Sir, I am age 38 and in a government service for last 11 years at multiple cities never met a guru like you who have such an immense knowledge and understanding of so many aspects of life. I am learning from you from last 1 year and learned so much about true meaning of better, happy and fulfilling life . Thanx a lot for everything Guruji 🙏.
As an independent working woman, I can’t see myself receiving “SEVA” from my kids at any age… I’m planning to work until 75, and I want my kids to have their own homes and lives.
Logon ke hissab se to larke ki shadi ke baad jab bahu aa jati hai tabhi maa baap ko apni seva karwana yaad aata hai .Uss se pehle maa baap apne bete ki seva karte hain .Real truth of Indian life .
आप की बात हमेशा वास्तविकता के करीब है हमे भी ऐसा सोचने पर मजबूर करती बच्चे नही समझते हम समझे पर बच्चो को समझ नही आ रहा बोलते हमारी इज्जत नही रहेगी , ओर खुद भी अकेले नही रह सकते उन्हें भी हमारा साथ चाहिए
Parenthood is overrated! Nobody would have dared to say this. You Sir are putting across something that's going through in numerous minds. Continue to make such videos.. We love to see your content🤗
Sir really you are breaking the old school belief system but really ur content is original and unique I recommend all should watch videos. Also being a Jat myself I feel amaze the kind of different thinking / mindset & clarity in life you have being a JaT... Great Contents
By these videos you are not only helping elder people but also preparing younger generation, who will get married in future and have kids, to decide the right path and avoid all the kalesh to live a happy life.
Thank you sir.Almost all of your vedios are helping me to get clarity over the issues you discuss thereby empowering me with the knowledge and wisdom useful to deal with my own personal problems.
Excellent. Ardently believe in same philosophy. You are right parenthood is overrated. Boys are taught that their mother is Niruparoy. Please make a video on " meri maa bimaar rehti h" Feeding by mothers to all their sons cribbing all the time about their health and gaining sympathy and boys also sing same song to their wives. Thirdly I also say that "apni biwiyon ke boote pe sab shrawankumar bane huye hai". Though they can't look after themselves. You can cover this topic also. I am a strong working women having two young daughters who are still not married. People might think I support this because I have girls. All the best. Keep guiding these maa ke laadlon ko and so called beemaar mothers ko.
Amit Sir, lots of respect from Pakistan. I accidentally stumbled upon your videos today. They're so interesting n real, that this video, is 3rd in a row, that I m watching now. Your videos are based upon facts, though some portions are quite amusing 😆, loved it. You speak from heart n like a Bara bhai, your problem analysis n solutions, are Gold. I felt like I m sitting right next to u, n u r updating my brain software. Thank u very much for sharing your knowledge. I recently inherited some wealth. Immediately, I bought some gold bricks n 1000 SqYrds plot in a very good society, just to shield myself against inflation. I m already in a "+ zone". Now I m conducting my research, what to do next. I'll be listening to u very carefully n try to learn from you. You are welcome to Lahore, Pakistan. keep smiling.
Mr Sangwan,you are absolutely right.That is what should be the attitude in the modern era.Me too believe in the same and as a doctor counsel my patients similarly when they put across the same problem before me.
Arey gazab sir ji.... I feel good hearing u always... Confirmation milta hai ki sahi hi soch re hain hum... N nichey kicha jata hai.. Jabardasti ki guilt trip pe dalne ki koshish kartey hain log
You ideas should be converted into policies or reforms to help the youth 🙏. Most of the senior citizens are not happy with their children as their expectations are too high. They make sure that children always feel that they are not SRAVAN KUMAR 😪
Sir, the point of staying close by and not under the same roof has to be understood by the parents. The children already want it but can’t accept it openly.
Lovely advice sir.....would it be possible for you to make a video on how to arrive at the correct value of your old home for sale purposes, how to negotiate and other important things to keep in mind
Wrong or right is different point - I can decide if I want to head them. But speaking tough things openly is commendable. Thank you sir ji for speaking your mind.
One of my friends once said- Love & care in a family tree flows top to bottom, now i can relate it. My dad loved me, i love my son, my son will love his son.
Sirji...i am a working mother and a daughter in law living with my in laws alone with my daughter...i really admire your courage and broad view of life at the same age as of our parents too....really sir u have immensely reduce my guilt of not able to do enough for my in laws as i may be unable to satisfy them till their satisfaction...
Sir do make a video on when wives don't want babies before one is mentally and emotionally ready but in-laws or husband wants and how to convince them?
Sir next video me mere problem ka solution dijiye , join family me the ab separate flat me hai taki mai exam ka preparation karne ke liye , bacche ko sambhalte huye, joint family me the tab i was doing private school me thi , COVID aya job chuti , and tab decided ki govt karungi job , tab to sath diya and resign Kiya job , bt jaise job chodi to bacche ko dekhna chod diya bole ki maa ghar pe hai , and jethani ka baccha de diya ki isko bhi dekho ab as unko tranfer karwa diya bol bolke , wo job pe hai , mujhe bhi to padhna tha , ab same area me flat liya hai to unko humare sath rehke jethani ka baccha dekhna hai , and seva mujhse karwani hai , mera time time ni hai kya , i jst asked ki ap unke sath raho till my exams ya apne ghar pe rahiye jo 1/2 hr ke dur pe hai , till my exams uske baad mere sath raho , jhagde ho gaye , ab mujhse baat ni karte , judge karte hai , mai soti rehti hu ki galat to ni kiya , wat should I do ? Kya usne mafi mangu , abhi manga to fir mujhe time se sacrifice karna padega and life time regret hoga ki exam pe 100% ni diya , and ni mafi mangi to gussa aur badh jayega ,
I m answering this ...just hearing your first answer......if I could have my way I have suggested many times let them live with us not on ground floor with us but on first floor. I will do all that I did for my daughter bring up my son's kids like I did for my daughter.
Came across your videos a few days ago and I find them hilarious as well as truths that everyone needs to hear. Wishing you good luck and hope this channel reaches millions more.
Humare gharmein hum log upar niche rehte hai. Mere father in law niche kyunki unhone khud apni privacy and space jaroori hai. Hum log khush hai alag alag floor pe. Khana peena niche FIL k sath. Tutu main main hoti hai jaisi apne mummy papa jaise but with respect 😊
In our society few things or topics have been labeled as sacred like parents, in laws etc. Many parents are so materialistic and selfish that they just think about themselves and keep torturing their kids for not following what they say. Parents should not treat their kids as some sort of investment that'll give them returns in old age.
The irony of the fact is Everybody wants Something Extra that they never gave Anybody. Having compassion for others is fine but your purse should permit it and you should earn it sensibly when the time and energy is favourable. To be in one's own Circle without expecting anything in return for whatever good you do to others, is best to be Happy.
Brilliant! Guidance & replies! You're a superb marriage Councillor. Share your marital counselling videos with my friends. We're confused how to handle these situations. Since we're in our 60's so new to have become mother in laws. We love your out spoken modern views. We do think like you but needed a guiding star like you for enlightenment...🙏🌺❣🙌
I also have a brother, who is not serious about his life. And he is alcoholic and starts a business and close it by putting us on debt. And I'm the elder brother, I'm serious and earn a handsome amount. But my money is wasting in paying his debt. My parents compel me to help my brother.
Please go away from your parents if they insists you to support younger brother who is addicted and good for nothing. As sangoji says' Hum janam se jude hai, karam se nahi' . Give emotional and physical support to parents. Look after their needs . But never give money. They give it to your brother. See video by Sangoji, barabar karna
Sir mera q to 1 hai..agar ghar me sas kuch dino k bad hi aati hai gaon se but achanaj se koi chij unko pasand nhi aati aur bolna band kar deti hai...samaz me nhi aata ki q mu fulake baithi hai...puchho to reason to nhi batayegi pr gusse k mood me aa jayegi...how to behave in such situation..as it affects my mental peace...ghar me hasi mjak ka mahol ho to achha lgta hai
I have observed in my family too. The parents will get hold of the emotionally and financially weakest child for their rest of their lives. So that the child may never leave them and take care of them. Parenthood is about giving and not about selfishness. Parents must remember that they are not the creator of life i.e. a child. Hum bas ek zariya jiske through life bankar ayi hai.
Next door rehena aacha . Family knite tou jaruri hai .Eskee value jaruri hai.Yeh kessy kee jai. Communication with regard of each other is necessary. What u have to say..jab tak taket hai dheek hai .after this who is to care.of very senior citizen. This needs to be addressed
Very true ..aaise parents hai apne pass jo hai uske alawa ek bete ki jeb bhi khali karwa ke dusre ke ghar bhar rahe hai ..marte dam tak Isai me hi lage hai
aap ki ek video thee how sell old property par video or audio quality was not so good but content was good, if you can manage time and looking into current scenario plz make again I promise to share on my timeline. Thank you so much
Sir, I am age 38 and in a government service for last 11 years at multiple cities never met a guru like you who have such an immense knowledge and understanding of so many aspects of life. I am learning from you from last 1 year and learned so much about true meaning of better, happy and fulfilling life . Thanx a lot for everything Guruji 🙏.
Same age, same feelings
Amit ji kamal ke topics select kiye hai aapne. Lagta hai jaise mere liye hi aapne ye video banai hai.
You described all topics from the bottom of your heart and mind in simple words which other people answer very diplomatically or hipocratically.
@@OP-wo1ku tumko kuch ghantaa samajh nahi aayega. Rehne de rss waale
Same here 1984 production with similar feelings.
As an independent working woman, I can’t see myself receiving “SEVA” from my kids at any age… I’m planning to work until 75, and I want my kids to have their own homes and lives.
Same here
Billi aankh moond kar doodh pee rahi thi .. aapne aankhe kholna chaaloo kar diya hai .. Bahut Bahut Dhanyawaad.
Pahela me satsang jayada suniti thi ab aap ko sunne se achha lagta h keep it up
Logon ke hissab se to larke ki shadi ke baad jab bahu aa jati hai tabhi maa baap ko apni seva karwana yaad aata hai .Uss se pehle maa baap apne bete ki seva karte hain .Real truth of Indian life .
maa baap jaise bete ki seva karte hai yadi usi terah bahu ko bhi apna beta manle to ye seva ka chakker hi khatam ho jaye
😂😂 बहू की भी सेवा ma बाप को करनी चाहिए।
आपका दुख😢😢
आप की बात हमेशा वास्तविकता के करीब है हमे भी ऐसा सोचने पर मजबूर करती बच्चे नही समझते हम समझे पर बच्चो को समझ नही आ रहा बोलते हमारी इज्जत नही रहेगी , ओर खुद भी अकेले नही रह सकते उन्हें भी हमारा साथ चाहिए
Please ignore the haters. We need more Indian men like you.
Parenthood is overrated! Nobody would have dared to say this. You Sir are putting across something that's going through in numerous minds. Continue to make such videos.. We love to see your content🤗
Sir you are way ahead of your time! I wish the seniors of this country start thinking like you! Hats off. 🙏🏻
Sir aapne 100 percent shi bol rhe ho apne india m aadhe riste ladke ki maa ki vjh se toot jate h Or badnaam ladki ki maa ko krte h
Very true. Agree on all counts. All the points are practically right but difficult to execute. Keep the good work. 🙏🙏
Wow sir ji you have so clarity of thoughts. Aap jhakjhor dete ho insaan ko. Aaj mere andar ki guilt nikal di aapne. Thanks alot 🙏
Very very much AGREE WITH YOU. All logics are Very much True.. Very Nice Video... 👌👌💯🙏
Sir you speaks reality .Never listened such type of videos before ,you are doing commendable job 🙏
Sir really you are breaking the old school belief system but really ur content is original and unique I recommend all should watch videos. Also being a Jat myself I feel amaze the kind of different thinking / mindset & clarity in life you have being a JaT... Great Contents
Your subscribers are growing by more than 1000 per day. Congratulations 🎊
No words Very True. Iss cheez ki toh guarantee hai ki Majedar insaan toh bna doge aap.. 🙏🏻
By these videos you are not only helping elder people but also preparing younger generation, who will get married in future and have kids, to decide the right path and avoid all the kalesh to live a happy life.
Good perspective for both new and old generations. Thanks sir
Excellent view points. After a long time saw someone who has similar views. Look forward to your sessions.
Thank you sir.Almost all of your vedios are helping me to get clarity over the issues you discuss thereby empowering me with the knowledge and wisdom useful to deal with my own personal problems.
Thanks Amit Ji
Love all your videos
Straight hammering on the root cause according to present situation 🙏🙏
Very nicely said. Can be easily changed and adapted. Good approach. All 5 applicable
Great Content sir. India mein 99% parents bas bache paida karna ata hai but Parenting nahi ata. We have to change this.
Excellent. These are real issues of life. People should focus on these issues. This will lead one to bliss. Congratulatioñs to this pragmatic speaker.
Sir I find your videos very interesting where you speak truth. It may sound odd to many but people should change as and when society evolves.
Excellent. Ardently believe in same philosophy. You are right parenthood is overrated. Boys are taught that their mother is Niruparoy.
Please make a video on " meri maa bimaar rehti h" Feeding by mothers to all their sons cribbing all the time about their health and gaining sympathy and boys also sing same song to their wives.
Thirdly I also say that "apni biwiyon ke boote pe sab shrawankumar bane huye hai". Though they can't look after themselves. You can cover this topic also.
I am a strong working women having two young daughters who are still not married. People might think I support this because I have girls.
All the best. Keep guiding these maa ke laadlon ko and so called beemaar mothers ko.
Amit Sir, lots of respect from Pakistan. I accidentally stumbled upon your videos today. They're so interesting n real, that this video, is 3rd in a row, that I m watching now. Your videos are based upon facts, though some portions are quite amusing 😆, loved it. You speak from heart n like a Bara bhai, your problem analysis n solutions, are Gold. I felt like I m sitting right next to u, n u r updating my brain software. Thank u very much for sharing your knowledge. I recently inherited some wealth. Immediately, I bought some gold bricks n 1000 SqYrds plot in a very good society, just to shield myself against inflation. I m already in a "+ zone". Now I m conducting my research, what to do next. I'll be listening to u very carefully n try to learn from you. You are welcome to Lahore, Pakistan. keep smiling.
I'm glad I found this channel
Sir..your knowledge is soo deep . I really like to hear you..and getting lots of clarity about different aspect of life.
Mr Sangwan,you are absolutely right.That is what should be the attitude in the modern era.Me too believe in the same and as a doctor counsel my patients similarly when they put across the same problem before me.
Arey gazab sir ji.... I feel good hearing u always... Confirmation milta hai ki sahi hi soch re hain hum... N nichey kicha jata hai.. Jabardasti ki guilt trip pe dalne ki koshish kartey hain log
Bahut kuch samajh mein aaya aap ko sunne ke baad . Bahut acchi tarah se samjhate hain aap .
Bahut knowledge hai sir ap ka world ka
You ideas should be converted into policies or reforms to help the youth 🙏. Most of the senior citizens are not happy with their children as their expectations are too high. They make sure that children always feel that they are not SRAVAN KUMAR 😪
Waoooo. So true and blunt. We are facing exactly the same situation with parents
Sir, the point of staying close by and not under the same roof has to be understood by the parents. The children already want it but can’t accept it openly.
What you speak is the reality of life which ever one can accept it i am really impressed 👌
Lovely advice sir.....would it be possible for you to make a video on how to arrive at the correct value of your old home for sale purposes, how to negotiate and other important things to keep in mind
Wrong or right is different point - I can decide if I want to head them. But speaking tough things openly is commendable. Thank you sir ji for speaking your mind.
One of my friends once said- Love & care in a family tree flows top to bottom, now i can relate it. My dad loved me, i love my son, my son will love his son.
Or daughter
@sango 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@SangoLifeSutras 💀 lekin daughter to praya dhan hota hai
Excellent sir. Enjoying your videos. Really needs a lot of guts to say all this.
Aap ka bichar mentality mujhse match kerta hai.jabse aap ka vidio dekha hai man ko bahut Shanti milti hai.
Sirji...i am a working mother and a daughter in law living with my in laws alone with my daughter...i really admire your courage and broad view of life at the same age as of our parents too....really sir u have immensely reduce my guilt of not able to do enough for my in laws as i may be unable to satisfy them till their satisfaction...
Same with me
North Indians are not ready to discuss on these topics. Elderly people wants to get undue advantage.
Amazing Sir... Claps for you from Mumbai
Sir do make a video on when wives don't want babies before one is mentally and emotionally ready but in-laws or husband wants and how to convince them?
Pehli baar kisi nay indian sanskar ka asli face dikhaya no body talked about vanprastha
main house wife hun fir bhi bachhe bigade hue hai
next door is the best thing if you can afford. No one wants to do this. This is the best way to stay connected and give each other space as well.
Good vedio...make a vedio for defence personnel....
Sir next video me mere problem ka solution dijiye , join family me the ab separate flat me hai taki mai exam ka preparation karne ke liye , bacche ko sambhalte huye, joint family me the tab i was doing private school me thi , COVID aya job chuti , and tab decided ki govt karungi job , tab to sath diya and resign Kiya job , bt jaise job chodi to bacche ko dekhna chod diya bole ki maa ghar pe hai , and jethani ka baccha de diya ki isko bhi dekho ab as unko tranfer karwa diya bol bolke , wo job pe hai , mujhe bhi to padhna tha , ab same area me flat liya hai to unko humare sath rehke jethani ka baccha dekhna hai , and seva mujhse karwani hai , mera time time ni hai kya , i jst asked ki ap unke sath raho till my exams ya apne ghar pe rahiye jo 1/2 hr ke dur pe hai , till my exams uske baad mere sath raho , jhagde ho gaye , ab mujhse baat ni karte , judge karte hai , mai soti rehti hu ki galat to ni kiya , wat should I do ? Kya usne mafi mangu , abhi manga to fir mujhe time se sacrifice karna padega and life time regret hoga ki exam pe 100% ni diya , and ni mafi mangi to gussa aur badh jayega ,
I m answering this ...just hearing your first answer......if I could have my way I have suggested many times let them live with us not on ground floor with us but on first floor. I will do all that I did for my daughter bring up my son's kids like I did for my daughter.
Thank you so much for enlightening us 🙌
Came across your videos a few days ago and I find them hilarious as well as truths that everyone needs to hear. Wishing you good luck and hope this channel reaches millions more.
Yes
Hats of you sir all the things you tell are really practical . Iam big fan of you.
Humare gharmein hum log upar niche rehte hai. Mere father in law niche kyunki unhone khud apni privacy and space jaroori hai.
Hum log khush hai alag alag floor pe. Khana peena niche FIL k sath. Tutu main main hoti hai jaisi apne mummy papa jaise but with respect 😊
I am completely agree with your thoughts 🙏🙏
Excellent thought process
In our society few things or topics have been labeled as sacred like parents, in laws etc. Many parents are so materialistic and selfish that they just think about themselves and keep torturing their kids for not following what they say.
Parents should not treat their kids as some sort of investment that'll give them returns in old age.
Sir. Wish I could arrange a talk session between my father and u. You can change him to be better.
Great 👍
Quite informative
🙏superb....ur knowledge gives great insight towards life
Found your channel today and I am hooked. Thanks for your education.
Practice makes man permanent......most of fathers are helpless to crash old believe system....... simply they are selfish
💯% correct practical topics..thanks alot 🙏
The irony of the fact is Everybody wants Something Extra that they never gave Anybody. Having compassion for others is fine but your purse should permit it and you should earn it sensibly when the time and energy is favourable. To be in one's own Circle without expecting anything in return for whatever good you do to others, is best to be Happy.
your topic is very excellent. I love all your episodes you are the best teacher.
You are right Sir. Nobody is discussing about this problem.
Really worth watching your vedios
by God meri Haryanavai makaan malkin ne yahi baat boli thi manney.
Ladkiya te nu hi pal jaao hain.
Ladkon ki parvarish karni padey hai😂😂
Bohot acha video hai aapka, ver deep and true👍
Excellent narrative, wisdom at its best.
Sir I request you to do a video on having single or two child.
Thanku Sir 😊
Already done
Better make a video on whether one deserves to have kids or not
@@fasttube1948 deserve kya hota he
Brilliant! Guidance & replies! You're a superb marriage Councillor. Share your marital counselling videos with my friends. We're confused how to handle these situations. Since we're in our 60's so new to have become mother in laws. We love your out spoken modern views. We do think like you but needed a guiding star like you for enlightenment...🙏🌺❣🙌
Aapka bolne ka tareeka bilkul hamare ghar k logo jesa h. 😊😀😀
I also have a brother, who is not serious about his life. And he is alcoholic and starts a business and close it by putting us on debt. And I'm the elder brother, I'm serious and earn a handsome amount. But my money is wasting in paying his debt. My parents compel me to help my brother.
Please go away from your parents if they insists you to support younger brother who is addicted and good for nothing. As sangoji says' Hum janam se jude hai, karam se nahi' . Give emotional and physical support to parents. Look after their needs . But never give money. They give it to your brother.
See video by Sangoji, barabar karna
Neeche wala upar nhi Aa sakta to upar wale ko neechne wale parents mene bi observe Kiya Hai.
Agar Saadi hi naakore to keisa he? Population explosion to yeise hi hei
You are right, middle class mentality is sometimes a big hypocrisy
Very well articulated discussion sir🙏
Sir.....I really appreciate your long sighted ness
All appear correct.
Very true.. I have suffered a lot and still suffering.
Your all point are right but is difficult to execute.
Yes easy to breed like animals but difficult to fulfill responsibilities
So true👌🏻👌🏻 Nailed it sirji🙏🏻😅
Sir mera q to 1 hai..agar ghar me sas kuch dino k bad hi aati hai gaon se but achanaj se koi chij unko pasand nhi aati aur bolna band kar deti hai...samaz me nhi aata ki q mu fulake baithi hai...puchho to reason to nhi batayegi pr gusse k mood me aa jayegi...how to behave in such situation..as it affects my mental peace...ghar me hasi mjak ka mahol ho to achha lgta hai
Every word stands true ..too gud but still many do not want to change their mindset and accept the positive change .
Hats off to you sir😇😇😇😇
I am house wife
That I only regret
But it was only my weakness or negative point
I totally understand and think like you
I have so many dushman
You are an inspiration to us all and you should be immensely proud of your success. Few guys will provoke you inspite of liking your videos. Cheer up
Dandwat pranam guruji🙏
I have observed in my family too. The parents will get hold of the emotionally and financially weakest child for their rest of their lives. So that the child may never leave them and take care of them.
Parenthood is about giving and not about selfishness.
Parents must remember that they are not the creator of life i.e. a child.
Hum bas ek zariya jiske through life bankar ayi hai.
All 5 points are practically applicable 🙏
Next door rehena aacha .
Family knite tou jaruri hai .Eskee value jaruri hai.Yeh kessy kee jai. Communication with regard of each other is necessary. What u have to say..jab tak taket hai dheek hai .after this who is to care.of very senior citizen. This needs to be addressed
Very nice video sir, bahut log dukhi hai inhi karno se
Very true ..aaise parents hai apne pass jo hai uske alawa ek bete ki jeb bhi khali karwa ke dusre ke ghar bhar rahe hai ..marte dam tak Isai me hi lage hai
aap ki ek video thee how sell old property par video or audio quality was not so good but content was good, if you can manage time and looking into current scenario plz make again I promise to share on my timeline. Thank you so much
Now I found the person who have the same view point with me
All five applicable
My views have always been like urs but societal conditioning / societal pressure is so huge ki u start doubting ur thought process .......