’t deserve a good man too.
Poj nruam lo lus freedom tsi yog siv lo ua poj laib. Thiam si siv lo freedom yog mus sib tw nrog txiv ua lag luag si tw lo mus khiav hauj lwm nyob hoob ka nrog luag lwm haiv neeg thiab txiv neej muaj vaj huam sib luag lo ua nom ua tswv xwb tsi tau ko koj siv lo lus freedom lo mus tawm tsam koj tus txiv. cov poj niam tsi nkag siab txog lo lus freedom thaum kawg ces yuav tau mus nyob ua lub neej freedom tsi muaj chaws cob cuab. 😂
Ua li nej thiaj yg txiv neej yawg tso zis tuav raws hais lus tom hniav nkawv neeg thj saib taus pojniam thj hwm,lwm hnb lwj ib tog zus yeej yuav paub xb mos
Cov poj laib ruam tsab ntse, pluag tsab muaj no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws. Cov coj li no yog cov txiv yeej tseem ib tug txiv tsev tiag ces yeej muab nrauj mus thaiv qab ke li no tas ma. Cov maum dev coj zoo li no cia mus ua kom txaus nws lub siab lub ntsws li nws txoj kev ntshaw. Cov no yog cov thaiv qab ke lawm xwb os, peb txiv neej tsis muaj ib tug yuav ntshaw cov poj niam coj cwj pwm phem li no.
Hmong people don’t know that each person needs their own personal times.
Kuj tshaj zog lawm tseem muah txiv coj li hlua nkauj kuj tshaj lawm kuv twb yog poj niam lo thiab loj yeej tshaj lawm yus tsi mloog 50 lo yuav tau mloog 50 thiab
Hmong women like these lead Hmong men to go marry from overseas.
Women, by nature, need a man to control them.
Like the old hmong saying goes - "txiv neej mus ib kauj tsuam ces mus 1 kauj tsuam xwb, poj niam mus 1 kauj tsuam ces yuav mus 10 kauj tsuam". When a man takes 1 step, he's only taking 1 step, when a woman takes 1 step, she will go and take 10 steps.
Muaj ib txia txiv neej nyob qab tiab tag mus li xwb tabsis tsev tib neeg nyob tau txom txom nyem yeej tsi zoo li luag tej li ov.
Tiam no tsis muaj cov zoo niam tsev lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw muaj tib co niag maum dev lawm xwb...
1 life to live so I guess live it how you want
Zoo siab koj muab nrauj lawm mas muaj phlu dhau
When she got back I be gone.
Cov poj niam coj li koj hais ko ces yog ntse mus rau sab qwb lawm thiab tej zaum yog daim ntawv tiam los ua poj nrauj
Lady knight American cultural and normal activities, but for those Hmong women gone beyond and could take Hmong men another 50 more years to accept American culture.
koj txhob ruam2 li koj tus kwv kuam nawb
Lwm zaus ces koj ho mus nrog 1 cov txiv neej es koj los hais rau nws li nws hais rau koj seb nws puas ok nawb. Yog tias cov poj niam mus hauv zej hauv zos xwb mas ok kawg, tab sis yog yuav mus mev teb tsis yuav cov txiv mus nrog no ntshe dhau cai zog lawm pob.
Cov txiv no mas npwb tshaj, so controlling. Cov poj niam no los tau ua ces tsis paub tsum thiab.
We should all be allowed to explore life even after married, but with boundaries and respect.
Couples need to compromise and communicate. The problem in every relationship is one person wants to be dominant over everything and expect the other person to be submissive. Bottom line is you should know your spouse better than anyone.
Hmong women Society
Sounds like you dont let her live like a human. You dont let her have choices.
Funny... Hmong people say Americanize, but even the true blond hair blue eyes people don't do what they do. What does Americanize really mean? Please educate me.
Lol this is so funny.
Tij co phob nyiaj loulou xwb os. Tsis yog freedom ntawm ib tug Poj niam os. Yog nws freedom Tiam si los siv tux txiv cov nyiaj xwb es. Freedom mas xwb div nws nyiaj PoB ! Nws twb depend of his money !
Sadly his wife went too far. Hope he gets a better life, if everything he says here is true.
maum meb cab laus nrauj pov tseg mus
I always say, if you go somewhere just go together. If one doesn't go just stay home together. If it is a necessity for the hubby or the wife to go without their spouse, then ok, but if not, then just go together.
Zaj neej no yuav tau tis lub npe tias, “Qhab Nab Ruam Tsab Ntse”.
Luag cov neeg ntse tsis coj tus cwj pwm khav khav theeb tsab tsab muaj.
Cov neeg ntse mas luag coj normal thiab hnav ris tsho normal xwb.
Kuv los kuv yuav ua li tus niam tsev no ua thiab vim cov txiv neej hmoob og no ruam li ruam tis kuv tias ruam no os kuv tus txiv no twb tusb kawm ntawd tag high chool thiab tab sus yuav tau 40 xyoo no nws yeej tsis kam coj kuv mys qhov twg ob peb zaug tas lawm ces kuv tus tub con wb mus ua si los nws yeej tsis mus kuv tsaw mus suav teb great wall yog nej cov niam tsev leej twg mus no thov yaum kuv thisb kuv nyob pacific nw
Tsis paub hais lawm lau, nyiam muaj nyias siab ntsws. Kuv ces kuv tsuas paub tias kuv yuav ua neeg kuv tsis kam ua dev no xwb.
😂 Cov poj hmoob muaj muaj nplus es xav yuav kev freedom and respect ces yuav mag kheb dub npuaj mas hos nyob zoo li niag tsiaj 😂. Txhob khib khib vim heev neeg yeej muaj heev neeg tsim 😊
You can still have girls night out but that’s too much when all over guys. That is a no no.
I guess when good girl have a taste of fun, that’s it you can never turn them back.
I’m a married woman and have girls night out too, but never in our minds we go hang with bunch of guys.
Yuav txiv tsis tau kev lom zem lawm ces twb dim txiv, tsis muaj tus khoo lawm thiaj tsis rov yuav txiv lawm los mos. Es koj tseem nug tias cas ho tsis muaj txiv yuav. Oh thaub ruam aw.
I 100% support ladies trips or outings.
But there's always gotta be clear boundaries. Personal boundaries, financial boundaries, and mutual understanding.
The husband sounds slightly controlling. And the wife sounds like she over does things when she does get a chance to get out.
NROG KOJ ZOO SIAB TIAS SIB NRAUJ TAU ES HO NYOB KAJ SIAB OS TUS ME TXIV AW.
Sorry to say this but, peb ib txhia cov hmoob yuav ruam los tsis ruam yuav ntse los tsis ntse kiag tau ua tuaj ces ua tsis muaj limited. Peb hmoob lub neej sib nrauj sib tso thiaj li ntau ntau lawm.
Cas koj tus tij laug yaim koj niag niam tij pim xwb phem ib yam li peb niag niam tij tij laug thiab ua li no yeej tsi muaj leej twg yuav tau li koj tsi tas noog leej twg li os yog ruam ces kav tsij uv kom txau thaum uv tsi tau lawm tsi qhia los koj yeej yuav paub mus foob kawg mas kuv twb mag li ko los lawm os yus kav tsij ua niam hlo xwb cas yus thiaj tsi nyuaj siab xwb mas
Ab….cov maiv ntawm koj zaj neejneeg no puas yog cov peb pom hauv RUclips es sib nthawv…sib nthawv hauv Hmoob party na???
Hom poj niam coj tu cwj pwm muaj phlu Liam no ua rau Kuv ntxub npaum li ib txhia txiv neej twb tseem muaj poj niam lo yeej tab meeg mus tham hluas nkauj ua ca tseem muaj tib co neeg xyob txhiaj zoo li no thiab meska lo yeej tsis xav yuav Hom poj niam lwj Liam zoo li txhob tias ua li luag haiv neeg tub qhaug meska os hmoob ruam hlwb rwj
hai txog mus nram mev peb twb mus 1 2 zaug lawm tiam sis peb mus coob2 mus ua tshoob thiab mus ua sis txaus tshai kawg lis kuv muaj ib tug vauv yog mev nws nrog peb mus nws hai lus mev rau mev xwb rau qhov mev tsis paub lus me ka tsawg2 tus thiaj paub xwb muaj ib zaug kuv cov ntxhai lawv mus ua sis no lawv mus txog nram lawv tsis tau luag ua sis ce lawv nyob hauv chav pws thiab tawm mus da dej xwb muaj ob tug ntxhai twb paub lus mev thiab tab sis lawv tshai2 mev kawg lis no
Cov poj niam zoo li ko feem ntau lawv yuav tau tus txiv ruam zog lawm thiab tsis muaj peev xwm xwb
Pab pawg kawm “Tawm”. Tsis yog kawm “Tiav”.
This guy needs to loosen up and quit being so controlling! My besties and I travels once a year, and we make plans to meet up once a month. Its okay for your ex-wife to have friends and to travel/ hang out with them. However, it's wrong for them to make out with strangers for fun. Now that's messed up.
I don’t feel sorry for this man. I can only imagine what she have to live with until she made friends.
Say nothing, give them freedom and become the good spouse they desire and compliment and compare them to their new best buddy and become buddy buddy with their new buddy. That's how you could have fixed your problem.
Cov poj niam es nim “girls night only” ces yeej mus lis no xwb.
And when the men leave to laos for a vacation without their wife and yall be mad at them. 😂😂😂
If Uncle Dave Ramsey know how much you spend. He will not be happy with you 😂
The wives didn't get to enjoy their youth so they're enjoying it when they're married. The ladies are living the life they want so move on. Don't be mad, time to find a wife that is compatible.
Kab lia niam neej aw cas ib hnoob zoo nkauj lawm ib yam os ! Txawj hais neeg lub neej zoo ua luaj !
You are a controlling husband and your wife, obviously, does not have boundaries. The animal in her unleashed. 😂
Wow. These hmong sisters need to re-evaluate themselves. Whatever happens to mutual respect?
Hrm. Sounds like a case of OGs who's never experienced freedom and once they get a taste they go all out. Married at age 14, controlled by their husband's til their 40s and once they're out the cage, they ain't coming back. Lol
This is a one sided story only. The narrator sounds innocent but it's hard to believe this is all to it because He sounds controlling af too. Also, why is he so concerned about his ex wife not re marrying, he's not either. Lol just do you.
Yog hais tias muab ua muaj plhus dhau lawm lo ho tsis ntxim nyiam lawm thiab os. 😅
Umm your wife's brain is not smart enough to stand up for herself, and she let others control her. But at the same time, she craves freedom (single lady). She met the people who brought out her real side. You can't blame her because your wife is a lowkey mes cab (she belongs to the street like niam kuam). It's okay to go enjoy your personal time, but when people act like they are "too single," they are living in a different world and taking everything for granted. Good luck!
Pab Mej Cab Poj Dag lol THESE HO** AINT LOYAL!
These are the people who cannot handle their midlife crisis well. Stay FAR away from them. In addition, LV and Chanel bags have lost their prestige and quality has declined drastically. It’s not a clear indication of money, unless one can afford their most expensive line that the 1% can afford and wear then now we’re talking about money 😂
Koj npab nauj thiab siab me heev
You kept your wife in the closet for too long lol. Once the demon is released she is unstoppable.
its ok bruh.... im doing them for yall..... hehe
Asking your Husband and putting his consideration in decision making is respecting him. Not bowing to him, not under his control. My Husband is MeKas and WE both always ask one another. When we travel out of the country. Our rules is we travel together. If it’s a girls trip/ boys trip, then it’s only with those we trust to make medical decisions for us.
These ladies are too much. You cannot spend what you cannot afford. Sounds more like trashy than classy. When you are married, it’s not asking for permission; but it’s respectful to ask and tell each other what you are doing or want to do. Brother, zoo cancel koj tus Poj Niam thiab mas.
lol that not equal right … what kind equal right is husband got pay for everything lol😊
Wives like these, I would just show them the door.
Cut all creditcards!
Why are you complaining? If there’s a women trip then there’s a men trip as well. Equal opportunity. 😅
Annoying story...I'll pass, lol