THE TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP OF CHE AND MIRANDA

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2023
  • i can't talk about this trainwreck enough.
    Note - I KNOW THE PIANO IS SUPER LOUD. I’m releasing it again attached to part 2 and the volume is lower. Will post the link when it drops.
    • THE TERRIBLE RELATIONS... (FIXED AUDIO ON FIRST HALF, THIS IS BOTH PARTS)
    Chapters:
    00:14 - 2:12: intro
    02:13 - 4:49: the beginning
    04:50 - 12:32: "it wasn't an affair, it was a finger!"
    12:33 - 14:32: "what can i say, i'm a f**king narcissist!"
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Комментарии • 362

  • @aspyn.j_
    @aspyn.j_  26 дней назад +9

    Hey everyone - I KNOW THE MUSIC IS SUPER LOUD, I’m sorry! There is an updated link in the description box for parts one and two and the AUDIO IS FIXED!

  • @parriekeet5511
    @parriekeet5511 5 месяцев назад +517

    Che is the new Big; Steve is the new Aidan; Miranda is the new Carrie.

  • @user-wb5ml2mw6h
    @user-wb5ml2mw6h Месяц назад +316

    "I'm a fucking narcissist" is the most honest thing Che has said.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +27

      right???? just completely expose yourself, miranda isn't going anywhere.

  • @asarishepard8171
    @asarishepard8171 6 месяцев назад +351

    The way miranda chases che really was grimy , like a middle schooler trying to please their crush.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +40

      THIS. I hate it with a passion. If she wouldn’t tolerate this from a MAN what makes it ok now that it’s a masc presenting woman who is non binary?

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 6 месяцев назад +20

      @@aspyn.j_ I agree, shitty behavior is shitty behavior, the problem is they wrote che to be a unicorn of virtue. Somehow.

    • @elmin82
      @elmin82 Месяц назад +4

      that's kinda pathetic.

    • @maryperry6573
      @maryperry6573 Месяц назад +5

      Yes.
      That middle schooler was me 😅 so, I recognize that clingy person anywhere lmaoo original Miranda would NEVER

    • @thestooshie
      @thestooshie 23 дня назад +2

      miranda’s behaviour is peak toxic babygay

  • @ikd3240
    @ikd3240 2 месяца назад +408

    The OG Miranda wouldn't have put up with a second of Che's bullshit. Of all the ways that they ruined SATC's legacy with And Just Like That, the Miranda/Che story was the worst.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Месяц назад +25

      Yes OG miranda would had left the moment she was being disrespected

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 Месяц назад +29

      @@angelaholmes8888OG Miranda would’ve hated Che from the moment she gave her minor son weed imo

    • @tracys169
      @tracys169 29 дней назад +4

      THIS.

    • @juliareck6650
      @juliareck6650 28 дней назад +11

      The OG Miranda wouldn't have lost their phone while cleaning up the beach - and even if she did - she wouldn't have reacted like a headless chicken. Miranda is in control. Or was. They destroyed that character. She became spineless.

    • @jbtechcon7434
      @jbtechcon7434 23 дня назад +1

      They kinda through dignity right out the window.

  • @mc-ge2bt
    @mc-ge2bt 6 месяцев назад +254

    The show missed the opportunity to discuss Che and Miranda's early relationship for what it actually was, an affair. If written correctly. it would detail how affairs aren't always about people being "bad" but a nuanced look at how we age in long term relationships. Its particularly odd since the premise of Miranda's affair with Che is identical to Steve's in the first movie. Its also odd that none of the other women demanded Miranda own up to the affair and speak to Steve. It was all together a terribly written storyline ad made me understand why Kim Catrall quite this hotmess show.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +28

      yeah they're all replaced by aliens because this is a mess and it's not even a fun mess. all the nuance is gone, they're just ticking boxes because why the hell is che coming back for a THIRD season?

    • @Asheelaz
      @Asheelaz 2 месяца назад +10

      Welp, maybe they don’t call out on her behavior because Miranda is a woman. Right now most narratives are: if something awful and morally wrong is done by a woman, they can get away with it. Men on the other hand if they did the same…

    • @matxalenc8410
      @matxalenc8410 Месяц назад +22

      ​@@Asheelaz That quite literally is not the narrative going. Give it a rest. The reason no one has told Miranda to tell her husband is because their loyalty is to MIRANDA!

    • @ZavaXavier
      @ZavaXavier Месяц назад +6

      ​@@matxalenc8410 It's art imitate life with Cynthia Nixon with her poor husband.

    • @monapop
      @monapop 27 дней назад +11

      Please remember that the third movie's storyline that Kim turned down was a 14 year old Brady sending d*** pics and trying to hook up with Samantha! 😮 Yes, you read that right! So thank you Kim for ensuring Samantha's legacy is intact alltough they almost ruined it in the second movie.

  • @justagirlandherphone
    @justagirlandherphone Месяц назад +182

    I'll never forgive the writers for what they did to Miranda and Steve *(especially* Steve)! I really enjoyed this. Thanks!

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад

      Thanks for watching!!

    • @laurakerce7679
      @laurakerce7679 Месяц назад

      I agree 👍

    • @vanessak69
      @vanessak69 Месяц назад +7

      It feels like everyone who touches it has to put THEIR stamp on the show, ignoring what came before. I'd rather they cancel it than allow this crap to be out there in the universe sullying the show's legacy.

    • @cjd5235
      @cjd5235 29 дней назад +5

      I just pretend the show ends after the 1st movie. Or this is an alternate universe.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 22 дня назад +1

      ​@cjd5235 me too. I dont care about anything that comes after the first movie.

  • @LiesMyPastorToldMe
    @LiesMyPastorToldMe 4 месяца назад +227

    “You’re having a midlife crisis! You shoulda just dyed your hair!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 Месяц назад +14

      That was the correct response 🤣

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk Месяц назад +7

      She is too old for midlife as she is in her 50s and not 40s.

    • @minirth.maggie
      @minirth.maggie 27 дней назад +4

      Charlotte nailed it!

  • @tormentors
    @tormentors 6 месяцев назад +604

    The original Miranda wouldn't be this clingy and needy I hate how they try to make so woke

    • @ad8554
      @ad8554 2 месяца назад +39

      Right she was a corporate lawyer 😂

    • @elmin82
      @elmin82 Месяц назад +22

      Original Miranda have more attitude

    • @ripwednesdayadams
      @ripwednesdayadams Месяц назад +44

      I just hate how the things that happened on the og episodes have gone out the window. Like when Miranda was set up with a gay lawyer from her firm? They go on a “date” to one of the partner’s dinner parties and try to kiss in the elevator. But Miranda realizes that she’s straight. Also Che is just a horrible person for the reasons laid out in this video.

    • @marr6878
      @marr6878 Месяц назад +52

      Thats not what woke means everytime its something different doesn't make it woke

    • @msfriendsfan4ever788
      @msfriendsfan4ever788 Месяц назад +33

      @@ripwednesdayadams Honestly, Miranda being queer is not the issue. They could have done a storyline on her and Steve growing apart and falling out of love, and getting a divorced, but remaining friends. And then have her come out later in life, as she begins to develop feelings for he rprofessor.

  • @claudiamartinezmendez4915
    @claudiamartinezmendez4915 Месяц назад +220

    Ok, who brings tequila for a person who is recovery?

  • @pamelalansbury94
    @pamelalansbury94 Месяц назад +131

    How tf is Brady underage when he was born in 2002???? Do they not have clocks and calendars in Carrie’s universe??

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +33

      Yeah apparently MPK just said eff it and decided to set the show in an alternate universe.

    • @pamelalansbury94
      @pamelalansbury94 Месяц назад +11

      @@aspyn.j_ I hate that. We deserve better.

    • @SHyperice
      @SHyperice 26 дней назад +3

      It must have been the time-machine-plot they will explore in season 3.

  • @Neelysmusic
    @Neelysmusic Месяц назад +172

    I instantly hated the Che character. It was an empty shell with no depth and felt gross from the start. Che is a horrible person. The attempt to impress certain people with those fake woke crap is embarrassing and it fell flat. Our society is going thru some weird developmental stage and has waaaay overshot trying to please certain groups. That's not being inclusive. It's fake disingenuous kissing ass and it won't work on Intelligent people who are actually paying attention. This is just wrong.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +29

      thank you. it's very fake and performative and to think, if they'd just kept the show going without che, it would have probably been way better. still shitty, but not as bad. and they were written like a character the audience is meant to LIKE which is absolutely insane.

    • @brih220
      @brih220 18 дней назад

      You said it perfectly. It’s fine to have diversity but this show is soooo obviously trying to pander to a specific group of people and it comes off as disingenuous and sooooo cringe-worthy 😣

  • @kaylaclark3660
    @kaylaclark3660 6 месяцев назад +182

    Che and Miranda have as much chemistry as an old lighter on wet cardboard. Idk what they were going for when they introduced Che.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +27

      a bunch of boxes to tick.

    • @sueryan8320
      @sueryan8320 Месяц назад +7

      Che too hardcore. She should be on Mad Max

    • @eve3363
      @eve3363 Месяц назад +19

      Nothing in AJLT makes sense. Carrie Bradshaw is a well known author (regardless of how mediocre her writing is) and her boss is a failing comedienne 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 The writing is just so sloppy.

    • @blkloislane
      @blkloislane Месяц назад +6

      @@aspyn.j_ Apparently Nia was going to be her love interest but Cynthia Nixon wanted someone more butch. Which isn't something I'm against in theory, but they should still be likable right?

  • @RealMamaEagle
    @RealMamaEagle 6 месяцев назад +231

    The way you kept throwing "oregano" in there sent me. LMAO. I still absolutely hate how they ruined Miranda's character. She was one of my favorites during the original series.

    • @alexclark2370
      @alexclark2370 6 месяцев назад +22

      Agreed! They totally ruined Miranda, she would never have changed this much in the original series as far as her personality goes; it's so cringey to watch

    • @luckydevil1601
      @luckydevil1601 6 месяцев назад +11

      She might get dementia tho😂

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +21

      She was my fave too despite all of her flaws. I guess the show is hellbent on ruining everyone except Charlotte because she usually has the most growth.

  • @jessmorgan6732
    @jessmorgan6732 6 месяцев назад +97

    Seeing every scene of them together in a row really hits home how toxic this relationship was. It reminds me of myself with my first ex: I'd cling like grim death to the slightest sign that he wanted to be with me, and he'd only come around when it suited him. But I was 18 years old then. Miranda should have known better at her age.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +20

      yeah it's quite disappointing because miranda would never act like this behind a man...she'd be too ashamed of herself. not sure how dating a non-binary person makes it all ok.

    • @jessmorgan6732
      @jessmorgan6732 6 месяцев назад

      @@aspyn.j_ It doesn't! The only way they could have done a worse job representing a nonbinary person is to make them a sex worker who makes men puke at the sight of their junk.

    • @greendiamondglow
      @greendiamondglow Месяц назад +11

      @@aspyn.j_ I'm sometimes shocked at how many times I see a non hetero couple's toxicity overlooked in fiction (and real life sometimes) just because they're not hetero

  • @taotaostrong
    @taotaostrong 6 месяцев назад +113

    Miranda’s 20 year long mid life crisis and Che’s eyebrows are a burden upon my soul. I just watch on mute for LTW, Nya, and Seema’s clothes.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +11

      🤣🤣🤣 Ches eyebrows 🤣🤣🤣

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +7

      And yes I love seema’s fashion! Same with LTW.

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@aspyn.j_ they’re horrible, right?!?! 😂

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@aspyn.j_ Gurl, when LTW carried her wig case through the snowstorm, I caught the Holy Ghost in my living room. 💃🏾💃🏾🤣

    • @Natalie_11188
      @Natalie_11188 4 месяца назад +3

      I could’ve written this comment😂

  • @maryl1902
    @maryl1902 3 месяца назад +42

    even maria and Samantha made more sense than these two, che is the worst!

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Месяц назад +9

      I liked Maria and samantha relationship they did make sense

  • @asarishepard8171
    @asarishepard8171 6 месяцев назад +154

    I also hate how the show is trying to push weed. Some people don't like it, including myself. The smell makes me sick and if someone tried to breathe it into my face, thats be the end of that friendship for not respecting boundaries.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +52

      I smoke weed and I agree. I would never just light up unless someone said it was ok. However I feel the same way you do about cigarettes. Either way, best to ask first or just idk go outside?

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 6 месяцев назад +15

      @@aspyn.j_ I agree, ty for understanding my view. I dont do weed but I'm not going to belittle someone who does. Just do it at your place not mine right? :)

    • @kimaya4503
      @kimaya4503 6 месяцев назад +21

      I agree also. As a weed smoker, it's pretty bizarre to see weed smokers portrayed as overstepping people's boundaries and constantly pressuring non-smokers to smoke. Smokers mostly smoke with fellow smokers.

    • @desireesmusic6236
      @desireesmusic6236 Месяц назад +17

      I smoke but I think it’s insane to just light up in someone’s house with out asking, much less at a fucking funeral😭

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 Месяц назад +9

      @@desireesmusic6236 ikr, why at a funeral

  • @bringiton5282
    @bringiton5282 2 месяца назад +67

    They're trying so hard with this storyline, it feels so hammed in. 'DM me back or whatever' sounds like when old people try to act young

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 Месяц назад +8

      Che sounds like “how do you do fellow kids?”

  • @zoeevans6410
    @zoeevans6410 6 месяцев назад +82

    "New Jersey's not going to make itself laugh." No, mate, and neither are you.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +11

      LMAO!!!!

  • @LilyLuluko
    @LilyLuluko Месяц назад +57

    The Miranda I know would never put up with this.

  • @StrawberryCakeStudiosYT
    @StrawberryCakeStudiosYT 6 месяцев назад +91

    “I’m just the girlfriend” Che’s face killed me. I literally made the 😬 face. Miranda should’ve just ran.

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 Месяц назад +9

      Fr. If anyone ever makes that face when you say that you’re their gf, you might want to just leave 😂

  • @annejohnson5875
    @annejohnson5875 28 дней назад +19

    I hate the way Miranda dumped Steve. She treated him like garbage.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 22 дня назад +1

      Even though Steve has annoyed me a lot in the original show and he cheated on her, she never respected him and always acted like she was doing him a favor for being with him.

  • @paranoidandroid1997
    @paranoidandroid1997 Месяц назад +44

    I honestly h4ted Che's character, that wasn't Miranda

  • @mmmaryj
    @mmmaryj Месяц назад +26

    Che was INSUFFERABLE. I couldn’t stand that character!

  • @mikeharlow
    @mikeharlow Месяц назад +29

    This video made me realize I was the Miranda in my last relationship. And that is the most horrifying sentence I have ever uttered.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +3

      Don’t be ashamed, at least you learned from it. I too, was the miranda to a couple guys’ (and friends too) Che and it’s more of a lesson now. Glad you’re out of it now tho!

  • @purplenurple6278
    @purplenurple6278 Месяц назад +54

    Che's hair reminds me of a Pringle

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +6

      She’s rocking the fuccboi special 🤣

  • @brittney3156
    @brittney3156 2 месяца назад +52

    Che is a narcissist.

  • @lealmelisa
    @lealmelisa 6 месяцев назад +85

    I am a latina and my last name is Díaz and i dissaprove of Che Díaz.....this character is a disgrace for the latino comunity 😡😡😡

  • @madhurimachatterjee5787
    @madhurimachatterjee5787 6 месяцев назад +135

    Che is Mr. Big

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +18

      basically.

    • @SusySEGA
      @SusySEGA 4 месяца назад

      Wowzers.

    • @Gobble_de_Goop
      @Gobble_de_Goop 3 месяца назад +28

      But wayyyyyyy less attractive. Big at least had Zaddy energy. Che looks like a 2000s era teenage Insane Clown Posse stan (a.k.a. a Juggalo). 😂

    • @justagirlandherphone
      @justagirlandherphone Месяц назад +1

      ​@@Gobble_de_Goop😂

    • @jessica_jam4386
      @jessica_jam4386 Месяц назад +2

      @@Gobble_de_Goopnot a juggalo 🤣

  • @minirth.maggie
    @minirth.maggie 27 дней назад +14

    I never liked Miranda, now that I'm older, I CAN'T STAND THAT SELFISH COW. She's the WORST. "This isn't enough! " NOTHING EVER IS FOR HER.

  • @myau7221
    @myau7221 Месяц назад +42

    The narration and writing is A+. I would lower the background music a little

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +11

      Thank you for the feedback and omg I wish I could fix that because it is loud af lmao it’s better on the second part!

  • @marr6878
    @marr6878 Месяц назад +29

    Damn did they all undergo botox? And lets be real Miranda never loved steve she tolerated him

  • @krazykittymatt
    @krazykittymatt 26 дней назад +9

    This is honestly why I hate they try to change the sexuality of characters just because the actor playing them is gay. Like Miranda didn't need to leave her husband of 20 years. It made no sense at all and made her unlikable.

  • @elmin82
    @elmin82 Месяц назад +23

    i like Miranda and Steve together

  • @amcd85
    @amcd85 6 месяцев назад +35

    I feel like it's a good story to tell, it's just not Miranda's story to tell. It's almost like Che is the main character w/Miranda as the side.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +7

      100% this. very true.

  • @Rinniantoinette
    @Rinniantoinette 2 месяца назад +30

    I think it’s normal that some people go through a life crisis when they are older. It’s normal that a marriage goes through trouble. But she definitely has psychological and emotional problems which don’t seem to be tackled in the show. She has always been kind of neurotic and desperate in a way. But now that she’s older, her neurosis has gone up by a 100.
    Also, we know she tends to get clingy sometimes when it came to men who had Che’s attitude. I’m rewatching the sex and the city series and it’s shown multiple times that she’s attracted to men who have a narcissistic or have an aggressive personality. Which does translate as to why she’s attracted to Che. Che has a difficult and aggressive personality.
    She wants to cling to Che so that she feels that her choices was correct

  • @dorcas8089
    @dorcas8089 6 месяцев назад +46

    Miranda is why some women got to be less high strung & experiment with their true desires earlier in life so they don’t go thought a bisexual mid life crisis when they got much more to lose lol.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +43

      Thing is in the show, she DID experiment a little…she kissed a woman but knew it wasn’t for her and the woman she kissed knew it too. Cynthia Nixon is just modeling Miranda after her real life because IRL she dumped her husband for a butch woman.

  • @kevindavidtz
    @kevindavidtz 6 месяцев назад +28

    Che makes me so angry

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 Месяц назад +17

    The writers really messed up dealing with che and miranda relationship they definitely are not healthy together 🚩

  • @tytybaby06
    @tytybaby06 6 месяцев назад +28

    This was great! I kept saying Miranda musta got a brain transplant with how she acts in AJLT! Justice for Steve & Che is the worst & now that I think about it exactly what Miranda deserves can’t wait for you to do season 2 on the train wreck cause it only gets worse

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +2

      thank you so much for watching! i LITERALLY just recorded the voice over for part 2 because you're right, it's even worse. :/

    • @tytybaby06
      @tytybaby06 6 месяцев назад

      @@aspyn.j_ np bout to watch another video of yours & probably subscribe great work sis

  • @Thatcaramelchic
    @Thatcaramelchic 6 месяцев назад +29

    Omg I could not stand Che character on this show

  • @teresamariecaglehitt
    @teresamariecaglehitt Месяц назад +30

    Oregano & organisms😂😂😂

  • @LeandroVelez7
    @LeandroVelez7 27 дней назад +5

    Miranda fits the description of an addict to a tee. Where the thing she’s addicted to is another person and willing to give up their whole lives to satisfy the other. Che is a narcissist who needs the constant validation that Miranda offers them. But also the validation that everyone else gives them too.

  • @nicolejordan9862
    @nicolejordan9862 6 месяцев назад +27

    does che ever explain why their performances are called comedy ‘concerts’? i only saw s1 and i was under the impression that the term is comedy ‘show’. them constantly calling che’s mid stand-up routines concerts makes me cringe to this day

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +12

      AJLT is an alternate world, i'm convinced. che doesn't ever have to take accountability for anything. they get to smoke in elevators and outside of funerals and everyone just carries on. carrie is for whatever reason besties with che although they had sex with her best friend in her kitchen and stunk up her apartment with weed PLUS they shit talk her alleged ride-or-die. like i just don't get it. AND they get rewarded with another love interest. it's maddening.

  • @charlottefarrell9095
    @charlottefarrell9095 4 месяца назад +44

    Everyone is on here saying they hate how AJLT ruined Miranda's character and I agree to an extent; but if you go back and rewatch the show, you can see she was always kind of like this. Sure, she wasn't whiny and thoughtless; but her self loathing, repressed queerness, and even her alcoholism was always there.
    When she goes on a date with the detective who was supposed to help Carrie find her stolen shoes, she becomes super insecure, gets wasted, and he ghosts her the next morning and leaves the phone number for her local AA chapter.
    Miranda also never really liked Steve. He cajoles her into a committed relationship when she made it clear from the beginning she wanted something casual; on their honeymoon she's miserable and uninterested in sex; she doesn't want to cuddle with him several times while they're dating, she doesn't want him to move in; the list goes on. She has a super unique style in the original series that often borders on being very masculine. She keeps her hair cut short. Her being gay is super believable. Miranda is to Steve as Big is to Carrie.
    Finally, Miranda has always been miserable, unhappy, and caustic. In the original series I think a) her youth b) the whimsical and lighthearted nature of the show and c) her friends, softened how intense Miranda's neuroses could be. It was usually played off as her having a strong personality, or just being sarcastic and having a strong back bone, but if you go back and pay attention it's really startling. In the episode where Miranda finally starts dating Steve, right after she offends him and he leaves the restaurant, she says "I knew it. Big's not coming. Men are shit." with tears in her eyes. Obviously I know she was crying because of her emotions about Steve, but Carrie (who is decidedly straight) would never have said something like that.
    In conclusion, I also hate the reboot. But it's realistic as hell. The choices we make in our youths can and do make us miserable if we are not true to ourselves. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  4 месяца назад +3

      Bravo. Well said.

    • @Rinniantoinette
      @Rinniantoinette 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m also rewatching the series and look at it from an older pov. And I agree with you to a certain degree. Miranda had lots of times to explore her sexuality but she denied it. Just because she was more masculine does not mean it was obvious she was repressing herself. If that side was explored at least even once during the show then it would have been understandably.
      Agree with the fact that Miranda is kind of neurotic, clingy and likes aggressive personality. Which is what I see that attracts her to Che. Either way, my take on Miranda is that she desperately wants to be in a relationship but she gets bored immediately. She doesn’t realize that the way she behaves in heterosexual relationships is not the same way she should act in a bisexual relationship.
      And Steve, as much as I like him, they should have had them just be friendly parents and not have them be together. The writers had her settle

    • @Garcelle1987
      @Garcelle1987 Месяц назад +2

      I think you have inadvertently proved how expert writing, particularly the comedic kind can allow beloved characters to get away with everything and anything 😂☕️
      Because you are so spot on about OG Miranda. But of course because of time gone by & AJLT’s abominable writing, folks are now looking back on the character (SATC in general tbh) with a VERY idealized lens

    • @hamwithcheese586
      @hamwithcheese586 Месяц назад +1

      They addressed Miranda’s queer style and personality in the original series. She entertains dating a lesbian, and decides it isn’t for her. I’ve known masculine straight women, that’s what Miranda was.

    • @charlottefarrell9095
      @charlottefarrell9095 14 дней назад

      @@Rinniantoinette agree she and steve would have made pretty good coparents since they balance each other out. Also agree that a masculine straight woman is not an oxymoron and they definitely exist. In miranda's case though, I'd say her having suchly a starkly masculine style compared to her friends in combination with her dissatisfaction with a heteronormative lifestyle was evidence that a queer relationship would have suited her a lot better

  • @WillSing4TP
    @WillSing4TP 6 месяцев назад +12

    Wow, this was brilliant! Thanks!

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +1

      You’re welcome!!!

  • @evelynannettegordon3697
    @evelynannettegordon3697 6 месяцев назад +21

    This was good! I love the way you broke this down

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you!!!

    • @mahabanana
      @mahabanana 5 месяцев назад

      Totally cool ✨✌🏻🏀

  • @rachel3760
    @rachel3760 29 дней назад +5

    The things Che said about Miranda were insanely cruel. It’d be cruel to say to someone’s face let alone an audience for laughs. I couldn’t stand that Carrie stayed friendly with them after that.
    In fact Che as a whole is extremely selfish. It almost feels like they didn’t write them to be like a real human, they tried so hard to make them “confident” and “unapologetic” they accidentally made them an asshole.

  • @891username
    @891username Месяц назад +8

    I can't handle the piano background music in this

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +6

      I know it’s annoying - I reuploaded it with the 2nd half and the audio is fixed.

  • @annabethsmith-kingsley2079
    @annabethsmith-kingsley2079 26 дней назад +6

    the biggest crime they've done to Miranda is make a blonde have to wear redhead colours for the last 26 years

  • @dramonmaster222
    @dramonmaster222 29 дней назад +5

    You know the irony is Miranda did to Steve what he did in the movie and she lost it.
    And I just realized that Che does to Miranda what Big did to Carrie. No wonder it's toxic as F.

  • @aa9607
    @aa9607 6 месяцев назад +14

    Great video as always. But yeah that's not Miranda at all. They killed her! 🤬

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +1

      thank you! and yes, they murdered my fave!!! :(

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Месяц назад +7

    Miranda made a fool out of herself for Che...

  • @Maple373
    @Maple373 Месяц назад +1

    Such a great breakdown. Subscribed!

  • @philciaire
    @philciaire Месяц назад +12

    what is callie torres doing

  • @RAXTSFK
    @RAXTSFK 6 месяцев назад +5

    Amazing summary. Loved listening to it. Thank you!!

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад

      no problem and thanks for watching!

  • @srami004
    @srami004 26 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this analysis. Talk about sad…About to watch part two

  • @angelavanessa1714
    @angelavanessa1714 Месяц назад +6

    Hate how everyone thinks this kind of character change can’t happen. I saw it happen in real time with my sister. She was a “hard-ass” type growing up but then all of a sudden in our 20s she’s this emotional softie that cries when she used to make fun of me when I’d cry.

  • @MissDebbieSue123
    @MissDebbieSue123 Месяц назад +7

    If they were going to have Miranda chase tail then she needs to not look like an old lady.

  • @merpmerp7220
    @merpmerp7220 29 дней назад +4

    I wish they focused on Miranda, either exploring how to enjoy life or finding herself again that she lost in a stressful job/motherhood. Or exploring her sexuality outside of Che. Why go from one long time marriage into a “relationship”. Especially if she hated her marriage. She was never one for relationships in SATC so why now??

  • @summertimesandy91
    @summertimesandy91 6 месяцев назад +3

    Needed this 👏 fr

  • @kitkat261
    @kitkat261 28 дней назад +4

    I think they gave miranda a toxic relationship bc Big was gone, and the show kinda thrived on the constant drama of the toxic relationship. idk

  • @FrancescasFantasyWorld
    @FrancescasFantasyWorld 14 дней назад

    ngl i expected you to have way more subscribers omg your videos are all soOOOO good

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  14 дней назад

      aww thank you! i'll get more eventually!

  • @amyisafoxfull3350
    @amyisafoxfull3350 Месяц назад +7

    Suuuuch a good analysis 🎉 they ruined miranda, and why did che have to be so damn unlikeable?

    • @NadiaSeesIt
      @NadiaSeesIt Месяц назад

      Because the actor is reprehensible. You can tell in interviews.

  • @maryperry6573
    @maryperry6573 Месяц назад +10

    Bro…… what is with the church band background music going on here 😅😅

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад +4

      I knooooooow lmao it’s so loud. Watch the video with both versions, the audio is fixed 😉

  • @miekeeerkens1001
    @miekeeerkens1001 24 дня назад +4

    Everyone made out like the hatred of Che Diaz was transphobia. Nope. They're just a terrible, narcissistic character. Thank God they're not coming back for another season (though I've already given up on the woke-performative, self congratulatory AJLT, which misses the SaTC niche entirely.) This show was never overtly about social justice issues, and it sucks all the enjoyment out of it when the viewer is constantly bludgeoned with condescending lessons about social justice. It feels like an extended lecture from the writers masquerading as a sitcom. The point of inclusivity is to just include people of color and LGBTQ characters in the pretty fashion and relationship foibles that SaTC was always about, not to make it all about their differences and how much they struggle to be included. Just include them and don't self congratulate yourself on including them, writers and producers. What a missed opportunity and wrong response to the criticism of SaTC's lack of inclusivity.

  • @denisefigueroa7761
    @denisefigueroa7761 6 месяцев назад +3

    I can't wait for part 2! =D

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +3

      me neither lmao i was raging on this one alone

  • @timsimms412
    @timsimms412 3 месяца назад +6

    THIS IS THE WORST ... UNWATCHABLE!

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  3 месяца назад +2

      But you still left a comment. Thanks for engagement!!

    • @bringiton5282
      @bringiton5282 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@aspyn.j_ They're talking about the show, not the video

  • @NadiaSeesIt
    @NadiaSeesIt Месяц назад +2

    Great job on this video! Che is prime example of who we all regret dating at some point in our lives

  • @2010msregina
    @2010msregina 25 дней назад +2

    The actor that plays Steve apparently lost his hearing in real life.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Месяц назад +9

    Steve deserved better...

    • @HumppaOrDeath
      @HumppaOrDeath 29 дней назад +4

      I'm sick of everyone praising Steve. He was a manchild who pestered Miranda into being with him, tried to push her to have a child with him when she clearly didn't want one, made her get a dog with him and cheated on her. I have no respect for Steve.

    • @idgaf2386
      @idgaf2386 27 дней назад

      @@HumppaOrDeathwomp womp feminist

    • @HumppaOrDeath
      @HumppaOrDeath 27 дней назад

      @@idgaf2386 hell yeah! And a satanist. Ooooo, scary!

    • @sarahpalmer411
      @sarahpalmer411 23 дня назад

      @@idgaf2386I’m so confused, do you think all the things he did made him a good partner?

  • @jaywest3734
    @jaywest3734 27 дней назад +4

    Che was trying really hard to be a gay man.

  • @sharpaycutie2
    @sharpaycutie2 26 дней назад +2

    They really broke up Steve and Marianda love ….for this?!?
    This show was a HOT HEATED MESS

  • @brih220
    @brih220 18 дней назад +1

    I’m currently rewatching SATC on Netflix, and I will say that Miranda having a midlife crisis with Steve and Brady might have been something believable and honest… if it had been done right. But Miranda Hobbs chasing someone so uncaring towards her and being so desperate to someone mistreating her is NOT Miranda. This doesn’t even feel like the same person!

  • @TheBeanEnthusiast
    @TheBeanEnthusiast 18 дней назад +1

    And Just Like That took all of
    Miranda’s worst qualities and blew them up. Then they added some new previously nonexistent ones.

  • @freddiemeyer4563
    @freddiemeyer4563 29 дней назад +1

    later in the series when they break up carrie and miranda go see ches comedy gig , where che is making jokes and being SO cruel about miranda , she doesnt even apoligise when she realises miranda was in the audiance

  • @angelwingz892
    @angelwingz892 26 дней назад +3

    Why would she dismantle all the good things in her life and take up with an obviously gender male woman? I dont get it? Really. Why would she be desperate for this?

  • @cartersmom0629
    @cartersmom0629 Месяц назад +3

    Its like Miranda turned into Carrie. She was stupid for Che like Carrie use to be for Big.

  • @silvernlavender
    @silvernlavender 20 дней назад +1

    It would have made more sense if Charlotte had ended up bisexual, than Miranda. Miranda had already dated a woman, and it was a hard "no." When Charlotte's boyfriend wanted the threeway, she seemed really in to it. I still laugh how that turned out, though. One of the funniest scenes in the O.G. series was "The Peacock." 😅

  • @sharpaycutie2
    @sharpaycutie2 26 дней назад +1

    They really broke up Steve and Mariana’s….for this.
    This show was a HOT HEATED MESS

  • @rainbow9987
    @rainbow9987 2 месяца назад +3

    You would think people would grow up.

  • @anonanon1344
    @anonanon1344 29 дней назад +1

    Personally I found the background music in this to be too loud. It’s a great video and I enjoyed it but I just think views might improve if the music level was a bit lower as it’s quite distracting.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  29 дней назад

      Read the description, thanks!

  • @katinkaraab1964
    @katinkaraab1964 6 месяцев назад +7

    Honestly I think it could have worked, if che wasn't so unlikeable and Miranda was treated as for what she is. A women in a midlife crises who changed her loving spouse that stuck by her for 20 years for a younger more exciting model. Like imagine a story about a dude who was an absent father, cheating on his loving wife of a similar age for the younger new chick that smoked weed with their son. And besides that If anyone of the originalcast should be fucking chicks, it is Samantha. Besides that if che is non binary it is still a hetero relationship. As a homo you need to fuck your own gender (Not Sex), however Miranda is still identifying as female while Che is not, therefore hetero. And I think this is true for a Lot of plotlines. Why not investigate what it meanseto loose your life Partner and building Up your life again? Like they did with Emily in the Gilmore Girls sequel? Or have Charlotte actually maturing further as her childern mature? Just like she matured, when she understood what beeing married is about, now she learns that actually beeing a parent is putting your kids before you. This could have been so good when they would have actually commited to the idea of them aging and confronting what new challenges come with aging, but they just didn't. That would also have been really progressive as we tend to just not get old women in media.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +1

      100% agree with everything you said. it's not the story itself, it has everything to do with how its being told.

    • @katlouise12
      @katlouise12 Месяц назад

      'If Che is non binary it's a hetero relationship' bro...don't act stupid. Che is female. It's a same SEX relationship.

  • @dramaqueen465
    @dramaqueen465 10 дней назад

    The level of cringe I experienced watching Miranda run after Che. I can’t believe what they’ve done to this character

  • @auntiecreeps1414
    @auntiecreeps1414 29 дней назад +3

    They 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @thewholeNyne
    @thewholeNyne Месяц назад +1

    I cant wait for part 2! Che and their stand up about their relationship with miranda, oof

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  Месяц назад

      thanks! part 2 is coming soon. :)

  • @sooticablue1664
    @sooticablue1664 19 дней назад

    I feel like people don’t understand being an age. And going through menopause. And realising what age you are and realising what that means. As Oscar Wilde says, youth is wasted on the young. Miranda is the most amazingly written character in the show, in my opinion. She is exactly how young Miranda would have turned out.

  • @Carmen_Sandiego7
    @Carmen_Sandiego7 17 дней назад +1

    3:12 not gonna lie…Miranda was looking absolutely stunning in that scene with the frosty hair and the black suit. Too bad I hate her as soon as she opens her mouth.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  15 дней назад

      miranda has so FEW moments where she eats up a look and it makes me angry. she should always be wearing a suit!!!

  • @colefox2882
    @colefox2882 20 дней назад

    Can I PLEASE keep Steve?!? He’s GORGEOUS 💕

  • @ThatJew
    @ThatJew 27 дней назад +1

    Pushing it down people’s throats

  • @Msnfreedom
    @Msnfreedom 17 дней назад +2

    The Che character is annoying, pompous and a hypocrite. Not to mention selfish and arrogant pretentious

  • @Sally-vlado.mitchell
    @Sally-vlado.mitchell 29 дней назад +2

    Miranda and chai was one of the big mistakes they made and believe me there was many number one bringing in too many different characters that nobody's really interested in number two getting rid of big too early number 3 I'm not sure who. Carrie said this to but she said she made a big mistake with big! So she threw him under the bus just to date Aiden again.4 not bringing Samantha back and not telling us why all four of them weren't speaking when their friendship was unbreakable and they said they were so mates forever. 5 Charlotte's daughter Rose. Lillian Rose grew up in a fairy tale land with Charlotte giving them everything feminine and girly but yet this one decides She wants to be a 🧒they're trying to hit every racial Mark they can hit this show has become a mockery. I don't even think I'll be watching the next season. It aggravated me and I don't know why

  • @lesabri
    @lesabri 21 день назад

    Also, I friggin love, Hi, I'm Che Diaz! They totally make Miranda more insane than normal and I'm here for it. It's a crime they got rid of Che, the only interesting character!

  • @chanelleali6119
    @chanelleali6119 2 месяца назад +10

    They ruined SATC by doing this. The whole script the characters it was all awful. All this they them 💩 and making the characters different to what they was. Absolutely terrible. Also losing Samantha it just didn’t work

  • @amalminou1474
    @amalminou1474 27 дней назад +2

    Che is so bad for Miranda

  • @moondoggie517
    @moondoggie517 25 дней назад +1

    Miranda was my favorite character and this just makes me so mad. 😡 💢

  • @arethovisky
    @arethovisky 19 дней назад

    OG Mirando would have never ever moved from her city to follow an affair.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  15 дней назад +1

      mirando hahahaha

  • @aireyb5785
    @aireyb5785 6 месяцев назад +14

    Who else ships her and Prof. Nya? 🤷

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong 6 месяцев назад +16

      I think Nya can do better! 😂

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +12

      Funny thing is - nya was originally SUPPOSED to be Miranda’s love interest. But Cynthia wanted the woman to be masc presenting to mirror her own life. Sucks because they have way more chemistry.

    • @aspyn.j_
      @aspyn.j_  6 месяцев назад +4

      This is also true.

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong 6 месяцев назад +10

      @@aspyn.j_ That would have actually made more sense. Miranda & Nya are intellectually similar, age appropriate, and at similar life crossroads. Che makes zero sense.

    • @Natalie_11188
      @Natalie_11188 4 месяца назад +2

      @@aspyn.j_I always thought Cynthia Nixon has a CRUSH on Sara Ramirez and forced this plot like on us to live out her fantasy.

  • @BigRed1595044
    @BigRed1595044 Месяц назад +5

    I hate Steve with all my heart. Miranda was always the only one who had to adjust and change while steve couldn’t even pack her breakfast knowing how busy she is or picking up any more other slack to balance the difference. He didn’t deserve Miranda then and doesn’t deserve her now either.