How Joy Mendoza Forgave The Seven Men Who Raped Her | A Forgiveness Story | Toni Talks
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- Опубликовано: 21 май 2021
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If she was able to forgive the worst people, so can you.
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Kala ko sira cp ko. Dinownload ko pa yung video para lang mapanood pero ganon padin. Yung video pala talaga 🥺
Akala ko sira speaker phone ko nahulog pa naman to kenina
@@cindycarpio3516 Same here. Nirestart ko pa phone ko 😅
Akala ko kailangan ko na talaga palitan ang phone ko. Tsar! Kala mo naman may pera HAHAHAHA anyway, fire! 🌟
I need to check the audio from fb videos and then come back so yeahh
"they can't touch my soul because that belongs to God!"
The only peace that she had. Grabe! Grabe, Lord! 😭😭🙌
But know that Jacob's and David's daughter got raped😢
Please don't be over confidence sister rather learn self defense 😊
Let's normalize Godly vlogs. This is what we need. Let's raise a generation who loves God. Because definitely, they will be a better person. Lord, ikaw na bahala sa Pilipinas. We are lifting our country to you. Be with us.
Amen. ❣️
Amen. Yes to this 😊
Amen
Yassss...
Amen 🙏
I've read her book "When God allowed rape" and I cried so haaaard. What a strong woman! Praise God for your life! ❤😭😭
where did you buy the book po?
@@jhenylquindao4783 Oh my friend let me borrowed her book 😊 But i think it's from the NBS or PCBS.
Whats the title pls.
Yeah napaka inspiring nung book nya, maliit lang syang book kaya natapos ko isang upuan lang😭
@@rose-xt7ew mam san po mabibili yun book ni miss joy mendoza
I still can't accept to forgive the people who intend to rape the victims. This is sick. The punishment must be deserved it.
Matthew 6 (KJV)
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¹⁴ For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
¹⁵ But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
I am a rape victim as well, I was only 4 and 5 years old. I will never forget the trauma and fear I was going through. When you are told by your abuser not to tell anyone or else he is going to kill you, your whole body will be shaking, you feel frightened all the time. I was withdrawn, I was 9 years old and I still wet my bed, I learned later in life that bedwetting at that age is a sign that a child was molested. I remember vividly when I was at school I was always nervous, angry about little things. I wasn't friendly at all. I was carrying bitterness in my heart for many many years. I never told anyone what had happened to me. My parents split up when my siblings and I were very young which added injury to the trauma. Not until... I learned that there is God who can heal, restore and forgive. He allowed me to understand who He is and what His Son Jesus Christ had done for me. He washed me, He restored the broken spirit that I was able to let go of the past abuse and forgive the one who assaulted me. I was also able to tell my husband everything about my childhood and he was gracious to say that" no matter what I was going through that he'll give his unconditional love and support to help me healed completely. Thank you, God, for your amazing grace, and thank you that you chose me to be your daughter.
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Virtual hugs my dear... 🙏💚❤️🥺🥰
Prayers po 🙏
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She didn’t cry sharing what happened to her, she started crying when she shared the pain of her family
Read her story years ago when i was just a teenager..ngayon 30, Grabi parin iyak ko whenever i hear her story..sobrang lakas niya talaga..😭 i admire her! In my eyes, She's the epitome of a Godly woman.
and to think she has bashers saying she's lying or just doing this for attention and some women commented she should have kept this as a secret. Grabi noh? How these bashers are inline with those rapists. Kaya triggered ako kapag may nagbabash kay Mrs.Joy...
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 grabe mga bashers 😔😔😔
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 Those people don't have a relationship and commitment w/ God, that's why they don't understand where she's coming from
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 IGNORE the bashers. They do not deserve even a second of attention from God's believers. Thank you. Hanap pansin lang ang mga yan.
I am not bashing her if that’s what you’re trying to imply. In fact, I admire her selflessness. What I’m trying to say is, she was able to take all the pain of her own abuse but breaks down whenever she remembers the pain it brought her loved ones.
habang pinapanuod ko , tumutulo nalang luha ko 😢 Im also a Christian and Got molested by my own cousin , raped by myboyfriend and my uncle's boyfriend 😢 at galing ako sa broken family , kaya mula 5 years old tinago ko sa sarili ko lahat yon , ngayon 21 years old nako. si Lord lang nakakaalam ng lahat, kaya si Lord na ang bahala kung ano man ang will nya sa buhay ko. Alam ko Buhay ang Diyos at may plano ang Diyos sa buhay Ko ☝️🙏 Praised God ☝️
May fb ka po? Or instagram?
Bakit
Jesus loves you sis magpa counsel ka po para na release mo ang nararamdaman God bless you even more po
I can't imagine forgiving people who sinned you like that.
Different pastors explained that to forgive means to not seek revenge; and to seek justice or bring someone to justice does not mean that you failed to forgive. In fact, the Bible commands justice -- to bring someone to justice does not contradict God's Word that "vengeance" is His. God judges the heart -- when you bring someone to justice, what's your motivation? It's important to study the Bible in order to stay close to God and be able to spot true teachings and teachers. 1John 4:1 "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
She didnt cry when she talked about the incident. She cried when she told how her brother cried, how she was held overnight by her mother. We cannot control the things on earth, but it is how we handle the aftermath. Look at her now, she is still as pure as what she is wearing. Woman, you are my idol and I learn so much from you. God bless you and your family.
It's often just not possible to cry when talking directly about the incident. Trauma does that to people. You just switch off all emotions in order to survive.
wala ako pake
@@unkownplaying7621, wow you think you're so cool? read the room please.
@@unkownplaying7621 Aw. How touching! You care so much, taking your precious time to insist you “don’t care”. 😂😂😂
"They can touch my body, they can do all things to my body but they can't touch my soul because it belongs to God." -Joy
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Amen!!!!!💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
Napaiyak din akong namg sinabi niya yan 🤧🤧🤧🤧
😭😭This made me cry when u think the truth that our body is just corruptible that we most valued compare to our soul that are mostly important to God and it belongs to Him that no one snatch or destroy it🙌🙏. #powerfulstatement
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That hits me. #saveyoursoul
26:27 “Don’t make your forgiveness conditional on how the person is going to be moving forward.”
Very eye opening! I used to think like “hihingi sya ng sorry tas di rin naman magbabago edi useless din kung papatawarin ko sya”
Hindi pala dapat ganun dahil forgiveness is a choice. Kung talagang gusto mong magpatawad, magpapatawad ka no matter what. Magbago man sya o hindi papatawarin mo sya. Thank you for this! ❤️
IS RAF DAVIS PART OF THE 7 MEN?
pero mali talaga na hindi niya pinaresto ang mga suspects ! how many more people did they hurt AFTER this incident ? its 100% correct to fully trust God, pero, its BAD na WALA KANG GAGAWIN and 'leave it all to God' ... Remember God GAVE US BRAIN AND WISDOM to know what the RIGHT thing to do ... its HER RESPONSIBILITY to TELL the Society about these people ...
True! Dapat magpapatawad ka pero may justice parin dahil pano nalang kung hindi kasing swerte nya yung susunod na mabibiktima? Pano kung patayin na? Pero wala na nangyari na. Desisyon nya yun. Wala na tayong magagawa dun. Lesson nalang ang makukuha naten sa story nya.
Pero kailangan pa rin justice di biro ang raped kung pagnanakaw pa siguro mapapalampas pa ang kaso may raped nangyari pito pa ang nag raped pa sa kanya
Huwag na lang magpatawad; MAGPASALAMAT na lang kaya sa mga kriminal para lumampas ka na sa langit dahil sa sobrang pagpapakabanal.
As a victim of rape by my uncle I think what has made me feel comforted is what I learned that "Don't make your forgiveness conditional on how the person is going to be moving forward. If they choose to act in loving ways then you would just see it as a bonus. But not as something you are dependent on to have peace, to have joy."-Joy Mendoza
When two quality women talk, You LEARN A LOT. Its like raining of wisdom.
True
When two women were bounded by The word of God theres wisdom because of God's word
Daming tsimosa dito samin nag uusap din no wisdom.
Always remember it is God who is the author of this wisdom and and the giver also.
@@japhethmendoza4545 couldn't agree more
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Totoo.
I'm also a victim, but I choose to forgive and let the Lord serve the justice for me. Month's ang lumipas he was imprisoned. And I thank God.
I am sorry to hear that, but you are such a brave God who like Joy in the interview fully trusted in the justice that God Himself will bring.
I pray for your healing..
At this MOMENT na iyak ako sa sinabi mo bigla lang nag karon ng luha ang mata ko. Kasi ako yong babae na talagang ang HIRAP TANGGAPIN ang SALITANG forgiveness. I will try to be like JESUS and you and to other PEOPLE who had a forgiving HEART.
I pray for you healing
I pray for your healing 🙏 God bless you
This video is so powerful, the enemy even tried to mess up its audio. But it nevertheless reached and will reach many souls for God. Thank you for your testimony Ms Joy.. you inspire many
Ang tagal tagal ko ng nadadaanan at inignore itong episode. Dko aakalain na ito pla magsasalba sa kin. Ive been struggling with acceptance and forgiveness. Finally, God unlocked it and I am truly in the process of healing and forgiveness...Thank you so much
I'm a Christian and it's been a month since the last time that I went to Church because of my health issues that I have to take meds forever, nagtatampo ako kay Lord but while watching her I felt ashamed for being weak.. I'll continue to fight and forgive myself na.. Thanks
It’s hard but continue to be strong
God loves you.
True po everytime naririnig ko testimony nya nahihiya ako kay God konting problema nagtatampo na at nanghihina but look at her despite sa laki ng bagyo pinagdaanan nya she remain faithful and strong
Keep pressing on! Fight the good fight of faith! 🙏🙌
I have bilateral cleft palate scars in my face. I hated God of the Bible when I was high school because I experience a lot of discrimination and bullys, verbal abuse from my dad and other people. I tried many times to kill myself b4, I summoned the devil. Etccc but Christ of the Bible still love me and save me from myself. 😂🤣😁 Praise the name of Jesus christ of the Bible
Imagine the devil was trying to destroy this video by destroying audio quality but God's power prevails...so please be patient use your earphone as much as possible. This is a life changing story from the Author of Life and the Devil doesn't want you to hear it
OO NGA NO. LIKE NGAYON PA PARANG DI MALINAW YUNG AUDIO SA VIDS NI TONI
@@sundaewithfries yes.. Sa lahat ng na post na videos nya ito lng ang nagka problem.
@@jhonalynpenaflor5910 hindi lahat meron Bluetooth speakers, if you try to watch using your speaker phone aakalain mong may sira ang phone mo.
@@jhonalynpenaflor5910 mamaya na lng kasi mag work muna ako.. hihihi
Done watching in my phone not using a headset. Ok naman po ang audio, actually malakas pa nga. Baka ok na din sainyo. Thanks for the inspiring message Ms. Joy and Toni. ❤️❤️❤️
I really like Ms Tony’s style handling interviews. She shows respect by not interrupting her guest while talking, she can be classy or jolly but still can connect to her guest. You earned a subscriber here💛
She can manipulate a conversation well, allowing the person to talk more. Because anyway, it’s not about Toni but the person giving the tesimony.
@@rheycabuloy2012 exactly!
She listens every time.
I was being molested and the trauma wont go away real easily. I hate the person and always pray not to see him again. Forgiving wasnt easy for me. It takes a golden heart to forgive those kind of people.
With God all things are possible🙏🏼
14 "For if you forgive men their trespasses , your heavenly Father will also forgive you. [Matthew 6:14]
15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses , neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. [Matthew 6:15]
In Toni talks, Toni listens more than she talks. She lets her guests talk and she let them shine. Her vlog shows the glory of God manifested in the lives of these people.
She listens more than she talks, I noticed that as well. I think that's what separates her from other interviewers.
Agreed! Toni is a good listener .
better than tito interview
It should be toni listens ,, lol. 😂
Grabe! It takes strength, trust, and a commitment to the Lord to forgive individuals who do not deserve. Praise God to this woman, who serves as an inspiration and motivator to others who face similar situations. Literal na beautiful disaster! God bless u Ma’am! 💕🫶
I couldn’t even put into words how this interview made its impact on me as a person. As Miss Joy is telling her story, I just cried. But in the end, her strength is truly amazing! Not everyone can forgive the way she did. I, for sure will not be able to do that. But, to just know that someone like her was able to do so is just... amazing! Its very brave! It made me see forgiveness in a whole different way. I hope you continue to inspire people esp Women, Miss Joy. How you overcame this challenge in your life is unbelievable! God bless you more!
Hi.. You know what? It's true that it's hard to forgive. Because we need to have deep relationship with God in order to do such an amazing thing. Inner healing needs strong spiritual life in order to do that. And God is the one who will do it for us. We just need to allow Him because It is a process where in we need guidance from Him to take control over everything. And when we allow the Holy Spirit to help us, He will do it 360 degrees.
This episode taught me that when you forgive, you release the burden of shame, hatred and judgment. Thus, forgiveness is a form of love. Not necessarily a love to the offender, but a love to yourself.
Can i post this? 🙏🏻
Can I share this too?it is worth to share
I love this
ISA PO AKONG BASURERO NA NANGANGARAP PO MAGING RUclipsR PO PARA SA PANG ARAW-ARAW PO NAMIN, NITONG PANDEMIC BAWAL NA PO KAMI UMAKYAT SA TAMBAKAN PO 🥺 SALAMAT PO SA MAY MABUTING KALOOBAN. . 🥺🙏
“They can touch my body, but they cannot touch my soul because that belongs to God.”
This made me cry. Whatever struggle, pain or hurt you’re going through, know that you are in the hands of the Lord and nothing or no one can snatch you out of His hands, not even the devil.
Amen! This true and personally experienced it in many difficult moments in my life. God the Holy Spirit and my Angels always protect me from harm.
Amen.
I cried too .
Those people don't deserve forgiveness.
you are using your feelings char. hahaha
@@justgowtheflow101hahahaha
I thought I have experienced the worst in life after I have to overcome financial problems and difficulties mid life. But NO, that's nothing compared to what this amazing lady had gone through (both physically and emotionally) and still manage to forgive and love.
Joy: "Who is the ultimate justice-giver? And when God says vengeance is mine and I will repay. I have to believe that God is bigger than the justice system".
Wow! These are the words that captured me.
When I first heard this from Pastor Peter, I felt his pain as a Parent. But now hearing it from Joy, it felt different! It’s not a story of rape but testimony of forgiveness! You are amazing Joy! Thank you for sharing your story!
True
Agree..
Meron din Testimony sila Pastor Peter and Maam Deonna... It was so hard for them too.. I remember Pastor Tan-chi said.. If they run away from the Lord, Where are they going...
Praise God talaga sa buhay nilang lahat who experienced the tragedy. Sister Joy was God's masterpiece to reach out those who are victim of raped. ❤️
I cried watching this video. I had a quite similar experience with her and it's so hard to let go of all the bitterness caused by pain, trauma, and self-pity.. I'm so happy I found this video to teach me to let go, choose to forgive and trust GOD.
I heard her stories before during an interview. This is one story that made me ask the question 'Why...?' and it is heartbreaking still as an audience and as a woman knowing what she went through. Her resilience and her character in a general is just stunningly amazing. Brave and beautiful lady.
What an amazing character!
I was raped when I was 13 by my own father,i hated him for so many years.If my mind can kill,?I killed him million times,I was hurt and broken,I blamed him for everything that happened to me,I ran away at 13 ,didn’t finish school,I ruined myself because my FATHER ruined me first.I was so young and so broken,And all I can do was to pray,I prayed to God to heal me and teach me to forgive..it took me 11 years to finally forgive My Dad..I don’t know what happened,I woke up
One day,the pain and anger wasn’t there anymore.That’s when I started telling my story and surprisingly it was not hard.When I forgave my father things started to get easy on me.God prepared me for the GREAT!I may not have the best childhood but He gave me greater things in Life!!!
Praying for you...this is a beautiful miracle, your life.
It must have taken so much courage to forgive your father. Praying for you. You are an inspiration and a blessing to others who are going through something dark and still could not come out.
i hope you're in a better place now
God bless you.. Praying for you..
U are loved❤️🙏
Thank God you choose to forgive and have joy in your heart now. You are free in the bondage of evil thought in Jesus name.Amen
"Bitterness makes us ugly on the inside, and then it translates to the outside."
-Joy Mendoza
Hebrews 12:25
Matthew 12:34
You brood of vipers! How can you speak good things, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks
Ms Joy went to a very rough experience in her life, there is no reason for me to complain. Thank you for sharing her story.
Basta ako Ito ang pinaka paborito ko sa lahat ng na interview ni Toni. Ilang beses ko inulit ulit Ito.
Mrs.Toni Gonzaga-Soriano doesn't need big stars to get views, she cares about the lesson content of the video, that makes people cry and get inspire.
Amen. 🙏
Her vlog set the bar high. One would seek to watch for foundational inspiration.
I’m also a victim of rape when I was a kid. I grew up thinking my life will be falling apart and became miserable. I was diagnosed having an HIV when I was just turning 21 years old. I had steven johnson syndrome after taking my treatment. I thought that was the end of my life. Life is a life long journey until such time I found Jesus in my life who saved me from these all brokenness. God who forgives and provides me grace to accept the fact that I am also a sinner. God allows me to experience all these things to see how faithful He is over my life. I have surrendered my life to Jesus and now continue serving His purpose - to glorify Him, to worship Him and to tell the world how faithful He is as always. 🌻
are u a guy?
I have read her book years ago. It's amazing how strong she was, how strong she is. I cried my eyes out. Her faith is really inspiring.
she's so strong while watching this I just couldn't finish it coz it made me scared of how people could do such things to this lovely person!
I'm also in the process of healing right now. My father was assaulted by our neighbors using a gun in front of me and my PWD mom. I'm so broken and in pain and we are really longing for justice. To think that our case was dismiss by the fiscal office and that made me more broken. I even questioned God's justice. But this story lift my spirit up, "God's justice is wider than our justice's system." I choose to trust you now Lord. You are in control. We will see your goodness in the land of the living.
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He is JUST . And he will surely give you justice. God bless you 🙏
I pray for your healing and total freedom from the past. There is real joy in God's presence. God has a better plan in your life.
I will pray that you find your peace. 💖
May God fill your heart and mind with His peace and hope. You are seen, heard and valued. God is near you.
"They can touch my body, they can do all these things to my body, but they cannot touch my soul because that is belong to God." 🥺🥺❤️❤️
Goosebumps! 🤘🏻🧡💥
Yes God said it so for Job!!!!
What the Bible says about our body?
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 - “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” ... Genesis 1:26-27 - “Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. (The rapists disrespected her body and other women's bodies. Therefore, they disrespected God and broke the law. They should have gotten the death penalty. It is FINE TO FORGIVE but it is NOT fine to let rapists go so they can rape again and again. )
I respect this strong woman even more! Such a brave & good heart!
the healing interview when in silence.i admired how the parents mold her to be a God fearing one for choosing joy and forgiveness afterall.❤️
"If you learn to forgive, you'll slowly recover"
"If you want to be happy, you have to learn to forgive" - Toni G
If you learn to forgive you'll slowly recover ,if you want to be happy you have to learn to forgive
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My sister who have an intellectual disability got raped also. And you know what is more painful, the rapist is my best friend's father. I cannot forget the pain, the guilt I felt when I think na wala ako sa tabi niya. I really blamed myself for that. What more painful is that she couldn't express her own emotions, her own pain. How can a human do such thing? I was crying in watching this whole video, I salute you Ma'am Joy for being strong and share your story with us. Someday justice will prevail. God is always have the best plans for us, trust him. Have faith in him. Right now I can't offer that forgiveness but somehow someday, i can.
May the Lord heal your heart ♥️🙏
I feel your pain Kristha! We are praying with you as you seek to trust the Lord who is sovereign and who causes ALL things for good Romans 8:28. That same God who loves you and your sister.
haha wawa naman iyak
@@paulalenarabang-chavez8773 another stupid bible qoute
@@shichilaofa To each their own. I understand that you have different beliefs. But the way you show your disagreement speaks volume of your character. If you don't believe in God, at least be kind. It's not a hard thing to do.
This is really a powerful message not only to women who went through a tragedy but to everyone who has bitterness in their hearts. It's true that when you keep it to yourself, you're already the one who's victimizing yourself the second time and this bitterness will show even in small situations. My name has a "Joy" on it but I never really feel like using it but seeing Joy and knowing her story makes me see that she is indeed a Joyful person.
Toni is really a good listener, you would always see that whenever she interviews someone, it feels like she's also literally seeing situation, empathy is there, she is rational and almost knows what her interviewee would say.
Glad I encountered this on my watch recommendations. I actually read a book about it a long time ago. I cried reading it. But I applaud her for being strong.
I think this is the most interesting episode of Toni Talks. Grabe. No words. Just respect. God is love.
True.
I used to work in one of Ms. Joy's family businesses. Her brother, Sir Peter, used to pray with us every single day. What an amazing relationship with the Lord they have that I definitely admire.
Ms. Joy’s past is so heartbreaking. I’m crying while she’s sharing.
Thank you God you brought me here to watch this wonderful testimony. I cried a lot 😭😭 Lord you showed me how faithful, good, and sovereign you are. Thank you for the realization about forgiveness Oh Lord. Lord from this day forward I forgive those people who hurt me emotionally, verbally and physically. I know I am not deserving to receive your goodness and your grace oh Lord but you choose me to give this gift. Thank you God. All praise to you Lord. 🙏🙏🙏
I admire her for being strong. I cried when she said, they can touch my body but they cannot touch my soul. I'm also a victim and it's my first time too. Like her I didn't filed a case I leave it to God and that man received his punishment after 8 months. I didn't prayed for it kc ayaw ko mag dasal ng masama like sana magdusa yung gumawa saken non. It's true when you forgive you find peace through God's mercy and grace. I'm glad Joy find her husband who respect her and accepted her past she is blessed to have him. Kc yung ibang lalaki nagagawa pa nilang ibalik yung trauma ng partner nilang babae.
..God bless you dear
Yep our soul is our treasure..It should be pure and full of love and forgiveness cos it consist of energy that is only connected to God..
I admire you for being strong too! Godbless You!😇
Because victims tend to go for abusers. Abusers are usually good with words and manipulation. If the abused women don’t have a relationship with the Lord like she does, they would end up getting victimized over and over again. That’s why everyone needs to have a deep relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ so they can heal from their past, move forward, and learn to discern the Godly people that they need in their lives. Only Jesus can help them know who the wrong people are. God bless you, sis!
God bless you. ❤️
I heared her stories several times, but it's only in this interview na bumuhos luha ko. What a powerful message for forgiveness! 'I don't want to block His blessings..." Thank you Lord for the assurance.
relate here 🥺🙏🙏
This is one of the most heartbreaking interviews I've ever watched so far. :'(
God loves you. You have such a forgiving heart. I can't even imagine how were you able to cope up with all the trauma. You are truly God's child.
Imagine she has to relive the moment over and over again when she gives testimonies.
All for the sake of enlightening people. That's very selfless.
Amen! And you can sense her healing from God! That was so amazing!
True,, then Its God's story in her life
Indeed. I heard she's a excellent counselor to women who experienced trauma.
Read her story years ago when i was just a teenager..ngayon 30, Grabi parin iyak ko whenever i hear her story..sobrang lakas niya talaga..😭 i admire her! In my eyes, She's the epitome of a Godly woman.
and to think she has bashers saying she's lying or just doing this for attention and some women commented she should have kept this as a secret. Grabi noh? How these bashers are inline with those rapists. Kaya triggered ako kapag may nagbabash kay Mrs.Joy...
True... I can't imagine how hard it is for her but she's very strong. God really made her strong. 💕
I cried so hard in this video sobra. This is the best episode of Toni Talks for me. Akala ko noon pinapahirapan lang ako ni Lord when all those bad things happened to me, like when i lost my babies(twin) due to miscarriage and when i went through a big family problem. I was so angry and napuno ng sakit at galit ang puso ko na di ko magawang magpatawad. Hearing those things about "Forgiveness and Peace" from Joy Mendoza i felt God in my heart and this is a reminder for me that everything that i am going through right now has a good purpose. I learned that Forgiveness is a choice and also a gift for myself, to break free from being inprison of anger. Ito siguro kasagutan sa hinihiling ko na peace of mind from the Lord.
Praises be to God. May the Lord continue to use Toni and Joy as an instrument to bless others like me. ❤🙏
Praise God 🙏 All things work together for good to them that love God. 🤍
Hello, Ms. Jennylynn! I am Josh from Toni Gonzaga Studio (TGS). We would like to know more about your story, let me know how can we reach you. Thank you!
Akala ko ang strong ko na... Pero nung napanood ko to Grabe!! How good is our God for giving that Grace To Ms.Joy Even if wasnt me,I want to thank God For Giving That Grace to Joy, The Strength The Wisdom The Forgiving Heart. Mejo Nahiya ako Kay Lord, Forgive me Lord. Minsan Cocomplain pa ako. Pero Through This Video. You reminded me Who You really Are. And Di Mo Po Ibibigay ang mga pagsubok Kung alam mong Hindi Kaya. I praise You Daddy Lord. And Im Amazed by You Ms. Joy. Godbless❤️
Ms Joy never fails me to be amazed by her strength everytime she shares her story. You are incredibly strong woman.
"Not all men are like that, just the lost ones" - Ms. Joy
Glimpse of hope for humanity 😇
Very humble po. 😊
May pag-asa po. 🙏
Tumutulo luha ko while watching,i heard this story from pastor Peter,ngayon sayo na po ma'am Joy,napakatapang mo, FORGIVENESS talaga,iba pag may malalim na relasyon kay Lord😢
It’s not easy to forget those tragedy.cu’z we are only a human.but when I heard this woman’s sad experience,I remember she said ,fr. Romans 8-28she really believe in Him praise God✋salute U ma’am✌️
as a rape victim forgiveness is so hard to give to those people who make your life miserable and losing the will to live because of the trauma for how many years of suffering ngayon ko lang nalaman kung paano talaga mag patawad thank you for reminding that we need to forgive not because they deserve that but because I deserved to have peace in mind,in my life🤧 Thank you dito i was blinded by my anger for so many years that i didn't think of forgiving but now i am sooooo thankful for this😭 Thank youuu
God bless you 💕
God bless you, Meicha ❤️
God bless 😇
Hello sis! I pray that may God bless your heart with forgiveness, peace and also healing. You are not alone, it may be very hard, you will get through this in God's perfect time. ❤❤
Same po, it's so hard to give forgiveness
Never heard about her and her story until this interview. What a brave woman.
I recommend you should read her book , 'When a good God allows Rape'
She shared her story in Tanikala, 700 Club Asia noong 2013.
Napanood ko sa ccf ang testimony niya, tatay niya si pastor peter tan.
same I've known her thru tanikala.
Same😔 grabe pinagdaanan nya nang mga friends at family nya😢💔💔💔
Audio terrible caption help shared her testimony, Wow ! It goes beyond human understanding, she had Gods Word & His strength in a terrible situation … so supernatural strength & power 💥💥💥✨✨✨
Bad audio Toni. Please to the production team of Toni, kindly double check sound quality, the audio man and camera man. This is a very important story. It's hard to hear with earphones 🎧. Great sharing this story of her to all of us. My heart goes to you Ms. Joy Tan Chi Mendoza... God bless you more 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
"When you bring things to light, it loses its power." - Joy Mendoza
Such a powerful statement
caught this too.. such powerful words from once a wounded person. cried a lot when she uttered these words. and it's really true, what we feel and experience inside, translates outside.
After hearing her story, I feel so ashamed of myself. There are some people who hurted just my ego and Im so angry at them but here is a woman who experienced the most painful and yet finds it in her heart to forgive.
True
Same...
Dont be ashamed sister. We have different emotions thats why you're mad to those people who hurt your feelings. It was still painful. This testimony is teaching us that if she can forgive in that hard situation, we can too. You'll be fine soon. If its still not the right time, just remember that God is with us and we will be better ❤️. Sending hugs to all of us.
You don't have to be ashame kasi every people have different coping mechanism
Exactly 💯😢😢😢
This was uploaded 2 years ago and I just saw it now. Tears fell from my eyes... not because same thing happened to me but because God is teaching me something in regards with forgiveness.
That's why the Philippines is a very dangerous county, because of forgiveness.
Hindi ko pa napapanood naiiyak na ko kasi si Ms. Joy yung guest sa Toni Talks!! Ms. Joy, you have no idea how God directed me to your book When A Good God Allows Rape which helped me so much of my recovery and forgiveness. It always reminds me so much of His Grace in the midst of everything. Your testimony is truly a blessing to others.
Proud of you for being brave too! Godbless😇
@@gelinepal3748 thank you!!! This means a lot 🥺
Sa mga di padin malinaw ang audio, please don’t stop trying ‘coz this is really worth it to watch. 🙏🏼
@Mareil's True 🙂just incase po sa mga di malinaw ang Audio try nyo gumamit ng headset/earphone mas malinaw po
Kahit malabo Ang audio people still watch it. Thank You God. The content is so good. Top 8 trending. Million viewers in just 11 hrs
Ok namn yung audio. May problema ba?
A friend of mine told me to watch this. I’m glad she did. Joy’s faith in God is so inspiring. I learned so much from this. Thank you for this beautiful interview.
I wonder why they did not file a complaint. Those kind of monsters should not be roaming on the streets. They should be locked and rot in the prison.
She conquered all of her fears by surrendering it to God. And now, this brave and strong woman is a living testimony to everyone.
When she says "I think a beauty of that moment..." She still sees beauty in every worst situation and that's because of God 🥺💙
Trueeeee!!! Napahinto din ako dun, kasi minsan nahihirapan akong makita ang beauty sa isang worst situation
Just like Joseph’s story in the bible.. God made good out of the bad circumstances..
This is so inspiring! Isn't it?
Wow. This was the most humbling episode of Toni Talks so far. Two wonderful women with beautiful characters in one frame. I will forever remember this interview. This has so many life lessons. Thank you Ms. Toni and Ms. Joy for blessing us with your truth. Continue to have faith in the Lord, Everyone!
This is a testimony that God is really great. The way she talks reminds me of God again. I know most of us have our own story and sometimes we forget that we have God. This is an emotional reminder that He is always there. Thank you so much Joy and Celestine for reminding us and making us feel the greatest love again.
Heavenly father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe, healthy and financially blessed Amen
amen..and glory to God
i claim it... amen🙏🏻
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Amen
Normally, on cases like this, people focus on sharing how they moved on, how it affected them and how their life was ruined after it. But, this episode is so so different. From the start to the end it was very clear that she wanted to teach us how to forgive and acknowledge God in every aspect of your life.
Thank you for this wonderful episode! ❤❤❤
But mine i couldn't move on. Attempted rape😢😢
@@jetlag0971 i hope you find the courage and peace in God so you'll finalllyyyy be set free. 💚 My prayers.
I had the same experience like yours. 😊 God bless dear.
I cried so hard. I've been keeping my emotions to myself and this helps it to be released once and for all. Thank you very much for this inspirational talk. I might cry for a while, but this gave me an idea on how to finally move forward and live my life. 😊
i hope our generation will raise good children,ifyou cant do that then dont bear a child,because the one youre, bearing if you cant raise it well can be an abuser,imagine raising a rapist,the dirtiest kind of person in the world. i still cant believe that there are people who rape and abuse other people,let alone kids and teens. they're pure evil
Agree! Also, trollish nonentities are here and under other videos with Mrs Mendoza as the subject. Guess it shouldn’t surprise us, as this world abounds in self-loathing moochers projecting on others. For those planning to be parents, if you can’t and won’t teach your future children compassion and respect for others, especially abuse victims, then DON’T procreate. PLEASE.
"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. " - LB Smedes
Having a soft heart in this cruel world is strength, not weakness
TRUE.
Yeah
naiyak ako lalo sa comment mo 😭
Having a soft heart means you’ve given God a chance for Him to have a place in your heart.
True 😇
I admire your courage Joy to tell your story and the strength you have to move forward and forgive which is so difficult to do thank you for sharing. Goodness and compassion always prevail over evil. God Bless you and your entire family. ❤
How could people do such terrible things. :( I hope you will be fully heal maam Joy. Nakakaiiyak po
“God is bigger than the justice system” That is so true.
Yesss indeed tinood gud kaau 😭😭💔
I attend the CCF church and Ms. Joy Mendoza’s testimony never fails to make me cry. Grabe talaga tong testimony na to. 😭❤️
Kelangan po ba member k ng CCF para mkaattend k?
@@lady-jn9xr no memberships or anything po. ☺️ you can just walk in. Though right now po since pandemic, all the worship services of ccf are done online. Live po every Sunday! Hope this helps ☺️
It was the part when she was talking about her husband, how he's so dear to her, that made me cry. I love this episode. We love you Ms. Joy 🤎
I was holdaped way back 2019 the men has a big knife pointing it to my neck and held me like i thought m gonna die that day inside the clinic where my job is located, and i just prayed and pleaded him not to kill me because my child was too young shes just 2yrs old that time, but after that happened i thank god he did not kill me😇 i always trust god wherever i am i always believe in him.that's why i always forgive better than revenge i feel safe & calm because i know i have him by my side always🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you lord for always guiding and embracing me, i will be yours forever🙏🙏🙏
*TONI GONZAGA* is the only celebrity who have a good content that you can apply in your life
Indeed..
Yes!!!
true💯
Super true.
Ms. Joy Mendoza is the owner of Homeschool Global Roces where my son is enrolled, she is really full of wisdom and I really like listening to her. It never shows to her that she went thru something horrible. God bless you Ms. Joy. May God always bless you and your family. 💖
She’s (Joy) an amazing woman. I was touched by all her words. Thank you also Toni for bringing amazing life stories and wisdom to inspire people. It makes life more meaningful.
Joy have so much faith and courage that she was able to talk about what happened to her. Inspiring story and deeply touching
She and her husband have always been invited in our company’s events and they’ve always been the best speakers I’ve ever listened to. Very inspiring.
I could relate to Joy's older brother who cried because he couldn't protect his younger sister. My younger brother was robbed & stabbed and I wasn't there to protect him like I always did ever since he was young. He would always call me, magsusumbong pag may nangaaway sa kanya or nambbully sa kanya. Doesn't matter kung mas malaki sakin or lalake ung nang api sa kapatid ko, aawayin ko talaga. Hindi ako titigil hangga't di ako makaganti kahit papano for my brother. So when he died, I was so affected. Sama talaga ng loob ko. At one point I even blamed myself. I also blamed my parents for sending him to that school where he went to sabi ko sa kanila delikado dun pero walang choice kase wala kaming pera that time eh. My brother got a scholarship there eh. Pero praise God for his goodness & faithfulness. All things work together for good talaga. He healed our family after the tragedies that happened to us. Praise God parin!
Beautiful testimony by Joy, only our Lord God almighty Jesus Christ can make this happen, Hallelujah, All glory and praises to our Loving God Lord Jesus Christ
this video gives so much emotions to me. i was a victim as well and a child from two people who didnt love each other. i was never love from the start. i grew up with my mom who is with her live-in partner. and it was her partner who did things to me when i was 10 years old. i told my mom what happened and she said its all my fault. that evertime it happens its always my fault. as a young child i believe her. i didnt tell anyone because i was ashame of my self. cause i thought its my fault. i tried to protect myself with whatever i could think will help as a child. but i didnt know anything back then. it continues for years till i reach an age where i can finally understand everything. i was so mad on everything. i blamed everyone for not helping the younger me who suffers everyday. the young me who felt powerless and hopeless. i was full of anger i almost ruin my entire life. i tried to kill my self. i tried to kill them. i almost quit school. i was so messed up. i cried for justice to the young me who didnt have anyone back then.
'dont let yourself be victim twice'. its true. some people will never apologize. and it will only be harder on you if you dont let go. you forgive them not for their sake but for your own peace. to set yourself free from the darkpast. God knows everything. Only God can give the true justice.
I admire Toni for using her popularity for sharing people's stories about how good God works in our lives.
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