"The party was almost a year ago" but she said she was just now finding out she was pregnant? Jake must have some of the slowest swimmers in the world 💀
No answer to the one big question in all of this. The question OP should've asked Ryan as their last meeting. Why? Why did his sister choose to ruin his life? Why him? Tina was the initial instigator in all of this, and yet she gets away without any repercussions for her actions.
Get a lawyer and sue for a court ordered paternity test. She will have to follow court orders or potentially be sanctioned to time in jail time. Oops! Is Tina's face red? Now sue her for defamation. OP should put his parents and Ryan out of his life.
They broke the restraining order and calling you when they were served. t is hard to regain respect from people once they believed you were the father even though test showed you were not. The letter your parents sent you wipe your butt on it and send it back to the lawyers.
How did the mom keep sending emails if there was a restraining order against contact? That would be a violation of the restraining order. And it was put in order to prevent that type of manipulation. Such a sad situation and what awful parents.
If the person who filed the order in the first place contacts first it nullifies the order. part of a restraining order is you arent uspposed to contact them either and if you do and they get that proof they can ignore the order.
Because friend was supposedly not an idiot, who should have realized how far along his sister was in her pregnancy, and would therefore realize that OP was not even in town, during the window of conception. Plus, if his sister was the one who was refusing the paternity test and OP insisting, in order to bring the truth to light, then that makes it very clear who was lying in this situation.
"The party was almost a year ago" but she said she was just now finding out she was pregnant? Jake must have some of the slowest swimmers in the world 💀
Sue all of them for slander, emotional distress, defamation
"Why would she lie, Jake?"
"Why would I lie?"
No answer to the one big question in all of this. The question OP should've asked Ryan as their last meeting. Why? Why did his sister choose to ruin his life? Why him?
Tina was the initial instigator in all of this, and yet she gets away without any repercussions for her actions.
Get a lawyer and sue for a court ordered paternity test. She will have to follow court orders or potentially be sanctioned to time in jail time. Oops! Is Tina's face red? Now sue her for defamation. OP should put his parents and Ryan out of his life.
I would have moved to a different state, changed my phone number, email address and never looked back
When you have a restraining order on someone you are not allowed to contact them either. Even through email
They broke the restraining order and calling you when they were served. t is hard to regain respect from people once they believed you were the father even though test showed you were not. The letter your parents sent you wipe your butt on it and send it back to the lawyers.
How did the mom keep sending emails if there was a restraining order against contact? That would be a violation of the restraining order. And it was put in order to prevent that type of manipulation. Such a sad situation and what awful parents.
If the person who filed the order in the first place contacts first it nullifies the order. part of a restraining order is you arent uspposed to contact them either and if you do and they get that proof they can ignore the order.
I’m not surprised the parents sided with Tina as most side with people like them
not sure why OP keeps blaming his friend for not sticking by him over his own sister
Because friend was supposedly not an idiot, who should have realized how far along his sister was in her pregnancy, and would therefore realize that OP was not even in town, during the window of conception. Plus, if his sister was the one who was refusing the paternity test and OP insisting, in order to bring the truth to light, then that makes it very clear who was lying in this situation.
I don't get this why is everyone so against DNA tests? All this drama shouldn't be an issue when there is an easy way determine the truth
I would have gone no contact with the family
Original version of this was better as the OP seemed less attached to seeking a cycle of involvement from family.
Proof read your AI stories.
so what happened to tina and the child ?
If I was OP I wqould confront Tina and tell her to set the record straight or you will never walk again