I mean you should try at the start but if it doesn't stick then no point in continuing. The silence is how you know whether it sticks or not and whether to continue or walk away.
Too late,i am on the no contact journey .she told me she has no space for a relationship...time to move on and put God first.Thanks for the video 😢God Bless you.
I remember when I walked away from a potential partner 2 years ago. She was 18 at the time and I always thought she needed to be more mature, and responsible before committing to someone emotionally. I cut her off and any potential for a future relationship completely and recently a mutual friend told me she was engaged to another dude. To be honest I don't regret my decision because to this day I know she still needs to work and mature on herself before entering a relationship.
I’ve been focused on the gym, making money, and building my career, but I always felt like I was falling behind when it came to girls. After watching this video and reading some advice in a book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I feel like I can finally improve in that area too. Now I’m ready to put in the effort, just like I do with everything else in life!
I view it this way, "What's is the best thing I can do for myself out of self respect and self love?" The answer is always, "dont play games, and move upward and onward." It's really the best we can do as much as we'd like for the woman to reach out to us.
Great advice Jessica Os,It's important to maintain respect and use the silence authentically and not to play games no one's stupid you'll end up losing
When she say no, or hint at no, I'm not fighting, I'm leaving and not coming back. If the game is to get me to "fight for her", she'll lose every time. She better ask her mama to fight for her.
The reality is the only choice you have is to walk away (after trying). If she cares she'll notice the absence, if she doesn't care you got your answer and should look to move on anyway. It really is the only choice if you've tried and aren't getting anywhere with her.
Ignoring a woman ....generalizing....it's depends on the women being ignored and if Ignoring her brings peace and self dignity cause being in love with a respectful partner does not require Ignoring
it looks interesting how much women like to be manipulative towards men, but in fact when men start to prioritize themselves, women put the "emotion" card on the table. Men want women to be straight forward, and show that the relationship can progress. If I want to play strategy, i do prefer playing chess or having this plan for my business than go through a woman who strikes with maturity
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
Oh well, the one time I tried it, discovered she wasn't that into me from the get-go, and I think that's why she NEVER reached out, it's well, we move Thanks Jess! Lovely change of environment, I forgot to point it out in the previous video
The circumstances of why you ignore her are what's Important. Example if she dumps you and she then enters a rebound, you absolutely ignore her if she reaches out. Therefore there is no such thing as backfiring. The main thing to remember is if you make a decision to ignore her you have to mean it, it's not a game
@@problemslayer3538 There's this babe that always avoid a conversation whenever I want to engage her. On multiple occasions she responded as being defensive just because I asked simple questions to start a conversation. She makes me feel like I'm prying even if I ask how she's gonna spend her weekend. Well, I've decided to ignore her completely and I don't care whatever might be running in her mind. I don't have that luxury of time. I move
I work with a woman, and I ignored her because I didn't feel appreciated because I wasn't her top option. She was very angry with me for about 2-3 months, and when I see her now its indifferent or worse.
I once dated a babe, if she ignored me for say 3 hours, I ignore her for 6 hours .. she ignores me for a day, I ignore her thruout the weekend.. Eventually I caught her with some dude and she said it was cos I didn’t give her attention.. 😂 a Nascisst I’d say and that was thank God for me.. I can’t deal with such.. I think the best thing is to really get busy but as you’ve said, it depends on how deep the couple r b4 the issue happened..
Great video, I’m in a weird situation as my Gf broke up with me but still wants to be in constant , tells me she loves me when we’re in person and I love her too but I think it’s time I go silent as well I fought for her for about a week but nothing changed …. My question is should I tell her she needs space , I needs space or should I just do it without saying anything ?
what happens if i start ignoring her while she friendzoned me for couple months but knows i still have feelings for her and she was used to have my attention before ?
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
Hey Jessica, I really admire your relationship advice and could use your perspective on something. There's a girl I love, and I often wonder if I should be chatting with her every minute I'm online. Sometimes, I feel like I'm the one putting in all the effort to keep the conversation going, and it makes me question if I should always be available to her. What’s your take on this? Would love to hear your thoughts-thanks!
Notice that the word "balance" depends on her mood which can never be logically measured, predicted nor quantified for an approprate application/response. That renders these gynocentric pieces of advice useless. Women understand men better than men understand women. Besides, men are more steady and predictable. So it is women who should learn all these and do the work to make the relationship succeed, not the other way around. Men trying to learn to cope with women's childishness and unstable nature is a fools errand. If all men understood this one thing and opted out of this insanity, women would tone down the childish games and behave more reasonably
Notice that the word "balance" depends on her mood which cannot be scientifically measured nor quantified for an approprate application/response. That renders these gynocentric pieces of advice useless. Women understand men better than men understand women. Besides, men are more steady and predictable. So It is women who should learn all these and do the work to make the relationship succeed, not men. Trying to learn to cope with women's childishness and unstable nature is a fools errand. If all men understood this one thing and opted out of this insanity, women would behave more reasonably
t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.
i kept seeing this book pop up in youtube comments and even in random convos with friends. it felt like everyone was talking about it, so i finally gave in and found Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki. it wasn’t easy to get my hands on, but once i did, everything started changing. my dating life finally feels effortless, my finances are improving, and i’m in a better headspace than i’ve been in years. honestly, i’m so glad i listened to all the buzz
Fellas, the goal isn't about winning her back but remaining stoic and getting on with purpose driven aspirations. Who cares regardless...I can only chase her, only if she is with my kidney. otherwise am gonna keep drinding. Lol
Hi Jessica I hope you're going to reply coz im curious my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after one year due to her relatives not approving and now she's texting weird msges replying to old text I had sent to her back then.... What could that mean
You can't really lose if you ignore the girl who pushed you to that, provided you have other things going on. If she wasn't interested you don't have to waste time talking to her anymore. If she's interested maybe she will learn not to play idiot games.
Hi jess I have a question I would like you to help me out. I found out my wife is cheating on me,(WITH 5 MEN)after there we argued and she said that she is sorry and since I found out she is cheating on me is now 6months and I'm with her. Now here is what is disturbing me. I have a strong feeling that she is steel seeing someone else coz we don't talk like be4 and she doesn't kal or reply my texts like be4. I always see this vision at night when am asleep of her with another man making love and when I tell her she tells me that I am overthinking could this be true. I love her so much and I can't imagine me without her or with me with another woman. Could she be still sleeping with another man or not .PLEASE REPLY TO ME
@ I will never agree to this…if they like you doesn’t mean they will date you they just wish but will still wait till you make a move …relax and loose them forever that’s why they crave attention like ice cream 🍨
I tried a lot last year and nothing seemed to work other than push her further away due to my lack of control over my emotions…. Since taking your advice ive been doing my best in controlling my emotions and have giving her the space that is needed in my situation…. Few days of talking in the middle and few days ago she slightly opened up that she loves me but doesnt see us together and rather miss me that be with me…. Been in no contact since… until yesterday my anxiety kicked in and i ended up asking stupid things like do you miss me when at the time of me ignoring her she would send me reels on insta for a few days which she would never do and all of a sudden she stopped sending which kicked my anxiety through the roof… so now i think i have no choice but to go radio silent again……what can i do to take positive steps from here on coach?
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
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Is this same with no contact?
Thank you
I just can't imagine the consultation fee I lack😢😢 poor me will one day reach out when I have money 😢😢😢
We don’t ‘try to attract’ her, we forget and move on.
@@JohnM... Thats manship we move
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I mean you should try at the start but if it doesn't stick then no point in continuing. The silence is how you know whether it sticks or not and whether to continue or walk away.
That's the beautiful truth.
Spot on
This is the one skill i learned the hard way. I wanna be able to be good with or without a woman now.
👍
In short: Women don't like when you play the games they play... PLAY them anyways and be better at it
Thank u
I don’t do hard to get … I don’t play it, and don’t tolerate it.. I’m forthright
Too late,i am on the no contact journey .she told me she has no space for a relationship...time to move on and put God first.Thanks for the video 😢God Bless you.
Go get money! Thank me later…..
She had no space for a relationship with you, that's what she ment. I'm sure Justin Timberlake would've change her mind.
Silent treatment is the best start to the end of a relationship. Don’t overthink, just move-on, love is ephemeral.
I remember when I walked away from a potential partner 2 years ago. She was 18 at the time and I always thought she needed to be more mature, and responsible before committing to someone emotionally. I cut her off and any potential for a future relationship completely and recently a mutual friend told me she was engaged to another dude. To be honest I don't regret my decision because to this day I know she still needs to work and mature on herself before entering a relationship.
I’ve been focused on the gym, making money, and building my career, but I always felt like I was falling behind when it came to girls. After watching this video and reading some advice in a book called Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I feel like I can finally improve in that area too. Now I’m ready to put in the effort, just like I do with everything else in life!
my coworker recommended the book, and now were both trying to approach people more often. fun challenge!
I view it this way, "What's is the best thing I can do for myself out of self respect and self love?" The answer is always, "dont play games, and move upward and onward." It's really the best we can do as much as we'd like for the woman to reach out to us.
Great advice Jessica Os,It's important to maintain respect and use the silence authentically and not to play games no one's stupid you'll end up losing
This lady is a beast withit...dope and straight to the point content.
When she say no, or hint at no, I'm not fighting, I'm leaving and not coming back.
If the game is to get me to "fight for her", she'll lose every time. She better ask her mama to fight for her.
😂😂😂😂
Her: “Why didn’t you fight for me?”
Me: “Why are you putting me in a position to have to fight for you?”
Normally, they always like when they fight back
Loool...you guys are mean in 2025
I don’t think us men care about women feelings in 2025 we don’t chase anymore just replace
I'm ignoring her because another woman is showing me more interest
The reality is the only choice you have is to walk away (after trying). If she cares she'll notice the absence, if she doesn't care you got your answer and should look to move on anyway. It really is the only choice if you've tried and aren't getting anywhere with her.
Woman...I decided not to chase them. 😬
Ignoring a woman ....generalizing....it's depends on the women being ignored and if Ignoring her brings peace and self dignity cause being in love with a respectful partner does not require Ignoring
Basically: you can’t win
If you don't know how to play the game you will just like anything in life
it looks interesting how much women like to be manipulative towards men, but in fact when men start to prioritize themselves, women put the "emotion" card on the table. Men want women to be straight forward, and show that the relationship can progress. If I want to play strategy, i do prefer playing chess or having this plan for my business than go through a woman who strikes with maturity
Thanks for making another great vid Jess, useful info as always, sorry for late response,I was genuinely busy today,I'd never try to 🐂 you 😉xx
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
Oh well, the one time I tried it, discovered she wasn't that into me from the get-go, and I think that's why she NEVER reached out, it's well, we move
Thanks Jess!
Lovely change of environment, I forgot to point it out in the previous video
Interesting video Jessica 💯🎯
Run while you can
The circumstances of why you ignore her are what's Important. Example if she dumps you and she then enters a rebound, you absolutely ignore her if she reaches out. Therefore there is no such thing as backfiring. The main thing to remember is if you make a decision to ignore her you have to mean it, it's not a game
@@problemslayer3538 There's this babe that always avoid a conversation whenever I want to engage her. On multiple occasions she responded as being defensive just because I asked simple questions to start a conversation. She makes me feel like I'm prying even if I ask how she's gonna spend her weekend. Well, I've decided to ignore her completely and I don't care whatever might be running in her mind.
I don't have that luxury of time. I move
All these crap to please one woman. Let her go.
Is 2025 and am still here with my favorite relationship Coach.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Very educated video. Good job
We don't give af we block her and do our thing
@@Arnoldthegreat579 💯🙌
I work with a woman, and I ignored her because I didn't feel appreciated because I wasn't her top option. She was very angry with me for about 2-3 months, and when I see her now its indifferent or worse.
Tbh you don’t need all these games. If the girl isn’t giving you the most basic things, walk away! However she interprets it is up to her.
I think you have to have an emotional bond with the person for it to work, otherwise the person won't care if you leave or stay.
Hmmmm, had a crash on a lady but after 2months of constant calling without her ever calling or texting first once, I realised it wasn't worth it.
In that case, isn't ignoring manipulative?
Hi Jessica, pls make a video about 'stages of a relationship' thanx for your time in advance
I ignore more if I’m ignored.. Incant can’t stick a ghost
wish there were woman like you in New Zealand.
I wouldn't want to play no mind games on my girl.
If you are in friend zone if you go silent work also I was in the friend zone I went silent then she reached out do to curiosity
Sometimes the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
Can we get more specific examples on how to do it the right way?
I once dated a babe, if she ignored me for say 3 hours, I ignore her for 6 hours .. she ignores me for a day, I ignore her thruout the weekend.. Eventually I caught her with some dude and she said it was cos I didn’t give her attention.. 😂 a Nascisst I’d say and that was thank God for me.. I can’t deal with such.. I think the best thing is to really get busy but as you’ve said, it depends on how deep the couple r b4 the issue happened..
I ignore women because I'm dating more than one woman. Not because she ignored me
Great video, I’m in a weird situation as my Gf broke up with me but still wants to be in constant , tells me she loves me when we’re in person and I love her too but I think it’s time I go silent as well I fought for her for about a week but nothing changed …. My question is should I tell her she needs space , I needs space or should I just do it without saying anything ?
First to click like this time even b4 I listened to it, u’re that good 👍🏾
appreciate you always
i noticed that it works but to me on the wrong women, if it works she is crazy im no longer interested.
Jessica, we love you
Is this the same with no contact.?
So many men coming out in the comments. Congrats, princesses 💖💖💖💖
what happens if i start ignoring her while she friendzoned me for couple months but knows i still have feelings for her and she was used to have my attention before ?
You got it all....wow
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
Hey Jessica, I really admire your relationship advice and could use your perspective on something. There's a girl I love, and I often wonder if I should be chatting with her every minute I'm online. Sometimes, I feel like I'm the one putting in all the effort to keep the conversation going, and it makes me question if I should always be available to her. What’s your take on this? Would love to hear your thoughts-thanks!
Now how about you just now that she crashes you then you ignore her,what happens
Notice that the word "balance" depends on her mood which can never be logically measured, predicted nor quantified for an approprate application/response. That renders these gynocentric pieces of advice useless.
Women understand men better than men understand women. Besides, men are more steady and predictable. So it is women who should learn all these and do the work to make the relationship succeed, not the other way around. Men trying to learn to cope with women's childishness and unstable nature is a fools errand. If all men understood this one thing and opted out of this insanity, women would tone down the childish games and behave more reasonably
Get Money. Save Money. Save me them thanks you‘s
Notice that the word "balance" depends on her mood which cannot be scientifically measured nor quantified for an approprate application/response. That renders these gynocentric pieces of advice useless.
Women understand men better than men understand women. Besides, men are more steady and predictable. So It is women who should learn all these and do the work to make the relationship succeed, not men. Trying to learn to cope with women's childishness and unstable nature is a fools errand. If all men understood this one thing and opted out of this insanity, women would behave more reasonably
t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.
How to detached for respect?
i kept seeing this book pop up in youtube comments and even in random convos with friends. it felt like everyone was talking about it, so i finally gave in and found Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki. it wasn’t easy to get my hands on, but once i did, everything started changing. my dating life finally feels effortless, my finances are improving, and i’m in a better headspace than i’ve been in years. honestly, i’m so glad i listened to all the buzz
Screw this!
screw this, I read a book called charmflow secrets and learned what's real seduction
Hi Jessica
I love your content
Fellas, the goal isn't about winning her back but remaining stoic and getting on with purpose driven aspirations. Who cares regardless...I can only chase her, only if she is with my kidney. otherwise am gonna keep drinding. Lol
Blessings
Hi Jessica I hope you're going to reply coz im curious my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after one year due to her relatives not approving and now she's texting weird msges replying to old text I had sent to her back then.... What could that mean
Breadcrumbs
You can't really lose if you ignore the girl who pushed you to that, provided you have other things going on.
If she wasn't interested you don't have to waste time talking to her anymore. If she's interested maybe she will learn not to play idiot games.
Hi jess I have a question I would like you to help me out. I found out my wife is cheating on me,(WITH 5 MEN)after there we argued and she said that she is sorry and since I found out she is cheating on me is now 6months and I'm with her. Now here is what is disturbing me. I have a strong feeling that she is steel seeing someone else coz we don't talk like be4 and she doesn't kal or reply my texts like be4. I always see this vision at night when am asleep of her with another man making love and when I tell her she tells me that I am overthinking could this be true. I love her so much and I can't imagine me without her or with me with another woman. Could she be still sleeping with another man or not .PLEASE REPLY TO ME
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What a dum video if she likes you there’s no reason to ignore her these dum games are for the insecure people like Jessica
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Ignore 10 women with any strategy I assure you that you will loose all 10….😂
Actually women like when men ignore them
@ I will never agree to this…if they like you doesn’t mean they will date you they just wish but will still wait till you make a move …relax and loose them forever that’s why they crave attention like ice cream 🍨
@@bentilprince3210is it proper to make a move via texting?
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN LOOSE FEELINGS FOR YOU!!😂
WOMEN DON'T CHASE.
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
I have a huge crush on you Jess
I tried a lot last year and nothing seemed to work other than push her further away due to my lack of control over my emotions…. Since taking your advice ive been doing my best in controlling my emotions and have giving her the space that is needed in my situation…. Few days of talking in the middle and few days ago she slightly opened up that she loves me but doesnt see us together and rather miss me that be with me…. Been in no contact since… until yesterday my anxiety kicked in and i ended up asking stupid things like do you miss me when at the time of me ignoring her she would send me reels on insta for a few days which she would never do and all of a sudden she stopped sending which kicked my anxiety through the roof… so now i think i have no choice but to go radio silent again……what can i do to take positive steps from here on coach?
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
Goofy ass women!
Combining this video and the forbidden book called Charmflow Secrets by vexoner, made it so incredibly helpful for me. Thank you!|
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Charmflow Secretson vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance