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How To Get A Virgo Man Back After A Break-UP

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2019
  • This video discusses four ways to get your Virgo man back after a bad breakup.
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    Time Stamps:
    #1) Give Him Time! 4:30
    #2) Give Yourself Time! 7:17
    *Tip: Show Him That You've Changed: 9:30
    #3) Apologize! 12:20
    *Tip: How To Apologize: 13:50
    *Tip: Listen To And Respect Him: 15:33
    #4) Talk Face To Face! 18:22
    *Tip: Presentation Is Everything For the Virgo Man: 19:35
    Final Thoughts/Recap: 22:18
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Комментарии • 340

  • @ivia_ol8356
    @ivia_ol8356 2 года назад +111

    Ladies please listen. You are the prize, you choose who you want to be with, If a man's behavior is unacceptable don't overthink it, you are the best and you deserve the best.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  2 года назад +7

      And what if her behavior is not the best, what is her behavior is unacceptable, what should the man do?

    • @ivia_ol8356
      @ivia_ol8356 2 года назад +11

      @@JonathanRWhitfield Speaking of personal experience I apologized. I did explain myself and got emotional too. It was simple misunderstanding that led to assumptions. He doesn't speak to me anymore. Since March I have been checking in every month to see of he was ready to talk. Have not heard a single word. It is disrespectful and unimaginable after what we had. I'm just hurting you know, I'm really hurting. If a woman is to blame and she won't apologize then yes she doesn't deserve another chance. My situation is different that's all I can say. Thank you for responding.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  2 года назад +3

      I understand completely, these things are very sensitive indeed

    • @miroslavpetrov3006
      @miroslavpetrov3006 2 года назад

      Girls behavior is the worst nowdays, treat the man good and he will return it. It is that simple

    • @sunsonnie6515
      @sunsonnie6515 Год назад +7

      @@ivia_ol8356 well said , I am experiencing the same thing we no longer talk anymore (since August) I was hurt like never before Virgo men are indeed different but now it’s getting old to me so I’m moving forward, I love myself more.

  • @OoolalaNaj
    @OoolalaNaj 3 года назад +91

    This helped me. I’m giving him space. But I’m getting my man back! Period. Lol

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  3 года назад +11

      lol, I heard that!

    • @OoolalaNaj
      @OoolalaNaj 3 года назад +33

      @@JonathanRWhitfield nah I’m kidding. I’m moving on. Sometimes God says no and we still try to make it a yes. I need to be obedient. Pray for me.

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад +1

      Did he come back?

    • @OoolalaNaj
      @OoolalaNaj 3 года назад +18

      @@zztops3739 nope. And now that I’ve had time to reflect... I dont want him back.

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад

      @@OoolalaNaj why not?

  • @Jasahaful
    @Jasahaful 2 года назад +66

    After dealing with a few Virgos, the fact of the matter is you will know when they want you and they'll be persistent and consistent. All this wondering and researching them doesn't matter. Virgos know who they want! Ladies stop beating yourself up over these flaky ass Virhoes. Move on!

    • @jaelesilaba1404
      @jaelesilaba1404 2 года назад +10

      Im a virgo and i agree with u i started dealing with one and to be honest im already bored i dont think ill ever talk to him again

    • @chantiaharper1475
      @chantiaharper1475 2 года назад +3

      This part

    • @josie2919
      @josie2919 2 года назад

      Heyyyyy I was with you until I read the virhoes!
      We are not hoes when we in relationship! He'll we not hoes when we single. We fuck who want to fuck when we single...
      But you are right all this searching and trying to figure a Virgo out is not good. Cause if we wanted you we will be up under you . Consistent and persistent we love to show are person we are there for them thru everything! If a Virgo as for space is cause they really need it but they will still keep some type of communication open so you won't feel that is you.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 10 месяцев назад

      They're not hoes.....

  • @mandeegibson611
    @mandeegibson611 4 года назад +20

    The inconsistency is unreal. Then he is all up on other women. Tells me that he loves me spends the time with me. But when i try to talk to him it is a huge fight. When he needs to talk then it is drop what you are doing and be there. He will tell me that he loves me then turns around and tells me i dont want anyone, then boom jumping onto someone else. So when you are telling me all these things are showing me he loves me because he opens up about everything to me. If he isnt willing to talk to me then how are we suppose to be fixing anything?
    He tells me i am to literal and analytical but he wants straight forward.

    • @oliviahuizar2734
      @oliviahuizar2734 4 года назад +13

      It sounds like hes using you and playing games

  • @ad6417
    @ad6417 2 года назад +20

    My Virgo bf feels pressured when I ask questions. So I quit asking. I just give him light fluffy flirty talk and he loves it. He's very anxious and negative and he wants me to be the positive light for him. I quit trying to "connect" with him and just be girly and flirty. He's much happier.

    • @noorjehan5838
      @noorjehan5838 Год назад

      Because he cares for his image he wants nothing negative about his image he cannot accept perfect him commited a stupid mistake yeah happens sometimes we plan perfectly and can fail but these guys feel kinda critical to accept or understand it

    • @ad6417
      @ad6417 Год назад +3

      @@noorjehan5838 turns out he was abusing illegal drugs. The relationship ended after a month.

    • @noorjehan5838
      @noorjehan5838 Год назад

      @@ad6417 ohh

    • @Glo_up576
      @Glo_up576 Год назад +1

      Doesn’t sound healthy , Virgo’s have depth

    • @noorjehan5838
      @noorjehan5838 Год назад

      Yeah he wants to be a hideous bad boi sometimes he has angelic and feminine side and sometimes a bad boi who do drugs or something wrong which makes him mysterious not to mention he supports his friends sometimes even if its a dirty thing being drug addict or so or else if he sees that positive light and feels like he is healing he can become an angel for real too as its a feminine sign

  • @sabrinad_meza5174
    @sabrinad_meza5174 3 года назад +15

    I was nothing but loving and supportive, I am a Virgo too. He hurt me. He was my best friend at least I thought.However do not let me loose interest cause once I don’t care 🤷🏾‍♀️ there is nothing you can do.

  • @diz533
    @diz533 4 года назад +34

    All these don't matter if he doesn't love you though.

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад +1

      He didn’t say he loved me but he did say he was crazy about me. Does that count?

  • @Mcdowells
    @Mcdowells 4 года назад +7

    Couldn't have said any of this better.....this is a true virgo blueprint

  • @elitephantom9690
    @elitephantom9690 2 года назад +9

    Virgo men and women are a natural born narcissist. Dealing with my Virgo mum and a Virgo ex. They have a lot of things in common and the weird part is they don't even like each other because they don't even like themselves.

  • @summervalen3928
    @summervalen3928 2 года назад +7

    I will get my Virgo back!!!!!

  • @fabfab5450
    @fabfab5450 5 лет назад +66

    I love your videos. However, I have a question. Do Virgo men ever apologize or at least try to look at things from their lady's perspective because from my experience, Virgo men can dish it, but they can't take it. It's so true that it takes you all a while to fall in love.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  5 лет назад +12

      Yes if they feel they are wrong or have done wrong.

    • @toughycampbel5330
      @toughycampbel5330 4 года назад +3

      Yes we doo. But give us time. It will worth it

    • @misslattybaby1949
      @misslattybaby1949 4 года назад +19

      Nope, they never admit when they're wrong. I'm a virgo who dated a virgo for 3 years ....smh

    • @shathamuhsen3842
      @shathamuhsen3842 4 года назад

      Jonathan R Whitfield i want to ask you about my case with a virgo man ? How!

    • @tinaredd6858
      @tinaredd6858 4 года назад +4

      Shanta Webb my exact experiences with virgo men. All of them

  • @andreablackberry7915
    @andreablackberry7915 2 года назад +6

    I appreciate you breaking these topics down.. it’s definitely making it clearer to understand my Virgo man much better & makes me think more about & of my position in his life & what he needs from me

  • @HealingwithSistina
    @HealingwithSistina 4 года назад +20

    As an Aquarius women who is also spiritually gifted that is in a relationship with a Virgo man what I want to offer is this.....I encourage all Virgo men (since this is the topic) to be aware of the dark shadow of the Virgo. With perfection comes imperfection and in my experience a Virgo man should be aware of the judgemental nature of the Virgo....reflect what you admire....to ATTRACT the ideal partner one must BECOME the ideal partner. Even in writing this post I make sure that I paint my words in away that if a Virgo were to read this they can dissect it. I absolutely love the devotion and dedication of a Virgo man however you have to be aware of that judgmental nature because that dark shadow can rear its head and you may be extremely judgemental or critical but can't receive that same criticism in return. I support the information however I also encourage any Virgo man to go within (Enlightment) so that you can start making content to speak to the dark shadow of the Virgo man as well because that needs to be addressed to totally ascend and raise the conscious understanding of the Virgo man.

    • @cleo5543
      @cleo5543 3 года назад

      amen! iam an Aquarius woman too. i definitely tried to explain this to my virgo and i swear he flipped everything on me wasn't hearing anything i said. so exhausting. so judgmental.

    • @HealingwithSistina
      @HealingwithSistina 3 года назад +1

      @@cleo5543 Hey love bug...well I support you. I am also a healer and there may be somethings that your VIRGO does that is triggering things that was there before he came along. I have videos on my channel so there may be something there that can help you...sidw note...I also have videos on dealing with VIRGO men from an Aqua perspective😉😉. Sending you so much love💜

    • @cleo5543
      @cleo5543 3 года назад +1

      @@HealingwithSistina aww man thanks so much I’ll sure watch iam definitely stressed out

    • @HealingwithSistina
      @HealingwithSistina 3 года назад

      @@cleo5543 np love..I welcome you with open arms🙅🙅🙅

    • @HealingwithSistina
      @HealingwithSistina 3 года назад

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  • @NyahSaray
    @NyahSaray Год назад +4

    Your right and I tried apologizing over text just to see if he blocked me and he most definitely did block my number. Probably because he’s focused on his new gf but I hope she makes him happy. I’m trying to for give him and myself for the situation.

  • @Msmardea
    @Msmardea 24 дня назад +1

    I’m a Gemini and Virgo men always find their way back to me

  • @CaIiforniaL0VE
    @CaIiforniaL0VE 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ive been watching ur videos since I started dating my Virgo & We recently broke up. So everything u said spoke to my situation and my soul. If its meant to be I will get him back 🥺 Thank u so much & God bless u ❤️

  • @wonttrickmea1869
    @wonttrickmea1869 5 лет назад +12

    So I’ve been dating my Virgo guy for about 2 months now, he’s sweet, shy and loves to compliment me. He doesn’t call me or text me everyday (yet) he always ask me to be his woman I can never take him serious...Had a dream that I would be in a physical altercation with another woman behind him I don’t feel it in my gut but after that I think I’ll cut him off. We’ll see, I have zero tolerance lol he’s sweet though

  • @rorocitra1294
    @rorocitra1294 4 года назад +13

    Hi, thanks for making this video.
    I had a break with my virgo bf. He said he needs time to heal his feeling. I bombarded him with my messages. Then i realize it was wrong. I give him time now after i'm apologized for everything that i've done. After i see your video, i think i made a right decision.

    • @Farahgraphy
      @Farahgraphy 4 года назад

      What happen now? Does he come back?

    • @rorocitra1294
      @rorocitra1294 4 года назад +2

      @@Farahgraphy yes he is 🥰

    • @Farahgraphy
      @Farahgraphy 4 года назад

      How did you contact him? My men is not given me reply for last 4 months. What he is up to?

    • @rorocitra1294
      @rorocitra1294 4 года назад +3

      Well, in my case i think we're still connected to each other. When i try to give up and talk to him suddenly he want to talk to me. We speak out our feeling and what we want to keep this relationship.
      I don't know, maybe you just need to talk to him and make the first move. When he still ignoring you, i think you should ask yourself whether you still want him or not. Or whether you worth to wait him or not. I'm sure if he means for you, he will come back.
      I hope you'll find your true happiness ❤

    • @shilkachavera8219
      @shilkachavera8219 2 года назад

      @@rorocitra1294 how long it took u for him to reach out again?

  • @guiovanacazares1882
    @guiovanacazares1882 5 лет назад +8

    Wow Jonathan! You're amazing! Everything you said is 💯 correct. This happened is happening in my relationship with a Virgo. Thank you for being humble, sharing your knowledge and for reminding us to love and value ourselves no matter what. And to strong. Thank you, thank you. Blessings... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Ginlatay
    @Ginlatay 3 года назад +8

    Went through this hard , Virgo ♍️ and Scorpio ♏️ toxic

  • @selenacervantes3676
    @selenacervantes3676 5 лет назад +5

    I enjoy hearing you in your videos while I'm driving in my Semi around the U.S! Can't wait to see you in Africa for the Year of Return !

  • @559kelkel
    @559kelkel 4 года назад +30

    I'm dying laughing because he unfriended & ghosted me so quick.... I ain't never had a man drop & block me like this... in true Capricorn fashion, it drove me crazy, now it's a game....and we play to win. But I'm going to fall back & wait.

    • @flowingwithporsh4769
      @flowingwithporsh4769 4 года назад

      Did he ever come back?

    • @559kelkel
      @559kelkel 4 года назад +16

      @@flowingwithporsh4769 he ended up ghosting me again...getting into a whole other relationship...it broke my heart. 4 months went by...I got better, started to heal from the situation....then he showed back up because they had broke up. I'm over it...he chosen someone over me...I'll never get over it.

    • @chelseawoods628
      @chelseawoods628 3 года назад +10

      Capricorn win always❗

    • @andreamessiasgomes7118
      @andreamessiasgomes7118 3 года назад +4

      @@chelseawoods628 in what way did Capricorn win and I don't agree with cap n Virgo being best match I feel virgos belong to Gemini only they can tolerate their crappy behaviour.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@andreamessiasgomes7118 because we don't lose ourselves to low life ppl. We were never meant to tolerate crappy behavior. Know your worth.

  • @roseannonyema8922
    @roseannonyema8922 3 года назад +5

    Thanks a lot this actually helped me. Ive been doing everything you said already till I saw this video and was like ohhh I’m doing the right thing ☺️ I know he’ll give me another chance. I’ve been drawing myself closer to God too

  • @ashleyatmo
    @ashleyatmo 3 года назад +12

    Been kinda talking / "dating?" This Virgo guy for 5 months now. Last week i put a stop to everything. He was bummed (as well as I was) and said why so fast basically. I get what he meant cuz I'm the type to not give up easily, but then again it made me mad becuz I don't see the point of holding on to something, kwowing it won't work.
    I ignored him till Saturday...I decided to have a talk with him...we were supposed to meet yesterday (tuesday) and guess what happened? He fucked up by disappearing...AGAIN.
    I srsly want to punch him. (I'm a Leo sun with Virgo ascendant btw)

  • @2ndChanceCrafting
    @2ndChanceCrafting 3 года назад +5

    Been 2.5 months now. We talk and he has told me "that boat has sailed". I will try this. I can't stop tearing up everytime I think of him. We both Empath's also. Funny, he was attracted to me for why I kept myself but during our relationship he said you could wear a gunny sack and still look wonderful. :) Wish me luck.

  • @_mango9034
    @_mango9034 4 года назад +14

    I lost my Virgo man because I was skeptical of him talking to other women it was in the beginning of the relationship. And he always say “why do you treat me like this” “why do you accuse me of doing something wrong?” And honestly is my trust issues plus he’s fine asf so I know women want him ... I want him back, because thinking back he was very genuine and never gave me a reason to doubt him it was just me in my head assuming stuff.. this Is recent too.

    • @PeaceDayCortez
      @PeaceDayCortez 3 года назад +5

      I’m a Virgo female and Virgo’s are extremely loyal. The best looking person can cross their path and they will still not be interested.

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 3 года назад

      Pls what zodiac sign are you

    • @vanessaanders1619
      @vanessaanders1619 2 года назад +1

      i had the same issue.. i tripped cuz one he is fine as hell. Then he always answers his phone. But one night he says he going to his friends house for a birthday.. he texted me that at 630pm.. i tried to text and call him.. no reply until 1am.. i flipped out.. like what were u doing for 6 hours.. he said drinking and talking about sports with the homies and then blacked out.. Im not sure if i believes this or not. I only been with him 6 months.. i dont know if he is a faithful person or not. He says he doesnt roll like that. But alot of ppl say virgo cheat

    • @vanessaanders1619
      @vanessaanders1619 2 года назад

      Did u get him back ?

    • @_mango9034
      @_mango9034 2 года назад

      @@siphookobama8344 I’m a libra woman lol

  • @vibewithmara8435
    @vibewithmara8435 3 года назад +6

    I’m a Virgo also and I know how we are but he keeps watching my story after we broke up and we don’t have each other on social media I miss him I’m pretty sure he misses me too but he won’t admit it

  • @barbss.7578
    @barbss.7578 3 года назад +2

    J... I can go days and months without listening to your vids and it never fails... when I tune in, you make virgos sound like mechanical robots🤖! I really want to know WHY?

  • @staciannreaves843
    @staciannreaves843 5 лет назад +26

    I am in love with my virgo. I don't know what we have going on, after 3 months of no contact, and being called crazy, he invited me to his house. LOL I think he is in love love. We have been communicating since January. I am not desperate but dam it, I want him so much.

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад

      Did things work out?

    • @vibewithmara8435
      @vibewithmara8435 3 года назад

      Update?

    • @staciannreaves843
      @staciannreaves843 3 года назад +4

      @@vibewithmara8435 Who is he lol. I had to let that go, but still think of him

    • @swetha4844
      @swetha4844 2 года назад +1

      What is your birth sign?

  • @ferloftheorientseas
    @ferloftheorientseas 3 года назад +6

    Of all the advices I watched on YT this one is the most helpful. I will definitely do this. 2 weeks had passed already for his space, I think I need to apply the apologize humbly face to face in my most sweet and kind side. Thank you so much for the advices sir! More power to your channel. ❤

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад

      How did this turn out? Did he come back? Did he accept your apology?

    • @ferloftheorientseas
      @ferloftheorientseas 3 года назад +7

      @@zztops3739 I just surprised him yesterday because I got a news from his cousin that he is sick. I immediately bought some fruits and went in their house. He was shocked when he saw me. He didn't even say any word. All he did was he grabbed my hand while his on the bed and hug my waist. We didn't talk about why he disappear yet. I just take good care of him. To make him feel that I'm still here for him no matter what. I guess that speaks a lot already. When he's feeling well already and we're not busy, that's the time to ask him questions that's been running on my mind. Atleast now I can say that we're fine and he's been texting me again 😊

  • @RefrigerationDevil
    @RefrigerationDevil 3 года назад +1

    Sir when you said face to face I started clapping ! I ABSOLUTELY hate it when women want to text me to attempt to get me back!

  • @relaxwithempressenergies4888
    @relaxwithempressenergies4888 4 года назад +23

    No disrespect, I dont need no grown men to drop hints....be straight forward. Heck, a woman like me I dont read between the lines nor do I expect him to read between my lines. I say what needs to be said straight forward. It just seems like yall Virgos just dont know how to communicate like an adult in a love relationship... I've known him for a week and I can tell he's in infancy stage of communication. Yall need psychological help...rs

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  4 года назад +6

      Virgos are not for everybody, don't force it, I would just move on.

    • @relaxwithempressenergies4888
      @relaxwithempressenergies4888 4 года назад +5

      Yeah, trust me I quickly bounced, he's way too old to not be able to formulate sentences on his feelings. Communication is KEY in any relationship though.

    • @relaxwithempressenergies4888
      @relaxwithempressenergies4888 4 года назад

      Your videos though are very informative and on point though. You do know your stuff

    • @tinaredd6858
      @tinaredd6858 4 года назад +1

      Nicole Otto its only been a week tho.. I would hope he’s vague about his feelings right now. He doesn’t know you.

  • @wendychu9225
    @wendychu9225 4 года назад +23

    my virgo ex claimed that he loved me but during the breakup he said he fell out of love, so it wasn't love at all.

    • @dikachiekeke4426
      @dikachiekeke4426 4 года назад +11

      Very confused human beings. I hate them

    • @user-mn1ux8lf4n
      @user-mn1ux8lf4n 3 года назад +2

      Same thing happened to me they be so confusing with their feelings 🙄

    • @wendychu9225
      @wendychu9225 3 года назад +5

      @@dikachiekeke4426 yes, I am a Virgo as well but I think Virgo females and virgo males are very different. I can’t tell you how many Virgo men tried to manipulate me and switch up their words so many of them tried to gaslight me

    • @wendychu9225
      @wendychu9225 3 года назад +3

      @@user-mn1ux8lf4n yes, they never have their feelings straight and love to play games

    • @wendychu9225
      @wendychu9225 3 года назад +1

      @@Kinich-f2p I was only talking about Virgo men from my own experiences. He only manipulated me so I could stay he told me that later on he wanted to use me. Virgo men in my life loved to blame everything on me and never apologized for their actions

  • @fjoinville1
    @fjoinville1 5 лет назад +17

    He said “I know some of y’all already did that” Nah this video was for me 😢 Talking straight to me. I’m a Sag. I hope he comes back . He’s in a dark place right now. I guess I have to wait it out.

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 5 лет назад

      Fiona Joinville what exactly are you waiting on?

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ 4 года назад +3

      Please move on love just keep doing your thing if it meant to be it will be

    • @fjoinville1
      @fjoinville1 4 года назад +9

      Stacyann J oh I moved on. He came back and He wasn’t accountable for anything. Too many narcissistic traits. Too toxic

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ 4 года назад +3

      Fiona Joinville I was saying the same thing in my head he’s a narcissist and I pray that you find so much better and I’m glad that you moved on 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @fjoinville1
      @fjoinville1 4 года назад

      Stacyann J thank you! You as well! I’m so much at peace now

  • @deemese4047
    @deemese4047 3 года назад +1

    Wow!!! I stopped talking to him. But now I miss him but I’m giving both of us time. You’re on point.

  • @sweetiegirl3292
    @sweetiegirl3292 2 года назад +5

    I was the nicest gf he ever had we had some arguments but I did so much for him. I’m so sad I’m a sag😞 and he’s already dating someone I think he blocked me 😢

  • @misscooks601
    @misscooks601 7 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love my Virgo. I know he loves me too. He definitely told me to give him time and to relax 😢

  • @thejasscarter
    @thejasscarter 3 года назад +6

    So how much space/time he damn need? Lol

  • @Jasahaful
    @Jasahaful 3 года назад +6

    Can't talk face to face if Virgo won't pick up the phone

  • @katrinawilliams5928
    @katrinawilliams5928 4 года назад +7

    What if you broke it off with him? Cause you got tired of the hot/cold and ghosting? Then he flips it on you like your breaking up is not justified? That’s a whole mother level of.....SERIOUSLY????

    • @katrinawilliams5928
      @katrinawilliams5928 4 года назад +1

      Other not mother

    • @cassiemaie9308
      @cassiemaie9308 3 года назад +3

      This happened to me! 👀 It was HIS behaviour that pushed my buttons. Now I’m sat here like, WTH! 🤷🏽‍♀️😑

    • @cassiemaie9308
      @cassiemaie9308 3 года назад

      ...Did your Virgo come back?

  • @sallyscott7555
    @sallyscott7555 5 лет назад +33

    A Virgo man left me and got married to someone else. A year after (still married) he tried to come back reminding me how great we had it. I cut him off without a word. Scorpio woman and Virgo man chemistry is out of this world, but scorpio women hate to see a man being inconsistent and disloyal. Even they aren't a woman he's involved with.

  • @bennymoreira1443
    @bennymoreira1443 3 года назад +6

    My virgo hasn’t broken off officially he has just not replied to texts or answered my calls... 😢 I miss him terribly a week before that he was telling me he loved me so much!!

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад +1

      Did he come back?

    • @bennymoreira1443
      @bennymoreira1443 3 года назад +2

      @@zztops3739 He did but it’s everything but normal 😂

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад

      @@bennymoreira1443 if you’re comfortable sharing, what do you mean by that?

    • @bennymoreira1443
      @bennymoreira1443 3 года назад +2

      @@zztops3739 Sure i am as i don’t think its entirely my fault for the strangeness of it all...So his explanation for his sheer absence was that he was very busy and he didn’t realise that much time has gone by... I then explained that i was not expecting to take centre stage in his life but also not to be tossed around like a teddy bear only to be grabbed when needed as i find that entirely selfish if acting according to your own needs... Since then he had to setup in his calendar to call me every other day even if it is just for 5 mins.. That in itself is weird and highly unnatural... I have a hard time understanding that one actually needs to schedule some “let’s check on bae time” so if he hasn’t contacted me in between the next scheduled call it means he will definitely do so on the day he meant to contact me... Most of the time this is also around midnight which adds to the weirdness of it all 😞

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 3 года назад

      @@bennymoreira1443 pls what zodiac sign are you

  • @yourlittledumpling907
    @yourlittledumpling907 2 года назад +2

    Hi Jonathan, your advices are very helpful, I feel like I’m listening to a friend! :)
    I did make it straight that I know what I want and the best I could do right now is to give him time,, I have been too impatient all the time and I will need to learn how to step back and breathe, give it a second thought before act :)
    Thank you again

  • @sarah-cf2wo
    @sarah-cf2wo 4 года назад +7

    Ah man :/ my Virgo guy and I have lost our temper with each other before and said things in the heat of the moment that we didn’t want to continue being together. But we always made up instantly. He has had a concern that I’m not setting enough goals in my life. I messed up by sending him a bunch of texts and bombarding him. When he tried to call I’d ignore it and say I didn’t want to talk on the phone. He told me to never contact him and to stay away from him and to not try and fix this. That last part makes me concerned. I know he loves me really deeply, but I also know Virgos have it in them to wipe their hands clean if they feel hurt. I hope there’s a chance. I feel there’s too much love there for it to really be over. I hope some of your tips will help. I don’t want to contact him and want to honor his wishes. But man that text tone just seemed much different than something that’s just said in the heat of the moment. Especially when he said don’t try to fix this. Starting to feel heartbroken and like maybe there’s no hope :( - a gemini woman

    • @shanaenicolesisco1
      @shanaenicolesisco1 4 года назад

      How is everything?

    • @redvellvett1439
      @redvellvett1439 4 года назад +1

      Did he come back to you? I am in a similar situation and don't know how long I should wait

    • @ishmaelj6109
      @ishmaelj6109 4 года назад

      Red Vellvett hey any updates going through the same thing?

    • @redvellvett1439
      @redvellvett1439 4 года назад +1

      @@ishmaelj6109 Nope. Still no contact. I think its better to move on and focus on yourself

  • @stephanieguy2672
    @stephanieguy2672 7 месяцев назад

    Virgos like lawyers, you gotta take them to court 😂😂😂🙌🏽 DEEP!!

  • @oooooo9509
    @oooooo9509 Год назад +3

    Number 1: that bastard caused All this and he needs to take responsibility for all of
    I know what I'm talking about
    It's not him be better 🙏 that I have any more interest in him
    I still by him through everything
    He Needs my strength and I won't go back to him for any reason
    I was devoted to that joke and he never appreciate me
    Am already everything and I won't apologize or stroke his ego
    This Virgo is not worth it
    Why do you think the woman messed up??
    It's is fault and always will be

  • @dylenadavis270
    @dylenadavis270 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you for this video I really enjoyed it...you are very knowledgeable

  • @Misu-oi1nz
    @Misu-oi1nz 18 дней назад

    What about when a Virgo man says he just wants to be friends? He says he lost feelings a long time ago but still cares about me as a friend. He's been indifferent and cold and I finally just had to fall back and let it be.

  • @angelcash1290
    @angelcash1290 2 года назад +1

    He definitely block me with no explanation

  • @Madimonique
    @Madimonique 2 месяца назад

    Wow 4 years later and I found this video THANK GOD! First off I really do need to talk to you more because I dated my Virgo for only 2 months and even tho the time was so short we were spending ALOT of time together and it was amazing!! I’m a libra and this was my first time I ever trying a Virgo out. We had ALOT of fun together, I brought a lot out of him but we were moving fast. Then all of a sudden he calls me saying that he wants to continue being my friend but he doesn’t want the title. I just feel like he just wants his cake and eat it too but I won’t allow him to just sleep with me without a relationship! I’m a lover.
    PLEASE HELP! 2024! I’m
    Here I need you 🥺🥺🥺

  • @rietta1166
    @rietta1166 4 года назад +7

    I love my virgo man, he broke up with me bcos he was jealous of another guy talking to me when we were out...n this was the first time this has happened.
    Do u think he'll come back?

    • @akinbusiflorence9233
      @akinbusiflorence9233 4 года назад

      It happened to me too

    • @dikachiekeke4426
      @dikachiekeke4426 4 года назад

      Am sure

    • @lalaafleeky1792
      @lalaafleeky1792 3 года назад

      It happened too me as well

    • @jsalais55
      @jsalais55 3 года назад +3

      You must of done something he didn't like or he saw something thought to much into it an decided it wasn't worth it...ima virgo btw....he might come back but why would you want someone who gets jealous of other men

  • @AndyAndersonnnn
    @AndyAndersonnnn 5 лет назад +7

    This me I’m a Virgo he a Virgo .. but for some reason he do not TALK(lack communication). I need to email you ...

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ 4 года назад +2

      Tay Lush'd I’m in a Virgo and Virgo situation at this very moment it’s like mirroring loool

    • @AndyAndersonnnn
      @AndyAndersonnnn 4 года назад

      Stacyann J it’s the best when your own good terms

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ 4 года назад

      Tay Lush'd agreed !

  • @noorjehan5838
    @noorjehan5838 Год назад +1

    I love my man he is just so sweet but sometimes he seems like a sweet poison but it aint that way 😅 he is kinda dominating due to his insecurity but this guy if understood correctly he desreve respect no matter what he cares for his image his family and especially his finance he is hard working and helping in nature i do give him space and keep my calm and crack jokes but soon as i start miss him i call him in a broken voice i dont know i am scared to loose him he has a sensitive and feminine side as he is a virgin sign mutable too

  • @WanderingMind-fw6it
    @WanderingMind-fw6it 2 месяца назад

    I gave him space, he was acting cold and distant, when a man wants to be left alone his behavior will change. I have a healthy respect for freedom and boundaries, he freaked out and assumed I was ghosting him (just because I didn't text him goodnight or good morning! We spoke the day before and I "ghosted him?!") so he decided "we don't know each other" he gave up and walked away because I gave him time!

  • @zztops3739
    @zztops3739 3 года назад +2

    Please make an updated version of this (you mentioned doing it in the video) 💙

  • @Mcdowells
    @Mcdowells 4 года назад +5

    If you apologize if it is the most meaningful thing to a Virgo

  • @zztops3739
    @zztops3739 3 года назад +4

    I have to wait months??? WHAT. Omg.

  • @msD0311
    @msD0311 3 года назад +7

    He’s everything i want and he said that i am what he wants to. He says he loves me but he also says he’s not feeling like himself so maybe he shouldn’t be in a relationship. I’m in love with him and can’t see myself with anyone else. I honestly don’t want to let go of a good thing. He wants to break up but i won’t let him. I know he loves me so i want to be there for him. What should i do now?

    • @msD0311
      @msD0311 3 года назад +3

      I’m scared that if another woman gets the chance with him I’ll lose him for good 😢

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      he can help you ;;;;::::::--~````√√√√÷÷÷÷÷

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      WhatsApp him $$$$$@:::*;";()));" x

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      +234. 9. 0. 7. 1. 5. 6. 8. 2. 8. 2💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад

      Did he come back?

  • @ariannashafi9898
    @ariannashafi9898 2 года назад +2

    he left me for his ex so I don’t even know what to do , I’m so hurt because I never did anything wrong to him

  • @Peachesandstrawberries-j9i
    @Peachesandstrawberries-j9i Год назад +1

    My Virgo man just recently broke up with me (1 week ago). I’m a Aquarius and we were in a long distance relationship. It was hard to communicate with each other, he is very blunt about everything and very straightforward about things he doesn’t like. I invaded his space and he lost his self peace because of constant arguments that I didn’t mean to make him feel uncomfortable. I was just asking to understand him more and make the situation better and to understand his perspective. He broke it off saying that this time he’ll pick himself and I should love myself. I am self healing and doing better but I miss him. I want him back because I know that there are many more things I want to experience and do with him. He didn’t block me on any of his social media but I think I’m on mute/restricted so he won’t get notifications.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 10 месяцев назад

      Too much fighting here its best to move on. Sounds toxic

    • @ErebusNyxJay
      @ErebusNyxJay 10 месяцев назад +1

      Well coming from Libra woman since I dated an Virgo guy , I would say just drop him and move on. Especially if he contact you with different phone number, just block him and move on.

  • @yaniaamber8600
    @yaniaamber8600 4 года назад +1

    That south accent wow ❤💯👑

  • @72578
    @72578 4 года назад +24

    My Virgo guy appears to be a bit immature 😳

  • @robinburns1178
    @robinburns1178 5 лет назад +5

    Preach 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽(bday 8/30

    • @robinburns1178
      @robinburns1178 4 года назад +1

      Was recently talkin to a Taurus and I’m A Virgo never again a headache it’s self lol she blocked me I said good less problem

    • @peachygodezzsoul2229
      @peachygodezzsoul2229 4 года назад

      🙋💥8/30💥 heeeey me toooo💙

    • @laclutchurbnturbn
      @laclutchurbnturbn Месяц назад

      ​@@robinburns1178 did you ever talk to her again?

  • @kanylaross9673
    @kanylaross9673 Год назад +1

    I just missed hym u know Virgo r Soo private I was tryna give hym space n not look on his page so I did it in secret

  • @gramblinggrad09
    @gramblinggrad09 Год назад +1

    I miss him 😫

  • @chukilewis1696
    @chukilewis1696 3 года назад

    Omg I’m a Virgo woman and I thought it was just me that drop hints!

  • @ursularice2724
    @ursularice2724 Год назад +1

    If I love him I want him groveling at my feet. Especially if he has a history of letting me down. But he has to change. Sexy, changed, and groveling.

  • @yelxebi.392
    @yelxebi.392 Месяц назад

    And thats if you get the Virgo to talk.

  • @DannyM.D.N.A
    @DannyM.D.N.A 3 года назад +2

    I’ve given him timr
    I’ve given my self time
    I’ve apologised sincerely
    I’ve listened to what he has to say, it was very clear but
    He told me that he was the problem
    Now what how do I get him
    Back

    • @emilylibra9838
      @emilylibra9838 Год назад

      Literally just be his friend… that’s all they really need first.

  • @josie2919
    @josie2919 2 года назад +4

    He said gather yourself & get yourself together 😂😂😭😭 a virgo at his finest!

  • @kanylaross9673
    @kanylaross9673 Год назад +1

    It's been a week & I sent apologies videos and he texted me today but I don't know what next

  • @klorraineb9818
    @klorraineb9818 3 года назад

    New sub, for sure Gonna buy a reading in the next few days.

  • @deovionneonsay
    @deovionneonsay 3 года назад +7

    Does anyone think if it’s real love it’ll come back

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      I know. of. a. powerful. woman. who. helps me get. back. my. ex. he. can. also. help. you💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💅💅💅💖💖💖

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      message. him. on. WhatsApp. of. help. now

    • @blessingkinny3840
      @blessingkinny3840 3 года назад

      +234. 9. 0. 7. 1. 5. 6. 8. 2. 8. 2💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 2 года назад +1

    Michael Jackson was a Virgo 😍😍😍

  • @All.ThingsRE
    @All.ThingsRE 4 года назад +4

    You give very good info but damn your videos are so long.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  4 года назад +1

      Yes, I provide timestamps so that everyone can skip along, it's in the description box

  • @adelineejiba2068
    @adelineejiba2068 Год назад +1

    Why Virgo Men do not answer question about themselves?

  • @rachelcuk
    @rachelcuk 2 месяца назад

    Since he didn't want to speak over phone. I did the full apology over text

  • @jazziebee1112
    @jazziebee1112 2 года назад +1

    I'm aries and his virgo we was together for 8 years I loved him

  • @ceenguyen1567
    @ceenguyen1567 9 месяцев назад

    Nice video.. trying to get back with my Virgo man :(

  • @kanylaross9673
    @kanylaross9673 Год назад

    I lied to my Virgo about having a second IG page he's very private Soo I thought I could watch his stories and he found out it was me

  • @raquelnova7298
    @raquelnova7298 3 года назад +7

    I am sad without my Virgo Man!! I am a Scorpio woman and I really miss him so much, it's almost been a month since we have talked!!

    • @Nurse.Deelightful
      @Nurse.Deelightful 3 года назад +2

      Im a scorpio woman with a virgo man and we just broke up today. This is sucky

    • @AngelRamirez-iv1xw
      @AngelRamirez-iv1xw 2 года назад

      What happened

    • @arnzgel
      @arnzgel 2 года назад +1

      Any updates ? Did he come back ?

  • @teddyziro2399
    @teddyziro2399 4 года назад

    Preach Brotha ...truth 100%

  • @geooogeooo8566
    @geooogeooo8566 2 года назад +1

    This can work if he says he doesnt have feelings for me anymore? And is chatting someone else... :)))

  • @thebrutalgarden6842
    @thebrutalgarden6842 3 года назад

    Guess I needed that. I am going to leave it alone. if it happens it happens.

  • @RealAshiaMiller
    @RealAshiaMiller 5 лет назад +3

    I’ll be in Ghana in December!!!!

  • @PiscesQueen90
    @PiscesQueen90 4 года назад +7

    Had a strong connection with a Virgo man....we were dating for a short period of time but we had a strong connection & had chemistry out this world. Long story short I found out he was in a committed relationship but told me he was single & has been single for 5 months. My first reaction was me showing my anger & hurt. I cut things off with him. After I took time to calm down, I wanted to have a conversation with him so I did ask him if he wants to have a face to face conversation, he kept refusing to talk, saying there is nothing to talk about etc. He would respond to my text at first, now he will read them & not respond. We work together so we see each other all the time which is rough. A lot of the time he constantly works around me....it seems to be on purpose...almost like he wants to be in my presence which I don’t understand because he won’t talk to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Idk what is going on at this point.

    • @t.p.0104
      @t.p.0104 4 года назад +2

      @Love Dot I am in the exact situation right now. It hurts so much. So, how's it going with you guys?

    • @PiscesQueen90
      @PiscesQueen90 4 года назад +2

      @T. P. We only greet each other at work & talk when it is work related.....nothing else. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @t.p.0104
      @t.p.0104 4 года назад +1

      @@PiscesQueen90 Is he still in a committed relationship? Do you guys still hang out? I bet it still hurts right? If you don't mind me asking, what is your zodiac sign?😥

    • @PiscesQueen90
      @PiscesQueen90 4 года назад +1

      @ T.P. I am not sure if he is or not. It doesn’t hurt as much as it did before. No we don’t hang out at all anymore. I am a Pisces.

  • @charenegray9456
    @charenegray9456 3 года назад +2

    Everything has been accurate but I’m wondering if this applies if he got a new girlfriend ☹️

    • @sakeithia1
      @sakeithia1 3 года назад +9

      She’s gonna be watching this video next, don’t worry 😂

  • @thisloop
    @thisloop Год назад

    I blocked him right away tho 🤣 but i think its true, he still cant let go, still thinkin about me by doing weird things to catch my attentions but i just ignored him

  • @Love87837
    @Love87837 4 года назад

    You are speaking facts

  • @GODDESS-ze3ew
    @GODDESS-ze3ew 3 года назад

    Yes I changed soo much and I have really taking care of myself even tho am a mother but am looking more sexy,beautiful and loving like I have always been....he said to me hey u have really taking good care of urself even after having two handsome kids ....my flat tummy and my big ass is also on point and he is over protective of me even tho we aint together again

  • @kanylaross9673
    @kanylaross9673 Год назад

    I was tryna protect from keep asking for his personal IG cuz he already toldme no the first and second time sooo

  • @drenebug3410
    @drenebug3410 3 года назад

    I needed this thanks for the words. Da Virgo man I got trust it’s difficult but I’m trying

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад +1

      Did he come back?

    • @drenebug3410
      @drenebug3410 3 года назад

      @@zztops3739 still trying

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 3 года назад +1

      @@drenebug3410 does he disappear after arguments and say overly dramatic things like he doesn’t want to see you again before returning?

    • @drenebug3410
      @drenebug3410 3 года назад

      @@zztops3739 on point... I’m not used to this

    • @drenebug3410
      @drenebug3410 3 года назад

      @@zztops3739 he did lol...

  • @AdjoaWodome73
    @AdjoaWodome73 Год назад

    So emotionally unavailable! No I don't want him back even though he has been trying so hard to remain a friend, I don't know why 🤣 I need a lover not a friend 🤣

  • @maia-nicole4540
    @maia-nicole4540 4 года назад +17

    My Virgo dumped the hell outta me... LOL. I can laugh about it because it was so freaking random. He said I got too many red flags for him... I'm like 'omg.. we just started dating... (literally like 3 weeks) you don't want to get to know each other'. He was like 'he knows enough'. So I'm a little heart broken..because I saw red flags in him too... but I didn't jump ship. So I call him every now and then to talk to him and he usually ends up yelling and screaming... LOL. I think it's hilarious! He can't express hisself... so I ask more questions and he keeps yelling the same thing... so I ask a more detailed questions... and keeps yelling.. He told me I'm dumb, I'm no Queen, I'm not made of Gold... all because he took a statement I made as a personal attack! LOL... I'm like WTF is wrong with this dude? LOL... but his yelling and screaming at me is crazy and I find it so funny. So I keep fucking with him... and for some reason.. he still allows it. I really think I could love him though.. I know he's a good person with some serious PTSD from his last relationship. Do I want him back? Yes. But he is refusing to meet with me. I know its because of how our energy is when we're around each other. *sigh*

    • @shockaturner525
      @shockaturner525 4 года назад +1

      Maia-Nicole Oh Wow Going through the same exact thing with my Virgo ♍️ Guy.Is his name BENJIE 😜🤷‍♀️

    • @SoulmanticVybzOfficial
      @SoulmanticVybzOfficial 4 года назад +1

      I'm sorry but this is funny af....

    • @thisloop
      @thisloop Год назад

      😹😹😹😹😹 typical damage virgo who likes to yell and scream somethin like u dunno me, u dun understand me ☺️ i encountered one crazy virgo who did that 🤷‍♀️ was so rude as well (his words to me), belittle me, look down on me n such when he was angry while i only said how i felt, brought out the issues that never solved cuz he aint fixed it to make everything good n i didnt attack him at all. I just blocked him on social media but he tried to reach out on youtube tho (sending hints) 😹😹😹 i ignored him but glad to know that it seemed he felt regrets... still thinkin about me n even posted a break up song. I just stay silent. If he aint been disrespectful or aint throw those harsh words or apologize, i most probably okay wit it cuz sometimes when ppl get mad they often say things that they dont mean to. The mo i think about it, the mo i dont wanna deal wit him no mo and dont wanna be friends either. Just recently i met another virgo😂 but i'll set some bounderies just in case he is as crazy as the prev one...

  • @mikaylabrown4753
    @mikaylabrown4753 3 года назад

    Love this video lol currently working on this

  • @DannyM.D.N.A
    @DannyM.D.N.A 3 года назад +1

    What do I do when he says it him not you how do I change from that

  • @crkproductions5000
    @crkproductions5000 4 года назад

    Brother this is deep

  • @dianemoody8553
    @dianemoody8553 3 года назад

    Awesome video. Thanks

  • @4yourhonour
    @4yourhonour 5 лет назад

    great vid really enjoyed it blessings

  • @teezyk5745
    @teezyk5745 2 года назад

    Virgo men have a natural Hiphop personality. Period