Are The QUEERS OK? : "They Called Us Ladies & Kicked Us Out!"
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- LGBT people are NOT the same as queer activists. Bearded women video : • "I'm A Bearded Woman &...
Rumble : rumble.com/v3a...
Join Our "Controversial" Conversations : www.arielle.lo...
OnlyFans :
Instagram : bit.ly/ArielleI...
Twitter : bit.ly/AriTwitter
Facebook : bit.ly/ArielleFB
BUSINESS ONLY : ariellescarcella@gmail.com
As per usual, RUclips took off my monetization for this video. If you can, please support me here : arielle.locals.com/
Now this is ironic.
I hate how weak I am towards tomboys like you 😍
Hot hat. I may switch teams. Not my gender I'm not confused. Please help these confused people of those generation. I can't understand this. I grew up with someone who was born with both. I'm open minded but this is out of control. They should listen to your guest. They are to young to know and aren't even educated
You not gonna make a video crying and begging?
@@kendrakolker2065💯
Question; if she and her partner don't want to be called ladies, then why is she referring to her partner as her wife? 🤦🏼♀️
And why look super femme ffs
One of those "non-binary lesbians". Gotta hold onto two privilege points, why only keep one?
And why is she dressed and made up to the hilt as a woman, looking feminine as all get out.🤦♀️🤦♀️
Exactly, how are you gonna refer to your partner and yourself with feminine terms and have a meltdown when people use feminine words to refer to you???
Because the goal is to control how others speak, not about using accurate or useful language.
She straight up deleted all her RUclips videos. All of it's gone. She went off grid after crying her eyes out and she did the same thing she didn't want to have happen. Kudos to the bar for standing up to the craziness.
That wasn’t CRYING.
She wasn't crying, because her face wasn't wet...she was "identifying" as crying.
I'm hoping for the day that these people identify as "absent".
Of course she did. If you're that sensitive, you can't handle critique at all.
@@The-Finisher so true. Watching such manipulative behavior is bad as nails on a chalkboard. The amount of sociopathic and narcissistic behaviour that is going on in the world is going to get worse before it gets better unfortunately.
Thankfully, more people are starting to see what's going on.
Hopefully, as society shuns the manipulative types for what they are, the temper tantrums don't lead to any dangerous behavior from any self righteous sociopaths.
Not one tear fell from that pronoun broads eyes.
That's so interesting. I'm blind so I wouldn't know this.
Are you assuming this clearly woman, woman is a woman? What gave it away? The crying, the makeup, the outfit? Other people here are right, she's acting like a toddler. Unbelievable how stupid people have become. I like how she misgendered the "guy" in the bar by calling the person him and claiming, of all things, that he was a Straight White Male. Straight? I suppose that could happen in a gay bar, but........
Oh, and her 'wife" looks an awful lot like an asian dude. So she's basically in a straight relationship but that's just not marginalized enough for her. Used to be that when a man and a woman formed a relationship, they were considered straight unless she's a beard or something.
It’s for attention. That’s why she’s on TicTac constantly talking about pronouns. She must have needed to boost her views.
Amber Heard would be proud 😊
No tears on the money beggar in the first video either
Thanks for speaking about this Arielle. My grandmother is a lesbian. Not queer ze/zem or any of the crazy stuff, just a woman who likes other women. She is done with this new wave of nonsense that claims to be "queer" or "LGBTQ+". She lived through Stonewall and AIDS, and is very ashamed of these people causing overall community acceptance to go down the toilet. The pronouns, the very fragile mentality, the name-calling, the "date me or youre a bigot", the transitioning kids - people like her and in her generation are very tired of it and think its out of control. The LGBT community did not fight this hard to be turned into a TikTok trend and have a mockery be made of them.
I'm pretty sure your grandmother is a little Bi.
@@spikefivefivefive No, she isn't. She came out as lesbian after she had my mom and aunt.
@@spikefivefivefive Changes are for her grandmother's generation it was expected that they marry and have kids. Not sure of ages here, so I could be off a generation. Also not the first gay or lesbian to have kids.
@@m_d1905 Yeah - she is a Baby Boomer
Your amazing grandmother ran, so these ridiculous generation can stumble. It's not just shameful, it's disrespectful.
'gay' is a sexual preference.
'queer' is a political position.
True, but may I amend that Gay is Sexual Orientation… the preference is dick. 😑💕
The word queer needs to go back to referring something strange and not a group of people.
@@JustinLaFleur1990 Well that's a queer idea...
gay is not a preference
That's like saying , "i PREFER breathing over suffocating by strangulation..."🤣
I used to be suuuuper Butch. I was called Sir all the time and I NEVER got angry or cried lmao. I laughed it off and was like “GOTCHA! I’m a lesbian”. I wish I knew what bar this was so I could go and tip that bartender $100. We really need to start standing up for our communities and end this madness. This hijacking of our community needs to end. She is embarrassing. I am embarrassed.
It sounds like you're a decent well-adjusted person unlike so many people who identify as "queer".
I'm an atheist but a lot of Americans seem to assume that everyone is at least somewhat Christian (unless it's really obvious they aren't). If I'm talking to someone I don't really know in social situation I just play along if they assume that's my religion. I just don't see the point in "well, actually-ing" people for no discernable reason.
AWESOME comment in EVERY respect, Jessy! Cheers & best wishes from 'Down Under'...Matt.xo
My gay son and I laugh so much , because he has not only been called a woman , with a full ginger beard, but a pregnant woman .
The fake crying is just so painful. Most people just switch off when we see this kind of behaviour. Not engaging with these fools
I agree we need to start getting out there and speaking up. Gay not queer. We need protests. Im in NYC ill participate
I can’t imagine myself: taking my phone, opening the camera app, taking the video, editing the video and the upload the video for people to see me whine about the least important problems in life.
Same here. unimaginable.
Same here. Sometimes I think they MUST be trolling because of the sheer insanity they expose.
But she's been brainwashed into thinking that pronouns are vitally important. She clearly isn't that smart to begin with, and that's what propagandists hope for. A bunch of gullible idiots they can easily convince.
"The forecast said that there'd be snowflakes."(ruclips.net/video/fCMwlorNEZk/видео.html) ❄
@@comet392 🤣🤣
I can’t believe she was assuming the bartender’s gender and sexuality 😠 doesn’t she know that’s literally a h@te crime??
😂
Nice one. 🤣🤣👍👍
Literally
I cannot laugh at this enough
They need attention 24/7.
How are you commenting on a 10 min video when it just got posted ? Do you have the power to watch all of it in 5 secs ?
You misspelled "hospitalization."
They do coz their npd parents didn’t give them attention, sense of validation, ability to care about recognize their own emotions. By bulling one another it’s not gonna resolve anything only grew aggression and misunderstanding.
@@trublgrl na human psych lesson . For you too
@@anassaachboune4889i mean its true tho
I highly doubt she walked in there and replied to being "misgendered" calmly with 'some people don't refer to themselves as ladies but it's okay you didn't know'. I'm a million percent sure she acted like a fing asshole and that's why they kicked her out
"Some people don't refer to themselves as ladies but it's okay you didn't know," is condescending and rude as all hell!
I agree! 1000% sure she reacted completely inappropriately & that's why they were asked to leave. Her story is complete bullshit!!
I'm almost 100% absolutely sure that's what happened also
Well, if it was "ok they didn't know", why didn't she just drop it.
She said "their wife". Wife is still feminine as far as I know.
Wife is feminine. Claiming she's a lesbian while in a relationship with what looks to actually be a guy makes her straight. At least at the moment. Lesbian is also a feminine term. She clearly needs desperately to be paid attention to, so her straight relationship is now between two "women" and she's not actually a woman, and I'm guessing, the giant asian dude is also not a man or woman, because, you know, special and everything.
Right, why not use “my partner.” Clearly confused and then switched between saying he and them in reference to the bartender. How does she know what they identify as, literally doing the same thing.
Wife is to describe a female/feminine spouse. It speaks volumes that she uses female pronouns with her spouse yet expects others to call them both they/them and perceive them as something other than women. She's ridiculous.
Give it a couple days
Crying doesn’t make you weak. Crying about everything does
The way the pronoun lady referred to ‘white gay men’ in an almost derogatory way and that we’re something that needs to be fixed. This is the insidious thing about these woke gender queer activists.
Because CIS white men, gay or straight, are considered privileged and toxic and to blame for all of society's problems.
They do the same to lesbians too. Like you suddenly aren't lesbian because you don't like a dude pretending to be a chicks dick. It's complete insanity now and it's sad af
It's the new marxism wrapped up in racial and sexual language instead of the old class-war bullshit.
It's truly astonishing and scary how much young people's heads have been completely radicalized into the most murderous ideology in the history of mankind.
Make no mistake, these fools would have you in the gulag or worse for "offending" their delicate fe-fees! .
She slipped and said straight white man because gay men have pretty much the same privilege in her mind. They have entire demographics neatly categorized into levels
She needs to fix HER self.
Get Outta Our Flag🏳️🌈
Miss Lesbian Snow White 👎👎
Your demands and focus on negativity speak volumes
That person identifies as a hawk and calls themselves "Horus"? How narcissistic do you have to be to identify as an Ancient Egyptian god?
I can't imagine still trying to defend this community. Every time they invent something new so they can get mad when others guestion it. First it was pansexual instead of bi, non-binary and now we have people losing their minds if you don't call them clownself and let them do absolutely whatever they want. And I really appreciate Arielle and others for showing it's not all of us who are crazy.
RIGHT ON. I am so over these pretend "queers"
I agree-'Love ya Arielle' for showing us what's really out there-Just when you thought it couldn't get worse-it does.
I agree with you. Arielle does a great job with the reaction videos, I am trying to get her good friend Brad to let her handle (most of them) the reaction vids.
I’m a part of this community and holy shit it’s too much, I will not call someone clownself or faeself, all of these “pronouns” are basically just nicknames
It's like enabling a bunch of bullies because they were once bullied themselves. They turned into exactly what they're fighting against and who hurt them in the first place and don't realize it.
👉 As a gay, I just want to blend into society and be normal, not change it.
#AmericaFirst 🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲
Me too!
Any reasonable bartender would refuse service to the person in the orange top. Being all weepy would be taken as “rather too drunk” or some variation of dangerously unstable.
Any reasonable bouncer would show her the sidewalk. Getting hysterical over being called a "lady" would (should) be taken the same way.
You can dislike being called a lady. Taking it too far should be taken the same way.
Dramasexual.
“Not everyone goes by ladies.”
One minute later
“My *wife* and I.”
You cannot make this up, the irony writes itself.
Oh geeze this brings out the "I'll give you a reason to cry" in me.
🤣🤣🤣...me-flashes back to childhood
Good one!! 😆
my girlfriend and I are both lesbians and we have conversations like this all the time. I think a lot of gays and lesbians agree with you but are just too scared to say so.
I'm a straight white man, but I'm a liberal. I'm sympathetic to the LGB and the non-obnoxious Ts but I'm done with the Q. I've noticed more and more straight white liberals getting fed up along with me. There are other people and issues to deal with but the Qs keep drawing attention to themselves. They need to give it a rest for awhile.
The gays and lesbians are responsible for the lgbtquia2spirit atom bomb. So your opinions are the beginning the problem.
@@BiggieTrismegistus As an LGB person, I agree with you. But the Q needs to give it a rest for forever, not just for a while.
I am over the pity crying. So over it. Reminds me of a toddler tantrum, when you can tell they're just going on sheer momentum, and they probably forgot what started it. So you just want to put them in a corner and let them wear themselves out.
You know what's scary? These people can probably vote
Toddlers shouldn’t be put in a corner. Their emotions and brain development are such that they can only feel one emotion at a time, and it hits HARD. They cannot manipulate and don’t have the brain matter to do so until we’ll over the age of 4. They’re unable to understand what is happening, and their emotion is all they feel. ADULTS on the other hand are doing it because of what comes out of it. They’re manipulating. Time to put adults in the corner and cuddle the toddlers. They need help. Not the pathetic adults who don’t want support, just money.
Naw, imagine what these folk are like when they get drunk. That's scary.
@@-MaryPoppins-THIS!!! 100% AGREE
@@gimygaming8655 we’ve terrorized babies ENOUGH. Time to cuddle them, and terrorize the adults that require it. So over all of this.
You mean pity "crying". Not a single tear was during that video. When most people cry they actually, you know, _cry_
As a woman who's had varying lengths of short hair for most of my life, I can't tell you how many times I've been called sir. Who cares? It's funny when you turn around and their faces are like oh crap.
Me too! 😆
I hear that. Its not offensive, its usually an honest mistake and something to laugh about.
Yeah, as I guy with long hair this happens all the time when people approach me from behind. I love the awkward moment when I turn around and they see my "aging metal head" face. I've always assumed it's a compliment regarding my nice bum.
I am a metal-head with long hair and when people see me from the back they often have called me miss or mam etc. I have even been cat called by men many times until I turn my head and they see my long beard and are shocked and very apologetic. I Always think it's just funny. I don't understand why people would get upset by something like that. People need to grow a thicker skin or try and get a more positive outlook on live.
Haha same! \m/
I remember one time I was walking down the street and some guy in a passing car cat called me, but when they went passed and saw me from the front the were like "oh you're a dude, sorry!"
😂
My opinion, it is because they are bullies. Simple as that. Times have changed and so have the techniques of the people who crave to push others around. They need to fill that empty place in their souls.
Today, we call the technique "Cry Bullying".
Lol more dude looks like a lady inspiration. The last time I cried about being misgendered I was 5 and they gave me a hot wheels toy at McDonald’s instead of the Barbie one. These people have the emotional maturity of a 5 year old
Agreed, but you're a metal head. Ya'll a different kind of breed (I'm that in the best way possible!)
Because you are probably not a narcissist
Omfg. I can't with the second one. The woman is wearing weary girly clothes, makeup etc. And is having a meltdown that the waiter was being polite, doing his job and called her a "lady". Ffs. These people try so hard to to make their privileged life feel somehow "oppressed"🙄🤡
It's a power struggle. People who felt "marginalized" like holding the power over others by demanding they respect their pronouns.
They will always be on the margins because they are of the margins.
Everything, for them, is a boogie man, er, boogie them, no, boogie Gay man .
And lesbians, boogie lesbians.
Blaire White put it best when she observed that the reason they care so much about the pronouns is because that's the ONLY part of them that they are attempting to transition.
It's the luciferian MO - "compromise" while in a position of lesser power then be ruthless when you're in power.
It's a lazy-AF-GenZ problem. Zoomers who're coddled and lazy AF, and used to dumping their problems in other people's laps to deal with because they're too fragile to do it themselves. That's LGB people suddenly inherited their problems, even though they have absolutely nothing to do with us. "Here's my problems, here's my agenda, here are my pronouns, can you please fight this cause for me while I do some shopping? Refuse & ur cANc3LL3D bruh! Thaaaaanks!". That's why that gay bartender kicked them the fuck out of his establshment. He was done.
It's called bullying, and I for one refuse to participate. I will call people he or she, as their appearance warrants, whether or not the recipient likes the fact that they are still biologically male or female.
You nailed it, the reason she hates having her gender assumed because she wants to be asked what her pronouns are. Pure narcissism, you have to ask to get the permission to talk to them
Which is bizarre because they're obsessed with _third_ person pronouns. Those pronouns are actually for me and the person to whom I'm speaking, not them.
She has to be a parody account. There is no way she is serious. Who is old enough to go to the bar and acts like that? I’ve only seen this kind of “crybaby” behavior in children under the age of 10.
Her account is literally about neo pronouns, I don't think she's joking
Gen Z has never been told no, they simply cannot handle it. The sense of entitlement and victimhood is astounding. Whats scary is one day these people will be calling the shots.
@@JembBrowmwhat’s her username?
If it's real, she needs help.
I mean if we're going by mental age...
I got out of the ER a few days ago. My friend who works as a translator is in an Iranian prison for talking to the "wrong" journalist, my other friend has cancer - we are not crying on the internet.
Life is sometimes really hard.
I’m sorry you and your friend are going through that. I recently got diagnosed with a stress disorder from my upbringing… I have never met anyone who is genuinely in distress record themselves and edit the footage and post it online for the world to see
@yamisice ABSOLUTELY!!! I am in AA and NA and I am now a social worker. I know a lot about genuine mental health issues and illness.
The people who I know who suffer from these kinds issues, and these are people in my social community, work community and clients - when they have a genuine anxiety attack or bout of depression - isolate - which is not healthy either (but it's realistic) i unfortunately do it myself.
When I have mental health issues, I isolate and feel like I can't connect back with society until I am 'better' I am learning to reach out. But doing it on social media in that context is disingenuous, almost offensive and insulting.
I do connect with people via social media regarding my mental health but they are extremely private support groups and started during the covid lockdown.
You can tell when someone has genuine issues or if they just want attention. ..... I suppose needing attention and validation through this medium is actually due to another kind of psychological illness. But with all this fake, delusional and narcissistic people to sort through - it's hard to find who is real.
I thank you for your comment and I with you strength with your stress disorder.
Personally I found group therapy to be extremely effective and helpful. Peace ✌️
Straight Black man here. Can't we all just get along. I've worked, I work with Gays and Lesbians. Never no problem. I've had gay and lesbian acquaintances from my younger days in New York. I treat everyone the same the best I can, with dignity and respect. Do you Boo, enjoy your life, and everyday your best day!👍👍👍
White gay man here. I agree wholeheartedly. I'm sick of the constant struggles between different groups. At the end of the day, you just want to live your life and live in peace with your family. I wish everybody could live in peace. Take care.
I'm a white gay dude. We need to press back against this narcissistic, toxic ideology as it makes people who aren't deep in it think that we're all crazy. Us actual LGBT people don't have anything to worry about in the modern day for the most part. In my job, i was brought in with a group of 10 temporary employees, most of us were guys. Myself and another guy are gay and 2 others are bisexual. We have faced absolutely no discrimination in our company. In fact, 5 of us were hired into permanent members of staff, both myself and the other gay guy and one of the bi guys. We have what we wanted as a community, we aren't unfairly treated and our success is based on our merits, not our bedrooms. The problem is that these types of people are leeching onto our movement, playing dress up and acting like they're oppressed when everyone can see that they're not and unfortunately to the layman, they just see people from the "LGBT community" bitching about nothing and so we all get lumped in with them
I'm a straight black dude from South Africa 🇿🇦 and I concur with your sentiments brother!💯
It's the "T" not the entire Lbgt community , they constantly looking for attention in any form of way and wanna create chaos that devide people .
trust me its not all of us that are acting like that , we aren't all like that 😒 .
I'm a straight black dude from South Africa 🇿🇦 and I concur with your sentiments brother!💯
Kicked out of a bar - Either it didn't happen, or she was actually venomous and offensive in her confronting the bartender.
Or drunk. Bars are required to stop serving and take drinks away from😊 people who are obviously drunk.
I am a gay and I want to thank you for standing up for us when so many of us are scared to in our lives when we know we will get viciously attacked by these members of "our community". You speak for SO many of us.
You've already fought and won, once! "Don't get afraid, get angry!" Sir Terry Pratchett
I got written up at work for calmly and politely telling the gay dude at work who has a beard and wears lipstick once a week that myself as a fully medically transitioned transsexual and him are not the same. He can just slap on a wig and take it off as he pleases. I worked my ass off to fully pass and we all have to call a male presenting person SHE ??? 🤦🏻♀️
@@tula1433 My work is the same - All selling pride merch and having staff wear them (the business is NOTHING to do with LGBT) and all staff having to wear pronoun pins. It's just ridiculous. It helps no one and just shoves it down straight people's faces who then in turn find us annoying. And then when they get something wrong they get attacked too and hate us even more. Had enough. I am gay - I don't need any special treatment, I can do anything a straight person can and that's empowering. STOP the forced special treatment.
Feels a bit hypocritical for you to react that way, I gotta be honest. They could be in the early stages where they are testing the waters.
I am curious as to how you see the current Trans community? Do you think they are helping or hurting Trans individuals?
@@Zombii_x I know you were responding the person replying to me but I think they are saying - this person doesn’t present as a woman. As they said they have a full beard. It doesn’t matter if this individual is early in THEIR transition- that’s THEIR OWN life. It doesn’t mean anyone else HAS to conform to their own beliefs and how they see themselves. It doesn’t matter how that person feels - it’s about getting in trouble for you not conforming to how they see themselves. I would personally refer to someone who is a male but presents as a woman as she to be kind to them- if someone looked like a male but wore lipstick I wouldn’t refer to them as she. Maybe if they told me they wanted to be called she - I might try to force myself to use that pronoun to be nice but nothing should be forced on anyone. It’s why being LGB is so different - we aren’t forcing anyone to be LGB - we wanted to be allowed to be that TQ+ are forcing people to conform to their ideology.
Edit - I’m not saying here that TQ+ are forcing people to be trans (that’s a separate argument) but I mean that LGB are not saying you HAVE to accept me. It’s just saying you know we are here and we have rights to live our lives. I believe trans people should be able to live their lives completely equally but that doesn’t mean forcing other people to change what they say or how they feel. Idc if people are homophobic- just don’t let your beliefs affect how I live my life.
Even as a teenager girl, in girly clothing, long hair, make up, 32I boobs I was accidentally called 'he' a few times by overly stressed and exhausted teachers.
Kids laugh about it, and it's uncomfortable, but it isn't some serious hate crime, persecution, traumatic event.
As a disabled person I frequently get told that I should have had to die rather than getting disability and medical care, including 12+ years of prescription fentanyl. That is hate and discrimination and I still would have never gotten away with acting anything like these insane people, even with people saying that I should be killed rather than disabled with medical care including pain management.
These people only care if a trans person in correctly identified by their actual sex, and not the sex/gender that they want to be, even if it isn't reality and is offensive to actual women.
its normal to be misgendered, especially if the other person is foreign. Do pronoun nazis wanna imprison people just because they suck at english?
btw, which country are you from? Right now, the country being meme'd that disabled and elderly are getting asked to die is canada... It's discrimination indeed.
@jade5202 What is happening to Canada? It used to be just a big country with trees and mountains, with bears and mounties roaming around them.
Now it seems to be a loony fruitcake theme park
What the heck people told you that you should be killed? Thats messee up ... yeah, are you in Canada?
32I?!? What do you use for a bra, a construction crane?!
Here, this is for your poor poor back holding up your chesticles 🏗️
"Queer" is just a polite way of saying you're a narcissist.
No queer is code for socialist/marxists they literally want to destroy everything we love
I keep saying it's the latest progressive shibboleth. In the 2010s it was having a Black friend. Today it's having a Trans kid. This is the secret handshake that's required.
And a sign for the rest of us to steer clear.
There is more to this story. People don't have their drinks taken away and are kicked out of bars for simply expressing an opinion. Without doubt her behaviour was far more confrontational than she claims or she was excessively drunk.
My mother was a bartender at several veterans clubs. She used to tell me about the rules and laws that bars and places that serve alcohol MUST legally follow and bartenders are legally required to take the drinks away from people who are drunk and/or violent.
😂😂 GEN-Z is bored. they grew up in the safest most socially equal time in the western Society.
Seriously. People inventing problems for themselves. Amazin'.
And rather than relish it they create pity party content for attention because rainbow colored hair, tattoos, unfortunate body piercings are widely accepted socially.
Rebellion via Mental Disorders and Victim Olympics is all these mental midgets can come up with. Boo F’n Hoo. Crocodile Tears!
They aren’t bored they are indoctrinated into socialism it’s the same exact playbook from Germany
@@gigabrother458 ^^^ This. Also, they want everyone except themselves to take accountability and pay their way in the world.
I'm a geriatic Gen-Z. I'm so disappointed in the way people in my generation are acting about this; it feels like a lot of these people have been far-removed from actual oppression, so they take minor inconveniences and turn it into opportunities to claim oppression. It just speaks to their privilege and lack of real struggle. Older Gen-Zers lived through the Puirty Culture movement; for those of us who were LGBT, we may have been harassed, shamed, or abused for our feelings. That was actual oppression. I didn't realize I was bisexual until my 20s because I grew up being taught that gayness is evil. We do not need to make something as silly and stupid as misgendering into a soap box to claim oppression. This chick is pathetic, self-centered, and looking for any excuse to claim she's a victim. It spits in the face of actual LGBT people who have struggled and fought for all of us to have rights.
So i'm a lesbian with short curly hair. Which actually has nothing to do with the fact that i'm gay I just lost my hair when i went through chemotherapy and now it's just short and very curly. That combined with my tomboy look makes me look kinda guy-ish I guess. The other day there were some little kids playing in the streets and they needed help getting their ball back so i helped them and they said thanks sir so i said no problem. when they heard my voice they got kinda nervous and they were like i thought you were a guy. So i said it happens and it's all good and went on with my day. You don't have to make life so difficult for yourself. Just try to see that people (especially kids) don't always have bad intentions and that sometimes things aren't a big deal lol.
Can’t you just feel the anger and hostility beneath her tears?
The.....person in the second video had no tears that I could see.
@@joshcagle2395speaking specifically about the woman upset about being referred to as a lady in a gay bar…she’s “crying” but she’s also “seething.” It’s so performative.
Yes, many *_women_* mask their anger with tears, it's kind of an acceptable behavioral trope *_for women._*
The Bigoted Left!
When she referred to the guy first as a "straight white man" then corrected herself to say "gay white man", I knew she was just tripping on intersectionality drugs. She is totally programmed to demean people that don't appeal to her cultish ideology and then play the victim if she gets any pushback for it. I have yet to see a single other person cry over having an alcoholic beverage taken from them the way a child cries over having candy taken from them, she is totally a woman-child.
I love it when they confront the cold, hard reality the rest of us live in. It always either enrages them or it does this to them. Make them want to sit in their cars filming themselves crying on Tiktok about how hard their life is and how nobody cares or understands. Ya got that one right there young lady--
My gay best friend had his head slammed into a car hood by a random person when he was walking home from work just because he is gay and these twerps have the audacity… because someone called you a lady… that gay man behind the bar has probably gone through similar situations to my friend and was over this whiny child’s bullshit
I wish Arielle would put it this way instead of being like “gotcha, maybe the world isn’t as homophobic as you think it is!” as she did in this video, because a lot of people go through this kind of discrimination and abuse that your friend did. I think it would be more effective if she would put more emphasis on differentiating between real LGBT phobia and the kind of queer nonsense in those tiktoks
Well said, Kris/lynn(?)...although I'm a straight white male, probably primarily due to my lifelong shared loves of fashion & electronic music that introduced me to it, I've been a massive supporter of the LGB scene down here in Melbourne since the '90s & I even introduced my best (supposedly straight when we first became friends) mate to both the 'gay scene' (once he had 'come out') & his first boyfriend, who was also a friend of mine...but this new 'TikTok trend' that is nothing more than the 'new emo' (although FAR more powerful, insidious & life-altering, for obvious reasons) does my freaking head in...but re: your comment above, without claiming to be a wannabe superhero, as I boxed for years, I'm able to defend myself & thus I've had to physically defend numerous gay victims of homophobia in the past, the majority of whom I didn't even know prior to their being attacked...but now these TikTok dorks, with their tackily coloured hair, septum piercings, neck tattoos, etc are the freaking aggressors & troublemakers, & it's totally NUTS!!
Cheers & best wishes from 'Down Under', bella...mjf.xo
Back in the 90's I had a gay friend beaten so badly I didn't even recognize him. Turns out, gay people were getting attacked and robbed almost every night here in downtown Austin. I and my friends organized police to stand guard on the roofs over-looking the gay bar district, and after a few arrests, the robberies/beatings stopped. The police knew these attacks were routinely happening downtown, but expressed exasperation that gay men either wouldn't report it for fear of being outed, or they'd report it and refuse to press charges for the same reason. So gay guys would rather take a beat down rather than risk letting the world know they were gay. It is not that way anymore--in fact, being gay is almost a plus. These mentally fragile "queers" have no idea how bad things used to be. To think we had the luxury of sobbing uncontrollably over a stupid word or pro-noun is just shocking for those of us who experience rampant discrimination and violence when there really was a problem. Spare me.
Whenever I feel ashamed for being gay (after being out for 45+ years) I watch one of your videos and remember I'm not alone.
I really do not understand what she is upset about. She clearly presents as a woman. I don’t know what her wife looks like, but SHE is calling her WIFE! If they are both presenting as female, what is wrong with ladies?
Apparently non-binary people "don't owe us androgyny". If that's the case I'm wondering why "non-binary" is such an important part of their identity. I'll treat a non-binary person who is indistinguishable from a woman as a woman which seems like it defeats the purpose.
I've seen this in younger cis women. They don't want to be called women, so they'll call themselves nonbinary and use they/them or they/she pronouns. At the same time, they do absolutely nothing to their appearances to make themselves look more androgynous or masculine. They look like normal, run-of-the-mill cis women. It's not that they actually don't want to be a woman. If that were the case, they would alter their appearances so they didn't look like cis women. But they don't because they don't actually want to be something other than a woman. They want to be trendy and perceived as cool or different. I also think some of these women have internalized misogyny and think that being seen as a cis woman is a shameful thing. The chick in the video is just like those supposedly nonbinary girls. She presents super fem, calls her wife her wife, and gives no indication visually that she is anything but a cis lesbian. She cannot get mad at people for assuming she's cis when she puts in no effort to signal that she's not.
Perhaps the Asian dude, who is occasionally standing behind her & pacifying/indulging her while she behaves like a spoiled toddler about a complete non-event that supposedly occurred earlier that night, is her "wife"? Who the Hell knows with these utter nutters & their ridiculous, never-ending terminologies & theories...?!
Bruh, I remember when I was 21 and held my girlfriend's hand after leaving a gay club and someone nearby told us we were disgusting and threw a beer bottle at me along with a few slurs.
But go off not-lady for the words you endured!
Words are worse violence than physical violence didn’t ya know 😂
I despair for the future, seeing these (technical) adults performing crying monologues for the benefit of strangers on TikTok. If you have so little self-awareness, and are so emotionally-immature, then maybe you shouldn't be allowed to drink or vote.
It such a strange trend, especially women who cry about not being able to find a boyfriend/husband. You know what most men don't want to put up with? Someone who posts videos of themselves crying on the internet to strangers.
These people are unbearable.
Yup 🙄🙄🙄
Most kids who grew up with participation trophies knew just how little they meant. There’s way more wrong with that woman than participation trophies.
They were just starting to do that when I was kid. First place was a blue ribbon, second was red, 3rd was white, and everyone else got a green ribbon. At the end of the track and field day the garbage cans were full of green ribbons.
Participation trophies was a socialist concept they made it a thing to attack capitalism and curate destabilization
@@Aireck174 @lone_wolf106 At my school we had first (blue) seccond (red) third (green) and fourth (yellow) no one beyond those got coloured ribbons. But that said, we did get "participation" certificates, which were handed out (rather unceriomonally I might add) in class printed on different coloured "fancy" paper with our names handwritten on them by our teacher. I kept a handful of mine just for sentimental reasons (like if they were from a favourite teacher or a subject I enjoyed) but I often just threw the rest of them out because of how "hollow" they all were "congrats you tried, here's a low effort token of acknowledgement."
@@BrightWulphI'm okay with this. Participation is fine, but excellence gets awarded and recognized. Part of the team, but there has to be an MVP.
I destroyed mine as a child because they made me feel gross because our team always sucked and lost every game. My mom thought it was strange back then. She brags about it now lol
By next June i may be pissed off enough to actually hold up this sign at Pride:
PROTECT GNC LGB KIDS
I'll be accepting dares until then, help a Sister out.
I warned people back in like 2012 that otherkin was going to become mainstream. Everyone thought I was crazy. Now everyone either realizes I was right, or is an otherkin/queer.
Same. I tried to explain to a girlfriend that this is a dangerous trend of legitimizing mental illness, and it blew up into a huge argument. Then this crap exploded in what, 2016-17? Everyone is a kitchen-sink-kin and has five pronouns. Please, please stop this lunacy.
No joke, the other day I was thinking of Balooneys from the early 2000's, and how chill they all turned out to be, living their lives, popping each others' inflated bodies, just having fun. Who would have thought that both them and Juggalos would be the wise ones.
As a father of a lesbian daughter, I love her and her wife with all my heart. That's coming from someone who is in the conservative libertarian spectrum. I know that may anger some people, but I'm a good person. My daughter and I are on the opposite end of the political aisle, but she doesn't throw any queer or pronoun craziness at my wife or me because she is very respectful. I've asked her to please not get involved in the radical LGBT lobby because I want her to live her best life. Arielle, I enjoy your videos and value the way you help to explain this madness with clarity. We don't have to agree on everything, but I sure respect you so much. As a father of a very bright lesbian daughter and extremely productive member of society, I want to do eveything to help her live her best life. Arielle, I wish the same for you!
In the movie "American History X" the Ed Norton character was asked if anything hes done has made his life better. These people need to ask themselves the same question. The deeper they go into this extremism the more miserable they become.
I have never known a single person who called themselves "queer" in this modern era (over the last 8 years or so) that wasn't doing it to feel a part of something and to fit in. Not actually gay in anyway and claim "non binary" because they like to wear dresses some days, fix cars, or feel more masculine or feminine occasionally.🙄 They need therapy and shadow work. They need real hobbies. They need to get off their damn phone and computers. It's encouraging the seeking of validation.
Yeah, they need shadow work for sure. These folks call themselves "critical" but majorly lack self-awareness and introspective skills. They could put their energy and time into much better, more edifying activities than obsessing over themselves and how the world perceives them.
The “person” lol who got referred to as a lady has been stitched 1000 times.. there is no way she didn’t watched this and regret every second.. and we all know she did just walk up to him and try to educate him.. u know if she broke down like this after the situation… u know she was yelling and in his face calling ppl in a gay bar homophobic smh! Brave enough kiss my ass! She went full Karen or ken I’m still not sure what this person wants to be
Karen or Ken 😂😂
Exactly! Talking about a safe space and all that and yet she induces the judgement of potentially thousands of eyes on her foolishness. I wonder how safe she feels now.
@@gimygaming8655cretin?
She definitely got kicked out over throwing a public tantrum. She was acting as though they got mad over nothing lol. She was probably belligerent
Good on bartender for taking their drinks. How this chick is acting, they are not of legal age to drink.
Oh my god, her being upset at being called "ladies", yet doing that clown makeup where you put lipstick OUTSIDE of your lips to have more feminine heart-shaped looks (which looks fine on camera & social media, but looks like CLOWN makeup irl). These people need to know that you have TWO identities, your personal identity, your autonym, and the identity that society, others around you, and outside groups give you, your exonym. You can't control your exonym, and if it isn't overtly bigoted in some way, not just in your imagination, I'm sorry, it is just the English language. You can't be so self-important and narcissistic that you expect people to change the English language just based on your whims. People will not put up with it for long.
Exactly! The world is going to see you how it wants to see you; there's not a whole lot you can do about that. But in the case of the girl crying about being called a lady, she literally does NOTHING to try to indicate to others that she is something other than a woman. She is extremely feminine-looking, wears feminine clothing and makeup, and speaks in a dainty voice. Literally anyone would assume she's a woman because she looks, acts, and sounds like one. If she was so concerned with being nonbinary, she would present in more androgynous or masculine ways. It is unreasonable to expect people to see you a certain way when you do absolutely nothing to visually indicate to them that you are different than what they would assume. She is unhinged and childish.
Did anyone have "queer fragility" on their bingo card this year?!
😂😂😂 i did actually 🤣🤣🤣
That's basically the Free space at this point, isn't it?
I love the way that these Narcissists "CRY" on camera with "NO TEARS". It doesn't matter what we do - it will NEVER be enough for these idiots.
they're so insufferable
I am quite masculine, and I often get called a boy (i'm 5'2 22 yro woman) I once was going with my sister to her house and this old lady her neighbour asked my sister "oh is that your little brother?" Me, my sister and my BIL just laughed. There is no harm in old lady calling me a boy. its a silly little mistake. I was called a boy only by old people, children and people who didnt take a good look at me. Not even once I got offended by that
I wanted to give the non lady something to cry about!!! I could here my southern mama in my head saying “ shut that crying up before I give you something to cry about “!!! SIT DOWN AND SHUT ALL THE WAY UP!!!!!😡
Absolutely spot on 😊
I never get tired of seeing these people miserable over their own self sabotage. This gives me life.
We cried in the 80s, but we dried our tears, got up, and started fighting again.
I agree with you 100%. This is all a result of horrible parenting.
I am a bit taken aback by someone not only blubbering over innocuous things, but then thinking it would be a good idea to record and post that anthropoinvertibrate content.
I will never understand how people who live on social media do such a thing. I am a very private person, only my friends and family get to see all my ranges of emotion. Now these individuals are going viral for rubbish they post and induce the judgement of millions of eyes on them. For what?
I am an 80 year old straight white second wave leftist feminist and I AM DONE with catering to the bs. Keep up the good work.
Spot on, this is getting out of control!
The most horrifying thing about this is how they are almost proud of the narcissism and shamelessness.No wonder these people hate history.
How was this a traumatic experience that she was sharing from the heart, why were the subtitles done so well and why are there jumpcuts?
Never been more glad to be on the tail end of life. Enjoy dealing with the world, young people, you made it this way.
I just wanna say I appreciate good lgbt people like you and others in the comment section. 😊 It feels nice knowing we're not alone.
It’s about time the gays stand up!! I’ve been waiting for this moment. Straight people can’t fight this alone.
Love the HAT Lady! Thanks 🙏🏻sharing and caring!
I gotta stop exposing myself to this crap. Like I literally lost my home and all inside it including my homeowned business: my GoFundMe is going no where and I was left disabled and listening to people with non problems just triggers me so badly. Like I swear I hope none of these people end up getting dealt a card like I did cause they will crumble under the pressure
wow, these kids these days are just searching for 100% attention and they don't care how they get it.. the crazier I am the more I get....Those parents of those kids need to have their parent card taken away..... Thanks as always, love what you got going w this channel...
I wish the bartender had a video out with his version of this story 😂
As a straight, white ,middle aged female,
I wish I could buy you a Drink!🥂❤
Keep up the Great Content!!
Love your stuff. I have been so sick of this crap all over the place. My company recently came up with new email signature guidelines that as they put it do not add "any personal beliefs, statements or quotes", but yet pronouns are optional and allowed. So on it's face a pronoun is not a personal belief, but adding them is a personal belief. I wonder if they'd complain if I wrote "your royal highness" as my pronoun.
i love the crocodile tears in that first video, if you're gonna beg for money at least have some tears
Modern life is just too easy. People look for things to be upset about.
And the whole "it's okay that you don't know" is super condescending... That's not a good way to start a conversation. It's a good way to shut one down because it implies the YOU know better and the other is ignorant.
And when someone tries to hit me with the "you hate me because I exist" I tell them "it's not because you exist, it's because you're an asshole."
"I don't wish you ill. I just wish you elsewhere."
That reminds me of the time I went to a gay bar, my friend who is gay asked me if I could accompany him to one of these bars, normally I would have refused but I didn't have much to do and he used to accompany us wherever we went when we were out partying, so I accepted just to return the favor. As you can imagine...I felt like a fish out of water, out of my natural environment, most of the time I was drinking and trying to go unnoticed, and I had to endure the occasional compliment or insinuation in a polite manner. I felt offended but no one present there was to blame for that, it was all my fault for going in there knowing what kind of place it was in the first place, so I was there for about 3 hours and then I left without making a sound or bumping into anyone. This Girl should have done the same, mind her business and not disrespect anyone.
I'm straight but used to go a gay club with some friends of mine. I always had a great time.
Fun fact: In the state of Oregon, the application for purchasing a firearm allows one to identify as male, female, or nonbinary. Seriously. Anyway, I"m glad you have the stomach for taking on the lunacy of Queer Theory, Arielle.
Hopefully it's so they can instantly decline non binaries
@@SkaterBladesThat sentence includes a double negative. I’m confused now.✌️
@@Tread1775 no it doesn't
That’s wild. Sometimes I wonder if a significant number of people in the government actually just want to destroy society. Saying you had no gender or more than one gender used to be enough to disqualify your for military service, now we are giving them guns?
As a native Portlander this does not surprise me smh its gotten ridiculous here
Gay really has nothing to do with this queer movement. They brought the community back decades
You are 100% right on this.
Keep doing what you are doing, Arielle. The bs has to stop, we all have to play our part in that but no one puts it better than you and Marcus.
Ooh, that hat is so cute on you! ❤
I would beg to say this is also probably a result from the parents that let their children play with their tablets at dinner, just to get through it to make the children happy as opposed to giving the children discipline.
Your videos are one of the highlights of my weekend, keep fighting the good fight!!
I don’t have any idea how many times I have been called sir (masc lesbian) in my life but all I do is smile and let it go and if someone realizes they have misgendered me and apologizes…I accept their apology , smile and move on and forgot about it. Who has so much time to spend on this? Customer service people are on autopilot and very rarely care about anything other than finishing their shift and going home. They aren’t out here trying to make political waves.
I've said it before and I will say it again: dykes and heterosexual guys need a platonic alliance. Unlike the "accept my feminine penis" ruse that is attempted by these weirdos.
When my kids threw temper tantrums they were punished. So now as grown adults they act like grown adults! Lmao, what a concept!
"The Gays" have been cultural warriors for a long time. Het men and women owe a debt of gratitude to the the GAY community. Thank you Arielle!
My poor sister literally didn’t feel welcome at her school’s GSA. She’s a lesbian and just realized they only talked about the Q+ stuff there.
They have taken the word insane and changed it with QUEER.
Old lesbian here. I’m totally over it. Whiners never win. Thanks for another great video.
We're Gay not Queer!
You hit the nail on the head..these people were raised wrapped in cotton wool. They were told over and over how special they were then had to step out into society and wondered why no-one was praising them. Stop doing this to children, they need to be ready for life. As for women's safe spaces and sports for women..if you have 3 legs then stay out of our sports and our bathroom/change rooms!.
You know there will be other fools that donate to this TikTok fool.
I wish people just ignored these scammers.
And the pronoun person.....she needs a better acting coach.
So glad that you tell it like it is and continue calling out this ridiculousness!
Crocdile tears from a terrible actress. She should go on Maury TV show😮😢
I'm glad LGBT people are pushing back against this nonsensical BS and I hope to see much more of it.