The Semantics of Shadow Work | Valisa Griffin | TEDxChattanooga

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  • Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
  • An emotionally evocative experience within, throughout and beyond trauma. Deep breathing segues into vulnerable storytelling in this unexpected juxtaposition of personal and shared historical trauma. “The Semantics of Shadow Work” exposes repressed generational truth and asks us not to run from it, so we can heal from it. Valisa Griffin is a Black American writer, motivational speaker and founder of Folding Chair Literacy Group, an organization that builds cultural esteem through ethnocentric literacy aid development. She uses Black literature and the sacred art of vulnerable storytelling to herald Black American truth where gentrified folklore and biased omission would better serve our egos. She exists to push our society beyond the comfortable and trendy façade of “Diversity and Inclusion” that we might wrestle with our shared generational traumas to birth a cultural embodiment of truth and acceptance within our authentic selves. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @joshnavaltaa
    @joshnavaltaa Год назад +139

    "When we don't teach the history of the trauma, then we preserve the power dynamic that bred the trauma in the first place." She's amazing.

  • @fatkatwiththegap7920
    @fatkatwiththegap7920 Год назад +303

    When she said they don't wanna be healed they wanna be untraumatized that hit me so hard. Thank you Goddess. ❤️

    • @Dischordian
      @Dischordian Год назад +4

      Yes that was a powerful moment, and what followed.

    • @kimaparker6430
      @kimaparker6430 11 месяцев назад

      Me toooo😮

    • @Red_Black_Key
      @Red_Black_Key 10 месяцев назад +1

      That statement was a Diamond of Truth.

  • @RabbitHeart08
    @RabbitHeart08 Год назад +143

    “Healing is not the eraser of the trauma but it is the revelation of the truth. “
    This was all very helpful and articulated so so well. Thank you!

  • @catrinagriffin6141
    @catrinagriffin6141 Год назад +126

    This young lady had a message that is absolutely necessary for us all. She has definitely done some extensive inner work on the self. What we seek is on the inside.

  • @ennamorgan
    @ennamorgan Год назад +27

    This has got to be the most moving, engaging, and enlightening TED talk I've ever listened to. Why does this video have only 18K views?
    And...Am I the only one who thinks she looks and sounds like, is equally insightful and articulate, and has the same last name as comedian Eddie Griffin?

  • @moniquesinned4210
    @moniquesinned4210 Год назад +14

    When she said she has no image of being held ! I felt that because I don’t have a picture of my mother holding me either .
    Yeah I felt that 😢

  • @didicotton3900
    @didicotton3900 Год назад +62

    Arguable the most impactful 18mins and 45seconds I’ve spent on RUclips ever🙌🏾. Thank you for your vulnerability and the skill to reach your audience not only with words, yet with feeling✊🏾

  • @jimonalimb
    @jimonalimb 2 года назад +65

    One of my favorite talks from this day. Thank you for your vulnerability!

  • @trueXMotionFitness
    @trueXMotionFitness 2 года назад +59

    This is the best Ted, TedeX talk I've ever watched. Even her Shadow Work/Meditation idea of the picture & the daises is a great idea. I'm going to try that. I want to look her up, too. I'm curious if she's written a book or had any other talks.

  • @evek212
    @evek212 2 года назад +26

    this is incredibly important. incredible speaker. thank you

  • @casssiaaaaa
    @casssiaaaaa 2 года назад +27

    You are extraordinary Valisa, thank you for sharing

  • @TabletalkwtoshToshTalks2U
    @TabletalkwtoshToshTalks2U Год назад +8

    I love everything about this discussion. Valisa you are a true teacher. Thank you for being you and showing people how to not become untraumatized but to do the work to become healed.

  • @brandontylerburt
    @brandontylerburt 2 года назад +29

    A gifted, viscerally charged speaker.

    • @sunshine-qk8qe
      @sunshine-qk8qe 2 дня назад

      She talks to fast , and doesn't even take a breath between a sentence .

    • @brandontylerburt
      @brandontylerburt День назад

      @@sunshine-qk8qe Hey, I know that life can be really irritating sometimes. If you ever need to talk about it, I don't mind listening.

  • @pronotper
    @pronotper Год назад +8

    This Ted talk changed my life! She is so beautiful and powerful. I would hold her and hug her forever. What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL SOUL. A light worker for sure! Her light is so so bright. I want to see more of her! Somebody give her a book deal. This woman is AMAZING! FR. I had to stop what I was doing and PAY ATTENTION. Her tone demands it in a soft way. I have never seen anything like it. Let's get her a book deal. Valisa, they missed out on time with ur beautiful soul. There loss! I know. I get it. I definitely suffer from what I call my mommy never loved me syndrome. Made me a people pleaser with NO boundaries. I will not forget this talk. EVER! LIGHT & LOVE!

  • @ronellistunstill92
    @ronellistunstill92 2 года назад +12

    This was the best one that day!!!!

  • @iamlindavilela
    @iamlindavilela Год назад +10

    this touched me so deeply. the honesty, the vulnerability, the truth.
    may we breathe together more, may we open ourselves up to the truth and collectively hold more space for healing.

  • @liv7492
    @liv7492 Год назад +13

    I wished this was longer, this was incredible. Thank you Valisa

  • @HaleyVPackett
    @HaleyVPackett Год назад +18

    Valisa Griffin is amazingly gifted, I was incredibly moved by this presentation. Such an empowering and revealing talk,
    thank you for sharing this.

  • @famousace4652
    @famousace4652 Год назад +11

    She’s so powerful

  • @thuggineternal
    @thuggineternal Год назад +2

    The shadow work video I needed to help me to finally understand shadow work. I shared it with my girls and told them to watch alone so they can cry freely.

  • @rosek315
    @rosek315 Год назад +3

    It is not an accident I found this talk today.. THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @chara8231
    @chara8231 Год назад +11

    Brilliant! I am speechless. I have to watch it a second time just to process everything🙌🏿 I need to get started on my shadow work for sure💯 The speaker was amazing!🤗

  • @TheSavonExperience
    @TheSavonExperience 2 года назад +9

    One of my favorite folks. Look at god! I love!!!

  • @luvlichi
    @luvlichi 2 года назад +19

    Beautiful Goddess you're soooo loveable. Your voice and your energy is important. You are more than enough and I'm grateful for you sharing your journey. Keep shining... love, light & life to you always ✨️ ❤️

  • @tanishawrites1111
    @tanishawrites1111 2 месяца назад

    Valisa, I hear you and I see you beautiful sister. Please know I felt seen by the telling of your story AND our ancestral trauma history. May the Most High continue to operate through you and bless you as well all those that extend from you. Peace & Love.

  • @8no1likeme-infinitestar65
    @8no1likeme-infinitestar65 2 года назад +6

    THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL SOUL

  • @zumbajenn1
    @zumbajenn1 Год назад +5

    I am new in my shadow work journey and I am so thankful to have stumbled across your video! Thank you for helping me to understand what shadow work actually is. I hope you continue to educate on this topic. You’re wonderful!!

  • @Nimbus_11
    @Nimbus_11 2 года назад +18

    This is the most intellectual talk I’ve EVER listened to! Thank you Valisa for being beyond amazing! You are truly on a vibration I aspire to achieve! I don’t plan on being on this planet much longer but for the lil bit of time I plan on fighting and staying, I’ll definitely incorporate your talk and lessons in my perspective in building a better world for everyone! 🥰❤️

  • @Verena2022
    @Verena2022 10 месяцев назад +3

    This is so powerful. When she explained most people don’t want to be healed, they want to be un traumatized, I absolutely lost it. Unlocked something I’ve been trying to access. I think this idea will help me move forward

  • @abieml95
    @abieml95 Год назад +15

    INCREDIBLE! Super deep on a personal level and on a societal level. Definitely keeping this in the archives!

  • @Qumi222
    @Qumi222 Год назад +5

    Thank you queen✨🫶🏾. Sending you healing and light. I wrote a page of notes for myself, my 3 daughters, and their dad. I love you, I see you🖤

  • @Liveonpoint99
    @Liveonpoint99 Год назад +6

    Empress, you nailed this talk! I needed these reminders. I have gratitude for your spirit allowing you to be "awkward". it was authentic. Thank you for sharing your story and your wisdom.

  • @NallahBrown
    @NallahBrown Год назад +3

    "A highly politicized society. A society that needs everything to be immediately categorized. If it's good or bad, right or wrong. What does that do for us? It helps us get around having to emotionally process anything because it desensitizes the way we feel and prioritizes the way that we think."

    • @geekgirrrl
      @geekgirrrl 3 месяца назад

      Bars frfr❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sethawarren
    @sethawarren Год назад +4

    Wow… speaking nothing but her truth. Powerful words from a powerful speaker. Thank you.

  • @coreen7179
    @coreen7179 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have listened to many Ted Talks and this is by far one of the most powerful, insightful talks I've heard. Though somewhat understated, it certainly opens up the door to the exploration of this "unconventional" modality of inner healing work. Unfortunately, our western societies have not embraced anything that appears to be outside of our faith based teachings and norms, making it difficult for those who can benefit from this work to actually receive it. It's time we stop demonizing every practice we don't understand and start the conversation on how we can best serve our communities to promote healing from trauma regardless of it's cause. Thank you for sharing.

  • @AtypicalType
    @AtypicalType Год назад +9

    This hit me right in the heart. Thank you.

  • @user-tz2fx8nk4l
    @user-tz2fx8nk4l Год назад +6

    I hope Velisa Griffin writes poetry. If and when she does, I hope she shares it with the world.

  • @ternon83
    @ternon83 Год назад +9

    Powerful, to the point, and full of nuggets. This alignment with this video for me is proof of a conversation i had last night, as well as 20 minutes or so ago with my brothers. The gratitude is real. I like all of it i like setting up for success and reviewing shadow with clarity n confidence is on brand for my experience. Thank you... the gratitude is real.

  • @version.c8758
    @version.c8758 Год назад +10

    Wow, You are definitely meant to do this work! This is so powerful and illuminating... I wish I could find more of you. Thank you for sharing this part of yourself it really impacted me, at just the right time.❤

  • @b4realz23
    @b4realz23 2 года назад +9

    Omg 30 yrs so much Insight I was not expecting it but I serious think this video changed my whole outlook basically my life thank you for these insights into how the smallest things can affect us soo much in a detrimental way and unconsciously as well, knowing that the shadow can rebel and control our life sabotage our conscious wishes I didnt realize really how deep we are all traumatized thank you "for ruining my day" jk (referring to the joke ) thank you for changing the way I think

  • @keishahines6733
    @keishahines6733 Год назад +2

    This sister blessed me! Thank you for this informative, powerful lesson! 🙌🏾

  • @tranayajordan8508
    @tranayajordan8508 2 года назад +7

    Yesss ❣️❣️💯

  • @natashaburrows7743
    @natashaburrows7743 Год назад +5

    Wow what an incredible women. Had me in tears. So powerful. Feeling blessed to have seen this video 🙏🏻🥹🥰❤️❤️

  • @dimples1652
    @dimples1652 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for your lesson. My last name is Griffin from my father and he never met his older sister, but you look just like us and we're from Jacksonville FL. Again thank you.

  • @howwedc9475
    @howwedc9475 Год назад +6

    Wow❤️So powerful how she took that message full circle.

  • @stonedoliveees
    @stonedoliveees 2 года назад +5

    Hearing this was an inspiring Revelation ! Wow! Deep gratitude 🌹

  • @domatello_
    @domatello_ Год назад +1

    This touched me in a special way.

  • @michaelapatton5379
    @michaelapatton5379 Год назад +2

    THIS MESSAGE WAS SOOOOO NECESSARY FOR ME, THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!!!!

  • @haydenseitcher7079
    @haydenseitcher7079 Год назад +4

    so powerful, thank you

  • @johnluke37
    @johnluke37 Год назад +2

    It's beyond teaching the truth. It's morning The reality of what we have done to deny acceptance. Compassion and what freedom we can have in the human experience. Your description of the state of division where we mentalize in order not to deal with our emotions is spot on. Thank you.

  • @deellaboe437
    @deellaboe437 Год назад +1

    The best Ted talk

  • @dartaansone4022
    @dartaansone4022 2 года назад +5

    Good conclusion and perspective Bravo!

  • @myfaveisdabestestyaaas7673
    @myfaveisdabestestyaaas7673 4 месяца назад

    Food for thought indeed

  • @t3b0g0
    @t3b0g0 6 месяцев назад

    It got better and better as I listened. Uniquely told, direct and concise. Welldone!

  • @andreasauter4120
    @andreasauter4120 Год назад +3

    Thanks for that Talk and your vulnerability ❤

  • @mayflower2904
    @mayflower2904 Год назад +2

    Incredible

  • @ShaeMacMillan
    @ShaeMacMillan Год назад +4

    A brilliant talk that was delivered with power, intelligence and sensitivity. Well done on your journey to be untraumatised. Thank you for sharing your experience

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco 8 месяцев назад

    I struggled with finding a picture of me to feeling compassion. I was gifted a grandchild. I used their picture and my compassion for them to build a bridge.

  • @stacyburrell13
    @stacyburrell13 Год назад +2

    What a gift!

  • @spiritrain3343
    @spiritrain3343 Год назад +1

    Very Powerful!❤️💪🏽

  • @PrettySkyEarthAngel
    @PrettySkyEarthAngel Год назад +1

    💕✨ Thank you for this very unexpected Galentine’s Gift! I am grateful to have come across this message. Love & Light. 💕✨

  • @rozz9085
    @rozz9085 Год назад +2

    Brilliantly weaved. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @iva1531
    @iva1531 Год назад +2

    Most articulate, incisive, insightful talk I've here so far.

  • @faatimahjackson4009
    @faatimahjackson4009 Год назад

    This video is so eye opening. Came across this video as I was reading about shadow work and trauma.

  • @sakesenpai
    @sakesenpai 10 месяцев назад

    Powerful, simply that

  • @ronruthruff2518
    @ronruthruff2518 5 месяцев назад

    So profoundly good, and hard and true

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for your energy Valisa!
    I have a message for people who call others out of their name, I am sorry your parents failed you.

  • @jamie86403
    @jamie86403 Год назад

    Powerful. Thank you.

  • @WhoIsModernDoll
    @WhoIsModernDoll Год назад +2

    Bravo! Thank you!!!

  • @babeakuscaesar
    @babeakuscaesar Год назад +1

    Deep sis, damn near in tears her

  • @maki9396
    @maki9396 Год назад +1

    Powerful. Deep. 🙏🏾

  • @tm27field
    @tm27field 11 месяцев назад

    Love her personality

  • @teahgurl
    @teahgurl 10 месяцев назад +1

    This made me cry smh…

  • @sabine1072
    @sabine1072 Год назад +4

    Absolutely love this TED talk! Hope to see more from her. This was very inspiring and important to hear.

  • @brejarrells2266
    @brejarrells2266 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing speaker and deep work needs to be done

  • @priscillaandhercats
    @priscillaandhercats Год назад +1

    Those first 8 minutes…
    I felt as if you were staring at a mirror and talking to me directly . It’s been 28 years and not once from those 3 baby pictures that I have ,noticed I was alone . I have trauma alot of it and I cry when I try to explain myself and it frustrates me more because I don’t know where to start. For a month ? Shadow work has been very loud on my path and I’ve been puttin it on the back burner but a trigger made me do some research and here I am … thank you ❤ thank you so much for sharing your story . I’ve spent my time in earth trying to act like my past didn’t exist. But it’s an important part of me ❤. Thank you 🙏 for taking the time to explain this ❤️‍🩹

  • @kiwyroxy
    @kiwyroxy Год назад +7

    Loved this talk. ❤ you need to write a book on this….and share your insights with the masses.

  • @yeet5148
    @yeet5148 Год назад +1

    Oh wow. I was not ready for this one, but I receive it. Wow!

  • @lakitamorrow5130
    @lakitamorrow5130 Год назад +2

    Awesome and full of healing. ❤

  • @tomlinwilding
    @tomlinwilding Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this. Very powerful

  • @Its_saada
    @Its_saada Год назад +3

    So powerful!❤️

  • @camishajrobinson
    @camishajrobinson Год назад +1

    Needed this so much. Thank you ❤

  • @danadrinkwater5681
    @danadrinkwater5681 Год назад +2

    AMAZING, STRONG, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS SPEECH. ❤

  • @malcomalexander6927
    @malcomalexander6927 7 месяцев назад

    Wow. Just wow! 🔥🔥🔥🙏

  • @Mauieee33
    @Mauieee33 Год назад +3

    This is just so beautiful!!!

  • @Selfmagnet
    @Selfmagnet 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing I was in tears I can relate 😢

  • @neutralitee
    @neutralitee Год назад +3

    This was amazing

  • @iuogvftulvclhg
    @iuogvftulvclhg 9 месяцев назад

    wow that was by far the best ted talk ive ever seen! thank you for the wisdom!!!

  • @yasmeenbowie6638
    @yasmeenbowie6638 10 месяцев назад

    This talk was so powerful ❤

  • @daviamcleish2659
    @daviamcleish2659 Год назад +3

    This is a excellent video! So many lessons

  • @Adele_36
    @Adele_36 Год назад

    this is the best ted talk ive seen. thank you so much

  • @chosenone599
    @chosenone599 8 месяцев назад

    Powerful! ❤

  • @tm27field
    @tm27field 11 месяцев назад

    Fantastic presentation, thank you

  • @Attention2Love
    @Attention2Love 5 месяцев назад

    Wow. This is great.

  • @Beggaronmars
    @Beggaronmars Год назад

    Never seen a more real, authentic, and eloquent person

  • @hanamunroe7803
    @hanamunroe7803 Год назад +24

    Does anyone know where I can find more of her online? She's amazing!

    • @nanetteaddesso7560
      @nanetteaddesso7560 9 месяцев назад +1

      I know! I want more info on her too. This RUclips had me in tears

    • @dylanmaxey2531
      @dylanmaxey2531 7 месяцев назад

      Dec 2023-I still look but find nothing current beyond this. Hopefully if anybody finds her new works no matter the subject, I hope you will update here please.

  • @carlosangulo11
    @carlosangulo11 11 месяцев назад

    Great video!! Thank you 😊 🙏🏻Unconditional love to all ❤️ ♾️ 🌌

  • @yolandam611
    @yolandam611 Год назад +1

    Thank you

  • @nnylasoR
    @nnylasoR 10 месяцев назад

    Sooo good.
    So, so good.

  • @SamSam-qx7dv
    @SamSam-qx7dv Год назад

    😢 So powerful