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One habit that has been helping me is the "no phone on bed" rule. I've been trying to put my phone out of my reach when lying on bed, being ready for a good sleep. It has helped me fall asleep faster and wake up with a clearer mind. I also find that I don't get headaches as often as in the past when I was just scrolling aimlessly through the social media before bedtime. Anyway love your vibe so much.
I use audio therapy for sleep so I keep my phone on my night stand a bit aways. I turn the volume up so I can hear it enough to relax me but not too loud to keep me up. Works wonders!
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One habit that has been helping me is "drinking plenty of water " One habit that hurting me is " spending a whole day in bed without doing anything " thank you so much for your videos they help me a lot in my life you're such an amazing person you give a lot of positive vibes love you so much Aileen ✨💜
One habit that has been REALLY helping me, this month, was taking some time every day to sit down with my thoughts, listen me and my emotions. I usually do it outside in my garden, it's really calming, expecially when i don't want to listen what i'm feeling. It has helped me so much to accept them and don't have fear of what i feel or think.
August in one word - youtube ( I started youtube channel and taken so much time to learn about it ) Highlights - 1 book readed (I am rich beyond my wildest dreams) - learning harmonium - done meditation hole month without missing anyday - I don't cared about people thinking upon me , enjoying the now Edit - I can improve myself for next month by using less mobile phone and focus on study 😃 , god bless me 😌
She deserves a lot more Subscribers💖💖. She has changed so many people's lives(definately including me✋) and is making everyone's life a billion times better😘. She is and will always be an ideal for me☺. Was waiting for this video since the start of this week🥰. Love you as always😍.
I'm so grateful for your channel. I discovered your channel a few weeks ago and I binge watched lots of your videos. I found the 'current self'/'future self' element soo helpful as it made me honestly acknowledge where I am in life (which was kind of painful to lay out on paper all the messy aspects of myself and my life that I am not currently happy with) and then how I can bridge that gap into being my idealised 'future self'. I feel like I am not just mindlessly going through my days anymore but am actually purpose-driven and goal-driven.
I love these videos! I wouldn't necessarily plan my goals for the coming month but as soon as I see your videos I take the take to sit down, answer the questions and reflect. The habit helping me is zumba 3 times a week. It helps with my mood, my discipline and my energy level. The habit hurting me is waiting for motivation to do some work instead of being disciplined and starting the work whether or not I wanna do it. Lack of motivation is closely related to cellphone usage so I'll work on turning it off more often.
Clicked so fast because I am actually planning for my September as in right now. Thanks for the added inspo as I do this ✨💜 To everyone who went through and who is going through rough patches in the year... We are cheering for you 🤗
Personally I really like your plan with me videos and don't want to see them stop. Seeing it pop up in my feed really does make me set aside time to do my planning. I sit here and pause when I'm supposed to pause, answering each question. And I like seeing your answers as well.
This video is 💯 percent inspiring for me. I am excited to start planning for september. Who else feels inspired as well? Let us start new and learn to bettering ourselves♥️ Thank you Aileen♥️
I want you to keep doing this monthly.please don't stop.I love your voice soo much. I'm on the 13 episode of your podcast. I know late to find. But I love your voice and you are soo inspiring. I just love the quote "fake it till you make it".love you.💖💖🇮🇳🇮🇳
One habit that helping me is to wake up early and exercising daily to boost my mind and helping to reduce stress One habit that hurting me is to I procastinate alot this month for my study I hope I will be better at September with my studies
September may be the 9th month of the year, but with Aileen, every month feels like a mini New Year! I feel refreshed after every Monthly Planning, and my mind feels clear and ready to tackle the new month! Wishing us all new chances, new opportunities and new challenges that will push us towards success!
I'm going to put mine in the comments as well as in my notebook, just to inspire anybody! 1. August in one word: Magical 2. Highlights of August: Feeling in control during rough situations, seeing friends, finding a balance between social and by myself time, and my upstate NY vacation 3. One thing I'm proud of: The fact that I felt braver this month, and pushed past social fears! 4. No matter how much you doubt it, somebody out there really does love you. 5. How to improve for next month: Really having a good attitude when I play with my brother because we won't be able to as much anymore. 6. September will be: Enlightening 7. Top 3 goals for September: 1. Set aside times for writing at least once a week 2. Strive to study for classes 3. Make walking and/or bike riding regular 8. Mini September goals: 1. Meet up with a certain friend 2. Try a salad or new healthy food! 3. Make stretching regular 4. Slowly get back into reading 5. Look appropriate for Zoom classes 9. Goal Breakdowns (this took quite a long time!) 1. Week one: Set reminders for writing, Organize school supplies, talk to Mom about walking/biking alone, communicate with friend about meet-up dates, research simple salads, set stretching reminders, ask Dad to go to the library 2. Week two: Check up on writing progress, set aside study times for each class, revisit biking/walking, hopefully, have seen friend by now, if now revisit it, research salad dressings, reflect on flexibility progress, set aside reading times, pick out outfits in advance 3. Week three: Change writing time to two times per week, review class notes and recordings, try to walk/bike 3 times per week, pick a salad and other healthy food to try, flexibility check-up, continue outfit-in-advance method, re-read this plan 4. Week four: Change writing times to 3 times a week, stick to study times + reread notes and re-watch recordings, change walking/biking to 4 times a week, check on stretching progress, read 75 pages per day, continue outfit-in-advance method, do an October planning with me. 10. I set reminders for the reading, writing, stretching, and plan re-visiting! 11. Healthy Habit: Listening to ASMR at night has been helping me sleep! Harming Habit: Being on my phone while trying to sleep kills me some days... That's all! I hope this was inspiring! Remember: Practice makes progress, not perfect! Love you!
I thought she will have this tomorrow 😂 I'm always to excited to do a monthly planning with lavendaire community! Time flies so fast. Thank you Aileen for being an inspiration! 💛
I've been watching your videos and i just realized how much my body and mind is relaxing i feel myself whole. You're videos got some magic and i admire that. You're my favorite RUclipsr now ♥️
one habit that helped me: meditation when I'm anxious or before I need to focus on something one habit that hurt me: not keeping my room clean which leads to me feeling mentally cluttered
If I have to time constrant/restricted to watch only 1 video in 1 month I definitely go for this single videos.its gave be huge inspiration thanku so much.
Yes! Please continue this series it's honestly the only reason I do the monthly review and I want to continue doing it. It feels better to do along with someone
trust me this month I learned a lot. I became a productive person. some of the things that helped me a lot in this month: 1) every day I make todo list for next day in a notebook 2) I started drinking water 3-4 ltr/day, trust me before this month I didn't even drink 1 ltr/day! 3)wakeup and say thank you to the universe, then I take bath after that I do meditate then start my day according to my todo list 4)learn self-love 5)end the day with journaling and gratitude. I made a dairy, where I wrote everything and gratitude stuff 6)and learn how to make my self happy and productive 7) learn the importance of planning and execution 8) make a zen corner for me and did a bit room decor I did really good on this month, just want to pat on my self! I really proud of me for full filling all the things that I wanted to do. for September I really want to continue this flow of productivity, want to start yoga and want to be a morning person WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND LOTS OF BLESSINGS FOR THIS SEPTEMBER. thank you:)
These videos are very helpful to keep me accountable. Yes, I can answer the questions in my own, but without the video and hearing about your life I don’t think I would plan. My notebook would be empty. You inspire me to plan my life and it feels like we are planning our lives together with you rather than in our own vacuum of space. A helpful habit for me is that I’ve started hand sewing with inspiration from historical sewers on RUclips which takes me away from electronics and allows me to create things. A harmful habit is allowing myself to be overwhelmed at work and carrying that feeling and negativity with me into my personal life. Working from home makes it more difficult to separate the two. Hopefully this month will be better!
One habit that’s been helping me : MEDITATE, I did every morning as challenge , and I was realized that it’s helped me to stay consistently and more inner calm . 1 hobbit that’s been hurting me : when I shared my own stories , problems to wrong peoples that didn’t understand what I mean!! It’s truly hurt my feelings, also it’s a great experience to be more careful trust next time 😉
yes, yes, YES!!! keep on doing these plan with me videos because i have been looking out for them! planning my next month in such an introspective way helps me be more conscious of my life and my place on the current life path. very grateful for these videos and have been actually waiting for september one for a week now, hahah! one habit that has been helping me is smiling and being patient+attentive to other people. i have changed jobs and now i need to learn more how to communicate with people and it's been hard regarding my introversion AND social anxiety issues. but i've noticed that smiling, being nice and considerate actually helps and improves relationships with others! one habit that has been hurting me is choosing fast food or ready-to-eat food in the stores instead of cooking everything by myself. first of all, i have spent much more money while doing this (and rn this hurts me more than helps). second of all, my choices were not healthy and i've started to break out again after a month of being perfectly clean on my face. i need to stop being so lazy and get back to cooking which i actually love doing!!! anyway, thank you again, Aileen, for your work and the concent. always brings tons of insight and inspiration! ;)
A habit that's been helping me is writing down intentions and small goals for the day which is something I have learnt from Aileen! A habit that's been working against me has been not being intentional enough with my time, but my word for August was Progress and I'm so grateful for having found this channel because doing this really does centre me
Pleaseee keep making these monthly review videos! They help hold me accountable and stay on track! It is very motivating to hear you talk and it pushes me in the right direction!
Aileen! I know that there's only a very little chance that you would be reading this but I really want to thank you for being such a big inspiration to me. I am really starting to improve myself and you are my guide. I love you, stay safe! And you, who are reading this, I LOVE YOU!
Yea please do it every month 💜💜it gave a lot of energy especially knowing that there is someone else doing that with us , so yes please I inspire knowing that there is a community “ lavender “ doing such a thing
one habit that has helped me: journaling for 10 mins each day one "harmful" habit: eating when I'm bored thank you for another amazing video! hope everyone has a great day! 💗
Please keep doing this! It's been a very helpful reminder for me to review the past month and plan for the new month. Plus, I often learn a lot from your reflection. Regarding the bonus questions, I have the same "hurting habit", which is procratinating at difficult tasks and decisions. The habit that is helping me, however, is to set the ddl 2 days prior to the actual ddl. This gives me the room to make last-minute revision, if necessary.
Please, keep doing this video on monthly basis! It really helps me to remind me preparing the upcoming month with huge excitement! Thank you anyway for existing in this life
YES! ofc we still want to see these!! they are soo motivational and inspiring! i just set up all my goals, and hopefully I can actually work towards them this month! my helpful habit was drinking water (yep i barely have anything else so) and the habit that has been hurting me is watching too much tv, as i keep taking breaks and postponing work to watch tv shows, which i am definitely going to try and reduce this month!
Man, I really admire your optimism and your desire to keep pushing and still pursue a “dream life” 2020 has beaten me down and I have no motivation. I just feel numb so hopefully the new month might lead to me being more productive
Aileen, I am a new subscriber and PLEASE keep doing these monthly reviews. My past months were extremely anxiety-laden, either completely throwing myself into work or completely procrastinating till the last minute. But since I started doing these monthly journaling/planning with you, I have seen loads of improvement in my mental status regarding productivity. Thank you so much for doing this, I really appreciate it!
One habit that's been helping me is doing yoga or a quick workout. This has helped me calm down and reflect when my mind/situation is getting out of my control. It has also taught me how to let go and be present. And the one habit that's been hurting me is staying up late. I always look forward to the monthly plan with me vids. Thanks for being an inspiration! 🤗
What a great way to incite motivation to stay focus!! Love that you’re uploading when you feel like it! From a self love content creator to another great video. Hope you have a great weekend!!! 💕
One habit that is helping me is that I started doing sleep meditations nightly. It has been amazing!! It definitely helps my sleep. One habit that is hurting me is not meal planning. Not having lunch planned means I usually reach for unhealthy options. Also I love the reminders!!! I love these videos!!!
Thank you so much for making these Aileen! I am always very excited to reflect every month and it kinda feels like a fresh start! Plus having a life update from you every month makes me feel even more connected and inspired! I hope you have a wonderful day!
habit that helps me: tidying up my room!! it's kinda therapeutic for me and really puts me in a good mood plus it makes me want to be productive all day 😊 habit that hurts me: checking my phone often then ill just realize how much time have passed when i was just scrolling huhu
Yes, these videos are absolutely still helping (both me ansd my sister)! Please keep doing them =) One habit that has been helping me is saying the things i'm grateful for that day out loud when I lay in my bed before i go sleep. A habit that has been holding me back is watching series during the day. Thank you, Aileen, for these monthly reviews, they really do help. I can see myself improving each month
Dear Lavendaire, I had actually came across one of you're vlogs/video's "How to heal your emotional trauma & past wounds healing" and I can honestly say, I am SO THANKFUL I had came across you! Because of you I was able to gain self confidence to finally overcome a trauma from 5 years ago and really sitting down and talking to said person. I've been watching all your videos since all day, truly your absolutely incredible. Notifcations & bell on. Much love to you. Really thank you so much 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Dear Aileen! I am very happy and thankful for Video Series of monthly plannings. they are very helpful and encourage me to go on, to write down what i want, to think about my goals for the month and at least try to think of the past month, what have learned and what i missed. i just love it, please go on powerful .
You are a true Gem to all! Thank you I’m grateful for your time and motivation and what you give to all❤️ you give everyone hope for change and greatness!
Yes Please continue! I get lazy and not motivated enough to do the monthly review alone, but when your video comes up, I feel so much more motivated because I'm not alone. Please continue again the monthly check list video!
One habit that has been helping me is listening to your podcast on spotify every morning. I have started it for a month, not a long time, but it's enough for me to find myself in your story. One bad habit recently is spending quite amount of time watching TV because I have much time in my arms and I don't know how to fill these gaps.
one habit that has been helping me lately is to review my day every night and sleep with some motivation to start a good day the next day. one habit that has been hurting me is using phone too much and wasting time. ps. i recently came across your channel and i can't believe that after watching 2 or 3 videos of yours i actually felt like i knew how i have to plan for the life i have been dreaming of always. thank you for being such a big motivation. lots of love from india.
One habit that's been helping me is prepping my iced coffee, clothes & packed lunch to bring to work the night before. One habit that's been hurting is staying up too late looking at my phone. Love this video!
yes definitely! I want this monthly planning. helps me become mindful of my goals, thoughts and feelings about things. this monthly planning has helped me a lot. made me write down and really think of realest answers to those questions. Made me aware of how I spent my month and gave me direction as to how my month would go. thank you for being such an inspiration! 🥰
You should absolutely continue with this series because it is really helping me to keep on track and not to lose my motivation!!! 🤍🦋 Moreover, hearing your monthly reflections is so inspirational 😽
Please keep making these. I know it must be repetitive sometimes for you, but I honestly find it so helpful. It reminds me to set my goals and get involved. Thanks for inspiring me. I've been trying to initiate new positive habit stacking. So good hygiene habits and making my bed are the ones that I find super helpful right now. The hurtful ones are the old ones I'm discarding resistance like you mentioned.
Please keep doing this, this is one thing I am looking forward every end of the month! This series of yours keep us organized despite this pandemic. Loveyousomuch, Aileen!!!
please keep doing these! this was my first time being subscribed to you when you made one of these and i completed the activity and i am so excited for a better september! august was really stressful and honestly just generally awful, and i am working to let go of that and work through it this weekend so i can start fresh and reignite my happiness in september. i'm going to restart my routines and dedicate good time to accomplishing my goals. thank you so much!
YES, PLEASE CONTINUE WITH THIS SERIES TILL DECEMBER 2020.( U can end it with new year goals) Seriously this is the one thing that's helping us through this pandemic.
i hope you keep making videos like this, aileen. i started doing your plan with me videos since may and i notice that my life has become moree organized and improved a lot. i really need the notification each month and i enjoy hearing about your life updates as well, i think it's very inspiring. if anything, i suggest that you add different bonus question each month. thank you aileen, love youu
Because of lavendaire It has been a habit of me to plan my months, which really helped me a lot when it comes to being more productive. Actually my lifestyle changed a lot because of lavendaire💜🤍
Yes pls keep doing this ..... you are helping a lot of us to be on track of our dream life ....pls don't stop and I personally want to hear what your monthly reviews are ... you are inspiring
These past few days I usually feel unmotivated and tired and I am shocked that this video is so timely. Thank you, Lavendaire 🤗
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100% keep doing these videos, they always remind me to review and plan and also to stop being so hard on myself. So reminders from you are very useful to me and I also love hearing updates from your life:)
This kind of your videos mainly reminds me that what I should do every single mouth from the beginning the the year to nearly end of this year time was so flies. Anyway thank you for your kindness. I love you
Last month was the first time that I did this planning session along with you, and seeing the video pop up again this month prompted me to do it again, so I absolutely think you should keep doing these! I can understand why you might feel that they are redundant, but I think they're really useful. And of course, the different bonus questions and examples of what you're working on are what keeps it fresh! ✌️
Yes, we still want these videos, please! I was just looking around for this exact thing last night as I wanted to get a head start on planning out September and then here you are pulling it out of the bag for me today! I've been so much more productive and had a much clearer idea of the things I wanted and needed to get done this past month and honestly I have a LOT of that to thank you for, Aileen. Your channel and blog have acted as a guide for me, pointing me in the right directions to getting myself sorted out again, for that, I THANK YOU so darn much. Finding your content is exactly what I needed right when I needed it. :) Congrats on the puppy! Can't wait to see him or her when your little bundle of joy arrives. I've got a toddler and a pup with about 8 months age difference and honestly, it's like having two kids. There's really not much difference in the chaos they cause and mischief they bring. Both utterly adorable and total cuteness overload, too. So yep, you own that Pup MOMMY title because it's real. :P
I loved these videos, they always remember me to do this review of the month. One habit that has helped me is journaling and one habit that is hurting me is my addiction to social media, which leads me to procrastinating and not achieving my goals
Please keep doing it . It helps as a monthly remainder. I watched and write everything from your August video then complete for got to plan my month as it was already 11th when I saw this video.... but then when I saw this video, it just reminded me and now I can pre plan my month. It’s really helpful. Please keep doing it .
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One habit that has been helping me is the "no phone on bed" rule. I've been trying to put my phone out of my reach when lying on bed, being ready for a good sleep. It has helped me fall asleep faster and wake up with a clearer mind. I also find that I don't get headaches as often as in the past when I was just scrolling aimlessly through the social media before bedtime. Anyway love your vibe so much.
I use audio therapy for sleep so I keep my phone on my night stand a bit aways. I turn the volume up so I can hear it enough to relax me but not too loud to keep me up. Works wonders!
@@sersastark a good sleep is always crucial.
Totally one of my goals too, hard to do but it makes such a difference!
Yeah it helps a lot but kinda hard to do since we have online classes and i gotta do hw till late night since im sort of a night owl
Who else thinks that Aileen is such a big inspiration? She has inspired me and helped me so much! 😊
Kind regards,
Starry Days
Same to me ❤️
Like number 301! I’ve seen you on another channel before... 🧐
If someone wants to be with you, nothing will stop them from doing so. Love doesn't create excuses.
yes but not everybody is this organized and maybe you want to be with someone but never make em your priority and that's ok I guess
Amen no forcing! ✝️
@@totallyorganicmama7153 🤲
Thank you for this reminder!
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One habit that has been helping me is "drinking plenty of water "
One habit that hurting me is " spending a whole day in bed without doing anything "
thank you so much for your videos they help me a lot in my life you're such an amazing person you give a lot of positive vibes love you so much Aileen ✨💜
Aw thank you dear!
One habit that has been REALLY helping me, this month, was taking some time every day to sit down with my thoughts, listen me and my emotions. I usually do it outside in my garden, it's really calming, expecially when i don't want to listen what i'm feeling. It has helped me so much to accept them and don't have fear of what i feel or think.
If you have been struggling, don’t give up! September will be your month!
Kind regards,
Starry Days
i needed this. so effing much. Thankyou sm!
Heer Malvi, I’m so glad I could help! You can do this!
@@starrydays9963 yes thanks! lots of love coming your way :)
Heer Malvi, no problem and thank you!
August in one word - youtube ( I started youtube channel and taken so much time to learn about it )
Highlights - 1 book readed (I am rich beyond my wildest dreams)
- learning harmonium
- done meditation hole month without missing anyday
- I don't cared about people thinking upon me , enjoying the now
Edit - I can improve myself for next month by using less mobile phone and focus on study 😃 , god bless me 😌
I just realized that I've been planning with Lavendaire for almost 5 months!!! Thank you Ate Aileen for helping me and inspiring me!❤😭
She deserves a lot more Subscribers💖💖. She has changed so many people's lives(definately including me✋) and is making everyone's life a billion times better😘. She is and will always be an ideal for me☺. Was waiting for this video since the start of this week🥰. Love you as always😍.
I'm so grateful for your channel. I discovered your channel a few weeks ago and I binge watched lots of your videos. I found the 'current self'/'future self' element soo helpful as it made me honestly acknowledge where I am in life (which was kind of painful to lay out on paper all the messy aspects of myself and my life that I am not currently happy with) and then how I can bridge that gap into being my idealised 'future self'. I feel like I am not just mindlessly going through my days anymore but am actually purpose-driven and goal-driven.
I love these videos! I wouldn't necessarily plan my goals for the coming month but as soon as I see your videos I take the take to sit down, answer the questions and reflect. The habit helping me is zumba 3 times a week. It helps with my mood, my discipline and my energy level. The habit hurting me is waiting for motivation to do some work instead of being disciplined and starting the work whether or not I wanna do it. Lack of motivation is closely related to cellphone usage so I'll work on turning it off more often.
Hey Aileen, No doubts about it, please continue. I just forgot to align with my dream life at the end of the month. Please continue, it helps a lot. 🧡
Clicked so fast because I am actually planning for my September as in right now. Thanks for the added inspo as I do this ✨💜
To everyone who went through and who is going through rough patches in the year... We are cheering for you 🤗
Personally I really like your plan with me videos and don't want to see them stop. Seeing it pop up in my feed really does make me set aside time to do my planning. I sit here and pause when I'm supposed to pause, answering each question. And I like seeing your answers as well.
This video is 💯 percent inspiring for me. I am excited to start planning for september. Who else feels inspired as well? Let us start new and learn to bettering ourselves♥️ Thank you Aileen♥️
I want you to keep doing this monthly.please don't stop.I love your voice soo much.
I'm on the 13 episode of your podcast.
I know late to find.
But I love your voice and you are soo inspiring.
I just love the quote "fake it till you make it".love you.💖💖🇮🇳🇮🇳
One habit that helping me is to wake up early and exercising daily to boost my mind and helping to reduce stress
One habit that hurting me is to I procastinate alot this month for my study
I hope I will be better at September with my studies
Me too... But I hope next month is gonna be amazing
@@garimasingh7673 yes , I am hoping for the best ☺️
Same here....I too procrastinate a lot this month in my studies. Hoping the next month to be a productive one.
@@vanshikasaini3068 I am hoping too☺️ that next month I focus on studies
same girl
September may be the 9th month of the year, but with Aileen, every month feels like a mini New Year! I feel refreshed after every Monthly Planning, and my mind feels clear and ready to tackle the new month! Wishing us all new chances, new opportunities and new challenges that will push us towards success!
One habit that helps me is before bed reading.
One that hurts me is going to be bed really late.
Thank you for helping pull out of a toxic place in my life you will always be my hero
Heyy,i was wondering if you could help me reach my goal of 450 subs ? Thankyou 💜
Yay!! Who else is pumped for September?! ✨🌸 I’m hopeful lockdown in Melbourne will end in September and I’ll have actual plans 😂
I'm going to put mine in the comments as well as in my notebook, just to inspire anybody!
1. August in one word: Magical
2. Highlights of August: Feeling in control during rough situations, seeing friends, finding a balance between social and by myself time, and my upstate NY vacation
3. One thing I'm proud of: The fact that I felt braver this month, and pushed past social fears!
4. No matter how much you doubt it, somebody out there really does love you.
5. How to improve for next month: Really having a good attitude when I play with my brother because we won't be able to as much anymore.
6. September will be: Enlightening
7. Top 3 goals for September:
1. Set aside times for writing at least once a week
2. Strive to study for classes
3. Make walking and/or bike riding regular
8. Mini September goals:
1. Meet up with a certain friend
2. Try a salad or new healthy food!
3. Make stretching regular
4. Slowly get back into reading
5. Look appropriate for Zoom classes
9. Goal Breakdowns (this took quite a long time!)
1. Week one: Set reminders for writing, Organize school supplies, talk to Mom about walking/biking alone, communicate with friend about meet-up dates, research simple salads, set stretching reminders, ask Dad to go to the library
2. Week two: Check up on writing progress, set aside study times for each class, revisit biking/walking, hopefully, have seen friend by now, if now revisit it, research salad dressings, reflect on flexibility progress, set aside reading times, pick out outfits in advance
3. Week three: Change writing time to two times per week, review class notes and recordings, try to walk/bike 3 times per week, pick a salad and other healthy food to try, flexibility check-up, continue outfit-in-advance method, re-read this plan
4. Week four: Change writing times to 3 times a week, stick to study times + reread notes and re-watch recordings, change walking/biking to 4 times a week, check on stretching progress, read 75 pages per day, continue outfit-in-advance method, do an October planning with me.
10. I set reminders for the reading, writing, stretching, and plan re-visiting!
11. Healthy Habit: Listening to ASMR at night has been helping me sleep! Harming Habit: Being on my phone while trying to sleep kills me some days...
That's all! I hope this was inspiring! Remember: Practice makes progress, not perfect! Love you!
Wow!! Amazing planning. Love the breakdown :) thanks for sharing!
@@lavendaire :O Thank you so much for the positive feedback! I love your planning videos by the way :D
I thought she will have this tomorrow 😂
I'm always to excited to do a monthly planning with lavendaire community! Time flies so fast.
Thank you Aileen for being an inspiration! 💛
Please keep doing this!!! it helps me be more intentional with my time. I can't believe August is already coming to an end!! thank uu ❤️
We support you, Aileen! Ever since I found your channel, I haven't found a single video that I didn't like.
I've been watching your videos and i just realized how much my body and mind is relaxing i feel myself whole. You're videos got some magic and i admire that. You're my favorite RUclipsr now ♥️
one habit that helped me: meditation when I'm anxious or before I need to focus on something
one habit that hurt me: not keeping my room clean which leads to me feeling mentally cluttered
Haha same it's really hard to declutter but at the same time it creates a large impact than we ever think it could.
Tidy up your room before going to bed. You'll be happy in the morning and also feel inspired to do the same again.😊
If I have to time constrant/restricted to watch only 1 video in 1 month I definitely go for this single videos.its gave be huge inspiration thanku so much.
Of course I still want this! This morning I woke up and looked on RUclips and thought “it’s the end of the month! Time to do the review!” Lol
Yes! Please continue this series it's honestly the only reason I do the monthly review and I want to continue doing it. It feels better to do along with someone
YES PLEASE CONTINUE DOING THESE I rely on these every month to check in on my goals and mental health
trust me this month I learned a lot. I became a productive person.
some of the things that helped me a lot in this month:
1) every day I make todo list for next day in a notebook
2) I started drinking water 3-4 ltr/day, trust me before this month I didn't even drink 1 ltr/day!
3)wakeup and say thank you to the universe, then I take bath after that I do meditate then start my day according to my todo list
4)learn self-love
5)end the day with journaling and gratitude. I made a dairy, where I wrote everything and gratitude stuff
6)and learn how to make my self happy and productive
7) learn the importance of planning and execution
8) make a zen corner for me and did a bit room decor
I did really good on this month, just want to pat on my self! I really proud of me for full filling all the things that I wanted to do.
for September I really want to continue this flow of productivity, want to start yoga and want to be a morning person
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND LOTS OF BLESSINGS FOR THIS SEPTEMBER.
thank you:)
PLEASE keep doing these plan with me videos Aileen!!!!! They helped me so much and make me look forward to each month with a new perspective.
These videos are very helpful to keep me accountable. Yes, I can answer the questions in my own, but without the video and hearing about your life I don’t think I would plan. My notebook would be empty. You inspire me to plan my life and it feels like we are planning our lives together with you rather than in our own vacuum of space. A helpful habit for me is that I’ve started hand sewing with inspiration from historical sewers on RUclips which takes me away from electronics and allows me to create things. A harmful habit is allowing myself to be overwhelmed at work and carrying that feeling and negativity with me into my personal life. Working from home makes it more difficult to separate the two. Hopefully this month will be better!
One habit that’s been helping me : MEDITATE, I did every morning as challenge , and I was realized that it’s helped me to stay consistently and more inner calm . 1 hobbit that’s been hurting me : when I shared my own stories , problems to wrong peoples that didn’t understand what I mean!! It’s truly hurt my feelings, also it’s a great experience to be more careful trust next time 😉
yes, yes, YES!!! keep on doing these plan with me videos because i have been looking out for them! planning my next month in such an introspective way helps me be more conscious of my life and my place on the current life path. very grateful for these videos and have been actually waiting for september one for a week now, hahah!
one habit that has been helping me is smiling and being patient+attentive to other people. i have changed jobs and now i need to learn more how to communicate with people and it's been hard regarding my introversion AND social anxiety issues. but i've noticed that smiling, being nice and considerate actually helps and improves relationships with others!
one habit that has been hurting me is choosing fast food or ready-to-eat food in the stores instead of cooking everything by myself. first of all, i have spent much more money while doing this (and rn this hurts me more than helps). second of all, my choices were not healthy and i've started to break out again after a month of being perfectly clean on my face. i need to stop being so lazy and get back to cooking which i actually love doing!!!
anyway, thank you again, Aileen, for your work and the concent. always brings tons of insight and inspiration! ;)
A habit that's been helping me is writing down intentions and small goals for the day which is something I have learnt from Aileen! A habit that's been working against me has been not being intentional enough with my time, but my word for August was Progress and I'm so grateful for having found this channel because doing this really does centre me
Pleaseee keep making these monthly review videos! They help hold me accountable and stay on track! It is very motivating to hear you talk and it pushes me in the right direction!
Aileen! I know that there's only a very little chance that you would be reading this but I really want to thank you for being such a big inspiration to me. I am really starting to improve myself and you are my guide. I love you, stay safe!
And you, who are reading this, I LOVE YOU!
I need this every month. Honestly i was like:" shouldn't we start sept planning??? " . Then went like :"nah will do with aileen" ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yea please do it every month 💜💜it gave a lot of energy especially knowing that there is someone else doing that with us , so yes please I inspire knowing that there is a community “ lavender “ doing such a thing
I LIVE for these monthly reviews, please keep doing them 🙏🏻 and thank you for these reviews and for being so inspiring 🌸
one habit that has helped me: journaling for 10 mins each day
one "harmful" habit: eating when I'm bored
thank you for another amazing video! hope everyone has a great day! 💗
Journaling does help in a lot of ways especially when you are just feeling lazy, it feels like I end up writing more and being more productive.
Definitely love the monthly reviews... please keep doing them❤️ love how you remind us to have an overview of the past month and plan for the next🌼🌼
Please keep doing this! It's been a very helpful reminder for me to review the past month and plan for the new month. Plus, I often learn a lot from your reflection.
Regarding the bonus questions, I have the same "hurting habit", which is procratinating at difficult tasks and decisions. The habit that is helping me, however, is to set the ddl 2 days prior to the actual ddl. This gives me the room to make last-minute revision, if necessary.
These monthly reviews help me get organized with my goals and make my mind clear about what I want to achieve this month.
Please, keep doing this video on monthly basis! It really helps me to remind me preparing the upcoming month with huge excitement! Thank you anyway for existing in this life
YES! ofc we still want to see these!! they are soo motivational and inspiring! i just set up all my goals, and hopefully I can actually work towards them this month! my helpful habit was drinking water (yep i barely have anything else so) and the habit that has been hurting me is watching too much tv, as i keep taking breaks and postponing work to watch tv shows, which i am definitely going to try and reduce this month!
Man, I really admire your optimism and your desire to keep pushing and still pursue a “dream life” 2020 has beaten me down and I have no motivation. I just feel numb so hopefully the new month might lead to me being more productive
Even if it’s in the little things, you can still make positive change in your life. I’m learning to do that with the restrictions of 2020 ✨
Aileen, I am a new subscriber and PLEASE keep doing these monthly reviews. My past months were extremely anxiety-laden, either completely throwing myself into work or completely procrastinating till the last minute. But since I started doing these monthly journaling/planning with you, I have seen loads of improvement in my mental status regarding productivity.
Thank you so much for doing this, I really appreciate it!
One habit that's been helping me is doing yoga or a quick workout. This has helped me calm down and reflect when my mind/situation is getting out of my control. It has also taught me how to let go and be present.
And the one habit that's been hurting me is staying up late.
I always look forward to the monthly plan with me vids. Thanks for being an inspiration! 🤗
What a great way to incite motivation to stay focus!! Love that you’re uploading when you feel like it!
From a self love content creator to another great video. Hope you have a great weekend!!! 💕
One habit that is helping me is that I started doing sleep meditations nightly. It has been amazing!! It definitely helps my sleep. One habit that is hurting me is not meal planning. Not having lunch planned means I usually reach for unhealthy options. Also I love the reminders!!! I love these videos!!!
10:53 Yess, pls keep going. These ara really helpfull. Thank you for inspiring all of your followers 💕
Please don't stop making these videos. They are such a good reminder and they are so intentional 💖
Thank you so much for making these Aileen! I am always very excited to reflect every month and it kinda feels like a fresh start! Plus having a life update from you every month makes me feel even more connected and inspired! I hope you have a wonderful day!
habit that helps me: tidying up my room!! it's kinda therapeutic for me and really puts me in a good mood plus it makes me want to be productive all day 😊
habit that hurts me: checking my phone often then ill just realize how much time have passed when i was just scrolling huhu
Yes please keep on doing these videos. I love having them playing while doing my monthly spread in my bullet journal. xx
Yes, these videos are absolutely still helping (both me ansd my sister)! Please keep doing them =)
One habit that has been helping me is saying the things i'm grateful for that day out loud when I lay in my bed before i go sleep. A habit that has been holding me back is watching series during the day.
Thank you, Aileen, for these monthly reviews, they really do help. I can see myself improving each month
yesss, i love monthly reviews, i always find that my months are overall much better when i do them.
Dear Lavendaire, I had actually came across one of you're vlogs/video's "How to heal your emotional trauma & past wounds healing" and I can honestly say, I am SO THANKFUL I had came across you! Because of you I was able to gain self confidence to finally overcome a trauma from 5 years ago and really sitting down and talking to said person. I've been watching all your videos since all day, truly your absolutely incredible. Notifcations & bell on. Much love to you. Really thank you so much 💜💜💜💜💜💜
One habit that has been helping me is following along this video series
Dear Aileen! I am very happy and thankful for Video Series of monthly plannings. they are very helpful and encourage me to go on, to write down what i want, to think about my goals for the month and at least try to think of the past month, what have learned and what i missed.
i just love it, please go on powerful .
Posting a video every week has been super helpful but editing into the AMs is a habit I wanna end!!
You are a true Gem to all! Thank you I’m grateful for your time and motivation and what you give to all❤️ you give everyone hope for change and greatness!
TOTALLY KEEP Doing it. I follow along with the video and write it in my Journal! I love Plan with me Monthly!
Yes Please continue! I get lazy and not motivated enough to do the monthly review alone, but when your video comes up, I feel so much more motivated because I'm not alone. Please continue again the monthly check list video!
One habit that has been helping me is listening to your podcast on spotify every morning. I have started it for a month, not a long time, but it's enough for me to find myself in your story. One bad habit recently is spending quite amount of time watching TV because I have much time in my arms and I don't know how to fill these gaps.
Try to learn new languages or learn new recipes, watching TV isn't a bad thing but doing others things like the one I suggested won't hurt
@@jewel9615 thanks for your suggestions. I will try them all.
One helpful habit has been taking a 30-45 minute walk every day. No music, no messages, just you and nature. ❤
one habit that has been helping me lately is to review my day every night and sleep with some motivation to start a good day the next day. one habit that has been hurting me is using phone too much and wasting time. ps. i recently came across your channel and i can't believe that after watching 2 or 3 videos of yours i actually felt like i knew how i have to plan for the life i have been dreaming of always. thank you for being such a big motivation. lots of love from india.
You're very genuine and honest which makes you relatable. These videos really help! Please continue to plan with us
I like this! Will follow along tomorrow.
Wow , good luck 🍀
A habit that helps me is reviewing my goals everyday either in my notebook or sticky notes.
A habit that hurts me is checking IG throughout the day.
Yes, please keep doing these each month! ♡ I really enjoy doing the reviews and goal-setting along with you!
Lavendaire I'm really thankful for all the work you have done because you have greatly impacted on my life amidst very tough struggles
Yes, keep posting ✨I love these videos. They get me so inspired every time. Sending you much love 💕
Please, continue with these videos. It's a reminder for me to do my planning, it really help me.
One habit that's been helping me is prepping my iced coffee, clothes & packed lunch to bring to work the night before. One habit that's been hurting is staying up too late looking at my phone.
Love this video!
A planning QUEEN! Just what I needed for college under quarantine
Heyy,i was wondering if you could help me reach my goal of 450 subs ? Thankyou 💜
yes definitely! I want this monthly planning. helps me become mindful of my goals, thoughts and feelings about things.
this monthly planning has helped me a lot. made me write down and really think of realest answers to those questions. Made me aware of how I spent my month and gave me direction as to how my month would go.
thank you for being such an inspiration! 🥰
You should absolutely continue with this series because it is really helping me to keep on track and not to lose my motivation!!! 🤍🦋 Moreover, hearing your monthly reflections is so inspirational 😽
Aileen watching you makes me feel to be productive❤️
Sending you loads of love!
Please keep making these. I know it must be repetitive sometimes for you, but I honestly find it so helpful. It reminds me to set my goals and get involved. Thanks for inspiring me. I've been trying to initiate new positive habit stacking. So good hygiene habits and making my bed are the ones that I find super helpful right now. The hurtful ones are the old ones I'm discarding resistance like you mentioned.
Please keep doing this, this is one thing I am looking forward every end of the month! This series of yours keep us organized despite this pandemic. Loveyousomuch, Aileen!!!
please keep doing these! this was my first time being subscribed to you when you made one of these and i completed the activity and i am so excited for a better september! august was really stressful and honestly just generally awful, and i am working to let go of that and work through it this weekend so i can start fresh and reignite my happiness in september. i'm going to restart my routines and dedicate good time to accomplishing my goals. thank you so much!
YES, PLEASE CONTINUE WITH THIS SERIES TILL DECEMBER 2020.( U can end it with new year goals) Seriously this is the one thing that's helping us through this pandemic.
Aww ok thanks for your feedback!! Happy it still helps!!
i hope you keep making videos like this, aileen. i started doing your plan with me videos since may and i notice that my life has become moree organized and improved a lot. i really need the notification each month and i enjoy hearing about your life updates as well, i think it's very inspiring. if anything, i suggest that you add different bonus question each month. thank you aileen, love youu
Because of lavendaire It has been a habit of me to plan my months, which really helped me a lot when it comes to being more productive. Actually my lifestyle changed a lot because of lavendaire💜🤍
Yes pls keep doing this ..... you are helping a lot of us to be on track of our dream life ....pls don't stop and I personally want to hear what your monthly reviews are ... you are inspiring
Please keep doing this video each month because it reminds to do my monthly review and check up. I love how you make this workbook interactive 💜😊
These past few days I usually feel unmotivated and tired and I am shocked that this video is so timely. Thank you, Lavendaire 🤗
100% keep doing these videos, they always remind me to review and plan and also to stop being so hard on myself. So reminders from you are very useful to me and I also love hearing updates from your life:)
This kind of your videos mainly reminds me that what I should do every single mouth from the beginning the the year to nearly end of this year time was so flies. Anyway thank you for your kindness. I love you
Last month was the first time that I did this planning session along with you, and seeing the video pop up again this month prompted me to do it again, so I absolutely think you should keep doing these! I can understand why you might feel that they are redundant, but I think they're really useful. And of course, the different bonus questions and examples of what you're working on are what keeps it fresh! ✌️
Yes, we still want these videos, please! I was just looking around for this exact thing last night as I wanted to get a head start on planning out September and then here you are pulling it out of the bag for me today! I've been so much more productive and had a much clearer idea of the things I wanted and needed to get done this past month and honestly I have a LOT of that to thank you for, Aileen. Your channel and blog have acted as a guide for me, pointing me in the right directions to getting myself sorted out again, for that, I THANK YOU so darn much. Finding your content is exactly what I needed right when I needed it. :)
Congrats on the puppy! Can't wait to see him or her when your little bundle of joy arrives. I've got a toddler and a pup with about 8 months age difference and honestly, it's like having two kids. There's really not much difference in the chaos they cause and mischief they bring. Both utterly adorable and total cuteness overload, too. So yep, you own that Pup MOMMY title because it's real. :P
I loved these videos, they always remember me to do this review of the month. One habit that has helped me is journaling and one habit that is hurting me is my addiction to social media, which leads me to procrastinating and not achieving my goals
I love these videos bc I feel understood in this world like 'I have a purpose and I gonna to do it'. Thanks for sharing your goals for this month ☺️❤️
Please keep doing it . It helps as a monthly remainder. I watched and write everything from your August video then complete for got to plan my month as it was already 11th when I saw this video.... but then when I saw this video, it just reminded me and now I can pre plan my month. It’s really helpful. Please keep doing it .