VLOGMAS DAY 15 OMG! I got insaaaane news (literally my mind is blown lol), and I talk to you guys about my current mindset re dating & being single!!! Q of the day!! Are you single or in a relationship?! And what are your thoughts about it?!?!
I feel like when you find the right person it doesnt really feel like work ya know? It'll just be exciting and fun and relaxing, not stressful or annoying lol. Like this may seem counter intuitive, but I've been dating my bf for 4 years and I truly feel more independent and confident with myself now than I did before. Like we just work and made each other better... we both are very independent people though so that why there isnt any codependency bringing me down haha
Agree! My relationship has never felt like a chore or something we really had to work at, it's been so natural and comfortable. It's so nice to be confident in the relationship and it makes us both so happy just existing together.
Honestly it is! I’m in a long distance relationship right now and doing school full time. Sometimes I just don’t have energy to respond to a funny meme that he sends me. We’ve been together almost 5 years now and he completely understands that it’s not because I don’t love him, it’s because I’m fricken tired.
Girl, I TOTALLY get the dating dilemma. I was the SAME way. I took time to focus on me and eventually I realized I was ready to find love. I did the same thing you did before I was fully ready. I would talk/agree/not wanna go when the time came. Eventually I started dating more seriously and met my now Fiance! It'll come when you're ready. I'm sure once you sell your house in LA, you'll probably feel more ready. But if not, there is no rush. You're a boss babe doing your thing, you'll know when you're ready.
that guy finding this video and hearing how you don’t care about the date: 👁💧👄💧👁 I relate: having to talk to people everyday? no thank you. I’m so glad you’re comfortable being you, I think so many other people rely on a significant other to feel whole.
I love how you are always so grateful for everything. Seriously. Two parents who love you, are still together, have a beautiful home and have always been there for you, have taught you about finances and set you up to win at life no matter what...but you don't let that stop you from working your ass off, blood, sweat and tears, ZERO entitlement (which is rare nowadays) and you are SO grateful along the way. It really is beautiful to watch and I think that makes you just that more loveable 🥰💕 Congrats on the billboard girl!
You're one of the few youtubers I watch every week and actively look for your name in my subscriptions list. I think you're so down to earth and relatable! I also love how you share your thought processes with us. Thanks for sharing your life with us!
I feel like the best relationships are the ones that just happen when you aren't looking at all. The ones that just sneak up on you out of nowhere. Congrats on the billboard! That's so exciting.
When it comes to online dating, I’ve figured a lot of things out. You have to ask people value based questions to see if they are on the same page as you and want what you want. Let them move through your process and be in charge of how it flows - guys like to rush everything (including the connection)...And very honestly - you are super young and fabulous and it’s way more valuable for young women in their 20s to work on their health, wealth, spirituality, creativity, friendships and family relationships. If there’s a great guy meant to be in your life, he’s going to work to make sure he’s on your journey with you. We need more empowered awakened women on the planet - so girl, do it your way! Own your truth and make no apologies!💕
Yes. I wish I had focused on other things rather than guys in my 20s. It feels like I'm playing catch-up now lol Young ladies...don't worry. Guys will always be there. Focus on career & health now. ❤️
@@JanetDragamore When we live authentically and find our own truth and our own voice, everything we do and say benefits others. Whatever you are going through now, just know it is not forever and keep listening to your inner guidance
Me worried about Tara falling off the balcony. Tara reassuring me that there’s a strap on her wrist to protect her camera from falling. I was worried about you 😂
I love that you are promoting being single as a normal way of life. I feel as though so many people feel that they need to be in a relationship to be whole and that simply is not the truth. Being on your own helps with developing the sense of knowing yourself. Something that is necessary in order to be in a successful relationship. :) I am in a relationship, but everyday is a chance to master the idea of the self and I always value self care and self worth whether I am with someone or on my own. I hope that life brings you a person who values all the parts of you and that when you find that person maybe it occurs in a way that is not what you expected. The best things in life are always a surprise.
soooo freaking cool about the billboard!! to answer the q of the day, i've been in a relationship for the past 5 years and things have actually never been better for us. we've both had a lot of success in our own lives and we're definitely each other's support system but we have a lot to be proud of as a couple too -- we're buying our a new build next year and are stoked to finally have our own space to make ours! relationships thrive on communication, love, acknowledgement and understanding the other person's perspective and although some days we lack in one of those aspects, it doesn't mean the end of the world. we learn something new about the other every few months and that's natural! take as much time as you want to get back into dating Tara!! There shouldn't be a pressure to do that when you are thriving on your own for the time being :)
Tara it makes me happy to see that you are happy again and doing what you want! As someone who watched you all through the LA quarantine time you look so happy and I truly believe you are making the right choice! Also I always wonder how prefilmed are these vlogs???
After you and your parents made plans to see the billboard and you said you still had a date at 7:30, I legit felt like "Cancel that date and go see the billboard instead!" I was single in my 20s and I loved that freedom, no repsonsibility for anyone else. I had my crushes, but that was enough for me! Now that I'm married with kids, I sometimes miss that alone time. Don't rush it.
You are an such amazing, inspiring, genuine, humble, beautiful, and independent woman. You do you! I found your channel at the beginning of this year and your vlogs make people so much happier bc you’re so real. I totally agree with you and being single for a while bc life definitely does change when you get married. I wish I had more of a single life during my 20’s, but that was a while ago.... you are also super wise for your age. Always go with your gut when it comes to guys, it’s never wrong. So proud of you and your billboard, congratulations on all your successes! Love ya!
I totally get where you are coming from with the dating situation! I got out of an 8 year relationship in February and a few months later decided to download Hinge. I went on a few dates but I was becoming so happy being single and independent that I stopped going on dates (but kept the app). Then in October I matched with a guy and decided to give him a chance. There was an instant connection and now I can't picture my life without him. Everyone around me would always say I'd find the one for me once I was happy with myself and didn't feel like I needed to search anymore. That's exactly what happened.
I love when you have personal talks! Makes me relate to you so much! And congratulations on the billboard!! So happy for you! Keep killing it girl ♥️♥️
When I tell you your vlog helped me get out of bed today and be productive. I am not exaggerating!! Don’t feel good right now but your vlog definitely made me feel better! Much love Tar💗💗💗
Every single feeling you just explained is exactly what I experienced too!!! Felt so close to home listening to you. Keep listening to your gut and stay consistent to your feelings, it will always lead you in the right direction at the right time. After 3 years of being single, I just woke up one day and I was ready. Boom 3 months later I met the one. But I wouldn’t have gotten there without all the ups and downs and random dates and just time alone. You’re exactly where you need to be 💕
tbh girl you are wayyyyy too successful to have a significant other YOU are your significant other!! you have so much going for you right now that you don't need it. you inspire me to the point where i realize "what's the point?' if you are successful. ilysm and can't wait for tomorrow's vlog!! bye!
Glad you are in a good place about not dating. I met my husband when I wasn't looking. We started as friends and went through our worst times while we dated so when we married things were smoother. He passed suddenly in 2001but I wouldn't change a thing I still have our 26 yr old son (my best memory of him). Yours is out there and when the time is right he will be there. (My husband proposed 2 wks after we started dating, I made him wait 3 wks before sleeping together and 3wks for an answer to his proposal). We had 5 yrs of happy married life before he passed. So by not looking I think it makes it easier for love to find you. Good luck
Love how often you started saying "okie dokie" 😂 The first time I heard it in your vlog was from Carter so I'm guessing you got that habit from him haha cute!
I love what you said about this being your single time and thriving being alone, I just got out of a 3 year relationship and I feel the exact same way. I love the nights where I just get to spend time with myself and have a glass of wine. I love watching your vlogs, feels like I’m hanging out with a friend. Love you girl, so happy for you!
I got broken up with about 7 months ago after being with him for 3 and a half years, your talks throughout the vlog about your thoughts on dating and how happy you are was really nice to hear. It has obviously been incredibly hard but watching you inspires me to live my best life no matter the circumstances. Love you Tara
I just want to say thank you for making your videos, I’m behind and catching up but your videos help keep me mentally balanced and stable. Dealing with therapy and being able to watch your videos after helps me come back to reality. 2020 sucks, but Tara has really lifted mine 🥂 to you and thank you. Truly
I’m so happy to see Tara thriving 🥺💞 The energy, growth, and glow has been so amazing to see and so inspiring. Even though 2020 wasn’t the best year, it has still been YOUR year:)
VLOGMAS DAY 15 OMG! I got insaaaane news (literally my mind is blown lol), and I talk to you guys about my current mindset re dating & being single!!!
Q of the day!! Are you single or in a relationship?! And what are your thoughts about it?!?!
in a relationship & 37 weeks pregnant 😳 i love my mans
In a relationship for almost 5 years. It’s a built in best friend but better!💗
Single as a Pringle 😁
In a relationship for 5 years now! He's my first love and he treats me so well 🥺 I'm lucky to have him.
happily single 😁
also your mom “can i post that on my story” hahahah i love her
Keegan Acton Hahah so true!!! She is adorable😍😂😂
congrats on the billboard that’s huge!! it makes so happy to see all your success!!
Thank youuuu!!!
i swear we’re literally subscribed to the same people 😹
@Jenna Nesimi no keegan
Why am I legit crying at your parents' reaction to the billboard.
😭😭😭
Same!!!
Same💝
I thought I was the only one ahahah
I feel like when you find the right person it doesnt really feel like work ya know? It'll just be exciting and fun and relaxing, not stressful or annoying lol. Like this may seem counter intuitive, but I've been dating my bf for 4 years and I truly feel more independent and confident with myself now than I did before. Like we just work and made each other better... we both are very independent people though so that why there isnt any codependency bringing me down haha
this.
Love that! You guys have strong identities outside of the relationship. This is how it should be in my opinion.
Agree! My relationship has never felt like a chore or something we really had to work at, it's been so natural and comfortable. It's so nice to be confident in the relationship and it makes us both so happy just existing together.
YES! I love this💖
Don’t go on a date you’re not looking forward to... when it’s right you will have no doubts or hesitation 😘
"god and having to text someone everyday?" why is this so relatable hahaha. Love youuu!
Hahahahah I just can’t do it!!!!
Hahah SOO RELATABLE!
Honestly it is! I’m in a long distance relationship right now and doing school full time. Sometimes I just don’t have energy to respond to a funny meme that he sends me. We’ve been together almost 5 years now and he completely understands that it’s not because I don’t love him, it’s because I’m fricken tired.
Girl, I TOTALLY get the dating dilemma. I was the SAME way. I took time to focus on me and eventually I realized I was ready to find love. I did the same thing you did before I was fully ready. I would talk/agree/not wanna go when the time came. Eventually I started dating more seriously and met my now Fiance! It'll come when you're ready. I'm sure once you sell your house in LA, you'll probably feel more ready. But if not, there is no rush. You're a boss babe doing your thing, you'll know when you're ready.
that guy finding this video and hearing how you don’t care about the date: 👁💧👄💧👁
I relate: having to talk to people everyday? no thank you. I’m so glad you’re comfortable being you, I think so many other people rely on a significant other to feel whole.
I love how you are always so grateful for everything. Seriously. Two parents who love you, are still together, have a beautiful home and have always been there for you, have taught you about finances and set you up to win at life no matter what...but you don't let that stop you from working your ass off, blood, sweat and tears, ZERO entitlement (which is rare nowadays) and you are SO grateful along the way. It really is beautiful to watch and I think that makes you just that more loveable 🥰💕 Congrats on the billboard girl!
There's something about your vlogs that gives me solace. Idk what it is, but I'm clinging on to it ❤️😭
❤️❤️
I love your parents so much. They are literally so proud of you
You're one of the few youtubers I watch every week and actively look for your name in my subscriptions list. I think you're so down to earth and relatable! I also love how you share your thought processes with us. Thanks for sharing your life with us!
I feel like the best relationships are the ones that just happen when you aren't looking at all. The ones that just sneak up on you out of nowhere.
Congrats on the billboard! That's so exciting.
So cute how your family reacted to the billboard 🥺❤️
i’m so obsessed w taras vlogmas. favorite part of my day.
When it comes to online dating, I’ve figured a lot of things out. You have to ask people value based questions to see if they are on the same page as you and want what you want. Let them move through your process and be in charge of how it flows - guys like to rush everything (including the connection)...And very honestly - you are super young and fabulous and it’s way more valuable for young women in their 20s to work on their health, wealth, spirituality, creativity, friendships and family relationships. If there’s a great guy meant to be in your life, he’s going to work to make sure he’s on your journey with you. We need more empowered awakened women on the planet - so girl, do it your way! Own your truth and make no apologies!💕
this is the best advice i have heard thank u
Yes. I wish I had focused on other things rather than guys in my 20s. It feels like I'm playing catch-up now lol
Young ladies...don't worry. Guys will always be there. Focus on career & health now. ❤️
I needed to heard this, even tho it's not meant for me ❤️
@@JanetDragamore When we live authentically and find our own truth and our own voice, everything we do and say benefits others. Whatever you are going through now, just know it is not forever and keep listening to your inner guidance
@@rotru4977 we are brought up to believe that being in a relationship makes us whole and valuable. Its a lie.
I love your positive and down to earth vibes in this vlog, girl!! Happy Holidays! 🎄
Me worried about Tara falling off the balcony. Tara reassuring me that there’s a strap on her wrist to protect her camera from falling. I was worried about you 😂
Me too , and what good will a strap be 🤦🏼♀️
Me too!I I Always get a queasy feeling in my stomach when people are close to the edge At heights like that.
The best part is the happiness in your parents voice when you showed me/told them!
THEY ARE SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!
The little orb at 14:36 when you said it felt really good to make the big decision...🥺 You're on the right path ☺️
I love that you are promoting being single as a normal way of life. I feel as though so many people feel that they need to be in a relationship to be whole and that simply is not the truth. Being on your own helps with developing the sense of knowing yourself. Something that is necessary in order to be in a successful relationship. :)
I am in a relationship, but everyday is a chance to master the idea of the self and I always value self care and self worth whether I am with someone or on my own.
I hope that life brings you a person who values all the parts of you and that when you find that person maybe it occurs in a way that is not what you expected. The best things in life are always a surprise.
Tara uploads - *drops everything else I'm doing* -
same. I pushed off doing my exam so I could watch lol
CONGRATS ON THE BILLBOARD !!!
Why does your happiness make me cry?!?! Really happy for you! And I would love to hear about your 2021 goals & mindset!
soooo freaking cool about the billboard!! to answer the q of the day, i've been in a relationship for the past 5 years and things have actually never been better for us. we've both had a lot of success in our own lives and we're definitely each other's support system but we have a lot to be proud of as a couple too -- we're buying our a new build next year and are stoked to finally have our own space to make ours! relationships thrive on communication, love, acknowledgement and understanding the other person's perspective and although some days we lack in one of those aspects, it doesn't mean the end of the world. we learn something new about the other every few months and that's natural! take as much time as you want to get back into dating Tara!! There shouldn't be a pressure to do that when you are thriving on your own for the time being :)
soooo happy for you!!! ❤️❤️
Tara it makes me happy to see that you are happy again and doing what you want! As someone who watched you all through the LA quarantine time you look so happy and I truly believe you are making the right choice! Also I always wonder how prefilmed are these vlogs???
Thank you 🥺🥺😭😭💕 and just a couple of days :)
Tara Michelle did you ever ended up taking those mental health break days?
After you and your parents made plans to see the billboard and you said you still had a date at 7:30, I legit felt like "Cancel that date and go see the billboard instead!" I was single in my 20s and I loved that freedom, no repsonsibility for anyone else. I had my crushes, but that was enough for me! Now that I'm married with kids, I sometimes miss that alone time. Don't rush it.
I feel you on the dating topic, someone once said, be with someone that adds to your life not when you feel like they'll take away, hope you see this
I can just FEEL how proud her parents are of her, I’m sooooo happy for her and the was her life is headed.. she works so hard! 😭✨
You are an such amazing, inspiring, genuine, humble, beautiful, and independent woman. You do you! I found your channel at the beginning of this year and your vlogs make people so much happier bc you’re so real. I totally agree with you and being single for a while bc life definitely does change when you get married. I wish I had more of a single life during my 20’s, but that was a while ago.... you are also super wise for your age. Always go with your gut when it comes to guys, it’s never wrong. So proud of you and your billboard, congratulations on all your successes! Love ya!
Also, your parents are awesome!
11:08 PREACH GIRL !!! More people need to follow that advice!!
also low key yes I was scared you were gonna drop us haha. Congrats on the bill board !!!
I totally get where you are coming from with the dating situation! I got out of an 8 year relationship in February and a few months later decided to download Hinge. I went on a few dates but I was becoming so happy being single and independent that I stopped going on dates (but kept the app). Then in October I matched with a guy and decided to give him a chance. There was an instant connection and now I can't picture my life without him. Everyone around me would always say I'd find the one for me once I was happy with myself and didn't feel like I needed to search anymore. That's exactly what happened.
Pissing myself at Tara bleeping swear words one minute and not the next. Love it ahhaha. Congrats on the billboard 🎉 xx
Its so therapeutic listening to you and feeling like I have some company❤️
Omg your parents are THEE cutest ❤️ “we have to go see it today” legit brought tears to my eyes. So exciting! Congrats Tara!!!
your parents' excitement and support when they saw your billboard was absolutely precious!! made me tear up a little bit.
I love when you have personal talks! Makes me relate to you so much! And congratulations on the billboard!! So happy for you! Keep killing it girl ♥️♥️
Your parents being so supportive is just adorable. What a beautiful family 🥰
you are glowing! you look so happy, and it makes me so happy to see you finally happy. nothing but love for you tara! ❤️
I really appreciate you highlighting the importance of focusing energy into being single. Thanks for being the single advocate queen we all need!
“Having to text someone everyday... God I dont wanna do that!” Lmaoo that is ME rn!😂😂😂
I think it’s the coolest thing that you want to share your life with us. Thanks for doing what ya do
watching this put me in a comfier mood
Would love to see the video talking about your goals and intentions for 2021
congrats on the billboard.. & btw ur parents’ reaction was priceless ❤️ btw I’m single and happy with that.
Girl, you are wise beyond your years. You just keep doing what you're doing! You deserve all the blessings!
Your parents reaction to the billboard was EVERYTHING! ❤
Your parents are so proud of you and they have your back. You are very lucky Tara.
I used to have really bad anxiety when I was alone.now I can't wait for my husband to go to work so I can have peace.
Haha Same!
She was very energetic today lol😂😂😂
When I tell you your vlog helped me get out of bed today and be productive. I am not exaggerating!! Don’t feel good right now but your vlog definitely made me feel better! Much love Tar💗💗💗
Soooo happy to hear it!!! Much love girly ❤️
Every single feeling you just explained is exactly what I experienced too!!! Felt so close to home listening to you. Keep listening to your gut and stay consistent to your feelings, it will always lead you in the right direction at the right time. After 3 years of being single, I just woke up one day and I was ready. Boom 3 months later I met the one. But I wouldn’t have gotten there without all the ups and downs and random dates and just time alone. You’re exactly where you need to be 💕
I have never related to the chats you had in this volg more!!! One of my favorites!! Needed to hear this today!!!
tbh girl you are wayyyyy too successful to have a significant other YOU are your significant other!! you have so much going for you right now that you don't need it. you inspire me to the point where i realize "what's the point?' if you are successful. ilysm and can't wait for tomorrow's vlog!! bye!
I feel like I have been on FaceTime with you in the vlog and I’m loving it!!! ❤️❤️
Yay congrats on the billboard ! I saw on your moms Instagram I screamed lol. I was a proud supporter!
Glad you are in a good place about not dating. I met my husband when I wasn't looking. We started as friends and went through our worst times while we dated so when we married things were smoother. He passed suddenly in 2001but I wouldn't change a thing I still have our 26 yr old son (my best memory of him). Yours is out there and when the time is right he will be there. (My husband proposed 2 wks after we started dating, I made him wait 3 wks before sleeping together and 3wks for an answer to his proposal). We had 5 yrs of happy married life before he passed. So by not looking I think it makes it easier for love to find you. Good luck
We love listening and seeing your place and your mom and dad and the Beautiful Brady and Toronto.
Love how often you started saying "okie dokie" 😂 The first time I heard it in your vlog was from Carter so I'm guessing you got that habit from him haha cute!
Yes you look so happy! Would love to here more about your goals for 2021
I love what you said about this being your single time and thriving being alone, I just got out of a 3 year relationship and I feel the exact same way. I love the nights where I just get to spend time with myself and have a glass of wine. I love watching your vlogs, feels like I’m hanging out with a friend. Love you girl, so happy for you!
happy for you too girl!!!! 💖
I got broken up with about 7 months ago after being with him for 3 and a half years, your talks throughout the vlog about your thoughts on dating and how happy you are was really nice to hear. It has obviously been incredibly hard but watching you inspires me to live my best life no matter the circumstances. Love you Tara
I'm much older than you. Two very long marriages. Single for 1.5 years. I've come to the point, that I'm ok with being by myself. It's ok.
I absolutely adore how grateful you are for your entire world... A lot of people could take some good direction from you...
omg tara that is so awesome!! it’s so crazy how far you’ve come i’m so proud and honestly inspired by your drive😩🙏🏼
Congratulations on the billboard!🎈🎈🎈
"I just don't wanna go to the grocery store" LOL Relatableeee!
Tara you are absolutely radiating with happiness and positivity!!! Enjoy the single life, you do you!! you are THRIVING❤️
I am loving her vlogs so much glad I found her channel.
Ps I really want to see your purse collection and what's in your purse video one day.
I just want to say thank you for making your videos, I’m behind and catching up but your videos help keep me mentally balanced and stable. Dealing with therapy and being able to watch your videos after helps me come back to reality. 2020 sucks, but Tara has really lifted mine 🥂 to you and thank you. Truly
I just love to have the notifications on!!
YESS 👏🏼👏🏼
I love how your parents are your hype people! Congrats on all of you successes!
“If he was the one then I would have cared more” lmao Tara chill 😂
Girl preach about focusing on you right now and not dating! I’m in the same spot 💕
Congrats on the billboard Tara that’s amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you sm!!!
Your parents are so supportive! You definitely needed that ❤️
I look forward to Tara’s vlogmas the most 💚
this is by far my favorite vlog of yours! So honest and the whole time I’ve felt like I’m talking to my friend. Keep striving Tara!
"I'll tell you my stance on dating." *Talks about curling iron*
😂😂
The love and support you get from your family is truly heart warming
I would never trust myself to hold a camera over a balcony, even with a wrist strap. Taras got BALLS
Hahaha I totally feel you so much on the dating situation! Also congrats on the billboard you hard working boss ass babe❤
I'm NOT the ooey gooey type (except for dogs...) but your parents reaction to your billboard brought tears to my eyes. What a special family you have!
Omg I love your parents so much🥲🥲🥲 their so cute and supportive.
That is soo freaking cool! I loved your parents reaction! they are soo proud!!!
OMG CONGRATS ON THE BILLBOARD!!! 👏🏼👏🏼 you deserve it Tara, you’ve been working so hard this vlogmas! We appreciate & love you! 🤍🤍
You’re adorable! Love your vibes. You’ve just pulled an old lady out of her funk!😉🥰
Awesome vlog today:) love hearing that you are happy with being back home and congrats on the billboard🥳
When I noticed you were wearing the moody clothes, I was like hey she watches Kennedy Walsh too😂😂😂
Same
That BILLBOARD HELLO!!! Congrats!! But also hearing how happy you are makes me so happy, you did that and pulled yourself out from a dark place! 💓
Not me legit crying at your parents reaction to the billboard 😂😭
They're the best❤
It’s crazy I am watching you since 3 weeks and I am so productive every day now.. thanks for inspiring me to make the best version of myself :)
Early crew 🥰🥰
the relationship you have with your family is so genuine, i cried!!! Congrats on the billboard!!! wishing i could see it myself!!
Lmao I’m sorry but the white fluff in the first clip made me laugh🤍😂
I LOVE seeing you back in Canada with your family, your glowing and thriving!
The joy in the voices of parentals was amazing!!
Tara I tried the peppermint and hazelnut coffee’s from Starbucks yesterday and they were so good!! Thanks for the recommendation 😃
I’m so happy to see Tara thriving 🥺💞 The energy, growth, and glow has been so amazing to see and so inspiring. Even though 2020 wasn’t the best year, it has still been YOUR year:)
sending you all my love!!! 🥺🥺🥺
Congrats girlfriend! That’s so cool! I hear ads for blind dating on these true crime podcasts I listen to. Love!
But I obviously listen to blind dating 🤣
We live such different lives but why are your vlogs so relatable?? 😌