Similar to how there's certain women who gravitate towards toxic men. Destiny is the same way, where he gets off on the thrill of being around the cute toxic girl archetype.
That's a common talking point but it's not how anyone works in reality. Some mental disorders can make you more social and amiable and clout attracts people with unstable emotional needs trying to fill that void. Everyone wants to think they're special but we're all just reacting to our traumas, you included.
@@vyvianalcott1681 I would disagree. Most people who select partners and friends are different from how Destiny selects them. Most people will cut off bad/toxic friends and relationships because staying in them is too mentally draining and unhealthy. But Steven's mind works differently, where he enjoys the drama and seeks thrill from the stress that comes with it. He even stated this when it comes to debates, most people don't actually enjoy debating because it's extremely stress inducing, and the aftermath is not fun to deal with. But Destiny actually enjoys the stress and aftermath
Some people can’t help but criticise others because of their internal issues. They also recognise that criticising others doesn’t look good and it also doesn’t make them feel good so they cover it up like Brittany is with that statement.
@ivansmirnoff6987 Hate a strong word, we shouldn’t just use that word all the time when you dislike someone. You should use something more subtle, but that’s okay, I still love you
@@edwinbaca2744 It's understandable though. Brittany is actually not unique in her behaviour and anyone who's had someone like that in their life for any amount of time will feel hatred for that kind of cancerous person. She's a positivity vampire lol
Does anyone remember the first convo Destiny had with TOL? It was absolutely insane. To think that they would become mutuals and hear her taking up for him as wild. if you haven’t listened, find it!
It's starting to feel like Destiny actually just chooses mentally ill people to hang out with, which will inevitably cause chaos; because at some point there will be some conflict where he can rationalise himself more soundly and then end up looking like the bastion of morality and common sense when recounting his actions to his stream.
@0_oblivion_02 He seems to speak with that 10% a lot, hanging out with them in real life and going as far as to have sex with some of them. You can ride him as much as you want, but it's obvious these are the types of people he chooses to let into his life.
Destiny going off about line cooking just brings back some beautiful busy memories- I have 5 years of line cooking experience and everything he said is right, many line cooks I've worked with couldn't make a damn grilled cheese sandwich at home if their lives depended on it. In a professional kitchen you're essentially just putting the dish together as almost everything on the line is ready to be placed on a plate and assembled- that is why it's much different than cooking at home where you're going through the steps, waiting and engaging in the entire process.
Yep on a kitchen line everything is already hot, you’re not waiting for the griddle to warm up, also cooks eat garbage at home it is the classic once you get paid to do something you don’t do it for free
@@LizStaplesi am a chef and i dont cook at home because i hate the clean up at home and i dont have someone to do my dishes haha and the kitchen is dogshit haha
@@DeanStorm28 oh yeah the three compartment sink and industrial dishwasher goes a long way on its own, the guy to actually man it so you don’t have to, priceless.
sales is the most mind bending job. I only worked B2C remote sales for 2 months but man was it a trip and a half.. made amazing money but had the gut reaching anxiety all day . what made me quit was even though I was the best new sales person they had (3-5th place each week for sale) my manager still wouldnt get off my back, looking back i know its because he wanted me to become an actual assassin but man all that made me fold I wont even lie
The skills are transferable though, at least. It can really help one's social life to know how to sell themselves. That power can be highly abused as well unfortunately.
@@Naptosis there are some people who get broken by sales though. if your not confident your not going to get sales and the less sales you get the less confident you get.. I had a friend that was a little bit of a "loser" before sales but after that job its like he couldnt talk to people any more and any disagreement would lead to him just leaving the convo.
People underestimate the power of comedy fr. The chat must get nooooo social interactions. When i was a kid/teen the most popular guys were ugly but fucking hilarious so they always got girlfriends, etc. I befriended them because their social skills were so good. They could talk to anyone. It takes good social skills to be funny.
Idk if I would say the most popular we all ugly lmao. Most guys who spend a decent amount of time around women are probably more likely to take care of themselves, add in that they are probably more social and funny, its not surprising they are popular with women. You don't even have to be necessarily funny, just have a sense of humor and find friend groups where you can just be *normal* around women. Even if you aren't the "funny" guy in the group you can still have decent success with ladies.
Lady arguing about being fired is right in my opinion. It's not about being fired or not, but the way they communicate it. These idiots came up with some bullshit corporate we fire you formula saying that she didn't meet their performance expectations, where according to what she said she was meeting all the expectations that her manager set up for her. It's like hiring someone to work on renovations in your house and then running out of money and telling them that you don't want them to work for you anymore because their work sucks, even though you have been praising them before. Just say what the issue is and be done with it, or work on better speech to give to your ex employee.
He wasn’t paying attention in the beginning and dgg went full “she’s trying to be a girl boss” misogyny shit they see when someone wants to actually get answers to her termination.
Yeah I agree. I’ve only been fired one time in a white collar job and it was not a surprise. My manager made it very clear for a couple months leading up to it that I was not meeting performance expectations. It’s really shitty to think that her manager was telling her this whole time that she was performing as expected and then to up and get fired is horrible communication on the managers side. Manager probably has no spine which is evident that they weren’t even in the meeting.
Friend, sales employment works differently than other jobs. This worker was not a permanent FTE. She was in what’s called a “90-day probationary period.” That means she’s being EVALUATED for conversion to a full time permanent position. Technically, legally, they didn’t “terminate” her. They just decided not to convert (keep) her. Sales divisions are notorious for what she’s calling “over-hiring” where they put tons of people in a probationary period. Those who don’t perform - close sales- get cut. That’s what happened to her. Something like a performance improvement plan (PIP) is only used for permanent FTEs, meaning longterm full time employees who were performing well but their performance decreased. If you never perform well enough to get converted to FTE status, like this girl, why would the company waste time on a PIP?
When they tell her she’s getting fired for her “performance” and can’t say a single aspect for what her performance was when she was getting positive feedback from who she’s been working under all the way up to this. She wants them to admit the truth that she’s being laid off because they hired too many people not her performance which is something that’s going to be forwarded to her next employer that she was fired for not meeting performance expectations. Which is or isn’t true, and when they can’t tell you why you’re fired at the meeting where you’re being fired. That fuckin sucks.
this is so obvious but destiny has to get his anti left circlejerk going after seeing a young woman express frustration with her employer i guess lol. even started making up communist motivations she must’ve had for recording the video
The thing with the girl getting fired is straight up there's legal differences between layoffs and getting fired for performance. They're claiming she's getting fired for performance, she is trying to get them to say something to admit that it isn't, because otherwise she may not be eligible for unemployment.
@@connellyboyle1 yes they're allowed to fire you, but a lot of states will deny you unemployment benefits if you're fired "for cause", which includes performance issues. I've seen lots of companies pull some shady shit to create documentation that the employee was fired for cause so they wouldn't have to deal with an unemployment claim. Basically if you're being told you're fired for cause, but the cause doesn't make sense, you should always interrogate that claim.
@@streetninja510 right, which is why she should ask clarifying questions. If she's had nothing but good feedback from her manager and then suddenly is told she's being let go for performance, that may be a sign that the company is trying to get away with doing layoffs without having to fulfill the legal obligations
For the steak doneness discussion, I worked the broiler for a few years cooking a 100 steaks a night. We had 2 cuts a NY strip or a Filet mignon, they feel completely different but you can learn the temperature by feel. Anyone learning can use a meat thermometer to correlate the doneness to the feel.
If I propose to a group of friends- "do you guys want to go bowling this Saturday evening?" And they reply back "if you want to," I would think it's something they do not want to do, but are willing to do so as a favor to me. I think that's a normal opinion to have a about that response. If I ask someone out on a date, and they respond "if you want to," I'm already put off believing they don't want to go on a date for the same reasons, and with the same amount of interest I do. If I invite anyone anywhere, it is implied that "I want to" by me through the invitation. Why is that hard for Destiny? Lol
But also, people should understand that it's okay to take something that you really want (like going bowling) if the other person is easy about it, and will likely enjoy themselves as part of it too. Some people are just terminally indecisive and let life happen to them like a leaf in the wind. 🔥🪰🍃
I usually say "if you want to" because I generally don't want to do _most_ things. For me, to have fun doing anything will always depend on the person I am with. So you can't possibly suggest to me to do something that's going to sound like something I would want to do. Instead, I will only do anything provided the other person I am with wants to do it. That's why I say "if you want to". And in that case, I will do almost anything provided it's not too dangerous.
The reason its upsetting to lose your job after 3 months can be for a variety of reasons. Did you have to move to a new location? How much of your life did you need to change for the job? Did you have to sell your house, sign a year lease with an expected income, etc etc
Maybe so, but all of your reasons seem quite likely to not be the case here. She's getting laid off remotely, implying she is probably working remotely as well.
Oh, what a surprise, Destiny gets yet another person completely wrong when everyone else warns him otherwise. This is playground stuff, this isn't interesting.
Totally wrong take in the ghosting. As someone who’s been on both ends it’s messed up. Only acceptable if you think the other person is unhinged and will go more crazy talking than not responded too
It also consistently makes dating & interactions with people worse overall in the long-term. Yes, a man is likely to not be receptive if you tell him straight up, but if a girl does, it's completely in his hands what to do with that information after getting it. If she communicates what was wrong, & says she's not interested in talking further, she's done her part. Not communicating & just ghosting, kicks the can down the road for the next girl to deal with, instead of telling the guy what the issue was.
That, and if the dude really is unhinged, you run into what Hunter did recently where the dude can show up with a shotgun and start blasting at the next guy.@@IAmTheBugInsideYou
I once woke up from a coma in hospital to a complete Shakespearean tragedy played out in my texts and emails from a girl I went on 2 dates with. That's the only time I felt acceptable to ghost someone; when I was almost a ghost.
I think the soft friend-zone talk is better than ghosting. You can say it in a way where most ppl will understand, like “I’m super busy with work but I hope we can stay friends” Now if you’re dealing with someone who’s arguing or unable to process that, just mute notifications for a while. Don’t ignore them forever, but at least a week or 2 so they can let it sink in. Plus, you’ve just told them you’re too busy for drama/ a relationship, so the last thing to do is engage in lengthy emotional back-n-forth
When destiny says from what he heard about sales and anecdotes, what he really means is he watched wolf of wallstreet once and now basis his whole understanding of those jobs off that movie
@@daytripper1023i saw him talking about african countries 'economies and how to grow them once with fuentes and i almost lost it. he says the most ignorant shit with so much confidence . cant believe racist ass nick fuentes was way more logical and more knowledgeable about the continent than him
@@daytripper1023 the problem is Destenie has clearly not worked in any jobs besides the only few that he has so he should just stick to those topics when the majority of his viewers have worked in array of jobs, and is very obvious that he’s so missing that because he’s out of the loop.. if he doesn’t know about sales why is he so harshly talking about this woman like she’s doing something wrong when he’s never worked in sales a day in his life.. in my opinion, she wasn’t wrong. She was trying to protect herself because it’s possible that they won’t allow her to get unemployment, considering that they they fired her via her performance. But Destenie will just say get over it that’s capitalism that’s not the reality of people living day-to-day. We actually have to suffer because of these companies don’t care about people he doesn’t have to deal with that.
I have more respect for Brittany straight up leaking DMs than Destiny consistently doing this weasel tactic of alluding to people doing bad things. "now, if I WANTED to leak some wild INSANE stuff I COULD...but I'm not GOING TO because I'm BETTER THAN THAT....well should I say more? Nahhh....Unless...."
Ah yes, so much more respect for being petty and trying to expose people for having normal conversations with you that you see in the worst light. Brittany really is just a better person.
but he doesn't have anything on brittany lol? they weren't intimate friends from her pov. so he wouldn't know anything different than most of the internet or her community
As a manager, the part i dread most is having to fire someone because it affects their lively hood. Sadge that I'm so privileged that all i need to do is get to work on time
I didn’t know TreeOfLogic and Chaeiry were analyzing Brittany so hard. It might be possible that there was a little bit of coercion on Brittany’s end in that slapping bit. I can see Tree’s point.
Tree was speaking from the point of view of BDSM ethics. From that point of view, the slap was highly questionable. Edit: Brittany has framed herself as an authority on BDSM safety and info. The fact that she is doing questionable BDSM stuff is a relevant critique.
I remember my flip phone had a way to lock it, but it wasn't secure at all. You simply held down the "Reject Call" button for like 3-5 seconds. It would then lock all other inputs until you held Reject Call again. But there wasn't a password or anything. All a person would need to do is just hold the button down and get access
The days Destiny worked in the kitchen vs his obsession with Factorial. Explains a lot. A lot of his behaviour today is explained by events during high school and his work at the casinos.
25:05 God Damn even at 14 you gravitated towards the absolute worst women around. Cheating on her boyfriend with you and not even an ounce of shame from either of you😂 everything bad that happens in your relationships are 100% understandable and deserving tbh.
Bit extreme to say if you home wreck a highschool relation than you deserve every bad thing that ever happens in your relationship forever. Ngl its hard to feel bad for something that happened over 20 years ago and ultimately doesn't matter anymore to any of them involved.
51:21 This is a really good way of explaining this. This is something that a lot of people don’t understand. They blame women for not being assertive enough and they blame men for being too pushy. But it’s really both. We need to stop raising and conditioning girls to be so agreeable, especially when it comes to men. And we need to teach boys how to recognize when women are showing signs of feeling uncomfortable and hesitant and how to differ them from awkwardness and shyness (especially with younger, inexperienced women). But women don’t know how to say no without feeling “bad” for hurting a guys feelings or feeling like she’s letting him down and now she owes it to him because he’s expecting it and also, many guys don’t either realize when a girls uncomfortable OR they flat out don’t care and take advantage of women who are clearly uncomfortable but because she’s not flat out saying no or running away, he pushes anyways very well knowing she doesn’t really want to but now he knows she can’t cry assault because she didn’t verbally say no.
I have BPD and if I feel abandoned I shut down entirely and you'll never hear another word from me again unless you reach out. I'm sure others are different but not everyone is the same either.
I don't understand fully what's happening but Tree is hotter than Brittany so I have to side with her;) But I think she is right for the most part. Brittany is pretty scummy. Reminds me of the musical number "your not good your just nice" very much describes people like Brittany. Negotiating while horny is the same as negotiating while drunk. Also yes food thermometers are the norm & great. Yes there are things you can look for to tell doneness but you are ultimately guessing. Also it only causes food to leak if you use it improperly. Roasts turkeys ect your supposed to leave it in until the meat is done resting. After a rest the meat will have reabsorbed it's fluid.
You are right! Tree is hotter than Brittany! The Amazonian queen! Nah, but for real, I hated Tree in the beginning, but even though we diverge in politics she seems to be a pretty cool person.
@@xeedflarian9748 same she grew on me pretty fast. I think is a pretty good example of a sane modern sex positive conservative. Which I guess is why Tim Pool smeared her as a radical feminist lol.
A meat thermometer is for a mid-tier cook or a decent home cook. A new cook that doesn't use one is going to cook it wrong, a decent cook will get it perfect every time with a thermometer, a good cook will get it within 5°F by feel.
@@Lazlo-os1pu absolutely every single woman Destenie hangs out with he has intentions on sleeping with, so why are you acting like you don’t know this..
One of my first jobs was in sales. Destiny is absolutely right, everybody who works sales Willingly is EVIL, scum of the earth. I was selling the Rainbow vacuum at $1875.00. The company pitch was to call the boss midway through and ask for a "discount" for the customer, there was NEVER a discount, it ALWAYS costs $1875! They wanted me to lie to strangers. Then they asked me to sell to my family and friends and lie to them too! Needless to say, I didn't even last a week. Building a life from lies? I'd rather mine lithium with my hands in Africa! LOL
IT professionals personal experience: IT sales are a rotating door of hell, and a lot of success is luck based. I don't even read vendor emails. I go shop when I need something, and whoever I get on the phone first is lucky #1 for that sale. If you want to work in a career like this, specifically in the IT/SaaS/PaaS kind of space, have 2 or 3 contacts that can line you up another job on speed dial.
@@Sue_Me_Too I like that. You let them know up front you intend to leave at a certain point. That has the added benefit of having the employer aggressively try to keep you if they don't want to lose you.
@@Dempun985 honestly it's a great company and I'd like to work for them long term, but the cost of living in this area just isn't worth it. There are absolute tons of openings in my field (welding) so I can get a pretty good job pretty much anywhere, and a lot of those are cheaper places to live.
@@kuroichan101 I've been on both ends of the spectrum: I've given notice, quit and then gotten that job back later - with a raise. I've also walked out of jobs mid-shift and never looked back.
Lmao the grant cardone video where he says “you’re supposed to be my best guy, right?” Then completely fucks up the salesperson in the middle of a sales call lmao
58:19 YES. All of this. Just because you can see that I’ve read your letter, with your magical binoculars, doesn’t mean I have the time, energy or mental space to respond to you right now; that doesn’t give you the right to watch me with those magical binoculars and then get pissy when I don’t immediately respond to your letter. I have a life outside of responding to you. If we’re in the middle of a back and forth, sure, it can be weird if I or you disappear without explanation - but if it’s a random message and I look at it, it doesn’t mean I’m going to respond just because your letter has flown into my hands and I go, “Oh, hey, what does this say?” because it might be urgent. I turn off read receipts on everything I can because who the fuck cares? Crazy, manipulative, obsessive people care; go away and let me respond when I’m ready - not when you want me to. If you want something to respond to you when you want it to, we have chat GPT now; go nuts. I’m a person, let me live.
are u braindead? if u have the time to open and read something then you have the time to respond. 9 time out of 10 ur just trying to ego someone and act like u have more important things going on when if that was the case, you wouldnt have opened and read the message in the first place.
31:39 This is unironically Sitcom, or comedy romance movie material. DIdn't Destiny discuss making a similar production to what the conservatives have with Daily wire? This should absolutely get adopted into a fully produced movie, with a bunch of streamer cameos xD. This could actually blow the fuck up.
as someone with bpd Steve gets what the problem with it is he just handles it in the worst way possible. just dont talk to people with it if you dont have the time for them saves you and them from hurt
I find there's 3 things to master in cooking and you can make most meals: cut things evenly and quickly, cook your meat/veggies to your taste, and get down seasoning. Master these 3 things and you can make a lot of dishes. You only need certain cooking techniques for more specific things like making eggs or doing really complex dishes.
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the fucking messaging bullshit is absolutely a trigger for me. except for me (maybe most women) it's the incessant followup messages trying to bait a response or make you feel obligated through guilt trip and sad sack fuckery. it took me a while to accept that i am fully allowed to leave someone on read and if they are going to be a bitch about it, i tell them stop being a fucking bitch about it. they weed themselves out or learn to respect a simple fucking boundary. I'm not angry i just cuss this much when i talk and i'm typing in stream of consciousness. peace and love
Bro that Jazz Class story was pure gold. LOL! Then you went and saw V for Vendetta as well. Which is ironic when you think about it. She had a Vendetta to slap you that night then she came out of the closet the day after watching that movie. If you remember in that film, Natalie Portman while in the fake prison, the thing that kept her from going insane was the letters left behind from a lesbian. If you remember it was a major plot point in the flick. That's wild dude!
In the US if you have a high position like an exec or dept head(for example) you can't just up and quit in most circumstances. You can be sued for damages as a result of you just up and leaving. Most employment contracts at that level require a minimum notice to resign.
We use a thermometer, especially for chicken. We cook for hundreds of people a day and we use the thermometer to make sure the middle of the meat is at the right cooking temperature to ensure the entire meat is cooked properly lol we only use it when cooking large pcs of meat. It's also a health code violation (in my area at least) to not use it if the inspector happens to be there. And the inspector always comes during lunch prep
For normal home cooking, you don't really need a meat thermometer. With experience, you can tell when meat is done enough. However... If you want to elevate your cooking, you should use a thermometer. When you're cooking casually, you tend to overcook meat just to be safe. But if you want the perfect result, you want to be getting to exactly your target temp without going over by much. This will result in the juiciest, most tender meat. So in reality, a meat thermometer isn't really to make sure you're not undercooking. Any somewhat experienced chef can do that just by slightly overcooking. You really use to make sure you don't overcook
The girl getting fired like that does have a case. I’m familiar with performance management and what he said about the employee should never be surprised is true. If she was not doing well and her manager failed to inform her, coach her on what she needs to change and the opportunity she deserves to make them then the manager failed the employee and failed the company. My company, a market leader, has an HR department that would send any request to terminate back if the employee performance logs didnt show repeated efforts to correct the behavior that led to the request to terminate. HR is there to protect the employees and ensure fairness.
She isn't entitled to an explanation outside of the fact that you didn't earn your keep. YOU DID NOT DO A GOOD JOB. "Working really hard" and being productive and financially beneficial are different things. Good meetings and "thank you's" from your manager are not indicators of your performance in a sales position. Earnings are.
Desiny, I've been a chef for half my life. Let me tell you that 100 percent you can touch a steak and tell how done it is. That is how we all learn. When we have 50 steaks on our grills and they are all different Temps you have literally no time to take out a thermometer and check the temp.
1:10:36 I work hybrid, we got WFH privileges after 6 months. I still go in person. Just forewarning to any one out there trying to get into tech/wfh jobs. WFH employees are the FIRST to get cut in any business. No matter what. If your work is hybrid, try to go in-person as much as possible. If you WFH all the time, you become like an anonymous entity to the company which makes you a lot easier to fire.
It's interesting that the HR people apologized. Getting fired sucks, and corporations doing mass layoffs is definitely a tragedy (my dad was laid off in budget cuts multiple times when I was a kid). The idea of apologizing for firing someone in an "inhumane" way is ridiculous. The humane way to do it doesn't have anything to do with what words you said and what I formation you gave them, it would be about what severance package you gave them and how much notice you gave them. If you REALLY wanna talk about being "humane" you probably shouldn't fire her in the first place. It's like ending a relationship. Is there really a good way to say I don't want to be with you anymore to someone? The best you can do is be simple and empathetic and explain yourself. The difference here is it's a job, we all know why we get fired. No amount of positive affirmation and explaining and validation is going to make getting fired feel good or neutral. No amount of "saying the right thing" is going to make corporations more likeable
Yes but this worker wasn’t even a FTE. She was still in that 90-day probationary period which is commonly used in the US, particularly in sales. So technically, legally, they weren’t even firing her. They were choosing not to “convert” her to a full time permanent position. What she is calling “over-hiring” is just how sales works. Companies put a lot of employees in probationary periods (contingent employment). Those who close deals, get converted & stay. Those who don’t, get told they aren’t being converted. HR was polite not to mention this, but in truth she never met the requirements for the permanent job. She asked why she wasn’t given a performance improvement plan (PIP). That’s a 30-90 tool for a permanent FTE who was performing but their performance has fallen off recently. A company would never waste time or money trying to “improve performance” of a salesperson who’s never met sales expectations. I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but sales is a results-dependent field. It’s probably the hardest job you can have, for 95% of people. For the 5% who can naturally sell, it’s great. This worker would likely be happier in a role that’s not “results oriented” since she’s focused on how hard she’s worked.
The lady being fired even said that she had all of her sales "pull out last minute", in other words she had no sales. So in that job she brought no value
You’re clearly an idiot. There ARE good and bad ways to break up with someone. Even in this comment, you said “be empathetic and explain yourself”. I don’t know if you missed the video, but they didn’t explain anything. They just gave vague terms that mean nothing. If they would’ve brought up her metrics and explained that they have a higher standard than how she was performing then that’d be an actual explanation. They didn’t do that. Also, I can understand a manager hyping up their employee, but you can keep energy up while giving critique. From what she said, her management gave glowing or at least positive reviews up until she was fired. In what world does this make sense?
The problem is she was given a bullshit reason. Imagine getting broken up with and your ex-SO says "You weren't meeting my emotional needs" meanwhile their emotional needs weren't the problem, it was just that they wanted to hook up with other people and didn't feel like being in a relationship anymore. Just say that. This vague, incorrect garbage just messes with people and doesn't help anyone.
As someone who cooks/bakes on the regular; it’s not as simple as just following a recipe. There’s a lot of technical skill that goes into it. You can easily turn a dish into being really good to just alright.
Depends who you get the recipe from how much margin for error is involved. America’s Test Kitchen Cookbook is pretty fool proof, random internet blog recipes larger margin. That’s also compounded by any ingredients that need to substituted or change so on so forth. Baking is definitely more technical, cooking is more laizzefaire
45:25 this is absolutely true, however baking IS that. You can easily fuck up bread and cakes. That's a science, but regular ass cooking for your home is more about finding your own rhythm. It's a skill and manner of creative expression, and you can really only learn it by doing.
I never understood going back and froth with your employer when they’re about to fire you. Like you’re getting let go regardless of what you say and even if you could persuade them to keep you why would you wanna stay at a company who almost wrongful terminated you?
Sometimes it’s more about being caught off guard and having a little extra time to find a new job. Nobody argues to keep a job if they don’t need the job
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The tidbit about the meat thermometer was hilarious. Usually if someone is cooking certain types or cuts of meat, then they’ll be okay going without it. All at the same time a thermometer will help you make super consistent meals, obviously. BUT cooking sous vis would eliminate using a thermometer
Holy shit, I had completely forgotten, but back in the day (I'm D's age) I used to make friends with older people on forums. It felt super normal too for some reason.... but now I think about it, I was like 16 talking to a bunch of 30/40yos and they were super down for it.
yeah being a leftist means : simping for what you think women are ( not what they actually are ), and having them make slight digs at your Whiteness, then lapping it all up like a starved dog.
I don't understand the whole "they shouldn't how more people then they can keep" thing. Like are these employees not getting paid? A 3 month job is due as hell better than no job. I remember hearing from a teacher that is really cool how easy it is to be fired in my country, because this makes it much easier to get hired.
Brittany Simons Takes Victory Lap And Memetix Creepy DMs Leaked
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I miss the days when Dsstiny would say hed trust Brittany with his bank information
Oof
And she thought that meant he would actually give her his bank information not just an example to show he thought she was honest
Dude has incredibly poor judgement of character
He did a great distraction with hyper focusing on his childhood phone.
He unironically lost so much credibility to me when he said that shit
Similar to how there's certain women who gravitate towards toxic men. Destiny is the same way, where he gets off on the thrill of being around the cute toxic girl archetype.
local man who surrounds himself with """interesting""" people asking why hes constantly embroiled in drama
That's a common talking point but it's not how anyone works in reality. Some mental disorders can make you more social and amiable and clout attracts people with unstable emotional needs trying to fill that void. Everyone wants to think they're special but we're all just reacting to our traumas, you included.
@@vyvianalcott1681 I would disagree. Most people who select partners and friends are different from how Destiny selects them. Most people will cut off bad/toxic friends and relationships because staying in them is too mentally draining and unhealthy. But Steven's mind works differently, where he enjoys the drama and seeks thrill from the stress that comes with it. He even stated this when it comes to debates, most people don't actually enjoy debating because it's extremely stress inducing, and the aftermath is not fun to deal with. But Destiny actually enjoys the stress and aftermath
@@vyvianalcott1681 'muh traumas'
@@sdjslkdjlsskldjslkdjsl8262I'm so sick of people saying that goofy shit lol
'I'm super critical, but I love everybody.'
I genuinely cannot put in words how much I hate and despise people who think like Brittany Simon.
Some people can’t help but criticise others because of their internal issues. They also recognise that criticising others doesn’t look good and it also doesn’t make them feel good so they cover it up like Brittany is with that statement.
@ivansmirnoff6987 Hate a strong word, we shouldn’t just use that word all the time when you dislike someone. You should use something more subtle, but that’s okay, I still love you
@@edwinbaca2744 It's understandable though. Brittany is actually not unique in her behaviour and anyone who's had someone like that in their life for any amount of time will feel hatred for that kind of cancerous person. She's a positivity vampire lol
No I agree, I was just trying to be critical but let Ivan know I love everyone, reading my comment should invoke hate 😂
But have you considered bubbles tho
Does anyone remember the first convo Destiny had with TOL? It was absolutely insane. To think that they would become mutuals and hear her taking up for him as wild. if you haven’t listened, find it!
I’ll check it out - thanks
@@AVspectre LMK what you think 👌
I liked her from day one lol
Rob Nose and ToL were not where I expected Destiny to find wholesome friendships
What was the topic?
A few takeaways
>Eat celery
>Get on Vyvanse
>Get on Tree's bad side
I can't believe she violated that poor horny man's consent by slapping on 1.
GigaCuck grindset
Why? So that she'll slap you?
Seeing Destiny go from his first debates with Tree to how they are now is so awesome. Warms my heart every time 😂
There was that one where she was screeching and he muted himself and leaned over and said to Melina, "idk what to do she's absolutely insane"
It's starting to feel like Destiny actually just chooses mentally ill people to hang out with, which will inevitably cause chaos; because at some point there will be some conflict where he can rationalise himself more soundly and then end up looking like the bastion of morality and common sense when recounting his actions to his stream.
He chooses these particular individuals to make himself "feel" important and superior.
@@disguiseddv8ant486 Destiny talks to many people, and 10% might be crazy like that. We might have confirmation bias, no?
@@0_oblivion_02 These kind of people choose to only watch the 10% of Destinys content that's drama, then they cry about it in youtube comments 😂
@@JimC607Well, Destiny thankfully produces enough diverse content :)
@0_oblivion_02 He seems to speak with that 10% a lot, hanging out with them in real life and going as far as to have sex with some of them. You can ride him as much as you want, but it's obvious these are the types of people he chooses to let into his life.
Destiny going off about line cooking just brings back some beautiful busy memories- I have 5 years of line cooking experience and everything he said is right, many line cooks I've worked with couldn't make a damn grilled cheese sandwich at home if their lives depended on it. In a professional kitchen you're essentially just putting the dish together as almost everything on the line is ready to be placed on a plate and assembled- that is why it's much different than cooking at home where you're going through the steps, waiting and engaging in the entire process.
Yep on a kitchen line everything is already hot, you’re not waiting for the griddle to warm up, also cooks eat garbage at home it is the classic once you get paid to do something you don’t do it for free
Me when I get asked “oh you’re a cook? What’s your favorite thing to cook?” Uhhh in a perfect kitchen setup I’ll cook anything 😂😂
And even still some line cook crews are organized enough to run active combat units
@@LizStaplesi am a chef and i dont cook at home because i hate the clean up at home and i dont have someone to do my dishes haha and the kitchen is dogshit haha
@@DeanStorm28 oh yeah the three compartment sink and industrial dishwasher goes a long way on its own, the guy to actually man it so you don’t have to, priceless.
I take great pleasure in Destiny being dragged into petty drama. The guy just can’t help himself, it’s like a never ending train wreck.
I love that just turned into a blast from the past for Destiny like hes just straight up mainlining what its like to remember tiny traumas in therapy.
As an Iranian, I am so happy that you are interested in studying the history of my country! Thank you so much!
Your government is hankering for some Freedom right about now.
The problem is, as a cradle of human civilization, there's so much! 😣
Iran is kinda cringe rn.
He did say "the past 120 years" or something, I believe...@@Naptosis
SHAH forever!
sales is the most mind bending job. I only worked B2C remote sales for 2 months but man was it a trip and a half.. made amazing money but had the gut reaching anxiety all day . what made me quit was even though I was the best new sales person they had (3-5th place each week for sale) my manager still wouldnt get off my back, looking back i know its because he wanted me to become an actual assassin but man all that made me fold I wont even lie
The skills are transferable though, at least. It can really help one's social life to know how to sell themselves. That power can be highly abused as well unfortunately.
@@Naptosis there are some people who get broken by sales though. if your not confident your not going to get sales and the less sales you get the less confident you get.. I had a friend that was a little bit of a "loser" before sales but after that job its like he couldnt talk to people any more and any disagreement would lead to him just leaving the convo.
People underestimate the power of comedy fr. The chat must get nooooo social interactions. When i was a kid/teen the most popular guys were ugly but fucking hilarious so they always got girlfriends, etc. I befriended them because their social skills were so good. They could talk to anyone. It takes good social skills to be funny.
Most people who watch streamers are already extreme. Those who actually type in chat are even further on the spectrum.
Idk if I would say the most popular we all ugly lmao. Most guys who spend a decent amount of time around women are probably more likely to take care of themselves, add in that they are probably more social and funny, its not surprising they are popular with women.
You don't even have to be necessarily funny, just have a sense of humor and find friend groups where you can just be *normal* around women. Even if you aren't the "funny" guy in the group you can still have decent success with ladies.
Lady arguing about being fired is right in my opinion. It's not about being fired or not, but the way they communicate it. These idiots came up with some bullshit corporate we fire you formula saying that she didn't meet their performance expectations, where according to what she said she was meeting all the expectations that her manager set up for her.
It's like hiring someone to work on renovations in your house and then running out of money and telling them that you don't want them to work for you anymore because their work sucks, even though you have been praising them before. Just say what the issue is and be done with it, or work on better speech to give to your ex employee.
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Very true, I think overusing 'trauma' constantly is a bad tactic, but the fact they couldn't communicate shit properly is on the employer.
He wasn’t paying attention in the beginning and dgg went full “she’s trying to be a girl boss” misogyny shit they see when someone wants to actually get answers to her termination.
Yeah I agree. I’ve only been fired one time in a white collar job and it was not a surprise. My manager made it very clear for a couple months leading up to it that I was not meeting performance expectations. It’s really shitty to think that her manager was telling her this whole time that she was performing as expected and then to up and get fired is horrible communication on the managers side. Manager probably has no spine which is evident that they weren’t even in the meeting.
Friend, sales employment works differently than other jobs. This worker was not a permanent FTE. She was in what’s called a “90-day probationary period.” That means she’s being EVALUATED for conversion to a full time permanent position. Technically, legally, they didn’t “terminate” her. They just decided not to convert (keep) her. Sales divisions are notorious for what she’s calling “over-hiring” where they put tons of people in a probationary period. Those who don’t perform - close sales- get cut. That’s what happened to her.
Something like a performance improvement plan (PIP) is only used for permanent FTEs, meaning longterm full time employees who were performing well but their performance decreased. If you never perform well enough to get converted to FTE status, like this girl, why would the company waste time on a PIP?
Ever since the beginning I couldn't stand that voice of hers. My goodness what an uncomfortable feeling.
I had no idea Brittany was 4’ 11”.
Tiny human, big drama.
Damn literal shawty
And her hair is 3”
Closer to hell and the whole spiel
When they tell her she’s getting fired for her “performance” and can’t say a single aspect for what her performance was when she was getting positive feedback from who she’s been working under all the way up to this.
She wants them to admit the truth that she’s being laid off because they hired too many people not her performance which is something that’s going to be forwarded to her next employer that she was fired for not meeting performance expectations. Which is or isn’t true, and when they can’t tell you why you’re fired at the meeting where you’re being fired. That fuckin sucks.
this is so obvious but destiny has to get his anti left circlejerk going after seeing a young woman express frustration with her employer i guess lol. even started making up communist motivations she must’ve had for recording the video
The thing with the girl getting fired is straight up there's legal differences between layoffs and getting fired for performance. They're claiming she's getting fired for performance, she is trying to get them to say something to admit that it isn't, because otherwise she may not be eligible for unemployment.
Doesn’t that depend on the state? Pretty sure at will states can fire for you anything outside of protected classes
@@connellyboyle1 yes they're allowed to fire you, but a lot of states will deny you unemployment benefits if you're fired "for cause", which includes performance issues. I've seen lots of companies pull some shady shit to create documentation that the employee was fired for cause so they wouldn't have to deal with an unemployment claim.
Basically if you're being told you're fired for cause, but the cause doesn't make sense, you should always interrogate that claim.
Pretty sure, when it’s a layoff, they usually legal protect themselves by clarifying that it has nothing to do with your performance.
@@streetninja510 right, which is why she should ask clarifying questions. If she's had nothing but good feedback from her manager and then suddenly is told she's being let go for performance, that may be a sign that the company is trying to get away with doing layoffs without having to fulfill the legal obligations
Imagine talking to Brittany for 5 min and not thinking she's insane.
Life must be so simple and easy for people like you. I’m legit jealous of your arrogance.
Exactly LMAO
wernt we all trying to tell destiny that in the beginning but he never listened and simped hard for her.
For the steak doneness discussion, I worked the broiler for a few years cooking a 100 steaks a night. We had 2 cuts a NY strip or a Filet mignon, they feel completely different but you can learn the temperature by feel. Anyone learning can use a meat thermometer to correlate the doneness to the feel.
If I propose to a group of friends- "do you guys want to go bowling this Saturday evening?" And they reply back "if you want to," I would think it's something they do not want to do, but are willing to do so as a favor to me. I think that's a normal opinion to have a about that response. If I ask someone out on a date, and they respond "if you want to," I'm already put off believing they don't want to go on a date for the same reasons, and with the same amount of interest I do. If I invite anyone anywhere, it is implied that "I want to" by me through the invitation. Why is that hard for Destiny? Lol
I realize I say this to my wife all the time. I might have to think of better responses…
@@AVspectre not married, but my dad's go-to is "whatever makes you happy"
@@Sue_Me_Toothis is kinda the same though.
Better response is Yes!
But also, people should understand that it's okay to take something that you really want (like going bowling) if the other person is easy about it, and will likely enjoy themselves as part of it too. Some people are just terminally indecisive and let life happen to them like a leaf in the wind. 🔥🪰🍃
I usually say "if you want to" because I generally don't want to do _most_ things. For me, to have fun doing anything will always depend on the person I am with. So you can't possibly suggest to me to do something that's going to sound like something I would want to do. Instead, I will only do anything provided the other person I am with wants to do it. That's why I say "if you want to". And in that case, I will do almost anything provided it's not too dangerous.
A meat thermometer is objectively the way to go EVERYTIME you cook meat and you're wrong if you disagree
The reason its upsetting to lose your job after 3 months can be for a variety of reasons. Did you have to move to a new location? How much of your life did you need to change for the job? Did you have to sell your house, sign a year lease with an expected income, etc etc
Maybe so, but all of your reasons seem quite likely to not be the case here. She's getting laid off remotely, implying she is probably working remotely as well.
@@stzu07rel I do not think you understand what I am commenting on
Oh, what a surprise, Destiny gets yet another person completely wrong when everyone else warns him otherwise. This is playground stuff, this isn't interesting.
What’s more interesting is why are you spending time watching something that “isn’t interesting” ?
@@JudasMaccabeus1He couldve just commented without watching
Destiny has been streaming for almost a decade. Drama is to be expected.
@@JudasMaccabeus1 If he didn't watch it then how would he know that it isn't interesting?
@@UniverseShinobi paradox
Is it misogynistic for DGGers to say “she’s ulting” in that corporate video over and over again?? 😐
Totally wrong take in the ghosting. As someone who’s been on both ends it’s messed up. Only acceptable if you think the other person is unhinged and will go more crazy talking than not responded too
It also consistently makes dating & interactions with people worse overall in the long-term. Yes, a man is likely to not be receptive if you tell him straight up, but if a girl does, it's completely in his hands what to do with that information after getting it. If she communicates what was wrong, & says she's not interested in talking further, she's done her part. Not communicating & just ghosting, kicks the can down the road for the next girl to deal with, instead of telling the guy what the issue was.
That, and if the dude really is unhinged, you run into what Hunter did recently where the dude can show up with a shotgun and start blasting at the next guy.@@IAmTheBugInsideYou
I once woke up from a coma in hospital to a complete Shakespearean tragedy played out in my texts and emails from a girl I went on 2 dates with. That's the only time I felt acceptable to ghost someone; when I was almost a ghost.
Did you ever see her again?@@Naptosis
I think the soft friend-zone talk is better than ghosting. You can say it in a way where most ppl will understand, like “I’m super busy with work but I hope we can stay friends”
Now if you’re dealing with someone who’s arguing or unable to process that, just mute notifications for a while. Don’t ignore them forever, but at least a week or 2 so they can let it sink in. Plus, you’ve just told them you’re too busy for drama/ a relationship, so the last thing to do is engage in lengthy emotional back-n-forth
When destiny says from what he heard about sales and anecdotes, what he really means is he watched wolf of wallstreet once and now basis his whole understanding of those jobs off that movie
thank u u can tell he knows nothing about most topics he talks about
@@lidiagizaw3828to be fair though, that’s almost always going to be the case with someone who only has an outside view of a specific line of work
@@daytripper1023i saw him talking about african countries 'economies and how to grow them once with fuentes and i almost lost it. he says the most ignorant shit with so much confidence . cant believe racist ass nick fuentes was way more logical and more knowledgeable about the continent than him
he genuinely sounds slow asf talking abt that layoff tiktok my god lmao
@@daytripper1023 the problem is Destenie has clearly not worked in any jobs besides the only few that he has so he should just stick to those topics when the majority of his viewers have worked in array of jobs, and is very obvious that he’s so missing that because he’s out of the loop.. if he doesn’t know about sales why is he so harshly talking about this woman like she’s doing something wrong when he’s never worked in sales a day in his life.. in my opinion, she wasn’t wrong. She was trying to protect herself because it’s possible that they won’t allow her to get unemployment, considering that they they fired her via her performance. But Destenie will just say get over it that’s capitalism that’s not the reality of people living day-to-day. We actually have to suffer because of these companies don’t care about people he doesn’t have to deal with that.
Destiny casually dropping some childhood grooming lore in there lmao
I have more respect for Brittany straight up leaking DMs than Destiny consistently doing this weasel tactic of alluding to people doing bad things. "now, if I WANTED to leak some wild INSANE stuff I COULD...but I'm not GOING TO because I'm BETTER THAN THAT....well should I say more? Nahhh....Unless...."
Many people who don't want to be petty are petty
Ah yes, so much more respect for being petty and trying to expose people for having normal conversations with you that you see in the worst light. Brittany really is just a better person.
The thing is they are just leaking nothingburgers and it would be weird if he leaked some really intimate stuff right away.
but he doesn't have anything on brittany lol?
they weren't intimate friends from her pov. so he wouldn't know anything different than most of the internet or her community
As a manager, the part i dread most is having to fire someone because it affects their lively hood. Sadge that I'm so privileged that all i need to do is get to work on time
For real. Had to have this meeting two months ago. It sucks bad...
@PuddingXXL like some people I'm like, thank God you're gone, and a few hit me right in the heart. Wish I could shit it off
As a baker, I'm insulted. But I agree. You want to be skinny. Don't bake.
I didn’t know TreeOfLogic and Chaeiry were analyzing Brittany so hard. It might be possible that there was a little bit of coercion on Brittany’s end in that slapping bit. I can see Tree’s point.
I don't know seems making big deal out of nothing burger. It's just a slap I don't think there was anything sexual there.
@@lampad4549then you havent lived
Tree doesnt have a point. This was a harmless incident between friends and tree is reaching hard af to try to make Brittany to look like a bad person
@lampad4549 its just disrespectful.
Tree was speaking from the point of view of BDSM ethics. From that point of view, the slap was highly questionable.
Edit: Brittany has framed herself as an authority on BDSM safety and info. The fact that she is doing questionable BDSM stuff is a relevant critique.
It would be interesting to see a third convo with Dr. K regarding some of the childhood interactions with women Destiny brought up.
18:34 onwards just needs to be its own clip lmao
Being a baker is how I landed my wife. Baking is so much fun.
The hours are wild though, I could never get up that early every day.
It's could also be how you get rid of her
🫓🥖🍞🥮🎂🍰🧁🍪
@@RolaiEckolo Like, by baking her into a cake to dispose of the body?
@@RolaiEckoloaight Sweeney Todd
Destroying the burned bridge even more. LFG
I remember my flip phone had a way to lock it, but it wasn't secure at all. You simply held down the "Reject Call" button for like 3-5 seconds. It would then lock all other inputs until you held Reject Call again. But there wasn't a password or anything. All a person would need to do is just hold the button down and get access
The days Destiny worked in the kitchen vs his obsession with Factorial. Explains a lot. A lot of his behaviour today is explained by events during high school and his work at the casinos.
“The only reason I’m this way is because of my upbringing”. With this argument, tree can argue that what’s “natural” is also due to upbringing
25:05 God Damn even at 14 you gravitated towards the absolute worst women around. Cheating on her boyfriend with you and not even an ounce of shame from either of you😂 everything bad that happens in your relationships are 100% understandable and deserving tbh.
Bit extreme to say if you home wreck a highschool relation than you deserve every bad thing that ever happens in your relationship forever. Ngl its hard to feel bad for something that happened over 20 years ago and ultimately doesn't matter anymore to any of them involved.
there are 2 types of cooks .. those that use a thermometer, and those that can only do shoesole or raw.
Does anyone truly care about Cringestiny drama? We all know he's a cannibal and has Farha tied up in a cage in his basement. This is boring.
Not for Farha.
Oh God, I thought he sent the fake glasses chick back to LA
51:21 This is a really good way of explaining this. This is something that a lot of people don’t understand. They blame women for not being assertive enough and they blame men for being too pushy. But it’s really both. We need to stop raising and conditioning girls to be so agreeable, especially when it comes to men. And we need to teach boys how to recognize when women are showing signs of feeling uncomfortable and hesitant and how to differ them from awkwardness and shyness (especially with younger, inexperienced women). But women don’t know how to say no without feeling “bad” for hurting a guys feelings or feeling like she’s letting him down and now she owes it to him because he’s expecting it and also, many guys don’t either realize when a girls uncomfortable OR they flat out don’t care and take advantage of women who are clearly uncomfortable but because she’s not flat out saying no or running away, he pushes anyways very well knowing she doesn’t really want to but now he knows she can’t cry assault because she didn’t verbally say no.
I have BPD and if I feel abandoned I shut down entirely and you'll never hear another word from me again unless you reach out. I'm sure others are different but not everyone is the same either.
I don't understand fully what's happening but Tree is hotter than Brittany so I have to side with her;)
But I think she is right for the most part. Brittany is pretty scummy. Reminds me of the musical number "your not good your just nice" very much describes people like Brittany.
Negotiating while horny is the same as negotiating while drunk.
Also yes food thermometers are the norm & great. Yes there are things you can look for to tell doneness but you are ultimately guessing.
Also it only causes food to leak if you use it improperly. Roasts turkeys ect your supposed to leave it in until the meat is done resting. After a rest the meat will have reabsorbed it's fluid.
You are right! Tree is hotter than Brittany! The Amazonian queen! Nah, but for real, I hated Tree in the beginning, but even though we diverge in politics she seems to be a pretty cool person.
@@xeedflarian9748 same she grew on me pretty fast. I think is a pretty good example of a sane modern sex positive conservative. Which I guess is why Tim Pool smeared her as a radical feminist lol.
@@AspiringDevil lol she seems to be one of the conservatives I'm okay with, far from a feminist in my opinion lol
Ppl don't cook cuz they're lazy not cuz it's intimidating
Precisely.
It's incredibly intimidating to me, but that's mostly due to Autism (and possibly ADHD, will get that one checked out next month)
@@TheOnlyGegglesgj you're actually getting things diagnosed
brittany is the epitome of "im an empath"
"I'm an empty"
*Leaks dms*
@@brandonden795 Wasnt the only DM “leaked” just them making dinner plans lmfao
A meat thermometer is for a mid-tier cook or a decent home cook. A new cook that doesn't use one is going to cook it wrong, a decent cook will get it perfect every time with a thermometer, a good cook will get it within 5°F by feel.
As a professional chef , I gotta say , you obviously don't know what the fuck you're talking about 😂 nice try tho.
Why does Destiny even bother mentioning Brittany has BPD? We know, you wouldn't have dated her if she didn't have it.
True
They didn’t date. He literally said they only had one 1 on 1 conversation and never hung out by themselves
they met one time
@@lidiagizaw3828 never let the truth get in the way of a good joke
@@Lazlo-os1pu absolutely every single woman Destenie hangs out with he has intentions on sleeping with, so why are you acting like you don’t know this..
One of my first jobs was in sales. Destiny is absolutely right, everybody who works sales Willingly is EVIL, scum of the earth. I was selling the Rainbow vacuum at $1875.00. The company pitch was to call the boss midway through and ask for a "discount" for the customer, there was NEVER a discount, it ALWAYS costs $1875! They wanted me to lie to strangers. Then they asked me to sell to my family and friends and lie to them too! Needless to say, I didn't even last a week. Building a life from lies? I'd rather mine lithium with my hands in Africa! LOL
Bro is not lying about baking. I made some saffron buns (beautiful), and there were about 2-3 sticks of butter and 4+ cups of sugar in them britches.
IT professionals personal experience: IT sales are a rotating door of hell, and a lot of success is luck based. I don't even read vendor emails. I go shop when I need something, and whoever I get on the phone first is lucky #1 for that sale. If you want to work in a career like this, specifically in the IT/SaaS/PaaS kind of space, have 2 or 3 contacts that can line you up another job on speed dial.
Two week notice before leaving a job is the best way to leave on good terms and not burn the bridge.
I just gave my job 12 months notice. We won a big contract right after I started and I'm going to look for a different job once it's completed.
@@Sue_Me_Too I like that. You let them know up front you intend to leave at a certain point. That has the added benefit of having the employer aggressively try to keep you if they don't want to lose you.
I know too many jobs that fire people before their two weeks notice is up. Fuck them. Only give 2 weeks if the job respects it.
@@Dempun985 honestly it's a great company and I'd like to work for them long term, but the cost of living in this area just isn't worth it.
There are absolute tons of openings in my field (welding) so I can get a pretty good job pretty much anywhere, and a lot of those are cheaper places to live.
@@kuroichan101 I've been on both ends of the spectrum: I've given notice, quit and then gotten that job back later - with a raise. I've also walked out of jobs mid-shift and never looked back.
Lmao the grant cardone video where he says “you’re supposed to be my best guy, right?” Then completely fucks up the salesperson in the middle of a sales call lmao
58:19 YES. All of this. Just because you can see that I’ve read your letter, with your magical binoculars, doesn’t mean I have the time, energy or mental space to respond to you right now; that doesn’t give you the right to watch me with those magical binoculars and then get pissy when I don’t immediately respond to your letter. I have a life outside of responding to you. If we’re in the middle of a back and forth, sure, it can be weird if I or you disappear without explanation - but if it’s a random message and I look at it, it doesn’t mean I’m going to respond just because your letter has flown into my hands and I go, “Oh, hey, what does this say?” because it might be urgent. I turn off read receipts on everything I can because who the fuck cares? Crazy, manipulative, obsessive people care; go away and let me respond when I’m ready - not when you want me to. If you want something to respond to you when you want it to, we have chat GPT now; go nuts. I’m a person, let me live.
are u braindead? if u have the time to open and read something then you have the time to respond. 9 time out of 10 ur just trying to ego someone and act like u have more important things going on when if that was the case, you wouldnt have opened and read the message in the first place.
31:39 This is unironically Sitcom, or comedy romance movie material. DIdn't Destiny discuss making a similar production to what the conservatives have with Daily wire? This should absolutely get adopted into a fully produced movie, with a bunch of streamer cameos xD. This could actually blow the fuck up.
as someone with bpd Steve gets what the problem with it is he just handles it in the worst way possible. just dont talk to people with it if you dont have the time for them saves you and them from hurt
Trueee 😂
im so glad hes talking about this
that VOD timestamp tool Tom mentioned was developed by me, but it isnt working right now, so he can only have run it on old VOD data.
I find there's 3 things to master in cooking and you can make most meals: cut things evenly and quickly, cook your meat/veggies to your taste, and get down seasoning. Master these 3 things and you can make a lot of dishes. You only need certain cooking techniques for more specific things like making eggs or doing really complex dishes.
The A6400 is good, but I'd go for the A6700 these days :) very good camera. If you want a web cam tho, the zv-e10 is A+. Its cheaper and perfect for your streaming/web cam needs!!
the fucking messaging bullshit is absolutely a trigger for me. except for me (maybe most women) it's the incessant followup messages trying to bait a response or make you feel obligated through guilt trip and sad sack fuckery. it took me a while to accept that i am fully allowed to leave someone on read and if they are going to be a bitch about it, i tell them stop being a fucking bitch about it. they weed themselves out or learn to respect a simple fucking boundary. I'm not angry i just cuss this much when i talk and i'm typing in stream of consciousness. peace and love
Line cooking is like team based factorio
Nah, I was a good line cook, but even looking at factorio gives me a headache.
The cooking tangent has me dead 😂
i was not ready for him to call out the gaia online girls. i've had similar experiences with crazy cutter girls on there as a teenager
I met someone similar on Minecraft and she used to tell me about how she cut herself, we dated for a week then she got with her ex 💀
Bro that Jazz Class story was pure gold. LOL! Then you went and saw V for Vendetta as well. Which is ironic when you think about it. She had a Vendetta to slap you that night then she came out of the closet the day after watching that movie. If you remember in that film, Natalie Portman while in the fake prison, the thing that kept her from going insane was the letters left behind from a lesbian. If you remember it was a major plot point in the flick. That's wild dude!
50 pounds with baked goods in 6 months is no joke. That's how I put on my pandemic weight. I put on a good 40 pounds that I haven't lost.
The winter fox needs the chonk for hibernative naptosis. 😋
Retitle of video: Cooking with Destiny + Lore & Trauma.And what not to do when getting fired . Plus Brittany
In the US if you have a high position like an exec or dept head(for example) you can't just up and quit in most circumstances. You can be sued for damages as a result of you just up and leaving. Most employment contracts at that level require a minimum notice to resign.
What is the video at 1:33? It's hillarious. WHy is the chat log blocking the video titles?
We use a thermometer, especially for chicken. We cook for hundreds of people a day and we use the thermometer to make sure the middle of the meat is at the right cooking temperature to ensure the entire meat is cooked properly lol we only use it when cooking large pcs of meat. It's also a health code violation (in my area at least) to not use it if the inspector happens to be there. And the inspector always comes during lunch prep
For normal home cooking, you don't really need a meat thermometer. With experience, you can tell when meat is done enough. However...
If you want to elevate your cooking, you should use a thermometer. When you're cooking casually, you tend to overcook meat just to be safe. But if you want the perfect result, you want to be getting to exactly your target temp without going over by much. This will result in the juiciest, most tender meat.
So in reality, a meat thermometer isn't really to make sure you're not undercooking. Any somewhat experienced chef can do that just by slightly overcooking. You really use to make sure you don't overcook
The girl getting fired like that does have a case. I’m familiar with performance management and what he said about the employee should never be surprised is true. If she was not doing well and her manager failed to inform her, coach her on what she needs to change and the opportunity she deserves to make them then the manager failed the employee and failed the company. My company, a market leader, has an HR department that would send any request to terminate back if the employee performance logs didnt show repeated efforts to correct the behavior that led to the request to terminate. HR is there to protect the employees and ensure fairness.
The reason that girls direct boss isn't in that meeting for letting her go is because he's probably getting let go too.
She isn't entitled to an explanation outside of the fact that you didn't earn your keep. YOU DID NOT DO A GOOD JOB. "Working really hard" and being productive and financially beneficial are different things. Good meetings and "thank you's" from your manager are not indicators of your performance in a sales position. Earnings are.
Desiny, I've been a chef for half my life. Let me tell you that 100 percent you can touch a steak and tell how done it is. That is how we all learn. When we have 50 steaks on our grills and they are all different Temps you have literally no time to take out a thermometer and check the temp.
1:10:36 I work hybrid, we got WFH privileges after 6 months. I still go in person. Just forewarning to any one out there trying to get into tech/wfh jobs. WFH employees are the FIRST to get cut in any business. No matter what. If your work is hybrid, try to go in-person as much as possible. If you WFH all the time, you become like an anonymous entity to the company which makes you a lot easier to fire.
It's interesting that the HR people apologized. Getting fired sucks, and corporations doing mass layoffs is definitely a tragedy (my dad was laid off in budget cuts multiple times when I was a kid). The idea of apologizing for firing someone in an "inhumane" way is ridiculous. The humane way to do it doesn't have anything to do with what words you said and what I formation you gave them, it would be about what severance package you gave them and how much notice you gave them. If you REALLY wanna talk about being "humane" you probably shouldn't fire her in the first place.
It's like ending a relationship. Is there really a good way to say I don't want to be with you anymore to someone? The best you can do is be simple and empathetic and explain yourself. The difference here is it's a job, we all know why we get fired. No amount of positive affirmation and explaining and validation is going to make getting fired feel good or neutral. No amount of "saying the right thing" is going to make corporations more likeable
Yes but this worker wasn’t even a FTE. She was still in that 90-day probationary period which is commonly used in the US, particularly in sales. So technically, legally, they weren’t even firing her. They were choosing not to “convert” her to a full time permanent position.
What she is calling “over-hiring” is just how sales works. Companies put a lot of employees in probationary periods (contingent employment). Those who close deals, get converted & stay. Those who don’t, get told they aren’t being converted.
HR was polite not to mention this, but in truth she never met the requirements for the permanent job. She asked why she wasn’t given a performance improvement plan (PIP). That’s a 30-90 tool for a permanent FTE who was performing but their performance has fallen off recently. A company would never waste time or money trying to “improve performance” of a salesperson who’s never met sales expectations.
I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but sales is a results-dependent field. It’s probably the hardest job you can have, for 95% of people. For the 5% who can naturally sell, it’s great. This worker would likely be happier in a role that’s not “results oriented” since she’s focused on how hard she’s worked.
The lady being fired even said that she had all of her sales "pull out last minute", in other words she had no sales. So in that job she brought no value
@@scarletsletter4466This explanation would’ve worked, though. She wasn’t given any answer other than vague terms
You’re clearly an idiot. There ARE good and bad ways to break up with someone. Even in this comment, you said “be empathetic and explain yourself”. I don’t know if you missed the video, but they didn’t explain anything. They just gave vague terms that mean nothing. If they would’ve brought up her metrics and explained that they have a higher standard than how she was performing then that’d be an actual explanation. They didn’t do that. Also, I can understand a manager hyping up their employee, but you can keep energy up while giving critique. From what she said, her management gave glowing or at least positive reviews up until she was fired. In what world does this make sense?
The problem is she was given a bullshit reason. Imagine getting broken up with and your ex-SO says "You weren't meeting my emotional needs" meanwhile their emotional needs weren't the problem, it was just that they wanted to hook up with other people and didn't feel like being in a relationship anymore. Just say that. This vague, incorrect garbage just messes with people and doesn't help anyone.
Dude said in his corporate response “Chris Paul was a bad fit for the Suns” 💀💀💀💀
Gen z and millenial high school experiences are so different holy
Wym?
100% AGREE with the water,omg!!!!💧
As someone who cooks/bakes on the regular; it’s not as simple as just following a recipe. There’s a lot of technical skill that goes into it. You can easily turn a dish into being really good to just alright.
Depends who you get the recipe from how much margin for error is involved. America’s Test Kitchen Cookbook is pretty fool proof, random internet blog recipes larger margin. That’s also compounded by any ingredients that need to substituted or change so on so forth. Baking is definitely more technical, cooking is more laizzefaire
45:25 this is absolutely true, however baking IS that. You can easily fuck up bread and cakes. That's a science, but regular ass cooking for your home is more about finding your own rhythm. It's a skill and manner of creative expression, and you can really only learn it by doing.
Destiny randomly starting to talk about jizzing gave me and my family whiplash
She said she hasn't closed. She got let go for not hitting performance metrics. Welcome to sales.
Whoever said cooking is just copying down some recipes does not infact understand cooking, and thats why all their recipes turn out midlol
I never understood going back and froth with your employer when they’re about to fire you. Like you’re getting let go regardless of what you say and even if you could persuade them to keep you why would you wanna stay at a company who almost wrongful terminated you?
maybe to gain a few months to look for a job while employed. At least that's the rationale. It does feel pretty futile though
Sometimes it’s more about being caught off guard and having a little extra time to find a new job. Nobody argues to keep a job if they don’t need the job
@@yojou3695 very futile, that’s why I never bothered giving a two weeks notice, cuz they wouldn’t give me a heads up either.
I love how he had to draw on fucking paint to demonstrate his people skills in the casino lol
I wouldn't have understood it otherwise
@15:00 If you want a good streaming camera get the tiny bot 4k any of them for your price range. It’s amazing and has tracking as well as voice commands. I am not sponsored and I am not a bot it’s a good product.
The tidbit about the meat thermometer was hilarious. Usually if someone is cooking certain types or cuts of meat, then they’ll be okay going without it. All at the same time a thermometer will help you make super consistent meals, obviously. BUT cooking sous vis would eliminate using a thermometer
Holy shit, I had completely forgotten, but back in the day (I'm D's age) I used to make friends with older people on forums. It felt super normal too for some reason.... but now I think about it, I was like 16 talking to a bunch of 30/40yos and they were super down for it.
Being kicked out the orbit has actually given her brain damage OMEGALUL -
1000% correct, that girl was not build for sales
All that red pill bs is cringe but "I am available to serve, queen" is wild 😭🤣😂
Yeah in text that doesn't come off as ironic, it's flirty as fuck lol
she knows he's being sarcastic
internet children when they see someone making a joke
yeah being a leftist means : simping for what you think women are ( not what they actually are ), and having them make slight digs at your Whiteness, then lapping it all up like a starved dog.
Bro these memories are crazy! I met some weirdos playing Gaia and World of Warcraft as a kid lol
This is super normal I worked for Walmart corporate and they decided to cut you if your numbers aren't perfect.
I don't understand the whole "they shouldn't how more people then they can keep" thing.
Like are these employees not getting paid?
A 3 month job is due as hell better than no job.
I remember hearing from a teacher that is really cool how easy it is to be fired in my country, because this makes it much easier to get hired.
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