It seems that there is more people have complications than don't. Maybe there should be alot more therapy before having irreversible surgeries that only put a band aid on the mental health problems for a short while. I hope you heal in all ways everyone deserves to be happy!
@Cereal Offender Definitely agree with deeper mental health therapy because the number of people detransitioning is growing rapidly. Appreciate your kind words and praying that people that struggle with their identity will find peace & the help they need to live free from the dysphoria struggle.
Do you think that the huge increase we are seeing in people claiming to be transgender means that there is possibly a huge increase in child abuse? The thought is absolutely chilling, but there seems to be no shortage of broken people having children. It's such a shame we cant talk about these issues. God bless you Daniel. I cant imagine what you've been through.
@ParrotGirl Tattoo Some of the men and one young lady have written to me and share that they had similar experiences. Not all people in the transgender community are abused though. My wife Patricia just told me that people that have parents that smoked tobacco and drank alcohol not only pass the risk of alcoholism on but actually reduce the hormone level of the child. I am not a trained scientist but that does appear to be an issue. What about all of the media movies in the 1980's about cross dressing? I know that that the movie Tootsie was a favorite of mine but would not care to watch it now. What about all of the media pushing stories like Bruce Jenner?
In the homeschool group I'm in, one mom was asking for recommendations for a pediatrician that will not ask the child if they are "ok" with their gender. The fact that they are asking kids this is just insane to me.
@@childofTheMostHigh4217 What ever happened to parents raising a child? Filling children with any information about sexual identity should be off limits.
This is extremely needed and IMPORTANT information, for other's who have regrets with transition and detranisitioners! (They are different) Awesome video 👍 keep up with your awesome work.
People thinking about serious surgery like this should take a long time to think first. Talk to a good counselor or psychotherapist before making any regrettable decisions.
@Karla britfeld YES, finding someone that is able to ask a simple question would have helped me. "Were you abused as a child?" I might have broken down during a therapy session if the person that counseled me had asked that question.
What do you think of the large amount of mtf youtubers that document their daily lives? Do you think they will eventually regret it? For example Jazz Jennings.
I think that most of the females or males are either lesbians or homosexual men who either have internalised homophobia but would rather “ transitioned” into the opposite sex, due to how homosexuals have been vilified by society. I’m very conflicted regarding transgenderism because a part of me says let trans people live their lives as they so wish; another part of me says how can you totally ignore biology and evolution. I have to be very careful with what I say, or how this is coming across, as I don’t want to appear mean - I’m just genuinely confused by the whole subject. This subject has become a very contentious over the last few years and there seems to be no way that you can talk openly and honestly about what you actually think ( I’m not referring to people who are just bigots) without being called a transphobe or having your channel shutdown because you’re genuinely questioning things. I’m squeamish when it comes to being operated on because I hate the sight of blood and guts, and I can’t comprehend how someone could undergo such major surgery, which carry high risks of complications, without carefully considering the risks involved. I recently saw this documentary which featured a female to male woman who lived as a “male” for over 17 years before she came to the conclusion that it wasn’t the panacea that it was made out to be, and now deeply regrets that she has been left with: a very deep voice, an ugly scar that is on her left wrist, a bald head and a facsimile of a penis which isn’t easy to correct because it might introduce further complications. She further complains that people often mistake her for a man in drag now. She cannot get back the feminine woman that she once was. Hormones are too readily available nowadays but many dare not to voice this sentiment publicly because there are strident activists that can get you cancelled for voicing this concern. Having said all this, I seriously believe that transitioning can help certain individuals but we just don’t know who they are or how many due to lack of data. But let us be very careful in what we wish for because it could lead to things that we might bitterly regret later on in life. Have a blessed day!
@Linda Mcauley Appreciate your kind words, please keep all the souls that are struggling with identity problems in your prayers. Gender Dysphoria is a nightmare I would not wish on anyone.
@@lindamcauley4728 Thanks for your kind words Linda. When I was younger, I was able to get on my knees & surrender my will to my Higher Power each morning. I now do the same surrender on the soft sofa cushions and as long as I don't take my will back, there is no struggle. One young man that went through a similar problem as I did has stepped up to lead a support group for Detransition people. That is what I call action to be a helping hand to the next person that is in pain. I know Walt Heyer has saved many from suicide by doing what he has done is this field.
@Katie and Nick Was turned away by every single surgeon in USA & Canada because I was born a biological male and there are experienced surgeons in Europe that handle reconstruction of the male genitals.
@@ReturnDaniel I haven’t watched many of your videos, but I assume you had vaginoplasty originally? Pardon if this is obtrusive, and you certainly don’t have to answer, but in cases like that, are they able to repurpose any of your original anatomy to create a phallus, or is it similar to how they do phalloplasty on trans identified females(FtM)?
@@katieandnick4113 Yes, surgeon in Thailand did a vaginoplasty in 2006. Some of the original skin tissue was used in my first reconstruction surgery in 2020 to form a longer urethra alongside a small penis. My recent surgery for phalloplasty was an abdominal flap procedure where all of the skin was rolled and then attached with a skin graft to form a nice sized penis. I am happy with the outcome as I see my process being complete in one more year with the minor adjustments that will be done.
@Jan Leslie Not sure what makes you say that as I was born a perfectly healthy baby boy a long time ago. I made a tragic mistake in 2006 when I was cleared for removal of God given male genitals by the mental health community that never investigated my child abuse trauma that happened in the 1960's. I have XY chromosomes which is male.
It seems that there is more people have complications than don't. Maybe there should be alot more therapy before having irreversible surgeries that only put a band aid on the mental health problems for a short while. I hope you heal in all ways everyone deserves to be happy!
@Cereal Offender Definitely agree with deeper mental health therapy because the number of people detransitioning is growing rapidly. Appreciate your kind words and praying that people that struggle with their identity will find peace & the help they need to live free from the dysphoria struggle.
Do you think that the huge increase we are seeing in people claiming to be transgender means that there is possibly a huge increase in child abuse? The thought is absolutely chilling, but there seems to be no shortage of broken people having children. It's such a shame we cant talk about these issues.
God bless you Daniel. I cant imagine what you've been through.
@ParrotGirl Tattoo Some of the men and one young lady have written to me and share that they had similar experiences. Not all people in the transgender community are abused though. My wife Patricia just told me that people that have parents that smoked tobacco and drank alcohol not only pass the risk of alcoholism on but actually reduce the hormone level of the child. I am not a trained scientist but that does appear to be an issue. What about all of the media movies in the 1980's about cross dressing? I know that that the movie Tootsie was a favorite of mine but would not care to watch it now. What about all of the media pushing stories like Bruce Jenner?
In the homeschool group I'm in, one mom was asking for recommendations for a pediatrician that will not ask the child if they are "ok" with their gender. The fact that they are asking kids this is just insane to me.
@@childofTheMostHigh4217 What ever happened to parents raising a child? Filling children with any information about sexual identity should be off limits.
I’m so sorry you were abused as a child. No child should have to endure abuse. I hope you heal. I wish you happiness.
Thank you for your honesty.
Surgeries at an older age are concerning. I’m hoping you and your wife can achieve some intimacy. Keep us updated I’m rooting for you.
This is extremely needed and IMPORTANT information, for other's who have regrets with transition and detranisitioners! (They are different) Awesome video 👍 keep up with your awesome work.
Good to know you are healing well Daniel. Thank you for your outreach to help those who struggle with gender identity disorders,
God bless you Daniel,if you can help at least one person do not do this you are hero.All the best for you
@Veronika Tkachuk Appreciate your kind words. Please keep all of the people struggling with identity disorders in your thoughts & prayers.
Thank you so much for your honesty.
@Patrick Garrett To God Be All Glory
Wishing you the best Daniel! Thank you for sharing your story :)
@Nikki J Appreciate your kind words. Please keep all of the people struggling with identity disorders in your thoughts & prayers.
People thinking about serious surgery like this should take a long time to think first. Talk to a good counselor or psychotherapist before making any regrettable decisions.
@Karla britfeld YES, finding someone that is able to ask a simple question would have helped me. "Were you abused as a child?" I might have broken down during a therapy session if the person that counseled me had asked that question.
Thank you! your story is familiar to me up to the transition part. God is Good!
Emma, praise God you did not get genitals mutilated.
Bless you, your are doing a great job on you tube spreading this truth, hope you heal well soon god bless you
Thank you kindly
Goodluck hope you heal and get to enjoy your life.
@Eristaire Crowley Appreciate your kind words. Please keep all of the people struggling with identity disorders in your thoughts & prayers.
What do you think of the large amount of mtf youtubers that document their daily lives? Do you think they will eventually regret it? For example Jazz Jennings.
@John M. I do not know the percentage but a growing number of people deeply regret having mtf surgery. I have no idea who Jazz Jennings is.
@@ReturnDaniel Jazz is a MtF young adult who began their transition as a young child, beginning with puberty blockers. He has a show on TLC.
@@blackswan1983 she
@@Jasminestealth1 Do I know you? Because you don't get to police my bekiefs and language.
@@blackswan1983 oh your silly - your on a public site and you miss spoke her gender so... no you don't know me and the obvious yes
Thanks Daniel.
I think that most of the females or males are either lesbians or homosexual men who either have internalised homophobia but would rather “ transitioned” into the opposite sex, due to how homosexuals have been vilified by society.
I’m very conflicted regarding transgenderism because a part of me says let trans people live their lives as they so wish; another part of me says how can you totally ignore biology and evolution. I have to be very careful with what I say, or how this is coming across, as I don’t want to appear mean - I’m just genuinely confused by the whole subject.
This subject has become a very contentious over the last few years and there seems to be no way that you can talk openly and honestly about what you actually think ( I’m not referring to people who are just bigots) without being called a transphobe or having your channel shutdown because you’re genuinely questioning things.
I’m squeamish when it comes to being operated on because I hate the sight of blood and guts, and I can’t comprehend how someone could undergo such major surgery, which carry high risks of complications, without carefully considering the risks involved.
I recently saw this documentary which featured a female to male woman who lived as a “male” for over 17 years before she came to the conclusion that it wasn’t the panacea that it was made out to be, and now deeply regrets that she has been left with: a very deep voice, an ugly scar that is on her left wrist, a bald head and a facsimile of a penis which isn’t easy to correct because it might introduce further complications. She further complains that people often mistake her for a man in drag now. She cannot get back the feminine woman that she once was.
Hormones are too readily available nowadays but many dare not to voice this sentiment publicly because there are strident activists that can get you cancelled for voicing this concern. Having said all this, I seriously believe that transitioning can help certain individuals but we just don’t know who they are or how many due to lack of data. But let us be very careful in what we wish for because it could lead to things that we might bitterly regret later on in life. Have a blessed day!
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God bless you 🙏❤
@Linda Mcauley Appreciate your kind words, please keep all the souls that are struggling with identity problems in your prayers. Gender Dysphoria is a nightmare I would not wish on anyone.
@@ReturnDaniel it must be an extremely difficult struggle. You come across as a very kind person
@@lindamcauley4728 Thanks for your kind words Linda. When I was younger, I was able to get on my knees & surrender my will to my Higher Power each morning. I now do the same surrender on the soft sofa cushions and as long as I don't take my will back, there is no struggle. One young man that went through a similar problem as I did has stepped up to lead a support group for Detransition people. That is what I call action to be a helping hand to the next person that is in pain. I know Walt Heyer has saved many from suicide by doing what he has done is this field.
@@ReturnDaniel God bless you 🙏 ❤️
Too bad you weren't honest with yourself snd others before plowing ahead with what is honestly described as an irreverable surgery.
What is your email ?
@Jay Love It is Daniel@returntodaniel.com
Why did you go to Europe?
@Katie and Nick Was turned away by every single surgeon in USA & Canada because I was born a biological male and there are experienced surgeons in Europe that handle reconstruction of the male genitals.
@@ReturnDaniel I haven’t watched many of your videos, but I assume you had vaginoplasty originally? Pardon if this is obtrusive, and you certainly don’t have to answer, but in cases like that, are they able to repurpose any of your original anatomy to create a phallus, or is it similar to how they do phalloplasty on trans identified females(FtM)?
@@katieandnick4113 Yes, surgeon in Thailand did a vaginoplasty in 2006. Some of the original skin tissue was used in my first reconstruction surgery in 2020 to form a longer urethra alongside a small penis. My recent surgery for phalloplasty was an abdominal flap procedure where all of the skin was rolled and then attached with a skin graft to form a nice sized penis. I am happy with the outcome as I see my process being complete in one more year with the minor adjustments that will be done.
@@ReturnDaniel I’m happy for you.
No matter what you do you're never going to be a man 💯
@Jan Leslie Not sure what makes you say that as I was born a perfectly healthy baby boy a long time ago. I made a tragic mistake in 2006 when I was cleared for removal of God given male genitals by the mental health community that never investigated my child abuse trauma that happened in the 1960's. I have XY chromosomes which is male.
@JanLeslie (sounds like a chosen trans name btw) WTF is Wrong with you??? He was born a male, with a penis. So how is this even factual?🤮🤬