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How to deal with the house yakuza drug her with sleeping pills, put on her a Chasity belt so she can’t cheat while you are at work. You know the kids will be yours. And I thank you for this I won’t marry a Japanese man that and I’m not a raving bender either. 😂
My mom is a feminist; she has always been very vocal with her opinions when things felt wrong for her, and she told people off when they treated her as less than a man. She couldn't care less about the new wave "feminism" that seeks to view men as lesser than women. For her feminism is about equality, not "the woman's turn to be an asshole."
Ignore hate comments from feminazzis or other groups. You even gave a warning at the start and they still watched. You are very funny 😁. I hope to see you live standup one day.
@@Meshida Hey meshida, please go get married so you can make video on wife evolution, level of walking wallet and segglesness etc based on your own experience 😁😁
Meshida San, thank you for taking the time to educate us on the History, Biology and Psychology of the Japanese husband. You Sir, are a national treasure🙏
I have two beautiful daughters with my Japanese wife of 30 years and several times over the years, I have said to my wife "Wouldn't it be great if our girls married a Japanese man". To my surprise, my wife said " イヤです。” (hell no!) and gave me a whole list of reasons why including the problem of "マザコン" ( Wanting one's wife to be like your Mother, eww!) and most of the problems you also mentioned MeshidaSan (except the banana problem). However, I feel a little sad about her objections as I think a Japanese husband would be great, so long as he is not 亭主関白。 I did go on to ask my wife about a Chinese or Korean husband then? And my wife gave me a look that said I am going to be sleeping on the sofa tonight if I don't shut up. So I shut up.
Lol my father is exactly that type and he's not even Japanese, AND he doesn't work or provide. He only cares about his own pleasure and is a lazy bum at home doing nothing waiting for death to catch up at 65. The whole family resents him. Real story no joke.
Very funny intro, Meshida-san. I have always helped my ex girlfriend with the housework despite coming back from work. As an Italian man I like to take care of my own home and my other half. I see in Japanese dramas women are somewhat still seen as traditional homemakers which is what western women were used to be back in the 50'. If my partner wanted to have a career I would take the responsibility to look after the house as long as she doesn't bring animals at home which would make my chores harder to deal with. It's not easy for anyone to have a job and do daily chores and have to look after animals as well. That would be too much for me. I would look after my babies though, just no pets at all. I am a trained chef as well, I don't think I would have any issues finding love again, I have been told by several women I am good marriage material and I think that's the sweetest thing I have ever heard from them :D
really starting to warm up to the analogy of a "real" family xD it's honestly kind of deep and shines a light on how different dysfunctionality affects different types of marriages. I've always been a good fit in a traditional relationship where I work and my woman takes care of the home. so it was easy to assume it's a superior marriage structure but now that you mention it I guess any kind of marriage can have problems if your not taking care of it! great video man
Well, Marriage is like the tomb of love imho, however I agree on something, and it is that men should always support their women not only economically, but even with housework whatever it costs. No matter the struggle, no matter the fatigue, no matter the job responsibilities, we cannot yield. Housework is an amount of sharing life together, as only in death does duty end! If you truly love someone, it is a pleasure not a punishment doing it after all.
High earning husband + He do housework as well ( 12 hour work +12 hour housework ( or 6 ) so when the guy gonna sleep ??? & If he doing both than what is the woman doing in meantime ????
@@silverwings8486 12 hours of housework or 6!? What in the world, is that sci-fi? You only need either 1 or 2h, 3h if the size of it is bigger, to clean up an actual house and then you are as free as a dove to spend the rest of your time at your leisure. Come on now, wrist and discipline. To earn more it should not be a derray to avoid an actual life responsibility... P.S. do you just realize yourself that, with two people on the same task, the time get reduced to half...?
@@SamuraiKensei276 Lol 🤣 let me ask so what your role IMAO if husband is prime earner than what are you a slack off it,s even funny since you yourself said 1-2 hour & 3 hour if bigger. Do you understand these can be considered a form of slavery as well. Either you play that role or this. This is dynamic of husband & wife relationship. If he was meant to do it all let's say housewife as well why bother to even take a 3 party in his life ?? I don,t think you can respect a husband who didn't earn enough to take care of his family & husband can,t respect wife who can,t take care of his home. That,s kind of symbiotic relationship it is ☕ So fundamentally what you trying to imply is pretty dumb if it,s about spend time in form of housework than it,s better that you better ask him out & hire maid occassionally. Otherwise what you trying to imply do my job & your job & than i love you. You know that the kind of people who did that are *pushover*. Respect is earned & it,s through your action. & While i am aware that now a days trend is double earner don,t forget. Depending on his job or time. There is room or energy in it,s truest ☕ Well have fun & don,t bother me 👍
I'm glad you explained you are a misanthropist. Reading Taro Aso's complete "Hurry up and die" speech was really satisfying. 7:37 They must be really excited when otaku can say their favorite lines from their favorite videogames.
You're brilliant! Please produce more videos like this. In fact I'm not from Japan but I like the way you present the Japanese marriage and other things so much that I'll probably learn some Japanese and, perhaps, will even visit Japan at some point 😁
Hahaha meshida-san this was another funny video from you! 😂 A big cultural change needs to happen in Japan to encourage both husbands and wives with the old traditional view of their partners to leave that behind and focus on what a real loving marriage is with their husbands/wives. I've been living in various parts of Japan for over 24 years now and i've met couples from both of the extreme ends of the spectrums. Contrary to popular belief, a lot of normal japanese husbands are pretty much like western husbands strictly in the sense that they see their partner as an actual partner instead of a housemaid and they frequently have sex and nothing more, but this was what I usually saw from smaller cities or less big prefectures of Japan. They tend to be a bit more relaxed from work and focuses a lot of time on their family and social life. Tokyo is probably the only place where I saw a staggering significant amount of sexless marriages and husbands who could care less about their wives. But that doesn't mean that's true for every japanese husband in Tokyo, as much as I saw those type of men, I also met committed and affectionate japanese husbands in that same city itself. I've come under the conclusion that a lot of modern problems regarding japan are more often than not, i'd like to call, Tokyo exclusive, what I mean by that is those problems are just more rampant in Tokyo itself and less prevalent and less applicable in other parts of Japan. That's why I dislike Tokyo compared to my hometown here in Sendai, Miyagi because my neighbors and friends are more socially available and not a slave to their careers. As far as I know sexlessness here in Miyagi isn't really a thing 😂 I just hope one day japan finally cuts down labor hours and eliminates the toxic work culture of mandatory overtime so decent japanese husbands can come home and make love to their wives not being completely drained! 😂
I love your perfect stereotypes of Japan. I’m a Japanese guy married with a foreigner. I just do most of housework but can’t complain to her because she is breadwinner in our family.
They say behind every good lie there is a little truth, but it's moreso with comedy. People get uncomfortable or defensive really fast when you call out their behavior, and in comedy that's usually when you know it Worked. Everyone thinks they are the Main Character but really we are all just walking jokes.
You do good a job here and in most of the other entries I've seen you do. As an older American man who married a Japanese woman, I must say your woman's ''wifely'' traits are pretty much on the mark. My mother, when I was in my early school years through my 20s taught my brother and I to "Bring home the bacon" and she taught my sister to keep house and kids clean and eat, cook meals, etc. Being loving to the hubby was supposed to be a natural past-time., (and vise-versa). I thank you for the culture education. Wish I had been listening to you much earlier....:>)
Every time I watch your videos, my stress disappears and I laugh so much🤣...everything you say makes sense even though it's funny😅...I learned a lot from all your videos❤️...so I hope you make more videos everyone can learn a lot🙏...thank you 😊
not only in japan, but most asian men rarely do housework. i think it's in the culture that women are expected to do most of housework even if they have work as well...sometimes it's tiring to be asian women that's why some asian women wanted a single life. it's should be change...now women are working and helping their husband with financial needs of the family...women are just human...they need rest and own personal time too...i hope in the future they will embrace that houseworks are not only for women. simple houseworks are appreciated like throwing the trash, looking after children or washing the dishes will be of great help.
I think you have to start at home and teach the children to do equal amounts of housework whether they are boys or girls. My mother (we only had one parent) taught both myself and my brother to cook, wash dishes, do laundry, clean etc., and we had to share the chores equally. So of course my brother continued doing those things automatically when he grew up and got a family. Then his children also had to share equally in the household chores. This means they have basic life skills and can take good care of themselves, and don't need to get married in order to survive! Mothers who do everything for their sons and never allow them to take part in the housework are not actually being kind, they are depriving them of basic skills. I'm from Sweden, by the way ;)
And did girls learn how to fix a car or saw wood or put shelves on the wall? You’re typical in that you list only « traditionally female » tasks and ignore everything else
@@sebastienh1100 How is fixing a car or sawing wood "basic life skills"? Do you need those to survive day-to-day life on your own? Unless you live out in the woods and have to build your own house and need a car to get anywhere at all, and there are no car mechanics nearby, but then I assume you would learn them. We lived in a flat and did not have a car, but my mother used power tools, wrangled big dogs, wallpapered our entire flat on her own (with excellent results) and also taught both of us things like how to fix our own bicycles and how to wield a variety of carpentry tools, which has been very useful for me, but I definitely don't see them as basic day-to-day life skills, any more than knowing how to sew my own clothes or knit my own socks are.
@@aprillen « we lived in a flat and didn’t have a car »… OK, agreed, your comments make sense then. And I also agree it’d be good for boys to learn cleaning and cooking etc. That’s the « equal share » that sounded dangerously based on ideology, to which I was reacting
I’m a feminist and I find your Japanese wife video funny. I’m sorry you were barraged by DM’s 🙄 I love your channel! Hope I can see you do a live set someday 😊
Let's see if i got it right: Japanese married man: child that need to be take care of and can't take care of the house or manage money. Japanese married woman: House boss that will control everything in the household and take all the money to manage. Sounds like the perfect match for me!
I really think that are many diferences between Japan and the rest of world, also may change with the time or couples, very informative the video, thanks Meshida!
and now it's not serious.Judging by the number of snack bars and the bento shops offered, the housework of Japanese wives, as in the old Soviet joke, "The husband came home from work, and the wife is crying.He fussed all over until he could calm her down and get an explanation of what happened. - I baked you meat pies, but the cat ate them ---- Oh!Yes, you shouldn't cry like that:If he dies, I'll buy you a new one!"
I lived just like Japanese men and had a demanding job and almost payed of house mortgage. My ex left me for a football player and I lost all my money. Iv never been happier. She now works crazy hours and lives like a Japanese man. Side note: regrets football player relationship ended with a guy with erectile dysfunction and smokes $200 of cigarettes a week
You definitely have a great way of making me feel bad for not doing more housework around my house. I think I better do something special for my wife :)
Ah the perfect Japanese marriage. Husbando works long hours for the company and bangs prostitutes on his way home and has nothing left in the tank for his devoted waifu who looks after the home and maybe kids too. Waifu gets approached by a charming stranger who manages to seduce her and scratch the itch that husbando either can’t or won’t.
I'm torn on this because I've seen EXACTLY what you're talking about, but I also know couples where this isn't the case. My wife's dad does all the chores and always has for example while also holding down a full time job. Still, some old friends wound up turning into this precise type of guy so I can't really say it's wrong
After watching both videos, the parodies make Japan seem normal compared to the US and most of Europe. Most notable difference is that Japan gives the impression that double income families are a more recent social development, whereas traditional household roles in places like the US have collapsed due to the inability to afford homes, or earn enough money for a husband to support an entire family. Scandinavian countries are the exception where the government encourages equal and shared responsibilities in a family household.
Yes, and they are right about that. You can have a semi-working system in Skandinavia because that region is rich, and neither of the parents has to work too much to the point they do not even see their children. Even though like it or not, most women prefer to be a housewife, over the full-time retail worker, and men prefer to be strong enough to support the whole household. You can make artificial social constructions, but cannot make biology, and thousands of years of evolution...
Love that you give your misogyny and misanthropy equal time! Your insight into Japanese culture is appreciated; it agrees with what two of my friends observed when they taught English in Japan many years ago.
I married an English man 33 years ago and he never lifted a finger in the home, never changed a nappy and, since he is a RN officer, was often away often on varous warships. Despite the long separation, it was difficult for him, when returning home, to abandon his Commander habits and becoming a gentle husband. Normally it took about two weeks at home before he stopped shouting orders and go out drinking with his fellow officers. Howeve It was my choce to marry him and my duty to endure his behavior. As far as "girlfriends" I kept silence and never asked a question....it is not worth it.
I am surprised at the fact that many people called me a misogynist when I am actually a misanthropist... totally relatable 🤣😂🤣. I guess some people just do not have sense of humour, and they think comedians have it automatically 🤡🧨
After watching this video, all i can think is " this video just described my japanese father" 😂😱...a very funny but sad truth 😂😬 Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷 ✌️
Keep up the good work Meshida-san. Japanese husbands sound a lot like the dads in prime time animated sitcoms. Dads like Homer Simpson, peter Griffin and Stan smith and even Cleveland Brown. They all bring home the bacon, do very little around the house because the wives are basically home makers who keep the house tidy and raise the kids, doing all the so called women’s work. Freeing the husbands to get drunk at the bar and do the sort of goofy stuff that brings the big laughs. Which makes me wonder, would it be easy to woo a Japanese woman if I knew enough of the language to say “hey baby, I know how to wash dishes sometimes and my banana is of a respectable size. You’re getting close to thirty so how about you just marry me already?” 😛😛😛😛
Try to help your wife in any housework and you will end up doing it by yourself, you will not even notice when she ran away . . . . as days will pass you realize that you are now doing all the housework!!!
* Wait...I REALLY like your reason #5 at the end. Where men date other woman secretly to avoid thinking of another monster... I mean mother at home. * 😂🤣😅
I can somehow relate to some of that, My relatives told me about a story about one of my Aunt's who dated and married to a Japanese salary man years ago. My Japanese uncle was good and generous at first when he and my Aunt were still dating. When he got married to my Aunt sometime later, He changed a lot and becoming more demanding and he frequently have fights and quarrels with my Aunt in their household almost everyday until they eventually got divorced and they live in a separate house and my Aunt is keeping their two sons under her care since then, That happened years back. Japanese/ Non-Japanese relationships typically don't end well. 🙁
I think this has a lot to do with Japanese people being taught to keep their true feelings inside which leads to hostility and outbursts, not a healthy trait for relationships
I don’t know if this will help but i f you don’t feel comfortable, and some of his attitudes bothers you. Talk to him over it first make sure the both sides listen to each others and if he still being a jerk won’t compromise then divorce is probably a choice.
Before I found this channel I was thinking that Japan is a serious and humorless place. Now I know that it is a place where every problem is funny, so you can laugh all day long.
It's so sad that Japanese men and society expect from Japanese married women to accept their husbands' cheating/affairs. It's the only rule that you cannot cheat on your partner in marriage. Japanese men are really heartless to ask for something like this from their partners. Feeling bad for Japanese women as they also get deprived from physical intimacy once they become mothers. Horrible!
Thank you for making this video. I am Japanese wife who married to Japanese men and this is very accurate and funny. I was upset by watching your other one about “Reasons not marrying Japanese women “.
Me, an italian girl with a japanese boyfriend, watching this😂 Well, it's almost the same here in Italy: "tutto il mondo è paese" (it's the same all the world over)
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How to deal with the house yakuza drug her with sleeping pills, put on her a Chasity belt so she can’t cheat while you are at work.
You know the kids will be yours.
And I thank you for this I won’t marry a Japanese man that and I’m not a raving bender either.
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My mom is a feminist; she has always been very vocal with her opinions when things felt wrong for her, and she told people off when they treated her as less than a man. She couldn't care less about the new wave "feminism" that seeks to view men as lesser than women. For her feminism is about equality, not "the woman's turn to be an asshole."
My parents are the same 🤣🤣🥰💦
Ignore hate comments from feminazzis or other groups. You even gave a warning at the start and they still watched. You are very funny 😁. I hope to see you live standup one day.
So... Goku actually IS a good father by his cultural standard...
The american politicans in middle east joke is brillant, you re seriously good at your job
Arigato😍
I really laughed hard at that. Hahahahaha
Totally agree 🤣
It's the best 😂
@@Meshida Hey meshida, please go get married so you can make video on wife evolution, level of walking wallet and segglesness etc based on your own experience 😁😁
'I am not a misogynist, I am a misanthrope"! That's awesome!
Or my favorite "shut up! I'm a lawyer"
That should be a T-shirt
arigato😊
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I've been one my entire life, it works well for me as I like my hatred out in the open.
Meshida San, thank you for taking the time to educate us on the History, Biology and Psychology of the Japanese husband. You Sir, are a national treasure🙏
Arigato😍
I have two beautiful daughters with my Japanese wife of 30 years and several times over the years, I have said to my wife "Wouldn't it be great if our girls married a Japanese man". To my surprise, my wife said " イヤです。” (hell no!) and gave me a whole list of reasons why including the problem of "マザコン" ( Wanting one's wife to be like your Mother, eww!) and most of the problems you also mentioned MeshidaSan (except the banana problem). However, I feel a little sad about her objections as I think a Japanese husband would be great, so long as he is not 亭主関白。 I did go on to ask my wife about a Chinese or Korean husband then? And my wife gave me a look that said I am going to be sleeping on the sofa tonight if I don't shut up. So I shut up.
hahaha😁
Hahahahaha
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When you asked her about the Chinese or Korean husband, I'm starting to be on her side here 🤣
Yeah, my Japanese husband told me all the reasons he never wanted to marry anyone like your Japanese wife...
Lol my father is exactly that type and he's not even Japanese, AND he doesn't work or provide. He only cares about his own pleasure and is a lazy bum at home doing nothing waiting for death to catch up at 65. The whole family resents him. Real story no joke.
I love how you keep it real and criticize both sides.
Arigato😍
I don't know the japanese meaning of you're welcome@@Meshida
Very funny intro, Meshida-san. I have always helped my ex girlfriend with the housework despite coming back from work. As an Italian man I like to take care of my own home and my other half. I see in Japanese dramas women are somewhat still seen as traditional homemakers which is what western women were used to be back in the 50'. If my partner wanted to have a career I would take the responsibility to look after the house as long as she doesn't bring animals at home which would make my chores harder to deal with. It's not easy for anyone to have a job and do daily chores and have to look after animals as well. That would be too much for me. I would look after my babies though, just no pets at all. I am a trained chef as well, I don't think I would have any issues finding love again, I have been told by several women I am good marriage material and I think that's the sweetest thing I have ever heard from them :D
I hope people find your content as funny and entertaining instead of taking it seriously. Keep going your content is great.
really starting to warm up to the analogy of a "real" family xD it's honestly kind of deep and shines a light on how different dysfunctionality affects different types of marriages.
I've always been a good fit in a traditional relationship where I work and my woman takes care of the home. so it was easy to assume it's a superior marriage structure but now that you mention it I guess any kind of marriage can have problems if your not taking care of it!
great video man
Well, Marriage is like the tomb of love imho, however I agree on something, and it is that men should always support their women not only economically, but even with housework whatever it costs. No matter the struggle, no matter the fatigue, no matter the job responsibilities, we cannot yield. Housework is an amount of sharing life together, as only in death does duty end! If you truly love someone, it is a pleasure not a punishment doing it after all.
good comment!
High earning husband + He do housework as well ( 12 hour work +12 hour housework ( or 6 ) so when the guy gonna sleep ???
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If he doing both than what is the woman doing in meantime ????
@@silverwings8486 12 hours of housework or 6!? What in the world, is that sci-fi? You only need either 1 or 2h, 3h if the size of it is bigger, to clean up an actual house and then you are as free as a dove to spend the rest of your time at your leisure. Come on now, wrist and discipline. To earn more it should not be a derray to avoid an actual life responsibility... P.S. do you just realize yourself that, with two people on the same task, the time get reduced to half...?
@@SamuraiKensei276 Lol 🤣 let me ask so what your role IMAO if husband is prime earner than what are you a slack off it,s even funny since you yourself said 1-2 hour & 3 hour if bigger.
Do you understand these can be considered a form of slavery as well.
Either you play that role or this.
This is dynamic of husband & wife relationship.
If he was meant to do it all let's say housewife as well why bother to even take a 3 party in his life ??
I don,t think you can respect a husband who didn't earn enough to take care of his family & husband can,t respect wife who can,t take care of his home.
That,s kind of symbiotic relationship it is ☕
So fundamentally what you trying to imply is pretty dumb if it,s about spend time in form of housework than it,s better that you better ask him out & hire maid occassionally.
Otherwise what you trying to imply do my job & your job & than i love you.
You know that the kind of people who did that are *pushover*.
Respect is earned & it,s through your action.
& While i am aware that now a days trend is double earner don,t forget. Depending on his job or time.
There is room or energy in it,s truest ☕
Well have fun & don,t bother me 👍
@@Meshida thanks Meshida-san keep up the good work m8!
I'm glad you explained you are a misanthropist. Reading Taro Aso's complete "Hurry up and die" speech was really satisfying.
7:37 They must be really excited when otaku can say their favorite lines from their favorite videogames.
hahaha😁
@@Meshida Did you like the comment about Taro Aso's "Hurry up and die speech" or the otaku saying their favorite lines from videogames?
You're brilliant! Please produce more videos like this. In fact I'm not from Japan but I like the way you present the Japanese marriage and other things so much that I'll probably learn some Japanese and, perhaps, will even visit Japan at some point 😁
Hahaha meshida-san this was another funny video from you! 😂 A big cultural change needs to happen in Japan to encourage both husbands and wives with the old traditional view of their partners to leave that behind and focus on what a real loving marriage is with their husbands/wives. I've been living in various parts of Japan for over 24 years now and i've met couples from both of the extreme ends of the spectrums. Contrary to popular belief, a lot of normal japanese husbands are pretty much like western husbands strictly in the sense that they see their partner as an actual partner instead of a housemaid and they frequently have sex and nothing more, but this was what I usually saw from smaller cities or less big prefectures of Japan. They tend to be a bit more relaxed from work and focuses a lot of time on their family and social life. Tokyo is probably the only place where I saw a staggering significant amount of sexless marriages and husbands who could care less about their wives. But that doesn't mean that's true for every japanese husband in Tokyo, as much as I saw those type of men, I also met committed and affectionate japanese husbands in that same city itself. I've come under the conclusion that a lot of modern problems regarding japan are more often than not, i'd like to call, Tokyo exclusive, what I mean by that is those problems are just more rampant in Tokyo itself and less prevalent and less applicable in other parts of Japan. That's why I dislike Tokyo compared to my hometown here in Sendai, Miyagi because my neighbors and friends are more socially available and not a slave to their careers. As far as I know sexlessness here in Miyagi isn't really a thing 😂 I just hope one day japan finally cuts down labor hours and eliminates the toxic work culture of mandatory overtime so decent japanese husbands can come home and make love to their wives not being completely drained! 😂
I love your perfect stereotypes of Japan. I’m a Japanese guy married with a foreigner. I just do most of housework but can’t complain to her because she is breadwinner in our family.
@Trivediji he is luckiest I wish to get wife like him
love this comment section
Bro is not japanese
It's so sad that people are stupid sensitive dumb. Honestly, the world we live in is ridiculous and pathetic. However, behind jokes, there are truths.
arigato😊
They say behind every good lie there is a little truth, but it's moreso with comedy. People get uncomfortable or defensive really fast when you call out their behavior, and in comedy that's usually when you know it Worked. Everyone thinks they are the Main Character but really we are all just walking jokes.
I stayed in Japan 3年間 decades ago and only now it all makes so much more sense、 動画のおかげで。勉強になりました！
You do good a job here and in most of the other entries I've seen you do. As an older American man who married a Japanese woman, I must say your woman's ''wifely'' traits are pretty much on the mark.
My mother, when I was in my early school years through my 20s taught my brother and I to "Bring home the bacon" and she taught my sister to keep house and kids clean and eat, cook meals, etc. Being loving to the hubby was supposed to be a natural past-time., (and vise-versa). I thank you for the culture education. Wish I had been listening to you much earlier....:>)
Every time I watch your videos, my stress disappears and I laugh so much🤣...everything you say makes sense even though it's funny😅...I learned a lot from all your videos❤️...so I hope you make more videos everyone can learn a lot🙏...thank you 😊
your channel is criminally undersubbed!!
My husband is Japanese. All you have said is true. I feel like I'm a single mom here in Japan. Good thing that we don't have a kid yet 😂
hahaha😁
not only in japan, but most asian men rarely do housework. i think it's in the culture that women are expected to do most of housework even if they have work as well...sometimes it's tiring to be asian women that's why some asian women wanted a single life. it's should be change...now women are working and helping their husband with financial needs of the family...women are just human...they need rest and own personal time too...i hope in the future they will embrace that houseworks are not only for women. simple houseworks are appreciated like throwing the trash, looking after children or washing the dishes will be of great help.
Truth hurts but its the truth. I love your real talk videos.
Meshida is my favorite japanese comedian hahahe never fail me with his videos
Arigato😍
Thank you we somewhat know it already.
I think you have to start at home and teach the children to do equal amounts of housework whether they are boys or girls. My mother (we only had one parent) taught both myself and my brother to cook, wash dishes, do laundry, clean etc., and we had to share the chores equally. So of course my brother continued doing those things automatically when he grew up and got a family. Then his children also had to share equally in the household chores. This means they have basic life skills and can take good care of themselves, and don't need to get married in order to survive! Mothers who do everything for their sons and never allow them to take part in the housework are not actually being kind, they are depriving them of basic skills.
I'm from Sweden, by the way ;)
thanks!
But Swedish are misandry tho! Men are treated like a second class citizen
And did girls learn how to fix a car or saw wood or put shelves on the wall? You’re typical in that you list only « traditionally female » tasks and ignore everything else
@@sebastienh1100 How is fixing a car or sawing wood "basic life skills"? Do you need those to survive day-to-day life on your own? Unless you live out in the woods and have to build your own house and need a car to get anywhere at all, and there are no car mechanics nearby, but then I assume you would learn them.
We lived in a flat and did not have a car, but my mother used power tools, wrangled big dogs, wallpapered our entire flat on her own (with excellent results) and also taught both of us things like how to fix our own bicycles and how to wield a variety of carpentry tools, which has been very useful for me, but I definitely don't see them as basic day-to-day life skills, any more than knowing how to sew my own clothes or knit my own socks are.
@@aprillen « we lived in a flat and didn’t have a car »… OK, agreed, your comments make sense then.
And I also agree it’d be good for boys to learn cleaning and cooking etc.
That’s the « equal share » that sounded dangerously based on ideology, to which I was reacting
I’m a feminist and I find your Japanese wife video funny. I’m sorry you were barraged by DM’s 🙄 I love your channel! Hope I can see you do a live set someday 😊
Also, there’s quite a bit of crossover between men and women of Japan and the U.S., no matter what exceptional image we Americans try to promote 😅
Arigato!
@@sarah_mercedes6276 Americans are the world's unique culture. 😂
@@sarah_mercedes6276 👈 cat lady....🤣😂🤣😂
Me too! I found it funny
great knowedge sharing, more foreigners shoud watch this video
arigato😊
As someone who's been deployed to the middle east, you nailed that joke.
Let's see if i got it right:
Japanese married man: child that need to be take care of and can't take care of the house or manage money.
Japanese married woman: House boss that will control everything in the household and take all the money to manage.
Sounds like the perfect match for me!
So... Goku actually IS a good father by his cultural standard...
Hahaha... I don't think "chi-chi" (wife) can save the world, but she can save goku's stomach.
I would love your take on the whole Christmas cake phenomenon in japan.
I love this!! I was born in Tokyo and I live in Los Angeles!! My mama lives in Shiodome! I love your videos!!
Yoi, Meshida-san! 😎👍
You're hilarious man you have to keep the videos coming 😂
I really think that are many diferences between Japan and the rest of world, also may change with the time or couples, very informative the video, thanks Meshida!
Arigato😍
and now it's not serious.Judging by the number of snack bars and the bento shops offered, the housework of Japanese wives, as in the old Soviet joke, "The husband came home from work, and the wife is crying.He fussed all over until he could calm her down and get an explanation of what happened.
- I baked you meat pies, but the cat ate them
---- Oh!Yes, you shouldn't cry like that:If he dies, I'll buy you a new one!"
hahaha😁
I lived just like Japanese men and had a demanding job and almost payed of house mortgage. My ex left me for a football player and I lost all my money. Iv never been happier. She now works crazy hours and lives like a Japanese man.
Side note: regrets football player relationship ended with a guy with erectile dysfunction and smokes $200 of cigarettes a week
hahaha😁
Justice
@@bushy9780 new standard norm got the cash get the fuc# out it seem you are new??
Good end
Just discovered this gem of a channel. You should collab with Abroad in Japan!
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You definitely have a great way of making me feel bad for not doing more housework around my house. I think I better do something special for my wife :)
素晴らしい時間をありがとう
ありがとうございます😊
Husband: Got me a mom to take care of me...Ah I got the MILF dream
Wife: NTR! NTR! NTR!
I can see that you are a #ManOfCulture my friend.
Ah the perfect Japanese marriage. Husbando works long hours for the company and bangs prostitutes on his way home and has nothing left in the tank for his devoted waifu who looks after the home and maybe kids too.
Waifu gets approached by a charming stranger who manages to seduce her and scratch the itch that husbando either can’t or won’t.
hahaha😁
Wife: Got me a daddy to take care of me.
Husband: NTR NTR NTR.
RUclips recommended this guy to me because I was watching too many Sekiro videos 😂
I’m hooked!
I am glad I found this channel 😃 very educational!
"He who defends everything defends nothing" - Frederick the Great
Exactly!
arigato😊
Only word I know is Japanese is "Manko" which means Roast beef, or Rostu Beefu.
It 's quite too late to watching your video. I already A Japanese's wife. 😂😂😂 It is a joke. but everything you say absolutely true!!
Lucky
Lucky
My wife says that's only reason why she hasn't left me is, because I do housework. 😅
hahahahaha! As a husband who shows superiority at home during weekends, I can relate but I won't go into details. Hilarious video, thanks for this !🤣
Arigato😍
Your jokes are the best! ❤️😂
They Started Dating a Girlfriend Secretly
Then Mom Find Out About Your Secret Girlfriend And She Got Mad at Her Elder Son.
I'm torn on this because I've seen EXACTLY what you're talking about, but I also know couples where this isn't the case. My wife's dad does all the chores and always has for example while also holding down a full time job. Still, some old friends wound up turning into this precise type of guy so I can't really say it's wrong
So what about the way of house husband anime
Arigato Gozaimasu!
Enjoying this educational channel of Japanese culture. I am starting to understand Japanese now.
thanks!
After watching both videos, the parodies make Japan seem normal compared to the US and most of Europe. Most notable difference is that Japan gives the impression that double income families are a more recent social development, whereas traditional household roles in places like the US have collapsed due to the inability to afford homes, or earn enough money for a husband to support an entire family. Scandinavian countries are the exception where the government encourages equal and shared responsibilities in a family household.
Yes, and they are right about that. You can have a semi-working system in Skandinavia because that region is rich, and neither of the parents has to work too much to the point they do not even see their children. Even though like it or not, most women prefer to be a housewife, over the full-time retail worker, and men prefer to be strong enough to support the whole household. You can make artificial social constructions, but cannot make biology, and thousands of years of evolution...
Love your videos. I’m an expat from America.
You’re a realist.
love you funny and insightful comments...
Those things you listed are applied for men around the world too. It’s kinda universal 😂
And more
Lot more
"real meaning of diversity is... understanding diversity " Understanding different cultures and customs". very true... The look
great channel to learn about japan culture in funny way
I hope you get 1m subs because you are funny af
Love that you give your misogyny and misanthropy equal time! Your insight into Japanese culture is appreciated; it agrees with what two of my friends observed when they taught English in Japan many years ago.
Thank you for this funny video! 🤣 i was laughing a lot. By the way, i am a german woman happily married to a japanese man ❤
I am totally interested
I just subscribe 🤘
I married an English man 33 years ago and he never lifted a finger in the home, never changed a nappy and, since he is a RN officer, was often away often on varous warships. Despite the long separation, it was difficult for him, when returning home, to abandon his Commander habits and becoming a gentle husband. Normally it took about two weeks at home before he stopped shouting orders and go out drinking with his fellow officers. Howeve It was my choce to marry him and my duty to endure his behavior. As far as "girlfriends" I kept silence and never asked a question....it is not worth it.
No wonder why Japanese women are angry yakuzas after marriage
Same happens in my country too, many loves and supports from South Korea! ❤️
Not really
Japanese women are not angry
I read somewhere that men who clean their stuff usually get more sex
Not possible with japanese
Nobody can fool them
I am surprised at the fact that many people called me a misogynist when I am actually a misanthropist... totally relatable 🤣😂🤣.
I guess some people just do not have sense of humour, and they think comedians have it automatically 🤡🧨
I love what you have to say Think You
After watching this video, all i can think is " this video just described my japanese father" 😂😱...a very funny but sad truth 😂😬
Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷 ✌️
Thanks!
spot on!
Okay that's just the pick me up I needed. That was just so freaking funny.
Arigato😍
Keep up the good work Meshida-san. Japanese husbands sound a lot like the dads in prime time animated sitcoms. Dads like Homer Simpson, peter Griffin and Stan smith and even Cleveland Brown. They all bring home the bacon, do very little around the house because the wives are basically home makers who keep the house tidy and raise the kids, doing all the so called women’s work. Freeing the husbands to get drunk at the bar and do the sort of goofy stuff that brings the big laughs.
Which makes me wonder, would it be easy to woo a Japanese woman if I knew enough of the language to say “hey baby, I know how to wash dishes sometimes and my banana is of a respectable size. You’re getting close to thirty so how about you just marry me already?”
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So, so, so happy I don't own a television.
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So crazy it just might work
Try to help your wife in any housework and you will end up doing it by yourself, you will not even notice when she ran away . . . . as days will pass you realize that you are now doing all the housework!!!
* Wait...I REALLY like your reason #5 at the end. Where men date other woman secretly to avoid thinking of another monster... I mean mother at home. * 😂🤣😅
Marriage system is total opposite to disney 😂🤣🤣😂
Arigato😍
Enjoyed it hahaha !
Arigato😍
So good
arigato!
I can somehow relate to some of that, My relatives told me about a story about one of my Aunt's who dated and married to a Japanese salary man years ago.
My Japanese uncle was good and generous at first when he and my Aunt were still dating. When he got married to my Aunt sometime later, He changed a lot and becoming more demanding and he frequently have fights and quarrels with my Aunt in their household almost everyday until they eventually got divorced and they live in a separate house and my Aunt is keeping their two sons under her care since then, That happened years back.
Japanese/ Non-Japanese relationships typically don't end well. 🙁
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I think this has a lot to do with Japanese people being taught to keep their true feelings inside which leads to hostility and outbursts, not a healthy trait for relationships
My husband is Japanese and I don't know, right now I just want to get divorce. He's emotionally no empathy and I can't win an argument.
I don’t know if this will help but i f you don’t feel comfortable, and some of his attitudes bothers you. Talk to him over it first make sure the both sides listen to each others and if he still being a jerk won’t compromise then divorce is probably a choice.
Well damn, it all makes sense now with the sexless marriage. Gotta reverse those odds!
hahaha😁
I watch many NIHON RUclips, I find this has a real high IQ ever
arigato!
great Video!
Thanks!
Before I found this channel I was thinking that Japan is a serious and humorless place. Now I know that it is a place where every problem is funny, so you can laugh all day long.
Nice video i subscribe 🙂👍
arigato!
It's so sad that Japanese men and society expect from Japanese married women to accept their husbands' cheating/affairs. It's the only rule that you cannot cheat on your partner in marriage. Japanese men are really heartless to ask for something like this from their partners. Feeling bad for Japanese women as they also get deprived from physical intimacy once they become mothers. Horrible!
That they often end up cheating is almost told as an afterthought, but it seems to me that this is the worst offense
Thank you for making this video. I am Japanese wife who married to Japanese men and this is very accurate and funny.
I was upset by watching your other one about “Reasons not marrying Japanese women “.
I wanted to madk fun of both sides equally.
As a result, Feminists called me misoginist.
Even though I just hate humans.lol
Both of Meshida's videos are pretty hilarious and behind jokes there are some elements of truth and exaggeration
Best comedian 🤣🤣🤣
thanks!
めしださん、ビデオが面白くて楽しかったです❗😄😁👍
ありがとうございます
I love how you mentioned the criticize and make joke based on same culture, just change the point view.
So, in other words only japanese women are powerful enough to control japanese men🙂
Getting controlled
Is this why goku acts like a sibling to Gohan in dragon ball?
After watching both videos, I think Japanese men and Japanese women are perfect for each other 😂
hahaha😁
Self sufficiency is the best gift you can give your son for his future happiness and daughters too!!! Date and marry self sufficient people!!!!
Don't let the woke mob affect you Meshida! They'll never be able to take a joke. That's their problem not ours. Keep it up! 🍻
Me, an italian girl with a japanese boyfriend, watching this😂
Well, it's almost the same here in Italy: "tutto il mondo è paese" (it's the same all the world over)
Arigato!!!
Jokes are called jokes for a reason, but many people are rigid; "no joking, only serious matters at all times!"
stunning so funny°!!
I always knew YOU were a KING. This just proves it. 👑♥️🇵🇭
arigato!😄