I'd never ask her to go 50/50, but, if she knows my finances are in bad shape, and she really likes me, there is nothing wrong with her volunteering to help.
Great points Jo. One of my oldest friends is an experienced divorce attorney. He shared wisdom with me years ago that I have never forgotten. "Men fall in love. Women are in business". RUclipsr Coach Greg Adams has also mentioned the same wisdom. I don't believe my friend ever represented CGA?🤔. That being said the "Men" who are willing and able to pay for everything is becoming a smaller, and smaller group. Dating and marriage as we know it is disappearing and soon will be an indulgence of the elites and wealthy only. Billionaires like Gates and Bezos discovered that even the wealthiest aren't immune from divorce.
that would work 50 years ago, nowadays how many man can actually pay 100% for 2 people, or even kids? 1%? wanting is one thing, being able to actually do it is another one. And don't tell me only 1% of the man should date, thats just nonsense. You can't ask for equal pay and expect the man to have the money to pay everything, its not possible for most and thats the reality
I have no problems with having a wife who likes to have her own job / business. Besides, I have ladies in China who have such businesses, and they don't mind sharing on paying the bills. They don't want me to work anymore, just to advise them on what products to order for the shop, and to keep them happy in bed! I have my pride as a man to provide for them, so I can't just up & quit my job. I know there's some middle ground where I can compromise and strike a balance with them.
Attractiveness rules. I know a guy who is so good looking that woman want to take him out and want make him a home cooked dinner (and stay the night). So yes all things being equal it works better psychologically if the man symbolically takes care of the woman. But if he's a 10 and she's a 6 then all bets are off.
Oh Jo I loved this video..your words are spot on..I find your message very inspiring..thank you and please continue what you do with great content..all the best!
What he is saying is very conditional. I will take care of you (with money), if you take care of me. He is only doing something to get something out of it. I agree that a man should pay, but please don't say, if you take care of me, I will pay. To me, it just comes across as bad.
Jo, wow you look fantastic today! ❤ if you are aware, you would know if she loves you or if she is working your wallet. I've never had my wallet worked, thankfully. Thanks for the video Jo. ❤❤
1000% Agreed! I strive to be in THAT POSITION to do ALL AND ANYTHING my woman desires. CAVEAT: Not a "gold digger" that has no true love, care or concern a woman where I GOT HER and she in turn GOT MY BACK. Where WE are our DYNAMIC DUO! Where no fool, moron or USEFUL IDIOT can come between HER and I_period!
50/50 for date, I cannot even imagine that but...in a relationship/marriage I think is ok if both work hard for a better life and woman shouldnt expect the man to pay for everything...unless he is a billionaire 😊
This ain’t the 1950s. What’s the point of women having degrees, making six figures? What will she do with all her money in a relationship? I really want to know the answer to this question. I’m not trolling!
It sounds like that guy has got it all together now! It’s just a fact that girls mature at an earlier age than men do especially nowadays. Why ask a girl out if you can’t afford even a meal for her? I would think that would be very embarrassing Another good video Jo thanks!
Jo, you look so beautiful in this vlog. Im not sure why you think you're fat. As far as this topic, I totally believe everything you're saying here. However, i will say many women in the USA, especially professional women, insist they pay at least some of the time. Not in the first part of the relationship, but after they develop feelings. It's their way of feeling somewhat an equal in the relationship. I always insist on paying on paying on the first date, especially if im the one asking a person out. Even if they're in no chemistry and i know they're will be no second date I insist on paying. It's the gentleman thing to do.
I'd never ask her to go 50/50, but, if she knows my finances are in bad shape, and she really likes me, there is nothing wrong with her volunteering to help.
Great points Jo. One of my oldest friends is an experienced divorce attorney. He shared wisdom with me years ago that I have never forgotten. "Men fall in love. Women are in business". RUclipsr Coach Greg Adams has also mentioned the same wisdom. I don't believe my friend ever represented CGA?🤔. That being said the "Men" who are willing and able to pay for everything is becoming a smaller, and smaller group. Dating and marriage as we know it is disappearing and soon will be an indulgence of the elites and wealthy only. Billionaires like Gates and Bezos discovered that even the wealthiest aren't immune from divorce.
The 😂😂😂poor black guy as soon hi start hitting his 30 , hi start simping.
that would work 50 years ago, nowadays how many man can actually pay 100% for 2 people, or even kids? 1%? wanting is one thing, being able to actually do it is another one. And don't tell me only 1% of the man should date, thats just nonsense. You can't ask for equal pay and expect the man to have the money to pay everything, its not possible for most and thats the reality
Jo moon and most women love man paying for everything. Anything that benefits them that’s what they like!
Great info and channel . I agree a gentlemen is always a gentlemen .
I have no problems with having a wife who likes to have her own job / business. Besides, I have ladies in China who have such businesses, and they don't mind sharing on paying the bills. They don't want me to work anymore, just to advise them on what products to order for the shop, and to keep them happy in bed! I have my pride as a man to provide for them, so I can't just up & quit my job. I know there's some middle ground where I can compromise and strike a balance with them.
Agree theres have to be a middle ground.
But what if she wants to keep the maid after either of us lost our jobs?
Attractiveness rules. I know a guy who is so good looking that woman want to take him out and want make him a home cooked dinner (and stay the night). So yes all things being equal it works better psychologically if the man symbolically takes care of the woman. But if he's a 10 and she's a 6 then all bets are off.
Ansolutely true
Thank you for the nice explanation Jo!
I agree 100 % ! Thanks for the video. 🌺
Oh Jo I loved this video..your words are spot on..I find your message very inspiring..thank you and please continue what you do with great content..all the best!
I really respect this guy. Good man!
Jo is stunning as always
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What he is saying is very conditional. I will take care of you (with money), if you take care of me. He is only doing something to get something out of it. I agree that a man should pay, but please don't say, if you take care of me, I will pay. To me, it just comes across as bad.
Jo, wow you look fantastic today! ❤ if you are aware, you would know if she loves you or if she is working your wallet. I've never had my wallet worked, thankfully. Thanks for the video Jo. ❤❤
Luck you lol
1000% Agreed!
I strive to be in THAT POSITION to do ALL AND ANYTHING my woman desires.
CAVEAT: Not a "gold digger" that has no true love, care or concern a woman where I GOT HER and she in turn GOT MY BACK. Where WE are our DYNAMIC DUO!
Where no fool, moron or USEFUL IDIOT can come between HER and I_period!
Love me some Jo moon!! 😍😍😍
Great video! 👍🏻
50/50 for date, I cannot even imagine that but...in a relationship/marriage I think is ok if both work hard for a better life and woman shouldnt expect the man to pay for everything...unless he is a billionaire 😊
This man is trying to be Alpha....Not every family is going to be rich ffs
Looovvveee your outfit you look amazing
Should men date if their financial situation isn't good? Should they wait till they have their life under control?
If his life is a mess, I think better not to date, because it won’t end up well anyways.
This ain’t the 1950s. What’s the point of women having degrees, making six figures? What will she do with all her money in a relationship? I really want to know the answer to this question. I’m not trolling!
Love this❤
Aye yo lmao 💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
I agree as well. I alway have and will be 100%. Did so when I had less money too. Thanks Jo
Fuck no.
It sounds like that guy has got it all together now! It’s just a fact that girls mature at an earlier age than men do especially nowadays. Why ask a girl out if you can’t afford even a meal for her? I would think that would be very embarrassing
Another good video Jo thanks!
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Jo, you look so beautiful in this vlog. Im not sure why you think you're fat. As far as this topic, I totally believe everything you're saying here. However, i will say many women in the USA, especially professional women, insist they pay at least some of the time. Not in the first part of the relationship, but after they develop feelings. It's their way of feeling somewhat an equal in the relationship. I always insist on paying on paying on the first date, especially if im the one asking a person out. Even if they're in no chemistry and i know they're will be no second date I insist on paying. It's the gentleman thing to do.
Hey Jo where you been. No videos.
Damn my Asian cutie
Did you say the n-word..?
😂